Men and women can be friends if neither one of you are "feeling" each other, but if you like her romantically, and she is not into you; you are definitely right, MOVE ON.
Steven Wells Exactly, guys think by staying her friend she’s going to eventually change her mind. 99% of the time,she won’t. I used to be that guy, never again!!
Guys and gals can be buds. I have a few lady buds that I have no interest in like that and they feel the same yet we always have a great time hanging out.
The nice guy one really hit home, because I got that one a lot during my younger years. And each time I got friend-zoned. Now I have no problems declining the “can we just be friends” speech. I have friends already. I’m good.
@@travislumpkin9857 Or a gay guy friend. Gay dudes are a straight woman’s best friend. But for whatever reason they insist on making straight dudes their homie.
The first sign listed is the BIGGEST one If you're trying to talk, and get to know a woman you're interested in, take a hard look at your text messages. If you're the only one keeping the contact going, then she's not interested. This may sound harsh, but at that point, you're just her filler for boredom. You know in the back of your mind that if you were to stop the initiation, you wouldn't get any feedback for days, if not ever. And if she does hit you up a day/days later, then she was bored at that moment, and just then thought about you a little. You're an afterthought, and not even on her radar my guy. I wish I would've known this in my 20s. Would've saved me a lot of time BSing. If someone is actually into you, you won't have to second guess it. If you have to think about it, then she aint it chief.
That's the thing about many of these points: they're mostly all subtle small things that you might not attach much meaning to out of context. I agree with you, wish I had known back then what I know now... But we live and learn, bruh!
Moral of the story, the best way to start a relationship is through sex (one night stand). Once that has happened and they are willing to see you then you fall into the relationship instead of trying to be the good guy setting up dates, getting rejected via phone and trying to figure out. Even better, don't want pain stay away from relationships.
You put it perfectly into words, in fact so perfectly that I wish I saw this comment a couple years back. There was this chick I "befriended" but I realized that every time we chat online it had to be me initiating the conversation. After a while I realized this and decided to stop, so after weeks of not talking we finally ran into one another and she exclaimed we hadn't talked in so long, now I was kinda lost for words because in my head I'm saying "well shit you could've easily just picked up your phone and give me a shout" but anyways, I'm kinda grateful looking back I realized it would've never worked.
If you are not the first choice don't dare be the last choice, excellent video brother, we as men need to know self worth and when to move on to the next phase. Being rejected by a female is not the end it means we begin the journey towards being with people and that special lady that will celebrate us. Salute Brother!
"When you like someone, it's hard not to show it." That might be one of the most insightful quotes I've ever heard. Simple but very insightful. Excellent video
Hot topic! One of the best things I've learned is not to allow a woman to misuse me. I for one get the picture very quickly. If I feel like you are showing signs of little or no interest there will be no hard feelings there will just be the sounds of me moving on along. O.G. you always exhibit great skill in what ever you are presenting. Another fine video Sir!!!
Some of us are old enough to remember the days where getting a woman's phone number meant you were halfway to home base. Now a phone number means absolutely nothing at all.
Not true, things come up, life does happen, the one time I had to cancel, kid got sick, someone died, I had to bail my cousin out of jail, that does not mean I don't like you.
Getting friend zoned is like interviewing for a job and not getting it. Once they let you know that they aren't interested, its not helping to keep putting in more applications. Just walk out, head up, shoulders back and find another job.
It’s a waste of time bro honestly such a good point you brought up btw it’s like “ you’re working for a company but you’re not getting paid you’re working pretty much for free “
I've been guilty of the "too busy" and "flirting around other people" type of girls and knew something was weird about that, but still invested my time into these girls in the past. I've eventually learned the hard ways that these chicks just weren't interested. Glad to watch this video to know I wasn't being crazy to think that girls that like you just wouldn't do that in front of you.
There's only 1 sign you need to pay attention to, when she says "No" more than she says "Yes". When a woman likes a man, she makes everything easy for him and rarely if ever tells him "No".
I respectfully disagree with you. When a woman likes a man, she absolutely does not make everything easy for him. Then again, we would have to look at the type of woman to which you are speaking of. For a woman looking for more than sex, materialistic things, and/or a He's a Baller and I wanna be a Boss title. You are absolutely right. A woman with her own "Stuff" who is already a boss, and is disciplined enough to handle and control her hormones, does not and will not make everything easy for a guy no matter how attracted or interested she is, and she will frequently tell him No without explanation!
@@stylewithaltitude I do not recall anything being stated about sexually attraction, and I do NOT believe that sexual attraction is the only form of attraction. No matter what the attraction, and even if she does make it easy because she is attracted, I do not believe that she makes "everything" easy for him, but forget about all of that! Did you just call me fish Mr. Fisherman?😂😂 you maybe a fisherman trying to catch fish, but I am a Queen seeking the presence and respect of a King. Not a temporary chemistry connect that maybe a regret and/or mistake because I was sexually attracted to a horny little fisherman who only wanted the fish!
