thrifting my MODEST IS HOTTEST Pinterest board! *and why I started dressing modestly…*
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- Опубліковано 9 сер 2023
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So happy to finally open up about my reasons for changing the way I dress! Comment below, I would love to hear about your current style values and chat with you! 🫶🏼💕
I love the modest aesthetic! I'm Catholic so modesty has always been at the forefront of how I dress. But it wasn't until I started to learn the beauty of modesty, of women, and learn how to appreciate my body (from all its feminine functions to how I look in the mirror) that I actually embraced how I dress. I don't want anything less than modest now. I still wear jeggings and sometimes leggings (with a long button-up, of course! Haley, I think you got me into that because I have quite a collection started) but I'm wanting to explore my personal style to better show who God created me to be and show my Catholic faith to those around me! I love that you are encouraging this very thoughtful and reflective part of fashion to all of us who have been following along on your style journey, Haley. Thank you!
As a mom of two, boy and girl, you have me in tears. Talking about how you want to be better for yourself first, your girls and EVERYONE here. What a beautiful moment we get to witness.
Unlike everyone else, you'd be my little sister. I'm 40 and love your content!
This really struck me 🥹 thank you for making me feel so uplifting to you!! ❤️
I’m Catholic so i have a modesty standard too 🤗 I’m really glad we’re talking about it more and are able to create stylish outfits and inspo
Me too!
sameee sister ❤
Samee🎉
Same here. I've been watching modest fashion hauls lately just to get some inspiration on how to make if fashionable without looking like a grandma. I have my own modest fashion standards like not wearing any shorts or skirts that are butt revealing or too short. I'm fine with wearing crop tops as long as the bottoms are high waisted or if I wear a tank top underneath (I wear tank tops with some of my dresses too if it looks like cleavage is gonna show).
Me too!!!
As a young mom who desires to dress modestly, I really appreciate you sharing this type of content ! It is refreshing to see & helpful as I look for fashion inspiration that
resegnates with me.
This warms my heart mama! I struggled alot too trying to find someone who dresses with my limits so I’m trying to be there for others looking for the same! 🥰
we love you as you are haley, and like you said it does take a lot of skill to make good outfits that look balanced and modest (aesthetic). you’ve given me a lot of inspiration and also confidence to dress more modestly, instead of always showing my body like people said i should because i’m “skinny”. i hate it when people say “why do you cover up such a beautiful body? what a shame.” people should dress how they want to, so thank you for bringing that up :)
Ahhh comments like that make me so upset as if that’s all you’re worth 😭 you’re beautiful inside and and out and your fashion choices should reflect how YOU want to see yourself 🥰
@@HaleysCornerr ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes indeed... And Itś even worse how some people claim that covering up more of the body is something horribly sexually opressive and objectifying, because it means covering/hiding the person/soul. As if saying you are your body, not your personality! So you can only express/show yourself by showing off your ass and boobs if you are female... This speach against modest clothing is actually even more objectifying and sexually opressive, as it typically targets women/girls who cover up some more parts of their bodies than the cultural norms prescribe, or just covering up equally as much as men/guys the same age normally cover in the same culture. Some people also claim they want equally covering clothing styles, but turns out they don't want that when girls/women actually does dress equal to men. Because even western gender norms for guys/men are still very modest. We still have the black and white "male burqa" (the suit) that is seen as mandatory for every serious and festive event. Just the same as going to a funeral. Didn't change much in over 100 years. Actually, guys and men who dress very modest - regardless their background - are often more opressed by sexist gender norms in their dress than girls and women in western cultures. Even girls and women from strict religious families often have more choise of outfits and degree of coverage for different events, in my experience. Even girls and women from religious muslim families who are 1st generation immigrants, those that I met, from places where the Hijab is mandatory, they had more choises and girls and women in many of those families dress very different/individually. All variations from "immodest" typically modern western clothing styles to full Hijab.
As a Muslim 13 year old hijabi girl, I feel so glad seeing all of you guys talking about modesty. Huh, so I’m not alone! Great to see you talking about modesty-something women are afraid to do. You’re brave now, not because your showing your skin and wearing bold colors, but your brave for talking about something society tries to show as a bad thing. Great job!
