As someone who has tried dating divorcees and women out of long-term relationships, trying to "lock her down" is a losing battle. For those of you who understand the stages of grief, these types of women are typically in the relief stage. Some women in this stage may or may not be open to an emotional connection or monogamy. But on the whole, they want as much freedom as humanly possible. Labels and commitments above and beyond what they believe are "their idea" will make them run. These types of women are tricky because they have the long-term girlfriend or wife experience to know EXACTLY how to treat a man. Plus, she's sexually repressed and ready to do anything. So she seems PERFECT. But don't let this fool you. If you want something more, screen these types of women out in the first few dates. It's easy because they're usually upfront about not wanting anything serious, "just seeing where things go," etc. One final point traps men like this. These types of women are typically LESS lenient on the men they choose in this stage because their intentions are ephemeral. So if you feel like you "lucked out," just know you're on borrowed time. I'd say leave them for the eff boys and keep looking.
@@macioluko9484 not true. my ex [who i dumped bc i was going stir crazy ] look like Uncle Fester . Alopecia Universalis and everything. she worked while i chilled at our crib. i could be as needy as i wanted [i mean getting drunk and hugging and squeezing the crap out of her. it was awesome]. i had no fear of losing her bc she had nowhere to run.
I don't know... I'd rather date someone from the get go who isn't seeing other people and have them expect the same of me too. It used to be the norm that it was like this. I'm not sure where all this dating multiple people thing came from except when seeing people casually that you probably don't even feel enough things for for exclusive (and probably never will). I wouldn't be able to stand the idea of someone who I was dating and actually had feelings for being physically or emotionally intimate with other people, I'm not a cuck.
I'm in my mid-40's, got back out into the dating world about 2 1/2 years ago. I've found women in my age bracket (late 30's to late 40's) are notorious for these mixed signal behaviors. I've tended to attract divorced, single-moms so I'm sure that has a lot to do with it. Still, it makes for a lot of confusion for a guy having to learn how to date all over again. You go several weeks of everything being great, she's pursuing, making time to see you and being enthusiastic about spending time together, then within two weeks it's like,"What happened?"
@@ronnywouters7037 I’m not complaining, I was staring an observation. I’m on my 5th read, reading it between other books that Corey has suggested. I’m in a far different place now than I was when I started. Now when these women get all squirrely, I don’t take it heart and go about my business. I don’t think any longer they backed away because I’m not enough.
@@seanc546 if any woman lusts for you 10/20 times you'll see them leave. You can call me the ex king of simping. I spent 1000s of dollars on porn and so. And trust me I surely reaped what I've sown now, I am a changing man. After so much interaction through texts, women on jobs, seeing other women jealous, you will find out women all can have this lustful urge if they aren't careful with themselves. A woman can use your validation as time while being in a relationship with someone else or playing the field to keep you in this mindless friend zone. Stop believing the lies, very few women don't put men they really like in a friend zone first.
The reason that he's hung up on her is because he doesn't know where HE stands with HER. It doesn't really matter how much of the knowledge that you develop from the book IF you don't grasp the mindset. Mindset is king!!
Great video!!! I went out with a girl the other day where it seems to be a similar situation, although she is mentally mature enough to talk to a therapist so she doesn't get in relationships with liers etc and she has a good mindset. I could sense she was guarded. I'll see how it goes in the future and listen to this video a few more times if it professes. Btw, his ex Kate in his recent video seems awesome and is very attractive.
Mine was /is just sizing me up $$$. I own ‘most ‘ of my house , and have a really good job in my mind , but she’s keeping me on the hook “just in case” My new business flourish’s . I feel she does find me attractive -hey I could be wrong-lol, The thing is, I’m not angry about it , I get it ! I listen to lots of JP -lol . women are women ( child bearing etc) . I do see a correlation, more attractive , more demanding -lol , no-brainer .
@@TruthTV8556 yes. I'm going through this right now and over the course of 4+ month, I've slipped too many times this last month. Got weak, shown attachment. Too far gone by this point I think. Scales do weigh out of your favour when this happens. This is likely on it's way out now.
@@RickyWiild have you ever taken the ugly one just hugged and squeezed to your hearts content . just went all self destructive with alcohol. crying and have someone i wasn't disgusted being touched by was a first time was new and lovely.
