I am 62 years old and have 4 years post-doctoral education and I find every one of these videos articulate, well-spoken, and informative. They should be shown to all boys in middle and high school, the world would be a better place.
1. Being well groomed. 2. Being well mannered. 3. Physical appearance. 4. Do you make an effort on your appearance / style. 5. Are seeking further knowledge. 6. Being a gentleman. 7. Being kind not nice. 8. Be a good listener. 9. Having self confidence. 10. Have an ability to roll with the punches / up's & down's. 11. Be a man of your word.
Hello Jeff! Excellent list! Love what you are doing here! I would like to agree with the young lady who said that she finds a man who can "articulate" well attractive. Other than that Your original list is excellent.
I loathe a man who does not take care of his hygiene and this includes his nails and feet!! The biggest turn off is a guy who walks around with his pants hanging off his behind. 🤮
You hit a homerun with everything you stated we find attractive. Great Job. One of the things a woman find very attractive also, is a gentleman who is aware and can truly and publicly state that he is a gentleman to His lady. Men are usually a perfect gentleman to other women instead of the Queen he is with. Love That. Very Attractive HQOG! Much Respect. Keep Shining Sir!
You should set boundaries in what you expect and will tolerate from her. For example, she is still friends with an ex and hangs out occasionally with him - even in a group context. Not anymore if she wants to stay in my world. It might ruffle a few feathers but she will see you have standards and that you have respect for yourself. In my experience, it has always has been a positive move. And if she does not like it and won't respect your wishes then better you say goodbye now.
And I hope you live by those words when it comes to your ex. And for goodness sake...I hope you don't address her that way by saying that you will not tolerate something and what you expect. You are not dating your child but hopefully a full grown woman. Please remember your delivery...
@@elleslade3251 I am always respectful but I am firm in what is acceptable if we are a couple. That goes both ways. If we have no expectations for each other what do we even have?
You’re on point! The eleventh habit is major!! Actions and consistency are very important! Being a gentleman never goes out of style either! Thank you for the video!!
Always good to see/hear another man of excellence, speaking wisdom smooth as silk. A renaissance man. Being a black man in this state of mind these days makes you an enigma. They just can't process it, with the manual. Salute!
From a woman's perspective, I think you were spot on. I especially liked the bits about being a great listener, a gentleman and exuding confidence. Women find all that very sexy. Great content.
The Style O.G. You’re welcome OG. Your female fans are always here for consultation purposes and feedback. We love the fellas and want you guys to do well with the ladies. Well done! ❤️
not seem desperate, anxious. Self assured yet humble enough to accept mistakes. Thanks for the shout out! wot wot keep preaching, you have us tuned in O.G
Great video, Jeff. Indeed, it may be your most important video. Timeless advice. From a personal perspective, I feel being prepared is essential. I know the word "prepared" is broad. For me it includes having enough money for contingencies, having a "get home" bag in my vehicle, essential "everyday carry" items on my person, and "the means to protect yourself and loved ones." The specifics for the items in quotes will differ from person to person and from situation to situation. The important thing is to decide what it means for you and act on it. Salute!
This was nice. I learned all these early on. You spoke on some great points. Being a gentleman never goes out of style. All the traits I have learned I pass have them on to my daughter's, so they can understand and know how a man should treat them. Keep these outstanding videos coming good Sir.
Yessss! Jeff you NAILED IT! I love a kind/ sincere man who is a true gentleman at heart not from his lips and his actions line up with his words which equals the TRUTH. This makes a woman to extend herself and reciprocate as to consider his needs as a woman. Thanks for all that you do Jeff. Keep it coming. Be Blessed.
Am from Cameroon and am very happy I have leant alot through ur contents what a great human resource ur a great man may God keep intelligent people like u long enough
Luis - For me, its more like I want too, rather than needing too. I feel like my wife deserves the best version of me in every area of my life. And the energy is contagious.
I have always been caught in a vicious circle with the confidence thing because my confidence would derive from women finding me attractive but presumably the reason they don't find me attractive is that I am not confident!
