Pano Mag Let Go Kahit Mahal Mo Pa?

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  • @yoshinojor2509
    @yoshinojor2509 Рік тому +100

    When I experienced my first heartbreak, it was really painful! I remember crying myself to sleep and feeling so horrible but it was God who gave me strength and wisdom ❤

  • @geraldazana9690
    @geraldazana9690 2 місяці тому +7

    Sino ang mga mapadpad dito kasi nahihirapan magbmove on? Ako po,super hirap 🥺

  • @rieljoson5701
    @rieljoson5701 5 місяців тому +26

    Isang araw gigising nalang akong masaya para sa sarili ko, Hinde lang dahil sa naka move on na ako, Kundi pati na rin sa mga achievements ko sa buhay. Babangon ako sa heartbreak na to, Pangako ko yan sa sarili ko. I will comeback stronger and wiser 👌

    • @gileneo6999
      @gileneo6999 5 місяців тому

      You will. Trust me. We are in the same page at we will breakthrough sa pain. Please trust process 😊

    • @VanessaOrtiz863
      @VanessaOrtiz863 2 місяці тому

      Ilang besis kona naransan ang heart break pero this time back to zero nanaman ako hindi kona alam gagawin sa sobra sakit dipress trauma again bintawan ako sa ere

    • @gencutegaming
      @gencutegaming Місяць тому

      ​@@VanessaOrtiz863Same tayo

    • @VanessaOrtiz863
      @VanessaOrtiz863 Місяць тому

      @@gencutegaming laban lang

    • @gencutegaming
      @gencutegaming Місяць тому

      @@VanessaOrtiz863 subrang sakit na pagdating mo sa bahay galing work wala na ang mag ina mo sa bahay. Two weeks na ako iniwan ng babaeng mahal ko grabe subra magdamag ako walang tulog at kain nung time na yun pero pumasok parin ako sa work na walang tulog at kain dahil sa nangyari. Di man tayo perfektong tao pwede naman dapat pag usapan kung may mali ako nagawa, siguro may third party nangyari na to kasi minsan ko na sya nahuli may kareslasyon na iba pero humimgi sya ng tawad sakin dahil mahal ko siya wala ako magawa kundi patawarin sya sa pagkakamali nya after two months ito ang nangyari bigla na lang ako iniwan.

  • @atm6103
    @atm6103 Рік тому +14

    I'm in a difficult situation right now, broken, betrayed, hurt and mad...
    but I have faith that one day, God will make a way for me.... to end all my pain....

  • @loreaneperez5024
    @loreaneperez5024 Рік тому +28

    Kahit sobrang sakit ang nangyare hindi ko hinayahan na kainin ako ng emotion ko.. nagiging matatag ako para sa sarili ko.. magiging okay din ako. At sana Pag ready na kong Magmahal ulet, ibigay ni lord ang para tlga saaken.. amen

  • @asamikanemoto2485
    @asamikanemoto2485 8 місяців тому +6

    "Hayaan mo na lang Ang puso mo Ang sirain nya wag na pati Ang buhay mo" pero Ang buhay ko ngayon ay sya na papano ko yan magagawa kung Yung buhay ko tuluyan ng nawala

  • @elvirazamora9442
    @elvirazamora9442 Рік тому +35

    Its so hard to forget someone who gives you so much to remember😔

  • @MrSilv
    @MrSilv Рік тому +21

    It's been 1 1/2 year of moving on , thankfully I'm healed. Just accept the fact that your chapter with them had already ended. Life isn't just about being in a relationship. Find your value in this world love those person who loves you. Grow, improve and achieve your full potential. Pain is inevitable yet it teaches you a lot. Learn to forgive and love yourself more. For those person whose in pain right now someday somehow you will wake up that you're already healed. Find the wisdom hidden in what you're experiencing right now God bless.

  • @kheicee
    @kheicee Рік тому +112

    thank you for this kuya darbs. i needed this. just recently went through a break up last september. first few weeks was really the hardest but now i can say im back to my old self and im happy again. and sa totoo lang, kung babalik man siya o hindi, ayoko na. pagod na pagod nako. i just wish him the best and the happiness he deserves.

  • @anthonypaguirigan5582
    @anthonypaguirigan5582 7 місяців тому +5

    I am a victim of this crime called " heartbreak " ang sakit sakit tagos hangang likod, pagkatao ko prang naapakan, ang unfair naman, naiiyak ako dahil sobrang awa ko s srili ko, sinisisi ko din sarili ko bat ako pumasok sa ganito, nakakadala ng magmahal, na tsempo ako s maling tao, naging bulag at tanga pang 5th day n pero ngayn medyo gumagaan n lumapit lang ako kay god.

  • @blecera
    @blecera Рік тому +28

    remembering my struggles before then oneday I woke up loving myself. I totally agree with this, that we need to be firm with ourdecision of letting go. When you remember days that you were crying, you'll start to laugh about how madly, deeply, crazy you were in love. Its true. There is no short cut in moving on. Endure the pain, cry, but always keep your sanity. When you sink down to the bottom, wave will push you up and when it happens keep on swimming. Look up!

  • @gammiebassiecainap6385
    @gammiebassiecainap6385 Рік тому +33

    I was badly hurt with someone whom I truly loved. I chose to walk away and heal silently. I felt I was betrayed, used, taken for granted and not loved..RESPECT is no longer served. I need to gain my self worth and love as a daughter of our Heavenly Creator . I surrender everything to Him .He exactly knows what good for both of us.
    Kuya darbs it's TIMELY and thank you so much for giving me insights. Your advises awaken me from the deepest phase of my life.
    God bless you and your family always.

