dude, this woman has the balls to literally say "THIS WAS THE BEST SEX IN MY LIFE, THIS MAN IS GREAT" while most women won't even say "you are nice" to a dude nowadays. This woman is perfect. God bless you and bring you only good things.
I think she is wanting attention. Nothing wrong about that but at the same time nothing special. Its what women always want: attention. They are addicted to it.
keep in mind this is just 2 opinions out of 8 billion. Also, most importantly Women are not the prize, if you treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan. Focus on your purpose fellas, women come and go.
Also even when you are together don't stop flirting. Every now and then flirt with your partner chase and be chased. Act like y'all are still interested. Renew that spark ya know. I flirt with my girl every now and then. Ask her out on dates in cute ways ways. When that happens it's like our relationship renews. Just go with the flow. Sometimes plan and don't plan for stuff. Don't take anything for granted.
The biggest turn off for women is when you ask for permission all the time. Just be the man you are and also be unapologetic for being the man you are and stand by your word.
Eh, theres a thin line between being a man "and going for what you want" and being Pervy.. Its tought to judge whether a girl is ok with advances or not. Men will be afraid to be agressive for this reason. Especially in todays society
@@nonenone2669 the one who decides it’s Pervy or not is the women based on her approval of the attractiveness of the man. The did studies through tinder of 10/10 looking men still getting swipes and dates from women even though the men had on their profile that they were convicted sex offender and indecent liberties with a minor. Hypergamy and sexual selection is pretty dark in some women. Of course it was a fake tinder account but a lot of women didn’t seem to care
@@unpopularopinion149 I dont think that's how its always going to work in real life for most of us average guys. "Hypergamy and sexual selextion is dark in some women" Yeah, but did this "study" say if that was the majority or just a small percentage of psycho women who didnt care about these actions of these men. And yes, its pervy based on how much a women is attracted to you, whether thats physically ir emitionally attracted.. But again, its difficult to know whether you have the green light or not. You can risk being a perv to her if you reas the signals wrong and you act a bit too aggressive. Unless she gives you some ridiculously obvious signal or she tells you to touch/kiss/fuck her. Then "go for what you want". Other than that, its a risky game that some men are not willing to play.
Women expect men to always take the lead and be driven, ambitious and a decision maker, but the reality is that men have slumps in their life too. Sometimes, we don't know how to escape it or what to do next and we end up wasting time, lying around all day. During times like this, we may be distant, less concerned with minor matters such as what to eat, where to go on a date and more. We end up asking about everything and even doubt ourselves a lot. So, yea, men won't always be top shape mentally, physically or emotionally.
One of the factors that make him so good is that he gives a damn. The other person’s pleasure is of utmost importance to him. Selfishness in or outside the bedroom is a real passion killer. He‘s a good guy basically. Contrary to what some people seem to think, a really good guy is not a whimp but is someone who makes good use of his masculinity so that it gets expressed positively in the world and not negatively.
I worked for years as a bouncer in strip and night clubs, and many girls were attracted to me and asked me out. I was a good looking guy but I believe the main reasons for that attraction may have been I was calm, polite and didn't pay much attention to them, like a man who would never enter one of those clubs as a client. Which was true, btw, apart from the fact that my lack of interest was a mask. I was just shy.
I don't go to strip clubs much anymore but when I used to go I'd just want to sit at the bar and have a few beers and enjoy the sights. I never wanted to sit at the stage with money in my hand. Girls would come up to the bar and talk and sometimes we'd just have normal conversations for a while. I would treat them like I do my friends as long as they were cool.
Dude same! I found myself in the same situation while working at my local casino. Some of the women at the bar I worked found me attractive as well as some of the cocktail waitresses! And for the most part I didn't give a sh** and just showed up to work to do my job and then left to go home and paid literally no attention to those women. Now keep in mind a lot of these women came from Twin Peaks and other places like that so they were pretty women, so they weren't some drugged up homeless type lol.
@@BeardoSpeaksYT It's a numbers game, if you just keep pushing at talking to women eventually you will graduate as wanted man. always be respectful and playful.
What he says makes a lot of sense, you just have to take the initiative and test things out and see the reaction if it's good or bad and go with the good ones. This was like a great interview tbh
I definitely can relate to what Dave said about wishing he had been more open minded in dating when he was young. I could have dated a lot of cute girls, but was always holding out for my crush.
I really respect that fact that David said there are times where you are going to make mistakes in finding out what your partner likes or doesn't like. But you have have to try or you wont ever know.
So many men don't know how to seduce and escalate, or they're scared to, and I understand why given the sexual climate we live in. But this stuff isn't easy and takes a lot of knowledge, skill, and practice that takes time to even come close to mastering. A major problem is that being a skilled escalator can largely rely on the ability to "read" people, which is something many people can't do. If you're neuroatypical or simply not good at picking up subtle hints, reading people is impossible.
In men it's mostly high testosterone and libido that leads almost automatically to the behaviour that women like in men. No amount of practice and experience can make that up. Unfortunately, today we have a crisis in low testosterone in men. And that's the reason why so many men are having trouble when it comes to dating women.
There's a feminine element to sexual dominance and that is being in touch with yourself, I cant tell a woman what I want without feeling what I want, and your feelings give you access to your own social and emotional intelligence.
@@mynonleatherlife Prepare for my woo woo, fear of women's disapproval is partly about your relationship with your "dark mother" or "bad mother" within, aka unresolved mommy issues on a deep psychological and spiritual level.
How she started blushing when he went in for the kiss even though she's been with him for a while says everything. Bro is good with women. Masculine energy comes through.
@@josefinandersson7646thank you. That’s why I have a problem with videos like these purporting to speak for all women. I have learned the hard way that not all women are the same…what one likes isn’t a canon for all women. Never had a problem with approaching women till I started watching these advice videos. Yes they are helpful but they are dangerous in making you into a “beggar”. Best thing I have learned so far is to not give a fk - live life and learn as you go. Rome was not a built in a day and Patience does make one perfect
OMG this video is fantastic. It's great honest information and it is one GIANT s*** test haha! Victoria looks like she is having an absolute blast watching him work through and respond to the questions. You both did a fantastic job.
