"The best relationship advice that I have received.." - Matthew Hussey

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  • @ThinkItThroughOfficial
    @ThinkItThroughOfficial  10 місяців тому +49

    Achieve Financial Freedom: bit.ly/45Ovrmm

  • @livelife9644
    @livelife9644 Рік тому +8612

    "And then be that list"
    Welp that took a turn lol.
    Was not expecting that.

  • @Musashii99
    @Musashii99 Рік тому +4264

    My dad always said everyone wants the perfect person but they never want to be the perfect person that really inspired me to better myself for others

  • @diamondstuddedpunchingbag4718
    @diamondstuddedpunchingbag4718 Рік тому +552

    Don't find someone who just makes you happy find someone who makes you a better person

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 Рік тому +2

      Amen that's definitely the truth

    • @enlightenedwriter
      @enlightenedwriter Рік тому

      Basically my pfp and soulmates

    • @positivevibe7684
      @positivevibe7684 Рік тому +5

      I've found that no one can make you happy...thats a tough job. Being happy is an inside job. They can bring happiness to the relationship. 💕

    • @SandraWatts-er7iy
      @SandraWatts-er7iy 7 місяців тому

      @@positivevibe7684 hi

    • @Fredlucas-ef9et
      @Fredlucas-ef9et 7 місяців тому

      Hello

  • @charlesgwynnethicasiano6719
    @charlesgwynnethicasiano6719 Рік тому +486

    That "be that list" is such a great twist and an honest advice to apply tbh. Because you simply can't demand something from someone if you aren't capable of delivering the same thing. And if "you are" that list, then the process of dating gets easier because you get to save your energy.

    • @QueenGray-te3ji
      @QueenGray-te3ji 11 місяців тому

      You are so beautiful you should be every man dreams ,you are wife material

    • @obed203
      @obed203 11 місяців тому +4

      Nice comment can we please be friends

    • @princehamdanfaz-kd3cx
      @princehamdanfaz-kd3cx 11 місяців тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @SteveAustin-kg4en
      @SteveAustin-kg4en 9 місяців тому +4

      Hey how are you doing today

    • @princehamdanfaz-kd3cx
      @princehamdanfaz-kd3cx 9 місяців тому

      @@SteveAustin-kg4en i also believe you must have heard little about me

  • @didileong4116
    @didileong4116 10 місяців тому +49

    his 'best relationship' advice was fabulous. it's called 'taking responsibility.'

  • @closetculture3025
    @closetculture3025 Рік тому +743

    Worst: Make it work no matter the situation.
    Best: Find someone who challenges you to be the best version of yourself, but won't bully you into being someone else.

    • @vivekamar99
      @vivekamar99 Рік тому +6

      Nice!

    • @moonlight29000
      @moonlight29000 Рік тому +6

      I needed to hear this today❤

    • @MartinJaxson
      @MartinJaxson 11 місяців тому +6

      You're right. Everything is possible when you both understand each other and share more ideas. Sounds good to me ❤❤

    • @obed203
      @obed203 11 місяців тому

      Wow you have a beautiful comment and I love your comments, can we please be close friends

    • @Keertika_Mirabilli
      @Keertika_Mirabilli 10 місяців тому +1

      I exactly wanted to listen to this thing... I was confused between these both, Thank you😊

  • @Fox1nDen
    @Fox1nDen Рік тому +484

    Be that , be what l look for... Awesome advice

  • @moniashelli9502
    @moniashelli9502 Рік тому +323

    Agreed on the worst advice
    I was in a relationship with a person who loved me And i kept saying to myself it’s ok as along as they love me I’ll learn to love them…
    Spoiler alert , i did not love him in the end
    My heart was not happy I wasn’t happy there was something missing I didn’t know…
    This was my first relationship,,,
    I am still waiting for the right person💜
    I learned that you are not obligated to love someone back this is something i struggle with i feel like i always should give something back to please others..
    You’ll lose yourself.
    Don’t do that
    Accept your feelings and learn to put yourself first

    • @yasminevine
      @yasminevine Рік тому +15

      Yes I agree. It's important to be with someone you truly desire that makes your heart happy. Otherwise they are just feeding your ego. I canceled a date tonight cause he really likes me and I don't like him as much 🤷‍♀️

    • @sincerelysj6997
      @sincerelysj6997 Рік тому +11

      It’s not okay to be with someone that you don’t equally 100% love each other. Not 50% not 40/60%… 100%. I love that you spoke truth. ❤

    • @alfawasac
      @alfawasac Рік тому +1

      💜

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 Рік тому +4

      This is true in some cases not everyone

    • @moniashelli9502
      @moniashelli9502 Рік тому +2

      @@fredajohnson506 can you give an example ?
      I can’t think of any scenario where you’re obligated to love someone just because they love you

  • @preciousadorable7416
    @preciousadorable7416 Рік тому +125

    "Find someone who loves you more than you love them." Here is my perspective; if you know you're generally the type to prioritize your partner's needs and have this nurturing personality towards your lover but these same things were hardly reciprocated in your past relationships then I honestly see where this advice may come in handy.. I mean everyone deserves to experience the positive things they contribute in their relationship be reciprocated. It's like hey I am a passionate lover, natural giver but it will be great to find someone who loves me more than I love them, so I do not "overdo" things in my relationship.

