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Hi... I'm a 17 year old girl, very insecure and dealing with depression. Today is my birthday, and I'm still in bed, not wanting to leave my room. At least, that's how I felt before this video. After listening to you, I've found myself a little motivation to try and have a nice day. Thank you so much 💫❤️
I have become less dependent, am more happier, am not lonely even when am alone, am always craving to see myself become better... I love myself so much ❤ love you 💘
Self love has made me aware that i have to take care of myself first before others . As i was raised to no think selfishly , i should care about other people feelings but the older i grow , i realised that i need my own happiness . Self love has teach me to calm down and relax my mind to take things one step at a time as this world is not a competiton . I used to envy others who are smarter than me but i feel like who cares ? Its my life i have my own way . Thanks for the advise luv 💕💕💕
Self-love has motivated me to meditate, to eat healthier, to work out, to sleep, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, not beat myself up for a missed assignment, for a food cheat day, or for a missed day in my self-care schedule. It helps me feel content, no matter the how great or okay my day is.
This video is encouraging and inspirational and something probably most of us need to hear!! Forgiveness is SO important because harboring un-forgiveness gives you internal stress and turmoil and is so bad for your health! I personally know it can be very hard to not care what other people think or say, but honestly some people don't have your best interest in mind or maybe they're just having a bad day ... and the best thing to do is really for us just let it go, don't take it personally, if it applies and can help you improve that's great, but it is not possible to make everyone happy and we will drive ourselves crazy if we try to. Thank you for sharing!!
you're free to step into your greatness , you're free to be fabulous , you're free to be a light in the world , you're free to be YOURSELF .. these are the best lines i've listened to lately .. and ma sad mood for two years has brightened up from this moment to have a new better self love journey .. thank you aileen .. thank you so much
Heyy thats good to hear i hope yoou are okay and your sad mood will eventually go away and happiness will enter your life, please always be happyyy and strongg take care!
I think after watching this, i realised how much I have improved. I used to despise myself and not think that i was ever gonna be good enough, but I changed my mindset and took my life into control. I learned a lot from the past two year, researched a lot about self-love, productivity, being better really. But in the end I did not see that i actually was getting better everyday. And now this made me cry because I have... Succeeded? Does that make sense? 😂 I'm glad to know that all the hardships, the process was worth it.So thank you Aileen ☺ Self love taught me that I am enough and that I honestly just live for myself, not what everybody else say. Still gonna work on it, but you know, feels good now 😂 So again thank you 😆 Go Aileen Go! (May i mention that lipstick? It looks AMAZING on you 👍🏾 )Have an awesome day!~May.
Wow that’s amazing!! Yeah sometimes we don’t even notice our transformation until we stop and reflect. It was after meeting with a friend and explaining self love to them that I realized how much I’ve grown over the years! That inspired me to make this video 😊✨
This is so true. When I was in my teens, I don't love myself and I just keep thinking I wasn't good at anything and so I ended up with high expectations on myself that doesn't help. I'm always unhappy and wondering what to do with my life. Right now as an adult, I've learned to start from self-awareness to self-understanding to self-love. This is actually so important. It will boost ur confidence once u know what u want and what u can do and believe it. Believe in yourself. It'll make u succeed bit by bit and that's what makes life meaningful than u ever thought. 💕 As with anything, start from yourself because u can control what u wanna be. 😊
I'm 16 years old, and all this time i have lack of confidence and always comparing myself to everyone that cooler than me, like you, i just put a high expetation on myself, i feel i cant do anything right.... May u give me some advice?
The power of gratefulness has created the ability of self love for me. When I started looking for beauty in life and for small things to be grateful for suddenly those things began to show themselves to me in abundance! Then self love started growing in me.
Wow - Thank you SO MUCH for the love on this video! If you want more videos on HOW to love yourself & improve your self care, you can start here: → How to Love Yourself | bit.ly/2i2myPD → Self Care Date & Reset Routine | bit.ly/2i2xbls → You Are Enough: Self Worth & Comparison Traps | bit.ly/2i3OItO FAQ - my lip color is Makeup Geek Creme Stain in Flamenco | bit.ly/2gEJiVv I really appreciate your self love stories; it's soo wonderful to hear about your growth! 💓
Self love made me see than I’m so much more than I thought. I was wasting so much time by caring what the others could think about me than loving me and being myself. Basically, I was just judging me for doing something. Lesson learned, your judment about yourself does more damage on you than others judgment.
I am struggling with self love. I have had an E.D, battle with Depression and have many issues dealing with social situations and my health. I do my best to practice meditation daily, and to continue trying to develop a "dream." I'm a *professional* mermaid, and work with many great people... so being my very best for them is what keeps me going. I know that I have to try to love myself more so that I can set a good example for those that I interact with daily. Self-love is work... and it isn't easy... but it is necessary! 💜
Oh, self-love has saved my life! I went from standing in the mirror and hating every inch of my body, hurting myself, laying around depressed with feelings of unworthiness to a completely different person to the point where people ask me if I'm happy all the time. Self-love allowed me to see I am deserving of happiness. It allowed me to slowly peel back the layers of what a unique and amazing human being I am. I learned I am deserving of love and that I love myself no matter what. xoxo thank you lavendaire, great content
Great video! Self love has helped so much with getting over my depression and also I am so much happy with me, my body, even with my art! Because I understand now that I can make mistakes but I'm learning and eventually I'll get where I want to be ✨And more importantly, made my relationship with my boyfriend so much better ❤️
well, i have started the journey of self love after i discovered your channel; i can say with out any hold back that you make me see life as if it is a positive, light and colorful thing all of a sudden when i believed it was a grave , and i am soooo thankful for that. i have started my morning pages , exercising, going out for a walk, reading and a new job ...... after almost 2 years of being stressed and depressed. so i am doing most of the things you talk about in these video. you have changed my life for the better ...... thank you sooo much much love and respect xoxo
My biggest Inspiration ever ❤️ Aileenn you are amazing and i have found so much growth in my self after joining you over here ❤️❤️❤️ I started meditation , morning pages and it feels so good that i don’t find any good words either to praise you or thank you ❤️ I love you so much .
