How To Stop Hating Someone (or At Least Stop Thinking About Someone You Hate)
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- Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
- This video is about how to stop hating someone and why to stop hating someone. Hate hurts you more than the other person. Usually hate happens after love, because hatred is often unrequited love! Stop thinking about someone you hate. Hating someone is like drinking poison for your soul. When you hate someone you change the chemicals in your own body.
If you are really hating someone with a passion, when you hate somebody with a lot of energy, you are actually damaging your own self. If you hate someone, this is unhealthy for your body, mind and emotions. When I hate someone, I personally feel very sick, so I have outgrown the need to hate somebody. I realize it's better to just let it go and move on. Hating someone is poison for the soul.
Don't hurt yourself anymore with hatred for another person. When you can't stop hating someone you are making it worse for yourself.
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You know the only person I hate taught me not to trust or love anyone that sounds like a good moral lesson
I'm so sorry you are hurting, dear one. I know all too well how you feel, I've been there too. Holding a healing space for you. 💗🙏
People get depressed when they hate. Very true, don't think about that person that did wrong to you.
i agree!
I see the persons every day
We must forgive ourselves for holding onto the hate and/or anger as well. Just the other evening, I ran a woman who was dealing drugs out of my neighbors house out on a rail, and when it was all over and I went home, it all settled in my back as pain and exhaustion. I always say outloud; "Remove all noxious thought forms and vibrations." It truly helps. I also wished that woman well. I believe the one thing we are supposed to learn while here in these bodies is pure love. I hope I'm getting it right in this lifetime before I leave it. Thank you for putting this wonderful wealth of truth and knowledge out here in this video!
Well said, thanks for sharing!
Hey tysm for this.. I’ma teen and I‘ve been trapped with someone who threatened me a lot. I could not forgive her. I really can‘t but it did made me sick.. I was stressed and not enjoying the things I used to.. I‘d like to thank you for this. You‘re a gift from heaven sent for those who‘s in need of help. 💖💖💖You made me cry and make me realise everything.
This brings tears to my eyes, my heart is really touched. I'm so happy I could be there for you in that moment and help you move past a stuck place. I know, it's so tough when we are not able to control our environment to the point we should be able to. Being a teen and not being able to simply up and move, and having to live with a toxic person, I'm so sorry. YOU must be a really strong and skilled soul to have chosen this situation, so I admire you! You just keep on moving forward with your spiritual growth, sounds like you could be a masterful soul in a young body, you will get there! And with this person, just remember, it's not personal. This person is just in a lot of unhealed pain of their own, and might not even be able to heal it in this lifetime. Just be in a compassionate place in you heart and bear with it until you can move. Try not to react. I know, easier said than done. Be well, dear one! I'm here for you in comments if you need to talk! Just comment on any video you want to and I'll answer sooner or later. Hugs!
I am pretty sure the people who are meant to hear her words will. 🙏 Thank you so much. 🌺 I did not feel I hated anyone when I found this, but was getting through betrayal and felt stuck. I realized I was denying my hate. I saw it only as anger. Yet it ran deep. I realized this with your words. I needed to acknowledge what I was truly feeling. Thank you for your guidance.
I'm so happy this was able to take you to a deeper level. I've been there many times too thinking I was over it and just a little residual anger, but no, it goes to a deeper core wound that happened long before this person upset you. I have been able to find a lot of core childhood wounds this way, looking to see how deep it goes when someone upsets me. I would realize that person was not really the issue, it went much further back, and they just triggered a much older program that was still running that I wasn't conscious of. Good juice for getting old programs cleared out. Thank you for sharing!!!! Best wishes to you in your journey of awakening and healing core wounds!
I am thankful for Christine Breese coming into my life this evening/ morning. I am at peace with your message, its exactly what I needed to hear, as transition into a chapter of my life as an alienated parent. I am thankful for the soothing message that Christine has shared. Much love Brandon
I am so glad that I could be there for you in this moment. I have a couple dear friends who are also alienated parents, really tragic situations, for both them and the kids, each of them demonized by the other parent. Kids do follow the influences of the present parent over the one who is not able to be with them as often because of the courts or whatever the situation is. I'm so sorry you are going through this. It is terrible when one parent uses the kids as weapons to put a dagger in the heart of the other parent. I always did appreciate that when my parents divorced they didn't talk bad about the other parent. I really appreciated that becuase I loved them both as a kid and it was a truly a mature level of being on their part not to talk bad about the other or try to use the kids as weapons against the other's heart.
