Welcome to the Tribe. You got that 100% correct I mean never a friend. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
That's absolutely true I tried it and it doesn't work at all... They don't know how to deal with you as a friend .. they don't stop the lying and trickery or drama
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships this my state of narcissism my counselor has taught me how to ignore this tribe emotionally and mentally now it get physically filled with anger🤨🤔🙅
Absolutely - I agree same with me. It is better to hurt now are leave them - thank you stay and be destroyed. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Before I did it.. finally shut him out..Kept seeing the commercial "Liberty Liberty Liberty" didn't know it was a sign that I was finally being liberated 🙌🙌🙌🙌 The Most High is So loving!!
Yep, I did the discard and no contact. He tried to hoover me during the pandemic and got no response from me. He even sent in a flying monkey and I stood my ground. I love my life and I am at peace. Thank you for this video ❤️🙏🏽❤️
Summer Summer Welcome to the Tribe. Wow! Let just say - I’m so proud of you.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Peace is priceless and so is abundantly self love and you have both - what a blessing. Stay strong and keep shinning your beautiful light. Thank you for this uplifting comment and sharing your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
You got the pandemic Hoover too, huh? 🤣🤣🤣 Same here. Then the flying monkeys. Didn’t even give them a sec of my time to talk about what happened. Pretended I didn’t hear anythin
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed doesn’t it though. It is completely empowering. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen sometimes we have to just think goodness for the doors that the Almighty Creator allowed to be closed. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Let them get on with it, they know who we are they eventually know what they lost, we will always be in their minds when things go wrong for them, but we're never going back to some one who dident see our worth, we win .🌹
Welcome to the Tribe. Absolutely the memories of us will forever live in their mind and that’s part of their karma. You are correct in the end we win that’s the beautiful thing. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Amen by sister we are not going back we are kingdom ladies iam 64 years old I got divorced in 2019 i am single free and happy with jesus he is the center of my life
The sleeping thing is so weird. He literally only slept two to three hours and was an alcoholic, but could jump out of bed, and start going at 100 mph.
@@ausmerproductions OMMMMGGF MINE TOOOOO !!! i remember the first time i caugh it was when i stood at his place (moms house) and we didnt sleep, and i went home to go to sleep, he went to work that same morning , i was like wth, and that same afterniin after he got out of work we went somewhere till like 4 AM , and slept 3 hours i think and went to work lmaoo and was a alcoholic
My ex clown was alcoholic drank himself to sleep. Yup, then jumped out of bed 5 minutes before logging into work from home. Dark empath! I am happy, full of joy, no more chaos both from him and his mommy, she can have him back!
It’s so true! They never sleep! My ex husband of 10 years (who can barely keep a job) always slept maybe 5 hours a day total! I would be like wtf?? Last guy I dated for two years then dumped when I realized he too was a narcissist? He maybe slept 4-5 hours too! They were both too busy being straight hoes and trying to find their next victims! No time for sleep for these vampires!
Yes they don’t sleep they just go into a brief hibernation mode. It’s all because they have so much anxiety from all the evil. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Girl, that first discard had my head spinning! I was desperate to figure out what the heck had happened. I literally wondered if he had ended up in the hospital. Then he showed back up, totally fine, with excuses. I should have dumped him then.
Welcome to the Tribe. Come on speak on it sis yes indeed. Bless you the way that they abuse is just absolutely a hazard to humanity. I’m so happy you got away from him.
Yep that is what they do....my ex demon was drunk and grabbed my friend by the throat...he didn't want to face me the next day so he just texted....I am done....spineless cowards.
Welcome to the Tribe. I know that’s correct once you know you go. You get right up out of there. Good for you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
True! They dont sleep. Its crazy i know a few and they allllll sleep for 4 hours a night and going strong through the gd day! Where do they get al that energy from? Oh yeah! From me!!!
Well you know the Bible does state "There's No Rest For The WICKED"! So there you have it they don't sleep cause they Too Busy Plotting & Scheming Dam Devils
I did the discarding but not before having him do a bunch of free work on my house 🤣🤣🤣. Got emmmm !!! See he THOUGHT he was gonna do the work and I was gonna let him crawl back in my azz while triangulating me with the NS he kept denying he had ... tuhhhhh ! When that work got done I went NC !!! 🤣🤣🤣 Injured and fugggg him after the way he treated me in our marriage. Good riddance!!! Get em ladies !!
Trina LovingME Lol! You know they always think someone is trying to get over on them. I am hollering🤣 - I’m sure he didn’t see that one coming. Yes you sure did it like a BOSS! Thank you for sharing this comment and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
I love the way you start out with a classy demeanor and soon get into the stormy passionate talk as your talk gets into the full swing! I hear you, girl! Love that passion! Seriously people need to be educated about NPD.
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I like the way you described my whole delivery. Thank you I’m happy you love my passion. Yes the knowledge changes you. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Hoovering is what they are up to until you show them you are absolutely done and telling them you know WHO THEY ARE. Block, delete, and No Contact and if so, threaten a restraining order. 👍🏼 I AM FREE 😭
Welcome to the Tribe. You are absolutely correct. That part right there. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Mine is saying that he loves me so much and so, I acknowledged his love for me...BUT... I told him that his love is not enough for me because it cannot prevent him from cheating, lying, manipulating and deceiving me. Peace!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed there is a blessing and a gift in the discard amen. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Make them live with the choice they made. Don’t take down and don’t break rank. March in formation as a good soldier of the cross. Fight the good fight of faith. Your darks days are behind you. Walk in the liberty wherewith you have been set free. If any man be loosed, let him not seek to be bound again. My sister, I am thankful for the ministry God had birthed in you. You are helping so many soldiers of the cross find their way out of bondage and back to Jesus. May God continue using you for a time such as this.
I never got to see the devalue stage. I figured him out and dumped him before that. The only social media I had was Facebook and I deleted it. He’s stuck in another country because of COVID. Lol.
Christie Welcome to the Tribe. Lol! That’s what I’m taking about! Yay!! You are a wise woman. Thank you for sharing this comment and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
same girl, I did not experience him with the mask off, like I read everywhere, because his exwife warned me and I ran for my life. However my intuition has been warning me from the beginning, it was too good to be true, the entire soulmate effect etc. I saw some red flags, but not abusive ones at that time. Only when I distanced I saw another perspective, that he is the devil himself, anddd that his exwife is not crazy as he described her. 8 months from my life completely wasted, butt in return for the most valuable lesson in life. Always listen to your gut instincts, if its too goos to be true, most of the times its not. wish you all well. xx
Never saw that or discard I dumped her before it I did find out she was cheating we tried working it out but my spirit never was easy and I felt she was still playing around so I left.
That’s all it’s coming to do is disrupt your peace. Stay north contact and stay focused on you glow up. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I was discarded and went no contact and got an order protection and changed my number. his lost I’m out and i had to make sure he knew it. These are true demons in human form. He is still trying to contact me
Welcome to the Tribe. Now that’s what I’m talking about. He sure did lose and now he can stay lost. The discard is the greatest blessings when you look back on it. Even though it may not have felt like it at that time. He will look for you in another and never find you again. Let him keep trying as long as never contacts you again. I appreciate you sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
He discarded me as well after I told him I was done. He kicked us out! I had to get a restraining order on him. We went to court and lied to the Judge said we left and felt it was an attack on him.The judge set a trial for 12/22/20 . I know this is protecting me and the kids from contacting us because he doesn’t want to go to jail.
@@roxshells354 it’s ok stay strong! even though you are going to trial you are doing what you have to keep the demonic narc away. I will do whatever it takes to make sure i am not a victim again and get my truth out. Let these narcissist know they picked the wrong person to use.
My narc husband brutally discarded me a year ago and has moved in with the new supply. He also has other supplies in his harem garage. After 2 months in the discard, I blocked him and went no contact. He had hoped that i would become his side piece. Been educating myself and healing. I have absolutely no idea what he is doing, if he is stalking or what cause I do not want to see him let alone have anything to do with him.