Hey by morning pages I meant that when I woke up, the first thing I do is grab a pen and my notebook and i write down all the things i want to do , like my goals, things i m going to do for the rest of the day, or all the good things that i have learned and things i will learn.In short i just let my mind flow and get it free from all the things going on in my mind.After this believe me i feel so relaxed ,calm and fresh for the day. I Hope you got me.
Self love has changed my life is every way you have described in your video. I feel more alive. I care less about what others think. I focus on my needs and boundaries first. I have become more selfless. More compassionate towards myself. It's always a process, of course, but I've come so far and I'm grateful for that!
Thank you for another great video Aileen. Self love Change my life in a way that my perspective about myself changed. I used to look at myself as being a visually impaired who is bound by the limitations set by the society about us persons with disability. Now I gain self confidence and I am now an advocate of inclusive education. Self love made me accept who I really am and use my strength to empower myself and others.
Dear Lavandaire. My name is Fernanda. I am the 68 year old lady who wrote to you before. Every day you amaze me. I have to learn consistency. I have done so many course on self development but I lack consistency. I so admire you.
Just wanted to say since I started watching your videos I feel way more positive and I realised that my life is not looking the best that it could look. So, I have started changing to be a more responsible, productive and nicer person so thank you so much because you inspired me.
Honestly I thought self love is like being selfish but then after watching your video, it mean to stop doubting yourself because I have been very hard on myself lately until I had this chat with my cousin the other day, it was about showing good energy and a good attitude so that was self love would have meant to me
Im just 17 , im suffering so bad , i cry all the time , now im so tried of being sad all the time i started browsing stuff like this . Thank you so much , im feeling so much better ❤
I have been on my journey of self love since 2016 and I have fallen back into my old fears and beliefs since November 2019. Today this video has reminded me of all the new beliefs I had created for myself. I realized how far off my progressive path I've fallen. Thank you for this new found courage. I am a new fan! My astrology chart also reads to the bottom and the right. I feel like you are a soul who looks at life like I do, or did, before I went back to fear. But no longer, I am going to get back to healing myself. Thank you again 💞
11 ways self love will change your life: 1. Health 2. Relationships 3. Confidence 4. Style & Swag 5. Friends & Family 6. Happiness 7. Drive and motivation 8. Less f*cks given 9. Easier failures 10. Less insecurities, more humility 11. Freedom Thank you for making this video, love it! :)
For practical self care tips, I made a list of 10 ways to feel like new when you're down or unmotivated! Self-Care: How to Feel Refreshed & Amazing 🌝 | bit.ly/2LUHKcf
I am learning how much happier I am when I give myself unconditional love! The simple things get me so happy! Writing a love letter to myself, doing self love yoga or meditation, taking a bath! I love BEING MYSELF AND ITS THE BEST FEELING💗
Truly empowering and inspiring. I tried practicing gratitude by writing gratitude notes on my journal and it truly made a difference in my life. Thank u for sharing tips on self love!
Lavendaire where is the bell??? I agree with you on self love it does make a difference in our lives I’m still growing I tell my children to love them selfs thank you I love your new color of hair it looks great
This video really came right in time.. I faced a lot of failures lately, which totally went off my and others’ expectations on me. I’ve been losing my self confidence and sometimes I think to myself “You don’t deserve to be loved even by yourself”. This, totally, lifts me up. I love me, and I love you!!
Aileen, thank you so much for another beautiful vid to start my day. Deep thanks for reminding me that self love is mandatory for a well lived life, especially when one easily forgets and judges oneself on auto pilot. Everything starts with an intention. You are such a lovely inspiration! Thank you.~ Karen.❤️
You are litterally my example in my lifetime .cuz once i listen to you , i feel like im trying to forgive myself , get deepet into my self and more than that, loving myself much more than before .so i litterally purple you thank you so much. Self love journey has helped me to accept who iam and to be proud of of me no matter what without comparin myself to others .self love has also taught me to seek strongly to improve myself a lot .it also taughts me to go easy on me rather than making self judgments or beating myself up.
Poetically Serine your right about , when you're in solitude , you will attract serenity , contentment and clarity, which's espectacular ....... i wish you well for the rest of your life .... I'll see you in heaven
I've discovered your videos, and reality actually hit me again to where I need to remind myself to love myself again. I've been going through a tough time in my relationship, because it has put me in a situation where I don't know if I should stay or leave, and listening and watching your videos has made me felt a lot better. Thank you so much!
I love myself for writing. There was a time when I couldn't write anything because I thought it was strange, but thanks to repeating what I wanted to say and answering in my heart, I can see you now. I love you!
Self-love has changed my LIFE. I used to hate myself but then I've realized that Self Love is something which is so important. I went through a phase of hating myself to loving myself and being confident :) I can not preach more about it! If you're happy within yourself nothing else matters...
this video made me realize I already love myself. it's just weird because I haven't been actively working on loving myself like I used to two years ago. it just kinda naturally happened . I love myself and I love your channel!
