@@eraldocoil2719 I read that as "I don't trust A man with the ability to move his hands in any capacity" and was torn between laughter and agreement. If a man got hands....he shady...,ladies....take his piano walkers right off. Now I KNOW you won't be texting.
The inability to reload is the least of problems in “game” attitude. More like don’t treat it as a game cos people aren’t freaking objects, toys or robots.
Funny you should mention that, I have a buddy who legit pooped his pants during his first date. That was 10 years ago or something. Now they're married with two children.
As a woman, one of the best things you can do as a man is just talk to us like we are actual human beings. If some guy comes up to me with the mindset of “omg! i’m talking to a female!!” it’s obvious, and it will instantly make the woman feel uncomfortable
Also they should lessen their expectations as we also do. When a gentleman whom I hold affection for displays kindness towards me, I do not immediately presume that I will have a romantic opportunity with him. Building a romantic relationship necessitates mutual attraction and can be best achieved through the friendship approach, allowing us to genuinely connect and determine if we are better suited as companions or romantic partners. So I encourage the same advice for men, lower the high expectations. We encountered a gentleman at work who had envisioned a romantic opportunity with his boss's daughter. He harbored lofty expectations, only to have them shattered upon discovering that she was already contentedly involved in a romantic relationship with someone else. It turns out that her professional demeanor towards him was simply a matter of maintaining a proper work dynamic, though he mistakenly interpreted it differently.
Don't let them know you are afraid, just be brave in general since a ton of these creeps get off more when they know they creeped out someone or scared them. It's weird but you can check even online discussions held by such weirdos
"being normal" isn't working for most guys now because they don't know what normal is, they have severely warped views of how social interactions are supposed to go and when they try, it goes disastrously wrong. The *right* (not a con-artist/pick up artist) person can help them with that.
They don't see us as actual humans with thoughts and feelings. We are the side characters who only show up when they need something. Why put any work into the help?
5:16 I'm absolutely wheezing imagining someone actually walking across the bar yelling this shit. People would be running away screaming as quick as if someone pulled a gun at the club if a creep of that level wandered into your space
This sort of happened to me once. I’ve had the opener “you’re coming home with me tonight” (no question or anything) said to me before to which I left that bar with my friends so fast out of pure fear. He would not take no for an answer for like 5 mins though and his mates were getting involved too and surrounding me (I was in a queue initially for the bar but felt like I couldn’t leave after being surrounded). The bar queue was kind of like a huge mob normally so nobody really noticed that I was surrounded as it is normal for groups to be sprawled against the bar. My friend thankfully came looking for me and pulled me out after a concerning look I threw them and they said like “we need to leave the taxi is here”. One of the most scared I’ve ever been. Glad my friend found me but this also shouldn’t be a situation to begin with.
@@constellationorion8679 thank you, was horrid to experience. There’s definitely good people out there so I’ve not become a complete shut in but I always take other people into crowds with me now. And as much as I hate that it’s the way of the world, a male friend with the group is always a bonus to reduce these scenarios happening. I shouldn’t have to ask them to keep a lookout for us, the situation is unfair on everyone.
The title is absolutely correct. If any man approached me in this way, I would try to get away as fast as I could while calling someone so they know my location.
Here's my genuine advice, talk to them like people. Go into every conversation looking for a friend. Even if it doesn't go beyond that you've gained a friend. I don't know why people feel that's a bad thing.
The problem is that those men are obsessed with the concept of 'sex with (many) women' as something that gives them worth as men, before other men. They don't see women as people or themselves as something with any value beyond this warped ideal of 'a man as something that gains power through sexual prowess'. I don't know if they're hopeless but they're definitely not okay enough to be socially adjusted. It reeks of self-hatred. People like that can't stand other people so they don't care about getting to know anyone, let alone making friends.
never a bad thing, a guy once made friends with me and stayed friends after I told him I wasn't interested in anything else. 10 years later and he's married to my sister and has 2 kids with her lol. you never know who you'll meet through women who are just your friends.
Pick up artists have always baffled me. Like... it isn't that hard. I'm not saying I'm casanova over here, but like... just talk to women like human beings. Without drenching every interaction with the overtone of "I'm only speaking to you cause I want in your pants." Like, you know, conversation. And then you either hit it off, or you don't so it was never meant to be and you move on, cause you're not entitled to anyone. It really is that simple, fellas.
They think dating is about being tactical, as if the right move or line will always work, when it's all about being personal and respectful and meeting people on their level
@@theCommentDevil It's such an insane, creepy mindset to have. And dehumanizing too. Like that women aren't people. They're... like... a lockbox to open. Just find the right password and they'll swoon over you and that's such imaginary nonsense. They'd rather spend money to go to weird workshops full of incels than just have a personality.