It is so cool to watch a UA-camr who wants to dress very current/cute and make it modest. This is something I struggle with at 22. Love all the inspiration!
As a Christian 27 year old mom of 3, I so appreciate your videos! Everything about your style and esthetic resonates with me. You give me so much fashion inspiration. And I love that I can actually recreate your outfits without modifying them to fit my style. 🙃 Love ya!
I signed in just to like your video because I liked it that much. Probably the best use of the term “authentic” I’ve seen because you are nonjudgemental while setting standards for yourself based off of your own comfort levels and beliefs. I appreciate the uplifting content!
I love how proud you are wearing modest clothing and being a mum who has no idea what my style is anymore, you have helped me so much in finding myself and how I want to dress. Thank you! ❤
This makes my heart so happy! 💕 it really took me a little bit of time to open up about it but I’m SO happy I did now because so many mamas feel the same way! 😊
Modest aesthetic 🩷 as a momma in her mid twenties I realized I don’t like ANY of my pre pregnancy clothing so watching your videos makes me really sit and think what do I like, what will be timeless, and am I comfortable ? Love the videos so much!
I find I dress very very similar to you, but I’m also extremely comfortable running around the beach in a bikini-it may be just bc I am 35, and I’m finally at a point where I love my body and I genuinely don’t care if others don’t. I love your channel and thank you. Modest aesthetic ❤
Such a beautiful comment I’m so happy you’re in such a good place mama 🥰
I love that you share your faith on here.
I’ve been dressing more modestly because I’m a Christain. 🙌
As a Christain, I want people to see Christ in me and through me.
However, that change didn’t come over night . It took me years to get there.
Because in my sin, I loved the attention,
But, as I grew in my faith.. that attention made me feel gross.
Thank you, for your videos.
😊❤🎉
I wouldn’t necessarily say my style is modest as I love wearing bikinis and shorter dresses on occasion, but for the most part, I prefer to cover my arms and don’t usually like wearing tight fitting clothing anymore. I’m in my late twenties and comfort is key! Plus it ends up looking more timeless. I really love your outfits, mindset, modest aesthetic and hope to see how you style more of your thrifted pieces ❤
I also wouldn’t say I am modest all the time. But I am „modest“ in my own way. First of all I try to behave modestly. And I dress very tasteful and try to balance out my outfits. If I wear a croptop it’s high neck most of the time. And my shorts are not super super short. If I wear a tight top I choose lose bottoms and vise versa . But most of the time I am the most confident in less form fitting clothes as I don’t have to worry about wardrobe malfunctions or a bloated stomach. 😊
Thanks for sharing Malina! I’m so happy to see you really knowing what it is your are and aren’t comfortable with ❤️ I mean that’s really the point! What you wear has to be good and make sense to YOU 🥰
Thank you Haley for being such a great role model for being true to yourself. Modest aesthetic ❤❤
Thank you for being so kind ❤🫶🏼
Trendy isn’t always comfortable.. and if someone isn’t feeling comfortable in their own skin just because they care what others think is really sad! (Me being one of those girls) I try to dress modestly with maxi and midi skirts and tops and some jeans sometimes and modesty doesn’t have to be boring it can be fashionable and really cute! Thank you so much for spreading positivity and just for making this channel your definitely my biggest inspiration. I love you Haley! ❤️
Knowing that you were struggling to figure out what videos to make and how to dress, it makes me happy to see that you are comfortable enough to be you and make content that is true to you! I love seeing it! 💖
Modest aesthetic!
Thank you, Haley, as a young girl, and even as an old lady, I have dealt with anorexia. The way you presented it on dressing modest was so spiritual in so many ways. I am a Christian and feel the same exact way in what you were saying. Thank you so much for sharing. PS I am the baggy shirt. High waisted baggy pants and a tighter shirt person.😂😂
“Modest aesthetic”. I am an older woman. I never really was one for exposing my midriff or cleavage outside of my home. Even when I was much younger. I respect your choice to dress as your authentic self feels comfortable. You scored some cute pieces that will enhance your wardrobe.