I'm an English teacher in Brazil and a student of mine who is going through a hard time in her personal life asked me for suggestions on how to practice her listening skills. I told her to watch your videos knowing that she would be not only practicing the language but also absorbing high quality content that would help her go through said hard times. It's been two weeks and she has improved SO MUCH on dealing with difficulties and believing in herself. I'm happy to be a teacher with whom the students feel comfortable to talk to about their issues, and happy to be able to use your content to help them considering that it has personally helped me in the past. Thank you for everything you so kindly share with us and for helping me make a difference in someone's life through it. Keep doing your thing! ♡
okay but this video made me so happy because I relate to this video so much! i can definitely say that this year (2018) has been the worst year for me, but i’ve grown from those experiences and I’m greatful that i was strong enough to get through them and that i even had them in the first place. from those bad experiences i’ve grown so much in the area of self love.💓
I love hearing other people talk and think about self-love. I feel like everything stems from my emotional well-being. I’m working on achieving things in my life and sometimes fear has held me back. I’ve also seen people on TikTok saying they want to see more content on self-love because there’s so much negativity online that seeing positivity is really helpful ❤️ I love how you brought in style as well, because using style to express your personality is literally the most important thing to me! It’s incredibly important! And I think you do need confidence to be able to do that! ☺️❤️
i dont know if u will read this but still ....dude u r amaaaaaazing ......i just realised what i have been missing in my life...it was self love , thank u so much for making this video...really grateful for this video
I really needed this video! lately I’ve been questioning myself (my actions and the position that I am) and thinking that maybe I’m not as great or valuable as I think I am or maybe I’m doing something wrong and that everything I do is just a mistake and stuff like that. After watching this video I remembered how happy I am when I make decisions that will be beneficial for me and that will make me more happy with my body and my mental state, HOW GREAT IT IS TO NOT GIVE ANY F*CKS! and see yourself growing from that. I remembered that I am important and my happiness and health matters and even if it seems wrong to some people, as long as I am not causing any harm to anybody, I can do it! And I’ll be happy with the decisions that I make and things that I change in my life!
First off I’m so grateful that you posted this because I was exactly struggling with self love this week. Recently I would skip up, be upset with myself, tell myself to try harder, and then do worse. And the cycle just continued. It got to the point where I’d get nothing done, even though the work was so important to me. I was so burnt out and discouraged I couldn’t start. I would snap at people because I assumed they were as perpetually upset with me as I was with myself. And I was the most stressed and confused I’d ever been in my life. But I didn’t realize until yesterday what was really at play and exactly how essential this concept is to living a good life. I’m constantly putting myself down and discouraging myself. It makes me less productive and I end up stressing a lot more. The more I FELT like a failure, the more I acted in accordance with that. Then I realized the only thing holding me back is myself and my lack of belief in myself. Others believed in me but I truly did not believe in myself. I felt like my best efforts weren’t good enough. And that made me perform worse. But then I finally told myself, “it’s okay! We’ll try again!” and that was such a revelation for me. I learned that if I love and forgive myself, like others do to me, and never give up on myself, that I’m more empowered to move forward. When I love myself first I feel confident and encouraged. I believe that I can, and act accordingly. It’s all in your mind and in your perspective. Now I see what others saw in me In fact I see more. Rather than condemn myself, I give myself grace and kindness. And I recognize all the good that I a actually do and how much I’ve accomplished. I realized my life is actually VERY good and I’m capable of so much. I go into tasks without stress or fear now and I’m culminating into my best self. I’m more grateful and more happy. Exuberant actually. Nothing external has changed. But that internal change has lit a fire in me. And now nothing can stop me 🙌🏾 PS: please keep doing what you are doing. Your videos help to change lives.
Here are some good ones on cultivating self-love: Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It - Kamal Ravikant The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem - Nathaniel Branden Psycho-Cybernetics - Maxwell Maltz Letting Go - David Hawkins I've listed them in order of complexity and digestibility 😁 hope it helps!
I guess I don't fully love myself because I'm always insecure about what others say.. but I know deep down I've tried my best.. Maybe I really should stop being so hard on myself and not care about what people say
Self love taught me to set healthy boundaries for myself with friends & families I used to always say yes to them if they wanted to hang out or needed a favor but I learned to say no for myself now & give the time I gave to them back to myself, self love taught me I deserve time to myself too 🙂
I remember time when I was depressed about my school, relationship and family. And so, I didn't care about my body and mind. I could stay all night long doing homework or cry my eyes because arguments with my parents. Then I realized that I was treated myself badly. I started analyzing my actions and thoughts, managing my time so that I could have more sleep and free time. I started taking care of my hair and skin. So my life became much better, I feel more confident and happier now. Analyzing yourself is a really important skill, believe me.
Great Content Thank You Aileen Eat well, sleep well, exercise Relationships. Love yourself regardless. Hold head up. Set boundaries. Drive. Bel Dun worry what others think Forgiveness Freedom
I've been trying to gain self love and self-worth since I was a kid. I had an abusive childhood. And not very good encouraging parents. Stuck in a job that I hate. And I feel like I'm going nowhere. I keep trying to love myself and be my best friend. But I'm My Own Worst Enemy. I keep trying to work out and do positive affirmations. But I've been doing it for so long and I still hardly love myself. I just don't know how. I'm tired of letting people's words tear me apart... I'm tired of bullies. I'm tired of not being able to love myself. When all I want to do is that. I just have no idea what to do, when life has been nothing but constant stress and let Downs. really love this video though.
LetsPanic sending you love. Don’t give up. You have the desire to love yourself, and with patience and care, you will get there. Start with journaling your thoughts (even the scary ones) but always end the session with a love letter to yourself!! Meditate daily on the idea of loving and protecting yourself. Catch your self talk when it becomes negative and turn it into positive and loving. Good luck!!