@@stylewithaltitude You are right, I may have misunderstood what he meant. I am a little older so for me attraction, chemistry, connection, and conversation means a starting point. The threshold of commitment and consistency is Eureka for me. I've lived and learned, been there and done the attraction and making it easy so, I guess maturity plays a large part in my response and my misunderstanding of what he was saying.
I am 54, and this is some of the best no BS dating advice I have ever heard. Wish someone had told me this in my 20s... But I probably wouldn't have listened back then.
@Samir Dončić WOW! It must be awesome having figured out all the secrets to life and happiness at the age of 20. You must be a billionaire by now with your own Playboy mansion and space shuttle.
This is the most underrated video of september, & this just might be the most underrated video of 2020, reminding us all of what we already know, but facts that we all continue to ignore, everyone should end their 2020 year off with this video.
I must say that the first 3 signs you talked about are really the only ones I go by when I am talking to a female, with everything now being online dating or texting. Those are really what I go by and when I notice that the conversation is leading into or already as headed into the one word reply territory I just block and move on. That one word reply is a total pet peeve of mine when it comes to dating.
Right on. I been thinking about everything I’ve done wrong that always put me in the friendzone. If a woman not into be but still wants to be just friends, I tell her I can’t just be friends with her because I like her to much and so I move on. She’s not into me, I cut her off as I’m looking out for myself. Don’t need to here her talking about other men.
# 1 is facts. I was listening to this OG on a black radio station and he commented “ if she wants you she will let you know so stop chasing “. I went to a seminar on this subject and your on point. There was a company in Houston Texas where people would teach on different subjects.
Your seminar was bad if it teached you "... So stop chasing". As a man you shouldn't chase in the first place,. At all. Instead be a chooser, so they chase you. It's all about one changing his mindset.
As an introvert I love it when a woman isn't interested in me or, at most, puts me in the "friend zone." Not to be a Debbie Downer, but it's just one less thing I have to concern myself with.
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its soo crazy, its like all the girls im into dont really connect well but all the girls im not into are always reaching out, buying me gifts and genuinely showing interest.
Is it strange that i already know all of this- considering i've never been in a relationship? I guess all those years of chilling in the cut watching and listening to people all day may be the culprit behind this. Truth be told, life is one hell of a teacher, although this is great, sensible advice being given in this video, you'll actually learn these things over time just from living.
Never sweat the one you like or desire, but get the one that's sweatin you. That's a better deal. She'll think she's struck gold, fella. Stay strong men...💪🏾💯💯💯💯👑
Bruh, I work in a correctional facility and about a 3rd of those folks both male and female wouldn’t come back or wouldn’t be there at all if they heard and took to heart those facts you preaching...
I have a bit of a system for the first one. However long it takes her to text me I take that long plus a little extra to text her back unless there is a good reason for it. If it ever gets to a point where they are taking 2-3 hours to text back a few days in a row I just stop texting and keep it pushing. It's also important for single men to text as many women as you can. There are always going to be those bored girls that will half text and when you have other conversations going on you will forget about them because you've got others that actually want to talk to you.
All good points bro. Keep dropping those gems💎 one last point...If a woman always asking you to take her to the weed spot. She definitely not into you.
Jeff: 15 Small Signs A Woman Does Not Like You Me: In shock while every point Jeff makes is horribly accurate... Also me: I found a 16th point... *shuffles divorce papers*
Great stuff. I have found being direct about your intentions works the best. Being assertive and being clear about what your looking for can help with not wasting anyone’s time. Obviously the first few weeks or so your getting to know each other but after a few weeks I think you know how you feel and should be able to know where she stands. Another great video! Love it!
Dude, all these signs flow right into how it leads the man to stop talking to a woman-I mean these are the ones that I have always used. We do this without even realizing THESE were the reasons. 😂 you captured it PERFECTLY-put the real OG’s spider senses into words. Awesome life language articulations. 👌🏾🔥
One of the problems with people is when someone shows and tells you they’re not interested (I don’t like you in that way, I see you as just a friend, etc.) People ignore it and keep pursuing the person. They waste time and feelings on someone who has repeatedly shown they’re not interested. Only to be hurt when you never get together. When someone shows and tells you they’re not interested, believe them. Cut your losses and move on.
Guys are the ones who like to say women like to play hard to get. But women don't say that. Guys just don't want to accept that a girl they like doesn't like them back. So their guy friends will say "She's just playing hard to get."
