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I loved the video and all of your videos are fantastic sources of information ♡ I do need some clarification about that golden thread technique and how to change the limiting beliefs found by this technique. You explain everything so clearly except that specific golden thread technique that somehow you manage in all your videos to speak about vaguely . Thank you so much for your efforts and wisdom , much love to you all ♡♡
Oh my goodness this is life changing ...... thankyou for posting. Core beliefs (inner child)⁰ are so strong discovering which one of the three lies you believe, then having a dialogue with that belief and changing it can change your life. OMG putting more value on external validation far out my love for me is the most important not the external strokes....... aaaand I see can see the external validation does become a drug that satisfies in the moment u get a hit like sugar 2 minutes later your hungry again. The truth will set you free. Amazing.
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David and Alex, these videos are changing my life. I’ve been in and out of therapy for nearly 30 years and in an unhappy (second) marriage for 20. I have a new lease on life. Thank you.
We're glad the videos are helping yous - thanks for taking the time to watch and comment! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our UA-cam Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ ua-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x
This opening sequence has made a huge difference! I now understand that I can have love for someone and that is a green light feeling for me and also that having a relationship with them is a whole other ball game! Wow! It means I get to keep my green light feelings rather than try to destroy them when a relationship doesn’t happen. Liberating. I feel better. Thank you💚
Hi Jo, thanks for taking the time to watch and comment. We're pleased to hear that this aspect of the teaching helped you. Yes, it is a very liberating way to understand love and relationships, and the dynamic between the two. :)
You are correct :-) I am very passionate about this life-changing subject. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,500 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
There's a famous Australian singer songwriter who had a few hits in the 1990s and a couple of her albums are amongst my all-time favourites. I remember as a teenager hearing a line in one of her songs: "And if God looked me straight in the eye and told me he loved me, I'd think he was lying..." Listening to this talk suddenly reminded me of that. And I remember my mum hearing that line one day and being quite struck, nodding in agreement. (She never talked about feelings, had a traumatic past and was quite emotionally unavailable.) I've never forgotten that moment of her relating to this lyric. It's only now as an adult that I really appreciate the importance of the line and have been learning how to love myself instead of being so desperate to get it from others.
Hi @godsloveAum, Thank you so much for your kind words and for being part of our journey together! It’s a joy to know the teachings are supporting you. Wu Wei Wisdom is here to help everyone connect more deeply with their inner strength and peace. If you’d like to connect further, join our Wu Wei Wisdom community: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. P.S. Exciting News! I've launched David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available. Subscribe for free or join the inner circle: davidjameslees.com Looking forward to sharing this journey with you! Kind Regards, David
This is the greatest teaching I have ever heard about love and loving yourself yes David for many years I looked for validation for others and love that I never got why because it dont exist, I truly appreciate and understand who I am and Loving myself is the key to others loving me and this love as you said come from within and not from no one but our Divine creator. Yes the inner child block me for many years of loving myself I was loving the things outside of me as I put it the things in this world will create a false sense of love it is only within what a great teaching David and Alex no one can love me better than I can Thank you.🎉
Hi, Thank you for sharing your profound insights. Recognising that true love and validation come from within is indeed transformative. Embracing and nurturing your inner child while understanding that external sources often provide a false sense of love is a powerful realization. Keep loving yourself and shining your light, as you are truly unique and valuable. Kind Regards, David
Hi @cecilialao8958, We're so grateful for your support and happy to hear that our message resonates with you. Self-love is indeed a cornerstone of a balanced and harmonious life, essential for nurturing your Shen spirit. Remember, you are worthy of love and respect, especially from yourself. Thank you for being a part of our community and for your continued engagement with our content. ❤️❤️ Kind Regards, David
Thank you. This helped me to identify my inner child’s belief that I’m going to be compared, criticized & judged if I learn how to sew, do T-shirt painting. I also learned that i farmed out my responsibility for myself to my husband & nasty boss. Thank you for helping me identify the lie & ways I need to manipulate others & let them manipulate me. Thank you for reminding me to get down to facts. I believe others have to love me because I’m not good at it. I have to get better at it.
I'm really enjoying this. I suffered a lot of emotional abuse from my parents but haven't been able to move on because my inner child has believed she couldn't be "whole" until her parents apologized for the hurt they caused. This is freeing to accept that I can be whole and full of love regardless of what my parents do or dont do. I'm still very sad and disappointed that I can't be in a close relationship with my parents because they continue to lie and make excuses for their behavior in the present. But my worth doesn't have to be tied to their actions. I've "known" this intellectually, but I hadn't realized thar my inner child has still been believing that she NEEDED that validation from my parents.