This makes so much sense now. It's been three decades and I have not understood these concepts before. #6 Happiness still doesn't make a ton of sense to me yet. I've always believed it was selfish and making a choice without considering EVERYone who was involved seemed like the opposite of love. But telling everyone else yes while telling myself no has not yielded me favorable results at all. That tells me something all on its own. My happiness has to matter to me but I was deathly afraid before to hurt the people I love. Thank you for this video.
It changed my entire life. I had a bad way of talking to myself and I made myself feel bad everyday for not beeing who I wanted to be. Then I got really sick and had to take time off from my job. I got depressed and hated my life. Then I decided that I will take care of myself. I will love myself no matter what cause me is all I got! I have now come a long way. I started my journey almost three years ago. I now have more days I love myself then I have days when I dont. But its coming along :)
Hi Aileen! Just wanted to share that self love made and is still making me have a deeper understanding and appreciation of myself and my existence. Continue inspiring and enlightening people with your videos! 😊💞
Wow. This was really AMAZING. Thank you for sharing this! My self love teacher me the most important thing: what I want from my partner in a relationship. I got out of a bad relationship because I knew I deserved better. And a year later, I have the greatest guy in my life. It is ABSOLUTELY true that once you know your worth, you attract people that treat you right and respect your worth. Thank you again!
Thanks for doing this so much! Self love = self compassion and you hit those points. Self-love has taught me to find security within my insecurities "It's okay" and acted as a motivation for me to be the better version of who I am
I was very insecure before, frequently comparing myself to others and feeling 'small' whenever around people especially with friends that high achiever. But 1.5 years ago, I found a wise post in path (social messenger) about 'people has their own time' where whatever takes us to success, we will get it in our own 'time' and 'timing' will play a significant role in a person life. Since then I believe that the biggest competitor in our life is not our colleagues, not our friends, not our sibling. Our biggest competitor is ourselves, how we can able to change ourself to be better, how we have to focus more with self development and how we can fight our fear and weaknesses. Now after 1.5 years, I found myself more happy and worry less. If that one post can change my life, this video certainly able to change many people's life.
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Hi... I'm a 17 year old girl, very insecure and dealing with depression. Today is my birthday, and I'm still in bed, not wanting to leave my room. At least, that's how I felt before this video. After listening to you, I've found myself a little motivation to try and have a nice day. Thank you so much 💫❤️
Hey i hope you are okaaayy stay stronggg beautifulll!! love you. im here if u need someone to talk to
Hope you're feeling better 🌷
nicky mint m 17 too
Hope u be fine !
nicky mint how are u doing now?
The thumbnail picture looks absolutely stunning, radiant, fabulous!
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Justine Leconte officiel 🤗 thanks Justine
Justine good to see you here
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Who else loved her red lip?! 😊
Alaina Nicole meeeeeeeeeeeee 😍 i love everything about her anyway 💖
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I hope you are feeling better dear ...stay strong and be happy ..life always opens her arms to you if you want and will ...you r gorgeous ..love u 😘
I have become less dependent, am more happier, am not lonely even when am alone, am always craving to see myself become better... I love myself so much ❤
love you 💘
Emma Mkoba yassss amazing ✨✨
Your channel is one of the best things that I have discover this year💖💖
Julia M 💕💕
Self love has made me aware that i have to take care of myself first before others . As i was raised to no think selfishly , i should care about other people feelings but the older i grow , i realised that i need my own happiness . Self love has teach me to calm down and relax my mind to take things one step at a time as this world is not a competiton . I used to envy others who are smarter than me but i feel like who cares ? Its my life i have my own way .
Thanks for the advise luv 💕💕💕
Nurul Fatihah when you love yourself first, then you can love others more unconditionally. So happy to hear this ✨
Self-love has motivated me to meditate, to eat healthier, to work out, to sleep, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, not beat myself up for a missed assignment, for a food cheat day, or for a missed day in my self-care schedule. It helps me feel content, no matter the how great or okay my day is.
1. Health (self-care)
2. Relationships
3. Confidence
4. Style & Swag
5. Friends & family
6. Happiness
7. Drive & motivation
8. Less f*ck giving
9. Easier failures
10. Less insecurity
11. Freedom
_ for one who need_
Enjoy video!♥️
This video is encouraging and inspirational and something probably most of us need to hear!! Forgiveness is SO important because harboring un-forgiveness gives you internal stress and turmoil and is so bad for your health! I personally know it can be very hard to not care what other people think or say, but honestly some people don't have your best interest in mind or maybe they're just having a bad day ... and the best thing to do is really for us just let it go, don't take it personally, if it applies and can help you improve that's great, but it is not possible to make everyone happy and we will drive ourselves crazy if we try to. Thank you for sharing!!
Style My Sweets yes! Agree with everything!
Style My Sweets, so true about harboring un-forgiveness.
Self love makes me step up for myself and take more risks and watch beautiful things bloom 🌺 in life
you're free to step into your greatness , you're free to be fabulous , you're free to be a light in the world , you're free to be YOURSELF .. these are the best lines i've listened to lately .. and ma sad mood for two years has brightened up from this moment to have a new better self love journey .. thank you aileen .. thank you so much
menna khattab ah thank you!! So happy this could help you ✨✨ NOW GO BE YOUR AMAZING SELF 💜
thank you so much
Heyy thats good to hear i hope yoou are okay and your sad mood will eventually go away and happiness will enter your life, please always be happyyy and strongg take care!