Fr. There isn't a magic way to make things happen. Women are human beings and you can't control how they will feel about you. Just treat them like humans and respect them, and see what happens.
I am convinced many of these “coaches” are essentially just trying to gate keep relationships in the most stupid yet aggressive way possible. By playing the role of the serpent in the garden of eden and baiting desperate people into brutally and irreversibly fucking up their entire lives.
I agree. Dating and relationships are in a terrible state, but these grifters exist to make money off a segment of people who can't work from a worse scenario and move up from there.
Women are making it difficult to even have conversations these days. I had to smash a water cooler in the waiting room because she couldn't just have a normal conversation without harboring the assumptions that you just mentioned.
I'm not a conspiracy theorist but I'm honestly starting to think these pickup artists are actually people working for the government to weed out men who need to be on a watch list.
Hearing them saying the sentence "You need to be invading their space" with a straight face is really something else. They do know that the word invading has a negative connotation right?. It's not something people do unless it's with ill intent.
I call my wife “buddy” “pal” and “dude” but I also call her names of affection and other things she likes that I cannot say on public forum. Your relationship is yours, and don’t worry about what other people think when it comes to it. Not supporting the loony toon in this video by any means but calling your S/O “buddy” ain’t no thang
I will never understand why guys look for dating advice from other guys. I struggled for many years to find a relationship. After countless failures I changed my approach. Instead of taking advice from guys, I started asking women for advice and you know what happened? I immediately had success. It’s almost like women will tell you what they want and you just have to listen. But for some reason guys just refuse to change how they do things. I see it constantly in these comments sections. Women will say “don’t do this stuff, we think it’s creepy and no one will ever respond well to it” and guys respond saying “no, you’re a stupid woman. You don’t know what you want and you’re lucky that we even acknowledge your existence”. It’s absolutely insane to me how guys think a woman will want you if you harass her and act like a pervert. Smh
You see, people who get advice from pickup guys have the idea that ALL of women act certain way and it's a bit frustrating and sad to see. The answer is right next to you (just talk to them) but pickup artists will get you far away from actually talking to a woman like a normal person bc it keeps them insecure and with the idea that those people actually need their advice.
Not that this is bad advice, but I will say that men shouldn't assume this will up their chances of successful relationships, if not because they have to implicitly adapt to being an enjoyable person, but also because in my own experience of taking women's advice, doing exactly what they don't suggest has worked better for me. Women have this tendency to speak for all women and it will end up causing failure. It is why we still see women being objectified, as many do it to themselves and many others encourage men to do so whether they actually mean to or not. No demographic of people are all in the same page despite how hard they try to act like this is the case.
the real cheat code is to just genuinely think of women as people. just regular ass people the same way men are. some are attractive, some arent, some you get along and have shared interests with, some you don't. like deadass just approach us like normal ppl worthy of respect and with inherent value regardless of if we sleep with you, cuz you dont suddenly deem men worthless if you don't become best friends so why do women lose all value if we arent romantic partners?
Also having platonic women friends gets you laid. Women know other women. You being able to handle rejection and not be a creep will get u reccomendations lol.
No. Thinking women like they are the same as men is exactly how we got into this situation. Men and women are different. There is nothing wrong with acknowledging this.
These types of people treat women like deers you dont want to startle as you get closer because they dont see them as people with their own thoughts. "Oh, if you invade their space theyll be put off, so just inch closer and closer so they cant tell exactly when its "too much" for them until you are touching them wherever you want"
I have this guy I work with who's 37 and can't get a relationship and he always talks like it's a game "if she doesn't reply for an hour I'll take an hour to respond I have to match her energy" I'm like bro that will only make her think she doesn't mean anything to you be confident funny driven and disciplined. those are traits that matter. there are no tactics tricks or games. get any tactics out of your head, work on yourself, build a better life for you that she wants to be apart of
You JUST said a tactic thou XD There IS NONE Just BE YOURSELF and do not work on your behavior to pleas eothers but yourself only and the rest will come together!
It makes no sense too maybe they’re at work and can’t respond immediately. I’m not risking my job to send my potential dating partner a text an hour sooner
27 f i work nights in a gas station-open carry. A guy strait up interviewed me for 10 min on why I was married, why I wouldn't cheat with him. Clear I was married. He only stopped when another guy came in and saved me
Tho I do have a question. How do you guys with night shifts juggle the rest of your life? I'm genuinely interested cuz I don't know anyone who has a night shift. Especially sleep n relationships.
what ever happened to just be yourself? what ever happened to only accepting those who accept you for you? your "charming" personality will define your relationship.
