After a 12 marriage, it was over in about 3 weeks. I was confused, hurt, what just happened. Dumped and moved in with her son . She had a plan all along from the beginning. Take a serious look at a potential new partner. I experienced many of behaviours associated with a Narcissist. This is a widespread problem, however I found great relief when I stumbled across the many podcast's on this subject. Inexperienced in dating, Jim's podcast are really helping a lot about attracting women. As a 69 year old guy I am learning how to handle myself with confidence and attract women. Thanks Jim. I will be ordering your book.
Loving yourself is good---some say that it's harder to love others if you don't love yourself first. But I think that it's even better to strive to love/serve God with all our souls and our neighbors as ourselves. Including within marriage. One important aspect of such love, I think, is mutual respect.
I think you should add to the 4 deal breakers that a woman should have a strong moral compass and a strong sense of dignity. Without these character qualities you will have a lot of problems with her.
Opposites attract, that's true, but when the romance is gone, they're not much to talk about. So I say if you're serious about someone, make sure that you both have much in common. When you talk to that special someone, you don't want her or him to shut You down all the time. Make sure you believe in the same religion, likes, and dreams. If you you're a singer, they should be just as much into singing and music as you are (just one example). They should also always have your back in everything you do legal of course. NEVER marry for just what they have, like a great body, property, home or income. The first few years are great, but starts going down hill quick. In my case she told me that she would sing with me when we were dating, but after marriage, she changed her mind. If you sing in front of people, make sure that she does as well before you marry her. Sex was all the time 3,4 times a day, now Nothing. I have to be honest, I did go out on her, I guess it was a midlife crisis thing and I don't like myself for it. I tried to leave her after that, but she didn't want that. So now here we are just existing together, not much communication, kind words, No sex. Our common ground is GOD Almighty and our families. That's why I say Never marry the opposite of you.
Men try to find out faults in women but always overlook his shortcomings at mental level. Physical strength is not guarantee of mental strength. Elephant is stronger than you physically but mentally youight not put up with him if he is extremely aggressive, selfish and mentally sick
I wish i knew this stuff 20y rs ago, im with Charles Queener on this one. Sometimes opposites do attract, but fella's BEWARE their are PREDATORS. I know i married one. The most beautiful thing i ever saw. She lived in the apartment above my brother 28 yrs ago, became good friends with my brothers wife and learned everything about me, morals, trust, loyalty, etc. She played that roll like an Oscar winner for 3 yrs., till we had my son and i said "I DO". Then the rages begin. That's when you begin to ask her , " What happened to the woman married?". For you young men out there "This" episode is super important. LISTEN CAREFULLY or you can end up spending 1/2 a lifetime of misery.
Thanks much for the research. I've heard that we should strive to be as good of a spouse as we want to have. It's easier to attract companions with such qualities when we already have them ourselves.
Take the time to know her, find someone you are truly comfortable with and are able to have conversations and quiet times without feeling like you have to keep talking or doing things to keep each other's interest and be comfortable with being able to give this person space to be with their friends. Don't rush into a relationship only to find out this may be a relationship you may not want as permanent.
Had all of these in my Gf and me, and this didn't prevent the breakup 5 years later. Unfortunately, experience taught me it's way more complex than that...
You’re right it’s more complex than what he said because we are dealing with human beings females , they’re never satisfied and and have different moods
I would also add that you need to know how much debt she is bringing in to the relationship (especially if you are looking at her as a potential wife). Does she have a lot of personal debt (credit cards, personal loans, car note, medical bills, student loan debt....etc)? If you marry her, 50% of that debt attaches to you if you divorce. Even if you stay together, you'll be helping pay it off. High levels of personal debt are a huge red flag - indicates a lack of self-discipline, prioritizing, frugality, money management, delayed gratification, decision making ability etc.