I am a retired Latino male who learned lots of what your saying awhile back, but I must say, hearing you just re-assures me along with hitting that refresh button keeps me up to date with life style and manning up to your honey... Thank you I will continue watching/ listening to your how to be cool and interesting to my wife and others.... Garcia’s Amigo
The older I get the more I’m attracted to: 1. Men who are in shape 2. Men who are kind 3. Men who are gentlemen and shows chivalry 4. Men who let me rant without interrupting 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Jeff u get it right every time 😌👑
Facts. Especially for us who grew up in single parent homes or on the streets. I would've been extremely receptive to the type of game as a young man trying to find my way after an underserved childhood
You're so right that how we treat others is important. After all....it's a make or break quality that I watch out for in every woman that I'm interested in.
How you treat others around you. Great advice. I keep telling my 2nd cousins and nephews this all the time. Especially while dating someone you're with. Ladies, the same scrutiny applies to you as well. I'm ALWAYS wary of a woman that is nice to me, but hella nasty to others around her...including how she acts in public or says in private. It's just bad character if you're like that...and a HUGE turnoff. 🤨
Great points especially being a gentleman every women loves it when she is fussed over. The ladies are always going to notice the guy who treats others right.
Great video OG! I've already been someone who embodies all of these and has been successful with the ladies. But this is great advice for these young boys out here, especially some of the things that are not so popular these days i.e. being a gentleman. Great stuff! I hope to instill these same qualities in my son when I have one.
I find punctuality attractive. Be on time! I also find it attractive when a man has a pet that he cares for. Also, I find selflessness attractive. I definitely agree with you.
Also, think about whether you like the woman and the way she’s treating you as well. Keep your eyes and ears open. What do you like or need in a women. Be a decent human being and you’ll meet the right woman who’ll appreciate you.
Yes! Great advice! Please spend time on your mouth hygiene. Also be humble. Most of the time I don’t care how attractive you are, but if you’re humble, clean, smart and fair you are winner in my book.
I could well have missed this as there is sooo much on your channel, but having flicked through a few videos I was wondering if you might do one on timeless styling both formal/informal. For all the material you have, it made me think about what styles would still be relevant to say a video you did a year or so ago. As ever, Salute!!👊🏾🔥
Personal Hygiene, A clean 🚗 car/ vehicle, & A CLEAN HOUSE/APT. .... If the inside isn’t clean or the bathroom is 🤢 Nasty then I just know that it’s our last date!!! ... NASTY HOUSE= HE CANNOT TOUCH ME OR EVEN HOLD MY 🤚🏾 HAND!!!! It’s a WRAP🚫.... I AM VERY DETAIL ORIENTED N THIS IS A NON- NEGOTIABLE FOR ME SYLE OG/ SALUTE💯
Being sapiosexual with a sense of wit. Knowing when to dress for the occasion and how well it fits. Taking a stand against something and knowing to take a step back. One can be kind but never too nice. Seeing there are things a man can not change but improve his outlook (I am 5'5 tall ) and being confident, never cocky.
I disagree that being nice works. Definitely didn’t for me in my younger years. Briefly dated a chick some years back that told me that she had caught her ex cheating on her. And I’m talking literally walked in on it! Him and the other chick straight up nekkid beating cheeks! Sometime later just when I thought things were going well she broke it to me that she decided to work it out with her ex. Yep, the same dude she caught! She felt like they had too much history and she wanted to try to work it out with him. I was speechless! That was the day when I quit being nice and it has worked out for the best honestly. Besides that, I agree with the rest.
Of all the guys I knew, and there were three in particular, who were the most successful with women, seemed to come in right around 5, 8" inches in height. Just reading a few articles on height/attractiveness, and all the latest research data shows that women find men who are around the 5, 8" mark to be the most attractive, generally speaking. 5, 5" was seen as an ideal height for women, which does NOT surprise me at all. Salute
Great presentation very informative and to the point a lot of your suggestions are instilled in me because I was raised by a southern woman keep up the good work we're watching LOL God bless I was thinking as I was watching you maybe you should show your bloopers because you're always so studious just a suggestion keep up the good work
I am 62 years old and have 4 years post-doctoral education and I find every one of these videos articulate, well-spoken, and informative. They should be shown to all boys in middle and high school, the world would be a better place.
