Reasons Bat Di Mo Sya Mabitawan/ Relationship Advise

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[@macymordeno2769]

Letting go is hard but you have to love your self first.
Self love is not selfish

[@rhi3961]

“ My happiness is my responsibility “ i will build myself .

[@GG-ve1hv]

"Holding on creates more damage than letting go"... so beautiful! And yes, he also stabbed me behind my back...

[@nicka5380]

You have to learn how to be ALONE first so that a companion is just an OPTION but NEVER a necessity 👏👏👏

[@junethatienza7635]

❤

[@tseranne]

Kuya darbs, I've been to 10 years relationship because of you I did an incredible changes in my life,. You did give me hope, the willingness to walk away. My ex was cheated on me for so many times, nakabuntis ng iba while kami when we are already engaged. Watching yiur vlogs, made me realize lots of things that I didn't see before, the love that I need, and now I'm on the process of healing focusing on my teaching career and other things, , it's been 3 months since nangyari sakin ung bangungot thank you kuya darbz.

[@lhenecarreon1499]

🙏♥️

[@marian6717]

😢

[@levyang7732]

Congratulations! You're saved from more chaotic and painful situation. Kesa naman kasal na kayo tsaka mo pa nakita yung kulay nya.

[@jmal8053]

Di paba sapat ang ngcheat sya multiple times para marealize mo? Nu bayan mga babae tlga. Ang hindi nilelet go yung taong matino because that is a valid reason.

[@madelinemorales9369]

Good for you engaged palang, samantalang Ako kasal na at paulit ulit na lang.

[@THERICKMATTHEWS]

True helping is not expecting anything in return. If habang buhay ka may utang na loob sa kanya, its not helping, its MANIPULATING :(

[@laniemay5140]

I'm still hurt. Still can't move on with my ex. I know that I need to love myself first but I just need to feel this pain until I'll get numb. I will be happy for sure. Claiming it. Will going back to this comment once I fully moved on. 🙏😭Malooy nakos akong self!

[@lovelynevado8681]

pareho Tayo 13 years kami ngayon kaso mas pinili nyang Ako tuluyan Ng bitawan... Pero pinag lalaban ko pa din sa kanya nararamdam ko ... Lalot may tatlo kaming anAk na grade student pa at Isang grade 7 ... ayOko Naman na dumating sa point na pati mga anAk ko Ang ma epektuhan kaya hanggat kayo gumawa paraan na MABUO kami ulit ginagawa ko kahit patuloy na nya ako tinataboy sa lahat Ng mga sinasabi nya at pinararamdam nya... Hanggang ngayon nahihirapan Ako di ko Maka Kain, di makatulog lagi nag aabang sa mga reply nya kasing labo pa pangako Ng mag babayad Sayo Ng utang... gusto ko man sumuko pero ayaw Ng puso ko ... maghihintay Ako at magtiwala sa faith ko na magiging okay din Ang lahat na may pag Asa pa na mabalik ung dating pagmamahal nya sa akin ... dahil sobra Kong pinag sissihan Ang lahat Ng pabigla bigla Kong desisyon 🥺

[@jellay5575]

I love myself too ..ako yung nakipag break.. ayoko nang gulo sa buhay lalo na yung mga tao ngayun ang judgemental. I still love him I swear but sumali na ako sa study bible dun na magbabago buhay ko

[@emzvlog8736]

Ang sarap mg isa na masaya.. Ng iisa ako for 9yrs and I'm happy ang saya mg isa tlga promise . Go travel alone is 🥰 if mg isa ka you find peace. Like you felt fulfilment contentment and PEACEFUL inside.

[@rutchrayos7324]

Nice

[@eyesofawanderer8939]

That’s the consequence of seeing red flag as green during the early stage of dating pa lang. Run for the hills kaagad when someone is manipulating you. Love yourself first. It’s attractive pag may self worth.

[@angelbaby1923]

Thank you! Maybe it’s time na bumitaw na ako. Yes masakit talaga..pero mas masakit yung ako na lang ang kumakapit..

[@meenamoon7930]

3:43 Great timing ❤️
This is so true. Naexperienced ko toh sa past relationship ko. Using my personal issues in life para mag stay sa kaniya was really damaging me to the point na natulala na lang ako noon sa kaniya habang nagsasalita siya that was the time i already knew i was being manipulated by him. Trying to control me is not the reason for me to stay with him so i decided to leave .
Ayoko ng sabihin dito kung anu ano pa yung mga abusive words na narinig ko para takutin ako pero hindi ako nagpatalo at that time. Mahal ko siya to be honest but i realise na ang dami ko palang hindi nalalaman.
Pinagpray ko nalang siya at alam ko na hindi ako pababayaan ng Diyos sa nagawa niya saken. Lahat ng masamang ginawa sa tao ay may consequences .
Kaya this time hindi na po ako takot na mawala siya.