Hi Michelle, It’s great to read your story. You could give your Inner Child a big hug from me and tell her that she is AWESOME!! She does NOT need that validation from ANYONE else but herself. David
Watching this again this morning, found this just the other day. I need to embrace the "self-love", and thus become a better man. I have, (sadly), been so dependent on finding "true love, (I.e. Something that equates receiving something even remotely close to the love I feel in my heart). Needless to say, That has NEVER happened. Here at 56, and recently "failing" once again, I'm left seeking answers,...... Thank You both for providing THE Answer, in this loving presentation.... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. #ImSuchaWally 😆
I totally agree about love,it took me 50yrs to realize this,is it easy,by no means,but so self powerful,I always wanted someone to love me,then I can love me,it took me awhile to understand that I had it backwards. I love to listen to your videos
Hi @binglopez4919, Thank you for listening and for your kind words! We’re honored to share these teachings with you. Remember, we’re here for you if there’s anything specific you'd like us to cover. 😊 facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ P.S. Exciting News! I'm launching David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available. Subscribe for free or join the inner circle: davidjameslees.com Looking forward to sharing this journey with you! Kind Regards, David
Thank you so much, David and Alexandra! You break down the process of breakin gdown the reasons for the red light emotions so well! The golden thread process is a simple-to-understand tool and I have been using it succesfully, and have actually, through talking with my inner child, been able to find out about my childhood abuse. Needless to say, it's been such a relief because everything has started making sense. I'll join your FB-group. This channel has been such a big help, thank you so much for showing up and simplifying healing! 😊
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Thank you so much for sharing your teaching and knowledge . I really enjoy them. More than that it is like I am thirsty and you give me fresh cool crystal water. Please continue ❤❤
You are so welcome, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Kind regards, David.
I love the mention of grasping! I believe though that children need a lot of love to flourish. It's hard when you didn't get what you needed. I feel fragmented and alienated. Very hard to connect w others.
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Very eye opening! I definitely needed to hear this. Changes the dynamic. I've been trying to get love outside of me my whole life. Time to turn my focus inward :) Thank you both for sharing!
Hi Big Man, nice to hear from you. Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment. What's your biggest sticking point / emotional block that stops you generating love for yourself? This is a question you could perhaps meditate on. Alex & David x
@@WuWeiWisdom I meditated on your question and I think my biggest sticking point with generating love for myself is having let myself down in the past. I allowed many bad situations to happen in my past that I could have stopped so I feel some self-hatred and therefore feel unworthy of love. In recent years I've been standing up for myself a lot more so I feel more self-love than before but I could always bring more to myself.
@@BigManTate7364 thank you for sharing this powerful personal insight. It's very good to hear that the self-love is flowing more freely for you now. You should not punish yourself for 'mistakes' of the past. We only learn by making mistakes and you (and everyone else!) are NOT perfect. If you hold onto this misunderstanding it will continue to block your Qi flow. You may find this video helpful: ua-cam.com/video/oX9YxIWrEAc/v-deo.html - let us know what you think! x
This is enlightening. I really needed this. I have _so_ wanted to love myself for over 30 years, but I have got caught up with ‘dating game and romantic cultural requirements’ of what I was told do be and do and so I felt that I wasn’t good enough until I was a gentleman. It’s not that I am not one, per se, but I was told that I could _only_ be one if I was to be romantically accepted. Not being a gentleman was simply out of the question! How could I love myself at the time when I wasn’t up to ‘cultural standard’ when it came to loving a woman, for example, when the self that I was loving was told that it didn’t cut the cultural mustard? Through spirituality, I am discovering a whole array of different person types, that ‘gentleman’ (this applies to ‘lady’ too) is but _one_ of them. Thank you so much for this! ❤
Could you please make a video with examples of how to parent your children so they do not grow up believing that love is external? How do I help my children find love within themselves? Thank you for your work! Your videos very much resonate with me! ❤
Hi Morgan, thanks for your video suggestion - we will add this to our list! Have you seen our video on self-love? ua-cam.com/video/-IRP62paGZE/v-deo.html Thanks for all your support - we appreciate it! Alex + David x
So rich! I am Christian and do have a biblical grid and there are differences in my starting point beliefs. Thank you profusely for the wisdom in the teachings. They are, well I have to say, wonderful. So glad to have met you through FB. Thank you for the freedom I'm experiencing through learning to apply the golden thread process. It has "shown up" at a very needed time 🌹
For some reason on watching this video I have red light feelings. I am sitting with my inner child and these red light feelings do not go away. Usually this works, I ask my inner child to talk to me - we have a good conversation and this sorts my feelings as we explore our believes and where they are coming from
Personally"can't be bothered " isn't the right expression for me, it is more that belief that others come first and I have no right to love myself first...but I'm glad that's all changed now! Xx
Hello Yvonne, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. I'm pleased it has all changed now as well. Kind regards, David.
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Thank you so much Alex and David! This is yet another video that is right on time and speaks directly to me! Thank you thank you thank you for your extraordinary work!!!
You are welcome Nick, glad you enjoyed the video. If you have any questions please just ask us as we'll be happy to share the Qi with you :) Alex & David x
Thank you so much. I do love myself, yet not completely seemingly. I cannot date people being completely detached of their actions of love towards me. This is creating red light feelings of fear and still not feeling good enough. For example: I am feeling good about myself and my life, I do love myself. I meet a person I like a lot and with whom I connect well, then after few good dates when he starts to withdraw, keeps 'looking' for other women I do feel not good enough. I accept he does not owe me anything and is free to choose to be in love with me or not. Yet somehow it affects me and that feeling of not being good enough pops up again, I do feel hurt. I still love myself, though as you mention I feel so disappointed and sad. Cause yes I do love myself and I want to share that with someone. This feeling led me to fear connecting with men, cause I fear feeling hurt again, this is leading me to be closed towards people making connection difficult. How can I handle with this? As I said, I cannot connect without getting attached... How can we handle disappointment? Thanks again for this good video.
