TRANS PEOPLE DATING CIS PEOPLE : HOW TO | NOAHFINNCE ft JAMMIDODGER & SHAABA & NOTCORRY

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  • @elielieli4460
    @elielieli4460 5 років тому +8100

    Noah and corry: chaotic energy
    Shaaba and jamie: proud mom and dad energy.
    The contrast is lovely

    • @wil9738
      @wil9738 4 роки тому +84

      I feel satisfied because i can turn the 999 into 1000 likes🤩

    • @armasescuteodora5760
      @armasescuteodora5760 4 роки тому +47

      Exactly!!it s adorable !!

    • @lizziex7117
      @lizziex7117 4 роки тому +34

      eli eli eli - 4:38 - the different interactions

    • @elliottlupin
      @elliottlupin 4 роки тому +56

      It's like the cool parents and their teenage kids

    • @aliuros8552
      @aliuros8552 3 роки тому +9

      Yesss 🖤🖤

  • @JimFeig
    @JimFeig 5 років тому +8690

    Cis men: My hormones caused inner chaos and embarrassment at a young age.
    Trans men: I want that

    • @grayboiy
      @grayboiy 5 років тому +163

      FELT THAT

    • @dthedragonslayer9677
      @dthedragonslayer9677 5 років тому +118

      That is scarily accurate.

    • @gayborgcube6432
      @gayborgcube6432 5 років тому +200

      Jim Feig trans men: *sliding money over the counter* I'll take your entire stock

    • @Up10tionslay
      @Up10tionslay 5 років тому +149

      I am SO jealous of cis guys getting voice cracks. I WANT THAT SO BADLY

    • @onestepinc.9921
      @onestepinc.9921 5 років тому +85

      I’m a cis guy and I never got voice cracks plus like y’all can have all my hormones if you want them

  • @bellacontreras8718
    @bellacontreras8718 5 років тому +6886

    I loved when Shaaba went “they’re so cute”

    • @sailor3972
      @sailor3972 5 років тому +24

      shaaba*

    • @bellacontreras8718
      @bellacontreras8718 5 років тому +29

      jae bojing oh sorry

    • @dam6732
      @dam6732 5 років тому +54

      I liked that comment even before I got to this point of the video XD. Just my logic...

    • @rainfaller194
      @rainfaller194 5 років тому +110

      And how Jammi and Shaaba looking at each other afterwards jeez they are cute too

    • @hidinginplainsite
      @hidinginplainsite 5 років тому +1

      Sammme

  • @lukealger4160
    @lukealger4160 5 років тому +3017

    Noah and Corry: Bickering teenagers
    Jamie and Shaaba: Absolute parents

    • @aliuros8552
      @aliuros8552 3 роки тому +8

      Yes 🤣🖤

    • @craycrayallday4285
      @craycrayallday4285 3 роки тому +4

      PLEASE SO TRUE

    • @sarahnavarro7649
      @sarahnavarro7649 3 роки тому +25

      OMG YES
      When shaaba said "they're so cute"
      MY HEART MELTED

    • @aidanmahoney6212
      @aidanmahoney6212 2 роки тому +9

      Shaaba: *sighs deeply*
      Noah: CORRY WHY DO YOU LIKE STABBING ME
      Corry: IT’S FUNNY
      Shaaba: CUTE
      Jamie: *uncomfortable energy*

  • @cayenne4536
    @cayenne4536 5 років тому +4301

    SHAABA IS SO SUPPORTIVE I LOVE HER

  • @ne-ola
    @ne-ola 5 років тому +6655

    This video called me single in 8 different languages

  • @Atlanas
    @Atlanas 4 роки тому +3654

    6:19
    Corry: *loving hug*
    Everyone: *expecting something deep.*
    Corry: “there are so many other things that are wrong with you”

    • @JacquelineUnderwood
      @JacquelineUnderwood 4 роки тому +162

      That’s such a comforting way of putting it though. Everyone has faults and weird things about them, so making it clear that isn’t one of them by pointing out all the other things and making it clear that isn’t one of them without being overly mushy just comes across as very genuine. (At least from my perspective and how I’ve noticed I like best)

    • @elijahwinchester6690
      @elijahwinchester6690 4 роки тому +68

      @@JacquelineUnderwood yeah, that's definitely how corry and noah's dynamic appears. they're not especially mushy ( though i imagine they may be off-camera, because they likely don't want to share that online ) and they find sly ways of showing affection that's pretty sweet, haha. i agree, it was more genuine.

