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  • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
    @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +155

    Beautiful Tribe and Family with narcissism on the rise around the world - please help us get this content shared in this community as often as possible by simply hitting the 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽. This information could be life-saving and life-changing for those struggling with being abused in this manner. Thank you so much. I love and appreciate you all. May you be blessed and highly favored in life and also for helping us possibly save the lives and sanity of other battling this abuse.✨💖💕💕🙏🏽
    Here is the link to Part One: ua-cam.com/video/Ak3kaTfFGNQ/v-deo.html

  • @siehop88
    @siehop88 3 роки тому +599

    Narcissistic will mess up a beautiful thing for absolutely no reason. I have learned that.

  • @stephaniepena5904
    @stephaniepena5904 3 роки тому +730

    The super empath always levels up on all levels after the discard, we boss up n glow up turning all that pain to power, but when were done.. we are done theres no going back

  • @Entrepreneur.stanlo
    @Entrepreneur.stanlo 3 роки тому +513

    Once you realize you want better you get better

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +12

      Omgggggg drop the 🎤 on this one!! Yes!!💯💯💯

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 роки тому +18

      Exactly stay alone til God sends you better dealing with narc have no more time energy waste

    • @pamelalawhon3536
      @pamelalawhon3536 3 роки тому +21

      “A bird and a clown, a duck mixed with s frog, and a donkey with a wig on...!” LOLOLOL

    • @siehop88
      @siehop88 3 роки тому +1

      ‼️🎯

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 роки тому +7

      Yes 🙌 sir you never lower standard anything less than your value God said don’t throw sacred things to a pig. Narc life is just that filthy mire.

  • @latashiasmith114
    @latashiasmith114 3 роки тому +333

    I changed my whole life for the narcissist I relocated and I don't know anyone.. I tried many of times to go no contact this is the longest I've been no contact please please pray for me

    • @annsam2111
      @annsam2111 3 роки тому +6

      🙏🙏🙏 praying for you my dear 🤗

    • @mariasmith2297
      @mariasmith2297 3 роки тому +29

      NO CONTACT. 0. It is the ONLY way to break the soul tie. Stay strong through the Lord and savior, Jesus Christ. He'll deliver you into peace and love. He'll shine the light for your path. Keep faith. ♡

    • @DIXIFREELY
      @DIXIFREELY 3 роки тому +14

      Pray and keep yourself busy...

    • @robertschultz9892
      @robertschultz9892 3 роки тому +16

      Prayers and blessings to you. 2 years post and God has been my rock. He won't leave you and won't give you more than you can handle. You're among friends here.

    • @rachelleganaway3723
      @rachelleganaway3723 3 роки тому +7

      Praying for you. God brought you out.

  • @bennybronco76
    @bennybronco76 3 роки тому +255

    I absolutely was "THE REAL ONE." Its been a year of no contact. She's been blocked on every number, no social media, ect. And just when I think she's gone, there's another attempt.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +9

      🗣🗣🗣Speak on it Brother!!!💯💯💯

    • @TheUnsupervisedBlackChild
      @TheUnsupervisedBlackChild 3 роки тому +5

      Omg yessss. This fool went and paid off her 5 year debt to my friend (her ex friend) just to ask him about me. Smh 🤯

    • @bennybronco76
      @bennybronco76 3 роки тому +16

      @@TheUnsupervisedBlackChild yeah they do not stop. I see why ppl can go decades dealing with them, especially if you don't have a clue what you're dealing with.

    • @andreaakachocolatedimples5457
      @andreaakachocolatedimples5457 3 роки тому +11

      @@bennybronco76 I had no idea I was dealing with this type of person. I was so good to him but he spit on everything. I was so confused. I'm so glad this crazy is over. I'm so glad you're better my fellow Sag. I know I am a Real one and will always be so. My best is yet to come

    • @bennybronco76
      @bennybronco76 3 роки тому +5

      @@andreaakachocolatedimples5457 glad you got out! Bless ya!

  • @pjqb3
    @pjqb3 3 роки тому +202

    I did everything for my ex. that was a Narc! What’s hurtful the most, her daughter and I had an amazing relationship! I raised her from 7yrs old to 11yrs old. I didn’t know what a narcissist was, but after finding out what it was, everything started to make sense to me in our relationship. She blamed me for everything, and never took accountability for anything. She projected all her insecurities, trust issues, etc on me...She was cheating the whole time. But the more and more I watch these videos it helps! ✊🏾

    • @phillipmoore7436
      @phillipmoore7436 3 роки тому +3

      STAY STRONG BROTHER GOD BLESS.✊🙏

    • @ashleyfisher1880
      @ashleyfisher1880 3 роки тому +3

      💕💕💕💕💕💕

    • @tonybrown6546
      @tonybrown6546 2 роки тому +5

      My brother, i went thru the same exact thing, 6 years removed from that individual...there has been nothing but peace since!!!

    • @joekaramitsos2824
      @joekaramitsos2824 2 роки тому +3

      Exactly how mine did cheatedbthe whole time raised her kids we had one sec well it’s heartbreaking honestly learning all of this

    • @travmcwhite4596
      @travmcwhite4596 2 роки тому +4

      Same way with mines she did me so dirty I almost committed suicide from the all the trauma and abuse

  • @md-mx5zb
    @md-mx5zb 3 роки тому +151

    "The memory of the righteous will be a blessing, but the name of the wicked will rot."
    - Proverbs 10:7

  • @starhamilton1072
    @starhamilton1072 3 роки тому +76

    Her way of talking is so satisfying and funny but I still take her very serious . Now that’s a woman .

