confidence hacks to help you channel your ✨bad b energy✨
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- Confidence is complex but being in challenging situation has forced me to develop habits that help me exude BAD BISH ENERGY like no other! here are some hacks that can help you boost your confidence and self esteem within your career, relationships, and other aspects in life. Enjoy this video!
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confidence hacks to help you channel your bad b energy
My favorite confidence hack is relaxing the shoulders and holding my head up high. It’s an automatic confidence booster ✨
💯 xx
My mom calls that the queen wearing her crown! Love this!
Something I learned is that even if you are inconveniencing somebody, don’t apologize. Simply say “thank you for waiting for me”. It’s good to speak positivity into existence
That exclamation girlie point is so valid. I used to overuse exclamation points to show excitement, add value, exude interest, etc but literally this week I was typing out a message to a business owner and said yeah no. I am not about to show extra emotion that’s truly not there. It felt liberating almost after doing it since college days.
Thanks for this video Bria.. One of my colleagues actually told me, that I need to 1.Stop over apologizing because no one cares, 2. Start talking like a confident person, 3. Participate in meetings more, and stop being quite. I really wish all these things were easy to do cz during meetings I normally have a brain freeze, cz I would literally have nothing to contribute. I don't know whether I have low-self esteem or whats really happening with me.. I want all of these things
Write notes before going into the meetings, elaborate. I have Ideas too but when put on the spot they fly away like a butterfly 🦋
@@Heykay34 Thank you so much, i'l try this. I have faith it will help. I don't like feeling like i'm just a parcel. I even have stage fright , so i mumble sometimes when i speak with a lot of people, lol but i'm good with interpersonal communication. Its confusing.
@@zizimagadla7216 I’m an HR Director and hiring manager and I’ve told other women on my team to stop doing the same thing and have coached them to help them show up and take up space at work. If you’d like some coaching with this I’d be happy to help you build confidence in the workplace - don’t hesitate to reach out .
@JasminWilliam, I would really appreciate the coaching. I know I have so much to give but it's just unfortunate that I have not been able to express myself.
@@jasminwilliams7285 Hey Jasmine, can you help me as well please? I'd appreciate it much. Thank you.
This is the most realistic and helpful video about confidence. Most of what you mentioned, I had in my mind already, but I had self-doubt whether am I right with changing myself into this or that. I forgot my choices were making me adjust to other people and not serving myself anymore. This video woke me up. Thank you, ma’am Bria. ✨
Loved this video! The book Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg really shifted my mindset and made me hyper aware of the silent but loud signals I was sending in business interactions. Really insightful! I would definitely appreciate a video of how to communicate effectively and affirmatively. Always seeking strategy in that area. Bria, you’re so inspiring. You know when you see someone and you know they’ve done the work on themselves??? That’s you for sure. You are a testament to the other side. Keep being great.
Gotta add that book to my list! Thank you for the sweet words Edna, I’ll forever be putting in the work✨
I always preach to my peers about confidence and one thing I can absolutely attest to is never stop learning and it’s ok to see yourself as a student. Contrary to popular belief, listening and being receptive of what someone else is talking about shows that you are more intelligent. Intelligent people prove that they are intelligent by always learning. Not always teaching.
I just want to say thank you! I’m a single mother with 3 sons! Full time PhD student and Employee. Your content has really help me facilitate through situations in such positive ways! Thanks!
A confidence hack I have learned is to get comfortable with taking your time. For example someone sends you a email and your unsure what to respond, reply to them that you have received their email and will response as soon as possible. Then take your time to think through what you’re being asked. If someone attempts to put you on the spot and you’re unsure tell them you will get back to them on it.
Yes this is so true I have been a braider for 6 years and I no longer allow anyone to book. I attract and not look for clients. I also have been more protective of my energy and my prices keep the low vibrations out of sight out of mind! Thank you Bria I needed this for my other stream as a Spiritual Motivational Coach
I can relate so much to this video. It is really helpful for my current situation 🙏🏻 “Don’t chase things attract them” that statement spokes to my soul .
Thanks
Omg fear of silence in conversations is so relatable. Thanks for bringing it up
I need this
Not gonna front
I like being blunt
people be trying to make me feel bad about being straight to the point!
But now I have confirmation 💯‼️
Thank you
I would definitely like to see a video where you give examples of what to say to sound more confident. I write fiction and I am always looking for better ways to describe conversations or to describe a room or setting. I see it as an art form. I study how people generally speak in conversational English to other people: friends, family as opposed to how they might speak to a stranger or a professional. I also try to use correct English when I describe what is happening in a story as opposed to how two friends will speak i. e. how a southerner would use regional terms or a non-native English speaker would phrase something. I know that I’m being longwinded here, I just wanted you to know how appreciative I would be to learn how to speak with confidence in any situation. Thank you so much for sharing your advice, Bria!
You got it Miss Patty!
I can't wait.
You’re awesome love your positive attitude and amazing life tips. I also worked in a very similar work setting as you mentioned. I recently learned that I was definitely speaking in the work place with those… “sorry to bother you phrases”… or “just following up emails.” So glad I finally realized this and I have gotten better. I would love it if you could do another video and give more suggestions on phrases you would use in the workplace in emails and or in person. Thanks again! Great content. 😊
I really like the points you have made about women overly apologising in business setting or any other.