[@daddada2984]

Love is sacrifice. Love endure.
But love must be freely given.

[@atejoy3585]

I'm inlove with this video. The summary of this video for me is all about SELF LOVE FIRST AND LEARN TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF ALONE :)

[@karencapina2479]

Hirap ka bumitaw kasi mas mahal mo yung taong yon kesa mas mahal mo sarili mo..

[@julyonalos4797]

😭😭😭😢😢😢 ,Ang hirap po..pero nakakapagod na den.salamat po sa mga advice 😊😊

[@mariaglendolynberamo7160]

Hey darbs bakit ang galing mong mag advice parang well experienced ka na, you always HIT my heart sa mga Real Talks mo.thank you it really helps.

[@polisticojerricivan3210]

last month when we were shaky, I was watching your tips on how to cope up with LDR. But now, Im listening to your tips on moving on. Thank you for being so sensible

[@BetroMoomin]

Alam mo kuya darbs. Gustong gusto ko pinapanood videos mo, kakagaling ko lang sa break up last monday. Pinipilit ko sa sarili ko na baka magbago pa kahit alam kong hindi na magbabago yung tao dahil hindi ako pinapahalagahan, umiiwas din ako sa mga signs kung kailangan ko na ba mag let go. Pero out of nowhere biglang lumabas video na 'to. Ikaw yung tumulong sakin noon, nagtiwala ako at maganda yung kinalabasan. Hindi mo sinira tiwala ko sayo kuya darbs, di ko man kaya pa ngayon tanggapin na wala na. Pero alam ko na kahit di mo ako kakilala o di mo alam na nag eexist ako. Alam kong meron at meron kang video na makakatulong sakin. Thank you, Kuya Darbs!

[@jhoycealvaro1836]

natutunan kona kung paano maging mag isa.mas natutunan konang mahalin ang sarili ko at hindi kona kinukumpara ang sarili ko sa iba

[@johnpauldiaz1851]

paano? haha hirap

[@jhordssac5820]

Kung tao hirap masabihan na Tama na Yan daming masasaktan sa Mali ginagawa damay2x na Ang anak 😡😡😡😡 sana gisingin sya sa kanyang konsensya kung Meron man

[@Charlock-kn5uk]

I finally let go yesterday and it hurts so much but this is the time for me to love myself.

[@mariaarlenegabon]

This is how I am feeling right now. :( I am still holding on, baka maayos pa... For now i just gave the space that he was asking for. Prayers lang siguro at faith in God ..This too shall pass...

[@ycelrey7652]

Not all the time na takot mag isa. Sometimes, the person is just too forgiving and is holding on to the fact that this person will eventually change and give what you desire.

[@monicaalpeche8864]

It's true

[@aprilabitona4516]

true

[@djoiantonio5396]

True

[@mayanndlolimon12]

Yas

[@cathy933]

"The sunset is beautiful isn't it?"xx

[@hasmincanoy847]

Learn to love yourself first 💜

[@Jona1123]

Tama po kayo sir...salamat po sa mga paalala...kahit masakit kailangan nang tanggapin...at araling mahalin Ang sarili

[@jenniferpitas3782]

Awesome 👏🏻 advice ! Share ko to sa kakilala ko na di makapag move on

[@ruffap6588]

Badly needed this kind of advice right now..🥺🥺🥺

[@joshMD1006]

Indeed. Great advice!

[@bebebe08]

hi kuya darbs, like others naffeel ko yung happiness after breakup. pero tama ka nga siguro that will be a temporary happiness if hindi ko nafeel yung pain, if hindi ko nafeel yung emptiness na kailangan ko tp grow and to break through. I don't need someone na makaka unlock ng sadness ko. i need to focus on how that relationship ruined me as a lesson. nag bblame den ako sakanya pero hindi sa sarili ko. kase nag commit ako in a relationship between me and him na alam ko na naging fair yung trait. so why not aminin ko den mga naging kaslanan ko for me to grow and start the healing process.

[@lizalynlim6995]

Thank you very much for the wisdom that you shared! It really helps a lot! God bless you!