Great points! I would add the body language of touching - if she is touching you on your hand, arm, chest while conversing it’s a sign she’s flirting with you 💅🏿
Excellent video Jeff. I’m married and unfortunately your ‘15 small signs..’ apply to me. Oh well, truth be told, I probably knew that to be true before i watched your video. Thanks for helping me open my eyes. I read many of the comments left by others and it’s interesting to note that all the women who left comments agree with you 100%! You’re definitely right on target and it’s amazing how all these ‘small signs’ all add up to some pretty significant insight....Keep up the great work Jeff!...Ed
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Well, that settles it...women don't like me all that much. Jokes aside, I definitely had ignored some of these signs in the past. Great video as always, OG.
Jeffery, Thanks for the great content. My significant and I watched this together and she pointed out an interesting fact: when you're neck deep into a new "relationship" it's often a case of overlooking the obvious signs. Thanks for passing the information on to those who are navigating through the confusing time....Salute!
Very good advice. This should be played in high schools across the country. Young men need to know and understand that it's okay if a person is not interested.
Jeff is always right on it with his content, I love his channel, but, the one thing that has always aggravated me is that, jacked up, raggedy salute, that he does in every video! I know that some may see this as small or trivial, but, if you have ever served in any capacity, it’s a sign of respect and it’s serious business. I had to add that, I consider him to be a professional man, maybe it’s just something that he hadn’t given much thought to.
If you only hear from her from 9-5 or her work hours only means she's bored at work and doesn't mind contacting you to kill time, so don't git it twisted. I've done it myself😏 I like seeing how available she'll be on weekends anyway. If you vibe that fellas, bow out gracefully by getting with her homegirl lol. Crush her spirit. She'll do it to you. She'll definitely know what the score really is then champ. Bump her😂 Yall stay strong...💯💯💯
By watching this video I just realized the woman that I really want to be with she's really not into me. This is very educational thank you so much. Looking forward on the next video
Hey OG, great vid. I dated a lady, and I could hear the smile in her voice once she knew it was me on the phone. Best confirmation ever. I never commented cause i didnt want to spoil it.
As a OG myself a woman is probably doing you a favor when she put you in the friend zone She may not be worth all the trouble of pursuing if there’s so many barriers in between
Excellent video, all facts! I always do my best to let a guy know early on, it’s not a match. I’m humble enough to know also that some men find me Hot and Sexy Wife Material while some men just don’t cause I’m not their type…and thats perfectly okay also. I think if a woman has self respect and class about herself, she will communicate if she believes it’s not a match, if the man in the situation is feeling her but she’s not feeling him. Thats key here, a good woman must ALWAYS be respectful and kind and know that not every man she dates is going to like her like that, it’s about being a mature grown respectful woman of class👑❤️💯 Great video💯
Man OG I had a moment last week about this subject. I woke up to a Friend Zone text the other day. I knew it was coming cause her running text messages we’re describing another man (sign). I had to make sure my son saw this so he knew what to watch for. When I called her out about it she didn’t even realize she was texting me about another guy. She stated that since she was dating other people she couldn’t keep up with her thoughts... I had such high hopes but I had to put her on bench!!! Then she offered a some of her single friends... I was tempted to tell her to hook me up with two of them just for the runner up prize!!! 😂
Wow! I really love that blue suit coat with that crisp white collar shirt! Looks amazing on you! You are right on point. Covered each point correctly in my opinion. I can't add a thing on this one.
1. She never reaches out to you first. (You’re not on her priority list) 2. Takes a long time to reply back. 3. Her communications are short / not have a lot to say 4. Little to no physical contact 5. Her body language cues are closed 6. She doesn’t smile when she sees you 7. She cancel plans last minute 8. She’s always busy. She has not made spending her time with you a priority. 9. She sees you as a friend and refers to you as nice. Friend zoned. 10. You’ve never met her friends / family. 11. She calls you her friend when I’m front of other people 12. She makes no effort to look her best around you. 13. She flirts with others infront of you 14. She keeps the conversation general 15. I missed one, shoot me.
Appreciate your nuance bro. You're a diplomat, so I know you'd never say it yourself, but I salute how you don't speak in absolutes about female nature, value judgements, what it means to be alpha/beta, etc. Kevin Samuels and other's like him should take notes.
And don't forget. If you can't find her on social media when you know she has it, it means she's blocked you and she doesn't want no one to know about you also.
ALL of these are on point. 👍🏼👍🏼 To expand on “leaving you on read”...DON’T text or call later and say “I guess you aren’t interested. Ok then”. If you’re left on read, that’s it. Move on. 👉🏼
Style OG, covering all angles and perspectives! Gotta have that "full picture" to know how to proceed. 😎👍 "I don't see nothing wrong.....with a lil......." 🗣️ 🎶 Nice upload man!
Man oh man thank you for this brother right here. Keep speaking facts and hopefully yall brothers are checking this brother out for he has wisdom for days and possibly for preparation of some of your futures.
