Suing His Super Mom
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- The plaintiff brings his mother to court. He says his mom raised him and his seven siblings well, while his father was an alcoholic. He claims the defendant got a car and registered it in his name without his permission, and she got tickets and his license got suspended. He’s suing for emotional distress and the cost of getting a boot removed. The defendant admits she put the car in her son’s name but says she did it with her son’s permission.
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You can tell he really didn’t want to sue her but you can also tell she wouldn’t have paid unless forced to do so. He seems like a great son and upstanding young man I can see how getting pulled over and jailed would be traumatic especially for someone who doesn’t get in trouble.
He was fighting to keep from making her look bad. You can tell he really love his mom
She didn't pay the show pays the judgement and pay them an appearance fee.
@@mellzlife4943 YESSSS... HE COULD BARELY SPEAK... BECAUSE HE WAS FIGHTING SO HARD TO NOT SAY ANYTHING SOUR ABOUT HIM MOM.. HE DEFINITELY LOVES HER.. AS HE SHOULD... THAT'S MAMA. HE AIN'T EVEN MAD.. MAMA OR NOT MOST PEOPLE BE PISSED ON HER GOING OFF ON THEIR PARENT.. GIVING A SHOW.. 🤣🤣🤣
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@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 I think the loser still has to pay the show.
you can tell he changed his story when he said " is a blur" to not make his mom look like a liar
Yep and that was so sweet of him. She raised a good guy and she is so wrong
He needs to tell the truth and admit that his mom is shady and is a liar!
@@asill.6668 He did the RIGHT thing Lisa
I applaud this young man. He seemed a bit nervous having to sue Mom. I’m happy as well that Mom didn’t call in attempting to be defensive because she’s Mom and “all she’s done for him and his siblings”. And the ending was heart warming. I can see Mom did a beautiful and wonderful job raising her babies.
Mother did not seem warm towards him
@@cc3956 You are making that evaluation based on your thinking and experience which deems it invalid.
@@cc3956 I noticed that too! She didn't want to hug him. I'm glad he sued her; she was so wrong for doing that to him!
That ending wasn’t heart warming. You see she didn’t give him a full embrace, but instead gave him that passive-aggressive one-arm hug. She’s just trying to save face and make her “image” look sincere on tv. I can’t stand fake women like her.
@@cc3956 I didn’t like her at all. She seems toxic to me.
Wow she was something else. And let her " FRIEND" get tickets and both not pay. That's the best you could?🤔 Shameful.
Exactly!
Exactly. I would be so ashamed. I have am 18 yo. I would never do him that way
His mother should be ashamed of herself. She had that man arrested for her tickets and left him in jail over the weekend. He should’ve had her arrested for fraud. She should be ashamed of herself. She had that man in court nervous as hell and she’s as cool as a cucumber and as wrong as the cost of gas is high.
Now that's wrong
😂😂😂cool as a cucumber wrong as the cost of gas. You’re absolutely correct!
Well i dont need to scroll anymore comments. You hit the nail on the head with this one lol
🤭😂……..@@allymaree8812 Said you hit the nail on the head and I CONCUR!
Not sure how she's a super mom?
What an absolutely wonderful young man! Shame on you mom.
She should have at Least Apologised to her Son Smh! 🙄🤷🏾♂️
They knowingly did him dirty. They knew the car and tickets wasn’t attached to their name so they had a ball on his account. No other way to put it. Smh
Not to mention getting this young, black man pulled over by cops! Bless his heart!
They didn't care. The car wasn't in their name. Mom threw her good son under the bus.
@@davidtaylor8787 Unfortunately, the good child is often taken advantage of. Seriously? You let your "friend" mistreat your blood? Sigh! I'm praying he will move forward no matter her reaction after this, because that hug didn't convince me.
@@davidtaylor8787 She's NOT a good mother!
How tf she got a car under someone else's name...
He seems such a humble young man. Happy about the verdict and the ending of this case.