The only healing is to let go, and remember that when your kids are older they are going to want to know you and seek you out. They will seek healing with you. Don't worry. Time will heal it with them. They are going to actually be truly curious and interested in connecting with you, especially as they begin their own healing journeys.
A good exercise is to write a loving letter to your kids and let them know the door is always open for them when and if they want to connect, and then you have to let go and let God, so to speak.
One thing to do for them is to hold a healing space for them, and you do that by first feeling deeply in yourself what it is you want to transmit to them, like sweetness, happiness, love, feel it in yourself fully first. Then envision them standing in front of you, or sitting, and inviting them to resonate with this space you are holding. See them smiling, happy, fulfilled, reaching their full potential. This is how you can pray for your kids.
Now if you can do this for the one who has harmed you and broke your heart, you are entering a level of mastery few humans can do!
Blessed be, dear one. My thoughts are with you. 🌻💙🙏
We all searched for this 🤣😅
Yes, finding the path to peace with the past is healing. Blessings!
so many people need to hear this right now
Yah, if we can all just let go and stop hating. Grudges only hurt us ourselves. Thank you for commenting!
@@SpiritualityLoveMeditation your welcome.. stay positive
This video just popped up at the top of my list. I'm so glad that I listened because I've been dealing with this heavy feeling of hatred and resentment towards someone that I haven't been able to shake. Thank you!
You are so welcome dear one. Thank YOU for setting yourself and the other person free from the bad dream. Time to move on and dream a new dream! Learn the lessons, and return to love! Glad I could be there for you at the right moment!
Just on time as always, you are an angel. Thank you !
So glad it was timely!
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Thanks Christine! What a POWERFUL message in your video. Extremely helpful and I thank you so very much for helping me/all of us, on our healing journey!
You are so welcome dear one! Blessings!
You helped me a lot, I was struggling so bad and you helped me to decode de lesson! Thank you sister you're light ❤️
I'm so glad that my video was able to help you, it's a tough lesson, so hard to let go, but healthier if we do!
I'm really glad I found this video, it might be part of the wake up call I needed.
I was feeling trapped between a sense of feeling "obligated" to hate this person for "moral reasons"
And a sense of loathing the hateful state I was in.
And this video just kinda breaks it down and makes me feel super serene and cleared my mind.
I'm really greatful that you shared your message with us. I think you're right. There's obviously something I need to learn here. The situation seems so specific like it was hand-picked to hit my weak points,
and y'know... 👀 I think it is! Those weak points can be assessed now in preparation for my future while the situation is relatively tame.
So dwelling on my hatred is not gonna make finding the "pearl" in this any easier, and is harder on me too.
I'm willing to try to loosen up and look at this from a different angle and with more gratitude.
I hope I find that lesson soon.
Thanks again and bless you.
I am so glad this video helped you clear your feelings, and to set yourself free. Really, it's setting YOURSELF free, not necessarily the other person. I know it takes a while to let go, but that indeed is what we must do. You are so welcome dear one!
I am struggling to keep up with my roommate. He doesn't let me study or read by playing loud music n whenever I ask him to stop doing that he turns on me. This makes me hate him like anything as he doesn't give me any peace of mind. I am having very bad vibes and negative thoughts and I don't have an option to shift. He is very egoistic. What do I do?
Oooy, that's a tough one, if you can't move or get a different roommate. If you can get a different roommate, or move, do it. One time I heard Papaji tell a story about how a student asked how to meditate and be at peace with an automotive shop downstairs. He asked all his other students what their advice would be to this person. They came up with all kinds of lofty advice, but Papaji put all their advice in the trash and said, "Now here's mine... MOVE!" If you can, this person should not be in your environment, and sometimes it's uncomfortable for us for the moment to have to make the shift, but we need to for our own peace, either move him out or you move out, request a different dorm if you are in a dorm with him, see if there are ways to get out of the situation. I know the schools and colleges have rules about this if you are in student housing.
Now if you are in a situation where you can't shift it, I saw that you are saying you don't have the option to shift, then this person is your teacher at this moment, and he is teaching you how to be at peace even in an uncomfortable situation. If you think you're up to it, then take on the challenge. It's the only choice, and find a way to be at peace, get earplugs, whatever it takes, and see him as the child in an adult body who has not evolved enough to care about other people around him. Life is really your teacher, actually, by putting this person in your space. Life is a ruthless teacher.