J J Oh wow - his behavior is textbook narcissism. Oh yes they want to downgrade you to a side piece - good you didn’t take that bait. Yes - no contact and never going back love it!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Be encouraged - as you heal. Thank you for sharing your time and this awesome comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@m.martin6835 I'm yet to serve him with the divorce papers. Knowing him, he simply would not care cause he has got enough supplies in his harem garage to keep him happy and busy.
Omg! You're on point with every statement and example. I discarded the Narc in August 2020. This is the first time I stood up for myself. 1. In August 2020, the Narc text me requesting that we be friend or if we could hangout. I didn't respond. 2. The Narc's sister reached out to me via cellphone. I didn't respond. 3. In October 2020, the Narc left roses at my door. I threw them away. I didn't respond. In August 2020, I engaged in counseling via Virtual sessions. In September 2020, I visited my doctor and dietician. I committed to a Weight Loss program. I hired a Personal trainer. Thus far, I've lost 8 pounds. Today is a new day. I'm working on "me." I'm single and doing "me." I'm new to your videos, but I enjoy the content and information. I have a Journey ahead. Thank God for the break through. 🙏🙏
This is so awesome you are now taking care of yourself and living your best life narc free. That’s it do you!! I’m happy you enjoyed the video. Enjoy the journey ahead. I’m thinking the Almighty Creator with you as well that you got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships You and the Villagers assist in my healing. Many of us believe we're alone as a result, we exist, quietly, in shame, fear and guilt. This is an amazing feelings when others understand or empathize with your Journey. God Bless..🙏🙏
So right! I was in the devalue stage and I noticed the change in how I was treated. But I beat him to it, I dumped him , went no contact and never looked back. And yes mam’ he was behaving awful, disrespectful and abusive. Oh no.... I discarded that bag of no good. Ladies, NO CONTACT REALLY WORKS. He tried the stalking, oh yes he did, and I threatened him with the police and reporting it to his employer. He cut the crazy out ASAP. Thank you for this info.
Welcome to the Tribe. That’s what I’m talking about you laid the law down for that dog that is so awesome. I love it you said he cut the crazy out ASAP hilarious!🤣🤣 You’re so welcome. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Honestly, we should not care what they're doing after the discard because the point is to get them OUT of our lives. Staying consumed with what they are up to keeps us emotionally and mentally attached. When my ex left I blocked him from everything and did not accept messages he tried to relay through others. Let them go and move on FOR REAL......head and heart. Stop worrying about whether or not they are suffering without you because they are not. They're suffering due to a personality disorder. They struggle when its just them all by themselves. Its not about how good you are at all. Learn to value yourself because you truly love self and stop being consumed with what a damaged person is doing. You don't have time for that, you have your own healing to do and you won't as long as you're worrying about what a toxic ex is doing. Your separation from them is not to get payback or make them suffer, it should be for your own healing, growth and sanity.
The relationship was so Chaotic it didn't make sense. I couldn't let go (trauma bonded). God Answered my prayers....9 yrs..got a revelation I was dealing with Narc... I'm done!! BOSSING UP!!!
I discarded that narcissistic abuser 9 days ago after 8 years. I'm ashamed of myself for doing all I did for so long. I needed to see your videos. Thank you.
Welcome to the Tribe. That is so awesome that you found this tribe and in the content. I pray your healing is Godspeed. Forgive yourself we’ve all pretty much been there. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I left my marriage after I got tired of the B.S. a few years ago... Sad that such a talented person can be so empty of emotions and empathy... Anyways I'm doing better knowing I'm not alone and healing is possible
Vidro King Welcome to the Tribe. I’m happy you got out - awesome. They can never be satisfied and they will keep you stuck in their mess as long as you allow it. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment. Much Love.✨💖
Vidro King I left mine for the same reason. He was also very talented but not living up to his potential. It was impossible to build a anything with him. The bs was never ending and totally exhausting. Thankfully due to circumstances created by his lying and manipulation I'm in a position to get an annulment. I'm grateful for that at least.
Am going through that now , married for three years with this no emotional lack of empathy or no accountability person .Am praying for strength it so hard , I can’t stop crying .
So true! I did the discard & no contact for 4 months. After checking on me, she wanted to get back together, 🤔 I can truly saw that nothing has changed, still not trying to put in any effort towards the relationship, still trying to manipulate me into doing things & giving my time to her. Not having it!! Still standing my ground! 💪
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m so proud of you that is awesome stand in your power. Never go back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
OMG, did a BOSS DISGARD AND I TELL YOU, while leaving She told me “We’re gonna be friends forever “! I couldn’t believe it! Never asked to be friends. You hit it on the HEAD! Plus , NO CONTACT! Hallelujah!!
I discarded him 5 months ago, the day i did he got so mad bit my face and broke my finger! 2 weeks after all the way up til today (day of me typing this) he has been calling and having his sister in law to call me begging for me to call him. He has flattened the tires on my car etc. But i have yet to respond he keeps repeating the same thing over and over again " I'm sorry, i miss, i want no one but you, i want to make you happy?" Oh the best one " I CHANGED MY WAYS!!! 😂😂😂😂😂. His mom stabbed me once for fighting back when her son put his hands on me! Im just glad to be out! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🏃🏃
This is one of the best video’s yet...❤️ You’ve explained in great detail of what exactly happened to me. I discarded the Narc and that is exactly what the Narc did. When he came back to my home several months later but he didn’t get an answer, left him standing outside looking just like a fool..He don’t deserve to lay eyes on me again so... I left him in the dark trying to figure out what’s going on in my life now. I’M HAPPY AND AT PEACE AND CAN THINK CLEARLY NOW. I FEEL LIKE I’VE CONQUERED THE NARC. Now, I’m sitting back and enjoying life realizing my worth and paying attention to red flags and addressing them as they come.
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much. I try to be as transparent as possible and give it to you all straight no chaser. This is a very powerful comment for all to see thank you so much for sharing this. I’m happy that you are at peace now and moving on with your life that is such a blessing. Congratulations on your no contact and loving yourself more than that narcissist. Thank you for the gift of your time and leaving us a comment. Much love.✨💖
He admitted recently that he had faked everything. He SAID it; only he always scapegoats me, and projects onto me. May God protect me from ALL narcs in the future.
I did the discard and this fool has tried everything from superficial love bombing, threats, name calling, trying to drag me into circular arguments, future faking, ect....and I'm like naw "no contact" today, tomorrow, and the rest of my days!
I love your content so much! Continue speaking the truth to us narc abuse victims. It’s disgusting how wicked these creatures can be. They do discard us fast when we’re creating boundaries and standing up for our values. They make us think that having self respect is a bad thing. Thank goodness I discarded him as soon as the disrespect was on 100%. God the disrespect was so awful ... gaslighting, yelling, easily irritatable. He’d tell me that he doesn’t care what I have to say and that he doesn’t want to listen to me whenever I’d speak to him. Plus he had unaddressed mental health issues and heavy substance and alcohol use issues. Narcs can hide behind ANYTHING! It’s crushing how these people flip after the love-bombing is over and they’re feeling comfortable to let the mask slide around a bit
Shelby Smith Yessssssss! #ALLFACTS. Thank you so much - I’m happy that my content resinates with you. So true the disrespect goes from 0-100 in a millisecond after the love bomb. Thank you for sharing this comment, and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you for being such a great speaker. Looking back, you make me feel empowered to have stood up for myself and walked away when I said enough is enough. I know it's such a hard task for most women out there. Also, congratulations on how fast your channel is growing. I joined the tribe at around 310 subs and now you have nearly 500! You're on fire
Shelby Smith What a humbling comment. Thank you so much - you are a beautiful soul. Yes our Tribe is growing quickly and I attribute it all to the passion and fire The Creator lit in me for the pain I and we all endured at the hands of a narcissist. Stand in your power Sis - be forever empowered and encouraged. As I say to you all “You are the bomb.com baby!” Thank you so much for sharing your time and this encouraging comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
When if YOU were the one discarded and he blocked you on all social media. This is what happened to me when I refused to put up with anymore disrespect.