I think after watching this, i realised how much I have improved. I used to despise myself and not think that i was ever gonna be good enough, but I changed my mindset and took my life into control. I learned a lot from the past two year, researched a lot about self-love, productivity, being better really. But in the end I did not see that i actually was getting better everyday. And now this made me cry because I have... Succeeded? Does that make sense? 😂 I'm glad to know that all the hardships, the process was worth it.So thank you Aileen ☺ Self love taught me that I am enough and that I honestly just live for myself, not what everybody else say. Still gonna work on it, but you know, feels good now 😂 So again thank you 😆 Go Aileen Go! (May i mention that lipstick? It looks AMAZING on you 👍🏾 )Have an awesome day!~May.
Wow that’s amazing!! Yeah sometimes we don’t even notice our transformation until we stop and reflect. It was after meeting with a friend and explaining self love to them that I realized how much I’ve grown over the years! That inspired me to make this video 😊✨
AWW THIS IS SO NICE TO READ! IM PROUDOF YOU STAY STRONG AND KEEP FIGHTING YOURE ABEAUTIFUL SOUL! IMM SO GLAD YOUVE MADE IT
This is so true. When I was in my teens, I don't love myself and I just keep thinking I wasn't good at anything and so I ended up with high expectations on myself that doesn't help. I'm always unhappy and wondering what to do with my life. Right now as an adult, I've learned to start from self-awareness to self-understanding to self-love. This is actually so important. It will boost ur confidence once u know what u want and what u can do and believe it. Believe in yourself. It'll make u succeed bit by bit and that's what makes life meaningful than u ever thought. 💕 As with anything, start from yourself because u can control what u wanna be. 😊
Yuuka Shinohara yes!!! I’m so proud of you 💜💜
Yuuka Shinohara 👍$o tru💜
Loved to read ur comment💖😘
Lavendaire Thank U~!!😊💗 I love ur positive vibes as always. 💗 Let's all grow and be better version of ourselves.👍
are you okaaay? stay strong
I'm 16 years old, and all this time i have lack of confidence and always comparing myself to everyone that cooler than me, like you, i just put a high expetation on myself, i feel i cant do anything right.... May u give me some advice?
The power of gratefulness has created the ability of self love for me. When I started looking for beauty in life and for small things to be grateful for suddenly those things began to show themselves to me in abundance! Then self love started growing in me.
Leann M nice! I agree!
Yes LOVE and gratitude in life❤️
Wow - Thank you SO MUCH for the love on this video! If you want more videos on HOW to love yourself & improve your self care, you can start here:
→ How to Love Yourself | bit.ly/2i2myPD
→ Self Care Date & Reset Routine | bit.ly/2i2xbls
→ You Are Enough: Self Worth & Comparison Traps | bit.ly/2i3OItO
FAQ - my lip color is Makeup Geek Creme Stain in Flamenco | bit.ly/2gEJiVv
I really appreciate your self love stories; it's soo wonderful to hear about your growth! 💓
Thanks for improving me by this video!
Self love made me see than I’m so much more than I thought. I was wasting so much time by caring what the others could think about me than loving me and being myself. Basically, I was just judging me for doing something. Lesson learned, your judment about yourself does more damage on you than others judgment.
I am struggling with self love. I have had an E.D, battle with Depression and have many issues dealing with social situations and my health. I do my best to practice meditation daily, and to continue trying to develop a "dream." I'm a *professional* mermaid, and work with many great people... so being my very best for them is what keeps me going. I know that I have to try to love myself more so that I can set a good example for those that I interact with daily. Self-love is work... and it isn't easy... but it is necessary! 💜
Self love has helped me heal my inner child wounds and served as the crux of emotional growth and development.
Manal Khan 💕💕
I wish I could get so many people to watch this and take it to heart.... So absolutely true!
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Oh, self-love has saved my life! I went from standing in the mirror and hating every inch of my body, hurting myself, laying around depressed with feelings of unworthiness to a completely different person to the point where people ask me if I'm happy all the time. Self-love allowed me to see I am deserving of happiness. It allowed me to slowly peel back the layers of what a unique and amazing human being I am. I learned I am deserving of love and that I love myself no matter what. xoxo thank you lavendaire, great content
Great video! Self love has helped so much with getting over my depression and also I am so much happy with me, my body, even with my art! Because I understand now that I can make mistakes but I'm learning and eventually I'll get where I want to be ✨And more importantly, made my relationship with my boyfriend so much better ❤️
Melissa Ugalde beautiful 💓💓
Being more at peace with myself, having clarity, being confident to take bigger risks, taking the time out to grow myself
well, i have started the journey of self love after i discovered your channel; i can say with out any hold back that you make me see life as if it is a positive, light and colorful thing all of a sudden when i believed it was a grave , and i am soooo thankful for that. i have started my morning pages , exercising, going out for a walk, reading and a new job ...... after almost 2 years of being stressed and depressed. so i am doing most of the things you talk about in these video.
you have changed my life for the better ...... thank you sooo much
much love and respect
xoxo
linda Ethiopiawit wow that is so amazing!! I’m so proud of you!! 😍😍
i owe it all to you my dear
love how there is no music and no need for it because her words captivate tons.
My biggest Inspiration ever ❤️
Aileenn you are amazing
and i have found so much growth in my self after joining you over here ❤️❤️❤️
I started meditation , morning pages and it feels so good that i don’t find any good words either to praise you or thank you ❤️
I love you so much .
Saman Khaan love you so much! I’m so happy to hear that!!
❤️❤️❤️ live long
Saman Khaan darling wat do u mean by morning pages?