    • @paceyofhousetargaryen3994
      @paceyofhousetargaryen3994 Рік тому +1

      Omg im hearing myself on your comment...Godbless us

    • @TheBraveheartcez
      @TheBraveheartcez Рік тому

      Ive experienced the same sitution as yours..i was betrayed..and i felt so much pain right now...

    • @rage2125
      @rage2125 Рік тому +1

      Experiencing this right now. There is no more painful than s broken heart. A physical pain is much more easier to heal than emotional ones. I will be praying one day i will recover from the pain im suffering now. When one door closes another one opens.

    • @alenacabangon4866
      @alenacabangon4866 6 місяців тому

      Going through the same right now.. I know I will recover. With God's help. The process of going through grief is just too much though. But I'll rise again. 😢

  • @almermaranon5183
    @almermaranon5183 Рік тому +9

    7 years of relationship then 1 day sinabi nya na ayoko na and hindi na tayo tulad ng dati..di na ako babalik sayo..grabe sakit..2 weeks palang nangyari kaya ako napadpad dito..and I really need this to move forward..lahat ng sinabi ni kuya darbs are true..until today di pa din ako makapaniwala..sakit..

    • @user-hd4nh6zr3g
      @user-hd4nh6zr3g Рік тому

      Pareho tayo pre ... pero gabi gabi ko pa rin syang hinahanap hanap😢😢😢

    • @JovCay6732
      @JovCay6732 10 місяців тому

      I feel you bro kami kaka break lang ng partner ko now... Sakit tol

    • @petepotterson1833
      @petepotterson1833 10 місяців тому

      😢😢😢

    • @user-gf5jy8vn2o
      @user-gf5jy8vn2o 6 місяців тому

      I feel u kuya subrang hirap mag move on 7 years relationship biniyayaan Ng isang anak 2years old Ang anak nmin maghiwalay na Kami pero hanggang ngaun Mahal KO pa sya na alam KO Di na pwde Kasi may Ka live in partner na sya😢

    • @rylieperlie1604
      @rylieperlie1604 4 місяці тому +1

      Sobrang sakit 13yrs relationship 2yrs pa lang kaming kasal..my anak kami isa.. Kasama sila ng kabit nya ngayon 😭😭😭💔💔

  • @evelyncunanan5301
    @evelyncunanan5301 Рік тому +4

    salamat lord napanuod ko ang vlog video nato. ngayon alam ko na anjan ka lord na nag iisa nagmamahal pa skin😭 na realize ko na hnd ko deserve masaktan ng isang taong pinaglalaruan lng ang damdamin ko. salamat dhl sa video na ito nagising ako sa katutuhanan na mas mahalin ko ang sarili ko kesa mamahalin ko ang taong puro sakit lng ang idinulot skin💔💔 thank you lord ito na yong Sign na hinihintay ko😭

  • @arzagamukbang6551
    @arzagamukbang6551 Рік тому +10

    You don't have to search for love you don't have to look for love being love is simply as loving yourself alone

  • @leonardpolicarpio3380
    @leonardpolicarpio3380 Рік тому +10

    it's been months. and still find myself at the same spot. didn't moved even a single inch. But still believing that i can move forward someday.

  • @lync.3766
    @lync.3766 Рік тому +11

    Acceptance and move forward is the key. Self love 🥰🥰🥰 GOD will do the rest have faith on him and everything will be okay😘😘😘

  • @madianerosepacle9395
    @madianerosepacle9395 Рік тому +3

    This is exactly what I did. I almost cried everyday. Depressed, anxiety, bumagsak katawan ko talaga nun. For almost 7 or 8 months din akong puro iyak at wala sa sarili. What I did is pinagba block ko sila lahat. Mahal ko ang sarili ko. and marami namang nagmamahal sakin. Ngayon masaya nako. At the same time. Nagpatawad na din ako. Pero wag sya mag expect na kakausapin ko pa sya. At never ko na syang papansinin or ie entertain pa. Big lesson learned sa buhay ko yon. Thank you kuya darbs. ✨

    • @oliverrhymeanasco3873
      @oliverrhymeanasco3873 Рік тому +1

      2 weeks na rin po akong brokenhearted gaya mo iyak ng iyak.. thankful ako sa mga ganitong motivation sa youtibe natutunan kong mahalin sarili ko..naisip ko hindi ako nawalan kundi yong taong minahal ko..inaalagaan ..at di iniwan sa kabila ng mga pagkukulang nya sa akin..masakit isipin pinagpalit ako sa barkada at bisyo ..at fi ko kinaya yong nkpag flirt sya sa iba habang nagbakasyon ako pra sana ma refresh at maayos yong problema namin that part need ko ng lumayo ..di na ako maniwala pa sa sinabi nyang mahal nya ako..cguro kailangan lng nya ko to take care of him..yon lng yon..I love my self now .true Love sa Panginoon lng matatagpuan..its bettet to live..single nlang wlang partner di kpa papangit sa konsomisyon.