I think he’s honestly scared to blame her by the way he’s acting due to how she may act behind closed doors
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I think he just didn't want to hurt her.. he was fighting with his mouth not to slip up and say anything hurtful or something that would embarrass his mom..
@W How do they handle maternal accountability in the Caucasian, Asian, Latino, and other ethnic communities?
Amazing how a parent can mistreat a good child and the child will still love that parent. He put his arms around her but she did not throw her arms around him.
🥴🤦🏾♀️ I never, ever, ever put anything in my kids name…. But if you do, how you not be responsible for messing with their livelihood mom? No mam !!
His mother seems like a narcissist and one of those parents who thinks they can treat their kids anyway they want to including messing up their credit. I feel bad for this guy. He may want to cut ties with her so he can have a better future!
Sounds like a lot of certain mothers if were being honest............ using their kids for utility bills, phone bills, credit cards etc then skipping out on the ran up bill, ruining their credit before they even reach 18! Yet they brainwash their kids enough to still b called supermom..smh 🤦♀️..... why because she was dumb enough to have multiple babies she can’t afford by multiple men.. and didn’t abort them or pawn them off on grandma?
That seems like a helluva stretch.
damn where did you get all that from lol...
@@jonahpharoah It’s just critical thinking. You don’t let people do you wrong like this and allow them a chance to do it again. 🤷🏾♂️
@@scottrogue946 they acting stupid. I completely agree with everything you said. She is gonna bring him down if let her
This is sad. He should Go thru the process to have it expunged, and sue his mama for the fees!
My heart goes out to this young Brotha. He obviously loves his mother and is trying to be very careful about his words as to not embarrass her further. I too was the victim of parental identity theft and it does not feel good at all. Black men that are products of single moms always want to protect our Main Queen but it's hard to just let something that major slide. I'm glad they came to Judge Mathis because the healing can now begin.
His demeanor made me very sad. He didn't want to hurt his mother but what she did was abusive. She abused his trust and that's pathetic.
My mom opened a credit card in my name. I was shocked when I found out but she was desperate. I couldn’t sue her and she eventually paid things off. This young man’s hands were forced because it did not look like mom was going to pay anything.
@@rsjohnson2007 She was wrong, but there's mitigating circumstances.
From what I understood, she was not a single parent. The father was an alcoholic and put the burden of childrearing on her.
@@sereneamani1713 that makes her a single parent. The son said as much.
I feel so bad for him..... and how he wanted to hug her at the end. Some parents just don't care.... I know how that feels.
He said I love you and she said “I know”!! Right then I knew she was mad at him for suing her. She could have easily said I love you back. I wish this young man nothing but the best.
I also know how that feels Rashida. It takes time to build up the courage to stand up against a parent who shows little to no remorse or concern about how they treat their kids....
@@breawnacrowder8485 she ended up saying love you while she hugged him with 1 arm smh
Do you really think this mother doesn't care about or love her son because of what you saw on a 12-minute TV segment.
@@sereneamani1713 She doesn't care about this situation and made it evident. Some parents just don't see their wrong doing ESPECIALLY when it concerns money.
I have great issue with this case and quite put my finger on it, but know it stems from the mother. She sounds awful. And I feel like this young man is the way he is- timid, unable to express himself and somewhat delayed as a result of his mom’s treatment growing up. Just a theory, but I’m happy he won and is educated.
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Excellent observation!
Well stated! I agree
Notice she wouldn't speak on her alcoholic husband, she probably tried to run him down thru there also. But that's not relevant to the case 😏
Agreed! Respectful young man, she seemed very cold towards him at the end.
He looks like he’s scared to speak and scared of his mama. They put this fear in u ! How I know my mama is a narcissist
I think that's the issue with a lot of the commenters. You're projecting your life and your relationships onto this man and his mother.
I agree with you @ generational curse breaker
@@sereneamani1713 , I believe that she is a narcissistic woman. She raised her kids, now she is going to get her some back. She did a lot of crappy things to her son, resulting in him being put in jail and having to pay fines incurred by her and her "friend".