You are welcome. I really appreciate your soulful energy and wisdom. It feels like "grandmother's wit" im understanding more and more about narcissistic behavior. And im seeing where it is so prevalent in America on every level. Thank you soo much!
I stopped posting on FB, IG, Strava..deleted WhatsApp….according to my social media activity, I’ve vanished….no supply at all for him. I even bought a new car with a new license plate. I go nowhere near his part of town or the places we used to go. Even got rid of mutual friends. Done with that mess.
God saved my life when I asked a sign for help! I didn't know what happened at the time when I was discarded. A month later, I was in great dismay and suicidal! I got on Instagram and a post if you came out about those bats in cowboy hats! Since then I have focused and empowered myself watching your videos daily! It's been four months since the separation and no contact! He still hoovers me but I'm stronger than ever. Thank you for helping the many of us that need your encouraging words! ❤️
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed this is what they do after the discard absolutely. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
i remember one day he got soooo mad , he was so furious , his expression, the anger , it was his real face , it was himself for those moments, and i remember i kinda felt worry that he would had hurt me that moment , and thats when i started searching up his behavior... cause minutes later he was like oh baby i love u,
Wow you nailed it with the “they don’t even sleep” point! 😅 and they make us feel guilty for being tired from them having us up at all hours doing pointless stuff 🤦🏼♀️
This is so sad. It sticks a whole in your heart. She has showed up at my house two weeks in a row! The no contact has her pissed! It's working. Feels good after so MUCH devaluing.
These dynamics also occur in families. Both biological and in-law. Empaths put up with a lot. When you finally get mad enough to call them out- even subtly your name is dragged through the mud. Oh. Minus the sex.
WELL I DONT KNOW WAT HES BEEN UP TOO .BUT IVE BEEN HEALING..GROWING N LOVING THE HELL OUT OF ME...FALLING OUT OF LOVE N TAKING MY ENEGRY BACK...I'm manifesting my desires..n my new reality..he's not welcome...were married.but a divorce is on its way....lesson learned..I'm done..!!!!!
Welcome to the Tribe. WOW WOW WOW!!! THIS!! YES!!!! Thank you so much for sharing this is powerful love it. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I got tired of his crap and told him I'm SO DONE ....he physically attacked me in a Walmart Parking lot ppl called the Cops and he went to prison on a VOP....but after that relationship I met someone who I married and He is the Grand Narc...God has Shown me what Narcissism is an Ms. Tea....I am In class Narc 101 and bout to Graduate after 5 years with my Divorcing Him. Final DISCARD!!!! THE QUEEN IS BACK👑💖🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌
I really needed to hear that!!!! Thank you for sharing, such a Blessing. I need to keep on moving, its hard to let go of a long time marriage. But I can't go back. God has brought me too far. Thank you for this encouragement to hold my ground. Blessings to you.
Lisa Veiga You’re so welcome. I’m so proud of you in making the decision to let go and never go back. Amen and The Creator will never leave you us. Yes indeed - i’m happy that this content resonated with you. Be encouraged - we are family here. Thank you blessings to you as well.Thank you for sharing your time and this uplifting comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes this is typical for now this is what they do and how they behave ridiculous. I’m so happy you’ve been no contact congratulations keep up the great work. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
This is one of the most disheartening experiences. No contact for life you will never play with me again. Sacrificed my life for that selfish stubborn self absorbed trash.
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships And WTF with the Narcs and their “friends.” Their definition is not like ours!! I left a while back but he asks once in a while why we can’t be friends! Friends don’t do what he wants.
My situation was a bit different. About 3 years ago, he just stopped contacting me. I believe he thought I was gonna chase him (yeah, right, I was glad he moved on)! Then, I started researching Narcissistic behaviors. Last August, he texted me and said he was going into the hospital. I texted him back asking what for. He didn’t reply. THEN, I texted back saying that I had given it a lot of thought. If you can’t communicate, there is no longer a connection. This is good bye. I wish you the best! THEN, I blocked my text messaging from him. In May of this year, the hoovering began. He sent me 5 messages on Messenger. I didn’t open or reply. I dread the thought of him continuing the hoovering! 😩
My ex narcissist husband looks gaunt, filthy, nasty and hungry. I thought he was a homeless dude when I saw him. The grass wasn’t greener I guess. You are right sister 😘
Lord. First of all, you are hilarious! 🤣 It’s CRAZY how everything, word for word, every analogy was so spot on to how this man transformed into a completely different person! I knew there was something wrong with him. Me being a super empath I seen everything he was doing and I couldn’t understand it, until the scary truth was he literally was a narcissist. I made a joke he didn’t like, & he turned that into a whole ordeal, cursing me out calling me out my name. Everything and anything I ever told him he used it against me. He never spoke to me like that before.. I never imagined he would. But the way he literally let his insecurity & anger come out the way it did it scares me even just thinking about how the person I thought he was, was a visage. After “making up”, I still couldn’t continue the relationship without him apologizing to me for saying those nasty things to me, & he got so outraged and DID IT AGAIN, when I simply said let’s apologize and move on from this, & that we can communicate better to avoid something like this happening again. I tried to give him a chance, but he failed so I ended up just blocking him. 🥺😂
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m so happy you like my comedy when I’m discussing these clowns oh my goodness I have to make jokes to keep from saying bad words. Yes indeed this is how they act in a fit of rage they are small children and grown-up bodies. I have to say I laughed at the times that you were giving him chances knowing that clown would not act right ever again. It was a façade from the beginning. Bless you I’m so happy you got rid of him and blocked him. Welcome back to peace and happiness. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Hi , my name is Silvia. Im from Perth Australia. For the last 6 weeks ive listen to hundreds of broadcast on narcissists , although I was aware of the abuse inflicted on me ive learned so much and was given the knowledge to recognise and understand what he is a NARCISSIST . I HAD NO IDEA WHAT AWHAT A NARCISEST WAS Most of the broadcasts helped me to identify all the stages that I was going through and that were to come it helped me to nevigate through the hoovers since I new what to exepect it put me in a stronger posetion to resist and stand my ground . suddenly, everything made perfect sense. Making sence wasn't enough it made me sad and discusted on myself for enduring so much and all for nothing but also helped me to put the missing puzzle peaces together the red flags I chose to ignore are no conclusions and facts , although I can't prove a lot of It I'm sensible enough to believe that my instinct and suspensions are real. I have been following broadcasts 2 weeks before I built the courage to discard him and haven't gone back and I won't my deceasion is finall . Its been hard It still is. You have made a sagneficant change in my grief and healing knowledge wasnt enough , I needed you, you are an amazing person you give me so much strengh through your work , you boost me up and have even put a smile on my face , I've even laughed out loud together with with you while listening to your broadcast. I just wanted to say Thank You and keep up the good work Anything you can send me that you think can help me on my journey to recovery please do. I'm for ever grateful. This is my e-mail Heysis_3@hotmail.com.au
He definitely asked me if we could be cool/friends!! I said no, I don’t want to be cool with you. Then once I blocked him and unblocked him the new supply was locked and loaded. I blocked his tail again! Done!! He can wonder like Stevie!!!
I am so happy that I could make you laugh as you heal and grow. I just have to keep it all the way 💯. Thank you so much I’m happy you are enjoying the content and recovering well. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships yes this narcissist behaviour is Sooo mad! I was a good supply for 14 years (married 8 years) two children and just bought her a house this year and left her in it (I had to get out of there) she has a new supply now.. An old ex boyfriend! Do you think it will last!!?
My ex had the nerve to say I wasn't trying to fight to get her back.IM LIKE FIGHT WHO your new supplies LOL I THOUGHT OF ALL THE CHOAS SHE BROUGHT INTO MY LIFE I SAID TO MYSELF HELL2DANAW then I prayed she would leave it took some time but that day came and boyeeee was I glad GOD answers prayers
this relationship was PURE HELL on Earth. The amount of chaos, drama and ups and downs. I thank GOD Almighty for delivering me from this malevolence. My life is now back on track, I feel great and zero contact!!!! HALLELUJAH!!!