  • @devinebeaut
    @devinebeaut 3 роки тому +55

    They be having anger problems too... breaking dishes, putting holes in the walls, breaking doors. Do better. It will never work. It feels like you're in a relationship with more than 1 complicated person all in one house.

    • @brokenbutnotdestroyedwalke8137
      @brokenbutnotdestroyedwalke8137 3 роки тому +1

      My husband broke my phone and started cutting his self

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +1

      Straight facts my Sister absolutely!✨💖💕💕💯💯

    • @acw079
      @acw079 3 роки тому +3

      Yup mine got mad and pulled me and dragged me across the floor when I confronted him on his cheating.

    • @devinebeaut
      @devinebeaut 3 роки тому +3

      @@acw079 I hope you left sis. Never go back. Only work with a man who wants to love on you and not beat you.

    • @angieayala6867
      @angieayala6867 3 роки тому

      Yup! Been there!

  • @mariasewell3825
    @mariasewell3825 3 роки тому +87

    Sleeping better my health is better getting better my fog is have left my brains I can see that I can think better I am

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely Sis I'm sure you are! Praise God for that.

    • @gigipeach7179
      @gigipeach7179 3 роки тому +6

      The fog is real

    • @itistheway1911
      @itistheway1911 3 роки тому +5

      Many don't believe they exist until they run into them. Glad you're out of the nightmare.

    • @meuresouza1880
      @meuresouza1880 3 роки тому +5

      I'm feeling so much better...no more headaches!

    • @tanyabanks5385
      @tanyabanks5385 3 роки тому +2

      Oh yes I can relate. Its a beautiful thing. 🙌

  • @lorip.9836
    @lorip.9836 3 роки тому +132

    Yes, they DO indeed have to be “a special kind of stupid” to mess up or discard a doting empath!
    😁👍

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +5

      Facts Sis!! It’s the truth!!✨💖💕💕💯💯

    • @redbaron8999
      @redbaron8999 2 роки тому +1

      Awesome Job Tea !!! XO ❤️😘. I will share this with my friends and clients !!! Thank you and keep it going !!!

    • @80sbaby90
      @80sbaby90 2 роки тому

      💯💯💯

  • @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx
    @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx 3 роки тому +134

    This is so real, seriously. I think the main issue is narcissists have deep seated insecurity and self worth issues. And it’s to the point where they need CONSTANT attention, even when they get enough in the relationship. To them that’s not enough. This is why when I get to know a person I ask about their childhood. Usually the narc was severely neglected as a child, abandoned, felt dejected or like the black sheep, and was discarded by one of their parents or both. So most times they’re just projecting that emptiness, loneliness, and lack of self worth they feel inside onto others. They would rather make you feel worthless. They think by trying to make you feel less than it makes you easier to control.

    • @jimmiem9752
      @jimmiem9752 2 роки тому +7

      A black sheep or scapegoat is not a NARCISSIST ...

    • @desertangelfish140
      @desertangelfish140 2 роки тому +13

      My ex narcissist entered into our relationship with the attitude that I was just going to leave him eventually. He said "they all leave". Duh, same shit different day and no accountability for the conflicts they help cause. Insanity!

    • @besidesbeauty6218
      @besidesbeauty6218 2 роки тому +1

      💯💯

    • @nadineyoung0912
      @nadineyoung0912 2 роки тому +4

      Absolutely spot on!! My gf is a narc and her mom discarded and abandoned her at an early age for a drug habit and all of her childhood trauma added insecurities and trust issues. There’s so many times she spazzed out on me but Ik where it came from…I did everything for her and it was never enough. 2 months of NC and she’s spiraling outta control, drinking and jumping from woman to woman. It’s really sad, but I don’t feel sorry for her because I was the realest of the real!! Always went out of my way, serving, being there emotionally, genuinely loving…and I got discarded just as her mom did to her.

    • @TeddyBear-lb9ho
      @TeddyBear-lb9ho 2 роки тому +2

      I think the assumption they were usually neglected in their childhood is a generalization. For example, I had a wife who was the favorite child. The apple of her parents eye. She dumped and discarded me. There were a variety of factors. She wasn't getting money out of me anymore. She had an online boyfriend. She didn't like where we lived. I definitely do think she had an inflated sense of self-worth so maybe she was a narcissist in that sense. She used to say she would easily get another man if she walked out on me and I would regret losing her. I always thought she just said things like that when she was upset. I realize in hindsight she was already thinking about it, weighing her options with me and her online boyfriend.

  • @cottonflannigan3671
    @cottonflannigan3671 3 роки тому +95

    I loved my narcissist...he was treated like the most loved man on the earth. I did everything in my power to love and nurture him.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +28

      I'm sure you did and they are extremely ungrateful.

    • @gjs8138
      @gjs8138 3 роки тому +6

      I did too! She returned it with jealousy of my kids, disrespect, contempt, unappreciation, cold shoulders, devaluing, sweet/mean cycling, the smirk, and rages.
      now I’m gone from her life.
      No contact, and I’ll bet she’s pissed for the no contact!

    • @gigipeach7179
      @gigipeach7179 3 роки тому +8

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Very ungrateful. Rarely even say thank you for what you do

    • @pinnakal1
      @pinnakal1 3 роки тому +4

      They don’t know how to receive love because they don’t love themselves

    • @shirleyrussell7089
      @shirleyrussell7089 3 роки тому +12

      They are ungrateful and very DISRESPECTFUL they don't change !!!!

