I'm 67, I have 3 sons, 47, 30, 27. I'm Italian/ American. I had a beef with my eldest. It's been 6 years since we spoke. Your wisdom opened my eyes Micheal. I'm gonna reach out to him...because of you. Thanks.
@@Unknown-zt8mz extreme things do happen with family. Because you’re so close/connected. Could you tell me what body of water you walked on the day you posted this? Unreal.
Couldn't agree more! I also like to share with my atheist friends. I mean I am hard core Catholic, so some creative evangelizing is called for🙏🙏🙏❤ God bless everyone
Michael, your Christian beliefs work for you, and I am happy you have that in your life. Here’s where I draw the line though. Don’t disrespect me and my beliefs by insisting that, despite my lifetime of working to be the best person I can be, I will go to your fictional Hell. That absolute belief encompasses such arrogance and disrespect and attempts to intimidate non-Christians. It closes off the opportunity for an equal relationship based upon mutual respect and trust. Believe whatever want, but don’t wield it as a club to recruit converts.
Actually came close to killing myself last night, this lockdown has destroyed my life, lost my job, in the process of losing my home, the isolation on top of everything just tipped me over the edge. Put on this video totally totally randomly, just trying to distract myself from how miserable I'm feeling and really wasn't expecting a random youtube video from an ex mobster to give me a lift, thanks dude you really helped me today.
Think about how far you've made it. You started as primordial ooze. Your ancestors barely survived. You are the strongest and most resilient life in the universe. Don't give up now, or ever. There is an unbroken chain that starts at the beginning of time and leads to you. You are vitally important.
Hey dont go there man, dont go in that dark place in your mind because it is hard to escape it. Just push trough day at the time till you feel better and then start looking for a job, hobby etc.
It's a thing I strongly agree with. I don't have a religious bone in my body. But in a really dire situation, I would just give it a shot. Nothing to lose there. Also another thing to be mentioned, if someone draws strength out of their faith, sure thing, go for it.
@Hi nothing happens. That's it. As I said, good for you if you draw strength or motivation out of your faith. But that's your way to deal with things. Not mine. Don't bother trying, that won't change.
None of your business you think this whole universe so great and everlasting isn’t someone’s creation you think evolution made us ha maybe the animals but not us there’s something greater then us and that’s god your lose if you don’t believe it God of Abraham issac and of Israel is the one true god a true god not made of wood and stone
Not the typical way to describe a mobster. I think it's great though when people can turn their lives around and learn and grow from their experiences.
Btw, everyone...I meant by my earlier comment that this is a description of who he is NOW. Not in his life in La Cosa Nostra; just to be clear. Christ can change ANYONE, and this gentleman is a prime example of just that. Peace and love to all of you, and may God continue to richly bless you and your family, Mr. Michael Franzese. Respect!
My mom died fairly young recently and my dad dealt with it rather selfishly and it hurt and has hurt. You’re wisdom here of saying that parents and fathers disappoint has helped me. It helps me to forgive him and move on because I have been quietly very resentful. I think healing can begin. Thanks Mr. Franzese
Hi Micheal. My biggest fear in life was having a child. Not because I didn’t want one. But because I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to support him, to be there for him. I grew up without my father. I never knew him and he didn’t want anything to do with me. When given the option to see me he chose to just pay child support and that was it. I was afraid I was going to be just like him. When I had my son Jesse, my life got 200x better, I was the happiest person in the world I love and would do anything for him. He has everything he could ever want and more. I never understood why my father didn’t want anything to do with me, but I know one thing. I’m a damn happy to have my son.
I’m in a similar situation right now. How old were you when you had your child if you don’t mind me asking? I’m 21, and I got a girl pregnant. She wants to keep it even though we are both not ready, and I’m terrified. For me, I have the opposite background, I have a great dad and supportive family, so it kills me that I won’t be able to be as good of a dad. I still want to start my career and explore the world, but I feel like my life is over, I feel like I died and I’m now a ghost. How has this effected your life and what are some of the challenges? I just don’t see any scenario where this turns out well for me and my dreams, and the well-being of this child. I didn’t plan for kids until I was at least 30-35.
@@Zombikilla10789 bro, everything will be alright. I found out my girl was pregnant when I was 19. I was scared and I was not making the best choices in life. But when you hold that child in your hands, your instincts kick in and you will love that child more than you thought you could love. Your child will love you no matter what your job is. You will be their world.. I made sacrifices, I had to grow up, it wasn’t easy I won’t lie. But everything will be okay my man. The mother and I didn’t work out.. but luckily we have a good coparenting relationship. Just be responsible.. do your best to provide.. and always be there for your child and I promise you everything will be okay.
Hi Micheal. My biggest fear in life was having a child. Not because I didn’t want one. But because I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to support him, to be there for him. I grew up without my father. I never knew him and he didn’t want anything to do with me. When given the option to see me he chose to just pay child support and that was it. I was afraid I was going to be just like him. When I had my son Jesse, my life got 200x better, I was the happiest person in the world I love and would do anything for him. He has everything he could ever want and more. I never understood why my father didn’t want anything to do with me, but I know one thing. I’m a damn happy to have my son.
Most fearful moment! Years ago when I was working as a firefighter. Had a structure fire an the roof collapsed an I was pinned to the floor face down for over 8 minutes. With the fire burning around me I realized this was probably the end. My next thought was do I want to Be conscious while I burn to death or remove my face piece and quickly suffocate. My daughter at the time was 4 months old an I decided that if I removed my face piece that I would be quitting and if I was going to die it would be fighting till the last breath. Luckily my crew got to me an freed me from the collapse. I had several broken ribs bruised kidneys lacerated liver and a ruptured spleen but I made it. What i took from that was no matter how hard things get or how hopeless a situation seems. It’s better to go out fighting your guts out than to simply say this is to hard I can’t do it and quit. It can’t rain all the time eventually the sun will show its face again and quitting just isn’t an option. Live life every minute like it could be you last because honestly it could be. Slow down an take in your “normal everyday” because in the end we all leave the same way we came, with nothing. Tell the people you love in you life how you feel about them every chance you get because one day for all of us could be the last time you have the opportunity to tell them!