Welcome to the Tribe. Bless you congratulations on your no contact keep moving forward that is awesome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I Love your content and yes gurl continue to spread the word on these demonic spirits...also I'm so happy I was happy to actually meet you and connect with people who are woke and are educated and understands...It was a pleasure meeting you through Chanel the Spiritual Whistle Blower support group meet up at Venice Beach...we had a beautiful and enlighten day...Power to the Empaths...our community is Growing Strong...Blessing Positive Vibes Sent Your Way 💜
S C Thank you so much. Here is an official welcome to our Tribe as well. Yes indeed it was a pleasure to meat You as Well Queen and the rest of the beautiful souls there Chanel - Spiritual Whistleblower is dynamic!! Just here to help educate and enlighten. We had an awesome time at Spiritual Whistleblower’s Venice Beach support group meeting. Yes power to the Empaths. Sending you positive vibes as well. Continue shinning your beautiful light and growing in knowledge. Thank you for sharing this beautiful comment and some of your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
My last supply (me being the grade A empath), after the discard, well....he's out in the local area, stood in public, busy talking to himself. Community embarrassment, He's totally fallen off. Don't take the Chosen few for granted😇
I was definitely that one!! I shut that ass down after 4 months. I seen it earlier than that, but I said let me not jump to conclusions and then I was like oh nah I’m out!
Wow! I LOVE this lady! She is so informative and adds humorous content as well! So glad I happened upon this! Make sure to like and subscribe! You'll be so glad you did! 🙂
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much for subscribing. I’m so happy you enjoy my content. You are awesome! Thank you for recommending my channel. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yeah Baby -tell it like it is-!!! It's only been a few days i'm alone, but with you around, I feel more supported than speaking to any of my friends -!
I got hoovered once then ghosted & blocked and fell for it bc I wasn’t educated enough but it’s been since June & I haven’t contacted him & never will .... he might be thinking oh how come she’s not chasing me like before??... he can have that poor excuse of new supply .... my condolences to those women ... I’m free as a bird happier than ever I sleep soundly at night
Welcome to the Tribe. That is so awesome I’m so happy you are free from that madness. And you’re sleeping and resting peacefully that is a blessing. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Awesome - I’m so proud of you.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 See that 4 social media pages now. The insanity never stops with these individuals. Thank you for sharing your time and this on point comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
May 5 -7 we were in Vegas after I hadn't seen him in over 10years his entire family was there even the head monkey mom. His brother just got married but the wife didn't come because the brother had his married side piece there. The guy I was with daughter came to Vegas as well he just reconnected with her after being adopted at birth. He totally ignored his daughter it was crazy. I saw everything I needed to see and heard everything I needed too. He called himself ghosting me 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 I already had it in mind after this trip I'd never speak to him again. He said gay things and acted gay. He kept calling his brother baby.. I changed my number and blocked everyone. I'm good he and his family are disgusting..
I swear i love her.. Id probably call her auntie by accident if i ever were to meet her❤😍 speak queen... I love tour energy!! You have helped me greatly!
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I’m happy that you are enjoying the content here on the channel. You’re so welcome I give all the credit to the Almighty Creator. Absolutely I’m so happy also that I could make you laugh while you heal learn and grow. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
MY DAD TAUGHT ME " THE ONLY WAY TO HURT A PERSON IS TO LEAVE THEM ALONE ". IT DOES WORK👍.
Yes it does and it works well!!
Woah!!!!!!! That’s why this narcissist won’t just move on I blocked him 5 time from different devices next I’m going to file a police report
Actions speak louder than words.
Similar to what my dad taught me….The smartest person in the room is the one with their mouth shut! LOL! #godblessdaddies
@@abundance3696 I had to file 2 restraining orders . Yupppp
When someone shows you who they are believe them.
I'm finally catching on!
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"...no narcissist is ever a friend." 💯
Welcome to the Tribe. You got that 100% correct I mean never a friend. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Truth 💘
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Yes I have found this out over the years. 🤦🏾♀️
That's absolutely true I tried it and it doesn't work at all... They don't know how to deal with you as a friend .. they don't stop the lying and trickery or drama
Once they start putting their hands on you or calling you out of your name, that is the beginning of the end of that relationship.
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@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships this my state of narcissism my counselor has taught me how to ignore this tribe emotionally and mentally now it get physically filled with anger🤨🤔🙅
SILENCE IS THE BEST POLICY, TO LEAVE A NARCISSISTIC 🎯
Yes I gave the final disguard and went No Contact. It was painful, but it was, AND is the most liberating thing a person can do for themselves.
Absolutely - I agree same with me. It is better to hurt now are leave them - thank you stay and be destroyed. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 💖
Before I did it.. finally shut him out..Kept seeing the commercial "Liberty Liberty Liberty" didn't know it was a sign that I was finally being liberated 🙌🙌🙌🙌 The Most High is So loving!!
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@@angellove4448 💯
Yes! If you discard they can not handle it. Like a lil kid they want what they can not have. Shut them down.
Narc Free Absolutely! You already know. Shutting them down is the only way out.✨💖
100th like 😆
Yep, I did the discard and no contact. He tried to hoover me during the pandemic and got no response from me. He even sent in a flying monkey and I stood my ground. I love my life and I am at peace. Thank you for this video ❤️🙏🏽❤️
Summer Summer Welcome to the Tribe. Wow! Let just say - I’m so proud of you.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Peace is priceless and so is abundantly self love and you have both - what a blessing. Stay strong and keep shinning your beautiful light. Thank you for this uplifting comment and sharing your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
Sleeping around during the pandemic..unreal!!!!
oh yes yes agree blessings to you sister.Keep on striving for bigger things .God is good.
He did not see my discard coming at all
You got the pandemic Hoover too, huh? 🤣🤣🤣 Same here. Then the flying monkeys. Didn’t even give them a sec of my time to talk about what happened. Pretended I didn’t hear anythin
It feels so good to be on the side of making them live with it!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed doesn’t it though. It is completely empowering. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you ❤️
@@heatherlynn3438 you’re so welcome.✨💖
Oh I know what happened... God closed the door....What door God closes no man can open.🙏
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen sometimes we have to just think goodness for the doors that the Almighty Creator allowed to be closed. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Amen amen
Amen 🙏🏻
Betta believe it sis!!! AMEN AND AMEN!!
@@lisalyons3054 welcome to the Tribe. Amen.✨💖
The Discard is a blessings.
Chin up Survivors and Thrievers.
Amen Sis speak on it!✨💖
Let them get on with it, they know who we are they eventually know what they lost, we will always be in their minds when things go wrong for them, but we're never going back to some one who dident see our worth, we win .🌹
Welcome to the Tribe. Absolutely the memories of us will forever live in their mind and that’s part of their karma. You are correct in the end we win that’s the beautiful thing. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thankyou glad I found your website 💖🌹
Amen by sister we are not going back we are kingdom ladies iam 64 years old I got divorced in 2019 i am single free and happy with jesus he is the center of my life
Very accurate.
The sleeping thing is so weird. He literally only slept two to three hours and was an alcoholic, but could jump out of bed, and start going at 100 mph.
Yes my ex Narc used to deprive my sleep. And keep me awake knowing I woke up early
Yessss!!
@@ausmerproductions OMMMMGGF MINE TOOOOO !!! i remember the first time i caugh it was when i stood at his place (moms house) and we didnt sleep, and i went home to go to sleep, he went to work that same morning , i was like wth, and that same afterniin after he got out of work we went somewhere till like 4 AM , and slept 3 hours i think and went to work lmaoo and was a alcoholic
True they dont sleep they take naps & be ready for whatever like they slept for 8- 10 hrs.& true to the alcohol & dont get drunk.
My ex clown was alcoholic drank himself to sleep. Yup, then jumped out of bed 5 minutes before logging into work from home. Dark empath! I am happy, full of joy, no more chaos both from him and his mommy, she can have him back!