If I was you, I would do everything I could to find a way to not be roommates with this person anymore, even if that means you will have to spend a little more money while you find another, hopefully you have the power to do that, or move. I'm not sure exactly what your situation is, but this isn't a healthy or supportive environment.
So sorry you're in this situation dear one. This is a toughie! That's for sure. I hope you resolve this soon. If you can, tell us how you resolve it. I would be curious at to how it turns out! We all would! 🙏
Am so grateful for your kind words. You are right..Life is a ruthless teacher and I am up for the challenge. May be it's time I learn how to tackle these situations and I hope I get to learn something that will lead my way in the future . I have hardly two more months for graduation so I think I can manage this. Thank you for your motivation. I really wanted this. Please be there whenever I need you.
Love from India🇮🇳
This is good news! You can do this. After graduation though things are going to change. Just a little way to go now and you can change things. Just grin and bear it for the moment. That's a teaching in itself, waiting for the right timing. Love to you in India too! I love India and all its beauty! Thank you for the teachings of India!
I have the same problem! Except with my neighbour next door. Good advice also in the reply
Help my kids mother is so irresponsible with money. I'm a coparent and pay my child support. She's not the worst coparent but she throws away money on herself and is not very bright with money. It makes me hate her for it. She's also always switching up schedules to give her self less parenting time. We keep it peaceful these days in our interaction but I hold my frustration inside. I avoid fighting at all costs because it can get ugly with her. I just wish I wasn't bothered by it.
Omg not only this video gave me calmness and made me relax, but it also taught me many things about how to love instead of hate... Thank you so much Christine ❤️ Hope you make more videos like this.
I will, just trying to find the time! So busy with the retreats at Gaia Sagrada right now! People are traveling a lot and I've been so busy with the in-person retreats!
This is something I truly needed to hear. Thank you 🙏
Glad it was helpful!
Thank You. I now see the lesson. I owe the person involved, my gradatude. I forgive her and myself.
You got it! So perfectly!
Thank you so much, I really needed this❤️
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Thank you so much! I really needed to hear this 🙏🏾
You are so welcome, glad it was helpful!
I love Christine. Whenever i am lost or upset, i watch her videos and always feel better. I would love to go to one of her retreats.
That's nice to hear! Thanks Bruce. Hope to have you one day! Getting out every now and then is always a good idea! ❤️
I really hate my girl classmate. To think that boys will always be strong and be perfect. Well I’m not, I suffered more in this pandemic. My family is dealing with financial problems, my cousins is also suffering, and my Mom died while in the hospital. I didn’t get to see her for the last time because I was underage. I was depressed until now. Now that I’m back in school, I didn’t socialize and didn’t make any friends. When our teacher gave us a group project, we didn’t discuss the project but she did it all by herself without discussing with the rest of us. I thank her at first and then she got mad at me. Saying all bad words and threatening me to the teacher. I tried to be more mature than her and ask for guidance in UA-cam. Thank you so much! It really helps me out a lot. 😊 I will try to be more aware and avoid her at all if it means to forget my hatred on her.
Thank you a lot...Very much needed and was searching for this type of guidance, I'll try to change myself
You are so welcome dear one! It's all about changing ourselves. I WISH we could change others, but we can't. We can only change ourselves. Sending you well wishes in your finding peace with some sparkles on top!
U literally saved me..and taught a great lesson of life..yes everybody are not same..as someone gives u some lesson by giving the love they have for u..and someone gives lesson by giving the hate they have for u..thats life..learning and growing peacefully ❤️
You REALLY get it, you are showing this with your words. Thank you dear friend, and teach the others. They need to know! Blessings on your path! I didn't save you, you saved yourself, I just reminded you of what you already knew in your heart!
@@SpiritualityLoveMeditation I m from india mam..and i am a teen year boy..aged 19..apart from my medical preferences towards my studies and career path..I have also experienced many situations which are faced by the upcoming teenagers mostly..and I want to share my point of views..and experiences with my fellow friends..bt I don't know how can i share my experiences and knowledge to everyone ..u tube is providing us a very good and big platform..bt I am new to this..and I want to know how u have started ur channel and made up to this..literally want ur advice..☺️💗
@@hydra444yt7 You just have to start making videos and put them up there, and it will start very small and eventually people see them. It takes a long time honey. I am still a very small channel, don't do it for a lot of views, just do it because it's what you do!