That is pretty lowdown.
You can tell she’s proud of her son. But you can also tell that if he allows, she will take advantage of him.
Yep!
A ‘friend’ who had no problem ruining your son’s reputation and credit, not to mention how she can so cavalierly do it to him. Shameful!
She didn't even apologize.
Him: "I love you."
Her: "I know."
Me: wtf ☹
I noticed that too. She also half hugged him while he was giving a full legit hug. That woman can't be trusted
@@travelgodess Right! I noticed that too, she didn't even hug him back!
He even changed his story and said it was a “blur” to cover for her lie! Bless his big beautiful heart! I think she was/is on something. She seem to have trouble being present…
Right I heard that to this is so sad
Typical entitled woman
She traumatized this child and seems to have nothing but self protection and self preservation in mind. SAD!
This is sad. He literally could've been killed from that traffic stop and they had no remorse, just used his name and didnt care about being behind. Unreasonable search and seizure.
Could have been killed? Jesus Christ that’s a helluva stretch. You are brainwashed
Why on earth would he have been killed from a traffic stop?
@@cornchiphero Do u not watch the news? Do u not see how many traffic stops with black ppl end up???
@@jindav1 yes I do! I also look at statistics. Maybe you should try that. 99.9% of traffic stops with ANY race don’t end in death unless you do something crazy. I think if you took a look at statistics instead of believing the medias divisive propaganda you’d feel better about things.
I agree with you
Wow getting a car in ur child's name which is illegal but why get tickets OMG beyond ridiculous.
She didn’t even say I love you back!! My heart hurts.
She's proved her love over his lifetime, don't you think?
No one wants to sue their parent. I had to press charges on my mother when I was 18 because she messed my credit up by opening things and I just so happen to get an email a year later. She was never in my life but had the nerve to do such thing. My daddy made me press charges on her so fast so I could get that stuff off my credit and it did.
Good for you!
Wow Good for you you did the right thing.
I would sue my mom in a heartbeat if she did something like that to me!
🚨His mom is a master manipulator!🚨 She racked up tickets in her sons name and HE GOT ARRESTED for it. She didn’t feel bad then, and doesn’t feel bad now.
He low key was acting like a battered child scared to tell on his abusive parent. He seems like a really kind guy, and he was only trying to go to school and live. His mom should have been the one in jail and should have been charged federally.
I wish him well and I’m glad he prospered inspite of his con artist parents.
You read minds and emotions?
@@sereneamani1713 I read body language.. and I listen with the 2 great ears and 2 great eyes God gave me. 💅🏽
Yea I think you reaching, their is definitely some disfunction going on but I don’t think all that
There are so many kids with these traumatic stories. I know a lot of kids with trifling mothers
A lot of bad moms out there, just like a lot of bad cops out there. The mother is a thug for doing that to her own son. Pay your own bills mother and stop letting thug men rack up bills on your son. The mother should be ashamed of herself.
He’s trying to remain respectful and not smear her character.
Wow... Sent one of her babies to jail! Smdh! He's in college doing right and now he has a record! Parents do better! I could never! Yes, I am judging, bc I know I would never do my babies like that!
Same thing I said. She is supposed to protect him from people like her. She knows how much he loves her, so she manipulates him. She is heartless. Imagine when the big judge judges her smh
@@Chosenones572 my mom use to play me like that and manipulate me. Unfortunately, out of 4 kids, I am the only one she can depend on not to use her, steal from her, help her out, look out for her, etc. She use to take advantage of my wanting ti to be a good kid and honor her. I say that bc outside of help she doesn't mess with me. Plus, there are some terrible things she did to me in my 20s. I was raised in a two-parent home. If it weren't for my Dad I may have endured abuse as a child, bc it wasn't until my Dad passed away that she became very open with her true feelings. Now at 36, I do what I feel is considerate and I keep it moving. I still look out, bc I know my Dad raised me to honor. But I put zero expectations on her to be the parent/person I need her to be. Or the Grandmother my girls need her to be, for that matter.