    • @Howtonaturally
      @Howtonaturally Рік тому +8

      I think you've just described a person who either needs to be by themselves or they need to go through therapy because they are not ready for a serious relationship. You confirmed this by stating they have hang ups from a previous bad relationship. They haven't healed and all the person you are describing is doing is taking their trauma into another relationship.

    • @bhoomiverma1216
      @bhoomiverma1216 Рік тому +8

      the first instinct should always be to love .....! to put the other first..! if you'll think through everything...... I don't think that person would ever knock your door....! I've had bad experiences....., but i didn't leave my ability behind.
      it was the other person's pov that he couldn't get me.....
      but i think that someone will understand your efforts and give you more than that !
      and you needn't ask that from him...!
      you love them not because they told you to love them, you love them because you fell for them!
      you must be able to melt the other person with your love and genuine care!

    • @BassamRiyad367
      @BassamRiyad367 7 місяців тому +1

      @@bhoomiverma1216 greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing

    • @BassamRiyad367
      @BassamRiyad367 7 місяців тому +1

      Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing

    • @user-ge6jf8xu3q
      @user-ge6jf8xu3q 7 місяців тому

      @@Howtonaturally hello my belove

  • @akindelegbolahan4149
    @akindelegbolahan4149 Рік тому +180

    If you want to find a 10, you must become a 10

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 Рік тому +4

      No one going find a ten because no one perfect that's what number ten first of all a woman is not supposed find the man he supposed find her and both supposed be equally yoke that's what bible says otherwise you're going be going through realationship like open doors

    • @user-oh8sk8ny5f
      @user-oh8sk8ny5f 7 місяців тому

      Yes

    • @YellshacodeMary
      @YellshacodeMary 7 місяців тому

      Hey

  • @rebeccaward4563
    @rebeccaward4563 Рік тому +167

    this got me in the feels. the guy asking the questions is so gorgeous!

    • @ThinkItThroughOfficial
      @ThinkItThroughOfficial  Рік тому +12

      The name's Jay Shetty. ;)

    • @SmartRobot-wc2fb
      @SmartRobot-wc2fb Рік тому +1

      @@ThinkItThroughOfficial Indian, probably!

    • @rebeccaward4563
      @rebeccaward4563 Рік тому +1

      I've only just seen these likes and the responses lol hey Jay Shetty lol

    • @rahulas2002
      @rahulas2002 Рік тому +2

      ​@@SmartRobot-wc2fb yes

    • @obed203
      @obed203 11 місяців тому +1

      Hey how are you doing today can we please be friends

  • @castertroy8850
    @castertroy8850 Рік тому +261

    True That. The first part. Heard it so many times. Its not great to be in that position. You marry Someone who loves you immensely and you don't feel the same and you feel bad for not being able to give back the love you are receiving. :(

    • @stuffIneverforgotfrom90s
      @stuffIneverforgotfrom90s Рік тому +5

      Thankyou I needed to read this as I was wondering what could be wrong in that thought. Thanks.

    • @lawtraf8008
      @lawtraf8008 Рік тому +5

      I'm in that situation. Have this amazing girl who love me to death but it's not mutual. We're not together, I like her a lot but I know she likes way more than I like her.

    • @SmartRobot-wc2fb
      @SmartRobot-wc2fb Рік тому +6

      @@lawtraf8008 Then, be truly honest with her!

    • @kawsarabdi1803
      @kawsarabdi1803 Рік тому +1

      @@lawtraf8008 even me i have a boy like that and everytime he proposed me and i say give me time😢

    • @victoro1373
      @victoro1373 Рік тому +1

      Lol, the first part is frustrating. Very frustrating

  • @nasirubello3098
    @nasirubello3098 10 місяців тому +130

    Leaving a relationship you’re not happy in is much easier than emotionally damaging someone. But selfish people don’t get that

    • @francaperichault9486
      @francaperichault9486 10 місяців тому +2

      You just stated fact and we have to be sure if our partners aren't cheating and deceiving us

    • @nasirubello3098
      @nasirubello3098 10 місяців тому +1

      Yes but the problem is how do we catch a cheating partner

    • @danekphilip7954
      @danekphilip7954 10 місяців тому +1

      Through the help of an hacker, I know about one who helped me access my wife's phone last month

    • @Edward432
      @Edward432 10 місяців тому

      Please how do I get in touch with this hacker?

    • @danekphilip7954
      @danekphilip7954 10 місяців тому +1

      you can get in touch with him on

  • @herasdei
    @herasdei Рік тому +20

    Mine would be; Love yourself enough to have a defined relationship with the person you want. Make sure there's an alignment to vision and set your priorities right. You both should also be ready to put in work.

  • @thelioness5652
    @thelioness5652 Рік тому +89

    What I got from this video is that #1 real love is equal from both the sides, not more or less on one side or another #2 you don't get what you want instead you get what you are .Thank you .🥰

    • @noexcuses5524
      @noexcuses5524 Рік тому +3

      Then ask urself how come there are higher divorced rate in love marriages? lol
      From what i saw . People last long if one love the other person more and other person is so so but as time passed the so so person love will blossom too and ends up in marriage.

