MY MARRIAGE WAS A MISTAKE || Justice Court EP 185

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  • @judithegemba4764
    @judithegemba4764 11 місяців тому +24

    Judge funmi always giving me goosebumps whenever she judges,too smart and intelligent. God bless you

  • @lindaibeawuchi6507
    @lindaibeawuchi6507 11 місяців тому +24

    This marriage was not based on love,they were paired.

  • @chidinmanebo2325
    @chidinmanebo2325 11 місяців тому +32

    What ever you do, marry a kind person.

    • @chimeziedesmond6759
      @chimeziedesmond6759 11 місяців тому +3

      I can't imagine myself abandoning my kids regardless of how båd their mom is.
      That man is something else

  • @oluwasikuoluwatosin701
    @oluwasikuoluwatosin701 11 місяців тому +77

    Another lesson for ladies, dont marry a man that abandoned his woman and kids or kid, he will do the same for you. He abandoned his ex and child and he has done the same for this lady! Open your eyes well my single ladies

    • @DenzelNwosu
      @DenzelNwosu 11 місяців тому +5

      So the man should have continued with a very bad marriage?

    • @christiancyril3544
      @christiancyril3544 11 місяців тому +3

      Same to single mothers

    • @laboratorio-tomatesdelguad5585
      @laboratorio-tomatesdelguad5585 11 місяців тому +4

      Wisdom is a virtue. Try to get one

    • @jowieslifestyle
      @jowieslifestyle 11 місяців тому +8

      Swears, I had a man coming for me like that, he left his wife and two kids, when I found out I ran...if he can do it to her he can do it with me

    • @SarahAdamu-k7z
      @SarahAdamu-k7z 11 місяців тому +9

      @@DenzelNwosuleave a bad marriage doesn’t mean leaving ur children, I hope understand that.

  • @margareteyo9878
    @margareteyo9878 11 місяців тому +13

    I love this judge, may the good God give her more wisdom

  • @Truthhurt1347
    @Truthhurt1347 11 місяців тому +62

    My dear, it is better to stay together o... Imagine now, he has to send feeding money, school fees and health care. If they were together the woman would manage whatever he brings and still add hers. The lesson here is don't produce kids you can't cater for

    • @christieadeoye4267
      @christieadeoye4267 11 місяців тому

    • @swiftoutcrygaming3297
      @swiftoutcrygaming3297 10 місяців тому +4

      It actually annoys me when I hear careless statements from men like "where am I expected to get such money" especially when it has to do with provision of basic needs for his children. What was he thinking when he was producing babies? Even if things are nò lọnger okay as it used to be, he should make responsible statements and in a manner that shows that he really appreciates that he has that responsibility and he is not carefree about living up to it.

    • @tosin8401
      @tosin8401 10 місяців тому

      He has no sense.

    • @charlesdolmica9585
      @charlesdolmica9585 10 місяців тому

      5k a month is like you don't exist,😂😂

    • @ucheazubuike5518
      @ucheazubuike5518 4 місяці тому

      ​@@swiftoutcrygaming3297being a man takes responsibilities.
      Bad wife is a cancer.
      Women are beneficiaries in marriage

  • @LivWestwood
    @LivWestwood 11 місяців тому +39

    These court cases have drained Judge Funmi; emotionally, psychologically & even physically. The problems of Naija cannot be resolved by one person. The lack of accountability, toxicity, entitlement and so on is indeed disgusting. More power to Judge Funmi. Its not easy

    • @mobolajijoseph8899
      @mobolajijoseph8899 11 місяців тому +3

      i thougt i was the only person tht emotionally and psychologically brilliant but Judge Funmi level is a force to reckon with. she is not only judge but also a mother. the way she comport herself to proffer solution is WOW!!!

    • @Shafex12345
      @Shafex12345 11 місяців тому

      Looking at the woman is complete disaster

    • @AlaoSalimon-xz2lq
      @AlaoSalimon-xz2lq 9 місяців тому

      Kudos to this Judge Funmi

  • @okoronkwonwanyieze768
    @okoronkwonwanyieze768 11 місяців тому +36

    😂😂 that time table got me laughing..i love this judge

    • @sheunyerokun9691
      @sheunyerokun9691 11 місяців тому +2

      I tell you 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @nwoluoluchi109
      @nwoluoluchi109 11 місяців тому +3

      I laughed wella
      He was even suppose to be given a pen to write it down.....