    • @bennyton2560
      @bennyton2560 2 роки тому +1

      what did Shaaba say after that? didn't catch it

    • @jlake2247
      @jlake2247 2 роки тому

      @@bennyton2560 she said "you're such a tw@t in many other ways"

  • @mosshed3418
    @mosshed3418 5 років тому +5276

    noah and corry bickering and shaba turns to jamie and goes ‘this is so cute’ i’m soft

  • @mickmorgenstern7591
    @mickmorgenstern7591 5 років тому +4056

    and i love how they are all serious saying "top surgery" and then there's noah "chopped off"

    • @jacewritesowo1902
      @jacewritesowo1902 5 років тому +145

      Mick Morgenstern Honestly I say this too. But I feel hostile towards my chest. If someone asks anything about it, I'm just like oh yeah I'm chopping it off that'll be the day. And it's like no big deal to me. But, they just stare at me wide eyed like "oh God.." and stare at their chest and it's like a weird moment. I'm like, oh wait you like yours..xD

    • @ko-lq7vu
      @ko-lq7vu 5 років тому +12

      RIGHT

    • @CoRLex-jh5vx
      @CoRLex-jh5vx 5 років тому +99

      @@jacewritesowo1902 I call it the De-tit Procedures cause then you get to enjoy the brief moment of confusion and processing before they realise

    • @semenandgayuncle
      @semenandgayuncle 5 років тому +47

      Teet yeet

    • @toexprince7369
      @toexprince7369 5 років тому +3

      And tits 😂

  • @caitlin_9958
    @caitlin_9958 5 років тому +1547

    Noah: i looked like a boy but I didn’t have a d*ck - high key hating on himself*
    *Corry puts his arm around Noah*
    me: waiting for some super sentimental cute shit
    Corry: oh there’s so many other things that are wrong with u

    • @bennyton2560
      @bennyton2560 2 роки тому +1

      what did Shaaba say after that?

  • @swift104
    @swift104 5 років тому +4456

    Noah: **is disphoric about height**
    Jamie: **laughs in Cis height**

    • @emmanuelaadebisi5743
      @emmanuelaadebisi5743 5 років тому +22

      Gh0stLee 😂

    • @finder_
      @finder_ 4 роки тому +185

      ikr hes 6'1" no fair >:(

    • @nicoleeaves2153
      @nicoleeaves2153 4 роки тому +117

      @@finder_ and his brother is 6'7...

    • @gio9789
      @gio9789 4 роки тому +101

      here we are laughing but i'm cis and i'm 5' 3" or 163 centimeters

    • @lilithh24
      @lilithh24 4 роки тому +55

      * laughs in 5'2 *

  • @shaneblack8766
    @shaneblack8766 5 років тому +700

    Shaaba quietly in the background: "I'm quite glad I a wasn't a horny boy." 😂😂

    • @morganmeadowes6861
      @morganmeadowes6861 Рік тому +12

      Literally me during middle school searching for reasons why I’m happy I wasn’t assigned male at birth.

  • @18Themega
    @18Themega 5 років тому +2547

    Corry is wearing such an ugly button-up and as a lesbian I could not be more proud

    • @semenandgayuncle
      @semenandgayuncle 5 років тому +212

      It’s so fucking gorgeous

    • @oliviafrench4175
      @oliviafrench4175 4 роки тому +186

      I saw your comment on the other video lol and it made me laugh twice

    • @salmagique
      @salmagique 4 роки тому +87

      i literally laughed at this comment twice, from this video and from the other one

    • @potmki6601
      @potmki6601 4 роки тому +48

      I am wearing an ugly button-up as I'm reading this and nodding

    • @salmagique
      @salmagique 4 роки тому +15

      @@potmki6601 i am too and i approve

  • @milesmcdermott2045
    @milesmcdermott2045 5 років тому +2338

    I love how Shaaba is constantly looking at Jamie lovingly and then there's Corry and Noah who couldn't be further away from eachother with Corry still being in frame 😂😂

  • @katsimpsforleviathan
    @katsimpsforleviathan 5 років тому +1545

    Shaaba and Jamie are basically proud parents and it makes the whole thing cuter

  • @nicholasmgordon
    @nicholasmgordon 4 роки тому +760

    Alternative title: Cis partners reassure their trans boyfriends of their insecurities *(WILL RESTORE FAITH IN HUMANITY)*
    Edit: formatting

  • @rainbowsparkle4233
    @rainbowsparkle4233 4 роки тому +658

    when jamie talks about no cis person loving him: shaaba pulls him closer 'i love you'
    when noah does that: corry pulls him closer 'there are so many other things wrong with you'

  • @jaxsonezria
    @jaxsonezria 5 років тому +1987

    THE COLLAB I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR!