@@SpiritualityLoveMeditation yes mam..i will never do it for views or money or etcetra..bt i want to help my fellow mates and also want to encourage them..that they are not facing something extraordinary rather all face the same problem ..they are not a diff creature...only the impact of the pain to all these circumstances are different which is totally determined by how we react to our situations.. And our understandings and deepness (maturity) about our difficulties which we face..this maturity arises from our past experiences.. And will keep arising till our death..bt none can experience every sort of things in this small life..so we should gather every sort of experiences which we can and also take instances from others about their experiences ..
Believe me mam..i am not praising myself..bt I have faced some worst situations.. About relationships ..study.. Career..family problems.. Addictions..etc.. And thus I wanna help others like u r doing..to make them think more logical about their lives..and make them understand the importance of each and every part of their life..May it be pain or happiness..
@@hydra444yt7 You just do it then! You go for it! If you are feeling led to help others, you are actually being CALLED! Just do it. Share what you know, share your experience, share what you are being given with others. It's really the right thing to do. Please do! you can do it all with your phone now, you don't need cameras and fancy equipment. It used to be that way, but now things can be done in such an easy way. Just be yourself and let the divine speak through you! I'm so glad if I have been any inspiration for you to do that! What an honor!
Thank you for such an inspirational/healing video!
You are so welcome!
This is awesome. It’s absolutely correct and Also Hilarious. I am saving it to share with people who are not hearing it when I say or see it ;) so awesome! Thank you a thousand times.
I'm glad you like it, share as much as you want! I'm glad you're one of the people who really gets this!
Thank you for awhile now there was a guy who was trying to get with my fiance at her job but it made me realize that I was taking her for granted and wasn't showing her the love she deserved and it woke me up to the fact that I can lose her to him and it made our relationship stronger. So thank you for what you said
Beautiful! This is exactly how to use a negative experience to grow. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you.
I did need to hear that.
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I love learning good thing I don't hate no one
That's good!
a lot of people can't handle the truth about things and are made unaware. When we expose these things, it is out of love for humanity. People don't need to get upset.
so true!
Thank you for this powerful message ❤️🌄
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Beautiful video.
Hi from Mexico and really thank you very much.
Hey to Francisco in Mexico, you're so welcome! Blessings!
What about if you did things that deeply hurt another living being...how do you move beyond that? Including when those little beings are in the other realm
Your remorse is what redeems you. You wouldn't do it again, right? So forgive yourself, yes, it's hard, but it can be done. And then teach others not to do these things, teach them how to do it well. There is no one who is a better teacher than one who has learned from their mistakes, or better said "educational moments"
I accidentally stumbled upon your video trying to search for a 963 video for meditation. Your channel is amazing
Thank you! I'm glad you like it! 💛
Thank you for speaking to my heart, sweetheart.
You are so welcome dear one. Blessings...
I needed to hear that
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Amen, Come on Now!!!
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Idk if there is any purpose to anything, so I'm just not convinced there's a reason for the negative experiences.
I wish I could stop hating my ex best friend from childhood, but he is a narcissistic drug addict who actively tried to bring me down. Really shook me for years, and shattered my trust in anyone.
Dear one, that is not a healthy way to spend your energy. I really hope for you that you can let this one go and move on to brighter fields. There are good people. Just because one broke your trust and broke your heart doesn't mean they all will. Holding space for you, beautiful soul. I know it's hard to imagine there is a reason for all this negative stuff, but there is or it wouldn't exist. Just try to make your life full of more positive experiences than not. That's the key. That means you have to really let go of the anger with the childhood friend. That was a long time ago.
I feel the same about a guy that got over on me and mistreated me for no reason I truly hate him and wish him nothing good..I struggle not to but definitely feel strong feelings of hate and resentment towards him and his friends/family
Unable to keep the brain stable from certain annoying deeds and words of the people when iam in the weak situation..
I know, it's hard, but the trick is to get yourself out of that situation. If it's toxic and unhealthy you MUST leave that situation, no matter how much it seems like you have to be in it. There are ways you can serve whatever it is you need to serve without being in an unhealthy situation. Hugs! You got this! You will be happier, promise!
She honestly needs more Subcribers! This helped me so much!! Thank you 😊
Hey thanks so much! It is a little tough to get found on youtube these days, haha! I always figure that if I can at least help one, it's a lot!
Thanks for your help
You are so welcome dear one!
