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Joke Silva talks about watching her best friend and husband slowly slip away from her.
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Not to take away from the solemnity of the revelation but this interviewer..is professionalism to the max!
Thought the same about him when i watched his interview with Ada Umeh
Chude is a Class act, Young Nigerians come & learn true journalism
Can we just appreciate how beautiful Mama Joke is. Smiling even as she narrates all that she has had to endure. Sending strength and love her way and the way of anyone going through life’s travails.
This is how a woman who was properly loved talks. In my eyes they deserves a standing ovation for setting such a wonderful example of how marriage should be. Watching their marriage has been so satisfying. God strength you Ma. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I had PTSD watching Mr Olu at the award event it brought back painful memories, I had to quit my Job to come look after my dad who had dementia, my dad couldn't walk or get up from d bed my mum, my sis and i had to do everything for him from feeding to changing of his diapers, he had no one but us, imagine seeing someone who was so active becoming so helpless it was and still an emotional trauma to me. There were things we wished we could discuss with him but he was absent yet alive. I cried everyday i entered his room to do something for him till d day he died. Mr Olu needs all the love and care he can get,may God strengthen d family both emotionally and physically and also shoutout to families who are experiencing or have experienced this phase
It's not easy at all. Worked in respite care for clients with dementia and I truly applaud you and your entire family supporting your dad.
May you all be blessed and comforted!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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I pray the Lord heals your heart. But one thing I know is that the blessings for what you did will always leave you speechless. God will bless you and bless you and bless you. My parents have also passed away but I didn’t experience this with them and with my mom, I was terrified at a point that this might happen. I remember my panic when I spoke to her once and she sounded a bit incoherent. I almost stopped breathing. Couldn’t imagine for a second having her and not being able to have a conversation with her. May God bless and comfort and heal you. These experiences are damaging but we trust God for healing ❤️🩹
A man who was loyal to his wife when the going was good, would be taken care of by his wife when things change. Men, take note. You cannot expect to reap what you didn't sow.
Thank you ❤
REALITY👏🏾
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Thank you.
Fact well stated
I grew up through the years looking up to this couple. The bond they share is so strong that it hits you as pure each time you see them. As strong as Joke is you need not be told the pain she feels as her husband slips gradually. Even in her smile her body language, watch her legs etc. It got to me. Words could not carry the message. I pray for comfort for your husband and strength for you and the rest of the family, God bless you for all you been to generations of Nigerians and the world.
God bless mama Joke Sylvia. She’s got a radient smile🥰 we won’t neglect the fact that behind the smile there’s a shadow of sadness that at this level, anything can happen to her husband. I shed tears when I saw him at the awards... God keep him much longer for his beloved wife and family 🥺🥺
Amen
Amen
She’s a great wife! 👏 ♥️ She has stuck with her husband through it all. 🙌
When I saw him during that award ceremony I immediately knew he had dementia due to his marked confused state. Bless him! These are the cohort of people that I work with in my job daily and it is not an easy diagnosis but there is life even with and after dementia. It is a brave move on her and her family's part to bring awareness to this disease. 🥺
Absolutely..I have worked a greater part of my career with dementia patients and I totally relate and appreciate Joke Silva's struggles.Its a degenerative disease that needs lots of care,love and empathy from family to manage.
Me too! I'm a nursing student so I recognised the body language. He was clearly in a state of confusion.
Very correct. Same here working with them not easy at all
Even me I noticed it during the award ceremony
Are there chances d.ementia patients come out of it??
God bless her, you can see she's uncomfortable discussing her husband living with the disease. However, l applaud her for creating awareness of dementia in Nigeria because lots of families are going through this but have no idea that their parents or grandparents are suffering from it.
Old people have suffered dementia since year dot 🙄
It's called old age dementia/ senile dementia for a reason.
Nigerians are simply becoming aware of the name of the condition. The condition itself isn't new
This man is so so proffesional. I feel so comfortable even watching him
This woman has such a calming aura about her♥️ I can feel her energy and she’s just a sweet, compassionate soul🥺 God bless her abundantly. I see my mum in her. I’ve noticed in life the sweetest souls take the hardest hits but they always continue striding with such grace, class and optimism♥️
Honestly
Absolutely. God gives us strength. Pray 🙏.