I feel like something that isn't talked about is that people (in this case, women) can very easily sense when the other person doesn't perceive them as a differentiated human being. As a woman I have met SO MANY men, generally the majority, who have no issue with relating to women, are able to have normal conversations with me and others, and are able to be mutually respectful. Even when their only interest is sex and even when I'm not receptive to their advances, they still manage to convey that they respect me as a human being. Then, these pick-artist, incel types walk around like women are an esoteric hivemind that need to be treated in a very specific way to produce to desired output, like a sex vending machine. It's crazy to me how this minority of men cannot even pretend to respect women as sentient beings. What makes dating and 'cold approaches' so difficult for these types of guys isn't due to the female hivemind being cold or unforgiving, it's because the majority of other men have shown that you can be respectful and inviting even in the pursuit of a sexual relationship. Why would anyone ever choose someone aggressive, blunt, and/or impersonal when there are a trillion other people who don't make you feel like an object?
men deal with this same stuff too, being objectified and touched when we dont like it. i couldnt tell you just how many times ive been helping family/friends move furniture or doing some outdoor labor and the women in the household feel fine just putting their hands on your back or patting your neck, or acting like their gonna hit you and playing it off as a joke, or constantly telling you "oh youre so tall, and your shoulders are so broad." theres even times when im out in public at an event, and i can feel women just staring into the back of my head as i walk buy, or walking right in front of me (we're talking inches from my belly) when theres way more space behind me to walk. i can tell you for a fact thats theres plenty of women out there who dont know how to actually talk to men they like and act weird around them (especially when you say something completely normal like "no i dont like concerts theyre too loud" and they laugh like its the funniest shit ever.) and we have to feel like an asshole for telling them "hey i dont like that" or "yeah i get that a lot." those experiences definitely give you an understanding of how women must feel from guys who do the same, but i just wish we were taken more seriously when we express our discomfort
That's a great point, however my life experience has been the opposite, unfortunately. I've met so many creeps ever since I was a little kid, and MOST men were gross and condescending. I'm glad that for you the majority were decent, but to me it still seems like most of them are awful.
I can't help wondering if it's really the minority of men who can not (or at least don't) respect women as sentient beings. I REALLY hope that is the case.
There is no “correct definition” of what a woman should be. The only criteria is being an adult female, that’s literally it. Women can be whatever and whoever they want to be. The fact that you need “proof” to even consider that they aren’t some indecipherable homogenous singularity and are instead individuals with their own unique thoughts and experiences is as telling as it is worrying.
@overlordfemto7523 Read the second sentence bud. You’ve just demonstrated that you’re either illiterate or your reading comprehension is in the trenches. Or maybe you were just too busy vibrating with excitement over the idea of someone responding to your bait comment so you could give your “women are NPCs” speech that you forgot there was more than one sentence in my reply.
The only place you should be straightforward about wanting sex is on a dating app. Most people would prefer to know up front that you're just looking to hook up rather than being led on, used for sex and then abandoned. And you do it in a polite way, like "hey, just so you know, I'm only interested in hooking up atm." But doing it in real life, that's a new level of stupidity.
What’s more infuriating is how women on dating apps will specifically say in their profile if they’re interested in hookups making it stupendously easy for men to find women who are actually interested in hooking up, all men have to do is be just as forthcoming in their own profile and start matching with people who are on tinder for the same purpose. If they don’t have success with the women who participate in hookup culture (as the selection criteria is often based entirely on high standards of physical attractiveness) they can always consider going to other websites to seek out a consensual hook up with a sex worker. As for IRL scenarios where it would be conceivable to consider a woman might be interested in hookups, there’s always certain night clubs that become known for a higher prevalence of that sort of thing, but even then-and this applies whether in person or online-men should NEVER obfuscate the fact they’re ONLY looking for a hookup, a man intentionally framing his interest as romantic in nature and love bombing a woman when a one night stand is all he’s after is an inexcusable manipulation tactic used to circumvent the fact most women are only interested in having sex under the belief there’s mutual romantic attraction and the subsequent belief this is the start of a relationship that will extend beyond that night. Men should just be honest about the type of relationship (or lack there of) they’re interested in and be respectful to any women who says they’re not interested. Also, the internet (especially the manosphere) continues to mislead men to think all women participate in hookup culture, but they shouldn’t be making that assumption about the women they meet, hookups are still predominantly unappealing to the majority of women and sex remains exclusive to their romantic relationships.