I'm only 14..... hope you guys are ok marriage is tough but i wouldn't know to much but I can tell there is only 2 ways pain and love and most is pain. Stay strong men
Thank you for this. I have been confused on this subject. I have been concealing the fact that I look out for attractive women as one of the qualities. People always tell me that character us the best, because of that I feel ashamed to tell people that I look out for beauty in women. With this, I can now confidently tell seek what I want. Thanks for this piece
No baby-mamas, no mama-babies, no unnecessary baggage. All people (men and women) need a spouse that has sincerely forgiven their parents and their ex boyfriend/girlfriend. Not forgotten, but forgiven. That's a clean slate.
For me. My take on this advice. For me at the moment. No one can be 100% the way that you want them to be. Yet everything you have said is right on the money and more important than anything else I have heard in my life about life. My criteria is that the woman is single, We are both attracted to each other. We treat each other well with respect, affection, fleable, humour.
Have to share this.. i met what it seemed the love of my life. She checked ALL the boxes..besides one that ultimately was the cause of our brake up and that was 1. EMOTIONAL STABILITY.. Cannot even stress this out enough. Make SURE u re with an Low Neuroticism type of woman.
I believe the 4 Deal Breakers and the 7 Qualities are criteria I need to look into within myself. I believe I need to clean up my act so that I am attractive to her.
Girl is not a complicated creature at all. All they need love , care, respect, and time to spend together when they feel down or up. Believe me. Dare to be who you are.
Love your videos but I completely disagree with point 4 about self sufficiency. Not because you don’t want a woman who is competent but rather about your point of her wanting vs needing a man Modern dating has proven to us that the alpha female is not a good investment long term. In fact this applies to most women who make good money and are independent, even the ones who aren’t leaders. What keeps women attached to a man is need. If a woman feels like she needs a man then she will stay with him. As proof when a woman feels like a divorcing a man meets her needs financially she will consider that option. Is that healthy per say according to psychology. Perhaps not but if a woman doesn’t need a man then she resorts to her wants. And we all know what women want. Women want attention and seeking attention becomes a deadly cycle that is even more toxic than depending on one man for money, protection, or affection. If you look for a woman who hangs her hat on her independence then the chances are high your committing to a short term roommate more than a long term girlfriend or wife because the moment her wants change then so does your relationship status. Do you want a woman who is self sufficient. Yes, but you don’t want a woman who is with you because she wants to more than she needs to. Wants come and go very fast, especially with women. Needs create a much more intense desire to follow through on.
“A woman can be in love with you but they can still cheat on you” That’s a load of crap in my opinion! If the woman really loves the man that she’s with and she’s loyal to him then she won’t cheat on him plain and simple. If a loyal woman is unhappy with a man she’s with then she would break up with him first instead of cheating on him. So if a woman claims to be loyal to a man and she still eventually cheats on him then she didn’t have real loyalty to him to begin with. Same goes for men who claim to be in love with a woman but ends up cheating on her. If a man is really loyal to the woman he’s with and really loves her then he won’t cheat on her either.
@Dan Jenkins....I don't necessarily disagree with your theory. But welcome to humanity. People have been double crossing one another since the stone ages. It's not about to change anytime in the short or very long term. I speak from personal experience, having married a fake, phony and fraud. When caught in a "smoking gun" scenario, she will deny, deny, deny. So, my assertion is not pie in the sky. It's real and it is destructive. And it is common place. Telling the truth and being held to accountability is the new sin! Your position is sound, and it's the way it should be....then there is reality.
