This was so good. I’d love to hear you guys discuss some of the more undermining terms that can come up… “Crazy” sounds so big, and the microcheating/cheating spouse may not overtly say or imply “crazy,” but they may assign other terms to the partner’s queries or attempts at boundary setting, that throw the partner even more off-balance, or blame-shift, or throw the partner off-scent or into a shame corner….
My husband does now have his phone on lock down because he says I invade his privacy. Well if he was not texting and ignoring phone calls but to go outside to call her back I would not be worried. So now he just says I’m crazy, stupid and it’s none of my business. But when don’t buy me anything for my birthday and look on your phone too see you were on it for an hour with her, that’s not just a friend. When I asked him to have over at our house when I’m not home, he says you just need to get over it, she’s my friend she makes me happy. Oh hell no. That’s not just friends. I’ve even talked to her but she still comes over when I’m at work most of the time. How do you deal with this, or you walk away?
My husband’s mistress is his ASSISTANT. He has to see her daily. I’ve became aware of in February. My 21 anniversary in April was obviously a disaster. ( there was no intimacy, even though I went way out of the box to make it special) I was just hoping I was wrong. His cheating as far as I know true is they were in an emotional affair. Texting. Calling and talking for hours ev second they could. Even while I was in my bed !!! They were both shocked when I finally pulled out all the receipts in June. Since then I’ve been going through marriage therapy ( not much help ) and my own therapist I still can’t shake the idea of his lies. One day great. Next day crazy
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This was so good. I’d love to hear you guys discuss some of the more undermining terms that can come up… “Crazy” sounds so big, and the microcheating/cheating spouse may not overtly say or imply “crazy,” but they may assign other terms to the partner’s queries or attempts at boundary setting, that throw the partner even more off-balance, or blame-shift, or throw the partner off-scent or into a shame corner….
Wow! Love that idea as a topic. Thank you for watching!
Been through it.... ultimately it cost us our relationship. I wanted so bad to trust him again, but I just couldn't.
This is spot on ....Thank You for this video....
This episode is 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Can't wait to see what's next! Learning a ton!
My husband does now have his phone on lock down because he says I invade his privacy. Well if he was not texting and ignoring phone calls but to go outside to call her back I would not be worried. So now he just says I’m crazy, stupid and it’s none of my business. But when don’t buy me anything for my birthday and look on your phone too see you were on it for an hour with her, that’s not just a friend. When I asked him to have over at our house when I’m not home, he says you just need to get over it, she’s my friend she makes me happy. Oh hell no. That’s not just friends. I’ve even talked to her but she still comes over when I’m at work most of the time. How do you deal with this, or you walk away?
No, but… it’s “for his work?! Do I want him to NOT market his business?” - his way of justifying all his “other lives”…😵💫😕
My husband’s mistress is his ASSISTANT. He has to see her daily. I’ve became aware of in February. My 21 anniversary in April was obviously a disaster. ( there was no intimacy, even though I went way out of the box to make it special) I was just hoping I was wrong. His cheating as far as I know true is they were in an emotional affair. Texting. Calling and talking for hours ev second they could. Even while I was in my bed !!!
They were both shocked when I finally pulled out all the receipts in June. Since then I’ve been going through marriage therapy ( not much help ) and my own therapist I still can’t shake the idea of his lies. One day great. Next day crazy
I get the same excuse.
I use to want to be heard and understood. Now? Just don't question that I know who I am.
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Crafts, Teri how did you get James to admit that he was cheating? My guy is a narcissist. Think I have no shot to get truth.
He never hid his phone bc he had BRAVE it hid everything for him.
"You're not crazy" for being concerned about micro-cheating, you are simply emotionally immature.
Sounds exactly like what my husband of 21 years (who has a porn/sex/lying/gaslighting addiction, newly realized by me) used to tell me 20 years ago.🫤