    • @MiaMalkova-eq5yb
      @MiaMalkova-eq5yb 7 місяців тому

      Hey 👋

  • @BIBLE-a-s-m-r
    @BIBLE-a-s-m-r Рік тому +15

    Someone who can laugh and roll with my odd modes and humor, who won’t get mad that I walk into stuff and forget things a lot. Someone who never makes me feel like my innate playfulness is annoying or too much or god forbid, immature in some way.
    Someone who genuinely wants to explore life, try new things all the time, and who is eager to please me. (Because I’m always the one that is more eager and thoughtful).
    Someone who is good with where their money goes, and who wants with all their heart to be the best human (and parent and friend and partner) they can be.
    Yeah, I guess I do have stuff to do before I am matched

    • @MsughveJoseph
      @MsughveJoseph 10 місяців тому

      hold each other in high esteem, believe in one another-often more than you each believe in yourselves-and trust that your partner is doing his/her best with what they've got.

    • @Ezeigbo1
      @Ezeigbo1 7 місяців тому

      lolzzz, just exactly like me

    • @user-lh5dr4dz5f
      @user-lh5dr4dz5f 7 місяців тому +1

      Are you really sure about this.... 🤔🤔🤔

    • @Ezeigbo1
      @Ezeigbo1 7 місяців тому

      @@user-lh5dr4dz5f yes. I am, you want to test me

    • @BassamRiyad367
      @BassamRiyad367 7 місяців тому +1

      Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing today

  • @noexcuses5524
    @noexcuses5524 Рік тому +28

    Number one i stan for that. I dont think it is a bad advice. My boss also told me that same quotes.... find someone who loves u more than u love him. I nvr listen cus duh i just cannot be with someone i dont like. I always reject guys i never like and i did not give them a chance and go for the one i really love the most. I broke that pattern
    I am with handsome man, generous, supportive, loyal, honest , rich and he propose to me at age 30 yrs old. At first i didnt fancy him ( didnt like him) but as time passed by. I start loving him . So much so that were finally married. And he spoils me lots just like how i spoil him
    And yes love do grow as time passed by. I dont see that quotes as negative unless u r with a person for hidden agenda then thats just being fraud, user.

    • @marianaramirez3828
      @marianaramirez3828 Рік тому +1

      OHHHH ME TOO. My Dad said this to me. First time got my heart broken. I honestly think its a great advice for a Woman

    • @et3_z948
      @et3_z948 Рік тому +1

      No you just settled because you were passed around so much before you realised if you don't settle now you'll be alone. Haha

  • @GmonkeyJ777
    @GmonkeyJ777 Рік тому +22

    "...and then be that list"
    It's so cool how a few words can have such an affect and deepen the strength of such a clichéd idea

  • @DN-rt7tl
    @DN-rt7tl Рік тому +46

    This is the best advice actually.Find Someone who really loves you and love them back in equal measure.For as you go through life you will realize how hard and rare it is to find such a person.

    • @nilanjasa007
      @nilanjasa007 Рік тому

      I think it's good to be with a person who loves you equally or more than you love them. They will appreciate you in their life more. This helps in happy relationships.

    • @annaramotso3001
      @annaramotso3001 Рік тому

      Thanks so much God bless you more and more

    • @lalawmpuii8097
      @lalawmpuii8097 Рік тому

      Damn ur words is true friend

    • @noexcuses5524
      @noexcuses5524 Рік тому +2

      There is no such thing as equal and people who expects that ends up in divorce cus there expectation was not meet. Ask urself why 50-50 love ends up in divorce ?
      You know finding someone that loves u more than u love them is fuckin rare. Its like trying to look for a one treasure in a pile of golds, diamons, emeralds,ruby, platinums, golds

  • @gule111
    @gule111 Рік тому +56

    My best advice was find someone who loves you at your worst

    • @MsughveJoseph
      @MsughveJoseph 10 місяців тому +4

      hold each other in high esteem, believe in one another-often more than you each believe in yourselves-and trust that your partner is doing his/her best with what they've got.

    • @BassamRiyad367
      @BassamRiyad367 7 місяців тому

      Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing

    • @David-jx4wm
      @David-jx4wm 7 місяців тому

      Hello

    • @YellshacodeMary
      @YellshacodeMary 7 місяців тому

      Hello

    • @BassamRiyad367
      @BassamRiyad367 7 місяців тому

      @@YellshacodeMary greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing

  • @ARS-fn6px
    @ARS-fn6px Рік тому +58

    The first one actually applies to men, because men are incapable of growing to love a woman, they do or they dont, nothing in between. But a woman can grow to love a man, thats why its important for women to make sure he likes het more than she likes him. Its literally life saving for the woman, because a man you love more will annihilate you especially if youre self sacrificing. Ive seen it time and time again and my mother almost lost her life over loving my father too much.

