The fake tears of Johan were hilarious. Acts like he's crying then says don't worry about it then continues to tell her how much money she has to give all these people 😂
Why on earth did she quickly marry that guy from Egypt before finding out about his customs and traditions and religion?? She is so screwed. It's ridiculous.
Because he wanted jigy jigy and it is not allowed in moslem country without being married. She is not screwed - divorce is as easy in their countries as marriage. U just go out and say 3 times i divorce u
She's so pretty and could have married a nice, handsome man who is from the same culture as her. She just married an ugly man and is going to be beaten and controlled. She has no clue how restrictive and sexist the culture she married into is. I really hope she doesn't have kids with him, especially a daughter!
The way Sam asked Ali to tell her to get off the phone in a nicer way but then shouts "don't play with your food you're not a child!". Wow what a way to demasculinise a man. The utter disrespect. Who does this woman think she is?
Yea its a hard choice for Nui, because if you look at them they are not out off each others leak and Tony has money for a better live for her and her family on the other hand he brings the military attitude home and Nui knows that having kids is alot off work. Nui is pretty, she could find somebody else and be more free
@@bambinaforever1402 doesn’t make it right that she is so aggressive and angry towards him😅. She is not being held against her will. They don’t live in the same country she can leave him if she really wanted to she is not a victim. Being scammed and used by someone when they don’t want you and it’s obvious doesn’t make you innocent it makes you stupid. Make yourself available to be used and there will be a line around the block of men and women ready to take it all from you
@@bambinaforever1402 so if she knows she's being scammed why doesn't she walk away then? Also, no she doesn't know that even though we do because he made it obvious. You don't be horrible to people and have a bad attitude like she has and then expect that someone will want to be in a relationship with you. You're condoning her behaviour but there's no justification for it.
@@mariancounsellorShe's paying for it and she knows it. She knows a guy like him will never go for someone like her and she's milking it and enjoying getting to act like the top dog in the relationship. She probably never had a good looking guy beg for her attention or treat her well... And here he is putting on an Oscar worthy performance all for her.
I have my suspicions about him too. On a more obvious level you can see that he wants her to be his ideal girl - but she’ll never know from moment to moment what his ideal girl would do. When she gets it wrong, his rage is barely concealed. He is scary, you’re right - and she’s definitely already starting off scared of him. I pray she doesn’t let her kids anywhere near that man.
do he have a wife in the house , he said it him self , when a dude say trust me trust me you know something is up ! i agree with you she need to run before she can´t , he will trap her use her mental abuse is real with that nasty lair dude !
It's so infuriating to hear Tony put on that broken English (+ broken English accent) to speak to Nui. It's patronising and infantilising. She deserves better than someone who uses the equivalent of baby talk to communicate with her.
He's not doing it to be patronising he's doing it to communicate, when talking to the majority of thais you cannot speak like you would in the uk otherwise they just don't understand what you are saying. You have to be very clear on concise with your pronunciation and unfortunately that can sometimes come across as if it's baby talk.
@@scottgriffiths5859 That may be understandable from a touristy perspective, or for third parties he encounters in Thailand. But when it comes to the person he wants to raise children with, that doesn't seem sustainable. When would he switch to 'normal' talk, if ever? 🤷♂
@@user-mr4yt6hm1h once they learn each others dialects, it takes time. I've had relationships with thais that have taken a long time before you can speak to each other 'freely' and it's understood both ways. However sometimes you still have to do it, my gf after 3 years living together still sometimes has to tell me to speak slowly because she doesn't get what I'm saying and I have to revert to the 'baby talk' that your referring to. We call it Thaiglish, he's known her a very short time, if he immediately starts talking to her like he does with his friends etc she will hardly understand a word he says.
Yes she does. A big old woman like that expecting to use her son as a sex machine.....nope she has to pay. She can't get a good looking 21 year old English man for free and she knows it. It's a transactional relationship. There's no real love
Someone who injects fillers in their face is vain, a trait of grandiose narcissist. Someone who withholds truth (living situation) and hides information (wanting baby) whilst building a new relationship, and then expects trust, at the same time gaslights their partner to minimise their partner's genuine concerns, are all manipulative traits of a machiavellian narcissist. Someone who claims that they want to do something nice - by cooking - for their partner, but doesn't even ask or takes their partner's taste/likes into consideration and does whatever suits them; Snaps and scolds their partner not to touch or do things; Negs and berates their partner for expressing dislike or critic (banger&mash) and angrily belittles and gaslights - "its a rich gravy", "you are fussy eater", "you are so negative" - to shift their insecurities and incompetence/inabilities. These are all passive agressive behaviours of a self-centered and insecure bully and a toxic controller - traits of those with narcissist personality disorder. Someone who first gives gifts/financial support to their partners, then remind them of their generosity, do so - to guilt trip and shut down their partner and to hold upper-hand and avoid accountability, a common manipulative tactic of a controlling narcissist. Someone who wants to be heard and respected, whilst refusing to listen and respect their partners wishes/concerns, shows god complex and lack of empathy, both big traits of narcissist personality disorder. These experiences, individually can be less harmless, but collectively they can create confusion and helplessness/hopelessness (something Nui expressed). Long term impact of a Narcissistic Abuse can be ambiguous and insidious and erase an independent happy-go-lucky person to become subservient depressed souls.
Oh he definitely has narcissistic personality disorder - he is passive aggressive and controlling. He wants it his way or you disrespecting him. All that withholding information about living situation and wanting baby until getting her emotionally invested and getting her to the UK. Paying for her flight and financial supporting her with few hundred pounds and repeatedly reminding her so she feels guilty and indebted to him and do as told. All so very manipulative. Definitely a narc. She needs to find work and focus on her kids and live a control free life.