The stories this guy can tell, he’s probably forgotten more about events and people then he could fill 100 books with. Really such an interesting guy. Keep up the great work
@@makclio172 People of your mantality . make me shake my head .. one thing gaurenteed in this like is Death .no matter what Death comes . No Rhyme or reason how ones gonna go Hit by a Car over dose cancer . You dont believe in God or a higher power thats your right .. But dont be busting someone els's Balls that Does .. We all have things wrong with us .. sometimes it shows up early or shows up Late . It is what it is . Its life .
The section at the end where he speaks about holding grudges and how detrimental to us is really profound. I wasted too much of my life with this mentality, thank God I saw the folly of it. Cheers
I lost sight of my 2 year old son in a playground once. Got distracted for a second, turned back he was gone. 1st minute was just annoyed, surely he's here somewhere, 2nd minute the panic started, and by minute 3 I'm frantic. I found him after 10 minutes climbing a tree. But in those last minutes my imagination put me through a hell I never want to experience again. I would have gladly given my life just to know he was safe. I've experienced fear in the past, life threatening fear...but never anything like that.
That may be true if your in the mob! It may be true if your talking to a GENERAL IN THE MILTARY,but since my creator gave me free will to think for my self, i can argue to kingdom comes, if i have the facts to think im right! untill proven wrong! and thats why im not in the military, or the mob! But I did get married, "yes dear, no dear! just shot a hole in my own boat! Anetas husband!
@@anetajohnson8446 if you argue with the boss anywhere you will get fired or stay in a shit job. You're creator gave you sense enough to know If you make the boss lose face you're an idiot but if you go to him in private and explain yourself not only will you get what you want (probably) but they will see that you allowed them to save face in front of everyone. Never make the boss look bad make them look good. That's how you get ahead. Go ahead and do what you want, you have free will of course and you might be right. But you cant eat being right, it doesnt pay any bills.
@@joshschaeffer3300 If they give you an opportunity to explain, fine. If they don't and just dump on you, then they are planning to make you unexpectedly unemployed at some not too distant point in the future, rely on it. Hold your tongue, while finding something else and then politely giving whatever notice your start date with new employer allows.
Everything in brother Franzese’s narrative seems aimed at lessons learned, warnings, and _hope._ He’s not looking to use words that wow; everything’s purposeful, selfless. Mammoth admiration. 💛🙏🏼
Exactly. And through all the story I'm picturing a young Peter Greene as a young Michael Franzese, sweating as he walks down those steps of the basement apartment in Brooklyn.
Mr. Franzese tells his memories and stories with such fervor and charisma it’s hard not remember them word for word. I really dig this content. Smart man.
At 41 I have a new life coach & mentor!! A former Mob Boss! Loving the videos..... This one was fantastic. Thank you Mr. Franzese for exposing your life to the world to help us in some way. 🙏
Something always stuck with me about Mr Franzese. When he said always remember to say please thankyou and excuse me. (Manners cost nothing) Thankyou for the things I have learnt since I started following you Mr Franzese.
@@sanfranciscobay Thankyou for the link. And yes I have heard Mr Franzese mention manners and how to conduct yourself in prison a few times, a valuable lesson his father Mr Franzese Snr passed down to him.
@@somniumisdreaming Forget women’s lib...I wanta follow this guy anywhere! What a brilliant mind to calmly quickly process the problem and deliver an outcome that satisfies all parties. During discussion he is coming up with solutions To what does he want, what can I be satisfied with, what makes the mob happy? Geeze I need a refurbished brain. Even my computer don’t spit out answers to problems like Michael does. Yal he would have made a very good doctor but God had another higher challenge for Michael. God speed and bless you Michael and keep you safe.
But listen to what he says. His numbers don't add up. He claims he made up to 40 cents a gallon on half billion gallons. That's 200 million not 24 million lol.
I used to work the front door at a Helmsley hotel on Madison and every time Gotti came in to the bar with his crew, he put a $50 in my hand. We all loved him
Yeah man that’s cool. One night I was outside a bar and Gianni Russo walked up to me and told me a couple war stories from the good old days over in rockaway boulevard, ain’t that cool? 😂😂😂
One day I was chilling with Pablo Escabar and guess who happened to walk in the bar, Carlo Gambino! We had a few drinks then went back to Freeway Rick Ross' to carry on the party. We got a ride home from there by Sammy the Bull and had a good chat El Chapo who was in the back seat.
Polished calacutta marble, although it could be a reconstituted quartz. Hard to tell from here though because the recon industry have advanced inleaps and bounds towards perfecting the marble look in the last few years.
When you think you're facing death your perception of life changes, all the things you worried about and stressed about seem so empty because this is it. It changes how you live your life and the things you care about. For me, it gave me freedom and peace and a realization that I'm lucky to still be here.
I've been dealing with my own resentment for some time now, and listening to your story has really helped me. Hanging on to that resentment only harms yourself. Thank you for your hard won wisdom Michael.
Not being American, I've purely stumbled upon this via watching the Fear City documentary. The articulateness, honesty and self-awareness of Michael is truly uplifting. Absolutely brilliant content.
@Peter20 well then you’re delusional. Every bit of logic says you’re delusional and you just can’t argue with that. Have you seen Santa clause and the tooth fairy also? Because it’s exactly the same idea
let's admit it. The best criminals are the ones who know when to quit. Crime is like gambling, stop whilst you're ahead and the government won't be able to find the evidence needed to convict.
I was in my basement listening to this. My mother came down and heard you stick up for the lord. Nothing but respect for you as a person and someone of influence. God bless you .