  • @funnygirlever
    @funnygirlever 2 роки тому +27

    Amen! I was there for him through one of his toughest time. I was there for his mom and family. I was there for his family and friends. I'm so happy I got the courage to leave. It's 2 months now. Wow it doesn't feel like it. I will never forgive him the way he treated me. I will never go back. Karma will get him 10 fold.

    • @JoannA-sweetly
      @JoannA-sweetly 2 роки тому +3

      Stay healthy, know you are a queen and never let a fool treat you like a rug....

  • @talentedt5080
    @talentedt5080 3 роки тому +142

    The REAL ONE that snatched all of the energy and light 💡 from that 🐦✌🏽💯

    • @jacobromero2634
      @jacobromero2634 3 роки тому +3

      Generator

    • @mmxw2294
      @mmxw2294 3 роки тому +4

      They are clowns 🤡 I got a Hoover after 16 months no contact because I know him I know that things are not working out for him then I went no contact again they’re not our issue

    • @doriangreen1113
      @doriangreen1113 11 місяців тому

      😂😂

  • @nicolekoller3350
    @nicolekoller3350 3 роки тому +34

    They always turn their wrongs around an blame .. they hate the truth an never wanna hear their wrongs .

  • @farrenmathews6745
    @farrenmathews6745 3 роки тому +91

    After watching videos part 1 and two all I can say is wow! This woman is heaven sent. Narcissisic ppl ain't NO joke! They are demonic. There are two Bible scriptures that is powerful and helpful: Psalms of David 37 and Roman's 0818. The Bible is thee best weapon against these types of demonic spirits! I pray that everyone who are going thru narcissistic abuse will become blessed with a piece of mind and heal!! 🙏

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you my Sister. God bless you and I’m happy you enjoyed the message. God is amazing and I give him all the glory. You are speaking facts about this birds Sis.✨💕🙏🏽💯

    • @dijarosa7866
      @dijarosa7866 2 роки тому

      God actually showed me how they are robots and have a screen in their minds with pre-scripted words to say. They are in fact controlled by an outside entity. She is right, the Lord showed me that this morning.

  • @devramcgee9097
    @devramcgee9097 2 роки тому +8

    I rather eat crumbs with bum 's than to eat steak with snakes 🐍.

  • @EscapingTheMadness
    @EscapingTheMadness 3 роки тому +115

    This word was too powerful especially after being hovered by the whole family. He is walking around angry and the family want me to take the emotional abuse 3 years later 😂 They all gone mad. I can only thank God for saving me from the circus 🤡 ❤️❤️❤️

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +3

      Yes indeed Sis this is how they behave after they have lost a real one like yourself!!

    • @mallorymeyr2249
      @mallorymeyr2249 3 роки тому +3

      I can so relate!!! The bird family has almost been harder to handle than the bird 🐦 themselves.

    • @lorijones513
      @lorijones513 3 роки тому

      The circus is calling me !! He has 4 sisters and 3 brothers !!! I was 2000 miles away beach hopping ! I took travel assignments away from him . Now I’m back for a short time but I live across the street from him. He’s a weak man and is scared to face me after his antics … but he’s sent the circus to call me

  • @yankee52goblue78
    @yankee52goblue78 2 роки тому +13

    Breakfast, dinner, Held him down while in prison.. Paid his bills, child support, trips. Thousands, time, always said yes, energy, love…. Went through all kinds of hell with jezabels and ungrateful family members and stayed loyal… I was such a fool for entirely too long 🤦🏿‍♀️ NEVER AGAIN!!! I love your channel!! You are you 100% correct!!

  • @girlbeautiful2727
    @girlbeautiful2727 2 роки тому +3

    THATS RIGHTTTT WE BIRD 🦅 FREE
    I SAID IT AND I MEAN IT!!!

  • @aryolie
    @aryolie 3 роки тому +69

    You’re speaking to me Lord! When we met he said I had a light that he’d never seen before. Later asked what happened to me. After being depressed, suicidal, and anxious, I remembered my Father. I called up to Him and asked him to open my eyes and let me see. I now see 🙏🏼 thank you Jesus.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +2

      Amen. God bless you Sis.💯💖🙏🏽💕

    • @kd5984
      @kd5984 3 роки тому +1

      Understand completely, same here. It’s like you lived my life with the narcissist that I was with.
      I thank God for getting me out safely. God bless you.

    • @michellebrower9854
      @michellebrower9854 2 роки тому +4

      Amen sister. Keep moving. Demon fought. You won. Your prize. You survived. Now heal grow and thrive.

    • @careyhope4025
      @careyhope4025 2 роки тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @patriciawilliams5172
      @patriciawilliams5172 2 роки тому

      He said the same to me I want your shine ✨️. You shine too much

  • @vernondelancy6281
    @vernondelancy6281 3 роки тому +83

    The family do know that they brother or sister is crazy . They sit back n say to themselves let me see how he or she is going to treat them .

    • @mzhoward2u679
      @mzhoward2u679 3 роки тому +18

      Idk why. Because they already know from the previous umpteenth relationships their family members parade in front of them. Narcissist family members are usually as messy or more messy than the narc. So they're waiting with snacks as if watching a feature film to see how it blows up. Because They Know that it's going to blow up.

    • @lauradelregno99
      @lauradelregno99 3 роки тому +10

      @@mzhoward2u679 they are a nest of 🐍

    • @winblessed1357
      @winblessed1357 3 роки тому +5

      @@mzhoward2u679 so true. Just evil souls

    • @gigipeach7179
      @gigipeach7179 3 роки тому +8

      Yes! They already know there is something wrong!