@acubenschild no. He does not have NPD. At least no evidence of that in this video. He only shows some common sideeffects of ex-army military contractors/personell whom served in hotzones. He has some grades sudeffects from typical symptoms like: Overly-d8scipline, overly-OCDish, overly-need for order, etc. And overly-sensitive to all things around them. (Because that could be the differenve between life and death). These things does not make a person NPD. So far he has NOT showed any real grades of narcissisism that qualifies him as a NPD. And every human on thos planet will have some grades of narcissism. But a REAL NPD is a whole different level. Thete are real parameters that has to qualify for to be labeled as a NPD. He does not, from what we can see so far! Have these clear personality traits. People need to stop throwing the word narcissism left and rigjt at anything. It extremly devalues how SERIOUS and DESTRUCTIVE how REAL narcissism actually is. Victims who have suffered from REAL NPD, there is NOTHING to properly describe how EXTREMLY a NPD inflict trauma in your life. So STOP washing out the word on nonsense people like him. He may be useless or whatever, but so far no evidences that indicate NPD.
Ali is absolutely hilarious…and to be fair he has the patience of a saint putting up with that pain in the arse woman. Tony is very aggressive…what wrong with him?
Charlotte is literally a cash cow, how can you have a successful relationship if she’s the one paying for everything, her Mother and friend are right about this situation, he’s only seeing what she can give to his family and not what he can do for her.
At 34 I genuinely believe she’s thinking with her ovaries. I think when we’re naturally broody, some of us can make the craziest decisions at that age and older and just be in a kind of hormonal fog. I actually feel sorry for both of them - the pressure both of them are under is obviously going to be way too much and Johann is much too young for her in terms of general maturity, but she’s looking at him with heart eyes. At 36 or so the fever Charlotte is in now does start to de-escalate a bit, but I think people can underestimate just how clouded your judgement can be when you’re at the age she is with no kids yet (if a family is all you want.)
@@MamaRebelle I totally agree, some of the comments have been very unkind towards Charlotte but I do think she undervalues herself and is both beautiful and genuine. Johann is just much too young to really understand what he’s getting (aside from the possibility of a better life.) Expecting her to pay for 80 guests at their wedding when she can only afford to have 2 of her family members there was definitely a red flag for me 💔
She wants to have a baby, she has no options in England, so she is doing as best as she can. I m rooting for her. I hope he will make her a baby. Also helping poor people is always good. So bless her heart.
People say that Charlotte is stupid. But they who say so will never can appreciate her good heart. She is a treasure, no ego at all. The scene on the beach where she gives him a watch and he is only a taker - this is traumatizing.
Tony will not be the same with Nui's kids if anything he comes across like he would lose his temper and hit them. She should leave quietly on the pretense of everything is ok and then never come back.
Exactly. Inwould never let him even close to any children. His or others. If he wanted children should have found a younger chick in Thailand. There re plenty.
Sam is obviously unhappy with herself, maybe because of her weight issues. And seems to need a LOT of attention. This relationship is a way of " buying " tnat attention.
Think so too cos besides everything Ali seem to be someone to have fun with even if its not a relationship. He seems to be fun to be around. Sam insecurities r too much even if he is try to used her.
Yeh same...it feels like one would have to tip toe around his feelings so he doesn't get offended about the smallest thing. He also has no sense of humour..
He is an ex-army. Soldiers involved in warfar are very detailoriented. Lack of details, duscipline, structure can quickly become the difference between life and death. Such hightened instincts and personality traits will not just mahically dissapear in a day or even a year. It was nevesary to survive. He is not a narcissist. He need to LEARN how to loosen up and deescelate tensions. (Not so uptight/stiff).
@@paulruano1903 who said he was a narcissist? If he has some kind of PTSD from being in the army, he needs to get therapy. I understand everything you have said about him but it still doesn't excuse his behaviour. Once one is an adult they need to behave like an adult and treat others the way they would want to be treated. He comes across like a passive aggressive bully, there is no coincidence involved with him picking an Asian woman for a partner. Majority of Asian women are raised to look after the partner,the children and home. Majority have a calm beautiful peaceful nature. This guy chose to get involved with an Asian woman would partly be..if not all the reason, because he can bully her around without any problems. Hopefully, Nui will kick his ass to the curb the moment those red flags start flying.
Oh my gosh nui please leave him...... Look how quickly he snaps when he doesn't get his own way, and so early on. My ex husband was like this in the beginning and went on to hit me, almost killed me. You deserve so much better. I'm actually concerned for her safety
Don't be ridiculous, she is self indulgent and will get health problems. She is with this guy just because she likes to feel needed, hence helping the family. Just needs to be needed, without reality
He cant expect her to have a baby at 41 the chance of miscarriage is very very high, not only mentally damaging but physical too, he should of got a younger woman if he wanted babies
Why doesnt Taher marry an Egyptian woman,like i dont see the pount in dragging someone into something ...like huh? Nicole just leave you dont understand anything and you're going to be miserable,i dont understand why she also didnt research and ask people first
Precisely and he shows that he doesn't want to leave his country but there's something more to him He will eventually try to convert her so why didn't he just marry his own type from his homeland to make things easier for him?
Nui has a better life in Thailand. She lives in paradise and has a beautiful house and even if she wants a foreign man, she can find a saner one somewhere else. That guy is a danger to her and her children. He's massively insecure and so maladapted. I think he's stuck with that fantasy of a subservient Asian woman from old war movies who doesn't talk and just pleases her husband. She's stuck on finding a white saviour who will build her a castle and she will be a queen. Clearly this is delusional on both their parts and she needs to leave ASAP for her own safety. That guy has a rotten sister too... She's so rude and comes across as very aggressive. Nui would not fit into this high testerone low class family.
Ali should just be given his visa simply because of all the BS that he’s putting up with from grumpy knickers Sam ☺️☺️ Thanks heaps for the quality upload love from 🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺
I don’t think so, he’s targeted her because she’s a big girl and she has low confidence. She genuinely is looking for love and is having to fork out because she doesn’t believe anyone will love her otherwise. I hope she finds true love
@@shanaz3 Some people can be into big girls. Her attitude is a major issue. Even the most gorgeous girl would put anyone off if they behaved like her. She can be insufferable and its not down to being big.
