8 Signs You Have Trust Issues

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  • Today, we talk about signs you have trust issues. Are you constantly anxious, suspicious, jealous, and insecure? Trust is so important in relationships and friendships, and when you don’t have it, it can be a real burden. If you have trust issues, you doubt people’s intentions, actions, or words. As a result, you become hyperaware of any mistakes or suspicious behaviors, focusing on the negatives and disregarding their strengths and positive qualities. This may lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, isolation, and a general sense of unease and unhappiness.
    Many people who suffer from trust issues are emotionally wounded or dealing with emotional trauma. Some folks might be suffering from complex PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), which can cause feelings of anxiety and insecurity that make it difficult to trust someone.
    No matter what the reason for your lack of trust, the first step toward overcoming trust issues is understanding the root causes and why you have trust issues in the first place. Then, you can start working on building trust through open communication, setting boundaries, and practicing forgiveness.
    Seeking professional help, such as therapy or counseling, can provide valuable support in overcoming trust issues and improving your relationships with others.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 46

  • @cherylrleigh1912
    @cherylrleigh1912 Рік тому +17

    My experiences with malignant narcissism have made me exceedingly cautious about entering new relationships.

  • @sheilameyers152
    @sheilameyers152 Рік тому +5

    I basically don’t trust anyone until I grow to trust them!

  • @debbielightmillercurtisaut9631
    @debbielightmillercurtisaut9631 Рік тому +11

    While I do have trust issues and can find myself meddling into the behaviors outlined, I do have checkpoints and reflections in place to gage my emotions and make sure I am not being overly aggressive or sensitive in situations where I feel insecure.
    Thanks for sharing these points and again your work has helped me to be a better person overall.
    I am grateful to have attracted your material for my further development ❤❤❤

  • @kelleedavis-parker8703
    @kelleedavis-parker8703 Рік тому +9

    This was very helpful and extremely true. Thank you!

  • @Dragonalynn
    @Dragonalynn Рік тому +4

    My suspicion is invariably correct.

  • @RATED4EVER
    @RATED4EVER Рік тому +4

    3:17
    I always say, when it comes to anything/anyone in life: If You're Not Questioning It, Then You've Accepted It!

  • @sophiaisabelle027
    @sophiaisabelle027 Рік тому +11

    We appreciate your insights. You'll always have our support.

  • @Ruth-vy1qj
    @Ruth-vy1qj Рік тому +7

    I have trust issues due to what happened to me and others. I only trust God I set boundaries with all people esp toxic people. It to many fake, deceiving, manipulative, judgmental,
    and users these days. Theç less people I hang out the less drama I have in my Life

  • @ChristineOngus
    @ChristineOngus Рік тому +4

    Not everyone is out to deceive you. Their are genuine connections. Awesome 🎻

  • @lindaschultz7900
    @lindaschultz7900 Рік тому +8

    There are so many people that have hurt me, lied and talked behind my back, etc. It's really hard to trust people nowadays. I have acquaintances that I want to become friends with. Even they don't trust me enough to give me their phone number.

  • @BrianSEPT11
    @BrianSEPT11 Рік тому +9

    TRUST CAN DIFFICULT TO EARN, AND EASILY LOST

    • @roberttruman8444
      @roberttruman8444 9 місяців тому

      True. Although I've had a few close family members and a friend who played on the notion that trust is earned as a way to control and punish. It's true that you have to earn trust, but it's so so damaging when some people withhold their trust for no reason other than to control someone or restrict them in ways that disrespect their right to autonomy.

    • @annelim1784
      @annelim1784 7 місяців тому

      What if these people I dont trust lies to me regularly, how can I say that I have trust issues when they really are liars

    • @BrianSEPT11
      @BrianSEPT11 7 місяців тому

      @@annelim1784 you don't have trust issues

  • @NewLife-qj9mx
    @NewLife-qj9mx Рік тому +2

    After more than 60 years on this ball of dirt, I have well earned trust issues - you know what ive learned? Trust no one!!
    it just makes you vulnerable

  • @RATED4EVER
    @RATED4EVER Рік тому +3

    2:43
    This is the #1 reason for me as to why I don't trust anyone because of all the negative experiences. As I have a very good memory of my life, people, situations, faces, & I don't ever forget a face/situation in my life and therefore
    I DON'T FORGIVE AND I DON'T FORGET!

  • @ms.dvinelyblessed
    @ms.dvinelyblessed Рік тому +4

    Wow, this was good. I have work to do. I recognize; why and the fear behind my actions. So sorry for the people I pushed away due to my Trust issues. Now that I am aware of this type of behavior; I will be more careful not to be afraid to let others in and solely depend on healing. ❤

  • @rijd2304
    @rijd2304 Рік тому +4

    I have an analogy I use for people as bombs: In essence, I've been conditioned through some bad childhood experiences to see people as bombs that can explode (emotionally) if I don't do the right thing around them or do something that sets them off. This caused people pleasing, walking on eggshells, compromising my boundaries, not having boundaries for myself, and trust issues. Mindfulness and setting healthy boundaries helped me a lot to not worry about people "exploding" emotionally as much. Books like 30 Days to Reduce Stress by Harper Daniels and the Tao Te Ching have been helpful for me.