Man i like this video. You mentioned all the traits i look for in a woman. I agree with look at the women that likes you and approaches you reason being is because she likes you and wants you otherwise she would never do that if she didn't like you. I always said this even in my past to my male friends when i was asked for advice and I always got an odd expression. And was told that a woman that approaches me approaches all men, I replied I disagree. Just like the video said men have a hard time understanding that. They think the harder the challenge and the chase, the better. People who like each other have less conflict throughout life, yes. And holy f***, Emotional Stability. You hit all the discriptor words of an exgirlfriend who flew of the handle frequently and complained about stress, she was a rollercoaster ride to be with. Always wanted to call the cops on me for anything I did not agree with, it was insane. And the justice system is biased towards misandry. Avoid them like a virus plague. She's still not married. And bingo!... my past experience has confirmed that Capitalization/encouraging/supportive of my progress, goals or success whether earned or obtained by chance is very important. I really meet girlfriends who are jealous whether I earned or gotten by chance success from work or business contract. They project into me to drag me down or hold me back from progress. Im not even conceited. (jealous of success) Nut jobs. The opposite of all that, if Lot & Destiny fails. Look only for a submissive woman.
She may have baggage and it's essential that we learn how to nurture her when in time of need and vice versa. I wcrewed my relationships up becuase i did not know how to nurture and come from heart space. I had blockages from my own stuff.
After noticing she doesn’t have these qualities, especially the nonnegotiable ones, how do you practically call off the relationship? I think it will be really helpful if someday you make a video on how to break up with your girlfriend.
Oh, my goodness!! I had no idea of these things he is talking about. I just realized I’m missing one!!😁😱😳 Thank you for this wonderful information!!!! 😜😃👍💜 I love it!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Take care of your own needs And she takes care of her own needs? What’s the point of being in a relationship if that’s the case? The point is to be a team and to lean on each other not to keep your lives completely independent from each other. That’s not a real relationship. That sounds more like unresolved childhood issues and faulty way of coping. You don’t trust the other person and believe you can only count on yourself snd everyone is out to take advantage of you. Don’t get into a relationship if this is your mentality. You need to work on yourself first since it sounds like you’re not ready to fully let anyone into your world. Besides, I doubt he’s going to be ok with making his own dinner every night or doing his own laundry or buying his own groceries or doing all the Christmas shopping for everyone on his side of the family or even doing any housework for that matter. As far as “signing a contract and giving her 1/2 your things”… lol I don’t know many men that have much. A mattress on the floor and a couch his mom gave him 15 years ago when he moved out and a bunch of mismatch plates and cups and wire hangers from the dry cleaners… lol. It’s the woman that actually has “things” and most couples buy a home together. It’s pretty rare for single guy to already own a home so it’s not “his” things. The only thing he has he probably got WITH her or for her. Men are simple, a mattress on the floor of single apartment and a stack of paper plates is usually what he brings into a relationship. And you should definitely wait MORE than 2 years before even considering marriage. At the 2 year mark you really should only be considering moving in together, not marriage. Then Stay engaged for AT LEAST a full year before actually getting married and wait another 3 years after that before starting a family.
People don't accept one reality, THAT PERMANENT RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE IN IS TEM POR ARY. Im looking for a woman just like my last girlfriend. I want to be happy with her regardless of how short or long and minimize the bad by ending it sooner and not later.
5:14 before watching further, lemme guess... Altruism, Communication, having the same values in life? Ah, forget it, I died in deal breaker #2. Nobody is interested in me. And because of that, #4 is even harder. No need to watch further. Welp, guess that confirms my experience I'll never find anyone, and better to stay single and die alone.
Let's go much further on CAPITALIZATION. I dedicate my words to my ex who put my achievements down at any given opportunity. The opposite to CAPITALIZATION... BITCHYCOWIZATION. Since I divorced her for abandoning me with a discard and stealing my daughter away.... I co-wrote and released the following songs on SONIC FOXX MUSIC... 1. GHOSTED by The Crue. 2. BEAUTIFUL HUMAN by Stephen Russell. 3. SATURDAY NIGHTS by Stephen Russell. 4. SOUTH AMERICA by Carl Philip Louis. 5. RESURRECTION by Carl Philip Louis(co-written with Steve Robinson). 6. ...and many many more.
