Facts.. but we should remember. Both parties in a situationship are willing participants. We should not put ourselves there if we don't want to be there
you can't negotiate burning genuine desire with a woman, or anyone else in any type of situation. don't waste your time a woman who's not interested in you. if it's not a "hell yeah", then maybe's and silence mean a "hell no." 💯
A lot of these guys including me had some sort of mother figure that was abusive emotionally or even physically that's why they're attractive to cold, manipulative and abusive women . But it's up to them to fix themselves with therapy and learn from Corey.
With ME it was the EXTREME OPPOSITE: My MOM (RIP) doted on me like I was her little angel who could do no wrong. She showered me with so much love and attention that when I became old enough I DEMANDED it from girls I liked. What a SHIT SHOW. Eventually had a complete melt down. 2 years of pure hell. Depression/Anxiety etc. Medication failed. Eventually it was Self Help through Wayne Dyer and Tony Robbins which saved me. It was a LONG ARDUOUS process but I made it.
I'm so excited the "Quotes and Ruminations volume 2" book is out! Already listened to the first one numerous times and it's awesome. Can't wait to listen to the second one.
The second email is required listening for anyone actively dating. I wasted so much time like the second emailer trying to be persistent with women I wanted to see again. Don’t fall into the mindset of “Text replies equals there’s still a chance”. Focus more on how difficult she’s making it to go out with you. Guess how much success I had with women when I got to the point where it’s difficult or impossible to get her to set a day/time/location for the next date/hangout. ZERO! It’s time to move on.
I have been for 12 years in relationship. We had an amazing experience, we traveled and moved together to many counties across the world. I loved this woman so much and I would die for her. Sadly few months ago she started to be mean and passive aggressive toward me. She started to see every bad things in me. About 2 months ago she called me and said to me “ lets not waste each other’s time” and broke up with me. I went to her many times and she just keep saying to me that I need you to leave me in peace. I don’t see a future with you. Blamed me everything. I then worked on myself and tried to be a better man, even though I had done nothing wrong. I begged and cried for a chance that I didn’t know what I have done wrong to her, but she continued to be passive aggressive toward me. She disrespected and humiliated me to a level that I wanted to kill myself. Recently i found out that she is actually fucking with someone all these months long, where I have been crying with a heart broken. I have not sleep for days. I have lost 12 kg and I have been just sad and crying non stop. My heart is being operated everyday. It hurts as fuck. I had so many chances to cheat on and be with someone else, but I never did that to her. Not only she dumped me but also replaced me. She never admit the truth and just yesterday finally said it to me. But after weeks and days of begging her to confess. She was the one snd I was about to marry her in few months. How could she be so evil to me. She was nothing and I have gave her everything and every support. I just don’t understand this toxic woman. Will she ever regret it for broken a good loyal man heart?
In time you will be able to look back and see where you were weak with her & the mistakes made.. I’ve been in the same position it’s best just to move forward find your purpose and new hobbies
@@calamarininjabeast5866 thank you so much your reply. I am actually now angry at myself that i was so weak with her. But you know, she enjoyed making me suffer. did she ever contact you after she did this to you or she came back to you ?
@@BELLOO0 this happened to me 30 years ago she just dropped me after 4 years living with her I thought everything was going well but they just don't love you, she told me I need space and pack your stuff and please go, two months later she married another guy 2 months, they don't have anything in common no like likes I don't know what it was maybe she just was attracted to him, just found out recently 30 years later she is going through a divorce and has her own apartment what she did to me I would never take her back her loss let her suffer now cuz they don't care when they leave, she didn't care how I felt all the mental anguish the sleepless nights
@@johnbingaman3645 Thank you for sharing your story. you do everything for them to make them just happy, but in the end, good men with good heart they just get dump by toxic women. as you said, she doesn't give a damn about how you felt, the pain you went through, the nights you didn't sleep. When she cried, you would do everything to make her smile and happy, but when you cry, they just don't give a damn. As i have mentioned before, you feel your heart getting operated every day. Its really really hard. but I hope I will be strong and move on.
Similar situation happened to me as well. Sometimes you think you are almighty because she chases you from the get go. According to my experience, those kind of situations are a sign of narcissistic personality disorder. Even before your first date if she is ubnormally into you and acting needy, calls and texts you dozens times a day thats a redflag. She can be the hottest chick in the world, if she does those things just run away like you are running from a hurricane. Believe me, I didn't run and got manipulated for months. At the end I was a shipwreck and end up going psychiatrist. You guys definitely should search for the term of vulnerable narcissistic perfonality disorder. If the chick ticks most of the boxes just run. Run, run and run.