    • @bhoomiverma1216
      @bhoomiverma1216 Рік тому +15

      I'm sorry if I'm offending men....
      but in my opinion, men usually fall for beauty....
      a woman who loves a man more has much more to offer....
      a man who knows he's a man but understands that love is something more than his manliness, will understand the love women bring.
      women do have this thing for growing in love, but that doesn't mean men are incapable of doing so ..!
      Men should understand, if, not only a woman, but an intelligent woman starts investing in you, she has definitely seen something in you...!
      and you must never let that go because then you're gonna fall for her harder!

    • @ARS-fn6px
      @ARS-fn6px Рік тому +2

      @@bhoomiverma1216 thank you 🙏🏾✨

    • @exbunkbedanimations7894
      @exbunkbedanimations7894 Рік тому +2

      @@ShivamSingh-tc7to On top of that, women typically care about looks much more than men, and not just genetically but he also has to be big, as in tall and muscular. And quite possibly the most important thing a man has to have (for a women to find him attractive) is his SOCIAL STATUS

    • @exbunkbedanimations7894
      @exbunkbedanimations7894 Рік тому +1

      @@bhoomiverma1216 I had a stroke trying to read this comment

  • @TN-fu3mw
    @TN-fu3mw Рік тому +8

    BE THAT LIST⭐

  • @avasmith8240
    @avasmith8240 Рік тому +148

    My Mum always used to say that about #1. But after 30 yrs, I discovered it is true because you will grow to love that person. ❤

    • @babalwarada3045
      @babalwarada3045 Рік тому +4

    • @bashbashbashu
      @bashbashbashu Рік тому

      That's Stockholm syndrome

    • @GirlsLikeFairies
      @GirlsLikeFairies Рік тому +15

      Yes.. They make you realize your worth.. Nothing better than that.. You end up loving them..

    • @tiffanyfoxworth3491
      @tiffanyfoxworth3491 Рік тому +27

      I think this works for women not men

    • @decemberdecember4401
      @decemberdecember4401 Рік тому +6

      @@tiffanyfoxworth3491 No person who loves you deserves your respect and love.. Never waste time behind a person who doesn't have a heart for you.. If you do you are a fool..

  • @Allofanl
    @Allofanl Рік тому +12

    i noted down what i want in my partner, and i tried being that , like 5years.... i was in toxic relationship, believe me if they don't share same feeling, it's not worth it... never over love someone never

  • @Username_me1618
    @Username_me1618 Рік тому +15

    The first advice is not the worst. It actually works..

    • @noexcuses5524
      @noexcuses5524 Рік тому +1

      Yes this guy is still single he doesnt know sht lol
      He was with camilla cabello and she broke his heart

    • @apexrager88
      @apexrager88 Місяць тому +1

      That type of love comes from fear and ultimately if you do that you're either limiting to potential of your relationship or settling for someone who you don't truly love just so you can't get hurt. Which is cowardly and a waste a everyone involves time. Love courageously or don't love at all

  • @localone1597
    @localone1597 Рік тому +8

    That is so true. Me and a woman had a discussion like that years ago. She said list everything you want in a partner. Be honest and check how many of those things you are. Most people are not what they want in someone else.

  • @hankhill3417
    @hankhill3417 Рік тому +32

    The person that cares most always loses

  • @Kehkasha_123
    @Kehkasha_123 Рік тому +8

    Yes, that was the worst relationship advice. My ex boyfriend never made me feel loved because he never loved me inreal. He was with me just because I loved him, not because he feels for me. It was his first relationship, and one day I had asked him that why we are together ? He said that he have heard somewhere that "Be with someone who loves you, not with someone whom you love." That killed me from inside and outside.

    • @Carlojean-ux7ni
      @Carlojean-ux7ni 7 місяців тому

      Hey' I'll like to know more about you only if you gonna allow me pls😢

    • @Kehkasha_123
      @Kehkasha_123 7 місяців тому

      @@Carlojean-ux7ni He was a narsisstic and it's a mental disorder, he had manipulated me, guilt tripping, gave me silent treatment, used to gaslight and one day I found out that he was cheating on me with my cousin whom once I considered my best friend. Now, I have been cut off with both of them.

    • @Steph1
      @Steph1 3 місяці тому

      @@Kehkasha_123sounds like his lack of love or that quote wasn’t the problem, his entire personality is f*cked up 😅

    • @Kehkasha_123
      @Kehkasha_123 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Steph1 Yeah, I am glad he is no longer in my life. I wish nobody go through that situation in their life which I have suffered.

  • @MrTriumph111
    @MrTriumph111 Рік тому +6

    Its kinda good one because those are the people who'll never leave you, will try understanding you better atleast. There are 1 in a million chances that two people love each other equally. So if you gonna find someone you love more , you will easily be manipulated in the future.

  • @darsin7860
    @darsin7860 Рік тому +20

    Best advice I got is love slow it go love fast it won’t last

  • @cielostack2698
    @cielostack2698 Рік тому +7

    I’m the list for every person I meet. Doesn’t mean those people stick around…

  • @leloupleclair4685
    @leloupleclair4685 Рік тому +13

    Make sure you still have your life/goals/dreams, don't become just apart of someone else's life...
    Self love self respect comes first.. if you dont love yourself, dont expect anyone else to...
    .. if your partner doesn't respect you..than they won't/dont love u.