HIS PERSPECTIVE WAS REALLY INSIGHTFUL, INFORMATIVE, AND REFRESHING TO HEAR! I've defintiely met guys like this before in my life who don't need to be cold and treat a woman like crap in order to be a dominant, powerful, sexy leader. You can treat a woman like a prize but also take charge and action, show her that you want to be all over her, as long as your reading her reactions and responding to what she is or isn't into respectfully. These guys I have felt not only safe with but insanely turned on by, which is an amazing feeling to have with a partner. I love this advice!!!! It really resonates with me and I never hear anything like it anywhere, thank you for sharing!!!
I love your videos. so raw, honest and authentic. probably better than all online coaches because of how vulnerable you allow youself to be, thats very attractive aswell. dude was great too. keep it up much love
This is a bit funny but i fucking love it, because it shows how willing you are to help men on here to actually contact this guy and have him talk on here. You are doing good work, we thank you
@@mynonleatherlife Oh I missed this question. Body language, he has deep self acceptance, ego resilience, clear boundaries and frame control. He has the micro behaviors down that lead to the external surface stuff that women pick up on.
A big take away for me was.....Be bold, try things if they fail they fail (Not the end of the world). Learn from trying things & move on. I think women generally will appreciate your boldness & let you know if you're too far off the mark & move toward you if you're going fine.... Thank you both for this video & your honesty. Cheers
As a horse guy, go watch how a mustang stallion gets his mares in the wild and how they create their herd. Sometimes the mare will even test the stallion to see if he's really strong enough to take her from the other mustangs. The mares get turned on just watching two mustangs fighting each other for the mare "girl" it's amazing to see because they are REAL and there's no bull crap. It's pure nature. Even if a mare picked a mustang earlier as their man, once that mustang fights another mustang and if he loses, the mare will automatically follow the winner because she's more comfortable with him and knows he can protect her. In our eyes as humans we'll say "why did she choose him... He seems like a jerk" but the truth is she knows he'll protect their herd & nothing is getting in without his say so.
I just wanna say, I think you two are amazing! It takes a special kind of strength to be this open together for the whole world to see. Truly inspiring! Keep it up Victoria! And David, its lovely to see you on the channel (hopefully not for the last time)! Sharing personal experiences and wisdom through online platforms like this requires courage and the result is something very psychedelic which I believe the world needs more of this in these difficult times. Thank you for leading the charge and I wish you both the best for the future! Sending my love from across the pond, UK x
Oh, good old youtube algorithm I guess! One of your other vids was suggested so I gave it a looky and I've been bingeing ever since! Just a beautiful channel Victoria. Very inspirational! Maybe when I'm a little more secure in myself, I'll try and do the same but until then, please just keep doing what your doing! I personally value it alot! :) x
He isn't completely nervous. Even though we all would be in confessing our sexual prowess to the internet. He is hesitant to speak.(sign of intelligence) Not hesitant to dominate. He is an introverted alpha. From my perspective atleast .
Yeah but he’s a “pro” right? He kind of steps on his own credibility and tips of advice by stuttering, lack of eye contact...more preparation would have been cool
So genuine and sincere. You're both such a breath of fresh air. Victoria, you asked some great questions. Your videos, with your uniquely charming character and your honest perspective, has helped to clear up a lot of confusion in my approach to interacting with others. I realized several years ago now, that I fall somewhere within the autism spectrum, and for whatever reason, your way of explaining concepts and sociosexual chemistry and emotional psychology and your way of examining relatively underappreciated or underrecognized factors with your cause-and-effect approach is downright groundbreaking, at least from my perspective. Also, I would say that you're quite cute and endearing on the surface but you are extremely charismatic, to the point of habit-forming, on a much deeper level. And that's why I'd take you to a Pelvis Wrestley concert if the mutually agreeable opportunity ever were to present itself. In the meantime, thanks for helping me better understand what goes on outside of my own brain...
As much as I want a mistake free plan the more I realize that you just need to make them. I like what he's saying about just being willing to try things and follow instincts rather than following steps. Even how describes his experiences it's like he's super humble. I want to hear more about his stories. You two are magic
It's funny how I used to fit in everything you can do wrong as a young man looking at my past self. Yet more grown and mature I fit into everything you can do right as a man. Great of your boyfriend to help us out. Much Love to you both.
Good job on the surprise Q & A, perfectly unscripted but accurate answers. There are some fundamentals that all men need, but only few understand. Confidence without Arrogance, Intent without Expectation, Acceptance without Judgement and Assertion without Aggression.. these are just a few..
@321atm The Bible? For sex and relationship advice? You're completely missing the point; plus who cares where the hair is. My pubes are dreadlocked. Very impressive.
@@jbbolts my point is if he said he looks like Jesus or Muhammed it doesn't matter. How is that playing with your creator or blasphemy? He didn't say anything offensive.
Yes...yes it was, we didn’t have the luxury of getting good advice from UA-cam but there were plenty of macho type men around and we kind of was in awe of them when I was a Lad
It's not that Men were Beta they just didn't know about this stuff for the most part . But too many women's egos have blown up especially the plain janes and fat girls because of social media and dating apps . Because betas and weak men will slept with anything
From what I can tell. As far as the modern 'western' world goes. A lot of the info in your video series is pure gold. Very few people are willing to be so candid about the dynamics which many consider to be very real and likely are for most people based on human evolutionary biology.
It's true when you are relaxed around women, those women may be attracted to you. Most likely you relax because you're not attracted to them. Now when a hot chick that comes in now you get nervous and she's not attracted to you. Story of My Life.
Man that was hilarious. She really put David on the spot. He seemed like a nice fellow, not wanting to "toot his own horn" so to speak. It would be great to hear what was said after the camera stopped rolling. On the other hand, maybe nothing was said and they simply had a post production party and eventually David got to reinforce his skills.
Don’t know where it comes from but I really like this guy’s vibe 👍🏻👍🏻 Great energy. Inspiring to me. Victoria, keep up the good work as well. Very authentic content!