True.
I agree!
I’m not sure if someone mentioned this, but I also think it’s attractive when a man is articulate.
Appreciate the input Josalyn !
Being articulate is a by-product of gaining more knowledge and education.
@Josalyn Loggins Yes, I do as well!
Without being pompous!
no doubt
1. Being well groomed.
2. Being well mannered.
3. Physical appearance.
4. Do you make an effort on your appearance / style.
5. Are seeking further knowledge.
6. Being a gentleman.
7. Being kind not nice.
8. Be a good listener.
9. Having self confidence.
10. Have an ability to roll with the punches / up's & down's.
11. Be a man of your word.
💯
Thank you
Hello Jeff! Excellent list! Love what you are doing here! I would like to agree with the young lady who said that she finds a man who can "articulate" well attractive. Other than that Your original list is excellent.
Thanks man
I loathe a man who does not take care of his hygiene and this includes his nails and feet!!
The biggest turn off is a guy who walks around with his pants hanging off his behind. 🤮
You hit a homerun with everything you stated we find attractive. Great Job. One of the things a woman find very attractive also, is a gentleman who is aware and can truly and publicly state that he is a gentleman to His lady. Men are usually a perfect gentleman to other women instead of the Queen he is with. Love That. Very Attractive HQOG! Much Respect. Keep Shining Sir!
Will do Gail !
Indeed Queen indeed
… well, it’ll be ladies who may deserve do be treated gentlemanlike - but that begs some qst.n to individually + specifically explore ex ante.
O.G. Keep preaching the "Grown Man" gospel. We should be passing the collection plate for these gems...Salute!!!
Salute !
More young men need this channel! Once again, Thank you OG style!💯
OG said he’s been successful with the ladies his whole life. Talk that talk OG!
Ha !
Great video Jeff. Solid advice. A lot of men don’t realize that women are very observant of us men and are always watching what we say and what we do.
Thanks Melvin !
You should set boundaries in what you expect and will tolerate from her. For example, she is still friends with an ex and hangs out occasionally with him - even in a group context. Not anymore if she wants to stay in my world. It might ruffle a few feathers but she will see you have standards and that you have respect for yourself. In my experience, it has always has been a positive move. And if she does not like it and won't respect your wishes then better you say goodbye now.
Agreed
Preach
And I hope you live by those words when it comes to your ex. And for goodness sake...I hope you don't address her that way by saying that you will not tolerate something and what you expect. You are not dating your child but hopefully a full grown woman. Please remember your delivery...
@@elleslade3251 I am always respectful but I am firm in what is acceptable if we are a couple. That goes both ways. If we have no expectations for each other what do we even have?
Goin through that right now
You’re on point! The eleventh habit is major!! Actions and consistency are very important! Being a gentleman never goes out of style either! Thank you for the video!!
Appreciate the feedback Apryl !
Always good to see/hear another man of excellence, speaking wisdom smooth as silk. A renaissance man. Being a black man in this state of mind these days makes you an enigma. They just can't process it, with the manual. Salute!
Salute Rod !
💪🏽
All great qualities, Jeff. I appreciate that my husband says "thank you" for little things. Also a man who prepares and takes action.
appreciate the feedback!
From a woman's perspective, I think you were spot on. I especially liked the bits about being a great listener, a gentleman and exuding confidence. Women find all that very sexy. Great content.
Thanks Dorsey !
The Style O.G. You’re welcome OG. Your female fans are always here for consultation purposes and feedback. We love the fellas and want you guys to do well with the ladies. Well done! ❤️
Solid advice.. Women always pay attention to the small things.. Its very important to stay sharp and well rounded... Salute to you Jeff...
Salute Donny !
My man opens doors for me and I love it! But I also let him know how much I appreciate it!
Love it !