He may of been something of a legend in the mob, but Jeez he is killing it as a motivational speaker. This helped alot Micheal thank you. The part about father's love you but still let you down hit deep
Michael Franzese yeah I love your stories too I’m in Canada and in Toronto they caught a lot of mob guys was on the news seems like it’s hard to be a mob now everyone getting caught only way is through legit business
Anytime i see a video with you i have to watch you speak. You’re so genuine when you talk and that lends all the credibility I need to listen and take you seriously . And your faith and praise for Jesus Christ speaks volumes for the sincerity of your character. Another great video. God Bless you Mike!
Forty years ago I had the pleasure to hear stories from an elderly mobster who was connected to bootlegging in D.C. in that era. He also had great insight as this man does.
@@michaelfranzese as someone who left a similar life very young, and had that "I could have had money" thought in the back of my head, watching your content just lets me know I ultimately made the correct decision. Thank you! I'm very grateful for you, and the experiences you share.
This is perhaps one of my favorite of Michael's stories about the life that I return to because of the lessons in it, the first being, the importance of keeping your head in an intense situation. There are many people that would not have walked away from that meeting because they would have let their emotions take over, get mad and say a bunch of stuff they shouldn't have said. And out here in the civilian world people are getting tripped up every day because they simply have no control over themselves.
Man that thing he said that if you’re here then someway somehow you’ve overcome what you’re afraid of or struggling with... that hit me. Love this guy!
If you haven't read hit book, I definitely recommend it! It's incredible! It's called " Blood Covenant" hands down the best book I've ever read. He goes into so much more detail on how everything started, how it was when he was on the streets, and where it ended. Again, you definitely gotta check it out
Words from the heart, go to the heart. Michael, this story made me cry, that you experienced the worst betrayal (from your own father) and kept your sanity and your faith.
No father would do that to his son. A Good father would have taken the hit FOR his son. His dad did not love him as much as he loved his dad. I'm sorry to say.
Mr. Franzese, thank you for sharing this story. I was so moved by it, I felt compelled to write to you to express my appreciation. This was a very fascinating and amazing story. It hit home for me on many levels, especially with your reflections and comments surrounding the strained relationship with your father. You commented on being disappointed by his actions and you also said that you have disappointed your children. Your advice to "move on" and forgive is so true and healing. I have to share this video with my children, as I have a strained relationship with my oldest daughter. I let her down and I have not been able to fully make amends as she keeps me at a distance. Again, the sharing of this story is very much appreciated and I thank you. On an unrelated note, I have been watching your UA-cam videos and I find them all very interesting. I wish you all the best in your endeavors. God Bless. FSR
I'm a non believer, but I don't know why some people insult others for their beliefs. If you're religious or not and your going to judge someone do it based on the person they are, and respect their faith regardless of your own beliefs. Life's too short to be arguing and hating each other.
@@makclio172 I am judging you not because of your religious belief but because of your lack of respect I know damn well your parents raised you better to not judge other people’s religion
@@makclio172 some non believers act like they’re expert at every religion they know everything. let em believe what they want to they won’t lose anything
Make no mistake, Michael, God knows how, and when, and where, and who to use to get the job done. He loved you before your father was born. I love this ministry; it's so unique, and you have a real gift of wisdom. Use it!
@@michaelfranzese Iam Dealing With A Biker Crew, I Got Into It With Their Prez Over Some BS That Happen'd 20 Yrs Ago... They've Already Want'd A Sit-Down & I Refused To Go, Then They Sent 3 Bikers To Pound On My Door, But I Was Gone At The Time, Then I Got Phone Calls, Calling Me Out, 20 vs 1 Is Not Good Odds... My Question To U Is: How Would U Handle It ???
This is the third time I have listened to you tell this story. It has not changed one bit. Man you are the real deal. God bless you my friend and brother in Christ. Thankyou for speaking truth. I think your clothes are done.
Out of all of the ex-mobsters on UA-cam, Michael Franzese is the most credible! I am a huge follower of everything having to do with La Cosa Nostra. As a Military History grad student, I look for authenticity and facts when reading or watching mob-related videos. Great episode Mike!
Fascinating Mike. You would not be human if you were not scared. I'm glad you are still around. Keep it up, Mike. I'm a Christian too in fact it's my name.God bless America .
This man commands a room. As he talks at the camera, you can see he would have that calm rage, telling you to shut up and sit down with just one glance.
really? watch all of his videos and see how many times he contradicts himself. He's entertaining, he's intelligent and well spoken, but I don't think half of what is said is true. If it is, I'll happily eat crow, but um "omerta" anyone? He can't spill this many secrets, even on dead men, and still be breathing if he's legit.
My greatest fear is to become homeless with no future in sight. I have been working since i was 18 and doing good, but my worst fear would be to lose my job and my apartment and become a bum. I really enjoy your videoes and your morale. Your a good person man. Thank you for all these exciting stories. I even get the chills from hearing this one. Much respect and kind regards from Denmark
Michael, thank you so much for this. I grew up very different than you but I’ve also been fascinated and quite frankly terrified of the mob life. I grew up a church kid and somewhat sheltered. I was pre med, but then changed and became a minister. I’ve pastored churches, worked for hospice and as a hospital chaplain. I appreciate your Christian message. Truly inspiring.
I can’t stop listening!! Stumbled upon a video just today, and have listened to 7 clips today. So captivating, interesting, and moving!! Thank you and bless you and your family sir!!
I absolutely love your stories. And boy can you tell them well. Such an interesting man,and im glad you got your own channel, instead of others growing from your fame. Keep them coming sir! Anxiously awaiting your next video. Be safe and be well!
it was good you forgave your father, he was a frightened human, and could probably never handle what he really did, he needed your compassion. God Bless you and thank you for your testimony.