I love that you talked about what actually works because most videos are about what doesn't work.... which in my opinion isnt as helpful.... a video like this lets me understand more of what you want Also i love how free you are in expressing what turns you on in a man very cool
You’re very right everyone has advice until it comes down to telling you exactly what to do step by step lol... which is where the $ is. I have been thinking about this myself...if I really want to help people I have to demonstrate with my bf. It was hard to convince him to do it but now he has agreed somewhat to do it. I say somewhat cause he says he will do a coaching call with me where he will demonstrate whatever guys want to know and I will give my perspective as well and maybe some on the channel as well. And thanks a lot for the compliment
@@mynonleatherlife idk if you have a video on it already but "sub-communication" as things that men say without saying them that women notice and men are oblivious to
I see... I have to shave my head, grow a beard like a Hassidic Amish, wear a shirt from TJ Maxx, grow out my eyebrows and practice the baritone register. I'm on it.
I know, there is girl who works at my Country Store, like a 7-11 and when we are near each other for even a few seconds, you can feel the chemistry. She even told me she can feel when I coming in, before I get anywhere near her workplace, wow, the problem is, I am really old, but in good shape, however there probably is no way we could get together, have a date, or hook up, but there truly is a physical attraction, like the poster said!
to all the dudes who needs some clarification on how to achieve confidence around these things & how to develop these instincts. most of it comes from trying to empathize, testing that isn't just random but has some thought behind it & from tracking your progress from previous experiences (not saying it'll be identical, but it'll give you more confidence knowing you've solved a similar problem in the past). You can think of it like learning Math, the more you do the better your intrinsic understanding of it will be.
When I started my first "real job" at 18yrs old, a 28 yr old lady's man at that place told me "you're gonna turn down more pu$$y between now and the age of 25 than you're gonna get offered to you the rest of your life." That sunk in coming from him...so I didn't pass up any opportunities, and I'm glad I didn't. The more opportunities you take, the more you get, it snowballs. David is 100% correct on this, enjoy ALL potential opportunities that are presented to you. Especially you guys younger than 25, lol!
Super interesting video. Couple things I noticed: 1. She's very attracted to him and shy on camera. Very cute dynamic 2. He's being put on the spot with every question and is taking his time to think about everything 3. He's taking his time probably because he knows what he's going to say is truer than not, but the ability and tendency of people to twist the truth to make him seem like a bad person/predator/misogynist is at an all time high. 4. I like the level of respect he's showing her. He's not interested in showing off. He's interested in her and the topic of the video and his ego isn't coming in the way of that. Really nice. Wish you guys all the success.
Lol her eyes at 7:15 +or- when he says you have to work your way up slow. She caught a mental image or fond memory and id bet her temp went up a degree or two in that split second lol
Go into a relationship with the intend to give, if she is only a taker and doesn't reciprocate then it's not meant to be and will be a toxic relationship if it continues.
I'm seasoned at this point of my living experience and this guy is A-1 on point with his advice. Great questions as well! Just subbed. Quality conversation
Like your wife says when you tell her you want to do something that's very powerful. I think saying I want to kiss you is a lot different then asking for permission. Poor guy being put on the spot, i love it. I usually don't comment on anything, But I think you're making the world betterby the communication
general rule with wemen: "2 steps foreward, 1 step back" anticipation is a aphrodisiac, make her want more.by taking the pleasure away then up it, and take it away again. Also important is that she has to had the thought /fantasy of arousal intimacy in her mind first, before she would do something (the brain is humans sexual ornament, thats why our species developed music, art, phoesie, or even communication and so on)
@3:20 ish the way he answered that question is everything. Confident enough to not brag is so slept on. It's the energy of the millionaire who dresses modestly and doesn't flaunt his wealth.
wow...very true...hope mayb u can show us the demo of raw masculinity emotion that u talk about..by the way very honest thing i ever see here...thanks..
That’s what I was thinking too, I could have him demonstrate the things that are most effective and hard to do. Thanks so much for watching and commenting
@@eonstar2441 absolutely like maybe it would cause one to try to be inauthentic? It has to be natural and coming from your own instinct for sure, but sometimes seeing how others do it can inspire u to greater heights and depths of your own and to go deeper into your own way of doing it
really enjoyed listening to you both, hearing your insights felt that it came from a traveller's point of view where you reflect on the past and have brought with you the lessons that have been taken from them, cheers!
I love how u said that Reuben "a traveller's point of view"! Cheers! I'm sure u must have some good tips yourself...anything u have learned on this topic in ur travels thru life?
@@mynonleatherlife the video basically tells most of the tips I already have in mind, my personal tip would be to try ballroom dancing. it gave me a lot of insight on how to handle and carry myself as the guy in the "dance".
it is really beautiful when two people cut out all the games and share with eacg other from their hearts ''be real with each, be there fore each other because you both are very precious you both have a awesome he3art//having the desire and will to help other that are hurtingmthat is a gift in both of your hearts (:
i was extremely comfortable in strip clubs and dated many many strippers. My friends were amazed because when I was at the strip club I acted completely differently than at any club, bar, or party I went too. They all said in the strip club the beauties were all around me because of my strong confidence and my respect for what they did, I wasn't capt'-Save-a-Hoe. I tried taking this confidence out into the public and just couldn't get the same reaction from girls, but i do remember when i was drunk I would talk provocatively to the ladies and would have company that night.
You're guy is a cool dude. I was impressed by his thought out responses. It was refreshing not to hear the standard "Let them come to you..you are the prize" stuff. Women obviously value confidence and intelligence
I like that you don't do what a lot of advice givers do - just repeat standard lines very glibly. The genuine hesitancy is more truthful. Pat answers seem less real, just spoken from tapes.
Damn good tip to begin though. Lots of guys skip over good woman because of looks. They go for pretty girl not knowing any girl can have that look with makeup and the right clothes. They miss out on substance. Especially if you are looking for a wife.