  • @senasezer422
    @senasezer422 Рік тому +50

    Wow I accidentally took that best advice in high school then lol. I put all my effort into being "that person" and I met "that person" soon after I graduated. Without entertaining anyone else beforehand. Fast forward some years, we are currently engaged.

    • @fai411
      @fai411 Рік тому +4

      This gave me hope,thank you for sharing your story. I pray & hope that the two of you shall remain together forever in a healthy bond 🤍

    • @dhanishshah4630
      @dhanishshah4630 10 місяців тому

      Wow you are very lucky and I hope you stay together

  • @willis4685
    @willis4685 Рік тому +7

    Thats a good one..I think the (one) will come into your life and just makes you exceptionally better..without even realizing it..

  • @Be1smaht
    @Be1smaht Рік тому +21

    I am what I am looking for.... that's why it's hard to find someone

  • @alidahines9773
    @alidahines9773 Рік тому +7

    I think the ‘worst advice’ mentioned is the best advice. You want someone who adores you and if they don’t, you should run.

    • @user-og8fr2zd3o
      @user-og8fr2zd3o 7 місяців тому

      Hello, how are you doing today

    • @LarryHenry-pu1qz
      @LarryHenry-pu1qz 7 місяців тому

      Hello , its my pleasure to have you here now and would be very glad if we get to know more about our self if you dont mind

    • @Emilyparker-ju7xf
      @Emilyparker-ju7xf 5 місяців тому

      True

  • @camuyana
    @camuyana Рік тому +8

    Wow! That second answer was so unexpected and got me choked up.

    • @MartinJaxson
      @MartinJaxson 11 місяців тому

      You're right. Everything is possible when you both understand each other and share more ideas. Sounds good to me ❤❤

    • @RobinFrank-vl6ht
      @RobinFrank-vl6ht 7 місяців тому

      Hello dear

    • @jaywebb-sy1ub
      @jaywebb-sy1ub 7 місяців тому

      Hi queen of beauti ❤

    • @MagicMan-qb9xm
      @MagicMan-qb9xm 7 місяців тому

      Hi beautiful
      How are you doing ?

    • @TomEllisofficial
      @TomEllisofficial 7 місяців тому

      Perfect said darlin

  • @jenniferjennyjen211
    @jenniferjennyjen211 2 місяці тому +2

    "And be that list," that hits hard and very enlightening. Thanks again.

  • @mmc1086
    @mmc1086 Рік тому +6

    I am the list already. Faithful, honest, respectful, genuine, physically attractive (i am told), sex drive, keep myself in shape, work to pay my own bills, kind and funny. And I’m alone at 38. So sick of this.

    • @Mega_official-454
      @Mega_official-454 7 місяців тому

      Hi can we be friends

    • @Steph1
      @Steph1 3 місяці тому

      Do you put yourself in enough situations to meet enough people to have a good chance of meeting a person that’s a good match?
      Eg high quantity of people by going to bars every week, or low quantity but high quality by getting a great dating service that finds people that fit your ideal partner profile

  • @himanshusindhu6505
    @himanshusindhu6505 Рік тому +74

    Thank you so much for posting this💯

  • @Optimus77Prime
    @Optimus77Prime Рік тому +8

    This is the most BADASS advice about relationship ever. I heard that once that you should become who you want to have in your partner.

  • @Jarcano8
    @Jarcano8 Рік тому +2

    THIS is why I love your channel Matthew.

  • @k54rabie3
    @k54rabie3 Рік тому +4

    I always follow the best relationship advice ✌🏻
    If I wish a person to have some habits or qualities, I adopt that habits and build myself according to that.

  • @user-yj3rk2cs4d
    @user-yj3rk2cs4d 6 місяців тому +3

    True love is good

  • @arifahmustafa2768
    @arifahmustafa2768 Рік тому +5

    Worst advise is to compromise. This word.means so many things and it includes one giving up something but the other spouse doesn't.

  • @erikaeerikainen5184
    @erikaeerikainen5184 Рік тому +1

    My mother told me back then, find someone who loves you more than you love him. Maybe that has subconsciosly stayed in my mind.. Because I have been very sad and unhappy since as a teen, and it’s getting worse every ear. My previous relationships were very toxic. Now 23 soon 24 and I thought that I found the love of my life.. Kind way this is toxic too because my man got mental issues but he’s more suicidal. He’s trying genuesly best that he can to meet my needs. But I’m so broken because Im scared of him, being with him and I feel like emotionally abandoned because these no room for my feelings. I have developed a fake smile at home as it was long previosly at everywhere else.
    Thank you if you read this, im sorry if you’re broken too❤️❤️

  • @jamesjames9932
    @jamesjames9932 Рік тому +2

    Do onto others what you want them to do onto you. Is like give and take. If you don't show yourself as an example of something good, you can't expect the other person to do the same.

  • @CAD10369
    @CAD10369 10 місяців тому +3

    Wow !! best relationship Advice....

    • @LarryHenry-pu1qz
      @LarryHenry-pu1qz 7 місяців тому

      Hello , its my pleasure to have you here now and would be very glad if we get to know more about our self if you dont mind

  • @jonathanesayiasberhe3222
    @jonathanesayiasberhe3222 Рік тому +22

    Pufff, that's exactly what I got out Jordan Peterson talks.