    • @dilarakoken4038
      @dilarakoken4038 5 років тому +16

      THE COLLAB WE'VE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR

    • @elliedrinkall5032
      @elliedrinkall5032 5 років тому +7

      @@jeremylee5990 That comment shows just how much you don't understand about trans people, so how about you educate yourself first before you assume stuff about them? Let them do what will improve their lives. Oh wait sorry, "synthetic" lives

    • @elliedrinkall5032
      @elliedrinkall5032 5 років тому +6

      @@jeremylee5990 Dude, you're spouting rubbish when you're using modern science to defend your transphobia, when science has literally proven that being transgender is possible. You're right about not being able to change your sex. You can't. If someone who is born with a male body transitions into female, it's because their brains are already female. That's literally science. That's why you need to get diagnosed with gender dysphoria before you can go through with any HRT or surgery.

    • @elliedrinkall5032
      @elliedrinkall5032 5 років тому +4

      @@jeremylee5990 Move along. You are very dumb.

    • @spitedrowning
      @spitedrowning 5 років тому +1

      @@jeremylee5990 haha i love how you use 'modern science' as an argument to show how trans people don't exist when science says literally the opposite and proves that trans people are real.

  • @badmiddens
    @badmiddens 5 років тому +1810

    I'm a lot older than all four of you and I really have no idea why I ended up on a channel about trans issues. All I want to say is I find all of you so bright and sweet and genuine that you have made my day. If the future is truly in the hands of people like you, we will all be just fine.,

    • @aaronrigel3712
      @aaronrigel3712 5 років тому +118

      Cutest comment on here

    • @totallynamed8979
      @totallynamed8979 5 років тому +62

      I,, i love this this is so sweet

    • @crewdogger
      @crewdogger 5 років тому +32

      Same

    • @mishapenmoonmoth
      @mishapenmoonmoth 5 років тому +59

      i started reading this comment like “aw shit here we go again” and it quickly turned into “awww i’m soft”

    • @finder_
      @finder_ 4 роки тому +13

      this is so sweet omG

  • @MoonOpheliac
    @MoonOpheliac 5 років тому +1489

    bi life is being attracted to everyone in this video and watching the whole thing with heart eyes

    • @benji_kay
      @benji_kay 5 років тому +39

      I love that there are 2 bi guys in this vid

    • @MoonOpheliac
      @MoonOpheliac 4 роки тому +21

      i was talking about myself but jamie and shaaba have said they were bi on their channels. idk about noah and corey

    • @caseymiranda4423
      @caseymiranda4423 4 роки тому +2

      Haha me😝

    • @sassberrysnap
      @sassberrysnap 4 роки тому +8

      @Mia Smith Jamie is bi. He says he's bi on his channel multiple times :)

    • @luishenriquefalconifilho2124
      @luishenriquefalconifilho2124 4 роки тому +9

      Honestly, I watched this whole video with a huge goofy grin on my face... I've stumbled upon Jamie and Noah's channels by accident and I honestly love all the content they make... it's interesting, it's adorable, it's informative... it's amazing!

  • @snartman331
    @snartman331 5 років тому +937

    shaaba is the cutest omg

    • @zbear199b3
      @zbear199b3 4 роки тому +3

      YASSS

    • @imannatasha3302
      @imannatasha3302 3 роки тому +2

      She is so kind and supportive 🥺 i just know that she's going to be the best mom in the future

  • @DreamsInWild
    @DreamsInWild 5 років тому +258

    To a degree I get where you are coming from with the jealousy question, and when you both said you are jealous that you never got to be horny teenage boys or get erections in class and such. It's easy as a cis person to be like, "But this was awful to experience!" but I can sort of understand it from a different perspective. I had a miscarriage last year, and my husband and I have been struggling to get pregnant ever since. Every time I see people with kids I feel a bit jealous, even when the kids are shrieking and throwing a tantrum. People with kids always tell me, "enjoy being child free while you can! XYZ thing sucks about parenting!" But the truth is that I would rather have all those bad experiences and have a baby than have a quiet, peaceful life without. I know it's not really the same thing as being trans and experiencing dysphoria and such, but I can relate to it in that way and I get where you are coming from