    • @salvacionventura8093
      @salvacionventura8093 Рік тому +2

      We're same sis naranasan ko din stress depressed anxiety... lahat ng pinaramdam nyang sakit Ng damdamin masaklap pa pinagpalit habang kau pa at happy na sila habang ikaw bumabangon muli....
      Let go of people who doesn't see Ur worth and value....
      Time heal the pain
      Let God do his best way and always pray 🙏🙏🙏

  • @rowenasadicon2152
    @rowenasadicon2152 Рік тому +6

    I hope someday I will recover for the pain that I fell right now in god's will and thankyou for all advises that I realized tonight!!💗☺️

  • @meenamoon7930
    @meenamoon7930 Рік тому +1

    7:45 Sobrang totoo po lahat ng sinasabi niyo. There is really power po kay God na hindi basta bastang mapapaliwanag.
    Para bang kapag humingi ka sa kaniya ng tulong , tutulungan ka Niya eh bubuksan Niya pag iisip mo mga bagay na hirap kang makita sa partner mo dahil parang mas inaidolize mo na siya to the point na ikaw na yung nauubos. Not trying to say na pag naniniwala na kay God is masyado ka ng nagpapakabanal pero iba parin kapag ang isang tao may malalim na connection sa Panginoon. I have been through a lot po sa past relationship ko , for all of the lies and struggles ko sa kaniya na halos ako na nagtuturo sa kaniya dun ko narealize na hindi na tama.
    Mahirap pero kailangan mong gawin. ❤️

  • @Cjchology
    @Cjchology 6 місяців тому +2

    You are not alone. Laban lang tayo!

  • @maricondelapaluberanes3335
    @maricondelapaluberanes3335 Рік тому +2

    Realization hit me 😭😭 Yung halos araw - araw akong nagsisimba kasi hinihingi ko sa kanya na tulungan akong pumasa sa Board Exam ko last October 6-7, 2022 but then the result release last October 12 and found out na hindi na naman ako pumasa for the second time, I really really disappointed on me, not God. Peru promise yung sakit sobra. 1month before the exam, I diagnose with menorrhagia at the same time I am fighting my depression, but still lumalaban sana for passing the Board Exam.. Nawalan na ako ng ganang magsimba after kong makita yung result ng board exam. Thank you for this kuya Darbs. Alam kong may rason si God kung bakit di niya pa binigay ang hinihingi ko 🙏🙏

    • @ivanescobia7656
      @ivanescobia7656 Рік тому

      bro laban lang, alam kung mahirap pero ganyan din dinadaanan ko ngayon

    • @luckyme100178
      @luckyme100178 Рік тому

      Ano pong board exam yan? Baka mkatulong…

  • @ladywhisper4600
    @ladywhisper4600 Рік тому +6

    Thanks for sharing this. I am still trying to move on. Mahal na mahal ko cya It’s damn difficult 😣 Two weeks without him and I hope na once I find myself na super okay na ako makabalik ako dto at mgupdate ng comments na finally I moved on ❤🙌🏻🙏🏻

  • @jaroflores
    @jaroflores Рік тому +4

    I was the one who decided and force to break up.. And i realise.. It was my bisggest mistake.. Time past in a year and i realise.. I still love the person.. And when i started to contact again it was too late.. She has someone that makes her happy.. And it sadden me.. So much to the point the pain is in the other level.. I have think to myself i deserve this since i was the one at fault.. All aspects in my life was affected.. Kinda sucks.. Kuya Darbs.. Thank you for this advise.. I will try to cut and be committed on not to communicate to her.. Wish me best..

    • @mnsmchncs
      @mnsmchncs 6 місяців тому

      same situation :((((((

  • @leoanthonydeguzman3040
    @leoanthonydeguzman3040 Рік тому +3

    My partner broke up with me yesterday from a 12yrs relationship..
    Its been hell.. im not gonna say im alright now.. but there something happend.. i cant explain.. really feel the presence of God right now.. im not a religious person.. pero something came up to me.. and also thank to you darbs.. ill be back in no time..😊

    • @awentoys2538
      @awentoys2538 5 місяців тому

      Same here . Isang linggo plang nakakalipas simula ng sumama sa iba partner ko . 10years kame may dalawang anak 3years old at 6 . Nasakin yung 6 ngayon. San malagpasan namen to.

  • @jamaicarosebarrameda757
    @jamaicarosebarrameda757 Рік тому +3

    I'm still counting days to pass by since that day he told me he likes someone else better and I'm the reason why he is not okay. I'm always here sa channel mo everytime I feel like crying because I cannot make him back. Always reminding me one year nlng makamove on na din ako. Maalala ko sya pero d Nako iiyak Kasi memory nlng Ang matitira. Hardest part is the way I become so happy it felt like a dream. And now I'd woke up. Feeling ko namatayan ako ng mahal and d ko na pwede ibalik Ang mga dati.

    • @dixson2075
      @dixson2075 Рік тому

      Grabe ang sakit naman po🥺

    • @JahYus
      @JahYus Місяць тому

      ang sakit talaga

  • @Shanedra-is7kz
    @Shanedra-is7kz 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes control the damaged... hayaan mong mawasak ang puso...wag mong hayaan mawasak ang buhay mo... and that is me♥️

  • @Lamilami282
    @Lamilami282 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤ Thanks sa advice kapag hindi na tayo mahal kailangan na nating bumitaw bahala na ang puso masaktan wag Lang ang buhay at pangarap maapektuhan dahil lng sapag ibig na hindi na man deserve ❤

  • @graciousalforque3786
    @graciousalforque3786 Рік тому +1

    agree! Seek the kingdom of God and you will find strength. kayang kayang basta may Panginoon.

