This is a lot of complex info crammed into one little minute. Very impressive, Jim. Happy New Year, and thank you for all you do. (I have learned a lot from you!)
Yes, there was an incident, a sexual act without consent. Trauma bond start forming… bc there was no apology, blaming only and baby was only 3 weeks old. Baby’s sister was 3 years old. Just left my country to be with the father of my children. Hardly any English… had nobody but him and his family ( he is one of seven siblings) for support, not really. Trauma bond reinforced by their attitude toward me, the lucky one, to their “perfect” son. Ouch. Thank you 🙏 Jim❤
This is confusing. This definition of a "trauma bond" sounds similar to actually healthy relationship aspects of rupture and repair. That's a natural part of relationships. I doubt there's any relationship that never has periods of tension or apologies/reconciliation, then periods of no tension. Reconciliation is difficult. Obviously there would be excuses for bad behavior, in most people, most of the time. That's probably going to be the default knee-jerk reaction for most people. This does not sound like a proper definition of a trauma bond.
They went too far and they have to convince you that you need them to accept you. It's their flip on you.
This is a lot of complex info crammed into one little minute. Very impressive, Jim.
Happy New Year, and thank you for all you do. (I have learned a lot from you!)
So true! Thank you, Dr. Brillon. Your videos are helping me understand so much!
Yes, there was an incident, a sexual act without consent. Trauma bond start forming… bc there was no apology, blaming only and baby was only 3 weeks old. Baby’s sister was 3 years old. Just left my country to be with the father of my children. Hardly any English… had nobody but him and his family ( he is one of seven siblings) for support, not really. Trauma bond reinforced by their attitude toward me, the lucky one, to their “perfect” son. Ouch. Thank you 🙏 Jim❤
This is confusing. This definition of a "trauma bond" sounds similar to actually healthy relationship aspects of rupture and repair. That's a natural part of relationships. I doubt there's any relationship that never has periods of tension or apologies/reconciliation, then periods of no tension.
Reconciliation is difficult. Obviously there would be excuses for bad behavior, in most people, most of the time. That's probably going to be the default knee-jerk reaction for most people.
This does not sound like a proper definition of a trauma bond.