Dear David and Alex, thankyou so much for your excellent work. It is really practical and so helpful! At about 44 minutes in David mentioned that you will 'have to do another video about relationship..' about 'working the relationship' as differentiated from the feeling of love for self and other. That being in a relationship is one thing and loving is another. This is something I'm personally looking at in my own life and I would very much value such a video teaching on difference in a way between love and being in relationship. Can you please do such a video with that as a theme.. Looking into the actual relationship aspect in particular. Thankyou. Ps I'm going through alot of your videos in a way they all point the way to having a much better capacity to actually relate in a healthy and apropriate way to oneself and others.
I just wanted to say thank you for all this information!! I’ve watched so many of your videos back to back now. I’m realizing I need to do inner child work because intellectually I understand & believe all these things, but my inner child must not. I also had a big ah-ha when (maybe it was in a different video) of “Not being enough”. I could never resonate with “I’m not good enough” but if I removed the word good, there it was! That is some sort of belief. I’m still really struggling but I at least feel a little more hopeful. So thank you again! I was also wondering if you guys ever talk about interdependence in the context of a relationship? I’d love to hear about that. ❤️
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What is love? Still throws me. If I cannot be true to myself , i cannot be truthful with anyone else. Get rid of silly , false expectations connected to a lie I've not dealt with . Love is a feeling that I create. Love and truth come from the same seed
It feels so good to hear words that are helping me solve my problems. Thank you. Would you ever consider doing a radio show format? Like at the end of the talk or at the end of a certain topic you open up the phone/video lines and allow people to ask questions. It would be so exciting to ask a question and receive any answer. Or just a live talk so that we can talk in the live chat and ask questions
Hi Happy Platform, thanks for watching and sharing your idea! We appreciate your support. We do have a live online weekend retreat where there is lots of 1-2-1 interaction and coaching with us: www.wuweiwisdom.com/online-retreats/ ~ Alex + David x
Wow! One of the best video’s for me as the love department is where I struggle the most 🤷🏼♀️ So insightful and filled with truth!!! Love yourself and be in your truth, wow. So if I get it well: no expectations towards the loved one, still having my own boundaries and true needs I can deliver in the proper way! If my loved one cannot answer those needs or crosses my boundaries, i am “hurt” but I still love myself and them too (well maybe a littles less 😉) Thanks again for your great work! I love your channel, it inspires me a lot 😊
Glad you enjoyed it Joyce! Follow this link to learn more about how we can support you (including our LIVE online teaching and meditation classes + our free Facebook support group) : www.wuweiwisdom.com/welcome/ 💜 Alex + David x
Hi Janice, thanks for taking the time to watch and comment. If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our UA-cam Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ ua-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x
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Thank you again for sharing this beautiful knowledge. I have a lot of work to do on self love and I think I start to understand, but I have a limit perhaps ... I agree that love has to come from inside of us and flow externally and I believe that this can possibly open potential health relationships to be attracted to us, nevertheless how can the love for ourselves be ever complete as an exchange of love between two human beings is? There’s the touching, the looking into each other eyes, the connection. So, the kind of love that I can have for myself cannot replace that, it is a different kind of connection. David you said also that it is human and natural to aim to connect with another human being, therefore the self love can certainly help not to break into pieces if a relationship ends by going back to our center and our true energy source, but that doesn’t mean that we will stop searching for that exchange with another, that we will be fulfilled by our self love only. I don’t think I could be, even if I enjoy being with myself most of the times... I still prefer when I have a deep connection with another human being. Am I wrong? I think I might be a little confused here.
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I love this video. It makes so much sense. With the help of your wisdom, I am truly learning how to love and value myself. Can you make a video about how/where to meet potential partners?
Hi Audrey Gilsig, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Love and Relationships Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX.html Alex + David x
Hi Anamika Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're glad it has helped you! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our UA-cam Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ ua-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x
Great video with so much information. I was so happy to hear the story of the woman who wanted a relationship but was still dealing with her mother having left her as a child. I am in the same situation at the start of a new relationship. I wondered wondered what coping skills you helped educate her with in case the relationship didn't work out. I could probably use learning the same skills.
Hi Jenice, Thanks for your question! The good news is the work is all about you NOT the relationship, so it does not involve anyone else.
You will have to do some 'Golden Thread Process' work to resolve those beliefs that were created around your mother. I would suggest you watch a couple of our 'Inner Child' videos which will give you a steer: ua-cam.com/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/v-deo.html / ua-cam.com/video/BM0lmfBlE2E/v-deo.html
Also, you could consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom Facebook Community where you will be able to share the journey with like-minded members: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch our videos and write in. Please do let us know if you have any more questions :) David & Alex x
@@WuWeiWisdom Thanks for your reply. I have watched both of those videos - great ones - and joined the Facebook group. Both are helpful. I just have to do the work!