@@aprilpinketon2567 WoW!! I was just listening to something this morning on being the scapegoat and being used by the narcissistic parent (s) as a child. It was more common than I thought. Although it's very sad, i feel like ur dad had to pass away in order for her to be the person u needed and wanted her to be. If even just a little smh. Some of us have to be that one in our family to break the cycles
@@Chosenones572 oh no, it was mild when my dad was around. So mild I didn't notice. It got worse once my Dad passed. I couldn't believe the person she come to be. It made a lot of smaller incidents, that happened growing up make sense. I've dealt with the turmoil and pain, and I am a lot better than I used to be. I used to let it break me. Not setting expectations, allowing there to be some distance, and loving her for who she is has helped tremendously. It's strange to me still how prevalent this issue is.
@@aprilpinketon2567 oh wow!! I had it backwards. That's even worse. I can relate when it comes to just letting go and accepting people for who they are and keeping a safe distance. I moved 22 hours away from where I grew up 7 years ago. It's been peaceful and Its like i was able to start my life over and raise my children the way I want to and live life altogether
Props to that young man
My daughter seen her and said she looked creepy and I told my daughter that she was a narcissist. My daughter knows when something ain’t right. And she’s 8 years old
that forehead scare me too
Did you define narcissism for your daughter? What criteria did you use to diagnose this personality disorder?
@@sereneamani1713 her daughter just probably heard her over using the word
Y’all are too loose with this word narcissistic! Was the mom wrong for what she did yea but usually narcissistic breeds children that are messed up in live not young men like this.
She has taken advantage of a kind and humble soul.
Those babies' daddys need to support her minor children and her man needs to foot her bills.
What baby daddies? Her HUSBAND. Did you listen to the case or your mind.
What is it with people that want 8 kids? Ridiculous.
Apparently she raised him to “do a I say, not as I do”… he’s a great young man!
The ending made me cry. He seems like such a good guy and I can only imagine how often people take advantage of him because of his kind heart and what seems to be a slight cognitive delay.
At the end, the mom says "I love you, that's why I'm here." No ma'am! You did wrong by your son period! Then you let a man drive it and rack up tickets in it too! That was straight up trifling!
I can tell that this was hard for him and that made me sad. I want to believe that the mom and her trifling "friend" had no intentions or getting this young man in so mich trouble. I really WANT to believe that.
Don't believe it. She knew exactly what she was doing...
He should have sued her for $5,000 with all he had to go through. My goodness.
This is so sad! How could you as a mother do that to your child. I’m so happy he has graduated, got a good paying job,and so much better with his life. I’m also so happy he forgave his mom. ❤️✨
He might have been able to forgive her because he realizes the role she played in him attending college, graduating, and get a good job.
He's genuinely a good guy. He knew his mother raised them alone. And wasn't harsh towards her. He really loves and appreciate what she did. I respect the mother to a point. Yeah you raised them. But why would you not pay the tickets off and let your loser boyfriends rack up tickets under your son's name. Respect for raising them. But the hell with you for letting your boyfriend also carelessly get tickets that got your son pulled over. Especially knowing how young black men are treated by the police.
Such an upstanding young man. I hope he keeps that same heart forever
She may have taken advantage of him. He may be nervous or a tad bit delayed somewhat. I wish him the best and mom knows she's wrong. You'll never have anything in life treating people this way..especially your own child.
He was being selective as to not incriminate his mom. He is extremely intelligent.
Amen!
I truly sympathize with that young man because I have never been to jail but I have had a few embarrassing encounters with law enforcement due to my irresponsible siblings who concealed drugs on them while in my presence. SMH He won't ever forget that experience of being innocently jailed.
He should also sue her for damages for him being in jail, and for the cost of expunging his criminal record.