Communication skills is definitely something that I lack in, but I'll definitely keep trying much respect O.G
Respect!
Ladies and men, drink more water instead of juice or else that breath is gonna be raunchy
not seem desperate, anxious. Self assured yet humble enough to accept mistakes. Thanks for the shout out! wot wot keep preaching, you have us tuned in O.G
Great video, Jeff. Indeed, it may be your most important video. Timeless advice. From a personal perspective, I feel being prepared is essential. I know the word "prepared" is broad. For me it includes having enough money for contingencies, having a "get home" bag in my vehicle, essential "everyday carry" items on my person, and "the means to protect yourself and loved ones." The specifics for the items in quotes will differ from person to person and from situation to situation. The important thing is to decide what it means for you and act on it. Salute!
Great input Lou !
This was nice. I learned all these early on. You spoke on some great points. Being a gentleman never goes out of style. All the traits I have learned I pass have them on to my daughter's, so they can understand and know how a man should treat them. Keep these outstanding videos coming good Sir.
You know I will Shawn !
Yessss! Jeff you NAILED IT! I love a kind/ sincere man who is a true gentleman at heart not from his lips and his actions line up with his words which equals the TRUTH. This makes a woman to extend herself and reciprocate as to consider his needs as a woman. Thanks for all that you do Jeff. Keep it coming. Be Blessed.
Indeed. That pulled me in with my husband. 32 years now.
Am from Cameroon and am very happy I have leant alot through ur contents what a great human resource ur a great man may God keep intelligent people like u long enough
Great advice. I am married, but I still need to impress my wife. M.
Yes Sir !
Cool. I hope your wife is also trying to impress you too.
Rover Coupe - No doubt!
Luis - For me, its more like I want too, rather than needing too. I feel like my wife deserves the best version of me in every area of my life. And the energy is contagious.
Same-happily married, child grown-here for over-50 men fashion tips. But I watched a few of these and this dude is into elevating people 💯
I have always been caught in a vicious circle with the confidence thing because my confidence would derive from women finding me attractive but presumably the reason they don't find me attractive is that I am not confident!
You hit the nail on the head on all points OG! Hope the youngbloods will heed this sage advice.
Thanks !
SO GLAD I CAUGHT THIS! Returning to work had me missing your great content!
Catch up !!
Hey Jeff..You're spot on! Thanks for validating what I've been believing since day one. I've got to check out your other videos!
Salute Michael !
I am a retired Latino male who learned lots of what your saying awhile back, but I must say, hearing you just re-assures me along with hitting that refresh button keeps me up to date with life style and manning up to your honey...
Thank you I will continue watching/ listening to your how to be cool and interesting to my wife and others....
Garcia’s Amigo
Salute Louie!
The older I get the more I’m attracted to:
1. Men who are in shape
2. Men who are kind
3. Men who are gentlemen and shows chivalry
4. Men who let me rant without interrupting 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jeff u get it right every time 😌👑
Appreciate the input!
man...i wish vids like this around about 20 years ago
Facts. Especially for us who grew up in single parent homes or on the streets. I would've been extremely receptive to the type of game as a young man trying to find my way after an underserved childhood
Thanks for bringing this to the light - these habits are all on my wish list ❤️👍🏼
No problem Lisha !
Setting boundaries is very important to me. Thanks OG Jeff!
No problem Elijah!
Hi Jeff, you ain’t tripping with your posts. You’re on-point and deliver with matter-of-fact fluency! Salute 👍🏿
I appreciate that!
@@TheStyleOG I’m already getting a grip on ma wardrobe 😆. Thanks again
I was knodding my head the whole time. Excellent work!
Thanks Andrea!
You are not lying about the clothing! I can have on the most simple outfit and ladies will tell me in a minute I look nice.
Yes Sir !
I get told that to if u.now how match and were the right outfits at the time u are good
@@mikeandmars2345 we also pay attention to how men write and spell😉
Jeff is that buddy every guy needs. Salute!
Salute !
You're so right that how we treat others is important. After all....it's a make or break quality that I watch out for in every woman that I'm interested in.