  • @dayworm
    @dayworm 5 років тому +794

    I like how Shaaba and Jamie look at each other at 6:25 like "aw they're being cute again," and then Corry just flat out insults Noah sjksjfj

  • @ArtOfRemy
    @ArtOfRemy 5 років тому +630

    No one:
    Noah: THEY HAVE THE DICK AURA
    Corry: I HAVE ENOUGH FOR BOTH OF US

    • @Nerd_777
      @Nerd_777 5 років тому +7

      I need a corry cuz like I need some dick energy

    • @spitedrowning
      @spitedrowning 5 років тому +14

      i read that just as he said it lol

    • @bennyton2560
      @bennyton2560 2 роки тому +5

      beautiful

    • @hamilton6142
      @hamilton6142 2 роки тому

      I thought he said, "I have a nut for both of us." 🤣😭

  • @sophiadelrosario6526
    @sophiadelrosario6526 5 років тому +710

    racist stranger: you look like you know where to get drugs
    me: wtf do you mean he looks like he knows where to get teddy bears

    • @razarine
      @razarine 4 роки тому +17

      ON GOD

    • @potmki6601
      @potmki6601 4 роки тому +10

      he sounds like he knows where to get his face slapped

    • @rubberduckproductions42069
      @rubberduckproductions42069 4 роки тому +23

      He looks like he’d wear socks with sandals. That is the biggest compliment I can give.

    • @aurora8749
      @aurora8749 3 роки тому +5

      I was in a car full of stoners. And we were travelling through colorado and they point at a black guy and were like. He knows where to get weed. It was sort of funny because he had on a hawaiian shirt and I do assume everyone that wears a hawaiian shirt smokes pot but that was obviously not why they assumed that.

  • @alienorfrei6867
    @alienorfrei6867 5 років тому +375

    I love how Shaaba stops Noah's self-deprecation (like when he says "I know it's dumb…" at 14:40 ). It's so sweet.

  • @shorkelili
    @shorkelili 5 років тому +383

    The title should be Jammie and Shaaba stanning Noah and Corrys relationship for 18 minutes. Like seriously, they keep looking at each other and saying how cute you guys are

  • @jesseee8828
    @jesseee8828 5 років тому +724

    6:36 and Corry going “we’ll get there one day” had me deeead omfg

  • @G0bl1nzz
    @G0bl1nzz 4 роки тому +220

    Noah and Corry: Arguing
    Jamie and shaaba: Shipping Noah and Corry.

  • @user-yu5rw6zq9c
    @user-yu5rw6zq9c 5 років тому +557

    "There are so many other things wrong about you" 😂😂

  • @asdfghjkl-vy8gt
    @asdfghjkl-vy8gt 5 років тому +346

    honestly my favourite part of the day is hearing noah say ‘hello underachievers’

  • @makennas.1220
    @makennas.1220 5 років тому +971

    I really don’t like ads, but they also make me happy because that means that their videos are monetized. Anyone else feel like that??

  • @SixtySecondYoga
    @SixtySecondYoga 4 роки тому +115

    The bit about “your partner would be happier with a cis person” made me gasp! My gf makes me so happy I could never trade her for a cis person!

  • @sarathoughtonnothing
    @sarathoughtonnothing 5 років тому +104

    I love Shaaba saying "it's not dumb, its how you feel", like she is so sweet and calm and validating

  • @derekschmitz3488
    @derekschmitz3488 5 років тому +150

    “I would say it’s hard”
    “My GOD CORRY!!”
    7:12

  • @ieatoilpaintings
    @ieatoilpaintings 5 років тому +939

    ‘i LIKE stabbing you’ - Corry 2019

  • @wolfie2257
    @wolfie2257 5 років тому +179

    OMG MY FAVES
    Shaba’s “they’re so cute” and then looking into each other’s eyes was adorable

  • @rocioarenassanchez1963
    @rocioarenassanchez1963 5 років тому +1245

    5:39 that adult group laugh made me unconfortable Its like a parents kindergarden group