It’s so true! They never sleep! My ex husband of 10 years (who can barely keep a job) always slept maybe 5 hours a day total! I would be like wtf?? Last guy I dated for two years then dumped when I realized he too was a narcissist? He maybe slept 4-5 hours too! They were both too busy being straight hoes and trying to find their next victims! No time for sleep for these vampires!
Yes they don’t sleep they just go into a brief hibernation mode. It’s all because they have so much anxiety from all the evil. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
It's DEMONIC energy
True, Narcissist are official hoes. Real Talk!!!
@@michelekisly2535 LITERALLY
Girl, that first discard had my head spinning! I was desperate to figure out what the heck had happened. I literally wondered if he had ended up in the hospital. Then he showed back up, totally fine, with excuses. I should have dumped him then.
Welcome to the Tribe. Come on speak on it sis yes indeed. Bless you the way that they abuse is just absolutely a hazard to humanity. I’m so happy you got away from him.
Yep that is what they do....my ex demon was drunk and grabbed my friend by the throat...he didn't want to face me the next day so he just texted....I am done....spineless cowards.
Same thing happened to me. But, round 2, I discarded the clown and never looked back. No Contact is the only option.
I was confused the first time I got my lick back this next round. Baby , you ain't going to keep doing that 😂!
As soon as I found out he was a narcissist it was game over for me!
Goodbye forever👋✌
Welcome to the Tribe. I know that’s correct once you know you go. You get right up out of there. Good for you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
True! They dont sleep. Its crazy i know a few and they allllll sleep for 4 hours a night and going strong through the gd day! Where do they get al that energy from? Oh yeah! From me!!!
Lol! 😂 Yes Sis that part. They get it from us.✨💖
Well you know the Bible does state "There's No Rest For The WICKED"! So there you have it they don't sleep cause they Too Busy Plotting & Scheming Dam Devils
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Thats all the fuel they snatch out of other ppl.
His phone was on 24/7
He had to have the adulation
I did the discarding but not before having him do a bunch of free work on my house 🤣🤣🤣. Got emmmm !!! See he THOUGHT he was gonna do the work and I was gonna let him crawl back in my azz while triangulating me with the NS he kept denying he had ... tuhhhhh ! When that work got done I went NC !!! 🤣🤣🤣 Injured and fugggg him after the way he treated me in our marriage. Good riddance!!! Get em ladies !!
Trina LovingME Lol! You know they always think someone is trying to get over on them. I am hollering🤣 - I’m sure he didn’t see that one coming. Yes you sure did it like a BOSS! Thank you for sharing this comment and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
😂😂 Yessss! Nothing wrong with getting something out of HIM for all your PAIN & SUFFERING
No Narc Lover 😂😂
Yessss! The way you wrote this has me screamin' 😂😂😂😂
Rotflmao
Do it baby!!
That’s the only thing they deserve ...
No contact all the way!!
I love the way you start out with a classy demeanor and soon get into the stormy passionate talk as your talk gets into the full swing! I hear you, girl! Love that passion! Seriously people need to be educated about NPD.
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I like the way you described my whole delivery. Thank you I’m happy you love my passion. Yes the knowledge changes you. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
thats why i love her videos
Hoovering is what they are up to until you show them you are absolutely done and telling them you know WHO THEY ARE. Block, delete, and No Contact and if so, threaten a restraining order. 👍🏼 I AM FREE 😭
Welcome to the Tribe. You are absolutely correct. That part right there. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Mine is saying that he loves me so much and so, I acknowledged his love for me...BUT...
I told him that his love is not enough for me because it cannot prevent him from cheating, lying, manipulating and deceiving me.
Peace!
Outstanding hats off to you!! Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yes, the DISCARD was definitely a 🎁!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed there is a blessing and a gift in the discard amen. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Can we be friends??? Lol. Oh boy they so underestimate us. Find someone new to share your featherpillow with. Ty
@@carol-xk3lq haha so true get the hell away
he's not soulmate, he's soulfake lol
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes that part right there LOL. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
They are demon seeds. You are so on point. They are not capable of loving anyone not even their self. They’re so dark.
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Sole mate
@@monicanapier9087 sold mate 😅😂🤣🤣🤣😭
Make them live with the choice they made. Don’t take down and don’t break rank. March in formation as a good soldier of the cross. Fight the good fight of faith. Your darks days are behind you. Walk in the liberty wherewith you have been set free. If any man be loosed, let him not seek to be bound again. My sister, I am thankful for the ministry God had birthed in you. You are helping so many soldiers of the cross find their way out of bondage and back to Jesus. May God continue using you for a time such as this.
I never got to see the devalue stage. I figured him out and dumped him before that. The only social media I had was Facebook and I deleted it. He’s stuck in another country because of COVID. Lol.
Christie Welcome to the Tribe. Lol! That’s what I’m taking about! Yay!! You are a wise woman. Thank you for sharing this comment and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
same girl, I did not experience him with the mask off, like I read everywhere, because his exwife warned me and I ran for my life. However my intuition has been warning me from the beginning, it was too good to be true, the entire soulmate effect etc. I saw some red flags, but not abusive ones at that time. Only when I distanced I saw another perspective, that he is the devil himself, anddd that his exwife is not crazy as he described her. 8 months from my life completely wasted, butt in return for the most valuable lesson in life. Always listen to your gut instincts, if its too goos to be true, most of the times its not. wish you all well. xx
Never saw that or discard I dumped her before it I did find out she was cheating we tried working it out but my spirit never was easy and I felt she was still playing around so I left.
I did the discard and gone no contact but I’m hearing the rumors and guess what I blocked everyone who calls with gossip and disrupt my spirit
That’s all it’s coming to do is disrupt your peace. Stay north contact and stay focused on you glow up. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Amen! Stop that negative energy.
I was discarded and went no contact and got an order protection and changed my number. his lost I’m out and i had to make sure he knew it. These are true demons in human form. He is still trying to contact me
Welcome to the Tribe. Now that’s what I’m talking about. He sure did lose and now he can stay lost. The discard is the greatest blessings when you look back on it. Even though it may not have felt like it at that time. He will look for you in another and never find you again. Let him keep trying as long as never contacts you again. I appreciate you sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Erica C. Please stay strong.
The Tea on NPD and Relationships 💕💕thank you!! Your channel is a great motivation to stay strong.
He discarded me as well after I told him I was done. He kicked us out! I had to get a restraining order on him. We went to court and lied to the Judge said we left and felt it was an attack on him.The judge set a trial for 12/22/20 . I know this is protecting me and the kids from contacting us because he doesn’t want to go to jail.
@@roxshells354 it’s ok stay strong! even though you are going to trial you are doing what you have to keep the demonic narc away. I will do whatever it takes to make sure i am not a victim again and get my truth out. Let these narcissist know they picked the wrong person to use.
My narc husband brutally discarded me a year ago and has moved in with the new supply. He also has other supplies in his harem garage. After 2 months in the discard, I blocked him and went no contact. He had hoped that i would become his side piece. Been educating myself and healing. I have absolutely no idea what he is doing, if he is stalking or what cause I do not want to see him let alone have anything to do with him.
J J Oh wow - his behavior is textbook narcissism. Oh yes they want to downgrade you to a side piece - good you didn’t take that bait. Yes - no contact and never going back love it!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Be encouraged - as you heal. Thank you for sharing your time and this awesome comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I totally agree with you, I’m doing the same things right now 👏👌👍
Did you serve him divorce paperwork? Will you be making him your legal ex husband? If so, how did he react?
@@m.martin6835 I'm yet to serve him with the divorce papers. Knowing him, he simply would not care cause he has got enough supplies in his harem garage to keep him happy and busy.
@@hazeleyes2381 I will pray for your experience to propel you to your absolute best. You've been blessed to see you had no more place in his chaos⭐⭐🙏
Omg! You're on point with every statement and example. I discarded the Narc in August 2020. This is the first time I stood up for myself.