  • @baieric6353
    @baieric6353 Рік тому +2

    I literally figured the best one he said at the age of 20 and been doing that and telling others ever since. It’s the most important thing to know yourself before starting

  • @anne-marieh6128
    @anne-marieh6128 10 місяців тому +2

    Wow! Nailed It!

    • @LarryHenry-pu1qz
      @LarryHenry-pu1qz 7 місяців тому

      Hello , its my pleasure to have you here now and would be very glad if we get to know more about our self if you dont mind

    • @paulgorm7675
      @paulgorm7675 5 місяців тому

      Hey can we be friends

  • @AsimaGuruBahasa
    @AsimaGuruBahasa 10 місяців тому +13

    I wish I heard these advice when I first born. 😌

    • @Raaaaaaaaaaaaaa.j
      @Raaaaaaaaaaaaaa.j 10 місяців тому +1

      Nowadays, girls just want guys with 3x their salary ..it's like a product selling, jitni hot girl, utna rich guy chahiye & *they hate if the boy has a younger sibling too!*

    • @user-lh5dr4dz5f
      @user-lh5dr4dz5f 7 місяців тому +1

      Ohhj am so sorry about that 😢

    • @Scottbrown-bs3lb
      @Scottbrown-bs3lb 7 місяців тому +2

      You can still get them now , it’s not late

    • @BassamRiyad367
      @BassamRiyad367 7 місяців тому +2

      Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing

    • @AsimaGuruBahasa
      @AsimaGuruBahasa 7 місяців тому

      @@BassamRiyad367 good good thank you bro, how about you?

  • @kellievanellie
    @kellievanellie Рік тому +53

    Hahaha the worst advice example is what my mom’s always told me 😂

    • @peacelove4215
      @peacelove4215 Рік тому +3

      It's litterly what my neice (who's unofficially engaged) says is the best thing about her man 🤦‍♀️

    • @henryberry6687
      @henryberry6687 Рік тому +2

      Not a great advice for me.

    • @christinainthecity
      @christinainthecity Рік тому

      my mom & my sister always tells me this, lol

  • @AbhiravTheBand
    @AbhiravTheBand Місяць тому

    How honestly he answers 🥺 we can clearly seen in hies eyes

  • @satyamsingh3495
    @satyamsingh3495 Рік тому +2

    2nd was really great advice, you shouldn't want anything from love, instead you should just love them.
    By following that advice, you can love someone instead of wanting/needing someone

  • @Nopeneveragain444
    @Nopeneveragain444 Рік тому +3

    Wheeeewwwww!!!! He’s at it again 😮‍💨👏 love it

  • @murshidarakhondker8569
    @murshidarakhondker8569 Рік тому +4

    Seriously 2 best answers

  • @ALT-AdultLifeTube
    @ALT-AdultLifeTube 8 місяців тому

    TRUTH!!!

  • @user-wc6ku9dr7l
    @user-wc6ku9dr7l 9 місяців тому +1

    Perfectly said,, Praise God,Hallelluiah!❤❤❤

  • @wordforlife1585
    @wordforlife1585 Рік тому +8

    Only God loves you more than you love Him.
    You need to love others the way you love yourself.
    It works perfectly 🥰

  • @Sammy-sm4yg
    @Sammy-sm4yg Рік тому +15

    I don't agree with the worst advice. I think it's okay if you be with someone who loves you more than you love them. Love doesn't happen in a single day, it's a slow process, sometimes you fall in love almost immediately, sometimes it takes you months and probably years.

    • @noexcuses5524
      @noexcuses5524 Рік тому +2

      Thats true it took me months to love my husband to see his worth and he never gave up on me cus he love so much and i thank him for that. We are happily marriage now.
      My boss told me that quotes whrn i work fastfood and i reject it in a heartbeat cus at that time i was young and my pride and ego wont permit it.

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 Рік тому

      Well in way that good and then it's not because some people love so deeply that end up thinking you are there possession

    • @MsughveJoseph
      @MsughveJoseph 10 місяців тому

      hold each other in high esteem, believe in one another-often more than you each believe in yourselves-and trust that your partner is doing his/her best with what they've got.

    • @BassamRiyad367
      @BassamRiyad367 7 місяців тому

      Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing today

    • @SandraWatts-er7iy
      @SandraWatts-er7iy 7 місяців тому

      Hi

  • @violetagonzalezsalazar9985
    @violetagonzalezsalazar9985 Рік тому

    I love that vision

  • @kimberlysanchez5321
    @kimberlysanchez5321 Рік тому

    This is a 🔑, unlock your self, be that list! Profound and well said gentlemen! I follow material like this to arm me with material to guide my son. Thank you both !! for your individual work !!

  • @julie3722
    @julie3722 Рік тому +4

    Non of those is important. You decide to be with someone because you just appreciate them who they are and they appreciate you as well.

    • @WilliamsPerez-ev1vq
      @WilliamsPerez-ev1vq 4 місяці тому

      Yes my dear that's true you love who you love as he is and he loves you as you I think you're making a good sense there my dear❤

  • @bonnier2007
    @bonnier2007 9 місяців тому +7

    Worst advice: Be in a relationship
    Best advice: Don't be in a relationship.
    Relationships I'd say is the worst thing someone can do to themselves. It's heart breaking and at the end there was nothing special about it. Because they'll turn around and find another person and you meant nothing. Everything you went through with that person good and bad meant nothing.