    • @ughb3lla
      @ughb3lla 5 років тому +18

      OH MY GOD 😂😂😂

    • @udop2
      @udop2 5 років тому +9

      OH GOD

    • @celstboch734
      @celstboch734 5 років тому +8

      Same tho 😂

    • @jesusfreaklol1
      @jesusfreaklol1 5 років тому +48

      Oh just wait till your the one doing it and you go oh fuck im an adult

    • @pilarhunter3154
      @pilarhunter3154 5 років тому +4

      Lmaooo

  • @firerat_
    @firerat_ 5 років тому +307

    Corry, the bodyguard we all need

  • @shaaba
    @shaaba 5 років тому +334

    The comments on this are so wholesome and so are Noah and Corry so just deal with it you adorable couple 💛💛

    • @user-bi1lx2em6y
      @user-bi1lx2em6y 5 років тому +22

      But so is the way you look at Jamie???? Ya'll are so cute don't-

  • @smoothcriminal6622
    @smoothcriminal6622 4 роки тому +41

    THE PARENT ENERGY WITH JAMIE AND SHAABA IS ✨IMMACULATE✨

  • @caseymiranda4423
    @caseymiranda4423 4 роки тому +258

    Noah: *is talking about how he thought guys wouldn’t like him*
    Corry: *puts his hand on Noah’s shoulder*
    Me: aww he’s gonna say something cute
    Corry: there are so many things wrong with you that would make a guy not want to date you
    Me: 😑😂

  • @viveleshistoires4874
    @viveleshistoires4874 3 роки тому +74

    Shaaba: Does looking at me every make you feel dysphoric?
    Jamie: No, never, I just think you’re beautiful!

  • @danielespinoza6215
    @danielespinoza6215 5 років тому +130

    As a young trans guy this really gave me hope that a cis person will ever love me, thank you

    • @danielespinoza6215
      @danielespinoza6215 5 років тому +27

      @@jeremylee5990 I don't even exclusively like girls wtf. I'm literally diagnosed with gender dysphoria, imagine thinking you know more about me than a fucking doctor

    • @baguettegott3409
      @baguettegott3409 4 роки тому +35

      @@danielespinoza6215 Seeing comment threads like this always makes me so sad. Like, there's you saying this video made you feel hopeful and I'm like "aww, that's so sweet", and the I click "read more" and there's just... a transphobe.

    • @sunsetskye483
      @sunsetskye483 3 роки тому +5

      I’m sure you will

    • @lucamara6424
      @lucamara6424 3 роки тому +10

      @@jeremylee5990 just shut up😐 Why are you even watching this video if you’re transphobic🙄

    • @calamityjean1525
      @calamityjean1525 3 роки тому +7

      @@jeremylee5990 Fuck off.

  • @idkmaybe2278
    @idkmaybe2278 5 років тому +226

    Shaaba at 4:40 is me all the time when I watch one of your videos

  • @kaiyasothern6305
    @kaiyasothern6305 4 роки тому +60

    corry: *puts an arm around noah's shoulder
    shaaba: *aw*
    corry: tHeRe ArE sO mAnY oThEr ThInGs WrOnG wItH yOu

  • @jasmineanderson2971
    @jasmineanderson2971 5 років тому +618

    “noah finnce uploaded” me: *drops everything im doing and watches it*

  • @zidan9255
    @zidan9255 5 років тому +376

    I didn’t know which to click on
    Jamie’s video or Noah’s
    Aghhhh it’s like coming out again

    • @topsyturvy1097
      @topsyturvy1097 5 років тому +11

      @@jeremylee5990 this isnt relevant

    • @topsyturvy1097
      @topsyturvy1097 5 років тому +10

      @@jeremylee5990 but youre also wromg

    • @topsyturvy1097
      @topsyturvy1097 5 років тому +7

      @@jeremylee5990 ??? You're the delusional one here
      Also sorry I'm not interested in looking at pictutes of you

    • @oops3309
      @oops3309 4 роки тому +3

      @@jeremylee5990 You impersonate a smart person to put people down shortcut, you're actually ignorant

    • @oops3309
      @oops3309 4 роки тому

      @@jeremylee5990 you know what, you're missing the point, im done arguing with someone who doesn't understand that the brain and body and different

  • @eilidhramsay3821
    @eilidhramsay3821 5 років тому +132

    I felt that "hello underachievers" today 🥺💞

  • @hollie9052
    @hollie9052 5 років тому +126

    Jamie and shaaba looked like proud parents at times

    • @iloveanimals2345
      @iloveanimals2345 4 роки тому +6

      Jeremy Lee Nuh, Jamies a guy and Shaabas a girl.