1. In August 2020, the Narc text me requesting that we be friend or if we could hangout. I didn't respond.
2. The Narc's sister reached out to me via cellphone. I didn't respond.
3. In October 2020, the Narc left roses at my door. I threw them away. I didn't respond.
In August 2020, I engaged in counseling via Virtual sessions. In September 2020, I visited my doctor and dietician. I committed to a Weight Loss program. I hired a Personal trainer. Thus far, I've lost 8 pounds. Today is a new day. I'm working on "me." I'm single and doing "me." I'm new to your videos, but I enjoy the content and information. I have a Journey ahead. Thank God for the break through. 🙏🙏
This is so awesome you are now taking care of yourself and living your best life narc free. That’s it do you!! I’m happy you enjoyed the video. Enjoy the journey ahead. I’m thinking the Almighty Creator with you as well that you got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships You and the Villagers assist in my healing. Many of us believe we're alone as a result, we exist, quietly, in shame, fear and guilt. This is an amazing feelings when others understand or empathize with your Journey. God Bless..🙏🙏
You’re on right path Sis, keep going!!!!!💯🌻👍🏽
You will be a strong person and you will do it.
Turn to Jesus Christ for strength 💪🏽🤛🙏🏽
So right! I was in the devalue stage and I noticed the change in how I was treated. But I beat him to it, I dumped him , went no contact and never looked back. And yes mam’ he was behaving awful, disrespectful and abusive. Oh no.... I discarded that bag of no good. Ladies, NO CONTACT REALLY WORKS. He tried the stalking, oh yes he did, and I threatened him with the police and reporting it to his employer. He cut the crazy out ASAP. Thank you for this info.
Welcome to the Tribe. That’s what I’m talking about you laid the law down for that dog that is so awesome. I love it you said he cut the crazy out ASAP hilarious!🤣🤣 You’re so welcome. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
The grass is the greenest where it's watered.
2 years no contact yesterday.
Honestly, we should not care what they're doing after the discard because the point is to get them OUT of our lives. Staying consumed with what they are up to keeps us emotionally and mentally attached. When my ex left I blocked him from everything and did not accept messages he tried to relay through others. Let them go and move on FOR REAL......head and heart. Stop worrying about whether or not they are suffering without you because they are not. They're suffering due to a personality disorder. They struggle when its just them all by themselves. Its not about how good you are at all. Learn to value yourself because you truly love self and stop being consumed with what a damaged person is doing. You don't have time for that, you have your own healing to do and you won't as long as you're worrying about what a toxic ex is doing. Your separation from them is not to get payback or make them suffer, it should be for your own healing, growth and sanity.
Block it for life dust off your feet. And do not look back. Ever. It's all good. Let that all go. Move forward not backward.
The relationship was so Chaotic it didn't make sense. I couldn't let go (trauma bonded). God Answered my prayers....9 yrs..got a revelation I was dealing with Narc... I'm done!! BOSSING UP!!!
I discarded that narcissistic abuser 9 days ago after 8 years. I'm ashamed of myself for doing all I did for so long. I needed to see your videos. Thank you.
Welcome to the Tribe. That is so awesome that you found this tribe and in the content. I pray your healing is Godspeed. Forgive yourself we’ve all pretty much been there. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Your resilience and courage is absolutely amazing. You are truly amazing. Sending unconditional love to you because You deserve it!
Never be ashamed , we all human and I take it as a lesson and a blessing !! Thank God you ended it!
No need to be ashamed. Be glad you learned the lesson and moved on. Enjoy your happy days now.
same here.. you are not the only one 😏 but be glad it's done...no more! 🙏
I left my marriage after I got tired of the B.S. a few years ago... Sad that such a talented person can be so empty of emotions and empathy... Anyways I'm doing better knowing I'm not alone and healing is possible
Vidro King Welcome to the Tribe. I’m happy you got out - awesome. They can never be satisfied and they will keep you stuck in their mess as long as you allow it. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment. Much Love.✨💖
Vidro King I left mine for the same reason. He was also very talented but not living up to his potential. It was impossible to build a anything with him. The bs was never ending and totally exhausting. Thankfully due to circumstances created by his lying and manipulation I'm in a position to get an annulment. I'm grateful for that at least.
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships You are correct. It's a never ending vicious cycle.
Definitely not alone. Obviously so many of us ...
Am going through that now , married for three years with this no emotional lack of empathy or no accountability person .Am praying for strength it so hard , I can’t stop crying .
So true! I did the discard & no contact for 4 months. After checking on me, she wanted to get back together, 🤔 I can truly saw that nothing has changed, still not trying to put in any effort towards the relationship, still trying to manipulate me into doing things & giving my time to her. Not having it!! Still standing my ground! 💪
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m so proud of you that is awesome stand in your power. Never go back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
OMG, did a BOSS DISGARD AND I TELL YOU, while leaving She told me “We’re gonna be friends forever “! I couldn’t believe it! Never asked to be friends. You hit it on the HEAD! Plus , NO CONTACT! Hallelujah!!
I discarded him 5 months ago, the day i did he got so mad bit my face and broke my finger! 2 weeks after all the way up til today (day of me typing this) he has been calling and having his sister in law to call me begging for me to call him. He has flattened the tires on my car etc. But i have yet to respond he keeps repeating the same thing over and over again " I'm sorry, i miss, i want no one but you, i want to make you happy?" Oh the best one " I CHANGED MY WAYS!!! 😂😂😂😂😂. His mom stabbed me once for fighting back when her son put his hands on me! Im just glad to be out! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🏃🏃
Wow, i got my face bitten too. Lol
Wow
Im reading this with my mouth dropped open...wow
This is one of the best video’s yet...❤️ You’ve explained in great detail of what exactly happened to me. I discarded the Narc and that is exactly what the Narc did. When he came back to my home several months later but he didn’t get an answer, left him standing outside looking just like a fool..He don’t deserve to lay eyes on me again so... I left him in the dark trying to figure out what’s going on in my life now. I’M HAPPY AND AT PEACE AND CAN THINK CLEARLY NOW. I FEEL LIKE I’VE CONQUERED THE NARC. Now, I’m sitting back and enjoying life realizing my worth and paying attention to red flags and addressing them as they come.
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much. I try to be as transparent as possible and give it to you all straight no chaser. This is a very powerful comment for all to see thank you so much for sharing this. I’m happy that you are at peace now and moving on with your life that is such a blessing. Congratulations on your no contact and loving yourself more than that narcissist. Thank you for the gift of your time and leaving us a comment. Much love.✨💖
Tormented useless empty shells!
This!✨💖
He admitted recently that he had faked everything. He SAID it; only he always scapegoats me, and projects onto me. May God protect me from ALL narcs in the future.
I did the discard and this fool has tried everything from superficial love bombing, threats, name calling, trying to drag me into circular arguments, future faking, ect....and I'm like naw "no contact" today, tomorrow, and the rest of my days!
I love your content so much! Continue speaking the truth to us narc abuse victims. It’s disgusting how wicked these creatures can be. They do discard us fast when we’re creating boundaries and standing up for our values. They make us think that having self respect is a bad thing. Thank goodness I discarded him as soon as the disrespect was on 100%. God the disrespect was so awful ... gaslighting, yelling, easily irritatable. He’d tell me that he doesn’t care what I have to say and that he doesn’t want to listen to me whenever I’d speak to him. Plus he had unaddressed mental health issues and heavy substance and alcohol use issues. Narcs can hide behind ANYTHING! It’s crushing how these people flip after the love-bombing is over and they’re feeling comfortable to let the mask slide around a bit
Shelby Smith Yessssssss! #ALLFACTS. Thank you so much - I’m happy that my content resinates with you. So true the disrespect goes from 0-100 in a millisecond after the love bomb. Thank you for sharing this comment, and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you for being such a great speaker. Looking back, you make me feel empowered to have stood up for myself and walked away when I said enough is enough. I know it's such a hard task for most women out there. Also, congratulations on how fast your channel is growing. I joined the tribe at around 310 subs and now you have nearly 500! You're on fire
Shelby Smith What a humbling comment. Thank you so much - you are a beautiful soul. Yes our Tribe is growing quickly and I attribute it all to the passion and fire The Creator lit in me for the pain I and we all endured at the hands of a narcissist. Stand in your power Sis - be forever empowered and encouraged. As I say to you all “You are the bomb.com baby!” Thank you so much for sharing your time and this encouraging comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
When if YOU were the one discarded and he blocked you on all social media. This is what happened to me when I refused to put up with anymore disrespect.