What I want in a woman - blue eyes, great legs, likes massages, romantic walks on the beach, skinny dipping, slow dancing, bubble baths, can sleep naked, clean the house, cook dinner, go out to dinner, shower together, plan vacations/trips in advance, cuddling, watching movies, play CDs in the car, bowling, bingo and going to baseball games.
I like your videos, but I broke your rules. Oops!! I met my great husband online. He asked me to marry him only 3 weeks after we chatted. I said, “ YES”. make a long story short. We’ve been married for 18 years. He is an engineer, I’m a surgical assistant and entrepreneur. I’m Thai, he is an American. Sometimes we have no time! When it’s right, you’ll know. Good luck.
What do I want? Hmm, lets see....sweet, patient, affectionate, slightly unhinged, fiercely loyal, intelligent, cunning, seductive, motherly, dominating, great communication skills, bold, classy and calm. I think that about does it. Yes, I know I'm not well....and I divvn't care.
Hey Jim, i have a girl who is 19 years younger than me, im 54 and she was interested and we made out naked one time. but she vacilates between interested and 'we are just friends'. She went OS for a month and half way thru she went from direct sexual flirting and planning dates to "ive decided we should just be friends". I feel its the age difference which she has mentioned before. She was also in the past big on "you are a player". I dealt with that in the fun ways we are taught. Is this worth pursuing and can it be turned around again? I dont want to over pursue.
4 deal breakers:
1. Physical attractiveness
2. High interest in you
3. Single
4. Loyalty
7 qualities to look for:
1. Emotional stability (low neuroticism)
2. Agreeableness
3. Trustworthiness
4. Self sufficiency
5. Secure attachment
6. Capitalization
7. Minimal baggage
1. SINGLE 2. EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE 3. MENTALLY and EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY.
After a 12 marriage, it was over in about 3 weeks. I was confused, hurt, what just happened. Dumped and moved in with her son . She had a plan all along from the beginning. Take a serious look at a potential new partner.
I experienced many of behaviours associated with a Narcissist.
This is a widespread problem, however I found great relief when
I stumbled across the many podcast's on this subject.
Inexperienced in dating, Jim's podcast are really helping a lot about attracting women. As a 69 year old guy I am learning how to handle myself with confidence and attract women.
Thanks Jim. I will be ordering your book.
I wish I had this vital information before my two marriages but I'm done beating myself up. Forward.
This is valuable stuff man. Thanks.
actually the perfect person that has all of these is yourself :) love yourself
Loving yourself is good---some say that it's harder to love others if you don't love yourself first. But I think that it's even better to strive to love/serve God with all our souls and our neighbors as ourselves. Including within marriage. One important aspect of such love, I think, is mutual respect.
hope you see your flaws.
@@DaveGarber1975 Well said .
@@DaveGarber1975 Exactly..
I think you should add to the 4 deal breakers that a woman should have a strong moral compass and a strong sense of dignity. Without these character qualities you will have a lot of problems with her.
This also apply to men.
@@eyeopeningtruth7518 Also to non gender
Your channel, style of delivery and information are top notch! I recommend your channel often. Good job bro..
Opposites attract, that's true, but when the romance is gone, they're not much to talk about. So I say if you're serious about someone, make sure that you both have much in common. When you talk to that special someone, you don't want her or him to shut You down all the time. Make sure you believe in the same religion, likes, and dreams. If you you're a singer, they should be just as much into singing and music as you are (just one example). They should also always have your back in everything you do legal of course. NEVER marry for just what they have, like a great body, property, home or income. The first few years are great, but starts going down hill quick. In my case she told me that she would sing with me when we were dating, but after marriage, she changed her mind. If you sing in front of people, make sure that she does as well before you marry her. Sex was all the time 3,4 times a day, now Nothing. I have to be honest, I did go out on her, I guess it was a midlife crisis thing and I don't like myself for it. I tried to leave her after that, but she didn't want that. So now here we are just existing together, not much communication, kind words, No sex. Our common ground is GOD Almighty and our families. That's why I say Never marry the opposite of you.