Complacency doesn't necessarily mean that man is always the problem. Sometimes over time the woman gives up on you cus she's just a selfish individual.
absolutely, which is a perfectly valid reason for you to eventually react to her not changing by calling it quits. A selfish woman will not see her own faults, she wont watch coreys videos to try to improve. A lesson i learned the hard way myself
It makes sense. I’ve seen it happen when women friend zone guys and then they come back when the guy stops reaching out and finds someone else so why couldn’t the reverse situation happen too?
If you read these comments, fuck that, let her go. She doesn't want you, regardless of what she says. If she did she would have acted. Let go, focus on yourself, king. Find your drive again, cause from what was said here, you focused too much on her, and forgot what truly matters, yourself. You got things that demand tour attention, to better your life, set up your future. These women are just a brush stroke, your life is the canvas!
I find myself in this situation right now. We had a rocky 2 days. If she doesnt come over tonight, i will pull back MAJOR. She does 99% of the contact initiation. So ill just mirror her enthusiasm. Wont pick up the phone, call her back an hour later, etc.
Hey y’all, been on 5 dates with this girl. She lives 1.5 hours away and we both come to each other city for the dates and she has paid for some dates too. She never initiated any dates we had and she only initiated contact with me 2 times. Is she even interested? I’m lost…
I get stuck in the opening up to her part. In our first dates she told me I’m not open since I playfully answered her serious questions. How do I get genuine without seeingm beta?
the more and more i read the book, the closer and closer i get to BECOMING a 3% man, not just reading about one, the easier and funnier it is to pick out the CMON MANs in these emails.. 😂
Unfortunately you won’t find a woman with less than 10 and will make finding a partner very difficult. We will never know a woman’s true body count so it’s pointless to even dive into. Body count matters but what matters more is how she’s showing up in the relationship just because she’s a low body count doesn’t mean she’ll be loyal if anything she’ll be curious and want to explore more than the experienced one. Just my opinion but different strokes for different folks
Coach, I want you to make a video about ‘race’ in dating. Because I believe it is so important. If you live in a racist country, no matter how much you know the game, you will always end up being alone.
@@dennise1110 Sure but the dynamic is interesting to analyze here. He didn't click with her and when she walked away she suddenly became the one to lock down. So at the end it's just mind games to gain control.
A situationship is hell. She says all the right things but her actions don’t match up.
so what fuck it
Basically using you as a standby while she leads a dating life that has no risk for failure.
Facts.. but we should remember. Both parties in a situationship are willing participants. We should not put ourselves there if we don't want to be there
@@mikegee8345 In those situations one is using the other for their "hope" that it will become more.
@@mikegee8345 In the situation one is taking advantage of the hope of the other. Its almost never equitable.
you can't negotiate burning genuine desire with a woman, or anyone else in any type of situation.
don't waste your time a woman who's not interested in you. if it's not a "hell yeah", then maybe's and silence mean a "hell no." 💯
"When there's no wine left in the bottle, the party is over, my son" - Doc Love: The System.
To all men who play Captain Save-A-Ho, definitely not a good move. I would recommend you play Captain Send-The-Ho-To-The-Streets-She-Belongs.
😂
I simped. Now retired.
A lot of these guys including me had some sort of mother figure that was abusive emotionally or even physically that's why they're attractive to cold, manipulative and abusive women . But it's up to them to fix themselves with therapy and learn from Corey.
Or a father with the same description. True story
With ME it was the EXTREME OPPOSITE: My MOM (RIP) doted on me like I was her little angel who could do no wrong. She showered me with so much love and attention that when I became old enough I DEMANDED it from girls I liked. What a SHIT SHOW. Eventually had a complete melt down. 2 years of pure hell. Depression/Anxiety etc. Medication failed. Eventually it was Self Help through Wayne Dyer and Tony Robbins which saved me. It was a LONG ARDUOUS process but I made it.
@@franklinnose More grammar, less ALL CAPS.
@@franklinnose demanding attention is good as long as u give equal amounts. Spoiled children cannot fathom this concept
I'm so excited the "Quotes and Ruminations volume 2" book is out! Already listened to the first one numerous times and it's awesome. Can't wait to listen to the second one.