Johan sees Charlotte as the money cow, his family see her as that too. They are not even trying to pretend to be humble, they just ask for more and more. Johan excuse to help his family is ridiculous; " they've been looking after me, I need to look after them" ermm your mother was a teenager herself and it was her responsibility as a mother to raise your and take care of you, he is 21 and working so I assume as soon as he turned old enough to work, thats what he did, started working. Surely can support the family, but don't milk the woman you apparently want to create a family of your own.
If life is so hard why has Johan’s mother got another child where is his father every time I see these guys from the Dominican they are scammers including their families 🤦♀️
But Charlotte could walk away but she wants to be involved with someone much younger. The reality is that young men in some countries intentionally date older women purely for money, a chance to move abroad, or to have a better life. They can only get access to money from someone if that person gives them access. You're right that he probably just sees her as a cash cow.
Sam and Charlotte are completely delusional 🙄 their men even say they want the visa before any mention of them. Tony is a hot-head narcissist and should've mentioned waaay earlier that he wanted kids of his own. Seems that Nicole had no idea about his strict culture prior to marriage and she's just meeting his family members now??It's sad how disastrous these relationships appear.
Not really. Some women do. Its something they should have discussed if one of them truly felt strongly about it. Some guys are OK with raising someone else's kids, some want one of their own. Either way, its a deal breaker and if you have a kid when you don't want to...thats a lifetime of resentment ahead of you that you will need to either get over or keep in check.
@@mariechristinebetts7335Ali is playing Sam like a fiddle, just want the Visa to England asap. He's not sincere when he tells her "I love you" to him it doesn't mean anything it's all an act.
@@Danko31 he deserves a visa after dealing with her. There are a ton of single lads in England why has no one asked her out. Their relationship is transactional he wants visa and she wants a boyfriend its all a play and the visa a ticket to the theater. As if life in England is so amazing its always raining, london is expensive, entry jobs pay shite, and everyone is glum class mobility is none existent because of our capitalist government not forcing big corp to pay out. Highly doubt little Ali the bartender is causing the societal havoc by acting as a "boyfriend" for a better future.
42:07 he is scary. Also, him speaking in broken English doesn't help her to speak better. It's condescending and it's seems he thinks he's paid for a .baby maker
Nicole, run a fast and as far as you can. There's no convincing him. The worst you can do is to drag children into this situation. First, they would be brought up Muslim and if you oppose, he will take them away from you to Egypt.
She would trust Tony more if he let her see everything. Not going back to his home is a big red flag. He should have told her about his living situation before she booked her ticket. Where does Tony normally live when back in the UK????? Charlotte, she's a good woman. Caring. ❤
Ali using her for visa. its in his eyes, voice, words, body language, he's trying to seem jealous so that the feelins seem real.. and honestly just gives off A HUGE liar/actor vibe.
He was the only one who did not say he was coming to England for more money. So give him a credit for that. He seems like the only NON scammer one. Or he is just very sly.
How can people in the comments fall for Johan. He was acting! The crying. Manipulating her to give money to his family. He does not love her. He wants to go to the uk and get his stay and leave her. I know im from the same country. This is a thing there!
He's 21 and he knows these white woman are predators trying to pick up toy boys. There's this weird documentary I saw on white British women being sex tourists in Zambia. They putting themselves ad risk for HIV and all sorts. These men can obviously find young woman of their own age and background to marry... I think everyone knows what the deal is so you can't call it a scam... It's more like transactional relationships.
Never leave your card with anyone Charlotte… start as you mean to go on. If you ever say NO, he will hold it against you… oh Charlotte, what are you doing 😔
Johan doesn't strike me as a scammer. I think he's sweet to be honest, with a hella load of pressure on him to help his family, all of which he's been crystal clear about to be fair
Johan says it’s his responsibility to look after his family, he says this many times. He’s right, it is his responsibility NOT Charlottes!He has absolutely no right to expect anything from her! He is actively putting the responsibility for his family on her shoulders.
Not a bad deal, he can give her cute babies hopefully he is already for that😊 Oke almost done, Charlotte wants to see him in 6 weeks he said no 4 monts😢 No tears. I dont think he wants to be the father off Charlotte childeren
I think she knows full well what the situation is. It’s not about love, it’s about taking advantage of his poverty. If he was British he would never look at her. Just like the others. Nicole is the only one who is downgrading but she seems like she’s on the rebound.
24:53 Johan and Charlotte are kind of heartbreaking to watch. The socio-economic factors (finances, geography, age) create a power dynamic that makes this relationship hard to navigate and at times come across as inauthentic 😢 I do believe their hearts are in the right place though ❤
Johan breaks my heart. You can tell he doesn't love her and feels bad for it. He is basically sacrificing his love for his family. It's so sad for both parties. He is only 21 years old. My God, to have to carry this kinda weight is brutal.
Nui Nui Nui most of the time we are desperate for the English person to wake up and escape the relationship but in your particular case you will find the whole U.K. is screaming at you to wake up and run far far away from Tony.
@@mariancounsellor normally I would say yes. But I think she really just want to be loved and genuine help his family just because she is do generous. She soaks in all the attention she cant get in England. So sad.
I think he’s probably 55. In an earlier episode he shared a photo where he was security for Kate Moss - it looked very old - & she’s no spring chicken!
Charlotte, Charlotte, Charlotte, all that's going to get old, real quick ! You are being the man, and that's not normal. Oh well, you have to find out for yourself ! Sorry for you ! Don't borrow money for them, at least !!!!
Lol , it's their culture. Stop behaving like this this world somehow revolve around ur country, bcz it don't. If she doesn't like then don't be a fcing clown 🤡 on a international tv .
Slavery was never abolished, just much more cleverly "packaged". Example most people today work all their life to pay down a mortage for a house. A house that used to only cost 3 year salary, now costs 30 years to pay for. That is slavery. And you have no choice. Because just renting will cost you just as much, without ever owning it. And they made it illegal to put up campingn vagons along the roads and parks etc etc.