I enjoyed a part about taking opportunity aligned to you, your goals etc. 👌
“Closed mouths don’t get fed.” Thank you, Bria. I found your channel less than a week ago (this video is 9 months old at the time of this comment on 2/16/23). I greatly appreciate everything you said in this video.
With respect to apologizing more than we need to, I completely agree. Having said that, there are occasions when an apology is valid and appropriate. In the times when we need to apologize, I learned to stop saying “I’m sorry” and instead say “I apologize”. The difference being that when we say we’re sorry, on a subconscious level, that can cause us to feel as though we’re “sorry” individuals (low-life, bum, no value, etc. - whatever way we want to interpret that), whereas, when we simply say “I apologize”, we indicate that we feel regretful about whatever wrong we’ve done, while we retain our identity and our self-worth.
Thank you again for this video in particular. I found a lot of valuable information here. 17:15
You just helped me negotiate my salary increase. Keep doing these videos. 🥰
Or else😂.. you have a great charisma coupled with an authentic way to deliver an info! Like you’re telling me what I already know, but something about the way you speak it makes me realize it as it’s the first time 👏🏼
The "Just" is a conversation killer for sure. In my Salex exec days, that was the first thing we learned to take out of our vocab. You sound so much more confident when you get straight to the point. Thank you for this video--it had some gems that every woman needs to be reminded of occasionally. I also learned that when you enter a room, keep your chin up and look to the back of the room. You will become much more confident, and people treat you differently.
With confidence u paved the way for a lot of these girls! They will never admit it, but look at them doing everything like u/us! Taking trips, just like you ..trying to be you. How you don’t like me but try to do everything like me, now that is what gets me!
I'm sad I cannot comment with a picture here, girl my face really looks like you 🥺😍😍😍
You are brilliant and insightful I am old enough to be your grandmother - but I have learned so much from you - blessings to you in every way especially your marriage
DON'T CHASE THINGS! ATTRACT THEM 💯💎🔥❤️
LISTEN!!!!!!!!.... only 3:45 in, I was hooked on "changing mindset" and *_NOT_* coming from a place of scarcity! *BRILLIANT!* Love your energy!😊
The UA-cam algorithm did me good recommended this lovely lady. Totally relate to being too kind and apologising in business cant wait to put these tips into action! Thanks so much!!
Love the pillow on the floor moment. Anytime I see a pillowy know we about to talk...
After reading “Nice girls don’t get the corner office “ I noticed I was a “mother hen” always providing tissues, napkins, forks, Tylenol etc. Another female coworker of mines sold all those items and she still was promoted got better leads . I just say I don’t have the items . I also had friends calling me for things early morning like “call out and HR” numbers for work . I shut all that ISH DOWN .
"if you're scared of money, money is scared of you" 🤣🤣
Just got a new promotion from a costumer service job to a hr position. This helped, period ! Love your content 🖤
“You don’t want to chase, you wanna attract.” 🙌🙌🙌
bro i get the wanting to help the family thing. i grew up dirt poor so I'm trying to make a name for myself so I can repay my dad for everything he's done for me and more
every word you speak is golden and i feel guilty not taking notes, but i'm always reminded i can returnr to ur videos. So happy i found you
I just wanna hang out wit u so bad 😂❤ litterly love your energy
I thank God that I found your videos at a critical time in my life. 🙌🏽
I love this girl! She’s such a vibe
I'm I the only one seeing that butter skin?
Girl you glow! I love what you are doing with your skin.
I literally wish i could be your friend in real life. lol you're great. I've been bingeing your videos and just thank you for being you.
4th video I’m watching now. I’m really enjoying your content. There is so much inspiration and information 💞
This is massively informative, happy that I learned new things and this isn't just another repetitive video
I’m a dental assistant and I apologize a lot to the drs for feeling I’m disturbing them for not doing their job. I’m STOPPING TODAY
def waiting for the 'how to sound more proffesional' vid. thanks for the life hacks!
Yes! Please do a video on the substitute sentences. I would love that.
yesss do a video on 'fluff' words not to use! that would be very helpful ! :)))))
I would love to see that video & template with replacing filler words/fluff and over apologizing. This is my 1st video I’ve seen from you/ just discovered your channel. I’m an instant follower! Thanks!
YOU ARE TALENTED CREATOR AND YOURUBER I LOVE YOUR CONTENT SO MUCH GO ON QUEEN !
I have absolutely fallen IN LOVE with you and your videos. I started watching you about one or two days ago and I’m obsessed. Thank you so much. PLEASE upload a video talking about that template. I’ve never needed something in my life so much
GURL please, you fuckin entered right into my hearttttt💗 you are so fucking gorgeous, gurl!!!!!!! Only one main thing - please please keep us connected to you by posting, please never stop posting, i fuckin need your energy in my mind, in my reality💗 xoxo
Omg bestie ilysm 🥺🤍
@@BriaJones thanks for reading my comm😭lyyyyymoreeeeee
GIRL, I've been commenting, but I'm so glad I came across your channel because GIRL I need this BOSS energy IN MY LIFE! Bless you!