Hey Corey gotta say ever since I've found your content things have just been going my way... cheers my friend
The second email is required listening for anyone actively dating. I wasted so much time like the second emailer trying to be persistent with women I wanted to see again. Don’t fall into the mindset of “Text replies equals there’s still a chance”. Focus more on how difficult she’s making it to go out with you. Guess how much success I had with women when I got to the point where it’s difficult or impossible to get her to set a day/time/location for the next date/hangout. ZERO! It’s time to move on.
I have been for 12 years in relationship. We had an amazing experience, we traveled and moved together to many counties across the world. I loved this woman so much and I would die for her. Sadly few months ago she started to be mean and passive aggressive toward me. She started to see every bad things in me. About 2 months ago she called me and said to me “ lets not waste each other’s time” and broke up with me. I went to her many times and she just keep saying to me that I need you to leave me in peace. I don’t see a future with you. Blamed me everything. I then worked on myself and tried to be a better man, even though I had done nothing wrong. I begged and cried for a chance that I didn’t know what I have done wrong to her, but she continued to be passive aggressive toward me. She disrespected and humiliated me to a level that I wanted to kill myself. Recently i found out that she is actually fucking with someone all these months long, where I have been crying with a heart broken. I have not sleep for days. I have lost 12 kg and I have been just sad and crying non stop. My heart is being operated everyday. It hurts as fuck. I had so many chances to cheat on and be with someone else, but I never did that to her. Not only she dumped me but also replaced me. She never admit the truth and just yesterday finally said it to me. But after weeks and days of begging her to confess. She was the one snd I was about to marry her in few months. How could she be so evil to me. She was nothing and I have gave her everything and every support. I just don’t understand this toxic woman. Will she ever regret it for broken a good loyal man heart?
In time you will be able to look back and see where you were weak with her & the mistakes made.. I’ve been in the same position it’s best just to move forward find your purpose and new hobbies
Not your fault... good thing you didn't marry her. It's hard now, but give it some time to look and you saved yourself from a divorce later on.
@@calamarininjabeast5866 thank you so much your reply. I am actually now angry at myself that i was so weak with her. But you know, she enjoyed making me suffer. did she ever contact you after she did this to you or she came back to you ?
@@BELLOO0 this happened to me 30 years ago she just dropped me after 4 years living with her I thought everything was going well but they just don't love you, she told me I need space and pack your stuff and please go, two months later she married another guy 2 months, they don't have anything in common no like likes I don't know what it was maybe she just was attracted to him, just found out recently 30 years later she is going through a divorce and has her own apartment what she did to me I would never take her back her loss let her suffer now cuz they don't care when they leave, she didn't care how I felt all the mental anguish the sleepless nights
@@johnbingaman3645 Thank you for sharing your story.
you do everything for them to make them just happy, but in the end, good men with good heart they just get dump by toxic women. as you said, she doesn't give a damn about how you felt, the pain you went through, the nights you didn't sleep. When she cried, you would do everything to make her smile and happy, but when you cry, they just don't give a damn. As i have mentioned before, you feel your heart getting operated every day. Its really really hard. but I hope I will be strong and move on.
Always looking forward to the videos. I can never stop learning. I just thought I should put that in before I complete the video
Similar situation happened to me as well. Sometimes you think you are almighty because she chases you from the get go. According to my experience, those kind of situations are a sign of narcissistic personality disorder. Even before your first date if she is ubnormally into you and acting needy, calls and texts you dozens times a day thats a redflag. She can be the hottest chick in the world, if she does those things just run away like you are running from a hurricane. Believe me, I didn't run and got manipulated for months. At the end I was a shipwreck and end up going psychiatrist. You guys definitely should search for the term of vulnerable narcissistic perfonality disorder. If the chick ticks most of the boxes just run. Run, run and run.
Sounds like the girl I dated
Coach Corey Wayne you are the master thanks for all of your work
I think this happened to all of us! Sometimes you now is over but sometimes you can rescued the relation
Yes! Thinking the way women do. It helped me so much. 2 way street approach
Yall need to just let folks go 🚶♂️ 😴
100 % SPOT ON !
Complacency doesn't necessarily mean that man is always the problem. Sometimes over time the woman gives up on you cus she's just a selfish individual.
absolutely, which is a perfectly valid reason for you to eventually react to her not changing by calling it quits. A selfish woman will not see her own faults, she wont watch coreys videos to try to improve.
A lesson i learned the hard way myself
Betas
@@xstormhunterx you're an excellent example of toxic masculinity thanks for exposing yourself bro try to have a good one 🤗🤗🤗🤗
@@shortingthetrend There's no such thing as "toxic masculinity". There's masculinity, that's it.