    • @finnvsjupiter
      @finnvsjupiter 4 роки тому

      @@jeremylee5990 🤔

    • @l-3832
      @l-3832 4 роки тому +1

      @@jeremylee5990 not really. They’re two bisexuals in a straight relationship.

    • @lucamara6424
      @lucamara6424 3 роки тому

      @@jeremylee5990 Dude just leave😂 We are not taking your bullsht seriously. Go watch something else and stop bothering people😐

  • @WhoDatheir
    @WhoDatheir 5 років тому +116

    Noah, Corry, Shaaba, & Jammi.......this is one of the most informative videos regarding the subject. But it also helps with how people feel about being seen as different and not just trans. Great Job!!!

  • @neivevanemmenis488
    @neivevanemmenis488 5 років тому +58

    Best quote of 2019
    "Shaba can go out on her own , Shaba knows karate 👋"

  • @tkam6082
    @tkam6082 5 років тому +84

    “I have enuff for both of us”
    That shyt kiLleD me 😂

  • @lovapaint
    @lovapaint 5 років тому +185

    “I’m literally living my teenage life and I turn twenty next week”
    Story of my life

  • @MarcusIsHere
    @MarcusIsHere 4 роки тому +84

    Jamie: Sex wasn't even on the table
    Corry: no it was in the bed

  • @tiahsykes978
    @tiahsykes978 5 років тому +274

    YOU GOT A DECK AND YOURE TALL

    • @epushzp
      @epushzp 5 років тому +21

      Why yes Noah finds it very frustrating how Corry has a deck

    • @gothichorrorthotcore8191
      @gothichorrorthotcore8191 4 роки тому +6

      JustSomeGirlCalledEmily I read that in Scottish accent though

  • @helenkat314
    @helenkat314 5 років тому +117

    "before you finish your youtube spree for the night"
    how did you know

  • @jahbones1072
    @jahbones1072 5 років тому +52

    4:38 THAT LOOK JAMIE AND SHAABA GIVE EACH OTHER JUST NO FRICKING YOU COUPLE GOALS

  • @MadMax-fg4cc
    @MadMax-fg4cc 5 років тому +51

    Shaaba shouting Corry gave me strong mum vibes.

  • @alliem8700
    @alliem8700 4 роки тому +10

    Oh my god, the little kiss on Jamie's shoulder after Shaaba said "for the record, I wouldn't" is the cutest thing ever.

  • @kat_the_mouse
    @kat_the_mouse 4 роки тому +13

    Shaaba's "for the record, i wouldn't' and then kissing Jamie's arm...oh my god my heart can't take this

  • @salisao266
    @salisao266 5 років тому +73

    I love Shaaba at 4:39 whispering how cute they are to Jamie

  • @petunia8425
    @petunia8425 4 роки тому +13

    Thank-you, so much! I'm a very curious 60yr old who has been binge watching both of your channels. My biggest concern is how not to offend anyone with my questions. You're all so wonderfully open, funny and wise beyond your years. I wish you all love and the continued happiness you deserve. Thank-you for reminding me that my curiosity is in no way insensitivity.

    • @ashergrey9468
      @ashergrey9468 4 роки тому +5

      I grew up extremely religious and conservative and I really struggled with how to ask questions as well. My tips would be: make sure your questions are coming from a place of pure curiosity and care and that you’re very comfortable (and they with you) the person you’re questioning.

    • @petunia8425
      @petunia8425 4 роки тому

      @@ashergrey9468 thank-you for that, good words.

    • @felixleroy7660
      @felixleroy7660 Рік тому +1

      Hello, I am really late but you can find a lot of videos on youtube talking about what are the questions not to ask to a transgender person. I think since you are open minded and comprehensive (as you seems to be ^^) about the fact that there is questions that can make them unconfortable it should be okay. Also we have to keep in mind that transgender person have really often the same questions coming when they meet people, and it can often be not people not kind with them, so it is understandable that sometimes they are exhausted and rather not talking about this...