    • @CH-df9uk
      @CH-df9uk 3 роки тому +1

      💯

  • @danetteclay1753
    @danetteclay1753 3 роки тому +97

    Yessss babe when I left that specimen I left everything behind with him, and then I remembered God said daughter what you leave behind I will provide triple fold. When I moved in my New apartment I had my cloths, a twin air mattress and a 13’ tv but the Lord provided everything and more!!! I have a peace of mind, my soul rejoices again, my bond with family and friends got and are getting stronger cause nobody wanted to be around because of his crazy drama and my apartment is fully done all with brand new stuff. I’m glad I subscribed 🥰

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much for subscribing and sharing with us. Welcome to the Tribe.✨💖💕💕

    • @ashleyfisher1880
      @ashleyfisher1880 3 роки тому +1

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💕

    • @SJ-up9em
      @SJ-up9em 3 роки тому +1

      👏🏽👑❤️

    • @shannonblaikie4269
      @shannonblaikie4269 2 роки тому +1

      100% I left for safety and with my sanity intact! I started over and I never looked back, goodbye to garbage!

    • @abokiyanalove9241
      @abokiyanalove9241 2 роки тому

      I left everything behind with the narc, I had to keep telling him to throw it away. Everything came to me new even a new narc who got sat down by a SUPER EMPATH. These birds out here plentiful.

  • @praisedancer010244
    @praisedancer010244 3 роки тому +60

    The narcissm will not let them tell the truth. But I believe they feel it when subjected to it.

  • @mickreyna185
    @mickreyna185 2 роки тому +7

    I’m five years she brought nothing to the table. No empathy, she’s lives grandiose with entitlement. No matter what or how much I did to make her happy I still got threats, control, and manipulation. Thank you Lord for pulling me out of that darkness🙏🏼 who ever is experiencing a narcissist RUN FAST!!! Your life will change to light.

  • @seeminglyunaware
    @seeminglyunaware 3 роки тому +47

    Pouring the OJ into a fancy glass for myself now.

  • @topnotchbeauty6308
    @topnotchbeauty6308 2 роки тому +18

    I left my narcissist 5 months ago. He bought me a 5 carrot diamond ring and proposed to me. When I caught him cheating 2weeks before my wedding day, it was uncovered that he had been cheating with a married woman the entire relationship we were together. When I called him out, he asked for his ring back and tried to get the jeweler to take it back when I bought it in for cleaning. 🙄
    He’s been no contact every since but tries to keep contact with my mother. He had three women pregnant when I was pregnant. My child and I were followed home by the husband of one of these women for three weeks straight, looking for him. He has a 5 yr old that he don’t take care of. All of this was uncovered two weeks before our wedding. He took me through the ringer. I want him to come back just so that I can curse him out. I don’t want him back. I’m glad I got out before marrying him.

    • @Nicolegin
      @Nicolegin 2 роки тому +2

      Wow!!!! How did you find out?
      I'm always thinking he has something shady going on... my mum keeps telling me to not go through his phone or spy on him in any way and that if something happens I'll know anyhow... how did that happen? Did you recover fast?

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 2 роки тому +1

      You are so lucky I wish I had found out marrying him was the worst mistake I ever made in my life I am regretting it every day

    • @JourneyIITaj
      @JourneyIITaj 4 місяці тому

      My goodness😢

  • @brookejones1065
    @brookejones1065 3 роки тому +26

    I never realized I had a narcissist until I actually found this channel! I actually had one. He could never take responsibility of his own actions always blamed everyone for his actions. I’m still healing but I will never make that mistake again!

  • @missyumyum8670
    @missyumyum8670 3 роки тому +23

    Yes I was the real one. He keeps coming back after nearly 3 years of discarding me. I am grade AAA supply.

  • @danielleholliday7519
    @danielleholliday7519 3 роки тому +29

    This is Day 1 of forever. Please pray for me. I needed this. Thank You!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому

      God bless you Sis. I’m so proud of you. I’m praying for you. Be encouraged Sis we are here for you. God bless you as you live your best life.✨💖💕💕🙏🏽

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 2 роки тому

      🙏🙏🙏🙌❤✝️❤🙌🙏🙏🙏

    • @JoannA-sweetly
      @JoannA-sweetly 2 роки тому

      Never answer a hoover.... praying.

  • @giovannilevoci941
    @giovannilevoci941 Рік тому +3

    Spot on: she never had to work while with me, she had 2 maids, she never made a meal, she never had to do laundry, she had a brand new car, everything was handed to her on a gold platter, she was given over 100k in fine jewery, she lost it all for cheating. She is now a manicurist with her new supply... LOL

  • @tenny1024
    @tenny1024 3 роки тому +15

    There is definitely a REAL ONE. My ex-narc begged me to allow him on my social media pages, and he just got the new supply pregnant. I told him no, and he was like, “ how you gonna know when you need to become a stepmom.” Just wicked. The new supply is sooo in love with him- she got pregnant three months after meeting him. I told him to be a good man and father…and he keeps ask to do sexual favors to me. Ugggh. Disgusting 🤢 No more birds 🐦 ducks or 🐸 frogs.