I haven't watched this video yet. In many ways I felt I was naturally successful with meeting and maintaining friendships that were open and playful. As I got older I wasn't as aware of how women generally looked at and treated life. I heard you talk about the Vortex. I achieved a high level of physical health in the last few years and I resonate with what you mean when you say Vortex. While most or all youtubers who give relationship and/or hook up advice mean well you went so direct with the first two videos of yours I came across gave me the best life lense. I get where I got it wrong and why and I have a greater faith in my ability to attract a Vortexual relationship knowing my weaknesses don't negate my strengths and that I am as attractive as I decide to be.
omg that's amazing that u were able to identify where u went wrong and why from my videos and I absolutely love the term vortexual relationship. hahahahahahahah pure gold so good. I am very glad u found the vids helpful! Which were the first two videos u came across of mine
I watched this video last night. Something came to me this morning and I thought I would share it. This guy is there in the moment, with the moment. He is present with the moment, fully attentive and responding to it. He is this way even with these questions as they are read out. If he is this way with women and in the bedroom, no wonder they like it. Just being quietly present and entirely in this moment.
Biggest mistake I make is how oblivious I am to the women who are attracted to me. I work in retail so I'm meeting women all day and my coworkers always tell me women are flirting with me all the time. It's just never something I'm thinking about at the time; I'm just doing my thing. Living my life. I would like to be more aware. I used to think I was good at picking up on signals but apparently not lol.
I am the same, I dont see the signals, I am just focused on what I am doing, sometimes I get a surprise, a woman walking by will look at me and smile. I always am polite and smile back and say hello. I dont chase after them, Im married.
dude, this woman has the balls to literally say "THIS WAS THE BEST SEX IN MY LIFE, THIS MAN IS GREAT" while most women won't even say "you are nice" to a dude nowadays. This woman is perfect. God bless you and bring you only good things.
thats indirect talk for "I want you to propose now" lol
Maybe she’s partial and is blowing this guy’s ego up rather than he’s actually that good.
I think she is wanting attention. Nothing wrong about that but at the same time nothing special. Its what women always want: attention. They are addicted to it.
I don't mean to be that guy but if they're not telling you this at least 3/5 u sleep with then Idk 😭
@@mynonleatherlife yes ignore the mean comments. I couldn’t agree more most women nowadays NEVER compliment.
“Do you accept doing this interview with me?”
No
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lol!!
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I....that would be fucking hilarious..
Lmao. Actually that could be a good prank on us or to be used as a promo for the next video lol
Credits roll and "Scatman's World" starts playing
keep in mind this is just 2 opinions out of 8 billion. Also, most importantly Women are not the prize, if you treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan. Focus on your purpose fellas, women come and go.
Wisdom👍 A trait of MGTOW's And Nofapstronauts.
Absolutely
Real talk
Words from a wise man.
"Treat her like a celebrity and she will treat you like a fan". I love that!!!!!
Got a testosterone boost from watching this. Gonna wrestle a bear now.
🤣🤣🤣 (bear laughs in claws n teeth )
Okay Khabib. 😂
@@jaybro7530 😆
@@jaybro7530 that was funny
Bbw?
Also even when you are together don't stop flirting. Every now and then flirt with your partner chase and be chased. Act like y'all are still interested. Renew that spark ya know. I flirt with my girl every now and then. Ask her out on dates in cute ways ways. When that happens it's like our relationship renews. Just go with the flow. Sometimes plan and don't plan for stuff. Don't take anything for granted.
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@Venusaur how is that cringe
I love that.
So awesome.
Always keep the fire burning.
Great advice
The biggest turn off for women is when you ask for permission all the time. Just be the man you are and also be unapologetic for being the man you are and stand by your word.
Eh, theres a thin line between being a man "and going for what you want" and being Pervy..
Its tought to judge whether a girl is ok with advances or not.
Men will be afraid to be agressive for this reason.
Especially in todays society
@@nonenone2669 the one who decides it’s Pervy or not is the women based on her approval of the attractiveness of the man.
The did studies through tinder of 10/10 looking men still getting swipes and dates from women even though the men had on their profile that they were convicted sex offender and indecent liberties with a minor.
Hypergamy and sexual selection is pretty dark in some women. Of course it was a fake tinder account but a lot of women didn’t seem to care
@@unpopularopinion149 I dont think that's how its always going to work in real life for most of us average guys.
"Hypergamy and sexual selextion is dark in some women"
Yeah, but did this "study" say if that was the majority or just a small percentage of psycho women who didnt care about these actions of these men.
And yes, its pervy based on how much a women is attracted to you, whether thats physically ir emitionally attracted..
But again, its difficult to know whether you have the green light or not.
You can risk being a perv to her if you reas the signals wrong and you act a bit too aggressive.
Unless she gives you some ridiculously obvious signal or she tells you to touch/kiss/fuck her. Then "go for what you want".
Other than that, its a risky game that some men are not willing to play.
Women expect men to always take the lead and be driven, ambitious and a decision maker, but the reality is that men have slumps in their life too. Sometimes, we don't know how to escape it or what to do next and we end up wasting time, lying around all day. During times like this, we may be distant, less concerned with minor matters such as what to eat, where to go on a date and more. We end up asking about everything and even doubt ourselves a lot. So, yea, men won't always be top shape mentally, physically or emotionally.
@@unpopularopinion149 id rather just ask a girl cuz im not tryna risk going to jail
“I know what I want and I go for it”
LIKE A MAN😤🔥🔥🔥🔥
K don´t get caught 😁
One of the factors that make him so good is that he gives a damn. The other person’s pleasure is of utmost importance to him. Selfishness in or outside the bedroom is a real passion killer. He‘s a good guy basically. Contrary to what some people seem to think, a really good guy is not a whimp but is someone who makes good use of his masculinity so that it gets expressed positively in the world and not negatively.
Well said. 👍
Well said!
That’s always my thing I’d rather please the woman cause it makes me happy and it won’t take me long to release lol
I worked for years as a bouncer in strip and night clubs, and many girls were attracted to me and asked me out. I was a good looking guy but I believe the main reasons for that attraction may have been I was calm, polite and didn't pay much attention to them, like a man who would never enter one of those clubs as a client. Which was true, btw, apart from the fact that my lack of interest was a mask. I was just shy.
OK Dalton.
Tips Saved!
I don't go to strip clubs much anymore but when I used to go I'd just want to sit at the bar and have a few beers and enjoy the sights. I never wanted to sit at the stage with money in my hand. Girls would come up to the bar and talk and sometimes we'd just have normal conversations for a while. I would treat them like I do my friends as long as they were cool.