Big Bro you already know I'm rocking with you all day. Lol you should do a "SIMP" tour around the world to educate these "PEONS" running behind these women. All men should love/respect and protect our women and all women but somtimes these brothaz drink too much SIMP juice!!!!!! SALUTE!!!! "THUMBS UP"🥊🔔
I can think of a few more guys..your welcome! 16. she pepper sprays you. 17. screams when you are within 5 meters of her 18. she files a restraining order 19. she doesn't say SALUTE
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If you’re here ...she doesn’t like you 😂🤷🏻♂️ . Stay strong fellas 💪🏼
Ha !
🤣🤣🤣this is a good one
😂😂😂
Good shit bro🤦♂️😂😂😂
😂😭😂
When she puts you in the friendship zone, trust us, she is not your friend. On that note, you move on.
Move on
Men and women can be friends if neither one of you are "feeling" each other, but if you like her romantically, and she is not into you; you are definitely right, MOVE ON.
Steven Wells Exactly, guys think by staying her friend she’s going to eventually change her mind. 99% of the time,she won’t. I used to be that guy, never again!!
Guys and gals can be buds. I have a few lady buds that I have no interest in like that and they feel the same yet we always have a great time hanging out.
@@animestarlord9021 until she gets a boyfriend and you guys hanging out can't happen anymore.
The nice guy one really hit home, because I got that one a lot during my younger years. And each time I got friend-zoned. Now I have no problems declining the “can we just be friends” speech. I have friends already. I’m good.
Same here! I never understood the friends speech from females while I was a youngin. YT taught me what the friend zone is about.
@@Tgogators Lol
IF She wants a friend, SHE,
Should, get herself a real (PET)
A Bird, Cat ,Dog , or FISH .
@@travislumpkin9857 Or a gay guy friend. Gay dudes are a straight woman’s best friend. But for whatever reason they insist on making straight dudes their homie.
@@travislumpkin9857 but fish is a meal
SALUTE! Man I'm in my 40's and I'm telling you and when you really like a girl, you tend to forget things YOU ALREADY KNOW. I needed this today.
Thats a fact 😁
This is funny, but it happens to women too. You can't help it sometimes. Both men and women lack discernment, something that's needed while dating.
Talk to them OG. Some guys don’t know when to pursue another girl who is more interested
Salute Calvin !
Definitely made this mistake
@@stylewithaltitude u up next for a UA-cam fams
The first sign listed is the BIGGEST one
If you're trying to talk, and get to know a woman you're interested in, take a hard look at your text messages.
If you're the only one keeping the contact going, then she's not interested.
This may sound harsh, but at that point, you're just her filler for boredom.
You know in the back of your mind that if you were to stop the initiation, you wouldn't get any feedback for days, if not ever.
And if she does hit you up a day/days later, then she was bored at that moment, and just then thought about you a little.
You're an afterthought, and not even on her radar my guy.
I wish I would've known this in my 20s. Would've saved me a lot of time BSing.
If someone is actually into you, you won't have to second guess it. If you have to think about it, then she aint it chief.
Appreciate the input!
Well said, dude!
That's the thing about many of these points: they're mostly all subtle small things that you might not attach much meaning to out of context. I agree with you, wish I had known back then what I know now... But we live and learn, bruh!
Moral of the story, the best way to start a relationship is through sex (one night stand). Once that has happened and they are willing to see you then you fall into the relationship instead of trying to be the good guy setting up dates, getting rejected via phone and trying to figure out. Even better, don't want pain stay away from relationships.
You put it perfectly into words, in fact so perfectly that I wish I saw this comment a couple years back. There was this chick I "befriended" but I realized that every time we chat online it had to be me initiating the conversation. After a while I realized this and decided to stop, so after weeks of not talking we finally ran into one another and she exclaimed we hadn't talked in so long, now I was kinda lost for words because in my head I'm saying "well shit you could've easily just picked up your phone and give me a shout" but anyways, I'm kinda grateful looking back I realized it would've never worked.
If you are not the first choice don't dare be the last choice, excellent video brother, we as men need to know self worth and when to move on to the next phase. Being rejected by a female is not the end it means we begin the journey towards being with people and that special lady that will celebrate us. Salute Brother!
Salute !
Excellent post
Yes, simping for a woman who has no interest in you is costly. I've learnt it the hard way too
That shirt is straight up crisp! That's an O.G. for ya.
Salute Michael !
"When you like someone, it's hard not to show it." That might be one of the most insightful quotes I've ever heard. Simple but very insightful. Excellent video
REAL TALK 🎯🥇
Hot topic! One of the best things I've learned is not to allow a woman to misuse me. I for one get the picture very quickly. If I feel like you are showing signs of little or no interest there will be no hard feelings there will just be the sounds of me moving on along. O.G. you always exhibit great skill in what ever you are presenting. Another fine video Sir!!!
Thanks as always Shawn !