Charlotte and Sam look way older than they are. I think the men target them because they would be far easier to manipulate. Who would be attracted to them?
Omg.I initially didn't like Ali and felt sorry for Sam. However, now I believe Ali earns every penny he gets off Sam by having to spend time with such a vile,disrespectful and nasty woman. I hope he gets his greencard and then escapes from Sam at earliest opportunity.
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i agree! :)
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The fake tears of Johan were hilarious. Acts like he's crying then says don't worry about it then continues to tell her how much money she has to give all these people 😂
Saw that made me laugh
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I was looking for that comment 😂
hahaha thats true tho
If you told me they found three bodies buried in Tony's basement I would't be the least bit surprised.
😂😂😂😂yes. I agree
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He's a worry.
Yeah, man, he's weird. Gives me very bad vibes.
Well there soon might be four 🤣🤣🤣
Why on earth did she quickly marry that guy from Egypt before finding out about his customs and traditions and religion?? She is so screwed. It's ridiculous.
Because he wanted jigy jigy and it is not allowed in moslem country without being married. She is not screwed - divorce is as easy in their countries as marriage. U just go out and say 3 times i divorce u
Thought the same thing myself, should know the culture and people first before jumping into a committed relationship
Exactly it's the dumbest thing ever,forget the looks and how he makes you feel...do you understand his culture and religion,I swear people never learn
She's so pretty and could have married a nice, handsome man who is from the same culture as her. She just married an ugly man and is going to be beaten and controlled. She has no clue how restrictive and sexist the culture she married into is. I really hope she doesn't have kids with him, especially a daughter!
@@qdbusy looks?! what looks!!
The way Sam asked Ali to tell her to get off the phone in a nicer way but then shouts "don't play with your food you're not a child!". Wow what a way to demasculinise a man. The utter disrespect. Who does this woman think she is?
That guy with Nui IS a giant red flag
total batterer
Yea its a hard choice for Nui, because if you look at them they are not out off each others leak and Tony has money for a better live for her and her family on the other hand he brings the military attitude home and Nui knows that having kids is alot off work.
Nui is pretty, she could find somebody else and be more free
Can't watch him at all
Exactly, he is showing narcissistic traits
He scary
Sam is by far the rudest person ever, she’s selfish and unaware how bad she makes things!
She knows she is being scammed. What, u want her to be polite to her scammer? No way!!!!
@@bambinaforever1402 doesn’t make it right that she is so aggressive and angry towards him😅. She is not being held against her will. They don’t live in the same country she can leave him if she really wanted to she is not a victim. Being scammed and used by someone when they don’t want you and it’s obvious doesn’t make you innocent it makes you stupid. Make yourself available to be used and there will be a line around the block of men and women ready to take it all from you
@@bambinaforever1402 do you think really knows? 😮
@@bambinaforever1402 so if she knows she's being scammed why doesn't she walk away then? Also, no she doesn't know that even though we do because he made it obvious. You don't be horrible to people and have a bad attitude like she has and then expect that someone will want to be in a relationship with you. You're condoning her behaviour but there's no justification for it.
@@mariancounsellorShe's paying for it and she knows it. She knows a guy like him will never go for someone like her and she's milking it and enjoying getting to act like the top dog in the relationship. She probably never had a good looking guy beg for her attention or treat her well... And here he is putting on an Oscar worthy performance all for her.
Tony is REALLY controlling, he's really quite scary. He has a very short fuse, AND I think he IS hiding something - Nuii needs to RUN for the hills.
I have my suspicions about him too. On a more obvious level you can see that he wants her to be his ideal girl - but she’ll never know from moment to moment what his ideal girl would do. When she gets it wrong, his rage is barely concealed. He is scary, you’re right - and she’s definitely already starting off scared of him. I pray she doesn’t let her kids anywhere near that man.
@@ALargeShoeOfHenny Only time will tell, right???
Yess run girl!
@@lovelyshirl better get out before damage is done.
do he have a wife in the house , he said it him self , when a dude say trust me trust me you know something is up ! i agree with you she need to run before she can´t , he will trap her use her mental abuse is real with that nasty lair dude !
It's so infuriating to hear Tony put on that broken English (+ broken English accent) to speak to Nui. It's patronising and infantilising. She deserves better than someone who uses the equivalent of baby talk to communicate with her.
He's not doing it to be patronising he's doing it to communicate, when talking to the majority of thais you cannot speak like you would in the uk otherwise they just don't understand what you are saying. You have to be very clear on concise with your pronunciation and unfortunately that can sometimes come across as if it's baby talk.
@@scottgriffiths5859 That may be understandable from a touristy perspective, or for third parties he encounters in Thailand. But when it comes to the person he wants to raise children with, that doesn't seem sustainable. When would he switch to 'normal' talk, if ever? 🤷♂
@@user-mr4yt6hm1h once they learn each others dialects, it takes time. I've had relationships with thais that have taken a long time before you can speak to each other 'freely' and it's understood both ways. However sometimes you still have to do it, my gf after 3 years living together still sometimes has to tell me to speak slowly because she doesn't get what I'm saying and I have to revert to the 'baby talk' that your referring to. We call it Thaiglish, he's known her a very short time, if he immediately starts talking to her like he does with his friends etc she will hardly understand a word he says.
Johan "she needs to help my family." No, she doesn't....
Yeh the pressure they're putting on her is not nice, they just seem desperate for her money it's kinda cringe
Yes she does. A big old woman like that expecting to use her son as a sex machine.....nope she has to pay. She can't get a good looking 21 year old English man for free and she knows it. It's a transactional relationship. There's no real love
Tony is such a creepy, controlling and icky guy. No wonder he's single.
I feel soooo bad for Nui,girl just run away from this narcissist
Nothing about him screams narcissism. 0% so far.
He gives off bad energy. Looks like a wife beater.
Someone who injects fillers in their face is vain, a trait of grandiose narcissist.
Someone who withholds truth (living situation) and hides information (wanting baby) whilst building a new relationship, and then expects trust, at the same time gaslights their partner to minimise their partner's genuine concerns, are all manipulative traits of a machiavellian narcissist.