  • @mariefesantos1366
    @mariefesantos1366 Рік тому +11

    Thanks for this video! It's about time to let go and give love for myself. Yes it will be difficult but the time will come, God will make a way.

  • @TheTAURUStv
    @TheTAURUStv Рік тому +1

    😢tama kapo,,as of now watching this,my tears burst,at sa diyos lang ako kumokuha ng lakas when I felt tis world against me

  • @MarinelAbique-vj5hc
    @MarinelAbique-vj5hc Рік тому +2

    hinanap talaga kita kuya darbs. i know matatauhan ako at maraming matututunan kapag nakinig ako sa’yo. napabayaan ko na pag aaral ko at sarili ko.

  • @dvdctv
    @dvdctv Рік тому +3

    Kailangan ko to.. kasama ko p sya pero nagmomove on na ko.. d ko p kaya mawala sya tuluyan pero on process na ko.. promise😢

    • @runivekotan7579
      @runivekotan7579 2 місяці тому

      Musta n po kau?

    • @dvdctv
      @dvdctv 2 місяці тому

      @@runivekotan7579 kasama ko paden sya pero d ko n sya mahal.. nag sawa nlng ako sa kanya.. cguro answered prayer , sya nmn ngayon yung laging lutang kakaisip bakit d ko n sya mahal

  • @infinisharing633
    @infinisharing633 Рік тому +5

    Ahmmm, yong taong I use to chat every day blocked me na kahapon,😔 pero seguro nga para din sa ikakabuti naming dalawa yong ginawa nya..and kuya Darbs, u are right si God lang talaga Ang Hindi nag iiwan sa atin no matter what.

  • @bisacolvlogsrandom7162
    @bisacolvlogsrandom7162 11 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for this advice, I am recently went through a break up last July, it is so hard, co`z I really love this person and very special to me. Pero kahit gaano ko man xa kamahal hindi ko ipagpipilitan yong sarili ko, mahirap lang tlaga makalimot lagi napasok sa isip ko, kahit ayoko man xa isipin talaga, may mga araw or week/s na hindi ko na xa iniisip at happy na ako, tapos bigla na lang din may araw na xa lagi laman ng isip ko.. Haiiii! kay hirap magmahal lalo na kung hindi na tlaga pwedi... 😔 Pinagdarasal ko na lang na maging masaya xa lagi, at pareho kami maging masaya sa kanya kanya naming buhay..

  • @Carlilyson
    @Carlilyson Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much….I’ve been hurting for the past 3 mos. I feel that God used you so I can find him and start my healing. God, I love my person soooo much, but I really have to let him go. 😢 I want to move on and be back to my usual self.

  • @earthman0x
    @earthman0x Рік тому +5

    Thank you for the great content.
    I’ve been broken up with 2 years ago and the things that I’ve learned is to go through the process. You can’t just flick a switch and say you’ve moved on. It’s healthier if you sit with the pain, reflect on your life with that person and be thankful for that experience. Find someome you trust and talk about it; by talking about it, you are also reflecting and releasing some pressure.
    If you don’t go through the process of healing, you can’t really move forward. And yes, let go and let God!

  • @jessameres7586
    @jessameres7586 4 місяці тому +4

    Nakipaghiwalay ako dahil sobra na, sobra na pala ako nawawala na ako sa path ko. Masakit kasi wala namang 3rd party na nangyari sa amin napagod lang ako.

    • @rowenaesguerra8154
      @rowenaesguerra8154 19 днів тому

      Same sis . Ako na ang bumitaw at lumayo. Kasi ako nalang din ang umaasa at lumalaban para sa relasyon namin. Masakit tanggapin at marinig mismo sa mahal mo na di kana nya mahal at nakikisama nalang sya dahil sa ina ka ng mga anak nya. Nagmakaawa ap ako ng ilang beses pero habang lumalaban ako sya naman tong lumalayo kaya nilet go ko na. Pero sobrang hirap 😢

    • @rheysolis7677
      @rheysolis7677 12 днів тому

      ​@@rowenaesguerra8154pede pa advice po

  • @reylopez6612
    @reylopez6612 11 місяців тому +1

    " GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU YOU'RE JUST LOOKING AT THE WRONG PLACE FOR LOVE
    FIND LOVE IN HIM " ❤

  • @markjosephbalajadia2961
    @markjosephbalajadia2961 8 місяців тому +1

    Bat ngayon ko lang napanood to😢 ang Ganda po ng mga sinabi nyo salamat

  • @kamakakuravergara2508
    @kamakakuravergara2508 4 дні тому

    Maraming salamat po kuya 😢😢😢 kahit papano nakatulong po kayu.

  • @robelitadomingo5726
    @robelitadomingo5726 4 місяці тому

    Thanks, Kuya. Having experience this now. Mine becomes a cycle and I wish mapanindigan ko n this time.Im choosing myself and prayed to God to give me the strength to move on.God bless Us.

  • @basilyov6988
    @basilyov6988 Рік тому +2

    kaya ba tayo iniiwan ng babaeng mahal na mahal natin dahil may dadating na mas mag mamahal sa akin higit pa sa pagmamahal na kaya kung ibigay..lord kabayan nyo po ako alisin nyo po ang galit at sakit na nararamdaman ko ngayon bigyan nyo po ako ng lakas ng loob na harapin ang paskong nararanasan ko now

  • @JimsonLuguna
    @JimsonLuguna 3 місяці тому

    Amen po. Thanks po for sharing this sir. ❤ Dami ko pong napulot na aral na pwedeng makatulong din po saken sa pinagdaanan ko ngayon.