Hi Joanne The teaching we were sharing is you have to make that spiritual connection with yourself first. The Chinese call it Chang, the art of self-nurturing and self-nourishing. :) x
Joanne Hanton i was just thinking the same, it's so deep rooted in our DNA to be interdependent and so to have the instinct to care for others and to be cared for as well.
What about acts of love, like feeding the homeless. Can you still not have love for yourself but do this act of love. How does that fit in with the chi balance etc? Because the love for oneself isn’t there or blocked yet they can still perform an act of love which is so helpful for someone and in turn they can feel loved.
Good question that throws up lots of other questions, such as: Why would you choose to show acts of love and kindness to the homeless and not yourself?
This is the Golden Thread Process we demonstrate in many of our videos that may help you to discover the core belief of not loving yourself.
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I've been depending on bad information as to whom to depend on for my love needs. I'm not supposed to depend on other people to do the job that I need to do for myself in getting these love needs to get met. As for others who may or may not love me later on, well, that's relational love at best. But the deep stuff has to come from inside me depending on how well I assimilate the universal love that's all around. Is this how this love process works?
My father didnt include me to the beach and made me feel ugly and old as he went with a young woman 40 years younger than him which made me feel insecure. I kept my feeling under wrap however the man I was dating at the time expressed that he noticed how this will affect me. It wouldnt have affected me if I did love myself. however I get validation from my father. My mother died when I was 5 and he might not like me because he dislikes my mother.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. We are delighted that our videos are helping with your spiritual journey and emotional education. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Love is not a feeling, he is got it wrong... and I'm not trying to proof anything here, but I believed this is why most of us got it wrong when it comes to understant what is love..love is an action, is a choice, a free will if we can say that, we choose to love someone, I think we confused love with lust, infatuation etc.
Hi Rudy, Thanks for your input on the debate. I don't think we are too far apart on this. The teaching is the you are the creator of your emotions not the victim of them. Love is an emotional feeling that is created by your thoughts, beliefs and choices. I never spoke about confusing love with lust, infatuation or anything else. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. Please subscribe to our You Tube channel and don't forget to click the BELL icon. David
But even if we learn to love ourselves, there still exists the need for a relationship with another. So how does one find a relationship after having learnt to love oneself?
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How do you help victims of childhood rape or those who have been tortured? How do you get these people to believe that the universe loves them and that this will not happen again?
Thanks for your question Elaine. It is different for every person. I work with clients every day with this type of history and challenging situations. One of the facts I remind them of is: no matter how bad those childhood times were they came through it, and that's how awesome they are!! I would always recommend seeking professional advice and guidance on these type of issues. Take you for taking the time and trouble of watching our video and commenting. You may also find this video helpful: ua-cam.com/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/v-deo.html If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our UA-cam Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ ua-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ David x
@@WuWeiWisdom I am not sure, whether this answers the question. Are you saying that just surviving this experience is proof that the universe loves you? I would prefer a universe, that loved people so much that it wouldn't put a small child into this situation. An experience like this is the definition of cruelty and abuse. When a person has gone through this, they forever know that on at least one occasion, the universe could not even be bothered about saving them. The years of distress and pain do not make a person awesome, they make them fragile and disempowered. If, by some miracle, they recover and end up in happy loving relationships, they will forever be looking for what they finally did right that made the universe love them, in case things turn bad and they have to start rebuilding again.
@@scorpiotech123 Thanks for your subsequent comment Elaine. As I said previously, it will be different for every person. I did not address your comments about the "Universe loves you?" because that opens up a whole new debate that is NOT part of our Wu Wei Wisdom philosophy. As I said, I would remind them how awesome they are to have come through those traumatic experiences. Hope that explanation helps you. David
Ha, there is no love in this world, I will not back down and conform to pplz. Wants and need, and suck my energy from me.... The only love there is is fromm God, and can't wait to go home
Ha, there is no love in this world, I will not back down and conform to pplz. Wants and need, and suck my energy from me.... The only love there is is fromm God, and can't wait to go home
There is love here on earth-many people reject God's love. There are people here who do love. You love God as you state, you give authentic love to others as you do to yourself.
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I loved the video and all of your videos are fantastic sources of information ♡
I do need some clarification about that golden thread technique and how to change the limiting beliefs found by this technique.
You explain everything so clearly except that specific golden thread technique that somehow you manage in all your videos to speak about vaguely .
Thank you so much for your efforts and wisdom , much love to you all ♡♡
Oh my goodness this is life changing ...... thankyou for posting.
Core beliefs (inner child)⁰ are so strong discovering which one of the three lies you believe, then having a dialogue with that belief and changing it can change your life.
OMG putting more value on external validation far out my love for me is the most important not the external strokes....... aaaand I see can see the external validation does become a drug that satisfies in the moment u get a hit like sugar 2 minutes later your hungry again.
The truth will set you free. Amazing.
“You cannot earn love. You ARE love.” This struck me and I needed to hear this. Profound!
And 43:30 to 43:46! 💕
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David and Alex, these videos are changing my life. I’ve been in and out of therapy for nearly 30 years and in an unhappy (second) marriage for 20. I have a new lease on life. Thank you.
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This opening sequence has made a huge difference! I now understand that I can have love for someone and that is a green light feeling for me and also that having a relationship with them is a whole other ball game! Wow! It means I get to keep my green light feelings rather than try to destroy them when a relationship doesn’t happen. Liberating. I feel better. Thank you💚
Hi Jo, thanks for taking the time to watch and comment.