This list is so much more important than the opposite. So important to know when to cut your losses
Agreed!
This is some of the BEST advice I have ever seen.
TO THE POINT 🎯
FACTS OVER FEELINGS 💯
Some of us are old enough to remember the days where getting a woman's phone number meant you were halfway to home base. Now a phone number means absolutely nothing at all.
Nowadays they gove number to everyone
They actually hawk them around
Oh damn that’s the truth!
Facts lol means nothing at all
They never pick up 😂 only some do
You were right on point! Those tips also indicate to a woman that a guy is not into her!! Great advice.
Thanks Darlene!
Not really women leave very vague signs which is why most men never know what the hell is going on
Sexism 🤦♂️
@@TheStyleOG what if for instance if she doesn’t talk to anyone at work nor does she doesn’t even talk to girls at work ??
If a woman is into you, SHE’LL NEVER CANCEL A DATE! NEVER!
Facts big fact's
True, even in a case if she does have a busy schedule, she'll make time for you.
Not true, things come up, life does happen, the one time I had to cancel, kid got sick, someone died, I had to bail my cousin out of jail, that does not mean I don't like you.
@linkzable What not baby mama's, am saying if your dating a woman who has children, things do come up.
true but that is not why you dont last with her
When she says, "get out of my bushes, i'm getting a restraining order"
Yoooo 🤣🤣🤣
Damn.. but what if she says see you in court??
@@darthclone7 Then you know she's really into you and your pocket, lol.
Yea I think there was signs before that
When u ask basic questions and they give u that little deceptive giggle. Just worry about u fam
Indeed !
L Seven I am a woman, and I approve (and can confirm) this. #itstrue
😂😂😂😂
Can you break this down a little bit for me?
@@BlaQGhoste93 she's being deceptive, not tell u the truth, or a half truth, playing games with u, not taking u seriously
You’re seriously like a father to a lot of young men out here .. keep up the content OG love this channel. Simplicity & Straightforward 🙌🏾
Will do Delano !
Showing how you feel is cool . . . but making your feelings known, grown man vibe! Real talk Jeff.
Getting friend zoned is like interviewing for a job and not getting it. Once they let you know that they aren't interested, its not helping to keep putting in more applications. Just walk out, head up, shoulders back and find another job.
It’s a waste of time bro honestly such a good point you brought up btw it’s like “ you’re working for a company but you’re not getting paid you’re working pretty much for free “
I've been guilty of the "too busy" and "flirting around other people" type of girls and knew something was weird about that, but still invested my time into these girls in the past. I've eventually learned the hard ways that these chicks just weren't interested. Glad to watch this video to know I wasn't being crazy to think that girls that like you just wouldn't do that in front of you.
There's only 1 sign you need to pay attention to, when she says "No" more than she says "Yes". When a woman likes a man, she makes everything easy for him and rarely if ever tells him "No".
I respectfully disagree with you. When a woman likes a man, she absolutely does not make everything easy for him. Then again, we would have to look at the type of woman to which you are speaking of. For a woman looking for more than sex, materialistic things, and/or a He's a Baller and I wanna be a Boss title. You are absolutely right. A woman with her own "Stuff" who is already a boss, and is disciplined enough to handle and control her hormones, does not and will not make everything easy for a guy no matter how attracted or interested she is, and she will frequently tell him No without explanation!
Wrong.
@@gabrielle8420 How so? So you are saying that ALL women because she likes a man will make it easy for a man?
@@stylewithaltitude I do not recall anything being stated about sexually attraction, and I do NOT believe that sexual attraction is the only form of attraction. No matter what the attraction, and even if she does make it easy because she is attracted, I do not believe that she makes "everything" easy for him, but forget about all of that! Did you just call me fish Mr. Fisherman?😂😂 you maybe a fisherman trying to catch fish, but I am a Queen seeking the presence and respect of a King. Not a temporary chemistry connect that maybe a regret and/or mistake because I was sexually attracted to a horny little fisherman who only wanted the fish!
@@stylewithaltitude You are right, I may have misunderstood what he meant. I am a little older so for me attraction, chemistry, connection, and conversation means a starting point. The threshold of commitment and consistency is Eureka for me. I've lived and learned, been there and done the attraction and making it easy so, I guess maturity plays a large part in my response and my misunderstanding of what he was saying.
I am 54, and this is some of the best no BS dating advice I have ever heard. Wish someone had told me this in my 20s... But I probably wouldn't have listened back then.
Thanks Gent !
@Samir Dončić WOW! It must be awesome having figured out all the secrets to life and happiness at the age of 20. You must be a billionaire by now with your own Playboy mansion and space shuttle.
From a brother to another brother. Thank you for these points. Much appreciated.
You got it !
They don’t care about your feelings… they are just afraid of confrontation.