Coming up to a stranger and demanding sex immediately is just sick because that means you’re just desperate. That just describes how desperate you are and just wait for your time to come, that also means being impatient.
It's not desperate, it's communicating honestly and clearly to save everyone time and heartache. A simple no and they're both on their merry way. If someone walks into an auto store and says, I'm looking for a tire gauge, it doesn't mean he's desperate.
@@JohnDoe-g7i sure, but you'll create a selection bias where the only girls who say yes in that scenario will almost certainly not be the ones that you really want. Of course, if you're just looking at for a sentient fleshlight and not someone that you're attracted to physically or emotionally, then sure, but you'll make a lot of people uncomfortable in the process.
"... My agent said this video would be good exposure even if the pay is shit, but what the actual fuck is this? Maybe if I stay completely still he won't see me and go away."
How is suddenly telling someone you want to engage in coitus with them supposed to generate attraction again? If they're not attracted to you already, they're going to be even less attracted to you when you suddenly come out of nowhere with that 💀
Rofl no joke, was looking for a comment like this, it does look just like that, similar to a certain film that was blamed for an uprising many years ago. Really does look like some type of interrogation technique/counter espionage tactic being used by the modern forces.
I was friends with my fiance for over a year. During that friendship, I developed intense feelings for her. I was honest with her, told her my feelings and I understood how it may change our friendship and that if she decides she wants space or to disconnect the friendship that it would be her right and I would respect any decision she makes. Lucky for me, she told me that she didn't feel the same way but would be happy to remain friends. 6 months later, our relationship started and it was amazing. It was built on a place of mutual respect. When she said "No thanks, but I don't want to stop being friends" I said thank you for your honesty, and we played some mario kart.
@@HannahWoods-yp8ed Thanks! It makes me laugh to see these people who think they understand and entire relationship from 1 UA-cam comment. It REEKS of single/lonely/incel
Ever notice how younger women, like in their teens and 20s, often get little crushes on their gay male friends? Why is that? The men are certainly not communicating any sexual "intentions" their way. It's because they will actually *look a woman in the eyes* and the friendship grows out of the fact *they just like each other as humans.* It's sad how REFRESHING that can feel as a teenage girl or young woman.
exactly. I find Queer men are just safer. they also listen and empathise with social issues I deal with as a woman and help out (for example calling out misogynistic 'jokes') instead of calling me sensitive etc
I had a girl saying “I always wanted a gay friend”. Reminds me of Trevor’s mom from GTA 5 “I always wanted a gay son” 😂 I honestly don’t understand the gay friend thing.
lowkey the best option, requires both rapport, and nonchalance. I started talking to a girl younger than me, who went to my highschool, and now lives in the same city as me. Don't be a freak, be chill, actually be interested too, they are people. If you treat a person how you want to be treated you will be fine. she didn't know me specifically, but she knew of me, and that was enough to kick off a conversation. Slow down, have income, and want things for YOURSELF. you got this kings.
Based on the clips Charlie showed, the guy in the black shirt next to the pickup artist is either there under duress and just waiting for his moment to escape, or he's already dead and this is a Weekend at Bernie's situation. There's no way someone with _that_ facial expression is actually paying attention to what's being said, or is even there of their own free will. (What even _was_ the point of that other guy? He doesn't say anything or react at all. They could've just just filmed the pickup artist talking directly into the camera.)
cause, generally speaking, even for a good paycheck no woman gonna co-sign this kinda abuse. i'm sure back in the 90s there were some with women in, mostly cause 15 minutes of fame & they didn't realize how long these videos would last with their faces in. so you CAN find some but yeah
@overlordfemto7523 found "dating guru's" account.
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@overlordfemto7523 “why ask what women want? They’re too dumb to understand their desires, I can just assume what they want and make sure that every single woman around me thinks that I’m a creep!” That’s how you sound like to the entire female gender
When I started getting into gaming (online) whether it was known for certain or not that I was a girl it was very clear that a lot of these ill mannered and lonely guys sometimes much younger than me (even under aged) would relentlessly bombard me with uncalled for or unwanted harassment. As you would expect especially if you have ever experienced this behaviour before is once it is rejected you immediately get treated further like crap like in my case being kicked by groups, slandered on discord chats, called a guy and not a girl, being called other derogatory names, etc... I've met plenty of guys online who did game and not act like that but the vast portion of the gaming communities nowadays are full of creepy, lazy, unwanted men who do not seem to want to be friendly or play a game with a girl unless you intend to humour their bullshit. It is exactly why many of them get blocked, muted, or in other words ignored. They act like there is no anxiety or assume that we're all single or available to serve whatever purpose they have in mind without any regard for what the female is feeling or thinking about the entire situation.