We're pleased to hear that this aspect of the teaching helped you. Yes, it is a very liberating way to understand love and relationships, and the dynamic between the two. :)
And all this passion from David!!!! I guess he shouts his truth loud and clear 😂
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There's a famous Australian singer songwriter who had a few hits in the 1990s and a couple of her albums are amongst my all-time favourites. I remember as a teenager hearing a line in one of her songs: "And if God looked me straight in the eye and told me he loved me, I'd think he was lying..." Listening to this talk suddenly reminded me of that. And I remember my mum hearing that line one day and being quite struck, nodding in agreement. (She never talked about feelings, had a traumatic past and was quite emotionally unavailable.) I've never forgotten that moment of her relating to this lyric. It's only now as an adult that I really appreciate the importance of the line and have been learning how to love myself instead of being so desperate to get it from others.
Your guidance is helping lot of people and me too . 🙏
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I just love it when David laughs at the start of every video ❤
This is the greatest teaching I have ever heard about love and loving yourself yes David for many years I looked for validation for others and love that I never got why because it dont exist, I truly appreciate and understand who I am and Loving myself is the key to others loving me and this love as you said come from within and not from no one but our Divine creator. Yes the inner child block me for many years of loving myself I was loving the things outside of me as I put it the things in this world will create a false sense of love it is only within what a great teaching David and Alex no one can love me better than I can Thank you.🎉
Hi,
Thank you for sharing your profound insights. Recognising that true love and validation come from within is indeed transformative. Embracing and nurturing your inner child while understanding that external sources often provide a false sense of love is a powerful realization. Keep loving yourself and shining your light, as you are truly unique and valuable.
Kind Regards,
David
"Love is internal", "not external.."
I do tell my kids , "no matter their mistake their value stays the same".. 😃
I'm happy because I had a saying I reminded my kids of all the time....good, bad, happy or sad, I'll always love you. ❤❤❤
Just shared this video with my family members.
Chi and the loving concept with Chi🌸
This is so true. Thank you very much David and Alex for this reminder of the importance of self love. ❤️❤️
Hi @cecilialao8958,
We're so grateful for your support and happy to hear that our message resonates with you. Self-love is indeed a cornerstone of a balanced and harmonious life, essential for nurturing your Shen spirit. Remember, you are worthy of love and respect, especially from yourself. Thank you for being a part of our community and for your continued engagement with our content. ❤️❤️
Kind Regards,
David
Yes! "You are loved" & no one is perfect.. 😼
Thank you. This helped me to identify my inner child’s belief that I’m going to be compared, criticized & judged if I learn how to sew, do T-shirt painting. I also learned that i farmed out my responsibility for myself to my husband & nasty boss. Thank you for helping me identify the lie & ways I need to manipulate others & let them manipulate me. Thank you for reminding me to get down to facts. I believe others have to love me because I’m not good at it. I have to get better at it.
Thank you for making this message possible for us and i love this message possible.
I'm really enjoying this. I suffered a lot of emotional abuse from my parents but haven't been able to move on because my inner child has believed she couldn't be "whole" until her parents apologized for the hurt they caused. This is freeing to accept that I can be whole and full of love regardless of what my parents do or dont do. I'm still very sad and disappointed that I can't be in a close relationship with my parents because they continue to lie and make excuses for their behavior in the present. But my worth doesn't have to be tied to their actions. I've "known" this intellectually, but I hadn't realized thar my inner child has still been believing that she NEEDED that validation from my parents.
Hi Michelle,
It’s great to read your story. You could give your Inner Child a big hug from me and tell her that she is AWESOME!!
She does NOT need that validation from ANYONE else but herself.
David
Watching this again this morning, found this just the other day. I need to embrace the "self-love", and thus become a better man. I have, (sadly), been so dependent on finding "true love, (I.e. Something that equates receiving something even remotely close to the love I feel in my heart). Needless to say, That has NEVER happened. Here at 56, and recently "failing" once again, I'm left seeking answers,...... Thank You both for providing THE Answer, in this loving presentation.... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. #ImSuchaWally 😆
Great share Steven... we are all on this journey of learning together! x
27:40 This example brought enlightenment for me. THANK YOU.
I totally agree about love,it took me 50yrs to realize this,is it easy,by no means,but so self powerful,I always wanted someone to love me,then I can love me,it took me awhile to understand that I had it backwards. I love to listen to your videos
Thanks for your kind feedback Nancy... you are AWESOME! X
Love the videos I have listened to so far. Thank you both so much!
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Thank you so much, David and Alexandra!
You break down the process of breakin gdown the reasons for the red light emotions so well! The golden thread process is a simple-to-understand tool and I have been using it succesfully, and have actually, through talking with my inner child, been able to find out about my childhood abuse.
Needless to say, it's been such a relief because everything has started making sense.
I'll join your FB-group. This channel has been such a big help, thank you so much for showing up and simplifying healing! 😊
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Wow! What a video. So much to take in. But the main point is to love yourself and be honest.