There’s a woman I know who is exactly like this. Hot and cold. I’m just enjoying the friendship right now but she makes the occasional pass at me. She’s obviously still broken but I’ve been extremely supportive of her and that makes her light up like crazy. Regardless to how things play out I’m still going to be me and enjoy her company
Had a chick tell me 'not enough chemistry' after 6 wks dating, kissin, cuddlin, no fcking. So after my over pursuing and needy behaviour i went no contact, (as got f,zoned) 3 wks later at an event she blocked ne from leavin the event, (I planned to leave), up real close, ask me to dance, said she misses me, bought me cacao drink, we danced a bit, then i left cos i wanted to be in charge and stay my course of what i wanted. I said it was great to see her again and lets hang out sometime (mistake, shoulda let her say that) she gave me a big hug. Next day she all upset cos i left and hit me with the emotional " what is wrong with me, am i too scary, wierd etc" Help please
dated a girl, after a couple of dejts she told me that her parents should of get divorced 20 years ago. I didnt understand the red flags back then. Today I know that she is promiscious and dejts men for 3-4 month then move along to another one. She is broken
Never do relationship being couples for waste of time all the love not worth it for me relationship are funny to me the fighting 😂😂😂 kissing is wasted of time in life 🧬🧬
She is on a rebound. Plain and simple. She will need time to heal before she can really think clearly. Coach was spot on, as usual.
As someone who has tried dating divorcees and women out of long-term relationships, trying to "lock her down" is a losing battle. For those of you who understand the stages of grief, these types of women are typically in the relief stage.
Some women in this stage may or may not be open to an emotional connection or monogamy. But on the whole, they want as much freedom as humanly possible. Labels and commitments above and beyond what they believe are "their idea" will make them run.
These types of women are tricky because they have the long-term girlfriend or wife experience to know EXACTLY how to treat a man.
Plus, she's sexually repressed and ready to do anything. So she seems PERFECT. But don't let this fool you.
If you want something more, screen these types of women out in the first few dates. It's easy because they're usually upfront about not wanting anything serious, "just seeing where things go," etc.
One final point traps men like this. These types of women are typically LESS lenient on the men they choose in this stage because their intentions are ephemeral. So if you feel like you "lucked out," just know you're on borrowed time. I'd say leave them for the eff boys and keep looking.
Only whores want freedom and "have fun" and refuse monogamy.
Very good study. What a fear the most is not being loved from my attraction. I feel better if it's an issue with her.
Guys, keep dating multiple women and as the old saying goes, choose the one who chooses you
Just remember that there are no bulletproof options in life. Simply wiser and less so…
Nope, dating multiple women is like sampling all the fish in the sea.
@@macioluko9484 not true. my ex [who i dumped bc i was going stir crazy ] look like Uncle Fester . Alopecia Universalis and everything. she worked while i chilled at our crib.
i could be as needy as i wanted [i mean getting drunk and hugging and squeezing the crap out of her. it was awesome].
i had no fear of losing her bc she had nowhere to run.
For the religious types, it’s Hang Out, Have Fun and Dry Hump.
No matter how many times I hear stories like this I have such a hard time switching my mindset out of the guy’s writing the letter.
Ebb and flow ladies and gentlemen. That's the basic principle.
Need to know when to step on or let go off the pedal.
I don't know... I'd rather date someone from the get go who isn't seeing other people and have them expect the same of me too. It used to be the norm that it was like this. I'm not sure where all this dating multiple people thing came from except when seeing people casually that you probably don't even feel enough things for for exclusive (and probably never will). I wouldn't be able to stand the idea of someone who I was dating and actually had feelings for being physically or emotionally intimate with other people, I'm not a cuck.
100% true. I agree. But so many woman fresh out of relationships are doing this crap. Dating multiple men. Smh 😒
I'm in my mid-40's, got back out into the dating world about 2 1/2 years ago. I've found women in my age bracket (late 30's to late 40's) are notorious for these mixed signal behaviors. I've tended to attract divorced, single-moms so I'm sure that has a lot to do with it. Still, it makes for a lot of confusion for a guy having to learn how to date all over again. You go several weeks of everything being great, she's pursuing, making time to see you and being enthusiastic about spending time together, then within two weeks it's like,"What happened?"
Use Corey’s attraction scale. DO NOT see them more than once/week. Let them bring up the relationship talk. Rinse, recycle, repeat.
@@ronnywouters7037 I’m not complaining, I was staring an observation. I’m on my 5th read, reading it between other books that Corey has suggested. I’m in a far different place now than I was when I started. Now when these women get all squirrely, I don’t take it heart and go about my business. I don’t think any longer they backed away because I’m not enough.
@@seanc546 if any woman lusts for you 10/20 times you'll see them leave. You can call me the ex king of simping. I spent 1000s of dollars on porn and so. And trust me I surely reaped what I've sown now, I am a changing man. After so much interaction through texts, women on jobs, seeing other women jealous, you will find out women all can have this lustful urge if they aren't careful with themselves. A woman can use your validation as time while being in a relationship with someone else or playing the field to keep you in this mindless friend zone. Stop believing the lies, very few women don't put men they really like in a friend zone first.
31yr girlfriend 🔥💪way to go coatch!!
Coach, You nailed it with the Tom Petty reference !
People- just play that over & over & over !
I just ended it with someone i was fating for almost 4 months - she just wasnt progressing it and still wanted to date others
Coach always speaking the truth 100%
The reason that he's hung up on her is because he doesn't know where HE stands with HER.