[@r0nzk1.]

To the point.. It hit hard bro... tyvm

[@danoperiano6435]

Sobrang ganda ng mga aral n mapupulot sa mga payo ni kuya darbs ! Galing !❤

[@PSJ2102]

Thank you for this video kuya Darbs. More power and God bless you always and your family.
A.J watching from Brunei

[@yetas5398]

Man why are you so brilliant? You always hit the mark. Thank you so much!

[@djoiantonio5396]

Agreee!..Super lodi

[@nadiaaisa8458]

its not that its hard to be alone. but its just that i know in my self that he needed someone to listen and be with him. ❤️ and the fact na mahal mo xa 💕

[@hasnifahbalang4191]

Thanks for your advice..

[@chismosangbaneyney2110]

love this message of yours so let go the person

[@richelletemporaza9649]

Yung sabi mo na kung pakiramdam mo ikaw nlang kumakapit.. bitaw kana.. that hit me kuya darbs.. bumababa talaga stress ko sayo.

[@lynoniriuq2695]

Same

[@larizasoquena859]

Salamat po sa advice ❤

[@jingsan2s]

Holding on does more damage than letting go... true!

[@user-io6db2he4n]

Your right kuya darbs. 6 yrs is enough, sobrang sakit tlaga. Were done..

[@chrisromero9338]

Ganyan ginawa ko, ako nalang kc kumakapit..masakit pero kakayanin..

[@josephineranga9194]

TRUE bitaw na if ikaw na lng Ang kumakapit 👍 acceptance & Prayers is the best in order to move forward 👍🙏😊

[@stiljhonmariecagasan8951]

Thank you . I hope I’ll have that courage to do that kuya darbs

[@MeksMeks101]

Thank you sir darbs more power

[@Eros406]

Thanks for the words of wisdom😚

[@rosemadeldaquio4056]

The best advise ever! 💗

[@erlynreyes364]

Thanks for inspiring advice Lodz 🙏🙏🙏

[@kathykha52]

I get the best advices from you Kuya Darbs! Thank you!

[@Rosas0131]

Thank you. Ito inaantay ko para matauhan ako 💔

[@putot4509]

When reality hits me KUYAAA 😭😭😭😭 ang sakit lang, 💔 I FEEL ALL THE FEELINGS

[@josephineduterte3720]

Thank u kuya Darbs tama talaga lahat na sinabi mo Godbless po!

[@jcm2789]

Grabe ang galing mo kuya! kakagaling ko lang sa rejection kaya napaka helpful neto na mag move on ako sa taong super na attached ako. I will focus on my self na at harapin ang bagong bukas na may pag asa.

[@jeisongaming69]

same here, sobrang attached ako sa ex ko. parang mag asawa na kami. araw araw kasama ko sya at tabi kami matulog, niloko lang ako. ang sakit. di ko pa magawa ngayon un mga payo dahil palagi ko na iisip kahit gusto ko man kalimutan. 5days na ko heartbroken. T_T

[@yurinalysis8034]

O​@@jeisongaming69

[@user-nl2or5ox3h]

Salamat sa advice na ito naliwanagan ako

[@basketballislife1693]

Thank you for giving me a sign.

[@DennisJosephBugos]

Thank you for making me realize my worth, RealtalkDarbs!

[@quenniegaypausa7754]

Salamat sa advice po❤️

[@sabbybaquiran8028]

thank you kuya darbs for sharing I love all your content

[@lynlovedaigdigan8631]

Thank you 😊

[@thecees1648]

Kuya Darbs, salamat sa mga content mo. Salamat nakita ko to, habang lost ako.

[@aintcass5498]

salamat po sa advise naintindihan ko na po

[@ashleiurmatam2870]

Thank you

[@jasonville5709]

It all make sense now Kuya Darbs.

[@katherineesrada7012]

Minsan d mo maintindihan ayaw ka nya mawala pero pag kausap mo sya ramdam mo na d sya interesado sayo. D mo mapakawalan kasi panu kung sinusubukan ka lang nya. Saka manghihinayang ka bigla

[@jocelynalcantara8442]

Same..

[@rosemariesantos686]

Thankyou😇

[@joshyycute5823]

This hits me to the bones...

[@lucilleyu7554]

Tama! Learn to love yourself❤ mas magiging masaya Ka🩷

[@user-sm7rw9gl1j]

I'll keep those things in mind. I wish you all the best! Thanks!

[@mackylucas6145]

Tyvm for enlighten me

[@adastra4963]

Thank you.