Maybe just play the game instead of going into lobbies and going "look at me, im a girl can i have one free attention please" Or you know make some friends and play with them instead
I wouldn't really say nowadays. Even back in MW2 lobbies and games of that era this was pretty common among many, unfortunately. I think it's just gotten even worse as more people flock to gaming now that it isn't some taboo thing that it used to be.
@@TheSuperappelflap Not really how it works. All a female has to do is talk, and many "men" will absolutely lose their shit about it. It isn't everyone, but there's a decent amount who do.
@@TheSuperappelflap you sound exactly like the dudes she described. Having a female voice is not a request for advances or harassment, you literally think just like one of these pick up artists.😂
@@lumntoob999 I mean yeah if you go into a space that’s like 95% men most of which are chronically single and haven’t had sex in years, if ever, and then start talking with a female voice, you will get the results as described in the comment I replied to. So don’t do that then. It’s like complaining about guys staring at your tits when you go to a nude beach in France. It’s gonna happen. What else do you want me to say?
These insane dudes will take the most direct approach ever, come off creepy as hell, and then get hostile or even dangerous when they're rejected! To avoid this, I typically act puzzled and pretend I don't speak English. So far, none of the creeps I've used this tactic on have known Russian, but I'm inclined to learn more languages just in case
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Trying not to think about someone is like telling people "try not to think about polar bear in miniskirt". They are going to think about polar bear in miniskirt even if they never thought of either of those things. Human mind doesn't work like that. Keep busy, focus on yourself, don't ruminate at the beginning but don't run from the feelings, either. End of relationship brings up a chemical storm in your brain that is affecting the way you feel and think - read up about neuroscience of love to understand it more deeply. Getting insight into how neurotransmitters are affecting your behaviour will make you feel less hopeless and confused. Know that it will pass, like all things. When the chemical storm is over, you can analyse the past - preferably with someone you can trust,a good friend and therapist. And please don't get scammed by people preying on those with broken hearts.
This comment is so funny, because it’s true. I wonder how he talked that guy into helping him for this video. It’s probably his brother’s roommate or something, and they promised him $40 and they said they’d invite him to the next party they throw.
@@Jabrownie23 Who doesn't like a good femboy amirite? But which specific charges would I be convicted of if I said these words to a woman? "I want to fuck. What's your name?".
Now put yourself in the women's shoes who's likely going to be much shorter, smaller, less strong and vulnerable. And then realize that this is what women actually deal with on a regular basis which is why they are so cautious. It's why they want time to get proof they are not dealing with a rapist and actually dealing with someone who thinks of them as a human being instead of an object to rape.
These guys have literally never considered offering a genuine compliment. It didn't occur to him that compliments could even be genuine. He assumed anything other than "I want to take you home" would be dishonest.
@@ashkebora7262 yea i dont think being that honest is a good thing while you shouldn't lie about wanting to be in a relationship opening up a conversation with i wanna smash isn't exactly effective
@@Y.T.STachi Oh don't get me wrong. Being honest IS good, basically always in honest engagements which relationships should be. I don't hold it up as a model to emulate, but just pointing out that there is 'a' positive quality. One that makes him _very_ easy to avoid, which is a much, much better situation than some toolbag that knows how to, "play the game" but is still just a horny loser on the inside.
its crazy how theyd rather act weird and say foul shit they dont even believe themselves than just be themselves and talk to people like theyre actual human beings...
I mean to be fair with a man it's like 50/50 if they're dangerous and even then the woman has atleast a chance of winning in a fight. With a bear the bear is almost CERTAINLY dangerous and if it decides it doesn't like you then you're toast.
Yeah but bears don’t r@pe or torture. They’re predictable in a way humans aren’t. And realistically there’s really not THAT much women, specifically smaller women can do against a man with bad intentions just because men tend to be stronger. So really it’s just about picking your poison…
Me: "I can't stand it when a guy pretends to give a shit about me as a person, then drops me the second he finds out I don't want to sleep with him. I wish they were more straightforward instead of letting me believe they cared." This guy: "I have an idea" Me: "NEVERMIND"
It's not that we don't give a shit about women as people.. it's that we don't give a shit about anyone as people. It's not sexist.. it's egocentrism, and it is default for most humans.
@@chaosmastermind That’s bullshit. Most men have friends and family members they truly care about, just like women do. It’s part of being a social species.