Men try to find out faults in women but always overlook his shortcomings at mental level. Physical strength is not guarantee of mental strength. Elephant is stronger than you physically but mentally youight not put up with him if he is extremely aggressive, selfish and mentally sick
Thank you man! Wise words from you brother. I am 20 years old and never thought of romantic relationships this way. Again, thank you 1000 folds.
I wish i knew this stuff 20y rs ago, im with Charles Queener on this one. Sometimes opposites do attract, but fella's BEWARE their are PREDATORS. I know i married one. The most beautiful thing i ever saw. She lived in the apartment above my brother 28 yrs ago, became good friends with my brothers wife and learned everything about me, morals, trust, loyalty, etc. She played that roll like an Oscar winner for 3 yrs., till we had my son and i said "I DO". Then the rages begin. That's when you begin to ask her , " What happened to the woman married?". For you young men out there "This" episode is super important. LISTEN CAREFULLY or you can end up spending 1/2 a lifetime of misery.
Crazy bitches are the best at hiding the crazy and the bitchy
I can NOT believe he's giving these info for free !! Really appreciated 🙏
Thanks much for the research. I've heard that we should strive to be as good of a spouse as we want to have. It's easier to attract companions with such qualities when we already have them ourselves.
Take the time to know her, find someone you are truly comfortable with and are able to have conversations and quiet times without feeling like you have to keep talking or doing things to keep each other's interest and be comfortable with being able to give this person space to be with their friends. Don't rush into a relationship only to find out this may be a relationship you may not want as permanent.
Had all of these in my Gf and me, and this didn't prevent the breakup 5 years later. Unfortunately, experience taught me it's way more complex than that...
You’re right it’s more complex than what he said because we are dealing with human beings females , they’re never satisfied and and have different moods
Would you care to explain more?
I would also add that you need to know how much debt she is bringing in to the relationship (especially if you are looking at her as a potential wife). Does she have a lot of personal debt (credit cards, personal loans, car note, medical bills, student loan debt....etc)? If you marry her, 50% of that debt attaches to you if you divorce. Even if you stay together, you'll be helping pay it off. High levels of personal debt are a huge red flag - indicates a lack of self-discipline, prioritizing, frugality, money management, delayed gratification, decision making ability etc.
Thatsxwhy you never tell her in beginning how much $$$ you have
Loyalty seems very challenging to find these days with all the options available.
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I'm only 14..... hope you guys are ok marriage is tough but i wouldn't know to much but I can tell there is only 2 ways pain and love and most is pain. Stay strong men
I'm 13😂so that means you are now 16
@@barakaprince8214 wrong, 17
Thank you for this. I have been confused on this subject. I have been concealing the fact that I look out for attractive women as one of the qualities. People always tell me that character us the best, because of that I feel ashamed to tell people that I look out for beauty in women. With this, I can now confidently tell seek what I want. Thanks for this piece
Jim’s advice is truly epic. cliche term, but no better way to describe it. Awesome.
40:37 because that's what marriage is.
No baby-mamas, no mama-babies, no unnecessary baggage. All people (men and women) need a spouse that has sincerely forgiven their parents and their ex boyfriend/girlfriend. Not forgotten, but forgiven. That's a clean slate.
For me. My take on this advice. For me at the moment. No one can be 100% the way that you want them to be. Yet everything you have said is right on the money and more important than anything else I have heard in my life about life. My criteria is that the woman is single, We are both attracted to each other. We treat each other well with respect, affection, fleable, humour.
Women are nurturing but are attacked violently in return. It is dangerous world for women. Men need to learn about real love
What is fleadle
@@davidval7188 I meant Flexable.
very useful information. i'd appreciate so much if you did more similar talks. it helps a lot
This is gold.