Haven’t completely recovered loosing my mum through cancer and here is aunt joke smiling and carrying on like is all good .. ✊🏿 God will grant you peace and restore back all you’ve lost. Super woman
She might be crying silent tears in secret. May the Good Lord give her the strength for this yourney
Ur moms in a better place now smiling down praying for you. God bless her soul
She's looking radiant... My heart goes out to Mr Jacobs
Joke this brought tears to my eyes because I watched your husband as a child with my dad who was a huge fan of “Olu Jacobs”. My dad died more than 10 years ago from prostate cancer. I wish your husband and our acting godfather nothing but the best because he deserves every bit of it. Please stay strong.
This woman is outstanding, a virtuous woman. I wish your husband a speedy recovery.
Because her husband was a good man, treat your wife right and she will do good to you as well
There is no recovery from dementia,it a progressive degenerative condition
I just thank God he is surrounded by love. My mom died of same. It's really hard on the family.
Bro, there's no speedy recovery anything. Save a miracle, there's no coming back from this.
When she talked about wishing he was still there and not having to go through stuff on her own , ah that hit me. My mom cries all the time looking at my dad saying the same. May God strengthen these faithful wives and reward them beyond measure
My mom too🥺
God’s Strength for you and your family to go through this season. Love, light and Hugs from Here❤️🥰
@@letstalkwithdrmary2375 thank you
I can't imagine how that would be, she must be dealing with a lot and trying to stay strong. May God intervene.
Amen
I salute her! Going through loss is not easy. Big ups to the interviewer, he gave her the space to talk freely and openly.
Chude is always respectful in interviews and he is such a great listener. He is very professional.
A bundle of Proverbs 31.That is who mama Silva is, I have always looked up to her. God continue to bless you mama, Almighty God will see you and your family through Amen!🙏🏼❤️much love from 🇬🇭
You are a strong woman,may God keep you and strengthen you,may you enjoy the fruits of your labour in Jesus name
Amennnn
I understand what she is going through watched my dad struggled with Dementia till he died, it such an emotional experience. I pray God grant her and the family the strength to care for him.
The same thing happened to my father, I cried when he was unable to sign his own signature. It was very terrible. So I can perfectly relate. I ask for God's strength to Mama Joke!
Wow! I'm so sorry for your loss. Just know he's in a better place.
This woman has been an awesome wife. Aw!❤️
True..
You look beautiful though, where are you from originally?
Dear Mrs Jacobs, you are such an inspiration to many - a caring wife, loving mother and sister, a great actor.... I have always looked up to you and I pray that God willl continue to renew your strength 🙏
I love when she says she's grateful for the moments of clarity. Cherish each moment with your loved ones. We pray for grace and strength for Auntie Joke and the family in this trying time
She's such a transparent person.
She’s been through a lot. May God strengthen her
Sorry Joke. Very difficult to see your loved one suffering with dementia. May the Lord continue to bestow the strength you need to support your husband and maintaining self care as well ❤️🙏🏽
Be of courage dear. I understand you. It's like losing the person when he is still alive. Keep being the caring person you have been.
The fact that she's knowledgeable about the disease is awesome cause it means she's interested
We love you queen... And healing is possible for your husband in Jesus name 🙏🏼
Amen 🙏
God bless you Aunty Joke, never met you but you allude peace, grace and class 🙌
I was super teary throughout this video cos I can totally relate. My mum has been suffering from the same thing ever since she lost her husband back in 2019 and she was only 59. I will tell you this, takes a lot from you. Imagine someone you’ve shared a lot of moments with, very vibrant and agile slowly turning into a vegetable. May God strengthen you and the family.
Amen
I wish they can just do a compilation video of where Olu Jacobs have made us laugh❤️ I wish him quick recovery and peace to the Jacob’s family.
Chai this woman is beautiful 😍. I pray God give her the strength and all it takes to care for her lovely husband ❤ 💖 💕 🙏🙏
There's nothing God cannot do, I'm wishing him a very speedy recovery... Heavenly Father, please do only that which you can do. We trust in You. 🙏🏽
Amen
It's hard on her still she is thanking God 🙏. That's the spirit Ma. Keep it up. No one knows the pain better than you.