Thank you for sharing! I appreciate your kind words 🥰
Modest aesthetic! LOVE THIS VIDEO! I’m determined to make the change back to modest dressing. I always felt awkward in high school because I dressed modestly but it never felt like me and I was always jealous of the way other girls looked stunning while showing off their bodies. I hopped on that train for a bit in college but realized I wasn’t doing it for myself but to look like others and be appreciated by them. Watching your channel made me realize that dressing modestly can still be just as fashionable and make you feel like yourself. I’m determined to slowly shift my closet to a modest one!
Thank you for sharing your modesty style story! I appreciate your transparency. And even though, you came to this change on your own, you are definitely honoring your husband and faith while setting an example to your children. 🥰I look forward to more modest clothing content. There is so much fun modest fashion out there!
I am genuinely jsut so happy seeing you evolve & grow. I’ve always viewed you like the cool big sister that helps me find my way through my own style.
I’ve always loved being modest because it’s just comfier not having to stress about soemthing falling out etc.
Thank you for being you’re genuine self. Much love ❤
I’m so glad you finally found a style makes you you and makes you happy and confident
This video resonated so much to me. Thank you for talking about this on your platform. You’ve not only helped me discover my own style but that I should be confident in it too. I love your new modest aesthetic 💖
Hi long time subscriber here!🥰Love watching you evolve from your first thrifting days to now. I’m a late teen now and i’ve always felt like I never fit in because I never wore revealing clothes like everyone else (for personal confidence reasons).This content is so relatable and I love what you have been coming up with! Thank you Haley I truly love watching your videos! ❤️🥺💗
The first video I watched of yours was the one where you talked about hating your style. I really enjoy how you style outfits and how it really doesn't matter what size you are, you can find and style outfits at any size. Thank you for being you!
i resonated with what you said about dressing more modestly! ive been getting older, my body has been changing, and i just want to feel more put together and confident and dressing more modestly feels so good and actually so much sexier and confident than i ever did showing tons of skin. you are so inspiring, but also so kind, and i love hearing the things you have to say :)
Modest esthetic ♥️
Totally understand! We’re thankful you took your time to explain this to us 🙏🏼 so glad you’re not scared to be unique!
Thank you so much for posting videos like this, I actually came across your channel by looking up “modest outfits” and a video from your channel came up so from there I just have been watching every one of your videos, so I appreciate it so much, as a young woman it’s hard to dress modesty because every piece of clothing at the store is revealing so your channel brings inspiration, Thank you and love ya 💕
I love that I watched you when I was young trying to dress like you and now I’m a mom watching you be a mom and teaching me to dress like a cool mom 😭💗
Thank you sm for making modest videos like this, they give me so much inspiration and now I can watch someone who is also dressing like me ❤❤❤😊
That is why I love you because you make me feel more comfortable wearing clothes that I always prefer to wear. Thanks again love you and your happy family.
Its really been so special watching you,this channel and your family grow hay❤ i wish the you now. Could tell 6 years ago you how beautiful life would grow to be and thst your wildest dreams would come true❤ that youd be one if the few content creators who cared more for your community youd grown and how we all felt and hoe you felt about the comments and feelings then about views. You are such a gem.
I’m definitely vibing with your current style! Thanks for the inspo!
I have admired you & your style since the beginning and absolutely LOVE your style now as a mama. As someone who became a mama around the same time as you, I often have a hard time resonating with other girlies! The modest aesthetic is so chic and girl, you are my whole Pinterest mood board lol!
Go Haley !!!!! Love you and thank you for being genuine ❤️❤️
just recently found your channel in this new year because I've been tired of watching content that didn't align with what I wanted to fill my mind with and opposite of my interests. I love thrifting and the small amount that I've done it. Already learning so many thrifting tips and loved this video on modest dressing. I have always wanted to dress more modestly and learning how to level up outfits into more modest looks is so inspiring!