Hey
by morning pages I meant that when I woke up, the first thing I do is grab a pen and my notebook and i write down all the things i want to do , like my goals, things i m going to do for the rest of the day, or all the good things that i have learned and things i will learn.In short i just let my mind flow and get it free from all the things going on in my mind.After this believe me i feel so relaxed ,calm and fresh for the day. I Hope you got me.
Saman Khaan aah sounds amazing...il try to do the same. Thankss
Self love has changed my life is every way you have described in your video. I feel more alive. I care less about what others think. I focus on my needs and boundaries first. I have become more selfless. More compassionate towards myself. It's always a process, of course, but I've come so far and I'm grateful for that!
Sonia Primerano that is so amazing. Go you 💕💕💕
Yes! Thank you for the reminder of just how far I've come! Much love Aileen!
Thank you for another great video Aileen.
Self love Change my life in a way that my perspective about myself changed. I used to look at myself as being a visually impaired who is bound by the limitations set by the society about us persons with disability. Now I gain self confidence and I am now an advocate of inclusive education. Self love made me accept who I really am and use my strength to empower myself and others.
Beverly's Diary wow that is so beautiful. You are an inspiration, Beverly!!
Beverly's Diary I'm so jobilant for you... I wish you well in your journey ....
Dear Lavandaire. My name is Fernanda. I am the 68 year old lady who wrote to you before. Every day you amaze me. I have to learn consistency. I have done so many course on self development but I lack consistency. I so admire you.
I never thought about some of these ways self love can change your life- even more of a motivation to work on my own self love
Just wanted to say since I started watching your videos I feel way more positive and I realised that my life is not looking the best that it could look. So, I have started changing to be a more responsible, productive and nicer person so thank you so much because you inspired me.
Such a powerful and motivational video 💕
Honestly I thought self love is like being selfish but then after watching your video, it mean to stop doubting yourself because I have been very hard on myself lately until I had this chat with my cousin the other day, it was about showing good energy and a good attitude so that was self love would have meant to me
Thank you I needed this so much right now
Sweet2Rani that’s so beautiful. I’m so happy for you!!
aww thank you :) much love
I'm really connected with the word "when your humble and kind with your loved ones when they failed, why would you be so hard for yourself😊🤗"
Im just 17 , im suffering so bad , i cry all the time , now im so tried of being sad all the time i started browsing stuff like this . Thank you so much , im feeling so much better ❤
Self love helped me to be less scared of public speaking and it’s such a big step for me . Love your videos Aileen 🐝✨
Jin's Windshield wiper laugh nice! 💓💓
I have been on my journey of self love since 2016 and I have fallen back into my old fears and beliefs since November 2019. Today this video has reminded me of all the new beliefs I had created for myself. I realized how far off my progressive path I've fallen. Thank you for this new found courage. I am a new fan! My astrology chart also reads to the bottom and the right. I feel like you are a soul who looks at life like I do, or did, before I went back to fear. But no longer, I am going to get back to healing myself. Thank you again 💞
I loved the video . I think in today's world everybody need such kind of motivational video . thank you 😊
cristen william I agree! :-) Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen
11 ways self love will change your life:
1. Health
2. Relationships
3. Confidence
4. Style & Swag
5. Friends & Family
6. Happiness
7. Drive and motivation
8. Less f*cks given
9. Easier failures
10. Less insecurities, more humility
11. Freedom
Thank you for making this video, love it! :)
For practical self care tips, I made a list of 10 ways to feel like new when you're down or unmotivated!
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Lavendaire Thank you so much!! You are my mentor hahaha 💞💞
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Lavendaire...ur truly my inspiration...I love all ur videos...thank you for such inspiring and motivational videos 😊💖
I love u lavendaire
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I am learning how much happier I am when I give myself unconditional love! The simple things get me so happy! Writing a love letter to myself, doing self love yoga or meditation, taking a bath! I love BEING MYSELF AND ITS THE BEST FEELING💗
Truly empowering and inspiring. I tried practicing gratitude by writing gratitude notes on my journal and it truly made a difference in my life. Thank u for sharing tips on self love!
Mary Ven Cossid ✨✨
Lavendaire where is the bell??? I agree with you on self love it does make a difference in our lives I’m still growing I tell my children to love them selfs thank you I love your new color of hair it looks great
Self love n value has helped me getting rid of “low quality n high demands” relationships.
Literally speechless. You shine so much love thank you for this video💞
This video really came right in time.. I faced a lot of failures lately, which totally went off my and others’ expectations on me. I’ve been losing my self confidence and sometimes I think to myself “You don’t deserve to be loved even by yourself”. This, totally, lifts me up. I love me, and I love you!!
Bóng Bay Love you!
Aileen, thank you so much for another beautiful vid to start my day. Deep thanks for reminding me that self love is mandatory for a well lived life, especially when one easily forgets and judges oneself on auto pilot. Everything starts with an intention. You are such a lovely inspiration! Thank you.~ Karen.❤️
You are litterally my example in my lifetime .cuz once i listen to you , i feel like im trying to forgive myself , get deepet into my self and more than that, loving myself much more than before .so i litterally purple you thank you so much.
Self love journey has helped me to accept who iam and to be proud of of me no matter what without comparin myself to others .self love has also taught me to seek strongly to improve myself a lot .it also taughts me to go easy on me rather than making self judgments or beating myself up.
I was just thinking about this a day ago, literally! Thank you for this X
*Self Love is the ultimate teaching.*
Self-love is a state of balance and innerpeace that will eventually lead to success and healthy growth ! Beautiful Video Lavendaire ♡♡♡
Poetically Serine ✨✨
Poetically Serine your right about , when you're in solitude , you will attract serenity , contentment and clarity, which's espectacular ....... i wish you well for the rest of your life .... I'll see you in heaven
I've discovered your videos, and reality actually hit me again to where I need to remind myself to love myself again. I've been going through a tough time in my relationship, because it has put me in a situation where I don't know if I should stay or leave, and listening and watching your videos has made me felt a lot better. Thank you so much!