Indeed!
All your videos are great O.G., but this is one of your best. Love how you encourage decorum and respect for women.
Thanks Lincoln !
How you treat others around you. Great advice. I keep telling my 2nd cousins and nephews this all the time. Especially while dating someone you're with. Ladies, the same scrutiny applies to you as well. I'm ALWAYS wary of a woman that is nice to me, but hella nasty to others around her...including how she acts in public or says in private. It's just bad character if you're like that...and a HUGE turnoff. 🤨
Indeed !
Great points especially being a gentleman every women loves it when she is fussed over. The ladies are always going to notice the guy who treats others right.
Indeed !
Floss!! Helps with the breath. Good dental hygiene is a sign of self care.
Truth !
Great video! I like that blue blazer on top of a light blue shirt. Classic. Salute!!
Salute Shawn !
Man , nice shirt brother. What brand is it?
As a high value man, leveled up, super fit, successful, confident. What does a women bring into my life… Nothing except a fun night
Jeff is the man.. Just started watching his stuff, and I’m hooked. Dude has swag.
Welcome!
Great video OG! I've already been someone who embodies all of these and has been successful with the ladies. But this is great advice for these young boys out here, especially some of the things that are not so popular these days i.e. being a gentleman. Great stuff! I hope to instill these same qualities in my son when I have one.
Appreciate you Michael!
Great video Jeff! Everything you cover is so true.
Thanks Tineshia!
Thank you OG for the sermon you preached that word for the HABITS WOMEN FIND ATTRACTIVE. PEACE AND BLESSINGS OG.
Blessings!
I find punctuality attractive. Be on time! I also find it attractive when a man has a pet that he cares for. Also, I find selflessness attractive. I definitely agree with you.
Appreciate the input!
Also, think about whether you like the woman and the way she’s treating you as well. Keep your eyes and ears open. What do you like or need in a women. Be a decent human being and you’ll meet the right woman who’ll appreciate you.
Another banger O.G. SALUTE!!
Salute Maurice !
Thanks for the ad placement i straight fell out while you were talking about listening, guess i know what i can work on
Ha !
Aye, you dropped jewels on this one. Put these in your crown, fellas.
Salute !
Yes! Great advice! Please spend time on your mouth hygiene. Also be humble. Most of the time I don’t care how attractive you are, but if you’re humble, clean, smart and fair you are winner in my book.
Appreciate the input!
Another invaluable video...I can testify bro...making the effort surely counts!
Thanks Temi !
I could well have missed this as there is sooo much on your channel, but having flicked through a few videos I was wondering if you might do one on timeless styling both formal/informal. For all the material you have, it made me think about what styles would still be relevant to say a video you did a year or so ago. As ever, Salute!!👊🏾🔥
❤❤💯 great job.. good details
This is like having that cool wise uncle everyone wants, ON DEMAND!!!
“Hey Uncle So and So, what about this??”
Speak that shit O.G. SALUTE!!!
Salute Clifton !
Love the Scarface reference OG!
Yes Sir !
Personal Hygiene, A clean 🚗 car/ vehicle, & A CLEAN HOUSE/APT. .... If the inside isn’t clean or the bathroom is 🤢 Nasty then I just know that it’s our last date!!! ... NASTY HOUSE= HE CANNOT TOUCH ME OR EVEN HOLD MY 🤚🏾 HAND!!!! It’s a WRAP🚫.... I AM VERY DETAIL ORIENTED N THIS IS A NON- NEGOTIABLE FOR ME SYLE OG/ SALUTE💯
Appreciate the input!
The anatomy of a well rounded man... thanks Jeff!
No problem !
Hitch at work again. Lol. 🙌🏽
All facts O.G. I’m glad I can put my 2 cents in. 🤣 Salute Salute
Salute Clifton!
Being sapiosexual with a sense of wit. Knowing when to dress for the occasion and how well it fits. Taking a stand against something and knowing to take a step back. One can be kind but never too nice. Seeing there are things a man can not change but improve his outlook (I am 5'5 tall ) and being confident, never cocky.