Someone who claims that they want to do something nice - by cooking - for their partner, but doesn't even ask or takes their partner's taste/likes into consideration and does whatever suits them; Snaps and scolds their partner not to touch or do things; Negs and berates their partner for expressing dislike or critic (banger&mash) and angrily belittles and gaslights - "its a rich gravy", "you are fussy eater", "you are so negative" - to shift their insecurities and incompetence/inabilities. These are all passive agressive behaviours of a self-centered and insecure bully and a toxic controller - traits of those with narcissist personality disorder.
Someone who first gives gifts/financial support to their partners, then remind them of their generosity, do so - to guilt trip and shut down their partner and to hold upper-hand and avoid accountability, a common manipulative tactic of a controlling narcissist.
Someone who wants to be heard and respected, whilst refusing to listen and respect their partners wishes/concerns, shows god complex and lack of empathy, both big traits of narcissist personality disorder.
These experiences, individually can be less harmless, but collectively they can create confusion and helplessness/hopelessness (something Nui expressed). Long term impact of a Narcissistic Abuse can be ambiguous and insidious and erase an independent happy-go-lucky person to become subservient depressed souls.
Oh he definitely has narcissistic personality disorder - he is passive aggressive and controlling. He wants it his way or you disrespecting him. All that withholding information about living situation and wanting baby until getting her emotionally invested and getting her to the UK. Paying for her flight and financial supporting her with few hundred pounds and repeatedly reminding her so she feels guilty and indebted to him and do as told. All so very manipulative. Definitely a narc. She needs to find work and focus on her kids and live a control free life.
@acubenschild no. He does not have NPD.
At least no evidence of that in this video.
He only shows some common sideeffects of ex-army military contractors/personell whom served in hotzones.
He has some grades sudeffects from typical symptoms like:
Overly-d8scipline, overly-OCDish, overly-need for order, etc. And overly-sensitive to all things around them. (Because that could be the differenve between life and death).
These things does not make a person NPD.
So far he has NOT showed any real grades of narcissisism that qualifies him as a NPD.
And every human on thos planet will have some grades of narcissism.
But a REAL NPD is a whole different level.
Thete are real parameters that has to qualify for to be labeled as a NPD.
He does not, from what we can see so far! Have these clear personality traits.
People need to stop throwing the word narcissism left and rigjt at anything.
It extremly devalues how SERIOUS and DESTRUCTIVE how REAL narcissism actually is. Victims who have suffered from REAL NPD, there is NOTHING to properly describe how EXTREMLY a NPD inflict trauma in your life.
So STOP washing out the word on nonsense people like him.
He may be useless or whatever, but so far no evidences that indicate NPD.
Ali is absolutely hilarious…and to be fair he has the patience of a saint putting up with that pain in the arse woman. Tony is very aggressive…what wrong with him?
He's comical. I think his humour goes a long way in dealing with her crap and insecurities.
Sam is funny to, if she is in a good mood and feels secure. That seems to bond them
Tony gives me red flags, he’s aggressive and condescending, he’s awful she would have a miserable life with him, he’s controlling, and slimy.
Probably on steroids
lol he needs to drink and joke around to put up with her bs 😂
Poor Ali, hes such a happy go lucky dude. His bird is a crocodile, ready to snap at any minute
“You’re not a child” says the girl that only eats chicky nuggies and fries 😅
At first i didn’t like Ali now I’m rooting for him 😅
I loooove Ali he cracks me up!
He's like the funny friend of the group
.... You mean, rooting for him to get away from that sulky pig!!!
😂 same
Love ali so funny 😹
Charlotte is literally a cash cow, how can you have a successful relationship if she’s the one paying for everything, her Mother and friend are right about this situation, he’s only seeing what she can give to his family and not what he can do for her.
At 34 I genuinely believe she’s thinking with her ovaries. I think when we’re naturally broody, some of us can make the craziest decisions at that age and older and just be in a kind of hormonal fog. I actually feel sorry for both of them - the pressure both of them are under is obviously going to be way too much and Johann is much too young for her in terms of general maturity, but she’s looking at him with heart eyes. At 36 or so the fever Charlotte is in now does start to de-escalate a bit, but I think people can underestimate just how clouded your judgement can be when you’re at the age she is with no kids yet (if a family is all you want.)
She’s so gorgeous and kind, she deserves much better
@@MamaRebelle I totally agree, some of the comments have been very unkind towards Charlotte but I do think she undervalues herself and is both beautiful and genuine. Johann is just much too young to really understand what he’s getting (aside from the possibility of a better life.) Expecting her to pay for 80 guests at their wedding when she can only afford to have 2 of her family members there was definitely a red flag for me 💔
She wants to have a baby, she has no options in England, so she is doing as best as she can. I m rooting for her. I hope he will make her a baby. Also helping poor people is always good. So bless her heart.
People say that Charlotte is stupid. But they who say so will never can appreciate her good heart. She is a treasure, no ego at all. The scene on the beach where she gives him a watch and he is only a taker - this is traumatizing.
Poor Charlotte, she deserves a man not a boy who's milking her
Charlotte is always thinking on how to help his family and him... I'm so sorry for her...
But Charlotte keeps leading with her money. She has a massive saviour complex. It's like she wants to be used. This boy isn't giving her anything.
She seems like a very mature and realistic woman. I don’t how she ended up with little boy
But wasn't she the one who initiated the relationship when she didn't even know him? And she is rushing into marriage.
@@beautifulplaces2703 yeah true
Tony will not be the same with Nui's kids if anything he comes across like he would lose his temper and hit them.
She should leave quietly on the pretense of everything is ok and then never come back.
Exactly. Inwould never let him even close to any children. His or others. If he wanted children should have found a younger chick in Thailand. There re plenty.
She after a visa
@@tofurakhanom2644So what ?
Charlotte has a massive saviour complex. She needs to stop leading with her money or she will be used.