    • @victoriaayilara7849
      @victoriaayilara7849 11 місяців тому +2

      She handled it the Solomon way😀

  • @emmanuelolamide1752
    @emmanuelolamide1752 11 місяців тому +10

    I love how Jugde Funmi lays emphasis on healthy coparenting! Big Ups, ma’am ❤

  • @omobosedeanthony1010
    @omobosedeanthony1010 11 місяців тому +31

    2k plus watch but less than 200 likes... you guys should always try to remember to like such educative videos

  • @ibehpurity6585
    @ibehpurity6585 9 місяців тому +6

    Wow the lady was my Course mate...what a journey in the road of marriage

  • @0501245
    @0501245 11 місяців тому +10

    When he explained on the previous episode, i nearly believed him. I know what the problem is. There is no way you can have 2 kids by a lady and claim she was toxic from the beginning.
    Failed business is angering him. He feels he can make it without his family. This is the same reason why he abandoned the first child.
    He is regretting coming back to Nigeria and getting married.

    • @Gadget-FreaksCal
      @Gadget-FreaksCal 11 місяців тому +1

      You are absolutely right. He is the toxic one. Because this woman looks very calm and respectful. I also understand the man’s frustration. He is frustrated because Nigeria has drained him. I’m seeing a frustrated man trying to vent his anger and blame on that innocent woman .

    • @olaashade3588
      @olaashade3588 3 місяці тому

      @@Gadget-FreaksCalso because the woman calm and respectful mean she is a good wife . Don’t judge ladies with their appearance

  • @kelvinidoko7306
    @kelvinidoko7306 11 місяців тому +30

    What this man needed was a business partner not a wife 😂

    • @bettyferandoherty2068
      @bettyferandoherty2068 11 місяців тому +2

      He made a mistake getting married to a lady that is not working..

    • @raynersblog
      @raynersblog 11 місяців тому +1

      @@bettyferandoherty2068and who told you the lady wasn’t working? Or you didn’t listen to the former video? Even if you marry a woman that is working if you buisness want to crumble it will.

  • @lilianoforma9969
    @lilianoforma9969 11 місяців тому +3

    Weldon Judge Funmi, you're doing a great work. More knowledge and strength to excel. Amen

  • @HadiyaNuriddin
    @HadiyaNuriddin 11 місяців тому +55

    "You don't look famished." 🤣🤣🤣😂

  • @LagosNurses1
    @LagosNurses1 10 місяців тому +5

    This man is looking so mean... God help us😢

  • @Blessedchild609
    @Blessedchild609 11 місяців тому +31

    That money is small for two children. Hummmm some of these fathers think it’s easy to take care of children. May God help them both

    • @anukajerry8246
      @anukajerry8246 11 місяців тому +3

      You wan may em go theft? Thats the amount he can afford. He won't kill himself

    • @ishmaelchinenye2653
      @ishmaelchinenye2653 11 місяців тому +2

      The lady no get hands to work abi....dey play

    • @monicaborde5602
      @monicaborde5602 11 місяців тому +5

      ​@@anukajerry8246So after the 5k is finished what are the children supposed to eat...Air?

    • @nmaunusual
      @nmaunusual 11 місяців тому

      ​@@ishmaelchinenye2653is that amount enough to feed an adult not to talk of a child

    • @Blessedchild609
      @Blessedchild609 11 місяців тому +3

      @@ishmaelchinenye2653 even she has a job that money is still little to take care of two children.

  • @LarabaAhmadu-k6u
    @LarabaAhmadu-k6u 11 місяців тому +17

    Lolzzzzz
    I love the timetable part that judge funmi asked him to draft😂
    I think its better we keep hearing the men to draft food timetable, maybe we may see how better they'll manage in this economy

  • @DeborahSalami-uv7md
    @DeborahSalami-uv7md 11 місяців тому +87

    I feel this man is just angry things didn't work out as planned or probably he is angry the kids are female

    • @miracleijeoma9184
      @miracleijeoma9184 11 місяців тому +6

      And looking for sm1 to blame

    • @YouthImpactAfricanVoices
      @YouthImpactAfricanVoices 11 місяців тому +5

      Deborah you are smart. They are girls, he felt she'd keep having girls, he also could not boldly provide for his family so he came up with excuses to demonise the girl.
      She's got a job now, doing some businesses.