@@chaosmastermind Why would I care about you? I don’t know you. The issue I have is with guys who *pretend* to care to try and get close to me. They’ll outwardly show interest in learning more about me and spending time with me, but the second they find out sex isn’t on the table, I’m worthless to them. They’re lying.
Pro tip: Just don't. Don't do anything. Just improve yourself and wait around. Either someone becomes interested or they don't. Because of pick-up "artists" like that, even approaching like a normal, sane individual is seen as bad and suspicious. So, just don't.
@@kadeemvaughn9 Approaching puts you at risk of false accusations, being shunned, and/or scorned, regardless of how it is done. The people who make these accusations face little punishment, too. There is little benifit in the U.S. when it comes to approaching, hell, even marriage (divorce courts are insanely biased). We're in a different world, friend.
@@just-linx8271 i am aware of all the issues with females and the legal system in the 🇺🇸 but in general woman don't approach you so if you want a girl you gotta risk it or be alone but waiting for a girl to just fall in your lap is unrealistic
@@WeirdWhiteRabbit I hope you realise the hilarity of this situation XD the irony of you standing in agreement with me, an Indian, while disrespecting my Indian brothers at the same time is just gold 😌 It's like you tried to be racist, but accidentally proved yourself all people of a race are not the same 💀
@@comradepeter87I think she was saying that because Indian men are one of the shortest in stature on average so therefore less threatening, or she is talking about how overtly horny most are towards women in general. Still racial bias, but not necessarily racist, it's not like she is saying she thinks indians are inferior.
@@comradepeter87 It's not racism, it's xenophobia (a valid one, there's been a woman who got her insides pulled out as she was r-- in India like.. 2 weeks ago?) Indian isn't a race, not even ethnicity, it's a nationality.
"You need to be dominating" "You need to invade their space"
You need therapy.
And handcuffs.
And a strap..... On@@Blackheathenly
He assumes people think he sounds smart because he sounds like sadhguru 😅
@@Blackheathenly Straight jacket. I don't trust that man with the ability to move his hands in any capacity.
@@eraldocoil2719 I read that as "I don't trust A man with the ability to move his hands in any capacity" and was torn between laughter and agreement. If a man got hands....he shady...,ladies....take his piano walkers right off. Now I KNOW you won't be texting.
they say you miss 100% of the shots you don't take, but i think this man has a better shot not taking them.
God tier comment lmao
😂
He has a better shot at getting a date with his anime pillow
@@ZetaCancri *He has a better shot of having an anime pillow come to life and ask him "I wanna fuck you, what's your name?"
Too late. I'm afraid of the woman
the sentence "I'm going to approach you with sexual intent" is both hilarious and terrifying
I am your 100th like 🫵🏻
The classic Hank Hill school of post-marriage flirtation.
My favorite Law & Order show
"Do you want to do a sex with me"
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Protip: Never say anything to a woman that you wouldn’t want a man to say to you in prison.
That's unironically pretty genius advice.
Jokes aside, that’s actually pretty good advice.
probably the best advice out there
Damn, that's huge. I mean the piece of advice, of course.
i like ya and i want ya
The random guy on the right staying dead silent and uncomfortably nodding along to the worst dating advice imaginable had me absolutely dying LMAO
"Look man, I was promised 100 bucks for a simple acting gig, just get through your bullshit monologue so I can get paid and go home"
👁 I see your pfp
@@furthings I see yours too, and it's very cute! 💜
The fact that he couldn't even get a woman to be on camera to rp this is probably the most damning evidence against this "method."
Bel prob wanted to say yo I left my dog inside I don’t want him to shut in it just speak tf up
huge tip for talking to women: dont treat it like some sort of weird game, because you sure as hell cant reload your save file
That’s actually a good counter to the whole “game” aspect they push
The inability to reload is the least of problems in “game” attitude. More like don’t treat it as a game cos people aren’t freaking objects, toys or robots.
@@MisterIncog thats what im trying to say, life isnt a game and people arent objects in a game that you can just reload lmao
Treating a woman like she's a human being! What a radical concept! That's going to blow most mens minds!!!
Lmao you reminded me of that Super Seducer game
Shitting myself in front of the date would be more romantic than what these guys are teaching, holy fuck
How don't put yourself down like that, I'm sure you're shit covered underwear is very romantic.
Considering there are actually people that are into that you are not wrong. :x
I swear. If some dude walked up to me and just shits their self... I'd be on the floor laughing so dang hard xD
I had no idea the bar was that low when it comes to dating
Funny you should mention that, I have a buddy who legit pooped his pants during his first date.