  • @domznieva5610
    @domznieva5610 Рік тому

    I am praying to God, hoping n wishing that my wife will chance upon this, she deserves a better life n a better partner in life. Someone that will make all her dreams come thru, that will bring her into a calm place of peace, serenity n light. I know that our God will be with her thru the rest of her life. I'll keep loving u no matter what n I'm very sorry.

  • @soundofsilence1483
    @soundofsilence1483 Рік тому +6

    It's been 7 months now but the break up still very fresh. Hoping and wishing to have the power to let go

  • @jasmineclaire2428
    @jasmineclaire2428 Рік тому +7

    "What you don't know won't hurt you." Thanks for that po Kuya Darbs. For the longest time I have honestly been stalking his socials. Checking if he has someone new na. It was inevitable for me to find out kasi nga I kept on checking and he does na, and that felt like a ton of bricks on my chest, but it was also a wake up call na there is no hope. Watching your videos makes me feel better! Keep making them po

    • @julsss6174
      @julsss6174 6 місяців тому

      How are you po? nakamove on ka na po ba? Same feels din po kasi kakabreak lang din namin kahapon :(

    • @jasmineclaire2428
      @jasmineclaire2428 6 місяців тому

      ​@@julsss6174 Hi Juls! Yes po nakamove on. Hindi naging madali haha, but I can really say that time will heal. Wala na akong pake sa guy, pero I still carry the traumas na nabigay nya sakin dahil sa ginawa nya.

    • @julsss6174
      @julsss6174 6 місяців тому

      @@jasmineclaire2428 mga gaano katagal din po kayo before naka-move on? Hehe. And mabuti po naka-move on na kayo :)

    • @jasmineclaire2428
      @jasmineclaire2428 6 місяців тому

      ​@@julsss6174 Nung May ko ata na comment to haha, nakipagbalikan pa ako and lasted until July. I can say naka move on ako mga in 4 months. Tapos may isang relapse na naganap mga 2 months later. So all in all 6 months siguro :)

    • @julsss6174
      @julsss6174 6 місяців тому

      @@jasmineclaire2428 wahh Oki poo. Oki lang po yan atleast naka-move on hehe. Bali ano po mga ginawa niyo nun para fully naka-move on po kayo?

  • @luckyme100178
    @luckyme100178 Рік тому +1

    Relate! I am on a 🔥Twin Flame🔥 journey…i can’t wait to get out of here for good dahil nkikita ko p siya somehow…i want to move on and forget like nothing happened..To all those heartbroken, God bless you…❤

  • @alfercases2457
    @alfercases2457 Рік тому +2

    It was so painful for me but im trying to move forward and love myself❣️❣️

  • @user-gi6qn9cr7l
    @user-gi6qn9cr7l 7 місяців тому +1

    Ang hirap jusko😢 bakit may ganto pang feeling sana wala na Lang,, yong kelangan mo siyang mawala sa Buhay mo kahit sobrang love mo kase nakakasira na siya sa Buhay mo Lalo na sa Sarili mo , selfish Ang love niya😢 ayoko ng Ganon

  • @user-ps5lj4mo3n
    @user-ps5lj4mo3n Рік тому +6

    Sobrang sakit bitawan yung taong minahal mo ng sobra😭. Na dumating na ako sa punto na nagmamakaawa na ako mag stay sya🥹. Which is alam kong mali😢. May mga tao talaga na kapag nagsawa na iiwan kana lang basta na parang walang nangyare😭.

    • @user-hd4nh6zr3g
      @user-hd4nh6zr3g Рік тому

      Hinahanap hanap ko pa rin sya😢😢😢

    • @ernnagrace4518
      @ernnagrace4518 8 місяців тому

      huhuhuhu same feelings kahit my iba na sxa at mgkaka anak na cla, sobrang sakit ng iniwan sa ere na basta² nlng na wla kang alam na meron na pla sxang iba, ang sakiiittt 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔

    • @Gamer-cu3cm
      @Gamer-cu3cm 4 місяці тому

      Nasa sitwasyon ako ngayon na ganito :(( sobrang bigat at hirap.. nagbeg ako ng nagbeg.. But I know, god has a plan..

    • @rylieperlie1604
      @rylieperlie1604 4 місяці тому

      Sobrang hirap 😭🥺💔💔

  • @user-gr8sk9eu3g
    @user-gr8sk9eu3g 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Soo much . For enlightened my mind . I knows someday mawawala din Ang sakit . At mauunawan ko bakit Niya ako iniwan .

  • @GratefulnBlessed
    @GratefulnBlessed 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you. Praying for healing and the courage to move forward.

  • @renatocasalme2632
    @renatocasalme2632 Місяць тому

    Ngayon nandito ako nakikinig kasi ang sakit sakit na niloko ako. Habang nagtratrabaho sa ibang bansa.😭😭😭 wala kang magawa kasi malayo ka.😭

  • @RenoOcampo
    @RenoOcampo 3 місяці тому

    Grabe pinatulo mo talaga ang luha ko. Thanks for the advice.