Have to share this.. i met what it seemed the love of my life. She checked ALL the boxes..besides one that ultimately was the cause of our brake up and that was 1. EMOTIONAL STABILITY.. Cannot even stress this out enough. Make SURE u re with an Low Neuroticism type of woman.
In the 3 quarters of an hour it took to listen to this clip, you could have introduced yourself to 3 new 'friends'.
I was married 30 years. Wife died unexpectedly 18 months ago. I have a girlfriend now and she is a keeper.
Really solid ...impressive..logical .clear ..very good advice for guys
I believe the 4 Deal Breakers and the 7 Qualities are criteria I need to look into within myself. I believe I need to clean up my act so that I am attractive to her.
Girl is not a complicated creature at all. All they need love , care, respect, and time to spend together when they feel down or up. Believe me. Dare to be who you are.
Lol this is a big joke.
Love your videos but I completely disagree with point 4 about self sufficiency.
Not because you don’t want a woman who is competent but rather about your point of her wanting vs needing a man
Modern dating has proven to us that the alpha female is not a good investment long term. In fact this applies to most women who make good money and are independent, even the ones who aren’t leaders.
What keeps women attached to a man is need. If a woman feels like she needs a man then she will stay with him. As proof when a woman feels like a divorcing a man meets her needs financially she will consider that option.
Is that healthy per say according to psychology. Perhaps not but if a woman doesn’t need a man then she resorts to her wants.
And we all know what women want. Women want attention and seeking attention becomes a deadly cycle that is even more toxic than depending on one man for money, protection, or affection.
If you look for a woman who hangs her hat on her independence then the chances are high your committing to a short term roommate more than a long term girlfriend or wife because the moment her wants change then so does your relationship status.
Do you want a woman who is self sufficient. Yes, but you don’t want a woman who is with you because she wants to more than she needs to. Wants come and go very fast, especially with women. Needs create a much more intense desire to follow through on.
“A woman can be in love with you but they can still cheat on you” That’s a load of crap in my opinion! If the woman really loves the man that she’s with and she’s loyal to him then she won’t cheat on him plain and simple. If a loyal woman is unhappy with a man she’s with then she would break up with him first instead of cheating on him. So if a woman claims to be loyal to a man and she still eventually cheats on him then she didn’t have real loyalty to him to begin with. Same goes for men who claim to be in love with a woman but ends up cheating on her. If a man is really loyal to the woman he’s with and really loves her then he won’t cheat on her either.
@Dan Jenkins....I don't necessarily disagree with your theory. But welcome to humanity. People have been double crossing one another since the stone ages. It's not about to change anytime in the short or very long term. I speak from personal experience, having married a fake, phony and fraud. When caught in a "smoking gun" scenario, she will deny, deny, deny. So, my assertion is not pie in the sky. It's real and it is destructive. And it is common place. Telling the truth and being held to accountability is the new sin! Your position is sound, and it's the way it should be....then there is reality.
A woman won’t admit that’s she’s cheated. Good luck with that
The deal breakers and values over shared interests was awesome.
Man i like this video. You mentioned all the traits i look for in a woman.
I agree with look at the women that likes you and approaches you reason being is because she likes you and wants you otherwise she would never do that if she didn't like you. I always said this even in my past to my male friends when i was asked for advice and I always got an odd expression. And was told that a woman that approaches me approaches all men, I replied I disagree. Just like the video said men have a hard time understanding that. They think the harder the challenge and the chase, the better. People who like each other have less conflict throughout life, yes.
And holy f***, Emotional Stability. You hit all the discriptor words of an exgirlfriend who flew of the handle frequently and complained about stress, she was a rollercoaster ride to be with. Always wanted to call the cops on me for anything I did not agree with, it was insane. And the justice system is biased towards misandry. Avoid them like a virus plague. She's still not married.
