Never Do THIS With A Woman You Love

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  • Опубліковано 3 лис 2024

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  • @lionlikemessenger
    @lionlikemessenger 6 місяців тому +5

    Reminds me of the powerful reminder in the song lyric: “You wasn’t with me shooting in the gym!”

  • @twill4857
    @twill4857 6 місяців тому +17

    I was married to an older woman. She helped build me up but I was never seen as the leader. You’ll never get respect unless you build yourself by yourself first

    • @StephanSpeaksforMen
      @StephanSpeaksforMen  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • @David_Goman
    @David_Goman 6 місяців тому +32

    Wow, don’t let her create you, let her enhance you. ;) You gotta be something at first, not rich, but not lazy either.

    • @StephanSpeaksforMen
      @StephanSpeaksforMen  6 місяців тому +7

      Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 6 місяців тому +1

      Shit don't matter. You can be just that and she will still do what she wants. It's not about what you do but moreso who she is. If she ain't a good woman she isn't a good woman, PERIOD.

    • @ironlifter2764
      @ironlifter2764 6 місяців тому

      ​​@@CiluhStyle1It does matter about getting your ish together, then you avoid that woman. You don't choose a woman that doesn't deserve you.

  • @judekabongo1995
    @judekabongo1995 6 місяців тому +5

    I needed this. I desperately needed this honestly.

  • @kathleenlee1939
    @kathleenlee1939 6 місяців тому +18

    behind every successful man is a really good woman!

  • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
    @sunshinesunflowerz1647 6 місяців тому +6

    There are older men (and some women) who wanted to start their process sooner, but was given fear and doubt from their mother so they are trying to cover so much ground from that.

  • @tashamack8701
    @tashamack8701 6 місяців тому +2

    Great video Stephan. I hope my brothas are listening to you. I like to see a man doing his thing and building his foundation. Nowadays we need more men who can lead the right way. A man with confidence is an A+. I agree with you. Just be yourself!!!

  • @KimCruzes
    @KimCruzes 6 місяців тому +11

    Thank God for you, Stephan! My closest friends and family are now all listening because I introduced them to you through sharing and you're only improving all of our lives!! God is using you to teach people everywhere these healthy things. 🎉❤ thank you for letting him. We love you!!!

  • @ironlifter2764
    @ironlifter2764 6 місяців тому +3

    Build yourself up first on your own, single. And she has earn her place being with you.

  • @theman2017inc
    @theman2017inc 6 місяців тому +6

    Trust issues
    Sounds more likely RESPECT + TRUST because all this comes down to RESPECT
    unless the woman RESPECT the man, relationship isn’t gonna happen

  • @Abigail-tl6lk
    @Abigail-tl6lk 6 місяців тому +4

    A good woman is from the Lord.
    Not only this, but a good man is from the Lord. If you want to be a "high value man," then you should reexamine what that means. To many people, it means having money, a car, a house, good looks, and height. But like I said, a good man is from the Lord. So you have to take your eyes off of the world. Don't measure yourself by your money. Measure yourself by God's standards. What does God think of you? Are you righteous? Are you selfish? Are you truly kind? Do you have a loving heart? Do you put other's needs before your own? Ask God to make you a good man. A good man is from the Lord. Ask the Lord to make you a good man. Then ask Him to give you a good woman. But as long as your eyes are on the things of the world, like money, you're never going to be happy.
    Don't seek wealth in this world. Seek the Lord.
    A good woman is from the Lord. To be a good man does not come from wealth. To be a good man comes from the Lord.
    One cannot serve God and money.

  • @CiluhStyle1
    @CiluhStyle1 6 місяців тому +2

    Until you actually get married and or have relationship experience. None of this really matters because it all depends on the kind of woman she is. You have to be this for yourself and if shes a good woman she will add to it. So dont mess with bad women cuz you can be and do all these things for yourself and she will find a way to sabotage it. It's really simple guys. Don't break commitment to yourself for any woman and continue to build on you. Don't mess with women who are highly insecure or impulsive. Just be the right fit for the right women fellas. It's really simple

    • @caeaves
      @caeaves 6 місяців тому

      Always prepare for the divorce. The state will not protect you when it comes.

  • @kannanssk7950
    @kannanssk7950 6 місяців тому +4

    I don’t get why someone has to lead and someone has to submit in a relationship can you explain the reasoning behind this.

    • @StephanSpeaksforMen
      @StephanSpeaksforMen  6 місяців тому +4

      Great suggestion, I will add this to my list to get it done!

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 6 місяців тому +1

      Both people are to submit to each other; as. they both are submitted to God. The man is the head, under God.

    • @caeaves
      @caeaves 6 місяців тому

      Try having two leaders in an escape room with only two people.

  • @mikyl-fo8rh
    @mikyl-fo8rh 5 місяців тому

    A fool's errand to earn her respect.
    Respect yourself and others;
    that's all we can do.
    If you are of good/godly Character you are ready for a relationship, regardless of your talants or resources. Your good/godly Character will empower and compel you to protect and provide for her.