  • @jamiemaysantos4642
    @jamiemaysantos4642 Рік тому +1

    Kuya Darbs, ikaw ang naging key para makalimutan ko ang ex ko 7 years ago..
    I hope matulungan mo din akong maka limutan ngayon yung taong minahal ko ng sobra sobra pero na fell out of love saakin dahil sa ugali ko 💔🥺

  • @iamnorhaya
    @iamnorhaya 5 місяців тому +2

    I’m so heartbroken now I think I need this.

  • @AngelicaAlon-zh6ru
    @AngelicaAlon-zh6ru 2 місяці тому

    Ang lalim Ng message
    Nabuhayan ulit ako🙏

  • @gg-lc5of
    @gg-lc5of Рік тому +1

    this is timely. he just told me yesterday na kasal na pala sila ng gf nya. I was there when he reached his dreams. Pero sa background lang ako. he can't even thank me for the hard work grooming him to be the best. becoming a fraud. hope one day I can recover

    • @hello-nf6kb
      @hello-nf6kb Рік тому +1

      Ang sakit naman nanyari sa iyo pero mag dasal ka lang po..

  • @daliamayor7681
    @daliamayor7681 Рік тому

    grabe parang para sa akin.lahat yan
    .exactly what happening sa life ko paulit ulit ko pinanood tong content nato...kakauwi ko lang from Singapore pero isang buwan palang aku sa Davao pero hindi ko parin mahanap yong hapoines ko sa tamang pagkakataon kaya i decided to comeback nalang sa singapore kasi atleast dito mabusy aku sa work..salamat po i wvwn sent this sa messenger ko para ulit ulitin ko na pakinggan para maturuan ko self ko.❤🙏

  • @rhodas2305
    @rhodas2305 Рік тому

    After ko mapanood to and mabasa mga videos, nalaman ko na hindi ako nag iisa. Sobrang gumaan yung pakiramdam ko. Babalikan ko to pag okay na ko ulit. Salamat sa video na to.

  • @kenz725
    @kenz725 Рік тому +1

    I needed this. My GF and I broke up recently and we've been together for 3 years. Ang hirap kasi halos kami lang magkasama sa 3 years na 'yun. Same circle of friends pa kami kaya ang hirap talaga. May bago na siya agad at kaibigan niya pa. I don't know where to start. I feel empty.

    • @tigersugar1995
      @tigersugar1995 Рік тому +1

      Hey. Parehas tayo ng situation. My bf broke up with me a few weeks ago. We were also together for three years pero ngayon he's going on dates with other people na. Hang in there. Malalampasan din natin to.

    • @kenz725
      @kenz725 Рік тому +1

      @@tigersugar1995 Sana nga. Nagusap kami kanina at grabe puro lang mura natanggap ko at kung ano ano at sana raw mamatay na ako. May anger issues kasi siya eh pero tiniis ko lahat. Hayan ko na lang siya maging masaya sila ng bago niya. Blinock ko na rin sila. Tinatry ko best ko na kalimutan siya kasi sobrang mahal ko talaga yung babae na yun haha.

  • @maryjoygime7779
    @maryjoygime7779 Рік тому

    Hindi ko alam kung pano mag move on kaya naghahanap ako ng pwede ko marinig na mga advices!!! Ang hirap ang sakit2x ng nararamdaman ko... Akala ko okey ako hindi pala. Pero kailangan ei.

  • @carmelatecsonlavega3214
    @carmelatecsonlavega3214 Рік тому

    Sobrang hirap mag let go, Lalo na kung may anak kayo. Like saakin na bagong panganak Ako. Gustong gusto ko umalis sa Poder niya pero di ko magawa dahil sa Hindi pa kaya Ng katawan ko. May Bata pa, nasasaktan Ako dahil pagdating Ng panahon magtatanong yung Bata bakit di buo ung pamilya Namin. Bilang Isang Ina napakasakit...

  • @konosubashi7976
    @konosubashi7976 6 місяців тому

    When we have a heartbreak, we drawn closer to God.

  • @NaviIvan00
    @NaviIvan00 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Kuya Darbs, sobrang refreshing mapakinggan yung mga sinabi mo. Eventually, all of the pain will go away.

  • @myster.e7611
    @myster.e7611 Рік тому +4

    Salamat kuya darbs!
    Kakagaling lang sa breakup, napanood ko mga vids mo kuya darbs laking tulong hehe

  • @droidswitchemu4943
    @droidswitchemu4943 10 місяців тому

    Yung ilang years mo niligawan , since highschool.8 years of knowing her,
    She promised na sasagutin ka nya after graduate, She promised na papakilala sa magulang , She said na sakin nya nakikita future nya,Then oneday sasabihin nya nalang na may boyfriend na sya😄
    Kahit sobrang bigat inaacept nlng kse di mo nmn makokontrol yung sitwasyon..
    Pero dumadating nko sa point na gusto ko nlng mamatay kase halo halo na yung nararamdaman this is the first time ever i feel this kind of pain.. di ko alam na mafefeel ko toh galing saknya kase she's so perfect for me.. Nasakanya na lahat ng gugustuhin mo sa future wife mo.. pero sa isang iglap bumaliktad mundo ko

  • @AjhayBancoro
    @AjhayBancoro 3 місяці тому

    balang araw magiging ok din ako at makakalimutan na kita😊

  • @adelaidasabanal2122
    @adelaidasabanal2122 Рік тому

    Salamat sir,really first of all I love to God, I love myself, from broken hearted, I tried my very best to going on to accepted all the pain yesterday then,I think carefully before I do something, God bless to all of us,,Again may I saluted for you Real Talk Darbs,Sir