Thank you. I hope to be more confidence . I want to learn say no and love my self more. It very helpful, inspiration for me ☺️
AngieARTmanga 💕💕
Self-love has absolutely transformed my life into something so much more beautiful than it was before.
This was so inspiring Aileen, thank you. :) I've been working towards self-love for some time now; it is not an easy journey but is so important!
I love myself for writing. There was a time when I couldn't write anything because I thought it was strange, but thanks to repeating what I wanted to say and answering in my heart, I can see you now. I love you!
That lipstick shade looks amazing on you lavendaire!😚
Self-love has changed my LIFE. I used to hate myself but then I've realized that Self Love is something which is so important. I went through a phase of hating myself to loving myself and being confident :) I can not preach more about it! If you're happy within yourself nothing else matters...
God bless u #Aileen I am so greatful to u fr making this video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I really need it today💜💖👍
Thanks fr reminding it again✌💛
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this video made me realize I already love myself. it's just weird because I haven't been actively working on loving myself like I used to two years ago. it just kinda naturally happened . I love myself and I love your channel!
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omg u r really amazing person!! thank u so much !!
I'm an English teacher in Brazil and a student of mine who is going through a hard time in her personal life asked me for suggestions on how to practice her listening skills. I told her to watch your videos knowing that she would be not only practicing the language but also absorbing high quality content that would help her go through said hard times. It's been two weeks and she has improved SO MUCH on dealing with difficulties and believing in herself. I'm happy to be a teacher with whom the students feel comfortable to talk to about their issues, and happy to be able to use your content to help them considering that it has personally helped me in the past. Thank you for everything you so kindly share with us and for helping me make a difference in someone's life through it. Keep doing your thing! ♡
wow!! that's so amazing. thank you for sharing my videos. I'm so so happy it can help
always waiting for your videos
okay but this video made me so happy because I relate to this video so much! i can definitely say that this year (2018) has been the worst year for me, but i’ve grown from those experiences and I’m greatful that i was strong enough to get through them and that i even had them in the first place. from those bad experiences i’ve grown so much in the area of self love.💓
I'm in love with your channel! Happy new year! 😊
I love hearing other people talk and think about self-love. I feel like everything stems from my emotional well-being. I’m working on achieving things in my life and sometimes fear has held me back. I’ve also seen people on TikTok saying they want to see more content on self-love because there’s so much negativity online that seeing positivity is really helpful ❤️ I love how you brought in style as well, because using style to express your personality is literally the most important thing to me! It’s incredibly important! And I think you do need confidence to be able to do that! ☺️❤️
Hey Aileen, I was have one of those days today. Thank so much for this video xx
i dont know if u will read this but still ....dude u r amaaaaaazing ......i just realised what i have been missing in my life...it was self love , thank u so much for making this video...really grateful for this video
needed the message this morning. thanks
I really needed this video! lately I’ve been questioning myself (my actions and the position that I am) and thinking that maybe I’m not as great or valuable as I think I am or maybe I’m doing something wrong and that everything I do is just a mistake and stuff like that. After watching this video I remembered how happy I am when I make decisions that will be beneficial for me and that will make me more happy with my body and my mental state, HOW GREAT IT IS TO NOT GIVE ANY F*CKS! and see yourself growing from that. I remembered that I am important and my happiness and health matters and even if it seems wrong to some people, as long as I am not causing any harm to anybody, I can do it! And I’ll be happy with the decisions that I make and things that I change in my life!
yes you can!!
You inspire me on a daily basis. Keep making these videos. Much love. 🖤
First off I’m so grateful that you posted this because I was exactly struggling with self love this week. Recently I would skip up, be upset with myself, tell myself to try harder, and then do worse. And the cycle just continued. It got to the point where I’d get nothing done, even though the work was so important to me. I was so burnt out and discouraged I couldn’t start. I would snap at people because I assumed they were as perpetually upset with me as I was with myself. And I was the most stressed and confused I’d ever been in my life. But I didn’t realize until yesterday what was really at play and exactly how essential this concept is to living a good life. I’m constantly putting myself down and discouraging myself. It makes me less productive and I end up stressing a lot more. The more I FELT like a failure, the more I acted in accordance with that. Then I realized the only thing holding me back is myself and my lack of belief in myself. Others believed in me but I truly did not believe in myself. I felt like my best efforts weren’t good enough. And that made me perform worse. But then I finally told myself, “it’s okay! We’ll try again!” and that was such a revelation for me. I learned that if I love and forgive myself, like others do to me, and never give up on myself, that I’m more empowered to move forward. When I love myself first I feel confident and encouraged. I believe that I can, and act accordingly. It’s all in your mind and in your perspective. Now I see what others saw in me In fact I see more. Rather than condemn myself, I give myself grace and kindness. And I recognize all the good that I a actually do and how much I’ve accomplished. I realized my life is actually VERY good and I’m capable of so much. I go into tasks without stress or fear now and I’m culminating into my best self. I’m more grateful and more happy. Exuberant actually. Nothing external has changed. But that internal change has lit a fire in me. And now nothing can stop me 🙌🏾 PS: please keep doing what you are doing. Your videos help to change lives.
please recommned some books on self love ..great topic ❤
Bait Byoot بيت بيوت I want it too😄
Here are some good ones on cultivating self-love:
Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It - Kamal Ravikant
The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem - Nathaniel Branden
Psycho-Cybernetics - Maxwell Maltz
Letting Go - David Hawkins
I've listed them in order of complexity and digestibility 😁 hope it helps!
philosophia thanks 😄😄
Anytime! 😁 Best of luck. Sending you good ~vibes~🙌
Some of my favorites:
A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson | amzn.to/2ix2Pvj
A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle | amzn.to/2gDyib8
You've been my mentor this whole week. You're an angel. I love you
I guess I don't fully love myself because I'm always insecure about what others say.. but I know deep down I've tried my best.. Maybe I really should stop being so hard on myself and not care about what people say
Roselia it’s a journey 🙏🏼 sending you love & strength!