    • @Sarah-ir5uj
      @Sarah-ir5uj 11 місяців тому

      You're a smart lady. All he's saying don't make sense at all. He's just angry she gave him females. Typical igbo man mentality

    • @peacemicheal2379
      @peacemicheal2379 11 місяців тому +4

      At first, I feel same too. My boss who get married to his first wife gave birth to a girl child.. He left her to another woman, the second one gave birth to a girl child lol. He got married to another lady who lied she's pregnant with a boy.. When she got out to birth, it was a girl. He left her. So, I feel one of this man problems is the female children not really the business.

    • @dorisizuegbu3447
      @dorisizuegbu3447 11 місяців тому

      ❤1​@@miracleijeoma9184

  • @tayeolusesan6752
    @tayeolusesan6752 11 місяців тому +8

    This man was not ready for marriage in the first place. He was actually looking for someone to help run his business. Pinning the failure of the business, which both of you were running, on your wife is total rubbish

    • @anasipaul314
      @anasipaul314 11 місяців тому

      Until you understand how women run businesses
      What do you think is the reason some men refuse their wife's from their businesses

    • @tayeolusesan6752
      @tayeolusesan6752 11 місяців тому +4

      Business is different from marriage. Marriage is above business. What happened did not warrant a divorce but it is a pity the guy priotise business over his marriage. The business didn't collapse one day. He should have changed the management of the business when he began to sense the wife was not running the business well.

  • @profkendon6745
    @profkendon6745 11 місяців тому +5

    In this time, this man is going to feel the heat of decision.

  • @OluOgbobine
    @OluOgbobine 11 місяців тому +5

    Thanks Judge Funmi. You handled this matter from a depth of understanding.

  • @nzejioforjohnpaul911
    @nzejioforjohnpaul911 11 місяців тому +4

    Any man that has a case to answer in Okija shrine is a threat to family especially wife and kids 😂😂😂😂, that shrine eeeeh immediately I heard that shrine I already concluded that the problem is from the man

  • @joanphilips5385
    @joanphilips5385 11 місяців тому +5

    The man is obviously running away from his responsibilities

  • @AbiodunKingmate
    @AbiodunKingmate 11 місяців тому +8

    That man does not want to do anything he is not responsible if he loves the children he won't be doing this Barr Funmi we love you ma

    • @salamiibrahim4874
      @salamiibrahim4874 11 місяців тому +3

      But he accepted to be paying their school fees, clothing and medical expenses, and to you he didn’t want to do anything. Men’s life is hard sha

    • @suppaprosolutions6639
      @suppaprosolutions6639 11 місяців тому

      ​@@salamiibrahim4874😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @StephenChukwuemeka-bd4hr
      @StephenChukwuemeka-bd4hr 11 місяців тому +1

      Are you responsible chewwww

  • @lauriaendy4595
    @lauriaendy4595 11 місяців тому +8

    If he can house the sister?really? That's his blood sister, I don't know why some women want to take issue with a family that birth, raise this man you married to! I mean it's very ungrateful how these women reason. After all you the mother, should also contribute to the care of the kids too! It's very sad that their differences impact the kids!

    • @isiomaajufo3046
      @isiomaajufo3046 11 місяців тому +7

      Her point is if he could house his sister then he should be able to adequately fend for his children! After all his children are supposed to be his number one priority if not that his family have poisoned his mind. Did he allow her to go and get a job???? Listen to the video again

    • @lauriaendy4595
      @lauriaendy4595 11 місяців тому

      @isiomaajufo3046 It is a wrong mindset. Every responsible woman should know that at the time we are passing through, except you marry a millionaire in dollars, you should have some level of income to supplement your household. Number 2: What makes you think that mothers should not have a contribution to the caring of their kids? A lazy woman would like to depend on the husband solely, and I reaffirm again, his sister is also like his children, except if she's his elder. Here's where her mindset has landed her, divorcee with two kids, and a husband who doesn't even want to hear about counseling. At this young age, is this good? Had she been financially stable, even when the man sent her out, she would be able to care for herself to some level while the court sorts out things. Your priority is your family, that includes your blood relatives as well. Not just a woman who was not there when the parents suffered for the guy alone. I hope that sink in your heads, self absorbed women of Africa.