That was 10 years ago or something. Now they're married with two children.
As a woman, one of the best things you can do as a man is just talk to us like we are actual human beings. If some guy comes up to me with the mindset of “omg! i’m talking to a female!!” it’s obvious, and it will instantly make the woman feel uncomfortable
@@anonymity2882you are providing an excellent example of what Justina said, it is extremely obvious what your intent is in a very uncomfortable way. 😅
Also they should lessen their expectations as we also do. When a gentleman whom I hold affection for displays kindness towards me, I do not immediately presume that I will have a romantic opportunity with him. Building a romantic relationship necessitates mutual attraction and can be best achieved through the friendship approach, allowing us to genuinely connect and determine if we are better suited as companions or romantic partners. So I encourage the same advice for men, lower the high expectations. We encountered a gentleman at work who had envisioned a romantic opportunity with his boss's daughter. He harbored lofty expectations, only to have them shattered upon discovering that she was already contentedly involved in a romantic relationship with someone else. It turns out that her professional demeanor towards him was simply a matter of maintaining a proper work dynamic, though he mistakenly interpreted it differently.
Ye
@@anonymity2882 ummm no
@@anonymity2882 u misunderstood the OP with ur comment which is deleted now, weird
Young guys are afraid of approaching woman, and this man wants them to become straight up predators. BRAVO.
I mean, if they do it often enough, they're gonna get love.
From the prison gangs because they got there on SA charges -.-
@@Nerobyrne almost had me there… pfffft
Thats probably the story of most predators
Andrew Taint too, what he spouts isn't too far off from this.
It’s just sad at this point
"generate attraction" saying it like we playing the sims💀💀
*The sims be like:*
🟩
🕺
My SIMS family was brutally murdered.
You need to put extra points into charisma
Some people do treat life like a sims.
@itz_me_aziza_21crazy how worthless you are 🤣
"You need to invade their space," is FUCKING CRAZY
Next time you straight up ask a random girl for sex, bring handcuffs so she cant run away. That´ll make her love you
I was drinking water and spit it everywhere when he said that. Is this not satire?
I hear the Indians are very good at invading the spaces of foreign women visiting their country.
It is overt and I do not like it
“…and start honkin on her tiddies.” 😂💀
As a woman... if someone tried to start a conversation like that with me... i would immediately start laughing outside but inside be scared shitless
You should be running to more a populated area in that case
Immediately find the closest bear
your opinnion doesnt matter, you just get fucked
Don't let them know you are afraid, just be brave in general since a ton of these creeps get off more when they know they creeped out someone or scared them. It's weird but you can check even online discussions held by such weirdos
@@mantis8856yeah a lot of them are more aware of their weird behavior then they let on 🤦🏽♀️
pick up artist seminar: $3,000
being normal and just talking to people: free
Being normal is too easy!
@@ZetaCancriCorrection: It's too hard. Which is why I need to spend thousands of dollars so that weirdos can teach me how to be normal!
The slave bidding shall start at $500 dollars
"being normal" isn't working for most guys now because they don't know what normal is, they have severely warped views of how social interactions are supposed to go and when they try, it goes disastrously wrong. The *right* (not a con-artist/pick up artist) person can help them with that.
It's like treating women like equals an human beings is a foreign concept to a huge amount of men.
I love how every single one of these "techniques" and "methods" treat women like either wild animals or robots or wild animal robots
That's the sigma male way
Don’t spook me or I’m gonna run away 😭
They don't see us as actual humans with thoughts and feelings. We are the side characters who only show up when they need something. Why put any work into the help?
That's incel logic. Woman will fulfill need. Must get woman.
Horizon zero dawn?
5:16 I'm absolutely wheezing imagining someone actually walking across the bar yelling this shit. People would be running away screaming as quick as if someone pulled a gun at the club if a creep of that level wandered into your space
The internet has done a great job of showing people who to watch out for at your children’s playgrounds
ON GANG ITS TRUE
*Tutorial level*
If someone says I’m your parents friend, just say "my parents don’t have friends"
Yeah lol Indians
@@MrCommentGod Tip: if you don’t know the man approaching you, use SHIFT to sprint back to your parents.
@@MrCommentGodYour genius is frightening
Dude in the black shirt in the pickup videos looks like a hostage just waiting for the guy to slip up so he can escape
He looks so uncomfortable! I felt so bad for him
Poor guy. He looks like he doesn’t wanna be here at all. Which, looking at the advice… I don’t blame him.