I saw him during the award and it broke my heart ❤️. I love him so much he reminds me of my dad his looks missed him in movies 😔❤. He is loved and surrounded by his family ❤❤❤
We thank Gid that she is bringing awareness to this disease that affects a lot if families n ut can be very hard to navigate it. To see a loved one slip away like that unable to remember current affairs God bless their family. They were a great team, very respectable to each other. I hope her story inspires another family going through it.
Yeah. A lot of families just sweep it under the carpet cos of the perceived shame it brings.
I work in a nursing home in the UK, I can understand what she's talking about. The more reason why we should appreciate everyday with loved ones.
She's a pretty lady,her makeup is👍🏾. Be strong.We're sending u our love
Great interview and the interviewer was very attentive and showed empathy. Mommy Jacobs we love you so much ma. May God continue to watch over you and your family
You are a woman of courage, you love with a passion. You are a rare gem. Your marriage is a fusion of two beautiful Souls. Uncle Olu Jacobs has been my favourite way back. The Lord is your strength through it all. Keep being strong. Much love sis.
Such a free-spirited woman! We love you, Auntie Joke.
I cried when I saw Uncle Olu , Aunty Joke I love you , we love you remain strong. The are my role model even though my heart bleeds.
Aunty Joke of life. I pray to be a blessed and godly woman like you 🙏🏾
I watched him receive the legendary award,this is exactly what hit my mind. It's a hard time for the family, I know but thanks for the love and care. I've worked with some patients and truly it's not easy
Aunty Joke and Uncle Jacobs are exemplary lights about building the base of your relationship on love. This interview has been most touching and heart wrenching. I stand with your family in love.
One of my favourite actress. I wept when i saw Mr. Jacob during the award. I was like, so this strong, lively and inspiring actor has been brought down by illness, it broke my heart..May God strengthen you mama... Much love from here.
I pray that God continue to give you the strength to continue this difficult journey. Dementia is a very serious disease that takes away the best of your loved one. May God be with you and the family. Mr Olu Jacobs is a Legend! And will always be one. My love and prayers are with you Aunty Joke.
Joke is a strong woman and good wife every man wish for. 💘😻💜💛 wish sir Olu Jacob quick recovery he is a great man I miss him alot on movies
As much as i share in your positive outlook towards olu jacobs' mental decline, Sadly still, we cant wish dementia away, in most cases it progressively worsens, and there is no cure for the ailment.
Amen 🙏
There's no recovery in dementia, it the management of the disease that matters
exactly! There is no cure. What we can pray for though, is a miracle.
I have always loved you and I call you my Daddy. I don't know you in person but I see a man of integrity in you.
God keep you, Heal you and Strengthen you Daddy.
Wow!! I salute her courage .. Its not easy. 🤗🙌
Honestly, it is for better for worse. God help us all
What a lovely lovely lady...God bless you and your husband. GODS GRACE is definitely here IJN
Mama!😍❤️I've always admired this woman but seeing her in this light... it's just amazing!🤯 The strength and joy, regardless of everything she's been through, most inspiring thing I've watched all year.🙇🏾♀️🥺
The Lord be with you ma'am. I saw my mum slip away gradually and it hit me horribly after her death! Be comforted ma
She is really strong. ❤
This woman has such timeless beauty. God bless her beautiful soul.
I understand why it has been hard for her to let it out about her husband's situation. I lost my mom after she battled with cancer and it was so difficult for me to open my mouth and say it to anyone.
God strengthen you and bless you ma for standing by your husband so.
Very strong, wise and loyal woman. God bless you for supporting your husband.
Strong woman! Keep on keeping on! You have really shown us that 'Marriage is for better for worse in our part of the world!' More grace to hold on! We admire your courage!
I just loooooooovvvvveee this woman!
You are a very strong woman and l so much admire your courage
Such a short interview but profound. I can't stop listening to her. May God heal your husband and give you and the family more strength. You are beautiful inside and out and it shows always in your smile.