Sam is obviously unhappy with herself, maybe because of her weight issues. And seems to need a LOT of attention. This relationship is a way of " buying " tnat attention.
Think so too cos besides everything Ali seem to be someone to have fun with even if its not a relationship. He seems to be fun to be around.
Sam insecurities r too much even if he is try to used her.
Yes. And the scammer will pay THE ULTIMATE PRICE. i hope british authorities will not let him into the country
Totally agree. She’s not all that and has A horrible attitude
she has a massive....personality disorder!
She could lose some weight
Poor Tony has no idea of what a relationship is. He wants to cast this very nice woman into his script, but she's a live person not a puppet. Doomed.
Tony comes across as a real control freak-I get a Baaaad feeling about him…
Yeh same...it feels like one would have to tip toe around his feelings so he doesn't get offended about the smallest thing. He also has no sense of humour..
He is an ex-army.
Soldiers involved in warfar are very detailoriented. Lack of details, duscipline, structure can quickly become the difference between life and death.
Such hightened instincts and personality traits will not just mahically dissapear in a day or even a year.
It was nevesary to survive.
He is not a narcissist.
He need to LEARN how to loosen up and deescelate tensions. (Not so uptight/stiff).
@@paulruano1903 who said he was a narcissist?
If he has some kind of PTSD from being in the army, he needs to get therapy. I understand everything you have said about him but it still doesn't excuse his behaviour.
Once one is an adult they need to behave like an adult and treat others the way they would want to be treated. He comes across like a passive aggressive bully, there is no coincidence involved with him picking an Asian woman for a partner. Majority of Asian women are raised to look after the partner,the children and home.
Majority have a calm beautiful peaceful nature. This guy chose to get involved with an Asian woman would partly be..if not all the reason, because he can bully her around without any problems.
Hopefully, Nui will kick his ass to the curb the moment those red flags start flying.
Oh my gosh nui please leave him...... Look how quickly he snaps when he doesn't get his own way, and so early on. My ex husband was like this in the beginning and went on to hit me, almost killed me. You deserve so much better. I'm actually concerned for her safety
There FILMED ,, all the time so protected, when she goes back hom e, she. Should stay and. D rop, tony, he. Narc😡
Charlotte is so beautiful. I hope she ends up with someone just as lovely as her!
Agree, beautiful inside and out
so beautiful. Hope so too poor girl 🥺
She may struggle with low self-esteem though because why would she be getting involved with someone that age and who's clearly using her?
Don't be ridiculous, she is self indulgent and will get health problems. She is with this guy just because she likes to feel needed, hence helping the family. Just needs to be needed, without reality
@leighearnshaw8353 Spot on 💯
He cant expect her to have a baby at 41 the chance of miscarriage is very very high, not only mentally damaging but physical too, he should of got a younger woman if he wanted babies
Why doesnt Taher marry an Egyptian woman,like i dont see the pount in dragging someone into something ...like huh? Nicole just leave you dont understand anything and you're going to be miserable,i dont understand why she also didnt research and ask people first
exactly and even if she does want an egyptian there are so many liberal and non religious ones. this relationship isnt worth it and wont last
Precisely and he shows that he doesn't want to leave his country but there's something more to him
He will eventually try to convert her so why didn't he just marry his own type from his homeland to make things easier for him?
Nicole please move on before you have children. He’s going to try to control your life and if you have children theirs too. He’s not open minded
I don't think Johan is as into Charlotte as she is him. Looked like he was forcing tears out at times.
No shit Sherlock
Nui has a better life in Thailand. She lives in paradise and has a beautiful house and even if she wants a foreign man, she can find a saner one somewhere else. That guy is a danger to her and her children. He's massively insecure and so maladapted. I think he's stuck with that fantasy of a subservient Asian woman from old war movies who doesn't talk and just pleases her husband. She's stuck on finding a white saviour who will build her a castle and she will be a queen. Clearly this is delusional on both their parts and she needs to leave ASAP for her own safety. That guy has a rotten sister too... She's so rude and comes across as very aggressive. Nui would not fit into this high testerone low class family.
Johan's favourite word "MONEY"
He did not even get up to hug and Kiss her when she gifted him the watch and when she went to hug him when he started to cry...no emotion
she does not need to help anyone in your family Johan.....that wont end well at all
‘Please open your palate’ to eat sausage and mash, oh Lord help that woman😂😂😂😂 And the way he talks to her ‘If you not give me baby…’
They should have had baby conversation in the first month of dating, what is it with these people😂😂😂
Tony makes me feel sick...🤮
Ali should just be given his visa simply because of all the BS that he’s putting up with from grumpy knickers Sam ☺️☺️ Thanks heaps for the quality upload love from 🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺
I think he looks like a young Arabic Jude Law.
I don’t think so, he’s targeted her because she’s a big girl and she has low confidence. She genuinely is looking for love and is having to fork out because she doesn’t believe anyone will love her otherwise. I hope she finds true love
@@shanaz3 Some people can be into big girls. Her attitude is a major issue. Even the most gorgeous girl would put anyone off if they behaved like her. She can be insufferable and its not down to being big.
She was a good sport with the dancing.
Yes, she has a very nasty personality. He definitely just wants his ticket to the UK. They are the Micheal and Angela of the UK. 😂
Tony is abusive
Johan sees Charlotte as the money cow, his family see her as that too. They are not even trying to pretend to be humble, they just ask for more and more. Johan excuse to help his family is ridiculous; " they've been looking after me, I need to look after them" ermm your mother was a teenager herself and it was her responsibility as a mother to raise your and take care of you, he is 21 and working so I assume as soon as he turned old enough to work, thats what he did, started working. Surely can support the family, but don't milk the woman you apparently want to create a family of your own.
If life is so hard why has Johan’s mother got another child where is his father every time I see these guys from the Dominican they are scammers including their families 🤦♀️
But Charlotte could walk away but she wants to be involved with someone much younger. The reality is that young men in some countries intentionally date older women purely for money, a chance to move abroad, or to have a better life. They can only get access to money from someone if that person gives them access. You're right that he probably just sees her as a cash cow.