  • @starlight12323
    @starlight12323 2 роки тому +1

    25 yrs, 2 children, his dream business that I ground pounded for with minimal help from him, and I took care of his momma/my momma for 11 yrs before her sickness became too much, and I left it all and handed it to him without the discord. Straight from love, and now that the divorce is final 8yrs later he is begging me back! KNOW THIS.........I DO NOT, NOR WILL I EVER GO BACKWARDS!! THANK GOD FOR THAT DELIVERANCE!!! YES & AMEN!!

  • @user-rk4kf3jl7j
    @user-rk4kf3jl7j 2 роки тому +17

    ‘A narcissist is a lie on two feet’ 🤣 your videos have helped so much going through this mess of an experience, very educational and funny at the same time! May more people learn about these disorders and how to deal….Much love ❤️

  • @monica5778
    @monica5778 Місяць тому +1

    Baaaby you went in. I know that’s right!

  • @MaryGarcia-wu8sd
    @MaryGarcia-wu8sd 3 роки тому +11

    Thank you! I just left my toxic / narc. No contact on all levels. 7 years I stood by him. Took care of him. Like I took care of my own family. He cheated. Lied throughout our marriage. I finally had to choose me and left. God showed me what I had to see for the last time. He is now holding my heart ❤ and drying my tears. AMEN!!
    I LOVE YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGE I NEEDED THIS! ❤❤

  • @skychanges9197
    @skychanges9197 Рік тому +2

    I know this is an older video but you are SPOT ON!!! I have had these intuitions myself

  • @spexi513
    @spexi513 3 роки тому +19

    I do think if you allllllllll the wayyyyyy LET THEM KNOW YOU SEE THEM FOR THE DEMON THEY ARE ; let them know you KNOW EVERYTHING NOW- they won’t Hoover, they’ll run away like the coward they are.

  • @thatguy1787
    @thatguy1787 2 роки тому +1

    You're a Beautiful, Intelligent Black Woman. Keep up the good work. Thanks...

  • @grinchmoney1543
    @grinchmoney1543 3 роки тому +3

    Gotta be very stupid to to hate a person showing so much love

  • @jaymedina7695
    @jaymedina7695 3 роки тому +9

    Im a empath and have zero empathy for a narcissist my empathy goes to the victims of narcissist abuse!!I like how 100%you bring it!the truth just hurts the nark!!!there life is base on perjection!

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 3 роки тому +15

    I just got of a relationship with a no good low down narcissistic person...i spent $10,000 on this man to help him with his business and he turnt around and gas lit me😭😭😭😭😭😭but God has my back and i will get through this heartache and pain🙏😭😭😭😭😭

    • @funnygirlever
      @funnygirlever 2 роки тому +3

      You're not alone. I hope you're healing well. I just left my narc 2 months ago.

  • @dahna4822
    @dahna4822 3 роки тому +51

    The Truth is they (narcs ) are not “REAL” in the sense that they have no “REAL IDENTITY” This is WHY They depend on the Character & identity
    Of others and “MIMIC”. God has given gifts to Everyone. Some (w/ npd) have a level of intellect BUT LACK The Godly Wisdom to Acknowledge
    God in All their ways. They don’t have to believe this TRUTH. TRUTH SHALL PREVAIL & GOD Will get His Glory even from the children of the lie.
    Thank you for your Channel & Content🙏🏽💜🙌🏽

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 роки тому +1

      You know what that turn anyone off after learned what fuels make them person can’t imagine have depend on person.
      We call make clone because they don’t know who their broken souls sad to see aged one never knowing still playing mind games

    • @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx
      @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx 3 роки тому +2

      Ohh my lord honey!! They are chameleons indeed!! They mimic everyone they’re around even if they claim they don’t like them. It’s a little twisted I won’t lie

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 роки тому +1

      @@HarleyQuinn-yh7mx yes very sneaky hard to discern unless God shows you like myself in journal writings. The whole ordeal was training on Jezebel spirit different facets. Chameleon research it the narc lays in wait transforms changes to environmental to person its dealing with.

    • @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx
      @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx 3 роки тому +3

      @@angeliquechronicles3579 oh no honey, they’re easy to read because they use the same tricks over and over again. What you have to do with these clowns is listen more than you talk. Listen intently and observe them. People usually tell on themselves eventually if you observe and listen enough. I won’t lie I can read most people within 5 minutes of being in their presence. My spirit will tell me something isn’t right with them.

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 роки тому +1

      @@HarleyQuinn-yh7mx Yes learned trust me listen watch them talk tell on themselves usually their conversations not worth listening to. Me Myself I very self centered

  • @alicetaylor8476
    @alicetaylor8476 2 роки тому +1

    This is the realist thing I ever heard !!

  • @mariasmith2297
    @mariasmith2297 3 роки тому +69

    Right on Tea! Greater is the One who is in me than he who is of the world. Period. God bless you, Telsha.

  • @krobin4171
    @krobin4171 2 роки тому +1

    Come on here somebody!!! 🙌🏾

  • @Precious-pn3oz
    @Precious-pn3oz 2 роки тому +19

    YES SISTER! YOU HAVE SAID IT! I FELT HOLY SPIRIT ANOINTING All over this video! HALLELUJAH! 🙌 YOU LAID IT SO WELL! GOD bless you sister for obeying Holy Spirit to record this video and for you saying everything as He wanted you to! This ministered to me soul spirit mind whole being!GLORY to GOD! Thank you masterJESUS👏

  • @La-La71
    @La-La71 Рік тому +1

    Girl, U shol b tellin da TRUTH!!!!