Mr. Franzese, those words about "parents disappointing their children" and "uselessness of holding grudges" hit the nerve. It shows how despite being from different generations, different cultures and living such contrasting lives, we are all human and go through very similar pain. Thank you for sharing the lesson you learnt in your own (singularly extraordinary) life. The way you described it, the way you put it, sheds a new light on my own situation; and if didn't entirely solve it, it did ease the long lasting anger. Please, keep coaching. Your very non-judgemental style (where you yourself done the other side) makes your advices valuable and genuine. P.S. Could you tell us about the books you read while in captivity? Your language and manner of speaking are better than those of many academics.
I absolutely love Michael and his wife, Cammy. I find him so easy to listen too and watch. He is so interesting. He always has inspiring things to say and shows that you can come out better from any situation. God bless you and your family Michael ♥️🙏🏼
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I'm 67, I have 3 sons, 47, 30, 27. I'm Italian/ American. I had a beef with my eldest. It's been 6 years since we spoke. Your wisdom opened my eyes Micheal. I'm gonna reach out to him...because of you. Thanks.
Great Idea.
hope it went well buddy
Good luck!
How do you have beef with your own son? Coward.
@@Unknown-zt8mz extreme things do happen with family. Because you’re so close/connected. Could you tell me what body of water you walked on the day you posted this? Unreal.
Man when this guy tells a story you can picture yourself there as a bystander watching everything unfold👍
For real !! It’s like ur there !!
He's a great story teller. He most definitely should write a couple of books with his stories.
Glad I wasn't a bystander my black ass would have been whacked.
Usually happens when people are not lying
@@saulfigueroa8589 I'm pretty sure he has written a couple books
This is literally some of THE BEST content now available on UA-cam.
Michael Franzese do you appreciate me also?
Couldn't agree more! I also like to share with my atheist friends. I mean I am hard core Catholic, so some creative evangelizing is called for🙏🙏🙏❤ God bless everyone
Michael you deserve more subscribers. Your very inspirational
Completely agree.
Agreed!
Amazing testimony. When he mentioned Christ I had to pause and hold back my emotions. God bless you brother.
The ultimate hypocrisy.
He who is sin free can cast the first stone
Dan Plyler, he's the real deal. Don't hold back your emotions, CHRIST shed tears for us. GOD BLESS YOU
Amen
Michael, your Christian beliefs work for you, and I am happy you have that in your life. Here’s where I draw the line though. Don’t disrespect me and my beliefs by insisting that, despite my lifetime of working to be the best person I can be, I will go to your fictional Hell. That absolute belief encompasses such arrogance and disrespect and attempts to intimidate non-Christians. It closes off the opportunity for an equal relationship based upon mutual respect and trust. Believe whatever want, but don’t wield it as a club to recruit converts.
Actually came close to killing myself last night, this lockdown has destroyed my life, lost my job, in the process of losing my home, the isolation on top of everything just tipped me over the edge. Put on this video totally totally randomly, just trying to distract myself from how miserable I'm feeling and really wasn't expecting a random youtube video from an ex mobster to give me a lift, thanks dude you really helped me today.
Hey man, look up the story of Colonel Harlan K. Sanders who started Kentucky Fried Chicken after the age of 65. It is never too late to start over.
Hang in there man, said a prayer for you.
Hang in there king. You'll get out of it, I promise.
Think about how far you've made it. You started as primordial ooze. Your ancestors barely survived. You are the strongest and most resilient life in the universe. Don't give up now, or ever. There is an unbroken chain that starts at the beginning of time and leads to you. You are vitally important.
Hey dont go there man, dont go in that dark place in your mind because it is hard to escape it. Just push trough day at the time till you feel better and then start looking for a job, hobby etc.
When he said “ when you think your about to meet your maker you start to pray “I felt that
It's a thing I strongly agree with. I don't have a religious bone in my body. But in a really dire situation, I would just give it a shot. Nothing to lose there.
Also another thing to be mentioned, if someone draws strength out of their faith, sure thing, go for it.
@Hi nothing happens. That's it. As I said, good for you if you draw strength or motivation out of your faith. But that's your way to deal with things. Not mine. Don't bother trying, that won't change.
None of your business you think this whole universe so great and everlasting isn’t someone’s creation you think evolution made us ha maybe the animals but not us there’s something greater then us and that’s god your lose if you don’t believe it God of Abraham issac and of Israel is the one true god a true god not made of wood and stone
Me to it's happened to me few times you do. In public private wherever you are you pray out loud
If u can
They need to make a movie about Michael Franzese , his stories are mind-blowing
Yep, he has have. Had some life, but has a goodness in him
I would love for them to make a movie about his life💯 very interesting
They need to make a movie about his old man
I think they should make one about him and his father. The stories between both of them would make an amazing movie about the Mob life.
He needs a tv series
This guy is the best storyteller of our day. He has the voice and delivery we all wish we had. Thank God he uses his talent for good.
Italians have to be one of the greatest storytellers of all time. It's like listening to an audio book..all the details, so descriptive.
Love it!
@Ian you sounds jealous kid
Michael Franzese = honor, integrity, honesty, and loyalty. A man's man. Much respect!
Not the typical way to describe a mobster. I think it's great though when people can turn their lives around and learn and grow from their experiences.
😂
Btw, everyone...I meant by my earlier comment that this is a description of who he is NOW. Not in his life in La Cosa Nostra; just to be clear. Christ can change ANYONE, and this gentleman is a prime example of just that. Peace and love to all of you, and may God continue to richly bless you and your family, Mr. Michael Franzese. Respect!
Michael is an amazingly gifted public speaker. He definitely has that special something, that “it” factor. Captivating speaker to say the least.
Prolly helped him in that life.
He has the charisma of a leader.
A 20 min video with zero cuts? Unheard of in current UA-cam speakers. This man is a legend and a National treasure.
My mom died fairly young recently and my dad dealt with it rather selfishly and it hurt and has hurt. You’re wisdom here of saying that parents and fathers disappoint has helped me. It helps me to forgive him and move on because I have been quietly very resentful. I think healing can begin. Thanks Mr. Franzese
"Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us."
Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to get sick!
Or expecting them to die.
The Buddha one of his many and great teachings
That's a good way to put it!!!
Love that statement! Is that a James Nelson orginal?
@@GT60616 The Buddha homie
" I wasn't religious, but when you think you're about to meet your maker, you start praying" ~ Micheal Franzese
There's no atheists in foxholes
Nope, not me.
@@babayaga1767 that doesn't change the status quo
He was born Catholic
Linda Wilson no, he was born an atheist like everyone
Just listening to Michael tell these storys you could close your eyes and its like watching a movie.
He is a Good storyteller
Facts
Wish I had his courage
I could listen to him forever. I love hearing all about his experiences
Hi Micheal. My biggest fear in life was having a child. Not because I didn’t want one. But because I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to support him, to be there for him. I grew up without my father. I never knew him and he didn’t want anything to do with me. When given the option to see me he chose to just pay child support and that was it.
I was afraid I was going to be just like him. When I had my son Jesse, my life got 200x better, I was the happiest person in the world I love and would do anything for him. He has everything he could ever want and more. I never understood why my father didn’t want anything to do with me, but I know one thing. I’m a damn happy to have my son.
Be the best man you can be for your son and family and god will bless you with more blessings and more life 💯👌🏾
Only way for a son or daughter to make up for a bad or just negligent parent is to do better than they did
I’m in a similar situation right now. How old were you when you had your child if you don’t mind me asking? I’m 21, and I got a girl pregnant. She wants to keep it even though we are both not ready, and I’m terrified. For me, I have the opposite background, I have a great dad and supportive family, so it kills me that I won’t be able to be as good of a dad. I still want to start my career and explore the world, but I feel like my life is over, I feel like I died and I’m now a ghost. How has this effected your life and what are some of the challenges? I just don’t see any scenario where this turns out well for me and my dreams, and the well-being of this child. I didn’t plan for kids until I was at least 30-35.
@@Zombikilla10789 bro, everything will be alright. I found out my girl was pregnant when I was 19. I was scared and I was not making the best choices in life. But when you hold that child in your hands, your instincts kick in and you will love that child more than you thought you could love. Your child will love you no matter what your job is. You will be their world.. I made sacrifices, I had to grow up, it wasn’t easy I won’t lie. But everything will be okay my man. The mother and I didn’t work out.. but luckily we have a good coparenting relationship. Just be responsible.. do your best to provide.. and always be there for your child and I promise you everything will be okay.
This is the only channel on UA-cam that doesn’t have shitty comments and actually people sharing their stories and appreciating the content. Love it
Hi Micheal. My biggest fear in life was having a child. Not because I didn’t want one. But because I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to support him, to be there for him. I grew up without my father. I never knew him and he didn’t want anything to do with me. When given the option to see me he chose to just pay child support and that was it.
I was afraid I was going to be just like him. When I had my son Jesse, my life got 200x better, I was the happiest person in the world I love and would do anything for him. He has everything he could ever want and more. I never understood why my father didn’t want anything to do with me, but I know one thing. I’m a damn happy to have my son.
I know he tells a lot of the same stories in the same way with the same quotes, but I flipping love this man.
Right. He’s an amazing speaker and his life story is so fascinating
Totally agree, I can listen to him all day, god bless Michael
Some things bear repeating
That typically means a person is telling the truth...lies change truth stays the same
I'm always impressed by Micheal's sincerity and soul searching.
Most fearful moment! Years ago when I was working as a firefighter. Had a structure fire an the roof collapsed an I was pinned to the floor face down for over 8 minutes. With the fire burning around me I realized this was probably the end. My next thought was do I want to Be conscious while I burn to death or remove my face piece and quickly suffocate. My daughter at the time was 4 months old an I decided that if I removed my face piece that I would be quitting and if I was going to die it would be fighting till the last breath. Luckily my crew got to me an freed me from the collapse. I had several broken ribs bruised kidneys lacerated liver and a ruptured spleen but I made it. What i took from that was no matter how hard things get or how hopeless a situation seems. It’s better to go out fighting your guts out than to simply say this is to hard I can’t do it and quit. It can’t rain all the time eventually the sun will show its face again and quitting just isn’t an option. Live life every minute like it could be you last because honestly it could be. Slow down an take in your “normal everyday” because in the end we all leave the same way we came, with nothing. Tell the people you love in you life how you feel about them every chance you get because one day for all of us could be the last time you have the opportunity to tell them!
Glad your still here to tell the tale and enjoying yourself.
What a story
Man... I love this so much and what a time to read this message. Hope you're doing well my friend.
Glad you're still here with your loved ones and enjoying life. Very inspiring story. Best to you and yours. Be safe in these times. Peace.
Thank you very much for sharing man.
The stories this guy can tell, he’s probably forgotten more about events and people then he could fill 100 books with. Really such an interesting guy. Keep up the great work
Wow, what a story. The Lord was always walking beside Michael.
You really cannot deny that. You hear the stories this man tells us, you can clearly see that the Lord made a distinct path for Michael to follow.
So it was walking beside Micheal yet turned a blind eye to bone cancer in children. Yeah great logic
@@makclio172 not sure what you mean.
@@makclio172
People of your mantality .
make me shake my head .. one thing gaurenteed in this like is Death .no matter what Death comes .
No Rhyme or reason how ones gonna go Hit by a Car over dose cancer . You dont believe in God or a higher power thats your right .. But dont be busting someone els's Balls that Does ..
We all have things wrong with us .. sometimes it shows up early or shows up Late . It is what it is . Its life .
David Barton if he has a plan then why does Micheal have the right to chance that said plan..... really evaluate what you just said..
Michael. Our Father is smiling on you as you continue sharing your relationship with God in a way people can relate with.