  • @charliephoenix3674
    @charliephoenix3674 5 років тому +27

    I came out to my boyfriend recently and his biggest problem with it is "now I'm more handsome than him" I love him so much lmao

  • @diyak2182
    @diyak2182 5 років тому +39

    'It's not dumb, it's how you feel, it's not dumb' Yes Shaaba!!

  • @katelynmorley6795
    @katelynmorley6795 5 років тому +25

    Thank you to all four of you for one of the most insightful, educated, genuine, loving, conscientious and comforting videos about race, relationships (and how consent, communication and comfort play into them) and transness I've ever seen on youtube. This is an incredible video and you should all be proud of yourselves for being such incredible people.

  • @idkmaybe2278
    @idkmaybe2278 5 років тому +175

    When you are early af and can't finds any good comments to like

  • @cccccc_651
    @cccccc_651 5 років тому +225

    I loved 6:40 😂
    STOP MAKING JOKES

  • @mystupidlife123
    @mystupidlife123 Рік тому +4

    Jamie's "no, I just think your beautiful" is so sweet!

  • @SpadeDraws
    @SpadeDraws 2 роки тому +8

    “I HAVE ENOUGH FOR BOTH OF US”
    This is the energy I want

  • @kindleskittens755
    @kindleskittens755 3 роки тому +8

    If you guys made a podcast I would listen to it all the time. The energy you guys bring is so wholesome.

  • @ipermaga4618
    @ipermaga4618 4 роки тому +18

    corry "I HAVE ENOUGH FOR BOTH OF US" it's the best thing in this video

  • @martinaventuragomez2768
    @martinaventuragomez2768 4 роки тому +27

    Shaaba and Jamie seem like their parents when she says "they're so cute"

  • @angelrose5827
    @angelrose5827 5 років тому +55

    I hoenstly love watching videos like these cause I like being informed and woke in a sense of just being less phobic to topics that although i may not deal with I might be better informed to not offend someone, cause it's easy to say a transphobic comment and defend yourself with saying " oh well I've never been with a trans so I didn't know " , I feel like you don't have to go through or be part of something to be informed or just know how to have some comon sence

  • @serenaberkowitz1325
    @serenaberkowitz1325 5 років тому +38

    In my head Shaaba and Cory are secret besties lol... But
    "You're tall and you have a Dink"...DEAD lol
    Love from Alaska

  • @the_irrelevant_fox
    @the_irrelevant_fox 2 роки тому +13

    Noah and Corry: *debating the pros and cons of being biologically male*
    Jamie: *listening and agreeing with Noah*
    Shaaba: *quietly* "I'm quite glad I wasn't born a boy" *smiles cutely*

  • @noodlearg9745
    @noodlearg9745 4 роки тому +30

    Seeing a room full of lgbt people makes me happy

    • @dyingtransman3337
      @dyingtransman3337 3 роки тому +6

      All they need is some trans lesbians to make it over the top amazing

  • @strykeyboi
    @strykeyboi 4 роки тому +10

    as a gay trans guy i always feel like no one would ever love me but finding this video gave me hope xD you guys are adorable

  • @raineermstuff
    @raineermstuff 4 роки тому +4

    shaaba saying “they’re so cute” and shaaba and jamie giving each other the happy parent look melted my heart

  • @HappySeptember
    @HappySeptember Рік тому +3

    4:38 shaba saying "this is so cute" melts my heart.

  • @koutashinji
    @koutashinji 5 років тому +21

    'Think in your head how sex is gonna be, well that's how it is'
    Well, my mind immediately went to that meme of the guy spinning around on top of the other guy, lol.

  • @jaceh5371
    @jaceh5371 4 роки тому +4

    I find these videos so comforting as a trans person trying to navigate dating cis people. It’s nice to know that there are cis people out there who are as chill as you guys.

  • @ginginami
    @ginginami 5 років тому +74

    She knows Ka-ra-té

  • @oolongteaforjoyluck17
    @oolongteaforjoyluck17 5 років тому +16

    I love when Jamie blushes.
    I love Shaab's complexion color, so glowing.
    Noah you are growing up so fast!
    Corry I don't know you personally but I know I've seen you on a channel before that wasn't connected to Noah's but I can't remember where.
    This was a cute video.

  • @intercat4907
    @intercat4907 3 роки тому +35

    At 62, watching this is like going to a science fiction movie. "Tell them when you feel safe" used to be "not unless you have a death wish" - and that was with relatives. These kids are charming and fun, and I'm glad there's a safe to be.