Dude same! I found myself in the same situation while working at my local casino. Some of the women at the bar I worked found me attractive as well as some of the cocktail waitresses! And for the most part I didn't give a sh** and just showed up to work to do my job and then left to go home and paid literally no attention to those women. Now keep in mind a lot of these women came from Twin Peaks and other places like that so they were pretty women, so they weren't some drugged up homeless type lol.
Well Played … Now that’s called Game .. You make your weakness look attractive..
YESSS MEN, take notes --> "Be bold, try things, push the action, be confident, be a leader, act rather than ask without hurting anyone"
@@BeardoSpeaksYT It's a numbers game, if you just keep pushing at talking to women eventually you will graduate as wanted man. always be respectful and playful.
No thank you....
@@Audikontroller1 Yep. Like the saying goes, if you get rejected by 9 got women but go home with the 10th, that 10th is all that matters.
What I think you should add was huge:
READ her reactions.
@@Audikontroller1 yeah, wanted by the law. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What he says makes a lot of sense, you just have to take the initiative and test things out and see the reaction if it's good or bad and go with the good ones. This was like a great interview tbh
awesome, thank you. so glad u enjoyed it
@@mynonleatherlife Yes I did enjoy it of course its new to me and yall are like two wise sages spreading knowledge and we are the students so yeah
Glad you liked it! If I get a few more subscribers I'll make some videos from the male point of view to go along with Victoria's videos.
I definitely can relate to what Dave said about wishing he had been more open minded in dating when he was young. I could have dated a lot of cute girls, but was always holding out for my crush.
Really I had to do the opposite and stop sleeping with anything with a pulse
Well, it can also mean just dating @@Duck72432
I really respect that fact that David said there are times where you are going to make mistakes in finding out what your partner likes or doesn't like. But you have have to try or you wont ever know.
So many men don't know how to seduce and escalate, or they're scared to, and I understand why given the sexual climate we live in. But this stuff isn't easy and takes a lot of knowledge, skill, and practice that takes time to even come close to mastering. A major problem is that being a skilled escalator can largely rely on the ability to "read" people, which is something many people can't do. If you're neuroatypical or simply not good at picking up subtle hints, reading people is impossible.
Well said, although I think impossible is a bit strong but yea that is a major problem
In men it's mostly high testosterone and libido that leads almost automatically to the behaviour that women like in men. No amount of practice and experience can make that up. Unfortunately, today we have a crisis in low testosterone in men. And that's the reason why so many men are having trouble when it comes to dating women.
@@sebk174 if that were true bodybuilders would have dated the most beautiful females in the world
“ the talk your father should have given you” very very valuable advice. Thank you guys
I’m speechless, ur comment was so special, thank u.
But in reality how many people want to talk with their biological father about sex, its would just be a horrible awkward experience lol
I don’t want to fucking hear that from my dad, I don’t want to know what he does with mom wtf
Daddy issues much?
@@Walterrinho you guys really need to grow up lol
There's a feminine element to sexual dominance and that is being in touch with yourself, I cant tell a woman what I want without feeling what I want, and your feelings give you access to your own social and emotional intelligence.
That last part, I can go all out like that in a relationship, I would hold back if it was casual to protect my own heart and hers also potentially.
That makes so much sense, great point
This man has been through hell and survived. Thats the vibe I get, and that's difficult to teach. You gotta go through your own trials.
@@mynonleatherlife
Prepare for my woo woo, fear of women's disapproval is partly about your relationship with your "dark mother" or "bad mother" within, aka unresolved mommy issues on a deep psychological and spiritual level.
@@Gtjsn Like a ying to your yang situation?
It MEANS A LOT TO SEE YOU BOTH HELPING PEOPLE WITH BROKEN HEARTS ! GREAT JOB!!
How she started blushing when he went in for the kiss even though she's been with him for a while says everything. Bro is good with women. Masculine energy comes through.
he is good with THAT woman.
Im a woman and i dont find him or his personality attractive.
@@josefinandersson7646ok Josefina
@@josefinandersson7646 yea, sure Jose, u're a woman
@@josefinandersson7646thank you. That’s why I have a problem with videos like these purporting to speak for all women. I have learned the hard way that not all women are the same…what one likes isn’t a canon for all women. Never had a problem with approaching women till I started watching these advice videos. Yes they are helpful but they are dangerous in making you into a “beggar”. Best thing I have learned so far is to not give a fk - live life and learn as you go. Rome was not a built in a day and Patience does make one perfect
That said, this is a good channel for men as at least, we get to know a little more about the woman psyche in a very honest way
OMG this video is fantastic.
It's great honest information and it is one GIANT s*** test haha! Victoria looks like she is having an absolute blast watching him work through and respond to the questions. You both did a fantastic job.
Thank you The Bedroom Intellectual! 🤣I was having a lot of fun and ur right it kinda was a shit test!
Didn't even realize this was also a congruence test until you pointed that out! @MyNonLeatherLife went straight for the jugular at 5:30 lmao. Thanks
HIS PERSPECTIVE WAS REALLY INSIGHTFUL, INFORMATIVE, AND REFRESHING TO HEAR! I've defintiely met guys like this before in my life who don't need to be cold and treat a woman like crap in order to be a dominant, powerful, sexy leader. You can treat a woman like a prize but also take charge and action, show her that you want to be all over her, as long as your reading her reactions and responding to what she is or isn't into respectfully.
These guys I have felt not only safe with but insanely turned on by, which is an amazing feeling to have with a partner. I love this advice!!!! It really resonates with me and I never hear anything like it anywhere, thank you for sharing!!!
This man is humble, experienced, honest and informative. Great video.
Thanks, Sydney!
I love your videos. so raw, honest and authentic. probably better than all online coaches because of how vulnerable you allow youself to be, thats very attractive aswell. dude was great too. keep it up much love
Super nice of you to say that, thanks a lot
This is a bit funny but i fucking love it, because it shows how willing you are to help men on here to actually contact this guy and have him talk on here. You are doing good work, we thank you
I know why women like him after 3 seconds. Salute.