And bingo!... my past experience has confirmed that Capitalization/encouraging/supportive of my progress, goals or success whether earned or obtained by chance is very important. I really meet girlfriends who are jealous whether I earned or gotten by chance success from work or business contract. They project into me to drag me down or hold me back from progress. Im not even conceited. (jealous of success) Nut jobs.
The opposite of all that, if Lot & Destiny fails. Look only for a submissive woman.
Define a “submissive woman”. I hope your answer is not “doormat”
Loyalty to YOU and true want for YOU.
This is good advice, but how in the world do you find a woman like this? Where do you go? 🤔🤔🤔
She may have baggage and it's essential that we learn how to nurture her when in time of need and vice versa. I wcrewed my relationships up becuase i did not know how to nurture and come from heart space. I had blockages from my own stuff.
You got me taking notes! 😂
Great presentation 👍
You are the advice giver daddy...love you
Best advice you'll ever get guys, I suggest you follow it, if you don't, disaster looms !
After noticing she doesn’t have these qualities, especially the nonnegotiable ones, how do you practically call off the relationship?
I think it will be really helpful if someday you make a video on how to break up with your girlfriend.
People can need and want someone ..its when they dont want you is what you have to know
Oh, my goodness!! I had no idea of these things he is talking about. I just realized I’m missing one!!😁😱😳
Thank you for this wonderful information!!!! 😜😃👍💜
I love it!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Take care of your own needs And she takes care of her own needs? What’s the point of being in a relationship if that’s the case? The point is to be a team and to lean on each other not to keep your lives completely independent from each other. That’s not a real relationship. That sounds more like unresolved childhood issues and faulty way of coping. You don’t trust the other person and believe you can only count on yourself snd everyone is out to take advantage of you. Don’t get into a relationship if this is your mentality. You need to work on yourself first since it sounds like you’re not ready to fully let anyone into your world.
Besides, I doubt he’s going to be ok with making his own dinner every night or doing his own laundry or buying his own groceries or doing all the Christmas shopping for everyone on his side of the family or even doing any housework for that matter.
As far as “signing a contract and giving her 1/2 your things”… lol I don’t know many men that have much. A mattress on the floor and a couch his mom gave him 15 years ago when he moved out and a bunch of mismatch plates and cups and wire hangers from the dry cleaners… lol. It’s the woman that actually has “things” and most couples buy a home together. It’s pretty rare for single guy to already own a home so it’s not “his” things. The only thing he has he probably got WITH her or for her. Men are simple, a mattress on the floor of single apartment and a stack of paper plates is usually what he brings into a relationship.
And you should definitely wait MORE than 2 years before even considering marriage. At the 2 year mark you really should only be considering moving in together, not marriage. Then Stay engaged for AT LEAST a full year before actually getting married and wait another 3 years after that before starting a family.
You didn't mention Fearful attachment style, I would be interested to hear your thoughts if she has that.
People don't accept one reality, THAT PERMANENT RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE IN IS TEM POR ARY. Im looking for a woman just like my last girlfriend. I want to be happy with her regardless of how short or long and minimize the bad by ending it sooner and not later.
Is this really how u feel, should i be doing this?
My thoughts exactly with pin point accuracy.
I appreciate your advice. I'll continue to listen .
I love these thoughts.
I learned that when a girl starts taking up for anyone that you don't like just get out of that... Change the subject
My friend. Thank you.
This bloke is good as is this presentation. The SIX advertisement breaks are not though 🇬🇧.
Skip the first 7 minutes.
Why?
Excellent comprehensive presentation.
Jim, love your advise. Really interesting not to mention useful in Life. Big Thanks Bro ✨🎀👑
Thanks for great seminar
Her SO/Partner on the way out? “Mate insurance”? .. not to be (or might be) confused with “rebounder” …
What about a woman who is bipolar? She has slept with four or more men in one month.
5:14 before watching further, lemme guess... Altruism, Communication, having the same values in life?