    • @its_the_bird
      @its_the_bird 2 роки тому +5

      This really helps put things in perspective for me. I've been so INCREDIBLY depressed and stressed about all the anti-trans laws being passed in the States, and have been feeling like things are regressing and like maybe there isn't hope for more acceptance and safety with how politics are trending far-right here. But it HAS been getting better, even if it isn't totally linear and regresses sometimes.
      Like for example, I hear cishet streamers casually say LGBT+ friendly things just in conversation, and the majority of their huge audience agreeing happily or not even making a deal out of it because to them it's normal and okay (and it is! but you know). And then even out and about in my daily life, though I may sometimes feel vulnerable and alone, it's still mostly okay for me to not live in constant fear or worry. I'm still not going to out myself to most people, but then again, I also drive around openly in a very queer friendly car (bumper stickers, etc), and I've not been murdered yet, so that's neat! 😅
      Bit long, but I did need some perspective. I'm so glad things are better now, and I hope they continue to improve for the newer generations (I'm 28 and the HUGE change in acceptance since even just 2006 is staggering to me)

  • @somedude172
    @somedude172 5 років тому +10

    this video made me feel so much less unloveable. im starting at a new university next week after being out of school since christmas. i really needed this atm. thank yall sm for uploading

  • @basicjacie8558
    @basicjacie8558 5 років тому +5

    This is all of my favorite youtubers in one video. I am very pleased by this.
    Edit: I’ve been extremely sick all day, and I much appreciate how much better something this simple makes me feel.

  • @barclaycork-ys5wz
    @barclaycork-ys5wz 6 місяців тому +1

    I love how you have such different dynamics, but the love is still so palpable

  • @charliekate7789
    @charliekate7789 5 років тому +94

    This is so chaotic!!!!!
    I love it!

    • @gotem6891
      @gotem6891 4 роки тому

      what makes it more chaotic is that this comment has 69 likes

  • @oliververnon314
    @oliververnon314 5 років тому +14

    “I HAVE ENOUGH FOR BOTH OF US” - Corry 2019

  • @quatzxice
    @quatzxice 5 років тому +6

    Crying so much because I'm so happy for them. The way Cory teases Noah gives me life, it's so well done. "we'll get there" (about being sexually attractive)

  • @adrianaperezz3351
    @adrianaperezz3351 4 роки тому +4

    The editing was so chaotic and I’m here for it.

  • @zadigillispie1621
    @zadigillispie1621 Рік тому +5

    4:37 Shaaba and Jammi just being proud parents watching Corry and Noah AHSBKSBBSGUY

  • @norawrrrr
    @norawrrrr 4 роки тому +20

    „do u ever feel jealous that they're cis?“
    everyone: „ooohhhhhh“

  • @Sugatassi
    @Sugatassi 4 роки тому +4

    I believe it's a very good thing that you are willing to answer really difficult questions that other people just have. I think everyone should be curious about the things they don't know. Education breeds understanding and tolerance. I also believe it is the best thing ever that you take time to educate other people in a non-hostile manner. I find your and Jamie's channels entertaining, enlightening and quite educational

  • @MjadeJK
    @MjadeJK 6 місяців тому +1

    Noah and Corey debating and then Shaaba whispering to Jamie “this is so cute” was such a wholesome moment

  • @carlygee8866
    @carlygee8866 5 років тому +7

    Noah uploads...I'm at work right now, closed my office door and put my headphones in to watch this epic collab

  • @najas0544
    @najas0544 4 роки тому +3

    I'm a nonbinary genderfluid bi/pan and I love puns. So obviously Corry's mixture of puns and dad jokes totallt sold me on watching more of all four of you in the future.
    So happy that you have overcome so many things cause it is hard to live with dysphoria and I bet you felt it a lot more than I do. But you guys all seem so happy and in love and just so secure in your relationships. Romantic and platonic. It gives me hope for my future. Thank you darlings. You made my day.

  • @firerat_
    @firerat_ 5 років тому +35

    I just entered UA-cam and I love UA-cam now thanks for the collab

  • @ravenzaphara5513
    @ravenzaphara5513 3 роки тому +3

    came here from jamie's channel, first time watching you and this is adorable. I love jamie and shaaba's dynamic but i love yours too. Like opposite vibes but still so sweet