Wow this is so soothing
hugs!
Christine Breese, Spirituality, Love & Meditation 🤗🤗🤗
Beautiful video.
thank you!
Thank you it helped me a lot
You are so welcome dear one! 💗
Glad i found this. I hate horrible mean Bullies from childhood who got me big trauma. But i feel like i can't move on before i get apologize. Then again, Impossible to get apologize so i want to move On. What should i do?
Don't wait for an apology you might never get. Only you suffer. Have to let go and move on to brighter skies,, learn, and be around more evolved people from now on. Hugs!
I fucking resent everyone, life.
Dear one, you really need to move through this and to the other side. It's poisoning you. Think of the people who hurt your heart as life's vehicles for the lessons that your soul chose to work with before you were born. You didn't choose anything you didn't think you could transcend, so focus on what it's going to take to let the anger and hatred go. Forget the people who messed with you, they were not the problem.
Life is a ruthless teacher and it is a tough teacher. If you have gone through these things, it's because your soul chose to tackle these dysfunctions in the human condition, and you knew you could handle it. If your parents hurt your heart, you chose them to set up the dysfunctions. If people, friends, etc later in life hurt you, they are only reflecting the dysfunction.
Go within, meditate, journal, do whatever it takes to heal this so you can live a beautiful life. Develop boundaries so you don't let people mistreat you again, and if they do, just keep making adjustments to your boundaries and self love, self worth, and self esteem.
You are a divine being, and you may have some bad programming to deal with, but you can return to the purity of who you are and work from there.
Healing is not fixing anything, it's letting go. So let the hurts go, learn the lessons, develop the boundaries, and keep giving people a chance, as there are going to be good experiences for you if you do. My heart goes out to you, I know exactly what you're feeling, but if I could get over it so can you. You got this my friend! Big hugs!
I'm really struggling right now. My mind is riddled with worries and what ifs, and anxiety and agoraphobia. I know I'm supposed to be strong as a Leo, born on the day of endurance. But I feel like I can't endure anymore. I'm sad, anxious, and unhealthy. 😥
Embrace yourself and just breathe right now, nothing to figure out. Just rest and let everything settle down. The answers will come from within. Just rest right now.
@@SpiritualityLoveMeditation thank you so much.
Thank you random weird star war hologram person👍
Haha! Why, I've never been quite called that before, and I quite like it! Same to you, fellow randome weird star war hologram person. I'm sure you're one too!
LOVE YOU
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Thank you
you are so welcome!
1st comment I said 28 years...as a tech...2nd comment 26 years as a therapist assistant.
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Ty Christine Breese ; hope to attend retreat / garden space at some stage so to speak
Looking forward to meeting you!
@@SpiritualityLoveMeditation same , Europe currently but, I'm working on it
whoohoo!
yes thank u😃
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Hi! I wanna keep this short but please read carefully
A person who was once my best friend backstabbed me many times (i wanna keep this short otherwise i can tell you detailed information of his backstabbing activities) and i continued to forgive him he is masterclever
He misguides everyone and one day as i hate him i had some arguments with him he calls me for a fight later he apologize me but i reject i continues think of beating him (i am not kind of who get bullied) please help me with this situation this is eating me inside .......
I'm so sorry this is happening. Don't do anything physically toward him because it will incur bad karma on your part, but you can stand your ground, of course and tell him this is ok. Usually a bully doesn't listen though to the only thing to do is to try to distance as much as you can and not have anything to do with him. The thing to do is realize that this is his dysfunction, not yours, and be patient like a parent is with a child. All you can do is minimize his impact on you by not reacting to it and being such a nice and cool person that people won't believe whatever he is telling him.
If there is someone badmouthing me and trying to destroy my reputation, sometimes I look at it this way, instead of getting upset about it. Maybe they are protecting me from other really negative people who would believe that stuff about me who don't even know me, so whatever, better that they're not in my life then. It's the only way I have come up with to deal in my heart with people who are harmful and say bad things that aren't true. There really isn't that much more one can do with that stuff.
Thank you very much for your time and your positive words.....
Well this got me thinking, once you’ve reached enlightenment, you’ve realised yourself as god self and everything else being god too, does this mean you can’t judge anyone anymore? No matter how “evil” they are? Is it best to stop all judgement altogether?