  • @morganmusicproduction
    @morganmusicproduction 11 місяців тому

    Judge Fummi Well done Your Honour . . . .God Bless You

  • @winnie7312
    @winnie7312 11 місяців тому +3

    This section is so emotional, even judge Funmi is touched.

  • @Tony16041961
    @Tony16041961 11 місяців тому +2

    Okija shrine! May GOD deliver the captives.

  • @PrincessOluchy
    @PrincessOluchy 11 місяців тому +9

    When i saw it on Facebook, everybody was praising this man and shouting at the woman...It can never be me ,had to run here to watch the full video...

    • @josephokwute4830
      @josephokwute4830 11 місяців тому +1

      I didn't type, but I almost finished this woman. But this full video made me know better. However aside the money issue, the man is tired of something. But again the woman has a point

    • @godsown2777
      @godsown2777 11 місяців тому

      Same thing I just do

    • @chiksaustin6615
      @chiksaustin6615 9 місяців тому

      very true. hear from two sides before judgement

    • @rachaelfadairo3089
      @rachaelfadairo3089 9 місяців тому

      That’s exactly what I did cos she story wasn’t adding up.

    • @obithomas2135
      @obithomas2135 8 місяців тому +1

      Exactly, this man is wicked, I have three beautiful daughters I can't imagining abandoning them or they mother for anything. They're my life and happiness

  • @christopherkraft5553
    @christopherkraft5553 11 місяців тому +6

    Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring her back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for her, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing her.

    • @josiefrench7672
      @josiefrench7672 11 місяців тому

      It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get her back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

    • @christopherkraft5553
      @christopherkraft5553 11 місяців тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @AncientHebrewNeverDied
      @AncientHebrewNeverDied 11 місяців тому

      If she has moved on, move on!

    • @sethrollinswife3818
      @sethrollinswife3818 11 місяців тому +3

      These two people has a mission 😅😅

    • @97VIRTUESHEART
      @97VIRTUESHEART 11 місяців тому

      ​@@sethrollinswife3818I thought I was the only one understand that those comments

  • @MichaelDandyson
    @MichaelDandyson 11 місяців тому +1

    No matter how powerful,strong,gigantic and huge you are one tiny woman can bring you to rubbish,men wise up,when your peace of mind is toil with you are gone.

  • @lawalolatunji23
    @lawalolatunji23 11 місяців тому +6

    Much respect to judge Funmi.

  • @jesusbaby-lk9zs
    @jesusbaby-lk9zs 11 місяців тому +7

    Aaaaaaaaaa FIRST TIME WATCHING LIVE ,wow
    Justice Funmi we love you 😍 ❤🎉

  • @Tiamarach7123
    @Tiamarach7123 8 місяців тому +2

    Oh poor children so young...the journey is still long.. for them..the woman seems to still want the marriage but the .an is over.
    After 2 wo.en the man needs deliverance. Spirit wife may be inolvex. Busines and relationship endeavour are failing these are red flags..

  • @tobimcmorris7690
    @tobimcmorris7690 11 місяців тому +19

    Judge Funmi Asaolu is a great Judge! She sees through the litigants easily.
    He believes that his ex-wife is the cause of his precarious economic situation. It's a common trend(in Naija!) for the wife to be blamed for any misfortune, by the husband and his family. And where a man sticks with his wife against the pressure from his family, they say that the wife has bewitched him, with juju inserted between her thighs!
    The wife has skills acquired from tertiary education. She'll be fine once she secures a regular income-generating legitimate endeavour. And she has her supportive parents too.
    The man is making a big mistake which, I believe he's going to regret in the near future. I wish them well!

  • @yolanivelani671
    @yolanivelani671 3 місяці тому

    Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you twice

  • @chisomudezue
    @chisomudezue 11 місяців тому +19

    He should be with the children and be taking care of them with that amount he's mentioning there ..... Nonsense

    • @josramsblue1
      @josramsblue1 11 місяців тому +1

      I am not satisfied with this ruling, it will make more men irresponsible and heartless toward their children, the man is healthy, what can 20k do in this Tinubu era? I wish he was asked to do the breakdown of how he will feed the kids with 10k each, morning, afternoon, and evening, 330 naira per day for a child, then 110 naira per meal for a child, when one pure water is 50 naira.