  • @AndrewSDodds
    @AndrewSDodds Рік тому +1

    Trust no one and you can't get hurt!

  • @moonrivercamper
    @moonrivercamper Рік тому +3

    Well it’s hard to trust people now a days. But having a trust issue is also a toxic trait specially in a relationships.

  • @Un1234l
    @Un1234l Рік тому +4

    5:15 When I anticipate the worst-possible outcomes and they continually come true, it's not any delusion on my part and I'm not in the wrong. Reality is my compass, and the reality is so many people have failed the trustworthiness test, as seen by the past few years.

  • @maryhofstetter1777
    @maryhofstetter1777 Рік тому +4

    healing to all

  • @FilipRanogajec
    @FilipRanogajec Рік тому +1

    I just can't blame untrusting people. I've been through enough to know how bad the feelings of betrayal and inability to trust others are, and that they are not unfounded.

  • @sarahhurst701
    @sarahhurst701 Рік тому +4

    Excellent video✌️❤️

  • @ayeshamartin_868
    @ayeshamartin_868 Рік тому +1

    Absolute trust is a luxury few can afford. Relative trust is doable.

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 Рік тому +4

    I have to admit I do have trust issues 😊👍🏻

  • @drawdegalaxy9739
    @drawdegalaxy9739 Рік тому +2

    As a malevolent and avoidant type of person myself, I would say that when it comes to trust, it varies depending on the quality of the person you're interacting with. A person may be trustworthy when it comes to keeping secrets yet you can't hand them your things out of their clumsiness and negligence. Or it could be the other way around, or both. Suppose a man is intelligent, beware. They could be slick in manipulation. Or they could be keen on detecting one. Stupid people? Well, you either can or can't hand them over your secrets and belongings, depending on how stupid they interact with you. Submissive people? Trust them on adhering to your wishes and commands, but not on defending you against difficulties and troubles. Their response is always on a flight mode. Trust is a subjective topic, you just have to find balance between being approachable and malevolent.

  • @zantigar
    @zantigar Рік тому

    True - I do do practically EVERYTHING in order to have total order in my life. Unfortunately, I have trained myself to be so good at practically everything I need done - both conventionally male AND female tasks - that no one can do them as well as me. The only thing lacking is companionship and physical contact.

  • @Papicc1no
    @Papicc1no 7 місяців тому +1

    3, 5, and 8😓

  • @sniper_owl
    @sniper_owl Рік тому +2

    Very helpful topic

  • @RoyaleCameron
    @RoyaleCameron Рік тому +4

    Brainy dose can you do a video called: 13 reasons why you should not be excessively bragging

  • @1matim
    @1matim Рік тому +1

    thanks, good video

  • @MsPrestige2009
    @MsPrestige2009 Рік тому

    If you have trust issues, somebody betrayed your trust. Don't ever change the way you feel, because you feel that way for a reason.

  • @LeBrayTheGoat
    @LeBrayTheGoat Рік тому +1

    This is me 110%

  • @liz2handbrandshop414
    @liz2handbrandshop414 Рік тому +2

    Sound of background is too loud so it became a noise which decrease your voice and content. Please consider to remove it for your next episode.

  • @LeahMorrais
    @LeahMorrais 9 місяців тому

    I have trust issues ever since I was born I was scared that ppl was gonna say something bad to me and others i trusted my siblings i set boundaries all the time toxic people its to many to fake deceiving manipulative judges me I have been struggling to open up to people if their gonna say something to me that I haven’t done anything wrong and its hard for me to trust others even other people gives my number without permission and its hard for me to open up or understand of what they are saying to me

  • @hernrypalacios2219
    @hernrypalacios2219 Рік тому

    Well, that's actually not unusual. We are infected by its toxicity 😞

  • @Michael-uy2bh
    @Michael-uy2bh Рік тому +1

    Why is it a issue I don't trust liars, narcissist females and anything that breaths I reckon 😊 because experience and wisdom has kept me outta strife and if I trust anything I am only inviting that horrible shit in my clean awesome life no thanks 😊

  • @jasonmalone1040
    @jasonmalone1040 Рік тому

    I have so many trust issues I don’t even date anymore. I’m str8 male and I’m so burnt from my ex wife and ex girlfriends I’m not even attracted to girls anymore.

  • @CMLee-dq7bi
    @CMLee-dq7bi Рік тому +8

    I’m alone but hardly lonely.
    Seek professional help??
    Ha. I ve seen too many incompetent psychologists。. Affirmative Action hires👎

  • @jeraora3045
    @jeraora3045 Рік тому

    yeah. its probably because of my self. im a good lier. if i can lie to myself why would anyother dont do it to me 😂

  • @menkasharma392
    @menkasharma392 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @Siobhan-kw4wq
    @Siobhan-kw4wq Рік тому

    Betrayal I'm supposed to support the b that did this? Get I to the real world 😅

  • @candidaferreira9136
    @candidaferreira9136 Рік тому +1

    I have to admit that I have very bad trust issues 😢🙏❤️‍🩹