I would say the answer to that is YES! Good insight. Judging others is not a masterful place to come from anyway. It's a human condition level to look at things from. As eternal self, there is no judgement.
why are humans so cuel
I hear your heart, dear one. It's because they are in pain and don't know how to handle things with compassion. All you can do is do your own healing work and help others do theirs, and try not to take everything so personally. It's not really about you. It is about their pain and lack of evolution. Blessed be, beautiful soul.
Can you please help me? I love someone so much who broke me heart and I don't know how to let go! Its been years and I know its wrong to hand onto feelings and emotions but I can't find anyone to love who loves me back. I don't know if I hate Elysabeth for what she did to me but I never have gotten closure. She's very beautiful and has a huge ego but I see the goodness deep inside her. I don't know what to do! Can you please help! I feel like I've given up! Thank you!
You have to stop thinking of her and stop yearning for her love. It's time now. Several years is too long. And don't look for anyone to love you back. You loved how she made you feel about yourself, so now you have to find a way to feel that way about yourself without someone else being there. This is the way out. And turn your attention to what you CAN have instead of focusing on what you can't have. It's hard, I know, but that's what you have to do in order to not be heartbroken anymore. You have to do for yourself now what she did for you. Many blessings, dear one! Longing for something or someone you can't have love from is toxic for the soul. It's time now to make yourself available to yourself now, and then love is shared, not "needed."
What’s my pearl of wisdom?
I don’t know because my father molested me ever since I was a baby.
I’m not trying to be annoying, I really want to know.
This means you are a beautiful healer and you are a strong and skilled soul to have taken on something so difficult. Thank you for your work in healing this part of humanity's consciousness, it's a biggie! Your pearl of wisdom is in the healing of all of this. You will help many who have expeirenced the same thing. Blessings dear one. 💜💚💛💗💙
Man this lady is hitting me on levels I cannot full under stand. All this she’s says is meaningful & true, but coming from HER, it seems so ridiculous to ever been a hater. She makes it seem so. Doesn’t seem possible to to get upset with Ms Breese at all. Seems like she gives off aura of love. Amazing lady.
@@vincerob369 I'm so glad you're getting something out of these videos and I'm so glad you have left the realms of hating someone. I've been there, we all have. Blessings to you! Spread the word about being love!🌻
@@SpiritualityLoveMeditation Hello Ms Breese!!!
Yes indeed I am. All this energy hitting me this year, and past year has me not knowing what is what. SO NICE TO hear your soothing manner, and voice to cut to the heart of things. I am trying to come back after losing everything in 2011. Not there yet but world-class hate filled me because of lifes downs 2011-2013. Got so bad that I made my car shake on a windless day from anger. I couldn't believe it, but when the person amping me got cut off it all stopped.I also created/manifested(?) $2500 I needed but was done negatively so I couldn't keep it. I scaled down my anger to a huge degree. YOU help remind me not to let it back in. Thank you!
@@vincerob369 Yes, anger is a demon, like hate, and it does like to come back and check on you to see if you're really done with it. It really takes us in bad directions, even if it's righteous and the other person really is wrong. When we get angry we lose all our IQ and get really stupid and no one and nothing can reason with us.
I'm glad you recovered from whatever was happening in 2011-2013, sounds like it was pretty rough. This is a new day and you can create something different now! This was a big step though, letting go of negative consciousness loops. So important. 🌻
😭😭❤💔💔😭😭 this is touching me so deeply.
I'm so glad. It is so difficult to release the feeling when someone does us wrong. Blessed be dear one!
Patience
Yes, it does indeed take patience with ourselves and others to return to love. Just be persistent!
There’s a guy in my class who said to teacher than I don’t go outdoor when I’m in my house and the teacher talked it to everybody
You're so beautiful i bet if i kiss you all my problems will disappear
Muuuuaaaah! (That was a big smooch). Now be freeeeeee! 💙
33 dislike
They will still counting doing so
Haha! That's funny! 33 dislikes on a How to Stop Hating Someone! Teehee. Thanks for pointing that out. Fortunately there are a lot more likes, that's a good thing, whew!
What if I still can’t be around the person anymore because of how they make me feel for how they have hurt me? Does that mean I still hate them? I don’t want to hate.
Please, do yourself a favor and don't be around that person anymore. It doesn't mean you hate them if you don't want to be around them. It just means they are not healthy for you and you know that. What you can do that is loving for them is to wish for their healing and wellbeing, visualizing this person happy, smiling, whole, and reaching his or her full potential. This is how you can love them from a distance. Don't take it so personally the hurt that they did to you, though. It was just lack of evolution in someone who hasn't done their growing up and healing yet. Nothing more. Truly this person is Godself too at the core, and hasn't done the journey of self discovery that needs to happen.