What gave u that impression out of curiosity
@@mynonleatherlife
Oh I missed this question. Body language, he has deep self acceptance, ego resilience, clear boundaries and frame control. He has the micro behaviors down that lead to the external surface stuff that women pick up on.
@@philosophyjunkies6693fascinating observation, nice. Good pointers there on self acceptance, ego resilience. You’re a pro, haha
@@mynonleatherlife-It the savage, untamed beard.
@@philosophyjunkies6693 He is a born $tud. That's why he is so good.
A big take away for me was.....Be bold, try things if they fail they fail (Not the end of the world). Learn from trying things & move on. I think women generally will appreciate your boldness & let you know if you're too far off the mark & move toward you if you're going fine.... Thank you both for this video & your honesty. Cheers
As a horse guy, go watch how a mustang stallion gets his mares in the wild and how they create their herd. Sometimes the mare will even test the stallion to see if he's really strong enough to take her from the other mustangs. The mares get turned on just watching two mustangs fighting each other for the mare "girl" it's amazing to see because they are REAL and there's no bull crap. It's pure nature. Even if a mare picked a mustang earlier as their man, once that mustang fights another mustang and if he loses, the mare will automatically follow the winner because she's more comfortable with him and knows he can protect her. In our eyes as humans we'll say "why did she choose him... He seems like a jerk" but the truth is she knows he'll protect their herd & nothing is getting in without his say so.
I just wanna say, I think you two are amazing! It takes a special kind of strength to be this open together for the whole world to see. Truly inspiring! Keep it up Victoria! And David, its lovely to see you on the channel (hopefully not for the last time)! Sharing personal experiences and wisdom through online platforms like this requires courage and the result is something very psychedelic which I believe the world needs more of this in these difficult times. Thank you for leading the charge and I wish you both the best for the future! Sending my love from across the pond, UK x
Thanks so much Daniel for ur wonderful comment, I appreciate your kind words. How did u find my channel?
Oh, good old youtube algorithm I guess! One of your other vids was suggested so I gave it a looky and I've been bingeing ever since! Just a beautiful channel Victoria. Very inspirational! Maybe when I'm a little more secure in myself, I'll try and do the same but until then, please just keep doing what your doing! I personally value it alot! :) x
I hope u do make a channel! U never know who it could reach. And thanks so much
The way you lit up when he went in for the kiss was cute, hope you two are still doing well! Great video! 😀
Man, he seems nervous. Like he’s been held hostage during this
You would be intimidated too, talking about your sex life in front of 29,000 people
He isn't completely nervous. Even though we all would be in confessing our sexual prowess to the internet. He is hesitant to speak.(sign of intelligence) Not hesitant to dominate. He is an introverted alpha. From my perspective atleast .
He is apprehensive, but he stepped up and managed very well.
Thats because he is. One word out of step and she is dust. Men dont need videos like this.
Yeah but he’s a “pro” right? He kind of steps on his own credibility and tips of advice by stuttering, lack of eye contact...more preparation would have been cool
His hair is upside down , that could be his secret to all.
So genuine and sincere. You're both such a breath of fresh air. Victoria, you asked some great questions. Your videos, with your uniquely charming character and your honest perspective, has helped to clear up a lot of confusion in my approach to interacting with others. I realized several years ago now, that I fall somewhere within the autism spectrum, and for whatever reason, your way of explaining concepts and sociosexual chemistry and emotional psychology and your way of examining relatively underappreciated or underrecognized factors with your cause-and-effect approach is downright groundbreaking, at least from my perspective. Also, I would say that you're quite cute and endearing on the surface but you are extremely charismatic, to the point of habit-forming, on a much deeper level. And that's why I'd take you to a Pelvis Wrestley concert if the mutually agreeable opportunity ever were to present itself. In the meantime, thanks for helping me better understand what goes on outside of my own brain...
Lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Omg I needed that lol thank you so much. That’s so great to hear.
As much as I want a mistake free plan the more I realize that you just need to make them. I like what he's saying about just being willing to try things and follow instincts rather than following steps. Even how describes his experiences it's like he's super humble. I want to hear more about his stories. You two are magic
You two are perfect for each other!! Love the chemistry between you both!❤❤
Looks like you got a keeper there Girl ......I admire your honesty thanks for the Post !!
Short guide: Be intelligent, have low neuroticism/be free from anxiety, be dominant, be confident, but also humble and thoughtful.
This was very educational. David, thank you taking the time to answer these questions and for being open and honest in answering them.
she brought the bag to the boys
haha thanks! did u get any good tips?
What does that meeean???
This is SUPER helpful . Thank you guys ! This is the base and the essence of dating/telatiohship dynamic. What a smart dude !
It's funny how I used to fit in everything you can do wrong as a young man looking at my past self. Yet more grown and mature I fit into everything you can do right as a man. Great of your boyfriend to help us out. Much Love to you both.
Good job on the surprise Q & A, perfectly unscripted but accurate answers. There are some fundamentals that all men need, but only few understand. Confidence without Arrogance, Intent without Expectation, Acceptance without Judgement and Assertion without Aggression.. these are just a few..
This channel is a goldmine
All the power David has lies within his beard.
@321atm I thought it lay in his neckbeard only
😂❤️
Never shave his alpha beard.
@321atm The Bible? For sex and relationship advice? You're completely missing the point; plus who cares where the hair is. My pubes are dreadlocked. Very impressive.
Thanks for being honest and real with us. I feel the realness!!
Thanks Dan :)
Victoria, you have hit gold with David, he's a really good guy. Make sure you both take good care of each other.
Thanks a lot Rob :))
His Beard Mastery course is amazing I look like Jesus now.
lmao
Repent bro Jesus ain’t a nintendo don’t play with your creator like that.
@@riontecooper3537 how is he playing with his creator
@@babyfood9537 only muhamed is off limits
@@jbbolts my point is if he said he looks like Jesus or Muhammed it doesn't matter. How is that playing with your creator or blasphemy? He didn't say anything offensive.