This is the most underrated video of september, & this just might be the most underrated video of 2020, reminding us all of what we already know, but facts that we all continue to ignore, everyone should end their 2020 year off with this video.
I must say that the first 3 signs you talked about are really the only ones I go by when I am talking to a female, with everything now being online dating or texting. Those are really what I go by and when I notice that the conversation is leading into or already as headed into the one word reply territory I just block and move on. That one word reply is a total pet peeve of mine when it comes to dating.
Right on. I been thinking about everything I’ve done wrong that always put me in the friendzone. If a woman not into be but still wants to be just friends, I tell her I can’t just be friends with her because I like her to much and so I move on. She’s not into me, I cut her off as I’m looking out for myself. Don’t need to here her talking about other men.
its hard to walk away from someone you really like when you know they are riding someone elses cock. Got to never look back.
# 1 is facts. I was listening to this OG on a black radio station and he commented “ if she wants you she will let you know so stop chasing “. I went to a seminar on this subject and your on point. There was a company in Houston Texas where people would teach on different subjects.
Your seminar was bad if it teached you "... So stop chasing". As a man you shouldn't chase in the first place,. At all. Instead be a chooser, so they chase you. It's all about one changing his mindset.
I'm 51 years old and even I learned something from Mr. O.G. Thank you,
Ravi Peiris M.D.
As an introvert I love it when a woman isn't interested in me or, at most, puts me in the "friend zone." Not to be a Debbie Downer, but it's just one less thing I have to concern myself with.
I'm an introvert as well brotha so I feel the exact same way.
No ones time is worth more to myself than my own
@@Rakeemgrant very well said my brotha.
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Well you don't know what you are missing
its soo crazy, its like all the girls im into dont really connect well but all the girls im not into are always reaching out, buying me gifts and genuinely showing interest.
Is it strange that i already know all of this- considering i've never been in a relationship? I guess all those years of chilling in the cut watching and listening to people all day may be the culprit behind this. Truth be told, life is one hell of a teacher, although this is great, sensible advice being given in this video, you'll actually learn these things over time just from living.
Never sweat the one you like or desire, but get the one that's sweatin you. That's a better deal. She'll think she's struck gold, fella. Stay strong men...💪🏾💯💯💯💯👑
Great Content OG...Always remember fellas you’re a King, you deserve someone who’s into you as much as you are into them.
Thanks!
15 signs she didn’t do, and now I’m married to her. O.G. you’re always on point 😉
My man Clifton!
if she refer to you as a jerk (tone is important), best believe you in a better position with her than she saying you're a nice guy.
I think it’s really simple: If you have to ask, then she doesn’t.
And let's not forget the famous eye roll 👀when she sees you or if you are trying to have a conversation. 😁
Ha !
Bruh, I work in a correctional facility and about a 3rd of those folks both male and female wouldn’t come back or wouldn’t be there at all if they heard and took to heart those facts you preaching...
I have a bit of a system for the first one. However long it takes her to text me I take that long plus a little extra to text her back unless there is a good reason for it. If it ever gets to a point where they are taking 2-3 hours to text back a few days in a row I just stop texting and keep it pushing. It's also important for single men to text as many women as you can. There are always going to be those bored girls that will half text and when you have other conversations going on you will forget about them because you've got others that actually want to talk to you.
i like to keep 4 dishes on my table at all times. When one falls off the table i order another plate
Yep 👍 she doesn’t care what you do are who you do
All good points bro. Keep dropping those gems💎 one last point...If a woman always asking you to take her to the weed spot. She definitely not into you.
Great advice... Always pay attention to a women's body language.. You can learn a lot by asking direct questions as well... Another solid video....
Thanks Donny !
Jeff: 15 Small Signs A Woman Does Not Like You
Me: In shock while every point Jeff makes is horribly accurate...
Also me: I found a 16th point... *shuffles divorce papers*
Ha !
Well duh lol 😂 that’s one easy to see
Solid Vid, gives you what you need to know in a Direct and concise way, that leaves no room for Misunderstanding signals.
Great stuff. I have found being direct about your intentions works the best. Being assertive and being clear about what your looking for can help with not wasting anyone’s time. Obviously the first few weeks or so your getting to know each other but after a few weeks I think you know how you feel and should be able to know where she stands. Another great video! Love it!
Thanks Jason !
Dude, all these signs flow right into how it leads the man to stop talking to a woman-I mean these are the ones that I have always used. We do this without even realizing THESE were the reasons. 😂 you captured it PERFECTLY-put the real OG’s spider senses into words. Awesome life language articulations. 👌🏾🔥
My man !
Great advice! Trust your gut and go out and put yourself out there. Trial and error... eventually you will succeed!
Thanks Shawn !