  • @harlan2303
    @harlan2303 День тому

    Love is not about finding the perfect person.
    Its about seeing an imperfect person perfectly

  • @Jimvandesteeg
    @Jimvandesteeg Рік тому +1

    Whatever person in relationship that cares the least is in power in said relationship. Always be able to walk away!

  • @Catra_Adora
    @Catra_Adora 10 місяців тому +12

    The worst: love ur partner more than ur kids
    The best: a good relationship is built off a good friendship

    • @MarkusSommer-qq9ql
      @MarkusSommer-qq9ql 7 місяців тому

      Hey dear, all I know is that true love is most important thing in life so keep it up

  • @shida2772
    @shida2772 Рік тому +4

    U can't find someone who loves you more then you do love happens to u and stays in your life if it is in ur destiny n love is always equal from both sides if it is not equal it is not love there is nothing like less love or more love love is love

    • @chocomellie
      @chocomellie 29 днів тому

      But a lot of people dont know what love is .. if you love a woman and you cheat and she would never, love is still equal? I believe not.

  • @ArjumandMahal
    @ArjumandMahal 9 місяців тому

    Brilliant as ever!

  • @tessahirons2346
    @tessahirons2346 2 місяці тому

    Find somone you love so much and that loves you so much that nobody knows who loves who more❤

  • @nicolebanks5266
    @nicolebanks5266 Рік тому +11

    My granny told me “don’t bite off more than you can chew.” If you start your marriage doing everything in the house for your husband and he doesn’t have to lift a finger. Don’t get mad when you’re older and need help around the house and he won’t move. 😅

    • @MsughveJoseph
      @MsughveJoseph 10 місяців тому

      hold each other in high esteem, believe in one another-often more than you each believe in yourselves-and trust that your partner is doing his/her best with what they've got.

    • @JeffreyWiggins-ti6cn
      @JeffreyWiggins-ti6cn 7 місяців тому

      Hi I don't really think that's true

  • @fromninetothrive
    @fromninetothrive Рік тому +7

    I don’t want to be a tall handsome man though 😢😩😂

  • @CarlAlbert-jv6di
    @CarlAlbert-jv6di 7 місяців тому

    I totally agree with you on that. Because I believe that is the key to a perfect relationship❤❤❤

  • @irv7332
    @irv7332 4 місяці тому +1

    Bars. Simply put.

  • @Loupoonug23
    @Loupoonug23 Рік тому +2

    Love is not only a feeling or only about receiving.

  • @maggies420
    @maggies420 Рік тому +3

    thank you ❤️

  • @Inspired-oj3os
    @Inspired-oj3os 3 місяці тому +1

    This has to be the best one ❤👏🏼

  • @ifbut_then
    @ifbut_then Рік тому +1

    Relationships are complex.. people change over the period and if your lists still remains the same there is gonna be a problem...
    For me relationship is like a team working on a project...njoy and understand each other

  • @mamaaliaz9236
    @mamaaliaz9236 Рік тому +14

    Number 1 is for women, because generally, men love disappear much faster, number 2 is for men, because generally women would give everything to the men they're with and stick to him no matter what

    • @jgray1831
      @jgray1831 Рік тому

      Idk about that last one

  • @poojah730
    @poojah730 8 місяців тому +5

    Worst =adjustment is the key for a good relationship
    Best= understanding is the best thing in a relationship

  • @tyeshayecamille7643
    @tyeshayecamille7643 Рік тому +1

    This is good!! And so true

    • @MsughveJoseph
      @MsughveJoseph 10 місяців тому

      hold each other in high esteem, believe in one another-often more than you each believe in yourselves-and trust that your partner is doing his/her best with what they've got.

  • @brainylaishram4350
    @brainylaishram4350 Рік тому

    I just love him each and every response each and every solution he suggest is sooooooo damn gooooood.. much love and respect for you 🤍

  • @hipreference
    @hipreference Рік тому +6

    This is how you have all these women turning themselves into the men they want.
    That’s not how it works imo. My mother always taught me love is like a dance. It wasn’t until later in life that I realized the truth. To women love is a dance, to men love is the act of making music. The man plucks the strings of the guitar 🎸while the woman blossoms into passion caught in her own dance 💃 He sets the tone, she reacts in real time to what she is feeling and expresses that.

    • @lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559
      @lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 Рік тому

      He was likely talking about character traits like kindness, generosity, fairness and patience. Those traits have nothing to do with gender, and they're important in long-term partnership. Matt's point was that you cannot reasonably expect them of a potential partner if you're not embodying them yourself.
      I just noticed that this channel is called 'Think it through'. How ironic.

    • @neily1279
      @neily1279 7 місяців тому

      And do you ever practice that or learnt from your mother's taught?

    • @MiaMalkova-eq5yb
      @MiaMalkova-eq5yb 7 місяців тому

      Hey 👋

  • @randa8785
    @randa8785 Рік тому +34

    Find someone who loves you more than you love them is the BEST advice for women

    • @odelekevictor3895
      @odelekevictor3895 Рік тому +2

      And why is it good for women but not men ?