We need more young men like him..overfill with respect
Awww poor baby he was so sweet he didn’t want to sue her at all. He was so nervous I’m glad they hugged
Also, isn’t that a felony? I know it’s illegal for sure to use someone else’s name, especially your own child because you messed your own credit up, now you want to mess your kid’s credit!! SMH! That’s very ghetto!!
It's not illegal to get a car in someone elses name. Its illegal to do it without their permission.
Black mothers have been doing this for years! LOL!
Identity theft and fraud!!!
He's such a good son and person; his Mama's a bit of a hustler, I'd say, she really should be ashamed; she didn't seem too apologetic, more like, "oh well"!
At first I was like “how can someone sue their own mother?” But after hearing his testimony, I can’t see why it was ok him so long to do so. She was really trifling and it’s unfortunate it had to come to this. Her negligence caused him to go to jail. How could you let that happen to your own son and be so nonchalant about it. Pathetic.
NOT cool, Mom! 🙄 Smh
Narcissistic Bully beyond reproach Not one time did she say #ImSorry ...Continual Blessings to the Son🙏🏽
I think the mom feels that she’s entitled for what sis did. Very sad he’s a good and respectful young man 💕🌻 I pray that he get it expunged and live a free life to be able to get a home
Yes, she feels very entitled because she gave birth to children...smh
You can tell she's a piece of work! Look at how she's looking at him.
I can't tell that. Especially in 12 minutes
@@sereneamani1713 can or can't? If you're saying can't then, just look at her body language
His mother is a diva, and a narcissist. She is a grown woman, and she should not ask her son to purchase a car in her name. She should have her own credit, to pay for her own car. Not ask her son. Good God.
The saddest part is he didn’t want to take her to court, he stammered over his whole case trying to be respectful and even told her he loved her at the end and she says “I know”… No apology or anything.. And that’s probably how it’s been his whole life.
That boy did not deserve any kind of emotional destress. He was pulled over because the police ordered it.
As far as the car is concerned, it is a pity, but he initially drove without a driver's license.
That was enough to arrest and imprison him.
This shit was hard to watch but, if I was sueing my mom I would be hella nervous too.
Im sorry but the mom knew what she was doing. Its a reason she couldn’t get a car under her name. He is so nervous and wants to respect his momma. Great guy! She didn’t even get him out of jail, my gosh or even try. She needed to take accountability. I wish judge was a little hard on her with that part.
She probably has bad credit and couldn't get a car in her name, and the judge usually takes the mother's side in these cases, that's why he wasn't that hard on her...
Mom's was wrong as two left shoes...all she had to do was make it right. Instead she almost made this black man a statistic by getting him pulled over for crap...he seems like a great son and a greater man. Took a lot of courage to take his mom to court. I hope she saw her errors and they were able to mend their relationship.
I didn't see a torn relationship
DAMN! 8 KIDS?!
An Alcoholic PREACHER?!! 🍻
Momma was Movin' Triflin' by Gettin' dat 🚗 Car in His Name.
The Plaintiff is a very sweet kinda shy young man. I want to know why his Mom got a car in her son's name to rack up tickets in? Honestly she DGAF about the ramifications that were going to her son. Damn she didn't even get him out of jail but somehow he still hugged her after winning his case. Better than me. I find that some families will screw each other worse than strangers would.
He hugged her because he loved her and was appreciative of her sacrifices to raise him and his siblings.
She gives I gave birth to you I can do whatever I want to you!! Wrong attitude lady!! The son seems like a good man.
He really loves her. She looks like my mom and I know this was hard for him to do. This could have become a tragedy with the police incident and being jailed while in college. I’m so proud of him and wish nothing but the best for their relationship going forward.
Awwww, the fact he is just complimenting his mom just moved my heart ❤️🥰
Wow! Shame on her!!!!!!!!!
I love You…. I know?!?! Naw momma say I love you back son!!! And apologize!!!! 🤷🏽♀️
He reminds me of Corey Wise from the Central Park 5- very nice but appears timid due to trauma I like him a lot tho i hope he does well in life he’s amazing and he deserves it
The defendant was wrong for that accumulating traffic tickets while operating her son car that caused him to get arrested for suspension of driver license due to unpaid citations that is negligence, on her part.