Self love taught me to set healthy boundaries for myself with friends & families I used to always say yes to them if they wanted to hang out or needed a favor but I learned to say no for myself now & give the time I gave to them back to myself, self love taught me I deserve time to myself too 🙂
Two things I learned from u and it really changed my whole life 💜
▪Gratitude✨
▪self lo√e💖
& many more ...but these two really changed my life💚
Ñïhäríkä Mïshrâ I’m so happy to hear that!! 💓✨
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She is so beautiful ! The way she talks in it is literally amazing !
I love myself ......
DIAMOND GIRL finally
I remember time when I was depressed about my school, relationship and family. And so, I didn't care about my body and mind. I could stay all night long doing homework or cry my eyes because arguments with my parents. Then I realized that I was treated myself badly. I started analyzing my actions and thoughts, managing my time so that I could have more sleep and free time. I started taking care of my hair and skin. So my life became much better, I feel more confident and happier now. Analyzing yourself is a really important skill, believe me.
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I've been trying to gain self love and self-worth since I was a kid. I had an abusive childhood. And not very good encouraging parents. Stuck in a job that I hate. And I feel like I'm going nowhere. I keep trying to love myself and be my best friend. But I'm My Own Worst Enemy. I keep trying to work out and do positive affirmations. But I've been doing it for so long and I still hardly love myself. I just don't know how. I'm tired of letting people's words tear me apart... I'm tired of bullies. I'm tired of not being able to love myself. When all I want to do is that. I just have no idea what to do, when life has been nothing but constant stress and let Downs. really love this video though.
LetsPanic sending you love. Don’t give up. You have the desire to love yourself, and with patience and care, you will get there. Start with journaling your thoughts (even the scary ones) but always end the session with a love letter to yourself!! Meditate daily on the idea of loving and protecting yourself. Catch your self talk when it becomes negative and turn it into positive and loving. Good luck!!
I saved your videos offline and whenever im feeling down or discouraged, i'll watch it and it always uplift my spirit. Thank you! 😘
Tqsm.. Keep making more videos on self love❤️
Kushboo Sankhla 💕💕 Check the description for the self love playlist!!
This makes so much sense now. It's been three decades and I have not understood these concepts before. #6 Happiness still doesn't make a ton of sense to me yet. I've always believed it was selfish and making a choice without considering EVERYone who was involved seemed like the opposite of love. But telling everyone else yes while telling myself no has not yielded me favorable results at all. That tells me something all on its own. My happiness has to matter to me but I was deathly afraid before to hurt the people I love.
Thank you for this video.
I love the video. It really changed my life.
It changed my entire life. I had a bad way of talking to myself and I made myself feel bad everyday for not beeing who I wanted to be. Then I got really sick and had to take time off from my job. I got depressed and hated my life. Then I decided that I will take care of myself. I will love myself no matter what cause me is all I got! I have now come a long way. I started my journey almost three years ago. I now have more days I love myself then I have days when I dont. But its coming along :)
How to have self love ? & how to eliminate negative thoughts & self sabotaging ? Please
Mar.Ash Check description or card for the self love playlist! I have a lot of videos there :) and I’ll make more on this topic soon!
Thank you so much :) love your videos they're so inspirational
Hi Aileen! Just wanted to share that self love made and is still making me have a deeper understanding and appreciation of myself and my existence. Continue inspiring and enlightening people with your videos! 😊💞
by the way you are looking awesome in red lipstick. Keep it up
Wow. This was really AMAZING. Thank you for sharing this!
My self love teacher me the most important thing: what I want from my partner in a relationship. I got out of a bad relationship because I knew I deserved better. And a year later, I have the greatest guy in my life. It is ABSOLUTELY true that once you know your worth, you attract people that treat you right and respect your worth. Thank you again!
Love yourself and selfie are different:)
Self love has allowed me to forgive myself and others. In doing that I am able to move forward and create the results that I want
Your lipstick 💋 and your dress 👗 so so so awesome Aileen 😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😘😘
Mathi Sekar 😘😘
Thanks for doing this so much! Self love = self compassion and you hit those points. Self-love has taught me to find security within my insecurities "It's okay" and acted as a motivation for me to be the better version of who I am
Cheryl Kong wow so proud of your growth! 💕
Lavendaire ❤️ Keep doing what you’re doing! You’re such an encourager!
so good ! subscribed
I was very insecure before, frequently comparing myself to others and feeling 'small' whenever around people especially with friends that high achiever. But 1.5 years ago, I found a wise post in path (social messenger) about 'people has their own time' where whatever takes us to success, we will get it in our own 'time' and 'timing' will play a significant role in a person life. Since then I believe that the biggest competitor in our life is not our colleagues, not our friends, not our sibling. Our biggest competitor is ourselves, how we can able to change ourself to be better, how we have to focus more with self development and how we can fight our fear and weaknesses. Now after 1.5 years, I found myself more happy and worry less. If that one post can change my life, this video certainly able to change many people's life.