  • @stephaniepena5904
    @stephaniepena5904 3 роки тому +46

    the narcissist said no one ever folded his clothes like me in his life before lol my narcissist still hoovers and he even said he feels suicidal, the fuel was potent i did everything for him

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +3

      💯💯❤️

    • @FOSELONE
      @FOSELONE 3 роки тому +1

      What’s hoovers?

    • @stephaniepena5904
      @stephaniepena5904 3 роки тому +2

      @@FOSELONE when they want suck you back into the relationship

    • @siehop88
      @siehop88 3 роки тому +8

      Accurate. When you’re “different” they never go away:

    • @itistheway1911
      @itistheway1911 3 роки тому +4

      Ha ha mine said we liked the same songs and that I motivated him to do better which he never did. Alcoholic womanizer.

  • @soultrynicole8443
    @soultrynicole8443 2 роки тому +1

    You will warn them that you are on to them when they think they got you where they want you
    Well baby power grid snatched!! Keep your spiritual antennas up and catch them off gaurd with an unexpected cut off! Power snatched!

  • @dianne3
    @dianne3 Рік тому +3

    I never comment, but I'm so moved and grateful for this content today!!! Thank you Telsha, God bless you. Kindest regards, Dianne

  • @AurikaAkimova
    @AurikaAkimova 17 днів тому

    Snatched that power grid out of his hands 🏃🏼‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏼‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏼‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏼‍♀️‍➡️😂…now he gotta watch me glow up and not look back 🙏✝️

  • @tanyagamble3432
    @tanyagamble3432 3 роки тому +11

    Thank you for helping me be restored to sanity , this thing ran through my life like a bulldozer and tried to destroy me . But this bird forgot who I serve and that’s God almighty .

  • @stewartforeal1079
    @stewartforeal1079 2 роки тому +1

    Yes lady you better speak 👏

  • @silvergirl1472
    @silvergirl1472 2 роки тому +4

    I was the “ real one” Jesus rescued me right before the devaluation phase. Now, he is checking on me on Instagram and likes my posts and write comments. Then DMs me. I try to be kind and clear that we cannot have anything in the future because I want to honor Jesus in our relationship. I believe his demons get afraid of my relationship I have with the Lord Jesus.

  • @keithrichard1100
    @keithrichard1100 Рік тому +1

    I went SUPER NOVA on that narc long live SUPER EMPATHS 🙏🏾

  • @knijelsickles6596
    @knijelsickles6596 3 роки тому +32

    👏🏾👏🏾🤣🤣 ma'am you are something else!!! You give some of the best reads! And you do it with plenty of attitude 🤭. I love it!!!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +3

      Lol!!!🤣🤣🤣. Thank you Sis I’m happy you enjoyed the message and got a great laugh.✨💖💕💕

  • @victorgauzza9253
    @victorgauzza9253 3 роки тому +3

    My ex narc was a friend and she knew I was grade A supply. Once I found out the world's biggest secret, I played her to the max. I would always compliment her, I would ask her for advice, I would invite her out weekly, and I would even future fake. Then out of nowhere, I just vanished! I mean Harry Houdini style. It's been 3 yrs now and she still leaves voicemails every couple months. I messed her up proper. Oh well, better her than me. Game over...I win she loses

  • @stacied.williams4479
    @stacied.williams4479 2 роки тому +6

    You are a real one. Speaking life into a discarded empath. Thank you from my heart!! Onward!!!

  • @alicetaylor8476
    @alicetaylor8476 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Telshia, narcs out here giving advice when the truth isn't in them. PLEASE!!!

  • @apubanerjee5496
    @apubanerjee5496 3 роки тому +6

    A TRUE NARC = " A WALKING LIES IN TWO FEET " . 👌👌👌👌👌👌 .
    👏👏👏👏👏 👍 👏👏👏👏👏 .

  • @BLIQUEMIST26
    @BLIQUEMIST26 2 роки тому +1

    I’m on disability but as soon as I save enough I’m out of here. I had black eye body sore at time. I’m tired of fighting. . I’m 38 and enough is enough

  • @dquoiyadevones1514
    @dquoiyadevones1514 3 роки тому +53

    Hi from Dallas. Been watching for 2 months. Who helped me was you. Narcissist who? I Levled up!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +3

      Yesssss Sis!!🙌🏽🙌🏽✨💖💕💕💯💯

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 роки тому +1

      Queen knew it was waiting on you check narcissist when everyone was trusting psychopath narcissist.
      H Tudor whatever whole name knew he just prideful self yes 🙌 they ruminate over us why my ex narc did 24 years ago they have always thought about you. Narc lie but use to listen to them tell on themselves like the one had said exactly. Never met nobody that cared for love me for me out this whole life. Kept hoovering me just can’t have man can’t be true one stable narc full of insatiable can’t be just with you had to do so many injury narc after injury fool still was trying.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +2

      @@angeliquechronicles3579 come Sis!! Yes💯💯💯

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships I really not focusing on narc healed moved on forgive but honestly never forget. Evil person can do to others very demonic. Bring awareness comment married 8 years to first one. I’m good still trying get me back have daughter with . He gave me money for anniversary we not together in 5 years show crazy .

    • @mallorymeyr2249
      @mallorymeyr2249 3 роки тому +1

      Amen sis!!!! So grateful for TELSHA!! And of course JESUS for setting me free 🙌🏼

  • @vz16881981
    @vz16881981 3 роки тому +6

    You are wonderful! That's what they do, they devalue habitually bc they're deeply insecure. You are, we ARE real ones!