Honestly I love that we are growing together with Haley because it helped me throughout my teen years, college years and now I’m going to be a mom too and her transition to modest is just just on time 🥹♥️♥️♥️
Love love this ! I myself grew up modern orthodox, and even though I’m not anymore , I still love sometimes dressing in a modest way , and I draw so much inspo from ur outfits. But I love it that ur making fashion just about fashion and not having to do with the body wearing it .
Modest asthetic is awesome, love thrifting, love your videos & that you are searching for more depth with the content you create and being truer to yourself. Love love love ❤️ This is super refreshing to see.
Thank you so much, your videos are always so inspiring and helpful especially for modesty which I value as well!
Same girl! I’m going for a similar look. I’m a new mom and want the modest look for comfort. I always wore uncomfortable tight (and small) clothes. Now, I love the baggy look and have never felt more comfortable! Love love love! Your thrifting adventures inspire me!
Hayley you are a gem!! your videos are always so entertaining and such good quality. thank you for all your hard work!!
Thank you! i love watching your videos on modesty because it helps me give ideas! i dress modesty and struggle finding cute outfits i could wear. This is so much help!
Hi! I am in my young 20’s and have been following your journey for a very long time. I have been dressing more modestly for 2 years since graduating and becoming a teacher. I love my new look and love you being you❤️
I Will never get tired of Any fashion video from you! They Are Always so enjoyable!
Modest aesthetic. You're such a great role model. It took a long time to figure out that dressing modestly is the better option for myself my family. It truly makes me much happier when you're not constantly worrying about what others think about you or just trying to keep up with trends. Thanks for the outfit inspiration I definitely want to try finding a cargo skirt now 😋
I'm loving this modest aesthetic! Looks so good! I've found a few linen pieces at Walmart, Target and Kohl's. The linen is so much more breathable and flowy for summer time. I've always appreciated the modest stuff, I just never felt comfortable showing too much skin.
You’ve been my favorite UA-camr since before you started dressing modestly, but now I love you even more!!!! ❤
Modest aesthetic. Thank you Hayley. It’s so refreshing to watch someone who values modesty and fashion like I do. Not just for religious reasons but also just because that’s who you are, and the image you want to portray. Thanks for all the awesome videos girl. I appreciate you.
This is why I always go back to your channel because your style is so modest yet aesthetic. Also, I always feel that we are thrifting together. 🪷
Girl you are an inspiration..... thank you so much for being so inspiring and loving... sending love 💗
Really nice hearing you talk about your thoughts on dressing modestly and so on. 👍
The dresses and things are honestly so much cuter with a t-shirt underneath!! I love your style sooo much!
Always love watching your videos ! My style also changed after having my daughter and I think it’s a beautiful thing that your speaking up about why your style has changed. Definitely with the whole modest to hottest vibe ! 💛💛💛 sending love , shalom 💗💗
I’m so glad I found your channel. The way you broke down your reasoning was so good. ❤
Modest aesthetic 🛍
Hey Haley, your style just keeps getting better! All of those outfits were great, and looked so good on you.
You've really been inspiring me with the linen style, lately. I think it's time for me to do some thrifting 🤗
Love the honest chat at the end. I’m dressing more modestly lately partially for my faith (christian) and also because I’m now 31 and want to dress more like a grown woman than a teenager. Not stuffy and old but I’d like to add in some more class whilst still feeling modern and more me. I also finally accepted the fact that I’ve never liked showing my shoulders. I always thought it was because I’ve struggled a lot with backne and tried my best to not care but even nowadays when it’s less of an issue I feel uncomfortable showing shoulders. I’m happy to have embraced that I feel more comfortable covering the shoulders and this in combination with a higher neckline means I never have to adjust my tops anymore and I love that so much.
Modest esthetic! I’m 27 and I don’t want to turn heads with my body. I want to be seen for who I am not how I look. I have so much more to offer, I’m glad you are sharing these great tips.
Modest aesthetic! I enjoy your thrifting videos, and I love dressing modest also. Love these different style inspirations, you’re one of my favs!
Your message about modesty shows so much growth! Kudos to you for sharing. We have to remember that we are whole people with unique thoughts, feelings and experiences. We are not just our clothes and our bodies. Modesty allows other people to see you for who you are and not just the way you look. ❤
This has been like my favorite thrift video on youtube seriously!