Sad to see how his using her and his bloody family was OK before he met her
Woman need to run not marry that loser
She is a money cow.
@li5322 she old enough to know better if only women like her wasn't so desperate
Thanks Crawford gottlieb for your uploads. Such great quality videos. Thanks so muuuuch!
Sam and Charlotte are completely delusional 🙄 their men even say they want the visa before any mention of them. Tony is a hot-head narcissist and should've mentioned waaay earlier that he wanted kids of his own. Seems that Nicole had no idea about his strict culture prior to marriage and she's just meeting his family members now??It's sad how disastrous these relationships appear.
So fast to judge. The world is not 2 dimensional,
Spot on !
Tony’s eye bags have been botoxed off! How vain he is.
Vein* 😂😂😂😂😂
@@shanaz3veins run through your body 😅. They spelled it correctly.
@@shanaz3you are wrong it is spelt as vain
That was the joke he was making...veins showing under the eyes before the botox @@espon2112
Would you say the same if a woman used botox?
She's 41 Of course she doesn't want a baby
Not really. Some women do. Its something they should have discussed if one of them truly felt strongly about it. Some guys are OK with raising someone else's kids, some want one of their own. Either way, its a deal breaker and if you have a kid when you don't want to...thats a lifetime of resentment ahead of you that you will need to either get over or keep in check.
Agreed,personally I do not plan on bringing kids into this world. Men are shocked when I tell them, they cant take no for an answer
Tony doesn't want kids he wants to be on TV, he brought that up in order to unsettle her emotionally after the failed cooking
I'm loving these episodes. They've picked really interesting people to go on the show. Brilliant quality uploads! Thankyou
Sam's boyfriend is funny. She is as well, when's shes not in a mood. Tony is so up his own arse.
He's ex-military, so that explains alot!
The more I watch, the more I hate Sam and like Ali.
Me too! Cant stand Sam negativity so draining!
Agree with you.
@@mariechristinebetts7335Ali is playing Sam like a fiddle, just want the Visa to England asap. He's not sincere when he tells her "I love you" to him it doesn't mean anything it's all an act.
ali are so cute , sam is just a BIG B !
@@Danko31 he deserves a visa after dealing with her. There are a ton of single lads in England why has no one asked her out. Their relationship is transactional he wants visa and she wants a boyfriend its all a play and the visa a ticket to the theater. As if life in England is so amazing its always raining, london is expensive, entry jobs pay shite, and everyone is glum class mobility is none existent because of our capitalist government not forcing big corp to pay out. Highly doubt little Ali the bartender is causing the societal havoc by acting as a "boyfriend" for a better future.
No way Tony will handle her two kids
42:07 he is scary. Also, him speaking in broken English doesn't help her to speak better. It's condescending and it's seems he thinks he's paid for a .baby maker
He,s so desperate putting up with Sam terrible😮😮😮😮 what is she picking out of her ear? awful inside and out yikes😮😮😮
Tony is a narcissist its so obvious, she gaslights Nui all the time too crazy
I literally went to the comments only to write, what you just wrote, Tony is a red flag !!! Pfffff, run !
"Welcome to LONDON" made me laugh
I'm not sure, I think he's just very insecure deep down
@@vincentpeeters1157 so, as we said, a narc
@@mighehe you have a point
Ali: How do I look?
Shriek: You look fine😂😅
Ali doesn't want to share Sam...Great!😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂👊🏾
This 😂😂😂
Nicole, run a fast and as far as you can. There's no convincing him. The worst you can do is to drag children into this situation. First, they would be brought up Muslim and if you oppose, he will take them away from you to Egypt.
She's pregnant
She would trust Tony more if he let her see everything. Not going back to his home is a big red flag. He should have told her about his living situation before she booked her ticket. Where does Tony normally live when back in the UK????? Charlotte, she's a good woman. Caring. ❤
Ummm gd question
just a thought: but what about Sam getting to meet Small Ed? 😂
😁🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 GREAT idea!!!! They'd get on like a house on fire!!!!!
Yes, they do look like family members.
Maybe , related , similar. Looks
When English people will realize their traditional food is not famous like Thai food for a reason. It is not ...
haha - your opinion only
For me, i have never visited UK but English breakfast is one of my favorite treats🤤
Ali using her for visa. its in his eyes, voice, words, body language, he's trying to seem jealous so that the feelins seem real.. and honestly just gives off A HUGE liar/actor vibe.
Wow I didn't see that I was like sam is too mean 😂😂😂
Ali, is. The. Biggest, user
The. Day he gets his visa,/passport, he will be GONE,
HE'S VERY HANDSOME,
PLAYBOY, BYE, BYE, SAM,😂😂😂😂
@@LizzyLou-mw2fp you know it
it's so obvious. Not sure if Sam can see it though!
Acting jealous
"The Sam"😂😂
😂 I know, right?
Like Yazan from 90 Day The Other Way called his fiancé 'The Brittany' 🤣🤣
The way I laughed when I heard that, I didn't think anyone would notice 😂😂😂
@NonhlanhlaHappiness-rd3lr And for some reason that title actually fits her😂
@NonhlanhlaHappiness-rd3lr And for some reason that title actually fits her😂
Run, Nicole, run!! Apart from coming from a retrograde culture, Taher is not even good-looking! He's not worth it and he won't change! Run!
He was the only one who did not say he was coming to England for more money. So give him a credit for that. He seems like the only NON scammer one. Or he is just very sly.
Idk what's worse a scammer or being obsessed with any religion
@@user-mc5pl8js9ha scammer 😊
@@user-mc5pl8js9hbeing English and desperate 😂😂
Tony is such a controlling creep.
Can’t deal with Sam 🤢so entitled. Awful personality
How can people in the comments fall for Johan. He was acting! The crying. Manipulating her to give money to his family. He does not love her. He wants to go to the uk and get his stay and leave her. I know im from the same country. This is a thing there!
I saw right through it too but Charlotte probably knows deep down that he's using her.