Thank you so much for your loving response.
What is the lesson? I really want to know but I think God is the only one that can truly answer that. He sent that narcissistic demon ex to destroy me and take my soul. For years I gave him everything, put myself last, spent all my money on him and he cheated on me for 7 years straight and I only found out in the end. He left me homeless. Left me to die in my car in the middle of winter in 30 degree weather while he was home in bed with the woman he cheated on me with, nice and warm. What kind of lesson am I supposed to take from this? That I'm garbage and unworthy of love from any human being on this Earth? What lesson am I to take from my own father sexually molesting me and my mother not believing me and siding with him over her own child? My life has been nothing but loneliness and abuse by the people that were supposed to protect me and I was supposed to trust. This is why I can't have a relationship with God because I wish I was never born... If this was the life that I was meant to live, I'd rather be dead. Being dead is better than living this sh*t life.
We come in knowing we have to take on a dysfunction to transcend. That's the ticket into this world, we have to take on a dysfunction. Those things that happened when you were young set up the dysfunction. The ex was a manifestation of that dysfunction. It was to show you that there is programming there that needs healing. You have the power to change the programs that set that up. They are toughies, I had them too, but if you took on those dysfunctions in programming, you are a strong soul who can do it, and not all souls can. You took on some hard ones to transcend, but you can. You never take on more than you can handle. You have it within you to overcome these things. I know it doesn't seem like it right now, but you do. I'm sending you a big healing light, just bask in the light of who you are, take breaks, and do the shadow work, and you will get there, little by little, start where you can, and take small steps. Those steps will get bigger as you move through this. I'm sorry you had so many disappointments in life, I did too, but I'm proof you can heal just about anything!
I hate the boy who threatens to beat me up. He said I’m just a little year eight but he meant Your just a little year eight, you don’t matter, I knew he meant.
I know sometimes people or situations can be hard. But you will make it through, every time. Promise. Keep your head high. Believe in yourself. And find people who treat you right. Make you laugh. And love you back. They are out there!
Wow thank you I so subscribed thank you so much! You made me feel so much better and you just made my day thank you so much!
And who says I want to stop?
You don't have to if you don't want to. It's up to you. Stopping sets you free from the pain though.
Thanyou
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Wth. I'm trying to not kill my cousin
Well, that would not be good to do! Learn instead! What is the lesson?
Well if u born to a person who did the worst then continues to act out the worst then what?
This is karma. Karma is an educational system, not paybacks or punishments. You have to do it all sooner or later in order to graduate the human reincarnational cycle. This is the life you chose to come in and experience this and see if you can transcend it. In fact, we all have to pick some dysfunction to work with in order to have a lifetime here. You picked a tough one, but you have the skills to transcend this! You are a strong spirit if you picked this to heal in the human consciousness. We are all here to rewire the human condition, and this is are area that needs a lot of work! Thank you for your work and your contribution to healing humanity's mass consciousness.
I don’t hate anyone.
But I don’t like anyone.
I don’t know why
Hmmm... you got me there. Only you can know the answer to this. Maybe it could have to do with a disinterest in humans? How can you find them interesting? Hmmm... definitely got me there. Would feel good to have some human friends you like! At least you don't hate them, so that's good!
... how did I get this from searching #bell
hmmm... good question! No idea! UA-cam gets a little wild in where it shows videos sometimes! haha!
But everybody drank the poison 😂🌈❤️
Yah, but we can all stop drinking the poison of hate. That's the healing the world needs at this time. Then we graduate to the next level of utopia!
I love how this joker says how heating is wrong you bring you cancer 🤣 so the person my abuser which is also my person who same person that use me as a kid it's also the same person that raped me this way is tell me not to hate that person pic cuz I'll bring me cancer I said cancer is better than paying that he caused me
I'm so sorry you still suffering from that injustice that happened to you, dear one. Holding a healing space for you. I wish for you peace around this. I've been there too. You asked if I have experience with getting sick from having hate, and yes I did get tumors once from anger and hate about these same injustices. I finally healed by letting go of the hate and anger toward those who harmed me. I hope you can do this too soon. You will be happier. I promise. Much love to you. May people come into your life who can truly help you with this. I know, it's tough. You can overcome this though. 💗