Ah, forget it, I died in deal breaker #2. Nobody is interested in me. And because of that, #4 is even harder. No need to watch further. Welp, guess that confirms my experience I'll never find anyone, and better to stay single and die alone.
Let's go much further on CAPITALIZATION.
I dedicate my words to my ex who put my achievements down at any given opportunity.
The opposite to CAPITALIZATION...
BITCHYCOWIZATION.
Since I divorced her for abandoning me with a discard and stealing my daughter away....
I co-wrote and released the following songs on SONIC FOXX MUSIC...
1. GHOSTED by The Crue.
2. BEAUTIFUL HUMAN by Stephen Russell.
3. SATURDAY NIGHTS by Stephen Russell.
4. SOUTH AMERICA by Carl Philip Louis.
5. RESURRECTION by Carl Philip Louis(co-written with Steve Robinson).
6. ...and many many more.
Great video. Wise advice. Very knowledgeable
You are REALLY SMART.
Thank you soooo much for making this video. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Bro. How are you not famous???
Profound indeed
Love your content so great advice..really great great advices..😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏
Awesome video mate, learnt a lot.👍🏽
What I want in a woman - blue eyes, great legs, likes massages, romantic walks on the beach, skinny dipping, slow dancing, bubble baths, can sleep naked, clean the house, cook dinner, go out to dinner, shower together, plan vacations/trips in advance, cuddling, watching movies, play CDs in the car, bowling, bingo and going to baseball games.
who has cds anymore?
I meant compilations of 50’s, 60’s & 70’s music.
I like your videos, but I broke your rules. Oops!!
I met my great husband online. He asked me to marry him only 3 weeks after we chatted. I said, “ YES”. make a long story short. We’ve been married for 18 years. He is an engineer, I’m a surgical assistant and entrepreneur. I’m Thai, he is an American. Sometimes we have no time! When it’s right, you’ll know. Good luck.
This video was so helpful
It is working for me .. thanks a lot
Thank you so much , truly blessed
Bro i should have listen this like 8 years ago
Thank you for all your videos, Just wanted too know why all your videos are for men.. I was looking for advice for woman.. hehe..
I appreciate your advice I,ll continue to listen really interesting Men and women amazing comfortable thank you so much both enjoyed the time join us
I love this dating tips
16:32 Wow!!!! 21:32,28:12
nice content perfectly as how it should be !!
You are asking us to find a diamond.
Good analysis 👍
# 1 thing with women is that she has to be Single, before anything works out..
This is great advice
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Thanks
Good advice!
Thanks so much.
You’re wrong divorce rate is 80% not 50% . Or more likely 90% now
Good luck ... Women R Crazy !!! L.O.L. Patriot Perry ...
Excellents advices...but let me tell you one thing my friend. The woman who have all that requirements...doesn't exist
Excelent video
i know what I look for, hot body, rich daddy and owns a bar
Me
Make it simple: would you like 1-homecook pizza 2. Delivered pizza.
What do I want? Hmm, lets see....sweet, patient, affectionate, slightly unhinged, fiercely loyal, intelligent, cunning, seductive, motherly, dominating, great communication skills, bold, classy and calm. I think that about does it. Yes, I know I'm not well....and I divvn't care.
Omg the intro is so painful and redundant.how long do we go around in circles before he gets to the point....
wow this is so well thought out..wisdom for both sexes -good job
Hey Jim, i have a girl who is 19 years younger than me, im 54 and she was interested and we made out naked one time. but she vacilates between interested and 'we are just friends'. She went OS for a month and half way thru she went from direct sexual flirting and planning dates to "ive decided we should just be friends". I feel its the age difference which she has mentioned before. She was also in the past big on "you are a player". I dealt with that in the fun ways we are taught. Is this worth pursuing and can it be turned around again? I dont want to over pursue.
How should I handle the relationship after discovering all this after a year of dating ?
Priceless information
Excellent