It doesn't really matter how much of the knowledge that you develop from the book IF you don't grasp the mindset. Mindset is king!!
@17:48 Except if you’re one of the ladies on the Kev Samuels show (RIP). Apparently those ladies believe these men are are as common as google ads…
100% on the "cat lady" thing lol😂
Dude I’m excited to see Katy, after hearing about her in your book years ago. This will be interesting
Great video!!! I went out with a girl the other day where it seems to be a similar situation, although she is mentally mature enough to talk to a therapist so she doesn't get in relationships with liers etc and she has a good mindset. I could sense she was guarded. I'll see how it goes in the future and listen to this video a few more times if it professes. Btw, his ex Kate in his recent video seems awesome and is very attractive.
A girl litlerlly broke my heart man. It's so pain still inside me
You'll be fine in the long run even if you feel like death right now. Just keep it moving my friend
Mine was /is just sizing me up $$$. I own ‘most ‘ of my house , and have a really good job in my mind , but she’s keeping me on the hook “just in case” My new business flourish’s . I feel she does find me attractive -hey I could be wrong-lol, The thing is, I’m not angry about it , I get it ! I listen to lots of JP -lol . women are women ( child bearing etc) . I do see a correlation, more attractive , more demanding -lol , no-brainer .
Is this a reupload? This sounds too familiar
So the lesson here is don’t get too attached, and don’t take anything a woman says too seriously?
@@TruthTV8556 yes. I'm going through this right now and over the course of 4+ month, I've slipped too many times this last month. Got weak, shown attachment. Too far gone by this point I think. Scales do weigh out of your favour when this happens. This is likely on it's way out now.
@@RickyWiild have you ever taken the ugly one just hugged and squeezed to your hearts content .
just went all self destructive with alcohol. crying and have someone i wasn't disgusted being touched by was a first time was new and lovely.
Great video coach
There’s a woman I know who is exactly like this. Hot and cold. I’m just enjoying the friendship right now but she makes the occasional pass at me. She’s obviously still broken but I’ve been extremely supportive of her and that makes her light up like crazy. Regardless to how things play out I’m still going to be me and enjoy her company
You just entered beta provider territory lol Chad and Tyrone are laying pipe stop being a simp
Friendship?
@@bluemoonrpg326 im dying 💀💀💀💀💀 tell her to bring a hard hat, theres some roadworks going on they layin pipe
Never chase buses or women, you'll always get left behind
One time I chased the bus and got on it was at a stop tho so it slowed down
Coach Corey relationship for me are funny 😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣 to me ............ Corey having a wife getting married nooo to me hit and run 😭😭😭
SHE TRIED TO TREAT ME LIKE HER EX! OR SHE TRIED TO TREAT ME LIKE WHO'S NEXT!
Coach has a girlfriend! It's like a lawyer handling his own case! Cool! ;)
This sounds like what I been doing to my girl but just started this video
Had a chick tell me 'not enough chemistry' after 6 wks dating, kissin, cuddlin, no fcking. So after my over pursuing and needy behaviour i went no contact, (as got f,zoned)
3 wks later at an event she blocked ne from leavin the event, (I planned to leave), up real close, ask me to dance, said she misses me, bought me cacao drink, we danced a bit, then i left cos i wanted to be in charge and stay my course of what i wanted. I said it was great to see her again and lets hang out sometime (mistake, shoulda let her say that) she gave me a big hug. Next day she all upset cos i left and hit me with the emotional " what is wrong with me, am i too scary, wierd etc"
Help please
She put herself in your orbit dude. Just make plans to get together and have a good time. Then wait for her to reach out, and do it again
dated a girl, after a couple of dejts she told me that her parents should of get divorced 20 years ago. I didnt understand the red flags back then. Today I know that she is promiscious and dejts men for 3-4 month then move along to another one. She is broken
That’s a very fearful avoidant type of behavior. Look it up
@@nishanttn please explain?
Absolutely. This avoidants are crazy fd up by their prior relationships. Has nothing to do with you.
I don't belong in this world. All of his advice boils down to this: Be the opposite of me. 😥
You belong. Always be you
I'm very excited
Morning coach
I'm currently a struggling MMA fighter, so just that comment about conor mcgregor definitely added a a glimmer if hope to my day. 😂
Coach has a gf then. Congrats!
3% men "im almost willing to do nothing for her." 😅
97% men " im willing to do anything for her." 😗
Coach i hope you watched how rollo was destroyed by sneako and destiny yesterday
Never do relationship being couples for waste of time all the love not worth it for me relationship are funny to me the fighting 😂😂😂 kissing is wasted of time in life 🧬🧬
Dr Emily Morse has mentioned that penetration alone only results in climax 20% of the time
These crazy type of girls is better to use them than to establish connection... Fun is the only thing they can handle.
Cheating I'm referring to lol
Dating a 31 year old isnt really a flex but im happy for ya
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You know to much
U trying too much😭