You are a true hero and I feel blessed to have found you to help talk us through this journey. My husband suffered his stroke at 42 2/29/2020 it’s been a long road but you have given him new found faith❤
Great words.... I say to myself I can't do that - YET.... If I can't do it I think about doing it! I agree focusing on what you can do and even if that is going back to stretching your hand out that alone will take the focus in your brain off if the immediate emotions... Distraction, deep breaths anything to re-engage your rational brain and reduce the control the emotion has over you.... That said sometimes a good cry is what's needed. But don't stay there....Don't suppress it either, manage it, talk to it and yourself and say I'm not beaten...
Thank you for this Kevin. I needed this tonight. It's been slightly over 4 months since my ischemic stroke and I've been having difficulty on a daily basis dealing with the trauma and the emotional pain. My doctor has prescribed anti-depressants but I'm afraid of the side affects and becoming dependent on them. I cry on a daily basis because it's a terribly difficult thing to deal with (feeling isolated, dependent on others, dealing with physical and cognitive / emotional issues). Wishing you well from Toronto Canada.
@@thefreestylefrEaK remember this is not permanent, four months is nothing in the world recovery. I understand that is probably bittersweet to hear, as it has felt like an eternity the last four months. It will get better. Let me know if you have any more questions. Feel free to email me privately if that is better for you. As always, keep up the good fight.💪
@@kevingocke Thank you for your kindness and words of support Kevin. It's comforting to know there are good people out there willing to give out their hand when your down. Thank you brother.
Thank you for this,my emotions have been all over the place, but I really find out when I do things the first time it really gets me. Like the first time after my stroke that I found out that I could still drive my riding lawnmower I cried like a little baby! Or I laugh at things that I can’t do yet and say it’s better than crying. Tim from Ohio
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That's exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks
Thank you for the encouragement, so appreciated. So little understanding from those who have no idea because they've not had an experience like this.
appreciate the video response
You are such an inspiration to get up again and again!! Thank you❤️
Well said 👏👏👏
Thanks for the advise. I only trust in 1 thing. GOD. I'll pray for you!
Great topic. Laughter smiling and tears can be uncontrollable.
You are a true hero and I feel blessed to have found you to help talk us through this journey. My husband suffered his stroke at 42 2/29/2020 it’s been a long road but you have given him new found faith❤
@@melshockley6453 sorry to hear about your husband, but I’m glad I’m able to help in anyway possible! Keep up the good fight.💪
Great words.... I say to myself I can't do that - YET.... If I can't do it I think about doing it! I agree focusing on what you can do and even if that is going back to stretching your hand out that alone will take the focus in your brain off if the immediate emotions... Distraction, deep breaths anything to re-engage your rational brain and reduce the control the emotion has over you.... That said sometimes a good cry is what's needed. But don't stay there....Don't suppress it either, manage it, talk to it and yourself and say I'm not beaten...
@@BrendaB-strokesurvivor well said💪
110% true….❤❤❤…….👍🤙
Thank you for this Kevin. I needed this tonight. It's been slightly over 4 months since my ischemic stroke and I've been having difficulty on a daily basis dealing with the trauma and the emotional pain. My doctor has prescribed anti-depressants but I'm afraid of the side affects and becoming dependent on them. I cry on a daily basis because it's a terribly difficult thing to deal with (feeling isolated, dependent on others, dealing with physical and cognitive / emotional issues). Wishing you well from Toronto Canada.
@@thefreestylefrEaK remember this is not permanent, four months is nothing in the world recovery. I understand that is probably bittersweet to hear, as it has felt like an eternity the last four months. It will get better. Let me know if you have any more questions. Feel free to email me privately if that is better for you. As always, keep up the good fight.💪
@@kevingocke Thank you for your kindness and words of support Kevin. It's comforting to know there are good people out there willing to give out their hand when your down. Thank you brother.
Thank you for this,my emotions have been all over the place, but I really find out when I do things the first time it really gets me. Like the first time after my stroke that I found out that I could still drive my riding lawnmower I cried like a little baby! Or I laugh at things that I can’t do yet and say it’s better than crying. Tim from Ohio
Emotions are never a sign of weakness. It’s growing to acceptance. Thank you for reconfirming that 🙌🏼