Mrs Joke Silvia is such a beautiful woman ❤May God keep blessing you Ma
Such a beautiful, graceful woman...Gods blessings to you!
Joke Silva is so strong! Still smiling! Gosh!! Your strength is something else ma!
What a beautiful and brave woman is not easy to care for someone with dementia Olu Jacob is my best actor . May GOD Strengthen your family during this difficult time . We love you
Wow this is what we call beautiful Mama you are beautiful indeed💚💚💚💚💚
I have never met Olu or his wife but there this love I just have for them. My the Lord be with them and carry them through this challenging moment in their lives. We love and appreciate you for sharing your talent with us. God bless you.
Lovely family. Daddy Olu Jacob is unbeatable and may the good Lord resuscitate him in Jesus name. Amen.
The way the man do cry in his movie, it reminds me of my own Dad.
Lord please help and heal him and give his wife Joy again please Lord
my dad is currently suffering from the same disease. I pray we all find strength in God
I saw her few years back in South Africa when she came for movie preview.... Such a gracious woman. Her demina it is the same on screen and off screen.
What do you mean?
@@theblessingag1668 I am not understanding your question
@@nkhen_c357 Godforbid she doesn’t have demise her husband does did you watch this
@@busybee8418 her husband have dementia
@@nkhen_c357 I think she meant demeanor
I noticed Pa Olu Jacobs had dementia during award ceremony. I work in health and social care sector so I know what aunty Joke is going through. The Lord is you strength ma, you are a vituos woman and i wish our great actor (Pa Olu Jacobs) quick recovery 🙏. E ku itoju won ma 💖
This is truly a time when “FOR BETTER FOR WORSE” stands the test of time. God bless you Mrs Joke. More grace and strength as we the younger couples learn from your life stories and boost our faith in this marriage ministry.
It's a horrible experience for both the person and family. My prayers to all who are going through it.
Emotional!!! GOD BLESS U MAMA ❣️ I WISH OUR LEGEND A QUICK RECOVERY 🙏😘
This interview is so emotional. May God grand her courage to take care of him.
Such a beautiful and graceful woman. I really hope and pray that God continues to strengthen their family throughout everything. I also pray that they continue living life together as long as they so desire no matter what ❤
I just love this Woman!!!!❤️❤️❤️
May God give you all strength through this time. Your husband has graced many of us on screens.
Love and prayers to you ❤️
I so much respect you two for the love you share. Be strong, dear.
I pray for continued strength for Joke fantastic actress a darling of a woman and Mr. Jacobs wonderful wonderful actor upright gentleman this just brought tears to my eyes so so sorry to hear this just lay it all at the feet of GOD
She’s gorgeous!!! Keep the faith mama🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
We wish him a quick recovery. Our legend
My first time seeing her talking. She's very beautiful.
I feel like giving her a big hug ..
You are a rock , continue to be strong
Mama Joke Silver is so beautiful.... Our prayers are with you and the entire family ma.
May God walk through this with him and you all. Aunty Joke is a beautiful soul. Met her in person omce at a conference and she had no airs at all about her.
This is the kind of woman every man should pray to have,beautiful, compose,outstanding, a pillar to her man.
Any illness is bad but dementia is heart breaking
It is indeed very heart breaking
Be strong, keep fighting, you are graced. May God's healing power touch your better half.
This is love ❤️ in action 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
More grace JOKE SILVA 🙏🏾
Grateful for the moment of clarity.... #Gratitude. I love this family and pray that God strengthen her and the children. Much love
This type are rare. God bless this family.
Joke has gone through a lot and still looks radiant! Meanwhile, Chude, what kind of slippers is that 😂😂
Sending love. Dementia is horrible as I’m a social care worker. ❤️
Was in a noisy environment couldn’t even hear what they were saying but I just like it because damm i love this woman Joke🥰♥️
Love and Light. The God who made the universe and holds it in existence, bless you and give you the grace and wisdom to navigate this situation. Mrs Joke Silver, our prayers are always with you and yours......
We thank God for strength. Mr presenter what kind of slippers is that?
😂😂😂you to notice him that is how he always wear palm slippers as host that is poor of his dress.