    • @Samuel-rj7xt
      @Samuel-rj7xt 11 місяців тому +3

      ​@@josramsblue1is the woman not healthy too after school fees and medical kuku kill am na

    • @josramsblue1
      @josramsblue1 11 місяців тому

      @@Samuel-rj7xt you are of the quality with the man, your father feeds you with 10k every month that's why your tho king faculty is so low .you are malnourished.

    • @Blink4army7stay8
      @Blink4army7stay8 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Samuel-rj7xt
      D woman is caring, minding d children.
      She cannot work and at d same time care 4d children.
      If she manages 2 work den she's doing it out of xtra effort. Everywhere in d world, d father is d provider. Do u know wot it takes 2 mind a child, even one child?
      Where is d time and chance 2 work wen children r in ur care, unless u hv help? Who will provide dat help ?
      U men shud b reasonable. If they gv u children 2 live with, can u do it and still work or do ur bizness normally without hitches ?

    • @papaetiosa6965
      @papaetiosa6965 5 місяців тому

      So she should be a liability?? When she’s not pregnant?​@@Blink4army7stay8

  • @folasadebolaji6463
    @folasadebolaji6463 11 місяців тому +1

    I love you judge Funmi .may God bless your wisdom

  • @obianujublessing7750
    @obianujublessing7750 11 місяців тому +2

    May we never get married to an enemy.....this man is something else

  • @lilyreal6990
    @lilyreal6990 11 місяців тому +2

    The fact that she renovated her father’s house without her husband been aware and also managing her husband’s business.

    • @divinekalu2225
      @divinekalu2225 11 місяців тому +2

      point of correction, she did not renovate her dad's her house n also was not the director of her husband's business.

  • @Ann-tk7xi
    @Ann-tk7xi 8 місяців тому +1

    As a wife to an igbo man, I can tell you it's not easy. In fact, I regret it daily.

  • @darasimiadedoyin2955
    @darasimiadedoyin2955 7 місяців тому

    Well job ma 😊I need ur help bcos hv bén going through a lot too taking care of the child alone and no supporters am tired ma

  • @tochukwuozoagu7500
    @tochukwuozoagu7500 6 місяців тому

    This lady looked responsible and calm

  • @charlesekwutosiagbo5348
    @charlesekwutosiagbo5348 11 місяців тому +1

    this man has suffered greatly.

  • @chiamakahope1106
    @chiamakahope1106 11 місяців тому +16

    marriage this time is not easy 😢may god help us ,amen

  • @HILLARYMICHAELBISHOP
    @HILLARYMICHAELBISHOP 11 місяців тому +13

    The husband is emotionally detached from his wife. Guess he is in love with another woman outside

    • @uchegod4003
      @uchegod4003 10 місяців тому

      My dear Igbo men don't play Love when there's no money. The man is very frustrated about his business. The woman get luck say the man no they drink. He for accept her back and carry beating follow her if the girl no go run leave the house for him

    • @authenticme1906
      @authenticme1906 9 місяців тому

      That's exactly how I feel.

    • @waleolatubosun3948
      @waleolatubosun3948 3 місяці тому

      The man is in a financial crisis, thats enough distraction

  • @Deprincechanneltv2546
    @Deprincechanneltv2546 11 місяців тому +2

    Nice one madam, more grace to your endeavour

  • @APRAKU1616
    @APRAKU1616 5 місяців тому

    I love this judge

  • @jennkitchen4559
    @jennkitchen4559 11 місяців тому +1

    What my kids dad did, he sent me out so he can have fun and bring back his first baby mama he abandoned with the son , because when she left ,she travelled to Lagos and started hustling to become a big girl back then .
    My kids dad was a greedy type when always go for sugar mummy and big girls for money.

  • @JOSEPHMAIKARFI
    @JOSEPHMAIKARFI 10 місяців тому +1

    I like when Judge fumi said he should make a list of what he want them to be eating. One thing I know you can't out smart her

  • @isaacakinwumi8397
    @isaacakinwumi8397 11 місяців тому +3

    I am seriously in love with you. You are intelligent

  • @daberechirosemary5157
    @daberechirosemary5157 11 місяців тому

    More Grace, more wisdom to you judge fumi

  • @Olayinka-d8j
    @Olayinka-d8j 11 місяців тому +1

    If your investment is squander and you found yourself from grace to grass you will understand this kind of pain.... In marraiges many sheet happens.. But both of them is to be blem especially the man...the children are paramont sha

  • @serenitypowers
    @serenitypowers 11 місяців тому +19

    The humility of Judge Fumi is graceful. She's handling every words that come out of her mouth with cautious for both parties to be please and not hurt. Marriage is good but divorce comes with a big unexpected package that one has to be ready for it though mental health is above everything but to provide that money for up keep isn't a joke. Another stress and mental health to be handle especially if you're not working.