[@kishang5678]

Ang gling nyo poh mgplwng sir...nkkpgicp poh tlg..

[@lotusforever0116]

Thank you so much

[@genevevedorato8944]

thank u so much sir... for this video 🥰

[@janicedavid3014]

thank you for this advice kuya darbs. i'd learn a lot! really help me pursuing to see my value and worth.

[@fernandodao3573]

Saklap ganyan ang nararanasana ko ngayon.pero bakit patuloy parin ako nag iistay,sana may gamot na pag ininom mo mawawala nalang love mo sa taong yun.ang hirap.sana makalabas n ako sa sitwasyon kong ito...Thanks kuya Darbs...

[@airbornestrikegaming369]

Salamat sa mga advice buddy marami akung ntutunan sayo

[@reinamarieserrano6905]

ang galing mong magadvice kuya darbs

[@michelledelrosario2294]

Sir darbs, thanks sa mga advice.😊

[@leorex1218]

thanks u Darbs...kailangan ng pinsan ko to ngayon..kc niloko sya ng jowa nya...pinag hintay lang sya..di naman rason yung loneliness sa luob ng training center para mag loko..pero ganun talaga...and once again thanks po

[@justVange]

ouch. thanks s realizations❤

[@mjgalvadores4982]

Thank you kuya darbs a little bit healing coz of your words,im in the
Difficult part of my life now! Im wishing and also praying that i could already let go and find happiness🥲.

[@evhonipanag5538]

Salmat kuya Darbs when I'm watching your videos I think this is the sign na dapat na talaga akong bumitaw sa taong umaasa akong magbabago Pa dahil ilang beses ko na syang pinag bigyan ilang beses ko ng pinapaasa ang sarili ko na magbabago sya psra samin ng anak ko nahihirapan akong bumitaw dahil may anak kami at okay kami both side of our family but deep inside me Hindi ako okay as in Hindi kami okay dahil nararamdaman Kong ako lang ang gumagawa ng paraan para mag work ang relationship namin

[@virginiagutierrez1612]

Thank you may natutunan ako sayo woww god bless

[@user-yd5hu3xh1f]

Thanks you darbs for this fruitful video i have been in the situation right now on this video but thanks to your advice it hits me

[@raquelcameros9841]

i really love this video now iknow my value..maraming salamat natauhan ako 🙏🙏🙏😘

[@71talk49]

Thank you Kuya Darbs!

[@Abbeyonce0919]

WISDOM

[@analyontoy4292]

Thank you kua darbs pinallakas mo loob ko ng sobra bago lang kami nagkahiwalay then after a month meron na agad siyang iba masakit sa part ko pero lahat ng sinabi mo ay sobrang totoo Thank you, i hope makamove on ako soon.

[@honskristoffercagas6392]

Thank you kuya darbs☺️ mas nalinawan Ako ngyon☺️ more inspirational vid pa po keep safe❤️

[@sylviaricablanca9375]

thank you 👍

[@rainezeke5802]

Thank you much for the wisdom as always kuya darbs. It really hits its mark 🥹.

[@GusStv-06]

Sobrang bigat sa dibdib, sobrang sakit, ung gusto mo ng mawala sa mundo d lng maramdaman ung sakit😢

[@GusStv-06]

Sobrng hirap ng dinadannas k ngayun sobrng na mimiiss k na ung tao.

[@GusStv-06]

Ako ung niloko pero parang ako ung may kasalanan!!!! Sobrng bigay sa pakiramdam . Konti nlng bibigay na ako😭

[@JahYus]

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[@JahYus]

​@@GusStv-06same situation💔💔😭😭😭yung ikaw na ang niloloko pero bakit parang ikaw pa itong nanghihinayan..bakit ganito kahirap parang gusto ko nlng mamatay para lng di ito maramdaman

[@lhorienoveloso455]

Thank u i really like ur advice pna nood ko ung.mga previous video mo i really like ur advice sir

[@marimartb687]

relate ako s topic n gusto k NY bumitaw peru sobrang hirap

[@kkkkkkkk08]

Kuya salamat yan ang problima ko sa ngaun di pa ako naka move on piro tama lahat ang mga sinabi mo yan ang problima ko thank you

[@jennylynalcancia5948]

very timely.

[@johndavezamora9378]

Thank you kuya darbs❤️

[@chefvaimo530]

Thank you kuya darbs

[@GratefulnBlessed]

You are a blessing. Salamat sa advice. ❤‍🩹💗