  • @lightandlovewarrior9552
    @lightandlovewarrior9552 3 роки тому +4

    I suffered from narcissists in my family, served my family, helped raise children, cooked, cleaned, worked, loved, you name it for my family. When God showed me the narcs with demons in them, two that always were around me, I realized, these things were hanging up on me, two at once, taking my life force. I knew then, that the devil was trying to stop my growth, and had to double up on me to do it. I strongly suggest going no contact. Gray rock really isn't enough for healing. You need peace, and that comes when you do that. I spoke to children I love on both sides, gave them warnings to have their eyes open. But I know God will show them like He showed me. He will protect His flock. No contact people, no contact. Telsha, you are such a beauty, my sister. Love you and thank you for helping us heal. Love to you. Also, for the tribe, after I went no contact, alot of bullying, stalking etc, started happening around me. Realize they are liars, thieves and murderers you are dealing with, and their friends are like them. Heads up. No contact.

  • @change5156
    @change5156 Рік тому +1

    I mean dang ma'am 😂😭💀. I'm at a loss of words because I'm just freaking tired but definitely wanted to let you know you're amazing and I love your personality! I need all them laughs!!! 😂💀

  • @rosellecash9002
    @rosellecash9002 3 роки тому +6

    YAAAASSSSS...I WAS THE REAL ONE!!...MY LAST WORDS...GOOD LUCK REPLACING ME...

  • @lorenal.6003
    @lorenal.6003 2 роки тому +2

    You are The best coach not only that I was laughing so hard but you give me courage to move on from a horrible narcissist!

  • @elfredyamcgowan9300
    @elfredyamcgowan9300 3 роки тому +5

    GIRL, GIRL, GIRL, I am in tears right now. You speak nothing but truth in a no nonsense way. You are describing the experience I am living at this moment and the person I am dealing with to a T. Your words are giving me even more strength to move on to the great life that's waiting for me on the other side when I cut this nonsense out of my life for good. I NEED TO MAKE THAT MOVE and not be afraid of what's on the other side of my own insecurities. I can't continue to fuel someone else when there's only just about enough left for my own survival. Thank you for your brutal honesty and confirming what I've known for months now. GOD BLESS YOU MY SISTAH

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +1

      You’re so welcome my sister move on out and step out on faith. God will never leave you nor for sake you and we are standing here with you. That bird can never give you the love that you deserve they are not capable of loving. God bless you and may he strengthen you the more. Love you Sis!!💯💗🙏🏽💗

  • @kampferherz1972
    @kampferherz1972 2 роки тому +2

    Grade A.
    I told him, that he is a dangerous human, I told him EVERYTHING in 25 minutes. He stood by my door with tears in his eyes and said: Don't do this. I said: Go out here.
    It's so hard ... so deep in pain. But I will go on. It's what you said. God lead my away, that I don't see the karma about him.
    Dearest greetings from germany ❤🌻😘

  • @Ms-Understood
    @Ms-Understood 3 роки тому +8

    Ms. Telsha, I'm adopting you as my play momma!! 😄 I lost my mom when I was 16 (only child) but ur energy gives me all the mother-love essence I need!! 🌻 WE (EMPATHS) HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE BUT OUR CHAINS!! 🚫🔗⛓️🚫 #RESPECT✝️💪🏾 #ITWASONLYANEXPERIENCE #ONWARD&UPWARD

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +1

      God bless you beautiful soul - I am honored to be apart of your healing journey. Thank you for being here with us and I’m happy you enjoyed the message.💯💕💖🙏🏽

  • @thereal1505
    @thereal1505 2 роки тому +1

    Facts.. and no lies.. may karma tear them to pieces or the rest of their lives...

  • @misslouloudavis4652
    @misslouloudavis4652 3 роки тому +10

    Like a tornado 🌪️ the centre is full of nothing. Twisting and turning through the never. Picking up everything in its path of destruction. Mine referred to himself as having " latched on" and feeling like a " tick" (blood sucking parasite) when he overheard me telling my psychologist I had just paid another fortnight of his food bills. Just one month in and I am out, my lack of supply will se him homeless, hungry , hurting and dying for more. I am addicted to him but know he is not good for me so shall withdrawal in silent contemplation of why I feel less than worthy of the best. May the creator give me strength now to heal from the narcissistic addiction. Your videos are awesome and powerful thank you for sharing.

  • @erikanderson643
    @erikanderson643 Рік тому +1

    You got the fire inside and I absolutely appreciate the knowledge and positivity.

  • @phillong8591
    @phillong8591 3 роки тому +5

    You on fire today!! Full of truth and wisdom. God Bless you and your family.

  • @paulsmit5702
    @paulsmit5702 2 роки тому +2

    Hehehehe I chuckled so hard at some points. So much of this is TRUE! That’s why I laughed - when you finally exhale on the healing journey the magnitude these birds is something you can only laugh at. So damaging to us but we do make it through - blessed to finally be finding the humor. Thank you for your videos they are so comforting and enlightening.

  • @leesielou9783
    @leesielou9783 3 роки тому +39

    This video was 🔥!!! I love your spirit! You got me all fired up and I lmao with your colorful descriptions of the narcissist and the other supplies. (Donkey with a toupee...🤣) I look forward to each and every one of your video premieres 🤗🙌🏼❤️🙏🏻

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +1

      Lol!🤣🤣 Thank you Sis. I’m happy you enjoyed the video.✨💖💕💕💯

    • @Missy_561
      @Missy_561 3 роки тому +2

      Chicken with a wig 😂😂

  • @kendraheard8240
    @kendraheard8240 2 роки тому

    Preach Family.. shut the narcs DOWN!!!