    • @Childofmercy-xs2he
      @Childofmercy-xs2he 11 місяців тому +3

      You understand this thing. Is not easy to be placed on such
      Is not just about accepting to provide but will you keep to it till then?

  • @jamesbabangida9503
    @jamesbabangida9503 4 місяці тому

    Mr. Man She is a Good wife please accept her back!!!

  • @isiomaajufo3046
    @isiomaajufo3046 11 місяців тому +3

    His family ruined his marriage. He kept talking about his mum's opinion in his marriage. And now his sister lives with him. Most men like him regret their actions in old age. And they probably chased her out because she has no male child. There's no concrete reason i can see here for a divorce. So sad. Mummy's boy

    • @uchegod4003
      @uchegod4003 10 місяців тому +1

      My dear Don pray for your husband to lose his business. No marriage can be sweet without money

  • @aleroruppee4005
    @aleroruppee4005 11 місяців тому +2

    13:16 that Mama’s face. She isn't having it.

  • @tunkatpaul1148
    @tunkatpaul1148 11 місяців тому +1

    Good day,ma'am/Sir,please how can I locate the Justice court, because I want to report my former boss to the court to help collect the balance of my December 2023 salary and my January 2024 salary,she sacked me without paying me the balance. Please I need the Justice court address please.

  • @JulietRN24
    @JulietRN24 11 місяців тому

    TERRIBLE THINGS ARE HAPPENING THIS DAYS IN MARRIAGE...Average marriage is now on the verge of break up..Nigeria don hard

  • @naomiemathurinetv4709
    @naomiemathurinetv4709 5 місяців тому

    Nobody can’t feel two kids without money

  • @SalauHaminat
    @SalauHaminat 6 місяців тому

    Please house is it possible to have a program with this justice court that will not be put online?

  • @takangemmanuelnyenty672
    @takangemmanuelnyenty672 11 місяців тому +1

    Most women back Home just accept to marry someone because he's from abroad not because they love or wish to settle down most of them just want to Escape hardship now see where she fine herself now I feel sad for her

  • @mopelolapopoola831
    @mopelolapopoola831 11 місяців тому +1

    I pray God help the both of them to be able to take care of the kids

  • @brightekhator3499
    @brightekhator3499 11 місяців тому +3

    Why will you abandoned your children, Those children will be somebody some days

  • @coleffrank8197
    @coleffrank8197 11 місяців тому

    More wisdom to the judge,we need more of fumi in Nigeria.

  • @agnesalbarka5366
    @agnesalbarka5366 11 місяців тому +13

    The man has access to the kids but he cannot on any ground visit unannounced as if shes still his wife... If he wants to visit the kids, it must be in an agreed location since he doesnt pay her rent...Showing up in her family house unannounced is completely out of it...he should respect her privacy. 10k per child in this economy cannot work. It looks like the man has the moneY since he is increasing it but he needs a push. She will buy foodstuff, buy gas to cook the food, These are kids tht probably take snacks to school, buy their clothes, buy their toilatories, slippers.. Haba! The money the judge agreed upon without asking the woman if its ok is unfair... 10k per child is not tenable even if its subject to review

    • @rachealinaebi9455
      @rachealinaebi9455 11 місяців тому

      So the economy that you are crying doesn't affect the man abi. You think if they were still together he will be bringing so much moy

    • @lordrennieslomotey5909
      @lordrennieslomotey5909 11 місяців тому

      You're very evil. You're traumatized by your own father so you bring your frustration to other men.

    • @theclamartin4832
      @theclamartin4832 10 місяців тому

      The man won't pay😂😂 he'll change location and phone number 😂

  • @cajetanegenu5759
    @cajetanegenu5759 11 місяців тому +13

    That part of draw the time table of what you want her to be feeding them with 5k for 30 days 🤣🤣🤣

  • @dondomoses4118
    @dondomoses4118 11 місяців тому

    Hmm, kudos to judge Funmi 🙌

  • @CrimeReporting
    @CrimeReporting 11 місяців тому +14

    Moral of the story:
    Never marry a liability

    • @uyoyoueyiyere2368
      @uyoyoueyiyere2368 11 місяців тому +4

      How is she a liability?