Imagine being beta before the internet must of been of hard😂😂😂
Yes...yes it was, we didn’t have the luxury of getting good advice from UA-cam but there were plenty of macho type men around and we kind of was in awe of them when I was a Lad
I dont think so... Mass Media and the Internet brainwashed men and women to this point and age.
@@albertomassari77 exactly.
Men became beta after the internet arrived.
Naw...beta and alpha have been around for a long time
It's not that Men were Beta they just didn't know about this stuff for the most part . But too many women's egos have blown up especially the plain janes and fat girls because of social media and dating apps . Because betas and weak men will slept with anything
From what I can tell. As far as the modern 'western' world goes. A lot of the info in your video series is pure gold. Very few people are willing to be so candid about the dynamics which many consider to be very real and likely are for most people based on human evolutionary biology.
It's true when you are relaxed around women, those women may be attracted to you. Most likely you relax because you're not attracted to them. Now when a hot chick that comes in now you get nervous and she's not attracted to you. Story of My Life.
Man that was hilarious. She really put David on the spot. He seemed like a nice fellow, not wanting to "toot his own horn" so to speak. It would be great to hear what was said after the camera stopped rolling. On the other hand, maybe nothing was said and they simply had a post production party and eventually David got to reinforce his skills.
„I was a stripper „ that’s pretty cool to disclose ,l admire her forthrightness .
Your bf is very well-spoken and has a good way of explaining his ideas.
she looks so in love with him
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Don’t know where it comes from but I really like this guy’s vibe 👍🏻👍🏻 Great energy. Inspiring to me. Victoria, keep up the good work as well. Very authentic content!
Thank you Richard!!
The most wholesome self-improvement video i've seen
I know morse code and his eye blinking is screaming "send help i'm being held prisoner in the basement," haha just kidding, i love strippers too :)
haha good one, strippers4ever
😂😂😂😂😂
I love that you talked about what actually works because most videos are about what doesn't work.... which in my opinion isnt as helpful.... a video like this lets me understand more of what you want
Also i love how free you are in expressing what turns you on in a man very cool
You’re very right everyone has advice until it comes down to telling you exactly what to do step by step lol... which is where the $ is. I have been thinking about this myself...if I really want to help people I have to demonstrate with my bf. It was hard to convince him to do it but now he has agreed somewhat to do it. I say somewhat cause he says he will do a coaching call with me where he will demonstrate whatever guys want to know and I will give my perspective as well and maybe some on the channel as well. And thanks a lot for the compliment
Do you have any other things u might like to see talked about let me know cause I would love to hear your input
But just in general I have to get much more specific and give more examples or admit more clearly I don’t know how to specifically do this.
@@mynonleatherlife idk if you have a video on it already but "sub-communication" as things that men say without saying them that women notice and men are oblivious to
@@Martin12000 brilliant idea. Very great video idea. I have a lot of ideas on that.
look at him standing there like "yeah i know what i did" LOL
lol
The biggest mistake is not growing a beard like that
Exactly women love signs of masculinity
It's a horrific mess
Looks like a rabbi
I appreciated his humility and honesty. Well done without the cocky bullshit you see with some men.
she is such a blessing to the world
ur videos so honest & real
it's almost surreal in a fake world like that of 2day
Wow that’s such a cool compliment, thank u so much
The biggest mistake guys make when it comes to dating is when they don't grow a monstrous beard, so I heard
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I never had a beard like this before, but I keep it because Victoria likes it! I like it too.
Holy shit this girl has balls. Fucking respect, most women wouldn't dare make this video.
I see... I have to shave my head, grow a beard like a Hassidic Amish, wear a shirt from TJ Maxx, grow out my eyebrows and practice the baritone register. I'm on it.
lols
Worked for me
Lmao his responses were very honest and hilarious, love this guy! 👏🏼
Thanks, Chris!
Dont forget physical attraction.
Rules 1 and 2.
Thats Obvious
I know, there is girl who works at my Country Store, like a 7-11 and when we are near each other for even a few seconds, you can feel the chemistry. She even told me she can feel when I coming in, before I get anywhere near her workplace, wow, the problem is, I am really old, but in good shape, however there probably is no way we could get together, have a date, or hook up, but there truly is a physical attraction, like the poster said!
Vicky, in all yout videos, you Definetly are transparent and get down to the real issues and advice. Much value here!
to all the dudes who needs some clarification on how to achieve confidence around these things & how to develop these instincts. most of it comes from trying to empathize, testing that isn't just random but has some thought behind it & from tracking your progress from previous experiences (not saying it'll be identical, but it'll give you more confidence knowing you've solved a similar problem in the past). You can think of it like learning Math, the more you do the better your intrinsic understanding of it will be.
this guy looks so proud
Love your energy . Your both coming across as centred grounded people . I respect what he said about taking opportunities, your a gem 💎
Thank you LilMcC I greatly appreciate that and glad u liked that part about taking opportunities...I agree that is huge
When I started my first "real job" at 18yrs old, a 28 yr old lady's man at that place told me "you're gonna turn down more pu$$y between now and the age of 25 than you're gonna get offered to you the rest of your life." That sunk in coming from him...so I didn't pass up any opportunities, and I'm glad I didn't. The more opportunities you take, the more you get, it snowballs.
David is 100% correct on this, enjoy ALL potential opportunities that are presented to you. Especially you guys younger than 25, lol!
His beard is luxurious
The man, the myth, the legend... David...
@9:45 so true. And the advice about escalating during the date makes it so much easier at the end of the date.
Example on what that looks like
From a guy who teaches this stuff to people, it’s easy to see that he knows exactly what he’s doing
Super interesting video. Couple things I noticed:
1. She's very attracted to him and shy on camera. Very cute dynamic
2. He's being put on the spot with every question and is taking his time to think about everything
3. He's taking his time probably because he knows what he's going to say is truer than not, but the ability and tendency of people to twist the truth to make him seem like a bad person/predator/misogynist is at an all time high.
4. I like the level of respect he's showing her. He's not interested in showing off. He's interested in her and the topic of the video and his ego isn't coming in the way of that.
Really nice. Wish you guys all the success.