🤗
It’s amazing to see how Michael has changed his life around completely
The section at the end where he speaks about holding grudges and how detrimental to us is really profound. I wasted too much of my life with this mentality, thank God I saw the folly of it. Cheers
This kind of stories give me the strenght to go on despite the betrayals of loved ones that you find in life
I lost sight of my 2 year old son in a playground once. Got distracted for a second, turned back he was gone. 1st minute was just annoyed, surely he's here somewhere, 2nd minute the panic started, and by minute 3 I'm frantic. I found him after 10 minutes climbing a tree. But in those last minutes my imagination put me through a hell I never want to experience again. I would have gladly given my life just to know he was safe. I've experienced fear in the past, life threatening fear...but never anything like that.
shows u how fast shit can happen
"you don't argue with the boss...right or wrong, you don't argue with the boss".... powerful words
That may be true if your in the mob! It may be true if your talking to a GENERAL IN THE MILTARY,but since my creator gave me free will to think for my self, i can argue to kingdom comes, if i have the facts to think im right! untill proven wrong! and thats why im not in the military, or the mob! But I did get married, "yes dear, no dear! just shot a hole in my own boat! Anetas husband!
@@anetajohnson8446 as a christian, you don't argue with God.
end up at slip and fall school
@@anetajohnson8446 if you argue with the boss anywhere you will get fired or stay in a shit job. You're creator gave you sense enough to know If you make the boss lose face you're an idiot but if you go to him in private and explain yourself not only will you get what you want (probably) but they will see that you allowed them to save face in front of everyone. Never make the boss look bad make them look good. That's how you get ahead. Go ahead and do what you want, you have free will of course and you might be right. But you cant eat being right, it doesnt pay any bills.
@@joshschaeffer3300 If they give you an opportunity to explain, fine. If they don't and just dump on you, then they are planning to make you unexpectedly unemployed at some not too distant point in the future, rely on it. Hold your tongue, while finding something else and then politely giving whatever notice your start date with new employer allows.
Crazy story, showing how valuable and short life really is.
Quote from 1996 Gotti: "This whole fucking thing lasts 5 minutes"
Everything in brother Franzese’s narrative seems aimed at lessons learned, warnings, and _hope._ He’s not looking to use words that wow; everything’s purposeful, selfless. Mammoth admiration. 💛🙏🏼
Now *that* is a great story. The bit about his father gave me chills.
Mike looks younger than everybody at his age dear God...
The guy is alive, telling the story... and it's still a little scary as hell.
Agreed. The $ can't be worth it. The setup of this meeting wasn't right.
Exactly. And through all the story I'm picturing a young Peter Greene as a young Michael Franzese, sweating as he walks down those steps of the basement apartment in Brooklyn.
Mr. Franzese tells his memories and stories with such fervor and charisma it’s hard not remember them word for word. I really dig this content. Smart man.
At 41 I have a new life coach & mentor!! A former Mob Boss! Loving the videos..... This one was fantastic. Thank you Mr. Franzese for exposing your life to the world to help us in some way. 🙏
Something always stuck with me about Mr Franzese. When he said always remember to say please thankyou and excuse me. (Manners cost nothing) Thankyou for the things I have learnt since I started following you Mr Franzese.
I remember that from one of his videos. Do you remember which one and at what time stamp?
This video at 30.30 he says it but it's regarding how to behave in prison. ua-cam.com/video/5U-yqm9H_Sg/v-deo.html
@@sanfranciscobay Thankyou for the link. And yes I have heard Mr Franzese mention manners and how to conduct yourself in prison a few times, a valuable lesson his father Mr Franzese Snr passed down to him.
I feel this guy’s honesty. It’s humbling.
Lmao
@@somniumisdreaming
Forget women’s lib...I wanta follow this guy anywhere! What a brilliant mind to calmly quickly process the problem and deliver an outcome that satisfies all parties. During discussion he is coming up with solutions
To what does he want, what can I be satisfied with, what makes the mob happy?
Geeze I need a refurbished brain. Even my computer don’t spit out answers to problems like Michael does. Yal he would have made a very good doctor but God had another higher challenge for Michael. God speed and bless you Michael and keep you safe.
This guy's one of the greatest. No nonsense. Always interesting to listen to.
Fred Farley bro facts he might be the realist monster ever..
But listen to what he says. His numbers don't add up. He claims he made up to 40 cents a gallon on half billion gallons. That's 200 million not 24 million lol.
I am nobody but you have my respect, Mr. Franzese. I paused the video at 18:00 to write these lines after the story with Jimmy.
Franzese’s stories are so incredible and you could never get bored listening to this guy
God bless you Michael. Love these stories and your faith based messages.
Don’t steal from the government, they hate competition!😂🤣
😂😂😂
I've always said, don't touch the government's hip pocket, that's when they WILL come after you!🙁
For every lousy cent!🙊🙉🙈
Oof
Right now they're taking us for a long walk on a short pier.
🤣🤣🤣
Exactly Michael. You never let anyone steal your joy. Never.
I used to work the front door at a Helmsley hotel on Madison and every time Gotti came in to the bar with his crew, he put a $50 in my hand. We all loved him
Really? that is cool.
Yeah man that’s cool. One night I was outside a bar and Gianni Russo walked up to me and told me a couple war stories from the good old days over in rockaway boulevard, ain’t that cool? 😂😂😂
@@yourlocalbossman1359 can you believe it?
Wow what a big deal, where did the scumbag get the money from, did he work for it, no, he stole it from someone who did,
One day I was chilling with Pablo Escabar and guess who happened to walk in the bar, Carlo Gambino! We had a few drinks then went back to Freeway Rick Ross' to carry on the party.
We got a ride home from there by Sammy the Bull and had a good chat El Chapo who was in the back seat.
Christ, I’m at the age where I watched this video and spent as much time admiring the countertops/kitchen as I did this legends story
Haha. Glad I’m not the only one
I'm 30 and was thinking the same thing
But did u guys see the fridge!?!?