Thank you so much for sharing your teaching and knowledge . I really enjoy them. More than that it is like I am thirsty and you give me fresh cool crystal water. Please continue ❤❤
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Yes!, I resonate w/ what David was saying "action of having to feel guarded.. " to protect oneself..
😼 🙄
Thank you for this messages amen
I love the mention of grasping! I believe though that children need a lot of love to flourish. It's hard when you didn't get what you needed. I feel fragmented and alienated. Very hard to connect w others.
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Very eye opening! I definitely needed to hear this. Changes the dynamic. I've been trying to get love outside of me my whole life. Time to turn my focus inward :) Thank you both for sharing!
Hi Big Man, nice to hear from you. Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment.
What's your biggest sticking point / emotional block that stops you generating love for yourself? This is a question you could perhaps meditate on.
Alex & David x
@@WuWeiWisdom I meditated on your question and I think my biggest sticking point with generating love for myself is having let myself down in the past. I allowed many bad situations to happen in my past that I could have stopped so I feel some self-hatred and therefore feel unworthy of love. In recent years I've been standing up for myself a lot more so I feel more self-love than before but I could always bring more to myself.
@@BigManTate7364 thank you for sharing this powerful personal insight. It's very good to hear that the self-love is flowing more freely for you now.
You should not punish yourself for 'mistakes' of the past. We only learn by making mistakes and you (and everyone else!) are NOT perfect. If you hold onto this misunderstanding it will continue to block your Qi flow.
You may find this video helpful: ua-cam.com/video/oX9YxIWrEAc/v-deo.html - let us know what you think!
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I need to hear this message. This is so interesting beautiful 😻❤️. Thanks.
This is enlightening. I really needed this.
I have _so_ wanted to love myself for over 30 years, but I have got caught up with ‘dating game and romantic cultural requirements’ of what I was told do be and do and so I felt that I wasn’t good enough until I was a gentleman. It’s not that I am not one, per se, but I was told that I could _only_ be one if I was to be romantically accepted. Not being a gentleman was simply out of the question! How could I love myself at the time when I wasn’t up to ‘cultural standard’ when it came to loving a woman, for example, when the self that I was loving was told that it didn’t cut the cultural mustard?
Through spirituality, I am discovering a whole array of different person types, that ‘gentleman’ (this applies to ‘lady’ too) is but _one_ of them. Thank you so much for this! ❤
Could you please make a video with examples of how to parent your children so they do not grow up believing that love is external? How do I help my children find love within themselves?
Thank you for your work! Your videos very much resonate with me! ❤
Hi Morgan, thanks for your video suggestion - we will add this to our list!
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Thanks for all your support - we appreciate it!
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So rich! I am Christian and do have a biblical grid and there are differences in my starting point beliefs. Thank you profusely for the wisdom in the teachings. They are, well I have to say, wonderful. So glad to have met you through FB. Thank you for the freedom I'm experiencing through learning to apply the golden thread process. It has "shown up" at a very needed time 🌹
For some reason on watching this video I have red light feelings. I am sitting with my inner child and these red light feelings do not go away. Usually this works, I ask my inner child to talk to me - we have a good conversation and this sorts my feelings as we explore our believes and where they are coming from
Can you love someone and have red light feelings towards a relationship?
ME TOO.
It is excellent teaching. It has helped me look at love in a correct way and learn about how to love myself. Be brutally truthfull to myself!
Yes. I get it! Allow the flow of chi through me and speak Truth. Awesome. So grateful for the eye-openers.🙏💛
Yes, yes and yes! :) thank you Jo x
Personally"can't be bothered " isn't the right expression for me, it is more that belief that others come first and I have no right to love myself first...but I'm glad that's all changed now! Xx
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Thank you so much David and Alex ❤️💕
I'm so happy you guys did this video it gave me amazing insight to having healthier relationships while living in Shen... God bless you two
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One of your greatest videos yet. Alex asked sine valuable questions. Great intervention. Can't wait to participate in one of your retreats.
Thank you Mildred - sending our good wishes to you :-) Alex & David x
Thank you so much Alex and David! This is yet another video that is right on time and speaks directly to me! Thank you thank you thank you for your extraordinary work!!!
You are welcome Nick, glad you enjoyed the video.
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I love you guys. You give true advice to help with my accumulated trauma. Thank you so much.
Happy to help! Kind regards, David.
Thank you so much. I do love myself, yet not completely seemingly. I cannot date people being completely detached of their actions of love towards me. This is creating red light feelings of fear and still not feeling good enough.
For example: I am feeling good about myself and my life, I do love myself. I meet a person I like a lot and with whom I connect well, then after few good dates when he starts to withdraw, keeps 'looking' for other women I do feel not good enough. I accept he does not owe me anything and is free to choose to be in love with me or not. Yet somehow it affects me and that feeling of not being good enough pops up again, I do feel hurt.
I still love myself, though as you mention I feel so disappointed and sad. Cause yes I do love myself and I want to share that with someone.
This feeling led me to fear connecting with men, cause I fear feeling hurt again, this is leading me to be closed towards people making connection difficult.
How can I handle with this? As I said, I cannot connect without getting attached...
How can we handle disappointment?
Thanks again for this good video.
'Hello I'd like to be in a relationship with you because I'm broken and it's your responsibility to fix me'... Wow...