    • @healthtrend3175
      @healthtrend3175 11 місяців тому +2

      What are you saying?

    • @swiftoutcrygaming3297
      @swiftoutcrygaming3297 10 місяців тому +3

      That is not the moral. The real moral is dont get married or father children that you cant cater for.

    • @ikennaakubueze7368
      @ikennaakubueze7368 10 місяців тому +2

      The man look like a liability to himself, and unserious person.

  • @emmasworld1511
    @emmasworld1511 11 місяців тому

    Judge Funmi's smile is charming.☺️

  • @youngChefebube575
    @youngChefebube575 10 місяців тому +1

    God save marriages

  • @boladamisa6239
    @boladamisa6239 11 місяців тому

    God bless our able judge for her judgements in Jesus name

  • @uzo435
    @uzo435 11 місяців тому +2

    I'm speechless!

  • @adeosunoluwafemi7159
    @adeosunoluwafemi7159 11 місяців тому

    God bless you Judge Funmi

  • @yvettewilliams5967
    @yvettewilliams5967 11 місяців тому +11

    Old man with young woman, the pain of the children. He is in his late 40’s, she is still in her 20’s. Men marrying children that a society allows helps lead to this rubbish! Thanks Judge Funmi!

    • @kemigold1860
      @kemigold1860 11 місяців тому +5

      Exactly, igbo men married late and if they want to marry, they marry young girl, I even thought he is her father.

    • @AncientHebrewNeverDied
      @AncientHebrewNeverDied 11 місяців тому

      Haba! 😂 He is not old and the age gap is not the problem here.

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 11 місяців тому +3

      @@AncientHebrewNeverDied a forty something year old man, CANNOT perform as a twenty something😂😂

    • @AncientHebrewNeverDied
      @AncientHebrewNeverDied 11 місяців тому

      @@yvettewilliams5967 A 'Twenty-something' is not yet a 'man'. 😁😁 Still needs to stay back home with Mum for enough breastfeeding for the wisdom and maturity needed to handle married life. 'Performance' is a small part, and one day, Mr 'twenty-something' will become too 'old' for ' performance. 😎🤣

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 11 місяців тому +2

      @@AncientHebrewNeverDied A twenty something should be in college getting and education, planning a career and could be married too. Many are doing it and building their lives everyday 😃

  • @emmanuelnwaorah9278
    @emmanuelnwaorah9278 8 місяців тому

    The way he even carelessly said the ten ten thousand no problem 😢😢😢... Its well

  • @tooktoon155
    @tooktoon155 11 місяців тому

    Ecclesiasticus 26:23 A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.

    • @uchegod4003
      @uchegod4003 10 місяців тому

      My dear leave that verse alone. Anything can happen in marriage. Just pray to have a good one

  • @kingsleyelike8521
    @kingsleyelike8521 11 місяців тому +13

    This man is wicked.. ten thousand naira for two kids.?

    • @sex214l7
      @sex214l7 11 місяців тому +2

      Same as your dad

    • @patriciadike2013
      @patriciadike2013 11 місяців тому

      Must u insult his dad? For u to defend a man that wants to be feeding his two children with 5k in a month means you'll do d same. ​@@sex214l7

    • @johnm.3415
      @johnm.3415 11 місяців тому +3

      Stop irrational . Be logical in your sense of reasoning & stop sounding stupid . This program is strictly for adults pls .

    • @emmanuelonwunali
      @emmanuelonwunali 11 місяців тому

      ​@@sex214l7why must you insult his father if another person insult your dad how will you feel.

    • @emmanuelonwunali
      @emmanuelonwunali 11 місяців тому

      ​@@johnm.3415you are the irrational one ,can 10,000 feed you in a month talkless of 2kids

  • @gloriahenry-nt6dr
    @gloriahenry-nt6dr 11 місяців тому +7

    This man is something else..