  • @lilycruz7367
    @lilycruz7367 Рік тому

    Yes po god is always there. And learn how to forgive and forget. And then marealize mo na love mo na ang self mo ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @JZJTV-fo6kj
    @JZJTV-fo6kj 11 місяців тому

    madalang kayo makakita ng lalaki na nandito kasi mas gusto namin samin lang lahat ng problema🖤

  • @mharjsz_tv907
    @mharjsz_tv907 Рік тому

    Amen ❤ God is the ultimate source of LOVE ❤ PURE LOVE ❤

  • @richelbandoy6040
    @richelbandoy6040 Рік тому +1

    Gusto kuna mg cut off sa knua pero sa ank sya tumawag pra akika usap..eh my iba na sya..ilang besis ko na sabihin na ayaw ko sa bta ok tyo pero satin dlawa ayw ko na...hirap subra ng sakit nkiki usap ako na tama na at tapusin na namin pero bkit hndi nya matanggao marami pa akong oangarap khit wla na sya bbangon parin ako..he lost me...sana one day mkita ko kung anu yung ngayon sa dulo..my proseso yung pain hndi nman agad agad .i forgive him.kya aalis ..bblik nko ng abroad pra mka limutan kuna sya...self na lng at ank ko ..crying while im typing..huhu..i want peace hayaan na nya ako..may bago na anu pa ba gusto nya...i wan my self back..God knows my pain .father help me through this..

  • @yowenfate
    @yowenfate Рік тому +4

    Let go and let God

  • @madj7152
    @madj7152 Рік тому +3

    Ung ex kong pabalik balik, hindi ako makamove on move on. Laging back to square one. 2yrs na kong nagmomove on tapos nasasayang lang sa isang message nya. Un pala pinaglalaruan na lang ako. Tanga ko. Mahal na mahal ko padin kasi. Pero pagod na pagod nadin ako. Di na pala nya ko mahal. 30 nadin kasi ako. Parang wala ng hope. Feeling ko tatanda na kong magisa. Gusto ko na magmove on ng tuloy tuloy. Ang hirap pag mahal mo padin. Sakto tong video na to sakin kuya darbs.

    • @glitzygirl2412
      @glitzygirl2412 Рік тому

      How old are you na po?

    • @madj7152
      @madj7152 Рік тому +1

      @@glitzygirl2412 im 30 na

    • @glitzygirl2412
      @glitzygirl2412 Рік тому +1

      @@madj7152 sana makamove on po kayo asap. Mahirap kasi tumanda mag-isa, though it's your choice naman po, pero I've known some old people po na nagregret. Those people who stopped loving just because of one person that hurt them so bad. I wish you healing po, Ate🌹🧡

    • @hello-nf6kb
      @hello-nf6kb Рік тому

      Wag kang mag madali sa pag ibig wag kang mag alala wala yan sa edad dadating ang tamang lalaki ako nga 32 wala pa din ka hihiwalay ko din 😭😭 pero pilit kong kinakaya

  • @Markneiltolens
    @Markneiltolens 6 місяців тому

    Thankyou po, mag isang buwan since nung nag hiwalay kami, ang sakit parin sa dibdib,
    And nagchat sya and say another goodbye again. Diko na lang pinansin, para narin sa ikakatahimik ng loob ko.
    Binigay kuna lahat lahat sa kanya , tapus biglang mag ko cold, sasabhin gusto nya ng peace of mind,
    Nakaka p*tang*na tlaga, pano nya masasabi yan kung masaya naman kami, bigla nlng magsasabi ng ganun. Sana talaga maka move on naku at maging masaya na ulit ako. 😔

  • @joanneabayanfacunla2347
    @joanneabayanfacunla2347 9 місяців тому

    Dto ko nasabi na Kaya ko to kung ano man Yung nangyayare sakin ngayon alam ko na Hindi namn ako nag iisa andyan si God para mawala Yung sakit na nararamdam ko😭

  • @tonethneth3247
    @tonethneth3247 Рік тому +4

    My situation now😢
    Thanks for this kuya darbs
    Makaka move on din ako😢🙏

  • @mercylitarenato887
    @mercylitarenato887 Рік тому

    Ako matindi ang naranasan ko pero pinatawad ko parin alang alang sa mga anak namin. Kahit sobrang sakit na kasi not only once but morethan one pa ginawa sa akin. Pero pinapasa dios ko nalang lahat dahil siya lang naman ang nakakaalam

  • @cessiasese2540
    @cessiasese2540 11 днів тому

    Hindi ko alam pero sa sobrang sakit na ginawa nya sakin nong bumalik sya na may sakit hindi makalakad ng tuwid, hindi ko tlga alam kung pagmamahal o awa ung nararamdaman ko, binuntis nya ako, at sa araw ng kasal namin Hindi sya dumating nagparamdam nlng ulit sya after 14years walang kumunikasyon at 13 years old na ung anak namin na mag isa kung pinalaki, tapos gusto nya mabuo pamilya namin pero khit naaawa ako sa knya at khit gusto kung mabuo pamilya namin Hindi ko gagawin, pinatawad kuna sya pero ung trauma na binigay nya sakin hindi basta bastang mawawala un, ung trauma ung ang nagpapatunay na Hindi dapat binabalikan ung mga ex natin 💔