One of the problems with people is when someone shows and tells you they’re not interested (I don’t like you in that way, I see you as just a friend, etc.) People ignore it and keep pursuing the person. They waste time and feelings on someone who has repeatedly shown they’re not interested. Only to be hurt when you never get together. When someone shows and tells you they’re not interested, believe them. Cut your losses and move on.
I Take it That You once Dated a Cuckold/Beta Male Before...Alpha Males Have a abundant Mind-Set & Wouldn't Have a Problem With Your "EXIT PLANS"!
Because some men have been taught that ladies play hard to get. That concept may be true but not all the time.
Guys are the ones who like to say women like to play hard to get. But women don't say that. Guys just don't want to accept that a girl they like doesn't like them back. So their guy friends will say "She's just playing hard to get."
Great points! I would add the body language of touching - if she is touching you on your hand, arm, chest while conversing it’s a sign she’s flirting with you 💅🏿
Appreciate the input Ms Reid !
Welcome
Always enjoy your content on the ladies...O.G.💕
Can’t speak in general but for me all 15 signs rings true.
Thanks Jadore !
Excellent video Jeff. I’m married and unfortunately your ‘15 small signs..’ apply to me. Oh well, truth be told, I probably knew that to be true before i watched your video. Thanks for helping me open my eyes. I read many of the comments left by others and it’s interesting to note that all the women who left comments agree with you 100%! You’re definitely right on target and it’s amazing how all these ‘small signs’ all add up to some pretty significant insight....Keep up the great work Jeff!...Ed
Salute Ed !
That crisp shirt and cut of that suit is spot on! I call it 'Subtle Flash' brother
Thanks Mike!
@@TheStyleOG Hey Jeff, Have you reviewed the Tailor Store offerings? I have 4 shirts and Chinos. I'm pretty happy with the quality, fit and cust service. Thinking of going for a custom Polo and check those out. Thanks for the Sneakers reviews. They helped. I got the Greats Royale and Beckett & Simonon Ger Arm Trainers. I can also recommend Tecovas and Thursday Boots..
Right on ... I had to learn the hard way lol 😂
It happens !
Well, that settles it...women don't like me all that much.
Jokes aside, I definitely had ignored some of these signs in the past. Great video as always, OG.
Salute!
Jeffery,
Thanks for the great content. My significant and I watched this together and she pointed out an interesting fact: when you're neck deep into a new "relationship" it's often a case of overlooking the obvious signs. Thanks for passing the information on to those who are navigating through the confusing time....Salute!
Salute Edward !
That shirt looks!! 👍🏼👍🏼
Thanks Noe !
I want this taught in all primary school across the globe.
Sir...The Style O.G. You are really patient and Reasonable.
Thanks!
Very good advice. This should be played in high schools across the country. Young men need to know and understand that it's okay if a person is not interested.
Thanks Chandra !
Jeff is always right on it with his content, I love his channel, but, the one thing that has always aggravated me is that, jacked up, raggedy salute, that he does in every video! I know that some may see this as small or trivial, but, if you have ever served in any capacity, it’s a sign of respect and it’s serious business. I had to add that, I consider him to be a professional man, maybe it’s just something that he hadn’t given much thought to.
So your opinion is I should not salute ? Or is it not military crisp enough ?
I got a woman now but another woman was treating me like these signs Jeff explained. Thanks Jeff. I'll remember these tips and pass them along.👍🏾💪🏾
If you only hear from her from 9-5 or her work hours only means she's bored at work and doesn't mind contacting you to kill time, so don't git it twisted. I've done it myself😏 I like seeing how available she'll be on weekends anyway. If you vibe that fellas, bow out gracefully by getting with her homegirl lol. Crush her spirit. She'll do it to you. She'll definitely know what the score really is then champ. Bump her😂 Yall stay strong...💯💯💯
By watching this video I just realized the woman that I really want to be with she's really not into me. This is very educational thank you so much. Looking forward on the next video
Salute Dennis!
Hey OG, great vid. I dated a lady, and I could hear the smile in her voice once she knew it was me on the phone. Best confirmation ever. I never commented cause i didnt want to spoil it.
That is awesome!
As a OG myself a woman is probably doing you a favor when she put you in the friend zone She may not be worth all the trouble of pursuing if there’s so many barriers in between
Excellent video, all facts! I always do my best to let a guy know early on, it’s not a match. I’m humble enough to know also that some men find me Hot and Sexy Wife Material while some men just don’t cause I’m not their type…and thats perfectly okay also. I think if a woman has self respect and class about herself, she will communicate if she believes it’s not a match, if the man in the situation is feeling her but she’s not feeling him. Thats key here, a good woman must ALWAYS be respectful and kind and know that not every man she dates is going to like her like that, it’s about being a mature grown respectful woman of class👑❤️💯 Great video💯
Appreciate it!
😂😂😂 lets get married 😂😂😂
early bird here...Preach!!! man
Salute Tobe !