Loved this!! You look genuinely happy with your modest aesthetic. Keep doing you🥰
Please keep making these videos! I stopped watching your videos for a while when the outfits were more revealing, and I’m loving that you’re more comfortable in yourself now.
I’ve been on a modesty journey too. Not that I always stick to it, but dressing for comfort rather than for “looks.”
These outfits are awesome!
I’m really trying to dress more modest, and I’m really excited to find your channel and see your modest aesthetic fits
Love this video so much and your content ❤ I’ve been here since the Toronto days before babies and love how you’ve adapted your content to mom life too 🫶🏼
MODEST AESTHETIC. I am glad I found you. It's hard to find modest fashion channels that are not Muslim fashion.
I have always dressed modestly. I was raised that way and that's what's normal for me. However, my modesty boundaries are constantly evolving. I my teenage years I used to try to push the boundaries of modesty as far as I could get away with trying to look less different than the other kids. But I remember vividly how I felt when I wore a pair very short shorts to a trip to the beach (because we were going with other kids). I felt so bad and uncomfortable, I felt like I didn't feel comfortable with people seeing that much of my body. I was miserable. I couldn't wait to be back home.
That day I decided I will wear what I feel good in even if I don't look cool to others.
I find that as I'm getting older my hard nos and boundaries are evolving. For example now I feel like my skirts have to at least reach my knees, no skinny jeans, no wearing leggings outside the house ect.
Modest Aesthetic! Thank you so much for this vid Haley! I love your explanation of journey. I too have always loved a more modest look on myself and have felt most comfortable most like myself dressing modestly so this is right up my alley 😊💖
I love this! As a mom, I relate to your new style so much more!
i just love that for you, im kinda going through the same modest jouney and you inspire me a lot, so thanks
I've just subscribed because of your modest styling/thrifting content! I love all your outfit combinations and inspos! More of these please!❤ Thank you~
I love that you’re talking about this! I have always dressed modestly and I don’t like how everyone dresses showing their entire stomach like even going out in what’s supposed to be a bra, I just don’t like it at all. I feel like the only reason why people are doing it is because it’s trendy and they want to show off their body. I want only my partner to be the one seeing me wear barely any clothes, and it makes me sad that people just walk around wearing a bra because then my partner or anyone’s partners is able to see that all the time instead of only seeing your partner like that.
I love this and feel that way too🫶🏼
NGL I was kinda of scared you were gonna go the “self respect” route and I got worried lol. What a refreshing perspective honestly, I’m someone who does show a lot skin when I dress and your view point has really resonated with me.
we all love you haley❤️❤️❤️
I’ve always preferred most modest clothing , even as a kid and believe it or not a lot of people , mainly family members have made fun of me . I’m so glad that more influencers are talking about this and sharing style inspo !!
Hi Hayley 💕 Thank you for sharing your modest style and thrift finds. I've followed your journey for a while and you inspire me. I have also been on a 'modest is hottest' journey but felt a bit insecure about owning my modesty; your sharing of your fashionable modesty journey online has really helped me become more comfortable with dressing more modestly and what I'm comfortable in. Thank you so much. Lots of love from one modest thrifter who loves linen to another 💕 big hugs from Australia xo #modestaesthetic
Obsessed! This is what I needed. I am in a style crisis and don't know how to dress anymore! Mom of 2 and I just don't know how to dress anymore. This is exactly what I needed!
Love thisssss❤❤❤❤ modest ascetic 😊 thank you for so much inspiration!
such good inspiration, thank you!!
love it!! need to go thrifting before school starts again 💕😁
Yes! It’s the perfect time to 😍
I’m going through a fashion shift in my life. Every decade it seems I shift a good percentage of my wardrobe. I’m 62 now. I’m in great shape and petite. But, I’m not feeling my wardrobe reflects me. I reassess my wardrobe every decade and I see that I can still be stylish and fun and creative, but age appropriate also. It’s good to see others go through this process. 🥰❤
Love this journey! ❤❤
The red dress with the top ❤️✨
Modest aesthestic, I love that you are true to you Haley and you always look stunning. I am pulling a page out of your book Haley, thank you so much for sharing ❤️
Loved this video! Modest aesthetic! Thank you for sharing, I personally choose to dress more modest because of my faith and to show others that you don’t have to show all of your skin to feel pretty, at least for me. I love my personal style and love yours! ❤
Best video yet❤
I just found this video and your channel bc I looked for modest fashion. I’m so glad I did.