  • @trishaledesma17
    @trishaledesma17 Рік тому +1

    nag break kami ng gf ko ngayung araw. I need to let her go because of certain reasons. babalik ko dito sa video na to pag ok na ko…😢

  • @javatimberlake1476
    @javatimberlake1476 Рік тому

    Mas mahalin mo tlga si Lord higit pa sa jowa mo kase mabibigo klang tlga, thank u Papa God ur always here for me even im fool and blind to my boang dutch bf

  • @Bbc54702
    @Bbc54702 Рік тому

    God knows we both tried to move on. It has been decades but the feelings remain the same. I believe in Him but i don’t understand why He won’t remove him out of my life. It is very frustrating. They say everything happens for a reason but until why it takes long for me to find the answer. :( it is so hard but I trust in Him that he will lead us to the right path. 😢😢

  • @flordelizazafra
    @flordelizazafra 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for your wonderful advance relate much . Watching from Hokkaido japan 🇯🇵

  • @JZJTV-fo6kj
    @JZJTV-fo6kj 11 місяців тому

    literal na ako lang mag isa,sya lang yung mundo ko sya yung tinuring kong kakampi,sandalan,lakas ko wala kong kaibigan lahat lahat sya lang kaya ako nahihirapan susubukan ko mag gym at dun ko ibubuhos lahat ng oras ko lalo kapag naaalala ko yung dati,masakit talaga sa masakit lalaki ako ,di ako umiiyak pero kagabi lang ako umiyak na parang bata.saklap talaga lagi akong malas sa buhay sya lang yung naging swerte sakin kaso wala na e kahit pilitin ko ganun parin lalo lang masakit kaya sana sa gym ako maka omve on gusto ko lumaki katawan ko para di lang sarili ko kaya ko ipag tanggol pati kung sakali lang pero sa tingin ko hindi nako mag mamahal ulit kilala ko sarili ko lahat ng ruta at desisyon ko na akala ko makakapag pabuti sa kanya walang tumama puro mali hays sana lang tumagal pako godbless sa inyo kung sino man makakabasa nito maga sign out nako🖤

    • @JZJTV-fo6kj
      @JZJTV-fo6kj 11 місяців тому

      agnostic pako 😂 malas ko talaga🖤

    • @JovCay6732
      @JovCay6732 10 місяців тому

      Parehas lang tayo broken brother kaya natin ito

  • @acemontoya6602
    @acemontoya6602 Рік тому

    Hoping when i read this comment in the future, I am fully healed 🙏

  • @salmaguillena205
    @salmaguillena205 Рік тому

    Thanks kuya Darbs i really need this now 22yrs of love and marriage LDR .i was shock my husband confess me he have another woman almost 5yrs he lied and cheated me 💔😭so painfull and suffered alots.i almost lost my self.he promise he will not do it again and he still love me and he beg me not to leave him.im soo confused kuya Darbs i still love him.

  • @rodelioadolfo7397
    @rodelioadolfo7397 Рік тому

    Tnx gumaan pkrmdm ko. I decided to let go n her. Mhrp sobra kc mhl ko pero kkkyanin ko nmn with God guidance. Slmt

  • @yxungxster
    @yxungxster Рік тому +1

    Sending hugs sa lahat magiging ok din ang lahat

  • @movCAPj
    @movCAPj 5 місяців тому

    salamat po sa advice napagaan po kalooban ko ngayon...sobrang sakit po ksi nangyari sakin di ko alam kung paano ako magmomoveon..

  • @aidaforalan1744
    @aidaforalan1744 Рік тому +3

    1:00 am listening to this wonderful video.
    Basag na Basag po ako ngayon kuya Darbs , di ko alam kung paano at saan magsisimula ulit.
    Pero salamat sa video na to, you opened my eyes and guided me how to step forward again

    • @JovCay6732
      @JovCay6732 10 місяців тому

      Need ko din kausap now

  • @Mary-b-sb8vu
    @Mary-b-sb8vu 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this vedio subrang thank ko kasi nakita ko tung vlog nyo i rialize that i have GOD🥰🥰

  • @aelpaming826
    @aelpaming826 Рік тому +2

    Thank you darbs for a very nice content, it’s helps us on how to deal with this kind of pain. Watching this make me feel better🙏.

  • @ideeibabao2021
    @ideeibabao2021 Рік тому

    Thank God salamat po brother apaka gandang encouraged ☝🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️God blessed us all

  • @MySimpleLife7192
    @MySimpleLife7192 2 місяці тому

    Kahihiwalay lng nmin ng long time partner q.. dahil nka buntis sya ng ibang babae.. sa work nya.. andmi nming plano .. sana .. pero nangyari ang bagay na yan... msakit skn subra dahil naging loyal ako sa knya lahit LDR kmi na dalwa.....subrang sakit subra.. pero alam q mkakaya q parin.. maging ok..

  • @christopherjrpasculado740
    @christopherjrpasculado740 2 місяці тому +1

    sobrang sakit😢.....may mahal Ako pero may iba na syang minahal....di ko kaya mawala sya sa buhay ko🥺

  • @irishey0801
    @irishey0801 Рік тому +1

    i found my love because I asked it for Him but why did it hurt me today... sad but true....

  • @joselitomangubat9548
    @joselitomangubat9548 Рік тому +2

    Salute kuya darbs solid ka talagang mag advice palagi the best ;)

  • @riannarepayo3084
    @riannarepayo3084 Рік тому

    Find love with god…❤❤❤thank you kuya darbs