He's 21 and he knows these white woman are predators trying to pick up toy boys. There's this weird documentary I saw on white British women being sex tourists in Zambia. They putting themselves ad risk for HIV and all sorts. These men can obviously find young woman of their own age and background to marry... I think everyone knows what the deal is so you can't call it a scam... It's more like transactional relationships.
Never leave your card with anyone Charlotte… start as you mean to go on. If you ever say NO, he will hold it against you… oh Charlotte, what are you doing 😔
Im very sorry for Charlotte that she will be a cash cow !!!😭
Ali is FUNNY LMAOOOO
Thankssssss for uploading !!!
You are legend for sharing this. Thank you. This first time I've ever wanted to do Patron for someone.
The guy Nui is with is so abusive😢
Johan doesn't strike me as a scammer. I think he's sweet to be honest, with a hella load of pressure on him to help his family, all of which he's been crystal clear about to be fair
But I think he likes Charlotte like a sister. We never see Johan give Charlotte a poem, a picnic anything (outside of flowers at the airport).
Johan says it’s his responsibility to look after his family, he says this many times. He’s right, it is his responsibility NOT Charlottes!He has absolutely no right to expect anything from her! He is actively putting the responsibility for his family on her shoulders.
what does a scammer looks like??????
Not a bad deal, he can give her cute babies hopefully he is already for that😊
Oke almost done, Charlotte wants to see him in 6 weeks he said no 4 monts😢 No tears. I dont think he wants to be the father off Charlotte childeren
I think she knows full well what the situation is. It’s not about love, it’s about taking advantage of his poverty. If he was British he would never look at her. Just like the others. Nicole is the only one who is downgrading but she seems like she’s on the rebound.
24:53 Johan and Charlotte are kind of heartbreaking to watch.
The socio-economic factors (finances, geography, age) create a power dynamic that makes this relationship hard to navigate and at times come across as inauthentic 😢 I do believe their hearts are in the right place though ❤
Sam needs to get a better attitude.
Johan breaks my heart. You can tell he doesn't love her and feels bad for it. He is basically sacrificing his love for his family. It's so sad for both parties. He is only 21 years old. My God, to have to carry this kinda weight is brutal.
Nui Nui Nui most of the time we are desperate for the English person to wake up and escape the relationship but in your particular case you will find the whole U.K. is screaming at you to wake up and run far far away from Tony.
I like this one better than the current US version. It’s not crammed with wannabe influencers and cam girls
Ali is a very good actor! 🤣
He fooled me 😂😂😂
Sam literally said she must be the center of Ali's world and when he gives and wants all of his attention, she complains. WTF?!
Honestly my heart hurts for Charlotte she has such a big and generous heart. Johan is horrible for taking advantage of her.
She's putting herself in that situation though. She pursued him.
@@mariancounsellor normally I would say yes. But I think she really just want to be loved and genuine help his family just because she is do generous. She soaks in all the attention she cant get in England. So sad.
If Tony’s 45 I’m 17!he’s creepy!
I think he’s probably 55. In an earlier episode he shared a photo where he was security for Kate Moss - it looked very old - & she’s no spring chicken!
Why? He looks 45
He looks older the Botox isn’t working or he looked terrible before 😅
Charlotte, Charlotte, Charlotte, all that's going to get old, real quick ! You are being the man, and that's not normal. Oh well, you have to find out for yourself ! Sorry for you ! Don't borrow money for them, at least !!!!
I can't stand Sam. How mean and just plain horrible can a person be?! "Don't play with your food, you're not a child." She's so rude!
poor girl shocked after british food :D
This season has not 1 healthy couple. Its disaster after another. TLC are just abusing people at this point.
Lol I guess,Tony is in it for the fame
I agree. I'm not sure how the Home office hasn't stepped in at this point.
And they say slavery has been abolished.. 🤦♀️🤔
Lol , it's their culture. Stop behaving like this this world somehow revolve around ur country, bcz it don't. If she doesn't like then don't be a fcing clown 🤡 on a international tv .
Exactly. Taking advantage of their poverty by dangling a passport and money. They will get their passport and leave
Erm Dubai? 😂
@@shanaz3 Exactly what I thought from Charlotte's segment.
Slavery was never abolished, just much more cleverly "packaged".
Example most people today work all their life to pay down a mortage for a house. A house that used to only cost 3 year salary, now costs 30 years to pay for.
That is slavery.
And you have no choice. Because just renting will cost you just as much, without ever owning it.
And they made it illegal to put up campingn vagons along the roads and parks etc etc.
Thanks for uploading this ❤
I think the realisation is coming to Nicole…. Sad for her
There is no way Charlotte is 34. My mom looks younger.
Charlotte and Sam look way older than they are. I think the men target them because they would be far easier to manipulate. Who would be attracted to them?
Nui, run ! Run fast and far !!!
Johans crocodile tears though?
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And as always thank you so much for the upload you’re an absolute legend!! 🙏❤️
Omg new episode, i couldn't wait to see it!!! ❤ Thank you so much 🤗
me tooooo!! 🙌🏼
@@Amazigh_MaeMae 🙌🏻
Omg.I initially didn't like Ali and felt sorry for Sam. However, now I believe Ali earns every penny he gets off Sam by having to spend time with such a vile,disrespectful and nasty woman. I hope he gets his greencard and then escapes from Sam at earliest opportunity.
YES YES YES THAT!!!!
Thanks for the upload!😊
Thanks for uploading these. Subbed 😊
Oh Ali Ali Ali, turkish girls are so gorgeous. is she reall woth the visa??
These man want visa and make money ,l don't see love
Those woman want sausage and someone to control
Sam thinks she’s such a prize..but no no she’s not..Ali wants a visa? I’ll adopt him and give him a visa lol
😂😂😂
Perfect upload as usual , thanks for it 👍😀
Is charlotte a paid actress or has she lived under a rock all her life ??😂
Thanks for the episodes loving it
Thank you for uploading such a good quality pictures. Thank you❤
the uploader is spoiling us, appreciated