I'm totally burnt out with this narcissist Tea! I couldn't take the abuse from her anymore! No more narcissist forever!
The best part that empowered me is "you let them stay in that state of not doing well. You have enough self respect for your self.." 🔥
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed that part right there absolutely. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You are welcome. I really appreciate your soulful energy and wisdom. It feels like "grandmother's wit" im understanding more and more about narcissistic behavior. And im seeing where it is so prevalent in America on every level. Thank you soo much!
I stopped posting on FB, IG, Strava..deleted WhatsApp….according to my social media activity, I’ve vanished….no supply at all for him. I even bought a new car with a new license plate. I go nowhere near his part of town or the places we used to go. Even got rid of mutual friends. Done with that mess.
God saved my life when I asked a sign for help! I didn't know what happened at the time when I was discarded. A month later, I was in great dismay and suicidal! I got on Instagram and a post if you came out about those bats in cowboy hats! Since then I have focused and empowered myself watching your videos daily! It's been four months since the separation and no contact! He still hoovers me but I'm stronger than ever. Thank you for helping the many of us that need your encouraging words! ❤️
They make the worst decisions. For sure. God bless❤
This is true. He became OBSESSED. Like a whole new level of CRAZY.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed this is what they do after the discard absolutely. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
i remember one day he got soooo mad , he was so furious , his expression, the anger , it was his real face , it was himself for those moments, and i remember i kinda felt worry that he would had hurt me that moment , and thats when i started searching up his behavior... cause minutes later he was like oh baby i love u,
I found out this year God revealed this to me about my husband being a narcissist didn't not have a clue. But I discarded him.
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m so happy you got away from him. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yasssss hunni Tore up from the floor up.Beat up from the feet up.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed Sis tore up from the floor up. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Wow you nailed it with the “they don’t even sleep” point! 😅 and they make us feel guilty for being tired from them having us up at all hours doing pointless stuff 🤦🏼♀️
This is so sad. It sticks a whole in your heart. She has showed up at my house two weeks in a row! The no contact has her pissed! It's working. Feels good after so MUCH devaluing.
These dynamics also occur in families. Both biological and in-law. Empaths put up with a lot. When you finally get mad enough to call them out- even subtly your name is dragged through the mud. Oh. Minus the sex.
So true you’re right. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Perfectly described! you know how to put em on blast!!!
He was throwing puppies poo around, all over the walls. He absolutely cooked it in his narcissistic rage
WELL I DONT KNOW WAT HES BEEN UP TOO .BUT IVE BEEN HEALING..GROWING N LOVING THE HELL OUT OF ME...FALLING OUT OF LOVE N TAKING MY ENEGRY BACK...I'm manifesting my desires..n my new reality..he's not welcome...were married.but a divorce is on its way....lesson learned..I'm done..!!!!!
Welcome to the Tribe. WOW WOW WOW!!! THIS!! YES!!!! Thank you so much for sharing this is powerful love it. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Thanks my 👑LORD JESUS👑 for the discart, our exit door back to ourselves
Looking for me in the daylight with a flashlight! I am in the wind 💨
That part right there yes ma’am absolutely!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I got tired of his crap and told him I'm SO DONE ....he physically attacked me in a Walmart Parking lot ppl called the Cops and he went to prison on a VOP....but after that relationship I met someone who I married and He is the Grand Narc...God has Shown me what Narcissism is an Ms. Tea....I am In class Narc 101 and bout to Graduate after 5 years with my Divorcing Him. Final DISCARD!!!! THE QUEEN IS BACK👑💖🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌
I really needed to hear that!!!! Thank you for sharing, such a Blessing. I need to keep on moving, its hard to let go of a long time marriage. But I can't go back. God has brought me too far. Thank you for this encouragement to hold my ground. Blessings to you.
Lisa Veiga You’re so welcome. I’m so proud of you in making the decision to let go and never go back. Amen and The Creator will never leave you us. Yes indeed - i’m happy that this content resonated with you. Be encouraged - we are family here. Thank you blessings to you as well.Thank you for sharing your time and this uplifting comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
the soul tie is the most difficult part of getting involved with the narcissist, and it's harder breaking from it too
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yesss we had a 30 yr history
He discarded me I went no contact and 3 months later he married an ex ,we were in a relationship if that's what that was for 11 years ,its sickening
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes this is typical for now this is what they do and how they behave ridiculous. I’m so happy you’ve been no contact congratulations keep up the great work. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
This is one of the most disheartening experiences. No contact for life you will never play with me again. Sacrificed my life for that selfish stubborn self absorbed trash.
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I love your videos! Exactly on point. Yep, X Narc always wants to be “friends.”, but his definition of “friends “ isn’t like the rest of us. 👍
Thank you Sister I’m happy you are enjoying the content.✨💖💕💕
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships And WTF with the Narcs and their “friends.” Their definition is not like ours!! I left a while back but he asks once in a while why we can’t be friends! Friends don’t do what he wants.
Same with me. He wanted to maintain “friendship”. I told him he didn’t know what the real meaning of friendship is. No contact
My situation was a bit different. About 3 years ago, he just stopped contacting me. I believe he thought I was gonna chase him (yeah, right, I was glad he moved on)! Then, I started researching Narcissistic behaviors.
Last August, he texted me and said he was going into the hospital. I texted him back asking what for. He didn’t reply. THEN, I texted back saying that I had given it a lot of thought. If you can’t communicate, there is no longer a connection. This is good bye. I wish you the best! THEN, I blocked my text messaging from him.
In May of this year, the hoovering began. He sent me 5 messages on Messenger. I didn’t open or reply. I dread the thought of him continuing the hoovering! 😩
This is spot on!! Wow! They really are sick individuals. He totally underestimated me! I discarded him like a boss! Haha 😆
Yes they are.✨💖💕💕
My ex narcissist husband looks gaunt, filthy, nasty and hungry. I thought he was a homeless dude when I saw him. The grass wasn’t greener I guess. You are right sister 😘
🤣🤣🤣🤣they look always awful after kkkk my looks terrible to
Lord. First of all, you are hilarious! 🤣 It’s CRAZY how everything, word for word, every analogy was so spot on to how this man transformed into a completely different person! I knew there was something wrong with him. Me being a super empath I seen everything he was doing and I couldn’t understand it, until the scary truth was he literally was a narcissist. I made a joke he didn’t like, & he turned that into a whole ordeal, cursing me out calling me out my name. Everything and anything I ever told him he used it against me. He never spoke to me like that before.. I never imagined he would. But the way he literally let his insecurity & anger come out the way it did it scares me even just thinking about how the person I thought he was, was a visage. After “making up”, I still couldn’t continue the relationship without him apologizing to me for saying those nasty things to me, & he got so outraged and DID IT AGAIN, when I simply said let’s apologize and move on from this, & that we can communicate better to avoid something like this happening again. I tried to give him a chance, but he failed so I ended up just blocking him. 🥺😂
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m so happy you like my comedy when I’m discussing these clowns oh my goodness I have to make jokes to keep from saying bad words. Yes indeed this is how they act in a fit of rage they are small children and grown-up bodies. I have to say I laughed at the times that you were giving him chances knowing that clown would not act right ever again. It was a façade from the beginning. Bless you I’m so happy you got rid of him and blocked him. Welcome back to peace and happiness. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Hi , my name is Silvia. Im from Perth Australia.