You are more fit than me. Having two kids really has taken a toll on my body. I went from a 0 to a size 10. I do work out but it’s so hard not to compare even my strength back then (I used to weight lift a lot) to how weak my body is now. It get discouraging and causes me to have lulls in my workouts.
Once I came to Christ is when I started having a pull to dress more modestly. And man it’s so hard! Trying to dress more modest and in a body drastically different than you’re used to styling is difficult and overwhelming. It’s a lot of rediscovering my style.
All that to say that I’m so glad I found your channel for cute modest inspo ❤️
I love this so much haley. when I started dressing more modestly and how I was most comfortable, and how i felt honored God best, I found so much freedom!!
Im learning how to dress more modestly, and it’s not because of religion or a partner, it’s for myself there’s something about when u reach certain u want to be taken more seriously as an elegant sophisticated lady, and wearing modest clothes definitely helps you achieve that!
Modest Aesthetic alllllll dayyyyyy mama❤❤ such a timeless, effortless and gorgeous style ON ANY AND ALL of us 🎉😊
Ty for speaking out on thiS. P.s. u make the coolest fits and r so good at this. Modest looks r so cool and layering is super hard. I wish I could do it as good as u!! Modest aesthetic!!! So cool!
My favorite episode by far
Silent follower but pregnant with my second baby and I have always felt more comfortable with dressing modest. I liked watching your videos before you dressed modesty BUT I LOVE watching your videos now that you’re dressing modesty. I can relate more to your thrift finds and really get inspiration from them❤ Gosh just love you so much and you sharing your heart! oh & modest aesthetic 😊
Modest aesthetic love this!! 😍
Dang I respect you so much! Beautiful talk at the end of the video🤍
I think your reasoning for updating your style are so honorable and I think your girls are going to see that as a model for living as they get older ❤ I've always struggled with self esteem and being in the curvier side but I used to dress in super short dresses (that I'd have to hold down just to sit because it was going to show things lol) and hip-hugging things. After gaining confidence I realized I didn't have to try so hard to show off parts of my body and I fell in love with "fancy/cool professional" style! Basically it always looked like I was ready for the office but with some edginess lol. After having my daughter a year ago though, I went from the smallest size of my life, 6/8, to the largest size I've ever been, a 14. It's been so tough and disheartening but it's so helpful to watch your videos to remind myself that i don't have to try and look sexy or make it a goal to show off my body--I can find a style that fits my life and makes me happy as I settle into the new version of me and my life as a mom :) and loose clothes can be so cute!! So thank you for that ❤
Gabby you’re so beautiful inside and out!! 🫶🏼 you’re so kind and I’m so happy to hear your story I mean being able to even see and determine what is ok with you and what isn’t is SUCH a huge step. It makes my heart so happy that you’re in such a good place now with yourself 🥰❤️ keep thriving!!
I am a hijabi and i take outfit inspirations from you. I absolutely love how you dress ❤
I have lost a lot of weight, so I am having to learn how to dress differently now. I am a mom and I love your take on dressing and enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing.
Red looks so cute on you! As a Muslim Mama, I love seeing your modest thrift videos!
Thank you for being open with us. I am definitely a comfy, casual. but I want to be able to dress up and feel beautiful. How ever I have what I feel to be a weird body shape, I know I'm not alone, but I hold more in my belly area. I call it my mom pooch (thank you two babies) but I also have long arms, legs and I just see all these great outfits online that I love, but my body shape I feel just doesn't match. I am really trying to learn who I am and how I want to dress for me unapologetically. Thank you for sharing your fun thrift hauls. youd be a total blast to shop with in person. :)