@@jennifertierney9318 definitely
Polished calacutta marble, although it could be a reconstituted quartz. Hard to tell from here though because the recon industry have advanced inleaps and bounds towards perfecting the marble look in the last few years.
When you think you're facing death your perception of life changes, all the things you worried about and stressed about seem so empty because this is it. It changes how you live your life and the things you care about. For me, it gave me freedom and peace and a realization that I'm lucky to still be here.
I've been dealing with my own resentment for some time now, and listening to your story has really helped me. Hanging on to that resentment only harms yourself. Thank you for your hard won wisdom Michael.
Not being American, I've purely stumbled upon this via watching the Fear City documentary. The articulateness, honesty and self-awareness of Michael is truly uplifting. Absolutely brilliant content.
My last sit down was my parents asking me if I smoked weed in the bathroom. I pleaded the fifth.
Fif!
Shoulda lawyered up
Would just sparked one up and been like hell yea i did you guys wanna try this kush or what *cough
Why you that stupid to begin with? That smell doesn't leave for hours especially for people who don't smoke lol
@@joeyzwier Especially if you don't plug the gap under the doors, the entire house will smell like a chief keef concert.
Great way to share the gospel Michael, thank you!
Semper Gumby!
Great way to spread bullshit that dosent have any proof. Think.
@@makclio172 sad sack
@@makclio172 😭bro just let them be
@Peter20 well then you’re delusional. Every bit of logic says you’re delusional and you just can’t argue with that. Have you seen Santa clause and the tooth fairy also? Because it’s exactly the same idea
Phenomenal story teller. When Franzese says he was afraid, you believe it. It's palpable.
Scary situation, handled that very well
Michael will never know how many people he has helped turn their lives around.
let's admit it. The best criminals are the ones who know when to quit. Crime is like gambling, stop whilst you're ahead and the government won't be able to find the evidence needed to convict.
I was in my basement listening to this. My mother came down and heard you stick up for the lord. Nothing but respect for you as a person and someone of influence. God bless you .
He may of been something of a legend in the mob, but Jeez he is killing it as a motivational speaker. This helped alot Micheal thank you. The part about father's love you but still let you down hit deep
Learned a lot of discipline and respect and how to interact accordingly with people in general from these videos! Great content
@@michaelfranzese Really interesting to listen to your stories!
Michael Franzese yeah I love your stories too I’m in Canada and in Toronto they caught a lot of mob guys was on the news seems like it’s hard to be a mob now everyone getting caught only way is through legit business
Anytime i see a video with you i have to watch you speak. You’re so genuine when you talk and that lends all the credibility I need to listen and take you seriously . And your faith and praise for Jesus Christ speaks volumes for the sincerity of your character. Another great video. God Bless you Mike!
@@michaelfranzese great advice and i do believe and have the trust in faith
Saw him about 10 years ago at saddleback church, great speaker, but I got to admit that gas tax thing is classi
Watched this a while back . Yet I’m listening again. I love the history . Greatful to be here listening to an boss.
Me too 😂
Forty years ago I had the pleasure to hear stories from an elderly mobster who was connected to bootlegging in D.C. in that era.
He also had great insight as this man does.
I was having a rough day when I watched this, your words at the end of the video picked me up. Thanks!!
I respect this man for his honesty.God bless him.
You're really doing a lot of good for a lot of people. I take away a lot from your videos.
Just now getting into all of your stuff Michael..... I really love it!!
@@michaelfranzese as someone who left a similar life very young, and had that "I could have had money" thought in the back of my head, watching your content just lets me know I ultimately made the correct decision. Thank you! I'm very grateful for you, and the experiences you share.
@@michaelfranzese Have you ever tried to or consider pursuing your medical degree?
Michael replied to you, your so fn lucky
This is perhaps one of my favorite of Michael's stories about the life that I return to because of the lessons in it, the first being, the importance of keeping your head in an intense situation. There are many people that would not have walked away from that meeting because they would have let their emotions take over, get mad and say a bunch of stuff they shouldn't have said. And out here in the civilian world people are getting tripped up every day because they simply have no control over themselves.
Man that thing he said that if you’re here then someway somehow you’ve overcome what you’re afraid of or struggling with... that hit me. Love this guy!
Even though Michael had been part of 'that life' he showed how good of a person he was compared. Thank you Mike
He goes in so much detail it's like being there
If you haven't read hit book, I definitely recommend it! It's incredible! It's called " Blood Covenant" hands down the best book I've ever read. He goes into so much more detail on how everything started, how it was when he was on the streets, and where it ended. Again, you definitely gotta check it out
Words from the heart, go to the heart. Michael, this story made me cry, that you experienced the worst betrayal (from your own father) and kept your sanity and your faith.
No father would do that to his son. A Good father would have taken the hit FOR his son. His dad did not love him as much as he loved his dad. I'm sorry to say.
Love hearing this mans stories. Seems like a standup guy
@kalico kat not even funny
kalico kat Don’t quit your day job; comedy isn’t your thing.
Michael you are a very rare breed, "You hold to the courage of your convictions"
This man is truly brilliant. Regardless of his past life, you have to admire his courage.
Mr. Franzese, thank you for sharing this story. I was so moved by it, I felt compelled to write to you to express my appreciation. This was a very fascinating and amazing story. It hit home for me on many levels, especially with your reflections and comments surrounding the strained relationship with your father. You commented on being disappointed by his actions and you also said that you have disappointed your children. Your advice to "move on" and forgive is so true and healing. I have to share this video with my children, as I have a strained relationship with my oldest daughter. I let her down and I have not been able to fully make amends as she keeps me at a distance. Again, the sharing of this story is very much appreciated and I thank you. On an unrelated note, I have been watching your UA-cam videos and I find them all very interesting. I wish you all the best in your endeavors. God Bless. FSR
I'm a non believer, but I don't know why some people insult others for their beliefs. If you're religious or not and your going to judge someone do it based on the person they are, and respect their faith regardless of your own beliefs. Life's too short to be arguing and hating each other.