Man OG I had a moment last week about this subject. I woke up to a Friend Zone text the other day. I knew it was coming cause her running text messages we’re describing another man (sign). I had to make sure my son saw this so he knew what to watch for. When I called her out about it she didn’t even realize she was texting me about another guy. She stated that since she was dating other people she couldn’t keep up with her thoughts... I had such high hopes but I had to put her on bench!!! Then she offered a some of her single friends... I was tempted to tell her to hook me up with two of them just for the runner up prize!!! 😂
She will want you after you smashed at least two of them lol
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Wow! I really love that blue suit coat with that crisp white collar shirt! Looks amazing on you!
You are right on point. Covered each point correctly in my opinion. I can't add a thing on this one.
Salute !
Salute to you Mr Style OG. Fellas don’t let her place you in the friend zone
Salute Brent !
1. She never reaches out to you first. (You’re not on her priority list)
2. Takes a long time to reply back.
3. Her communications are short / not have a lot to say
4. Little to no physical contact
5. Her body language cues are closed
6. She doesn’t smile when she sees you
7. She cancel plans last minute
8. She’s always busy. She has not made spending her time with you a priority.
9. She sees you as a friend and refers to you as nice. Friend zoned.
10. You’ve never met her friends / family.
11. She calls you her friend when I’m front of other people
12. She makes no effort to look her best around you.
13. She flirts with others infront of you
14. She keeps the conversation general
15. I missed one, shoot me.
The real OG this should be pinned.
Very informative, saves me from wasting time and money and emotions on a woman that may not be in too me. Thanks. This also made me laugh.
Appreciate your nuance bro. You're a diplomat, so I know you'd never say it yourself, but I salute how you don't speak in absolutes about female nature, value judgements, what it means to be alpha/beta, etc. Kevin Samuels and other's like him should take notes.
Appreciate the feedback!
When women give the just friends speech, they're really enemies AKA time wasters!
Knocked it out of the park again. SALUTE!
Salute Josh !
And don't forget. If you can't find her on social media when you know she has it, it means she's blocked you and she doesn't want no one to know about you also.
All I needed to here was number 1. Thanks
What us guys might not want to hear but have to. Respect 🙌🏼
Respect!
Yep 👍 lol wow you know a women if a woman don’t keep herself up around you she’s not interested and you she don’t care 🤷🏾♀️ wow very true my friend
The Maestro has spoken! Salute!
Salute!
I'm a woman and I endorse this message.
Thanks !
You are definitely on point, brother.🔥🔥🔥🔥
You so called it on the friend zone. Once in friend zone there is NO getting out. Run! Don’t waste time.
Run !
A man CAN get out of the friend zone..just walk away and lose and stop all contact with her
@@ralphhemphill3989 Yep, that's really the ONLY way to escape the friend zone.
ALL of these are on point. 👍🏼👍🏼
To expand on “leaving you on read”...DON’T text or call later and say “I guess you aren’t interested. Ok then”. If you’re left on read, that’s it. Move on. 👉🏼
Move on !
Huge facts beans n greens!
If she does not like you, she never will. Great video.
It took me years to finally learn how to move on instead of desperately trying to somehow change her mind about me.
Don’t pursue and don’t allow her to have an edge on you.
Facts!!!!
Mr. Jeff you are a very sharp man. Thank you for the video.
Appreciate it!
Style OG, covering all angles and perspectives! Gotta have that "full picture" to know how to proceed. 😎👍 "I don't see nothing wrong.....with a lil......." 🗣️ 🎶 Nice upload man!
Thanks!
Two days in a row! Respect! 🙌
Respect David !
This is SPOT ON!
Appreciate the feedback Laia !
Man oh man thank you for this brother right here. Keep speaking facts and hopefully yall brothers are checking this brother out for he has wisdom for days and possibly for preparation of some of your futures.
Salute Tyrone !
Keep dropping those Gems..... Salute O.G.!
Will do Eric !
Keep these great topics coming, O.G.! I could have used this advice back in the day.
Will do Steven !
Salute to the king of all kings O.G Jeff the style O.G is in the building let's go 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Salute Troy !
Good advice Jeff, I wish I had known these things years ago.
Thanks Will !
Big Bro you already know I'm rocking with you all day. Lol you should do a "SIMP" tour around the world to educate these "PEONS" running behind these women. All men should love/respect and protect our women and all women but somtimes these brothaz drink too much SIMP juice!!!!!! SALUTE!!!! "THUMBS UP"🥊🔔
I can think of a few more guys..your welcome!
16. she pepper sprays you.
17. screams when you are within 5 meters of her
18. she files a restraining order
19. she doesn't say SALUTE
LMAOO
Number 16. 😂😂😂
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1: Texting
2: Choice of words
These are true make or break before anything can move forward in a relationship. Pay attention to the signs fellas.
Pay attention!