@@shortingthetrend keep blaming others for your own shot comings, see where that weakling behavior gets you in life... and girls loooove it
So...this dude friend zoned her and then got frustrated she left? Lol
It makes sense. I’ve seen it happen when women friend zone guys and then they come back when the guy stops reaching out and finds someone else so why couldn’t the reverse situation happen too?
Don’t confuse someone who cares about you with someone who is needy. First guy totally took her for granted. Deserves to be friendzoned.
Tell her you won the lottery.
If you read these comments, fuck that, let her go.
She doesn't want you, regardless of what she says.
If she did she would have acted.
Let go, focus on yourself, king.
Find your drive again, cause from what was said here, you focused too much on her, and forgot what truly matters, yourself.
You got things that demand tour attention, to better your life, set up your future.
These women are just a brush stroke, your life is the canvas!
First! Thanks for the knowledge Corey!
I find myself in this situation right now. We had a rocky 2 days. If she doesnt come over tonight, i will pull back MAJOR. She does 99% of the contact initiation. So ill just mirror her enthusiasm. Wont pick up the phone, call her back an hour later, etc.
Good morning sir!
Here's what makes no sense, if rejection breeds obsession, wouldn't she continue to be obsessed with him vs moving on and finding someone else?
she wasnt interested that much in the first place either
A lot of great insight! Thanks Corey!
In the first scenario, she hit bro with the UNO reverse card. 😂
Lesson learned young blood. Don’t wait. Walk away and move forward with your life.
Hey Corey why won't you debate Alex from playing with fire or Rollo tomasi from the rational Male?
Cause both of them guys are simps and cucks.
Alex? Small potatoes
Hey y’all, been on 5 dates with this girl. She lives 1.5 hours away and we both come to each other city for the dates and she has paid for some dates too. She never initiated any dates we had and she only initiated contact with me 2 times. Is she even interested? I’m lost…
Stop initiating and you will see what happens. Then you'll know for sure
If you have to ask, it’s no. Sorry.
@@ashe542 she says she’s not really a big phone person or texter?
@@WhenTheyToldTheTruth if i gotta ask her or this question?
Definitely not dude. Run to the hills.
I get stuck in the opening up to her part. In our first dates she told me I’m not open since I playfully answered her serious questions. How do I get genuine without seeingm beta?
4th... Great video coach
the more and more i read the book, the closer and closer i get to BECOMING a 3% man, not just reading about one, the easier and funnier it is to pick out the CMON MANs in these emails.. 😂
So should we laugh at the demise of our fellow men? Some guy you!
Lol 5 hour call... wtf
😂😂😅
Hell of a therapy session xD
If I like this girl: “does she have 0 body counts or 1?” Women more than 3 body counts will never stay loyal.
Lol...I'm all for body counts but be realistic here buddy...
Unfortunately you won’t find a woman with less than 10 and will make finding a partner very difficult. We will never know a woman’s true body count so it’s pointless to even dive into. Body count matters but what matters more is how she’s showing up in the relationship just because she’s a low body count doesn’t mean she’ll be loyal if anything she’ll be curious and want to explore more than the experienced one. Just my opinion but different strokes for different folks
@@haychedee9664 thank you for the words of confidence
Coach, I want you to make a video about ‘race’ in dating. Because I believe it is so important.
If you live in a racist country, no matter how much you know the game, you will always end up being alone.
go back to your own country and stop whining about women protecting their genes
Guys want a girl to fall in love and all over them and when she does they complain that she is too clingy and needy 😂
Some guys. Some girls. It's pretty even
@@dennise1110 Sure but the dynamic is interesting to analyze here. He didn't click with her and when she walked away she suddenly became the one to lock down. So at the end it's just mind games to gain control.
@@iphigenie7311
Tis. All about getting into their dome.
@@petroskougias7848 Well if the unique goal of guys is to visit their dome don't complain then if girls go f*ck and haunt their minds. Fair game.
Coach, you should have your mods, techs, whomever go thru all videos and censor the F words.... get that money!!
That’s a waste of time and money
@@CoachCoreyWaynealright bro you the man!
Funniest Question ive ever seen to Coach Corey..
"Do I stick around & wait for her to choose."?...🤣🤣🤣
Comon Man.. Cut that shit out..🤣🤣🤣
Mindset: "is this girl good for me?"
How to not fall into the trap of over pursuing? Always go back to 1 call a week?