Yeah, religious people are just brainwashed and weak and can’t think for themselves
@Dean Thomas which of the gods are you talking about?
@@makclio172 I am judging you not because of your religious belief but because of your lack of respect I know damn well your parents raised you better to not judge other people’s religion
@@homersimpson6585 always question people that claim to know the answers (every religion)
@@makclio172 some non believers act like they’re expert at every religion they know everything. let em believe what they want to they won’t lose anything
"The boss is the boss and thats how it is hes the boss." I would have probably been crapping bricks. God bless you Michael!
You can see the frustration on his face and in his voice regarding his father at THE meeting.
Make no mistake, Michael, God knows how, and when, and where, and who to use to get the job done. He loved you before your father was born. I love this ministry; it's so unique, and you have a real gift of wisdom. Use it!
God bless you for still loving your dad. And that sounded like a really scary story. I respect you for telling that story.
I like Michael. He has alot of wisdom from his life experiences. We could learn alot from him
@@michaelfranzese
Iam Dealing With A Biker Crew, I Got Into It With Their Prez Over Some BS That Happen'd 20 Yrs Ago...
They've Already Want'd A Sit-Down & I Refused To Go, Then They Sent 3 Bikers To Pound On My Door, But I Was Gone At The Time, Then I Got Phone Calls, Calling Me Out, 20 vs 1 Is Not Good Odds... My Question To U Is: How Would U Handle It ???
My God, what an amazing story. Someone in the comments said this is the best content out on UA-cam right now and I have to fully agree.
This is the third time I have listened to you tell this story. It has not changed one bit. Man you are the real deal. God bless you my friend and brother in Christ. Thankyou for speaking truth. I think your clothes are done.
Forgot to mention I heard story in three different videos
Forgot to mention that the story was recounted in three different videos
One of the best messages that mike has talked about.giving back to others with positive message in every story!
Out of all of the ex-mobsters on UA-cam, Michael Franzese is the most credible! I am a huge follower of everything having to do with La Cosa Nostra. As a Military History grad student, I look for authenticity and facts when reading or watching mob-related videos. Great episode Mike!
By the looks of kitchen in the background it looks like Mr Franzese is doing very well!! Good job
Fascinating Mike. You would not be human if you were not scared. I'm glad you are still around. Keep it up, Mike. I'm a Christian too in fact it's my name.God bless America .
Death of a loved one is something we'll never get over but rather we learn to live with it.
I am a Latino American but I love hearing about Mob and Cosa Nostra stories
No matter what’s your race or ethnicity Gangster is gangster
Look Jay not only was he and his father a respected man in the mob, they had the gift of knowing how to make powerful men feel important.
This man commands a room. As he talks at the camera, you can see he would have that calm rage, telling you to shut up and sit down with just one glance.
I can listen to your stories all day. Your heart is purer than most non mob people that I know.
people can say anything about mike BUT he’s no doubt the real deal
really? watch all of his videos and see how many times he contradicts himself. He's entertaining, he's intelligent and well spoken, but I don't think half of what is said is true. If it is, I'll happily eat crow, but um "omerta" anyone? He can't spill this many secrets, even on dead men, and still be breathing if he's legit.
I can say anything? Cool.
That guy is a real smuck.
My greatest fear is to become homeless with no future in sight. I have been working since i was 18 and doing good, but my worst fear would be to lose my job and my apartment and become a bum. I really enjoy your videoes and your morale. Your a good person man. Thank you for all these exciting stories. I even get the chills from hearing this one. Much respect and kind regards from Denmark
The fact that I get to watch this for free is insane
Edit: stop replying y'all annoying
dont give youtube any ideas
Nothing's for free
if its free you are the product
I was thinking the same
Couldn't agree anymore. This is better than any film I have seen of this life. Makes you feel like your. There.
Michael, thank you so much for this. I grew up very different than you but I’ve also been fascinated and quite frankly terrified of the mob life. I grew up a church kid and somewhat sheltered. I was pre med, but then changed and became a minister. I’ve pastored churches, worked for hospice and as a hospital chaplain. I appreciate your Christian message. Truly inspiring.
I love you Man.
Thank you for standing up for Christians too.
You’re A Real G.
He doesn’t patronize too much.
Big Facts! Jesus is Lord period
I can’t stop listening!! Stumbled upon a video just today, and have listened to 7 clips today. So captivating, interesting, and moving!! Thank you and bless you and your family sir!!
I absolutely love your stories. And boy can you tell them well. Such an interesting man,and im glad you got your own channel, instead of others growing from your fame. Keep them coming sir! Anxiously awaiting your next video. Be safe and be well!
it was good you forgave your father, he was a frightened human, and could probably never handle what he really did, he needed your compassion. God Bless you and thank you for your testimony.
Mr. Franzese,
those words about "parents disappointing their children" and "uselessness of holding grudges" hit the nerve. It shows how despite being from different generations, different cultures and living such contrasting lives, we are all human and go through very similar pain. Thank you for sharing the lesson you learnt in your own (singularly extraordinary) life. The way you described it, the way you put it, sheds a new light on my own situation; and if didn't entirely solve it, it did ease the long lasting anger. Please, keep coaching. Your very non-judgemental style (where you yourself done the other side) makes your advices valuable and genuine.
P.S. Could you tell us about the books you read while in captivity?
Your language and manner of speaking are better than those of many academics.
I absolutely love Michael and his wife, Cammy. I find him so easy to listen too and watch. He is so interesting. He always has inspiring things to say and shows that you can come out better from any situation.
God bless you and your family Michael ♥️🙏🏼
I feel like I could learn more from Michael in 1 day than I could learn from a Harvard law professor in 1 year. Michael has LIVED LIFE.
Better than the movie could ever portray!! 🙏 so glad you found our father and now share his word!! 🙏