Dear David and Alex, thankyou so much for your excellent work. It is really practical and so helpful! At about 44 minutes in David mentioned that you will 'have to do another video about relationship..' about 'working the relationship' as differentiated from the feeling of love for self and other. That being in a relationship is one thing and loving is another. This is something I'm personally looking at in my own life and I would very much value such a video teaching on difference in a way between love and being in relationship. Can you please do such a video with that as a theme.. Looking into the actual relationship aspect in particular. Thankyou. Ps I'm going through alot of your videos in a way they all point the way to having a much better capacity to actually relate in a healthy and apropriate way to oneself and others.
"The 3 lies.., the C. C.j.
* comparing, criticising , judging
Nice!
Thank you for sharing this amazing (and life saving) gift. 🙂
I just wanted to say thank you for all this information!! I’ve watched so many of your videos back to back now. I’m realizing I need to do inner child work because intellectually I understand & believe all these things, but my inner child must not. I also had a big ah-ha when (maybe it was in a different video) of “Not being enough”. I could never resonate with “I’m not good enough” but if I removed the word good, there it was! That is some sort of belief. I’m still really struggling but I at least feel a little more hopeful. So thank you again! I was also wondering if you guys ever talk about interdependence in the context of a relationship? I’d love to hear about that. ❤️
Thank you so much. I never understood this before and was always looking for someone else to give it to me. Life changing. ❤❤❤
Love you all in mother England. BEST to you both and stay safe in these troubling times ❤️
Sending good wishes to you Steven - stay well! x
Wu Wei Wisdom Thanks, edited initial comment, instead of "Bikes to you both", should have been "Best"....... I mean, I like Bikes and all..... But really spell check...... Really??? 😆🚴🙈
What is love? Still throws me.
If I cannot be true to myself , i cannot be truthful with anyone else.
Get rid of silly , false expectations connected to a lie I've not dealt with .
Love is a feeling that I create. Love and truth come from the same seed
It feels so good to hear words that are helping me solve my problems. Thank you. Would you ever consider doing a radio show format? Like at the end of the talk or at the end of a certain topic you open up the phone/video lines and allow people to ask questions. It would be so exciting to ask a question and receive any answer. Or just a live talk so that we can talk in the live chat and ask questions
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Wow! One of the best video’s for me as the love department is where I struggle the most 🤷🏼♀️
So insightful and filled with truth!!!
Love yourself and be in your truth, wow.
So if I get it well: no expectations towards the loved one, still having my own boundaries and true needs I can deliver in the proper way! If my loved one cannot answer those needs or crosses my boundaries, i am “hurt” but I still love myself and them too (well maybe a littles less 😉)
Thanks again for your great work! I love your channel, it inspires me a lot 😊
Sending lots of postive Qi your way Nathalie! x
I love this!!! Great teaching. Really helping people. It's fantastic. Thanks again for a wonderful video David and Alex.
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Thanks again for another incredibly helpful video!! 💜
You are so welcome! Kind regards, David.
Have you done a video on why it's hard for some people to accept compliments? I struggle with that.
Hi David. I wish i have this wisdom like you so i can heal and understand myself better.
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Wish I could give this teaching 💯 likes 👍🏾... thank you so much for this wisdom
Thanks for sharing!❤
You are so welcome. Kind regards, David.
The loveless never find love, only the loving find love and they never have to seek for it
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Thank you
Thank you again for sharing this beautiful knowledge. I have a lot of work to do on self love and I think I start to understand, but I have a limit perhaps ...
I agree that love has to come from inside of us and flow externally and I believe that this can possibly open potential health relationships to be attracted to us, nevertheless how can the love for ourselves be ever complete as an exchange of love between two human beings is?
There’s the touching, the looking into each other eyes, the connection.
So, the kind of love that I can have for myself cannot replace that, it is a different kind of connection. David you said also that it is human and natural to aim to connect with another human being, therefore the self love can certainly help not to break into pieces if a relationship ends by going back to our center and our true energy source, but that doesn’t mean that we will stop searching for that exchange with another, that we will be fulfilled by our self love only.
I don’t think I could be, even if I enjoy being with myself most of the times... I still prefer when I have a deep connection with another human being. Am I wrong?
I think I might be a little confused here.
You 2 are amazing!!! Thank you!!!🙏🤗🥰
This is amazing 😍 thank you
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,thank you I really need this
I love this video. It makes so much sense. With the help of your wisdom, I am truly learning how to love and value myself. Can you make a video about how/where to meet potential partners?
Hi Audrey Gilsig, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Love and Relationships Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX.html Alex + David x
@@WuWeiWisdom Thank you for responding. Much appreciated.
Great
I love all your videos
Thanks
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you guys are so amazing, love you both
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Great video with so much information. I was so happy to hear the story of the woman who wanted a relationship but was still dealing with her mother having left her as a child. I am in the same situation at the start of a new relationship. I wondered wondered what coping skills you helped educate her with in case the relationship didn't work out. I could probably use learning the same skills.
Hi Jenice,
Thanks for your question! The good news is the work is all about you NOT the relationship, so it does not involve anyone else.