  • @josephchinago3337
    @josephchinago3337 11 місяців тому

    Thank you judge

  • @AMARACHIUFONDU-l9o
    @AMARACHIUFONDU-l9o 10 місяців тому

    When you open a business allow the business to grow at least 6months be touching the money that comes out from it. Every day Expenses destroys business

  • @kerrysmith9666
    @kerrysmith9666 11 місяців тому +5

    So this old man went and married this girl and only abandoned her after 2 little kids and went back to his abandoned girl friend, no responsible man will do such, soon he will go for the 3rd woman and keep having kids here and there.

    • @kennethosazeemwinde109
      @kennethosazeemwinde109 11 місяців тому +1

      Younger women are problem is u are not finecially strong

    • @evelinek.4493
      @evelinek.4493 11 місяців тому +1

      ​​@@kennethosazeemwinde109 what has this got to do with "younger women" being the problem? You do know it takes two to conceive a child right ? Both parties are equally responsible for that child upkeep

    • @isiomaajufo3046
      @isiomaajufo3046 11 місяців тому

      ​@@kennethosazeemwinde109then go for old women now! He should have allowed her to go and get a job instead of blaming her. He's irresponsible period!

  • @kenneth-fb1es
    @kenneth-fb1es 11 місяців тому

    The lady doesn't sound like who build house anywhere, as an abroad returnee it's by grace for you to succeed in Nigeria no matter the capital you invested, I knew someone who returned with over 100 million naira but today nothing is left.

  • @EbenezerOladipo-z5i
    @EbenezerOladipo-z5i 11 місяців тому

    How I wish couple can reconcile and start afresh.

  • @LorraineEssiam
    @LorraineEssiam 5 місяців тому

    Wicked man let him go

  • @pretty_lovie99
    @pretty_lovie99 11 місяців тому

    Life doesn't work like magic sir u will regret this decision because you took it simply because ur broke now

  • @fredpeter4966
    @fredpeter4966 11 місяців тому +1

    This man is a calamity and disaster. You are not informed too that is a responsibility

  • @julianegbon5844
    @julianegbon5844 11 місяців тому

    My honor , God Almighty will continue to increase your wisdom to settle issues ijmn Amen 🙏🏾

  • @mbasseynelson6995
    @mbasseynelson6995 11 місяців тому +3

    Favorite Channel all the way from Gambia 🇬🇲 ❤

  • @blessed-lf8xz
    @blessed-lf8xz 11 місяців тому +1

    Wise woman.

  • @AbiodunKingmate
    @AbiodunKingmate 11 місяців тому

    Madam kudos to you you are doing a very good job

  • @tosinolanrewaju7458
    @tosinolanrewaju7458 7 місяців тому

    I allws enjoy this program

  • @akeemoyegoke3175
    @akeemoyegoke3175 11 місяців тому +6

    Let me watch the second part before comment.
    The husband is a toad that wants to be act like a frog. Instead of blaming the wife for his failure, he should act responsibly with his finance.

  • @TheMoseswoman
    @TheMoseswoman 11 місяців тому +14

    Public Service Announcement: Ladies, if you see this man in the streets of Lagos, Abuja, or in the village, you should RUN. Do not walk mind you, but run as fast as your feet will carry you.

  • @joyceerusiafe6321
    @joyceerusiafe6321 11 місяців тому +2

    I can't see a big issue here
    It's just a man who doesn't love his wife anymore

    • @uchegod4003
      @uchegod4003 10 місяців тому

      The wife finished her business and you want him to love her

    • @wofaieloma3358
      @wofaieloma3358 10 місяців тому

      Yeah

  • @rubbiegwanzura124
    @rubbiegwanzura124 11 місяців тому +4

    The man must ask for a DNA test before paying anything

    • @Amarachi516
      @Amarachi516 8 місяців тому +2

      Help them do it....the man tell u say the woman dey gp outside

  • @TaiwoAwesu
    @TaiwoAwesu 20 днів тому

    Please how can I get to justice court?

  • @bidemifolakedada8457
    @bidemifolakedada8457 11 місяців тому

    As for the lady, you see a married man you go for it the you no what happen to the first wife who make it live him

  • @johnm.3415
    @johnm.3415 11 місяців тому +6

    This lady looks very responsible & nice . Can she pls drop her ig handle or details ? We can help . Well I pray with time they’ll find time to FORGIVE each other . Marriage is not easy . Comes with lots & lots of challenges. Besides when a man makes up his mind over a woman that’s the END .
    This man is done & dusted with this lady . Case closed💔.