I just starting watching you videos and I am manifesting success not only in my life but my families as well. I personal would love to here more about your mindset and what gave you that “sense” to do it and how you become not only successful, but a role model.
We don’t just do anything we do it! - yes I have trouble with silence too working on all of your tips for the new year
I’m so obsessed with you!!!! I’m an explanation girl 😩
Subscribed cause of the "or else" haha. but mostly the amazing content. One of my favorite confidence boosters is keeping my promises to myself. Your word is a huge part of your reputation, especially to yourself.
Love this message, bring on the email tips, Bria ❤️
im so glad my algorithm blessed me with you. you are my people. my girl, friend in my head. ily
I am that exclamation point girl. I will be unlearning this now. Thanks, ma’am.
Found you today, subscribed and 3 hours later I have PAGES of notes. Thank you 🙏
GIRL…. This was such a solid video with AMAZING advice! Keep preaching this message!! Love it so much 🙏💗
Girl I manifested thiss🫶🏽subbed immediately you’re a gem!
Loveee your energy, speaking all the truths 👌🏼
You really gave me the push to finally start youtube and I’m scared as haaaaiiilllllll, bt also oddly enough…excited. thank you Bria girl
Bria, you remind me of my best friend I had back in middle school. I'm enjoying your video's. Awesome tips and advice for aspiring youtubers as myself.
Have a great week!
This video is pure gold 🫶🏽🔥
Yes, please. A video with templates would be very helpful. Thank you, Bria.
I replaced the exclamation points with periods 😉
This video!!! Yes to that video please!
Wow so true. I like the way Bri talks. This is very inspirational
girlll, I just found your channel and I'm already loving it ❤️
Love this video! I’m one of those who uses exclamation point lemme stop 😂😭 I love all your video ideas ! So please make ‘em all hehe ✨🤞🏼
This resonates with me. The silence thing bugs me soooo much. It would be so helpful if you would do the template thing. Thank you in advance.
Omgggg! Girl this beginning is my life with corporate settings rn! Excited to listen to the rest!
So, you’re my life coach now. Thought you might like to know
Started to watch your Videos today and i do not regret it!
The thing you said about stop using “just” in your language reminded me of one of my high school English teachers who told us she didn’t want to have to read filler words in an essay.
Yes! Same principle!
Bria I love love love your videos the most. Love your honesty and your humour. Please never stop creating and shining
Omg Bria please do a video on the professional phrases you have! I feel this video 100%.
Green tea frappe with raspberry pumps has been my Starbucks go to for years!✨✨✨
I sooooooo want a professional wording video!! Ugh I love your videos lol
You're full of good energy and I'm here for it👏🌼 thanks for the video. So helpful
THIIIIS VIDEOOOO!!!!! Just thanks! All the stuff you said we don’t have to be , I was … yes girl, “just” , pleasing person! Not anymore, not anymore! Btw, your confidence made me subscribe on you!
Proud of you Bria !!! Thank you for being the energy we all need 💗
Yesss to the templates
Just was recently brought to my attention. It's such a game changer.
Yes professional phrases video is great!
you're officially my fucking life coach.
Oh wow, this sounds like values in the book Essentialism by Greg Mckeown
The way I needed this 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Hey Bria, I really appreciate your content. You are such a high vibrating woman. Love that. Sending you love and gratitude. You glow! 🤍✌🏻
wow this video showed up at the right time for me! The over apologizing part of this really hit me hardddd I needed to hear this lol! Thanks for this vid
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 Yes its comforting to know other people struggle with this too. ut are trying to get out of that habit! That's gonna be my goal this month, everytime I catch myself about to unnecessarily apologize I'm just gonna STOP in that moment lol!
I'm going to use the most of these and discard the rest because male dominated behavior in the workplace will not be mimicked by me. But no more apologizing! I need to stop that
Love this!!! Thank you for sharing!
Definitely want a video on vocab to omit when necessary if you haven’t done it already! 💓
Wow! Subscribed for sure! This was very helpful to me as a recent college graduate who is entering the corporate world. This helped me so much in setting the tone for who I want to be and how I want to be perceived. I ABSOLUTELY need the email adjustment video!
I love your videos! You are really down to earth and inspiring 💜 I definitely do a lot do the things you said not to do in this video and would love to see a video that has examples of other things to say
This is my third video of watch you and in in love 💁🏽♀️❤
Thank you. I just realised that I am interacting in the wrong way with my clients and that I must start to say no.
“Because I wanna make money” I know that’s right 😂😂😂😂
Thank you so much for that video! Even just listening to you and feeling the energy was a boost for my confidence. I would love another video on how to talk and act in a business setting. It would be deeply appreciated.
Love this video, many gems were in here! I was listening to the video and my aunt stopped me and asked me to send her the link. 😭 GREAT VIDEO
This was dope. Definitely took notes. Such great content.
wowza I needed to hear this. Love the tips and love this type of content. 💕