She reminds me of Joan Crawford...Mommie Dearest.
He is such a good son. He missed his mommy and you could tell he didn't want to sue her.
I will say it again, “not every mother has the ability to mother.” This mom seem to have had a strong emotional grip on this young man, him proceeding with this court case and winning, has helped to loosen that grip. Wishing him well♥️
If the tables were reversed, Judge Mathis would've went hard on him. He took it easy on the mom.
She wicked. Did she say I know when he said he loved her. He didn't hug him back she should have said no when he asked.
I believe the plaintiff would beg to differ that his mother is wicked.
The Plaintiff is not comfortable speaking against his mum and still respect her
She looks amazing but her heart is blackened with narcissistic ways!
Yes he was very nervous and his mother seemed unbothered and didn't want to address his concerns pertaining to his father... SAD bc his feelings matter and it should be addressed so that healing can begin.
Might be better places to do that than on a segment of JM
He need to stay away from his narcissistic mama or she’s going to keep doing bad things to Him
Yep, and put a fraud alert on his credit reports, because if she did it once, she could do it again!
I agree!!
Smh she must be crazy
Who said she looks like Homey Da Clown?!? 🤡🤣
I'm so proud of this young man for standing up to this injustice that was done to him. She should have paid the tickets and bonded him out. He actually was wronged in a few ways and betrayed.
_She should admit her wrong doing. Even if she asked, that doesn't exonerate her negligence and wrongdoing. Selfish. And she owes him a sincere apology so she can reflect after they regain trust and relationship._ *So, so proud of him, especially as a native Chicago Chicagoan myself.*
He loves his mom. And respect's her alot. Do rt. Mom and fix it for your son. Much respect to him
I believe she TOLD him not asked him to put the car in his name...he seems like a good kid...that's a hard thing to go through. I'm sorry but I spent most the case trying to figure out if that is her natural hairline🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️...Glad he won though.
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I see it up front but it’s pushed back at the same time
Yeah...that hairline had me too🤣🤣🤣
That boy did not deserve any kind of emotional destress. He was pulled over because the police ordered it.
As far as the car is concerned, it is a pity, but he initially drove without a driver's license. He is a little bit shady, because he said that his mom lent him the car first, then he changed his story.
That was enough to arrest and imprison him If he is already behind the wheel without a driver's license, he might also have incurred some extra fines while joy-driving plus without a driver's license.
She is disgusting to do that, no excuses people with these entitlement habits make me sick!
Stop feeling sorry for your parents if they have a lot of kids, you didn’t make them have sex🤯 don’t carry their burden
The ending almost made me cry. He’s a lovely young man. If I had a daughter and she was to meet a fellow like him; they would definitely get my approval.
I hate when parents do things like this to their kids!! Your life should already be stable, You mess up your kids life when you try to binge off your child.
It be your own people.....
I wish nothing but the best for him. He seems like a good person. He doesn't deserve any of this. I hope he continues to do well.
Ahh narcissistic mothers always put things in your name without your permission
What horrible mother.
Something about his moms demeanor & him coming off so timid isn’t sitting right
Mommy got her alcoholic /pastor husband’s BACK!
she chose to misuse her child because her husband cannot provide for her.
Silly comment. Just utterly silly.
I know that was hard for him! At least mom owned up to it instead of making up all kind of crazy excuses.
Reginald is so adorable!!! Keep up the great work!
Sorry but this mama is trifling 😒 How are you going to hinder your child instead of helping? Destroying his credit and background instead of educating him about it ?? 🤦🏾♀️
They be lowkey jealous of their kid
The plaintiff is such a humble mannered man
What kinda sick joke is this… she could’ve been the cause of this young man losing his life.
He needed 5 grand. Momma know she was wrong.
She did him wrong, he seems like a very good kid. What a shame that he was thrown in jail because of her carelessness.