Lol her eyes at 7:15 +or- when he says you have to work your way up slow. She caught a mental image or fond memory and id bet her temp went up a degree or two in that split second lol
Thank-you for this very open dialogue on the key aspects one needs to be aware of and be in action on… authentically! BRAVO! 🤩👀😎💕
Go into a relationship with the intend to give, if she is only a taker and doesn't reciprocate then it's not meant to be and will be a toxic relationship if it continues.
I'm seasoned at this point of my living experience and this guy is A-1 on point with his advice. Great questions as well! Just subbed. Quality conversation
His first reaction was hilarious, he said it as if: “where do I even begin”
Like your wife says when you tell her you want to do something that's very powerful.
I think saying I want to kiss you is a lot different then asking for permission.
Poor guy being put on the spot, i love it.
I usually don't comment on anything, But I think you're making the world betterby the communication
general rule with wemen: "2 steps foreward, 1 step back" anticipation is a aphrodisiac, make her want more.by taking the pleasure away then up it, and take it away again.
Also important is that she has to had the thought /fantasy of arousal intimacy in her mind first, before she would do something (the brain is humans sexual ornament, thats why our species developed music, art, phoesie, or even communication and so on)
May our CREATOR Blesses your sincere words and works
@3:20 ish the way he answered that question is everything. Confident enough to not brag is so slept on. It's the energy of the millionaire who dresses modestly and doesn't flaunt his wealth.
Great advice honest and open. Love that he didn’t even know the questions- boom!
wow...very true...hope mayb u can show us the demo of raw masculinity emotion that u talk about..by the way very honest thing i ever see here...thanks..
That’s what I was thinking too, I could have him demonstrate the things that are most effective and hard to do. Thanks so much for watching and commenting
@@mynonleatherlife i think that’s something everyone should be experience on their on its a natural thing
@@eonstar2441 absolutely like maybe it would cause one to try to be inauthentic? It has to be natural and coming from your own instinct for sure, but sometimes seeing how others do it can inspire u to greater heights and depths of your own and to go deeper into your own way of doing it
some really great advices from the guy
really enjoyed listening to you both, hearing your insights felt that it came from a traveller's point of view where you reflect on the past and have brought with you the lessons that have been taken from them, cheers!
I love how u said that Reuben "a traveller's point of view"! Cheers! I'm sure u must have some good tips yourself...anything u have learned on this topic in ur travels thru life?
@@mynonleatherlife the video basically tells most of the tips I already have in mind, my personal tip would be to try ballroom dancing. it gave me a lot of insight on how to handle and carry myself as the guy in the "dance".
it is really beautiful when two people cut out all the games and share with eacg other from their hearts ''be real with each, be there fore each other because you both are very precious
you both have a awesome he3art//having the desire and will to help other that are hurtingmthat is a gift in both of your hearts (:
I sure would like to see another episode of your interviewing your man, Victoria. Thanks for considering this. Best to you two!
What kinds of questions this time? In your opinion, Song...
Your candour is frankly refreshing. Good for you guys
Give him 3 shots of Jamieson first next time. Love your content!!!
Hahah thanks Justin!
i was extremely comfortable in strip clubs and dated many many strippers. My friends were amazed because when I was at the strip club I acted completely differently than at any club, bar, or party I went too. They all said in the strip club the beauties were all around me because of my strong confidence and my respect for what they did, I wasn't capt'-Save-a-Hoe. I tried taking this confidence out into the public and just couldn't get the same reaction from girls, but i do remember when i was drunk I would talk provocatively to the ladies and would have company that night.
Definitely mannerisms help a ton. Incredibly easy to be smooth/calm when drunk but when sober it gets harder but gotta have the same mentality
Def relatable ! Musician here and dancers are also performers & I think we saw performance as part of the job.
You're guy is a cool dude. I was impressed by his thought out responses. It was refreshing not to hear the standard "Let them come to you..you are the prize" stuff. Women obviously value confidence and intelligence
Yea I’ve been hearing this you are the prize stuff a lot in the comments and have been kinda taken aback this is the prevailing wisdom...
I like that you don't do what a lot of advice givers do - just repeat standard lines very glibly. The genuine hesitancy is more truthful. Pat answers seem less real, just spoken from tapes.
thanks vive Viveka
Damn good tip to begin though. Lots of guys skip over good woman because of looks. They go for pretty girl not knowing any girl can have that look with makeup and the right clothes. They miss out on substance. Especially if you are looking for a wife.
I haven't watched this video yet. In many ways I felt I was naturally successful with meeting and maintaining friendships that were open and playful. As I got older I wasn't as aware of how women generally looked at and treated life. I heard you talk about the Vortex. I achieved a high level of physical health in the last few years and I resonate with what you mean when you say Vortex. While most or all youtubers who give relationship and/or hook up advice mean well you went so direct with the first two videos of yours I came across gave me the best life lense. I get where I got it wrong and why and I have a greater faith in my ability to attract a Vortexual relationship knowing my weaknesses don't negate my strengths and that I am as attractive as I decide to be.
omg that's amazing that u were able to identify where u went wrong and why from my videos and I absolutely love the term vortexual relationship. hahahahahahahah pure gold so good. I am very glad u found the vids helpful! Which were the first two videos u came across of mine
Its down to chemistry and energy.
I watched this video last night. Something came to me this morning and I thought I would share it.
This guy is there in the moment, with the moment. He is present with the moment, fully attentive and responding to it. He is this way even with these questions as they are read out.
If he is this way with women and in the bedroom, no wonder they like it.
Just being quietly present and entirely in this moment.
Biggest mistake I make is how oblivious I am to the women who are attracted to me. I work in retail so I'm meeting women all day and my coworkers always tell me women are flirting with me all the time. It's just never something I'm thinking about at the time; I'm just doing my thing. Living my life. I would like to be more aware. I used to think I was good at picking up on signals but apparently not lol.
You're literally my carbon copy.
You have low self esteem
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That's normal. Your mind is not focused on dating while working. Go on a nice vacation like a cruise ship and see if you still have the same problem.
I am the same, I dont see the signals, I am just focused on what I am doing, sometimes I get a surprise, a woman walking by will look at me and smile. I always am polite and smile back and say hello. I dont chase after them, Im married.