    • @annanderson3985
      @annanderson3985 Рік тому +2

      For sure too bad it doesn't often work out that way

    • @shubhangisingh2339
      @shubhangisingh2339 Рік тому +8

      No. That love can change at any given time due to any given reason. You cannot rely on that. That would be stupidity. Love is a feeling. It is 100% possible that it could change. So, even in practicality, Matthew a correct.

    • @odelekevictor3895
      @odelekevictor3895 Рік тому +4

      @@shubhangisingh2339 Affection is a feeling ....Love is more than a feeling it's a decision too, a commitment to stick through till the end. It's only sensible to find someone who is playing fair and also believing the same. It's a shame that love has been so misconceived in present day world...

    • @namrataagarwal3279
      @namrataagarwal3279 Рік тому +1

      Very very true. Same experience

  • @TechWiz1983
    @TechWiz1983 3 місяці тому

    This is 💯 correct! Live your life EXACTLY in accordance to what you desire to attract. ZERO DOUBLE OR TRIPLE STANDARDS ✌️

  • @jjxd3n_
    @jjxd3n_ Місяць тому +1

    He’s figured it out, very powerful

  • @rhanna12
    @rhanna12 Рік тому +3

    Heard the first one many times before.
    I think I realized though, for myself at least, I’ll do more my part if I’m into the person as well. If I found someone who is into me more than I’m into them, I feel I would let the person do the relationship work more of the time because I’d have little relationship motivation. I think I see the appeal to have someone do that work. I’m sure love can be grown over time for people with one person gaining a persons love through affection and acts of kindness but I prefer a mutual more equal relationship in the beginning. Id have reassurance for myself that the motivation to be with that person and love for the other person wouldn’t be called into question.

    • @noexcuses5524
      @noexcuses5524 Рік тому

      Ask urself . How come people that love each other equally when they first meet has higher divorce rate? Just like the advice said find someone who loves u more than u love them and then u will love that person bck as mos passed by
      There is no such thing as 50/50 when ur in relationship. Sometimes u give more and sometimes ur man gives more in the relationship

  • @user-oh8sk8ny5f
    @user-oh8sk8ny5f 7 місяців тому +10

    True love is most important in relationships and I believe i can find mine here

    • @user-lh5dr4dz5f
      @user-lh5dr4dz5f 7 місяців тому

      That's true...

    • @user-oh8sk8ny5f
      @user-oh8sk8ny5f 7 місяців тому

      @@user-lh5dr4dz5f yes where are you located

    • @shugaberry6447
      @shugaberry6447 7 місяців тому

      Yes you can like am looking for are you sure is not destiny that brought us together

    • @BassamRiyad367
      @BassamRiyad367 7 місяців тому

      Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing

    • @user-oh8sk8ny5f
      @user-oh8sk8ny5f 7 місяців тому

      @@shugaberry6447 where are you located and do you have any other way to talk better to know more about each other?

  • @diks031
    @diks031 Рік тому +1

    His worst is the best and best is the worst.

    • @JeffreyWiggins-ti6cn
      @JeffreyWiggins-ti6cn 7 місяців тому

      Hello pretty

    • @LarryHenry-pu1qz
      @LarryHenry-pu1qz 7 місяців тому

      Hello , its my pleasure to have you here now and would be very glad if we get to know more about our self if you dont mind

  • @lehawk5
    @lehawk5 2 місяці тому

    I could listen to these two all day.

  • @liliann-a-kawaii-potato
    @liliann-a-kawaii-potato Рік тому +3

    Give love more and more but don't expect anything in return. If they love u truly u will recieve more than u have ever thought of. But there isn't any loss in giving more . Be happy make everyone happy,be kind and generous.

  • @AL-kj8zo
    @AL-kj8zo Рік тому +4

    He is just making it up, nobody gave him those advices. 😂 But its not bad.

  • @MegaLadylove2012
    @MegaLadylove2012 Рік тому +1

    I heard the list thing from Boris Kodjoe and whoa it was eye opener. His went, make a list of all the things you want in a partner then asked yourself, ‘why would someone with all these qualifications want to be with me?’

    • @LarryHenry-pu1qz
      @LarryHenry-pu1qz 7 місяців тому

      Hello , its my pleasure to have you here now and would be very glad if we get to know more about our self if you dont mind

  • @esh7892
    @esh7892 8 місяців тому +1

    OMG!! I just wanna cry right now because that’s what I lived off my whole life, and what I told my daughter to look for in future man that she date. Maybe I don’t if it transfer after all.

  • @jijilove7626
    @jijilove7626 Рік тому +6

    Im a 24 woman from algeria and im looking for a kind smart man

  • @sujitasujita892
    @sujitasujita892 Рік тому +3

    Yes you find her because she loves you.. someone else will find you because you love her.. Cycle is never ending

  • @carolynnmaraki2550
    @carolynnmaraki2550 Рік тому +1

    "Be that list"-✨💛✨

  • @shivangipandey7871
    @shivangipandey7871 Рік тому +1

    Wow❣️ perfect answer 👏