You will have to do some 'Golden Thread Process' work to resolve those beliefs that were created around your mother.
I would suggest you watch a couple of our 'Inner Child' videos which will give you a steer:
ua-cam.com/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/v-deo.html / ua-cam.com/video/BM0lmfBlE2E/v-deo.html
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@@WuWeiWisdom Thanks for your reply. I have watched both of those videos - great ones - and joined the Facebook group. Both are helpful. I just have to do the work!
@@jenicegharib1775 ok, that's great to hear!
Yes, self-responsibility and doing 'the work' for yourself is the key... but you are worth it. ;) x
I love the energy you spread ❤️
Thanks Coco - we appreciate it! x
I'm wondering if sometimes it's connection people need - rather than filling something incomplete. Connection is a human need ... we are pack animals.
Hi Joanne The teaching we were sharing is you have to make that spiritual connection with yourself first. The Chinese call it Chang, the art of self-nurturing and self-nourishing. :) x
Joanne Hanton i was just thinking the same, it's so deep rooted in our DNA to be interdependent and so to have the instinct to care for others and to be cared for as well.
Easy to say, but if you're not taught to love yourself, it is hard to overcome. That fundamental misunderstanding.
"Liked"!! ☺
brilliant !
What about acts of love, like feeding the homeless. Can you still not have love for yourself but do this act of love. How does that fit in with the chi balance etc? Because the love for oneself isn’t there or blocked yet they can still perform an act of love which is so helpful for someone and in turn they can feel loved.
Thanks Adam,
Good question that throws up lots of other questions, such as:
Why would you choose to show acts of love and kindness to the homeless and not yourself?
This is the Golden Thread Process we demonstrate in many of our videos that may help you to discover the core belief of not loving yourself.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support.
David
I've been depending on bad information as to whom to depend on for my love needs. I'm not supposed to depend on other people to do the job that I need to do for myself in getting these love needs to get met. As for others who may or may not love me later on, well, that's relational love at best. But the deep stuff has to come from inside me depending on how well I assimilate the universal love that's all around. Is this how this love process works?
My father didnt include me to the beach and made me feel ugly and old as he went with a young woman 40 years younger than him which made me feel insecure. I kept my feeling under wrap however the man I was dating at the time expressed that he noticed how this will affect me. It wouldnt have affected me if I did love myself. however I get validation from my father. My mother died when I was 5 and he might not like me because he dislikes my mother.
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Love is not a feeling, he is got it wrong... and I'm not trying to proof anything here, but I believed this is why most of us got it wrong when it comes to understant what is love..love is an action, is a choice, a free will if we can say that, we choose to love someone, I think we confused love with lust, infatuation etc.
Hi Rudy,
Thanks for your input on the debate.
I don't think we are too far apart on this. The teaching is the you are the creator of your emotions not the victim of them.
Love is an emotional feeling that is created by your thoughts, beliefs and choices.
I never spoke about confusing love with lust, infatuation or anything else.
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I enjoy yer wisdom,
I need to grow, t y.
Great! ❤️
Thanks Shia! We're sending the positive Qi and love right back to you.
Alex + David x
I don’t know how to love myself!!
How do I project Love,
the Holy Spirit which is God, lives in me !
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12:48 that is CHIRST :)
But even if we learn to love ourselves, there still exists the need for a relationship with another. So how does one find a relationship after having learnt to love oneself?
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this is where we disagree my friend i watch all your videos so far so good but here we disagree
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How do you help victims of childhood rape or those who have been tortured? How do you get these people to believe that the universe loves them and that this will not happen again?
Thanks for your question Elaine.
It is different for every person. I work with clients every day with this type of history and challenging situations.
One of the facts I remind them of is: no matter how bad those childhood times were they came through it, and that's how awesome they are!!
I would always recommend seeking professional advice and guidance on these type of issues.
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@@WuWeiWisdom I am not sure, whether this answers the question. Are you saying that just surviving this experience is proof that the universe loves you? I would prefer a universe, that loved people so much that it wouldn't put a small child into this situation. An experience like this is the definition of cruelty and abuse. When a person has gone through this, they forever know that on at least one occasion, the universe could not even be bothered about saving them. The years of distress and pain do not make a person awesome, they make them fragile and disempowered. If, by some miracle, they recover and end up in happy loving relationships, they will forever be looking for what they finally did right that made the universe love them, in case things turn bad and they have to start rebuilding again.
@@scorpiotech123 Thanks for your subsequent comment Elaine.
As I said previously, it will be different for every person.
I did not address your comments about the "Universe loves you?" because that opens up a whole new debate that is NOT part of our Wu Wei Wisdom philosophy.
As I said, I would remind them how awesome they are to have come through those traumatic experiences.
Hope that explanation helps you.
David
@@WuWeiWisdom Thank you for your reply. I understand more now.
Ha, there is no love in this world, I will not back down and conform to pplz. Wants and need, and suck my energy from me.... The only love there is is fromm God, and can't wait to go home
Ha, there is no love in this world, I will not back down and conform to pplz. Wants and need, and suck my energy from me.... The only love there is is fromm God, and can't wait to go home
There is love here on earth-many people reject God's love. There are people here who do love. You love God as you state, you give authentic love to others as you do to yourself.