Great input Larry !
This is me too a tee. I catch a lot of looks and smiles from women. Feels like the definition of a gentleman has changed these days
Jewels dropped as usual. Salutations from Virginia. 👊🏿👊🏿
Salute !
Why doesn’t the STYLE OG have at 1 million subscribers. Come on fellas, ladies too. Hit that subscribe button!!! SALUTE
appreciate you!
I disagree that being nice works. Definitely didn’t for me in my younger years. Briefly dated a chick some years back that told me that she had caught her ex cheating on her. And I’m talking literally walked in on it! Him and the other chick straight up nekkid beating cheeks! Sometime later just when I thought things were going well she broke it to me that she decided to work it out with her ex. Yep, the same dude she caught! She felt like they had too much history and she wanted to try to work it out with him. I was speechless! That was the day when I quit being nice and it has worked out for the best honestly. Besides that, I agree with the rest.
I said be kind not nice, there is a difference..
@@TheStyleOG What's the difference?
Jeff the Style OG Broke another one down! Good Lookin' OG!
Salute BT!
I feel more confident after watching this because it's right on Point 👍🏾
Salute!
Just passing Thur always on point fellas clean your bathroom always
My man !
@Blessed Rivers & Streams hey mama how are you doin .
Although high heels could make you a bit taller; the pocket square seem a bit formally configured for your open shirt.
Toot my own tuba lol.. Smooth!!
Ha !
Of all the guys I knew, and there were three in particular, who were the most successful with women, seemed to come in right around 5, 8" inches in height. Just reading a few articles on height/attractiveness, and all the latest research data shows that women find men who are around the 5, 8" mark to be the most attractive, generally speaking. 5, 5" was seen as an ideal height for women, which does NOT surprise me at all. Salute
Salute Anthony !
What's up my bro Og. Great advice video my G. Myself and your brother out here love hearing your words of wisdom. Salute my friend.
Salute Glenn !
Agreed, listening skills are very important with the ladies and initiating the conversation doesn't hurt either.
Truth !
Good game bro. You always come with the real spit! Keep it up 👍🏾
Will do Tone !
JEFF YOU ARE SPOT ON AS USUAL!
Thanks for the feedback Monica ! I
Great presentation very informative and to the point a lot of your suggestions are instilled in me because I was raised by a southern woman keep up the good work we're watching LOL God bless I was thinking as I was watching you maybe you should show your bloopers because you're always so studious just a suggestion keep up the good work
Considering a blooper reel !
Edit suggestion at 9:24. Use "we guys have" instead of "us guys have." Only thing keeping this video from perfection! Terrific!
Great video, especially the point about self confidence.
Thanks Janice !
YES Jeff looking Good, feeling Good, Style with right outfit, and being Gentleman, HooYah always BIG Bro.
My man Cuthbert!
appreciate the game brother God bless!
Blessings !
This channel is amazing. Thanks heaps Style O.G.
Appreciate that!
Making sense Jeff.... there are a few I did fall off..... I am going to watch this again
My man !
Salute to The Style O.G, always on point Sir.
Salute !
OG 5'10 is not considered short.
In my family it is, I'm damn near the shortest person at every family gathering 😭
@@definitelydoing it's not size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of fight in the dog.
Fashion industry has made most clothing sizes fit for average stature folks.
True.
Thank you Jeff! Appreciate you!
You are the Man Good Sir....wow...I really really enjoy your videos...keep them coming and God Bless
Thanks Charles!
Great grooming and manners, almost everything. Thanks brother.
You bet!
I got compliments on my skin.
On point as always..
Thanks Fern !
I have no style I feel like..how would I upgrade myself to obtain better style ?
Thank You again Style O.G. for another informational video for this will helps Me in My life for like the other video Eye watched before this one.
No problem!
@The Style O.G. You Are Awesome!!! Thank You. Peace.
Yes Sir, you're on point! 🤗
Thanks!
Valuable tips.. thanks O.G.👍🌹
You got it !
toot that tuba OG, I like it.
Ha !