For the last 6 weeks ive listen to hundreds of broadcast on narcissists , although I was aware of the abuse inflicted on me ive learned so much and was given the knowledge to recognise and understand what he is a NARCISSIST . I HAD NO IDEA WHAT AWHAT A NARCISEST WAS Most of the broadcasts helped me to identify all the stages that I was going through and that were to come it helped me to nevigate through the hoovers since I new what to exepect it put me in a stronger posetion to resist and stand my ground . suddenly, everything made perfect sense. Making sence wasn't enough it made me sad and discusted on myself for enduring so much and all for nothing but also helped me to put the missing puzzle peaces together the red flags I chose to ignore are no conclusions and facts , although I can't prove a lot of It I'm sensible enough to believe that my instinct and suspensions are real. I have been following broadcasts 2 weeks before I built the courage to discard him and haven't gone back and I won't my deceasion is finall . Its been hard It still is.
You have made a sagneficant change in my grief and healing knowledge wasnt enough , I needed you, you are an amazing person you give me so much strengh through your work , you boost me up and have even put a smile on my face , I've even laughed out loud together with with you while listening to your broadcast.
I just wanted to say Thank You and keep up the good work
Anything you can send me that you think can help me on my journey to recovery please do. I'm for ever grateful.
This is my e-mail
Heysis_3@hotmail.com.au
She's right..never a friend as we believed.If so the devalues, discards, ghostings,etc..couldn't be enacted on us
Oh yeah never a friend. They are more like a frenemy lol.
''Going South REAL Fast?'' - YES! - Like Parachuting into an Active Volcano!!!!!
He definitely asked me if we could be cool/friends!! I said no, I don’t want to be cool with you. Then once I blocked him and unblocked him the new supply was locked and loaded. I blocked his tail again! Done!! He can wonder like Stevie!!!
Wonder like Stevie I’m gone!!😂😂😂
I really Love this Lady😅😂😂 man I enjoy so much her videos, she's not only right about everything she says but she's so hilarious😂😂God bless you baby❤
You are fantastic.. I love you spin on this! You are helping me so much and making me laugh at the same time!
I was discarded but recovering well!
I am so happy that I could make you laugh as you heal and grow. I just have to keep it all the way 💯. Thank you so much I’m happy you are enjoying the content and recovering well. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships yes this narcissist behaviour is Sooo mad! I was a good supply for 14 years (married 8 years) two children and just bought her a house this year and left her in it (I had to get out of there) she has a new supply now.. An old ex boyfriend! Do you think it will last!!?
Trust in this woman's words. Whole truth nothing but the truth from this lady. Don't drop your guard, STAY STRONG AND HAPPY EVERYONE ❤️
My ex had the nerve to say I wasn't trying to fight to get her back.IM LIKE FIGHT WHO your new supplies LOL I THOUGHT OF ALL THE CHOAS SHE BROUGHT INTO MY LIFE I SAID TO MYSELF HELL2DANAW then I prayed she would leave it took some time but that day came and boyeeee was I glad GOD answers prayers
this relationship was PURE HELL on Earth. The amount of chaos, drama and ups and downs. I thank GOD Almighty for delivering me from this malevolence. My life is now back on track, I feel great and zero contact!!!! HALLELUJAH!!!
Your words are on point. Going no contact following 3 years of devaluation is hard. Watching your video is very inspiring, thank you.
Welcome to the Tribe. Bless you congratulations on your no contact keep moving forward that is awesome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I Love your content and yes gurl continue to spread the word on these demonic spirits...also I'm so happy I was happy to actually meet you and connect with people who are woke and are educated and understands...It was a pleasure meeting you through Chanel the Spiritual Whistle Blower support group meet up at Venice Beach...we had a beautiful and enlighten day...Power to the Empaths...our community is Growing Strong...Blessing Positive Vibes Sent Your Way 💜
S C Thank you so much. Here is an official welcome to our Tribe as well. Yes indeed it was a pleasure to meat You as Well Queen and the rest of the beautiful souls there Chanel - Spiritual Whistleblower is dynamic!! Just here to help educate and enlighten. We had an awesome time at Spiritual Whistleblower’s Venice Beach support group meeting. Yes power to the Empaths. Sending you positive vibes as well. Continue shinning your beautiful light and growing in knowledge. Thank you for sharing this beautiful comment and some of your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
EXACTLY! NEW SUPPLY IS CATCHING HELL!!!! GRADE A SUPPLY GONE BAYYYY BAYYY👊🏼🙋🏾♀️💯
And that’s her problem now and I know that’s correct. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I like when she saids, you did the no contact, woooh!!!! I was like Yessss!😂
My last supply (me being the grade A empath), after the discard, well....he's out in the local area, stood in public, busy talking to himself. Community embarrassment, He's totally fallen off.
Don't take the Chosen few for granted😇
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow that karma is nothing nice for them. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I was definitely that one!! I shut that ass down after 4 months. I seen it earlier than that, but I said let me not jump to conclusions and then I was like oh nah I’m out!
Wow! I LOVE this lady! She is so informative and adds humorous content as well! So glad I happened upon this! Make sure to like and subscribe! You'll be so glad you did! 🙂
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much for subscribing. I’m so happy you enjoy my content. You are awesome! Thank you for recommending my channel. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yeah Baby -tell it like it is-!!! It's only been a few days i'm alone, but with you around, I feel more supported than speaking to any of my friends -!
I got hoovered once then ghosted & blocked and fell for it bc I wasn’t educated enough but it’s been since June & I haven’t contacted him & never will .... he might be thinking oh how come she’s not chasing me like before??... he can have that poor excuse of new supply .... my condolences to those women ... I’m free as a bird happier than ever I sleep soundly at night
Welcome to the Tribe. That is so awesome I’m so happy you are free from that madness. And you’re sleeping and resting peacefully that is a blessing. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much love.✨💖
Yes he was very disrespectful, went completely no contact, changed my phone number and everything❤ And yes he has 4 social media pages now😭
Welcome to the Tribe. Awesome - I’m so proud of you.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 See that 4 social media pages now. The insanity never stops with these individuals. Thank you for sharing your time and this on point comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yesssss new pages they get rapidly
May 5 -7 we were in Vegas after I hadn't seen him in over 10years his entire family was there even the head monkey mom. His brother just got married but the wife didn't come because the brother had his married side piece there. The guy I was with daughter came to Vegas as well he just reconnected with her after being adopted at birth. He totally ignored his daughter it was crazy. I saw everything I needed to see and heard everything I needed too. He called himself ghosting me 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 I already had it in mind after this trip I'd never speak to him again. He said gay things and acted gay. He kept calling his brother baby.. I changed my number and blocked everyone. I'm good he and his family are disgusting..
Beautifully said if you did the discard you gave yourself a gift!!! Lol
Yes my Sister!✨💖
You just read my entire situation. Right on time even if it was 6 years later. Better late than never. Bless you queen!🙏🏽
Yes it is something else but synonymously across-the-board we experience pretty much the same things with these ridiculous individuals.✨💖
Dropped his ass after physical
AMD sexual assault, and went NO CONTACT. DONE WITH THAT DEMON!
Yes indeed I left 2yrs ago still lookin for me they dont give up
I swear i love her.. Id probably call her auntie by accident if i ever were to meet her❤😍 speak queen... I love tour energy!! You have helped me greatly!
Your perspective is everything to me right now!! Thanks for pulling me out of the darkness I was mopping around with!! Thanks for making me laugh! ❤️
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I’m happy that you are enjoying the content here on the channel. You’re so welcome I give all the credit to the Almighty Creator. Absolutely I’m so happy also that I could make you laugh while you heal learn and grow. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You are telling the 💯 truth! After 1 month of No Contact from my ex narc. I received a text " Good morning! Still No Contact 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Yes that’s what I’m talking about!!! That’s how how you do it Sis. Just keep it moving like they never existed.✨💖
I love this lady soo much 💖👏🏻👏🏻 you really do make such a positive out of a negative situation. Very appreciated ☺
I watch you just to hear you talk.. you hilarious 😂 😃
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