  • @shannonmoseley6531
    @shannonmoseley6531 3 роки тому +5

    I love it and I am here for it!!!
    This is called righteous anger that takes territory in the spirit.

  • @jeffpadilla2121
    @jeffpadilla2121 Рік тому +2

    my ex of 9 years is and was a narcissist and I learned a lot from getting out of that toxic relationship . It also taught me what a narc is and what to look out for.. I started dating someone new and we only lasted a 1 year and half because I started seeing red flags and started calling her out on her narcissistic ways and since she knew that she wasn't gonna be able to control me and manipulate me she gave me the silent treatment for 2 weeks and that's when I said yup that's what a narcissist does. I gave her the silent treatment in return and I packed my belongings and said peace out!!! The REAL ONE kept it real and walked the hell outta the ex narcissist life... 😁😁😂🤣🙏🙏

  • @cathy_clarinet
    @cathy_clarinet 3 роки тому +26

    😂😂 “You got to be a special kind of stoopid“ 😂😂 You are so right

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +2

      Lol!!🤣🤣🤣

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 роки тому +1

      Yes 🙌 which would think who doesn’t want person respect care love them genuinely like person mistreat can’t. Sick to think you need hurt pain torture. Special kind stupid !

  • @sharonshepard2628
    @sharonshepard2628 Рік тому

    TELSHA, I love and appreciate you and what you do and you are so funny with that bat with a cowboy hat fraze you are awesome in the Lord.

  • @StariYTube1
    @StariYTube1 3 роки тому +15

    I know the response video she talking about HE FLAT OUT LIED... Narcs do feel rumination. LIERS

  • @michelejohnson2468
    @michelejohnson2468 2 роки тому

    Yessssss‼️I was the ONE, he didn’t know that! Thank You God for redirecting Me‼️🙏🏼

  • @nataliedelvalle4883
    @nataliedelvalle4883 3 роки тому +6

    You gave me life... reminded me who the heck I am. Child of God, that real one that won't tolerate no more monkey business! THANK YOU! GOD BLESS YOU SEE YOU AT THE TOP BAYBAYYY! 🥰😘

  • @197933328
    @197933328 Рік тому

    I love that woman!! This woman is BAD!!! :) Big respect i love the way you talk and express herself!

  • @josephcoatofmanycolours6305
    @josephcoatofmanycolours6305 2 роки тому +5

    Miss Tea I don't know if you are a preacher but you are preaching and this message is reaching and inspiring lives blessings.

  • @daisyjoy1564
    @daisyjoy1564 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you you're helping me heal.

  • @janmansour4313
    @janmansour4313 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much! That brings some self worth back into my soul my sister in Christ! Wow some peace finally!

  • @raelamaestra
    @raelamaestra 2 роки тому

    Narc #1 hoovered me for 8 years. I didn't know what was happening. The latest one tried but I blocked everyone associated with him. Narc-free life is so peaceful💖

  • @akstylez_ak5037
    @akstylez_ak5037 3 роки тому +12

    Honey I so much love your delivery 😍😍😍. It was everything I needed to hear and re-enforcement for what I’ve learned. Thank you.

  • @justred5164
    @justred5164 3 роки тому +1

    And when you realize that the narcissist has done this over and over again to quite a few real ones! Hello somebody!!!!!!

  • @annsam2111
    @annsam2111 3 роки тому +36

    Oh my goodness! I wish that I could hit like a thousand, no, million times. I'm soooo happy that you responded to that bird 🐦. Every word you spoke is true. Puleez... continue to keep it 💯 Ms. T. I get excited when you post a new video, no lying! Much love and appreciation ❣️🙌🔥

  • @eringobragh7
    @eringobragh7 Рік тому +1

    I love your passion Telsha
    We will forever be the ‘one who got away’ and they know it!
    Thank God for loving us and pulling us out of that crazy making mess!!
    To live 🙏🏼 laugh 😂 and love ❤️

  • @nicholetolita
    @nicholetolita 3 роки тому +8

    I remember a few weeks ago when I went back to my old city to visit some of my baby's other side of the family and he was there... He couldn't even look me in the eye at first. He doesn't want relationship, but I know for a fact that the new person did not compare and he could not get himself to admit he was wrong. That person is very wrong. If I wasn't so good to him, he wouldn't be contacting me in the manner that he is. Great video, Ms. Tea! ❤

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 роки тому +1

      Come on and testify Sis!! Keeping it all the way!!💯💯💯 You’re so welcome Sis. Thank you for being here with us.✨💖💕💕

  • @dawnhandelman308
    @dawnhandelman308 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    You are a TRUE GIFT ✝️

  • @sherryclarke2395
    @sherryclarke2395 3 роки тому +8

    Omg! Thank you 🙏🏽 I just deal with someone like this...it was the worst relationship l ever had! I was so good to this person he blamed EVERYTHING on me. I’m praying to God for restoration & healing🙏🏽

  • @Jettingred4
    @Jettingred4 2 роки тому +1

    Oh hell yes! I was Number 1 grade A Supply. I was in his life off and on for 45 years. He even told me that after his wife passed that I was always plan # B!! Little did I realize that he was a toxic Narcissist at the time. Once he had put me an Empath through the ringer with all the different stages of his insane behaviors of Narcissistic abuse, did I come to realize what a sick twisted personality he truly was! I am now NO CONTACT! I am a PLAN A Girl ! He cannot let go sadly because I AM his Grade A Supply, unlike his third party he just dumped!