He LOOKS like Tom Scott.
He also looks concerned.
He looks like he realized he just wasted 3500😂
She looks so uncomfortable, lol 😂
This sort of happened to me once. I’ve had the opener “you’re coming home with me tonight” (no question or anything) said to me before to which I left that bar with my friends so fast out of pure fear. He would not take no for an answer for like 5 mins though and his mates were getting involved too and surrounding me (I was in a queue initially for the bar but felt like I couldn’t leave after being surrounded). The bar queue was kind of like a huge mob normally so nobody really noticed that I was surrounded as it is normal for groups to be sprawled against the bar. My friend thankfully came looking for me and pulled me out after a concerning look I threw them and they said like “we need to leave the taxi is here”.
One of the most scared I’ve ever been. Glad my friend found me but this also shouldn’t be a situation to begin with.
Sorry you had to go through that that hurts to read really
@@constellationorion8679 thank you, was horrid to experience. There’s definitely good people out there so I’ve not become a complete shut in but I always take other people into crowds with me now. And as much as I hate that it’s the way of the world, a male friend with the group is always a bonus to reduce these scenarios happening. I shouldn’t have to ask them to keep a lookout for us, the situation is unfair on everyone.
jesus christ that's horrifying
Sorry you went through that
I already tried this, it worked! She gave me her number! She yelled it out as well, I’ll say the first 3 numbers
“911”
She must of been fire burnin
@itz_me_aziza_21tf r u saying u fucin npc
classic
What's the rest of the number?¿?
Okay, if those are only the first three numbers, then good for you if there was more nunbers.
I think the guy listening to him speak is genuinely being held at gunpoint behind the scene. He looks T E R R I F I E D
Like blink twice if you need help my mans!
@@BibleCampVictlmhell blink at all while you're at it ☠️☠️
@@Godkingzeus.69 EXACTLY 💀
I honestly feel like he’s just socially awkward. It’s sad cus he might think those advices from that creep will help him
Bros like: 😐
I like how Tom Scott is just standing there contemplating whether it was worth interviewing a potential serial killer for content
LOL Tom scott 🤣
🤣🤣🤣
Not how i thought his retirement would play out
you did Tom so dirty. but I see it too.
TOM SCOTT 😂😂😂😂😂
2:50 the funniest part about this is that my friend actually did this exact thing with his crush, she was NOT amused
This guy has definitely tasted every brand of pepper spray.
That's funny. I bet a video of him doing a pepper spray tier list would do way better than him doing PUA type content.
@@goatbabe0666 exactly! He just walks up to a woman and says “hey I wanna fuck you.” Then boom! Instant content.
I think jalapeno might taste better than habanero. Might be good on some wings.
With lines as charismatic as " I want to eff you what flight did you take here?" I'm sure he is a big fan
Like quagmire he’s immune
The title is absolutely correct. If any man approached me in this way, I would try to get away as fast as I could while calling someone so they know my location.
No shit
There's a question going around...
would you be trapped in a forest with a man or a bear ?
Me: Man... unless he's from India.
@@WeirdWhiteRabbit 😆 I agree
Greetings sex?
I don't think I would ever return to that location unless my life depended on it. Even then I'd be hesitant
New go to prison any% speedrun just dropped
I think bro has the world record at this point lol
@@WendysBiggieBag21not until Charlie takes it from him 😂
Here's my genuine advice, talk to them like people. Go into every conversation looking for a friend. Even if it doesn't go beyond that you've gained a friend. I don't know why people feel that's a bad thing.
The problem is that those men are obsessed with the concept of 'sex with (many) women' as something that gives them worth as men, before other men. They don't see women as people or themselves as something with any value beyond this warped ideal of 'a man as something that gains power through sexual prowess'. I don't know if they're hopeless but they're definitely not okay enough to be socially adjusted. It reeks of self-hatred. People like that can't stand other people so they don't care about getting to know anyone, let alone making friends.
I agree. If it leads to romance, great, if not, you have a new friend. Either works for me.
never a bad thing, a guy once made friends with me and stayed friends after I told him I wasn't interested in anything else. 10 years later and he's married to my sister and has 2 kids with her lol. you never know who you'll meet through women who are just your friends.
Agreed!
Or think that sex or company is "necessary". No it is not.
I adore this advice. ❤❤❤
He tries to put his students in prison so they won't be able to refund their money🤡
big brain move XD lol
You just gave me an idea.
🤯🤯🤯
Charlie going “HEY SEX??” with the biggest creepy smile was the funniest thing I have seen today
HEY NOSE?? Got your sex!! Wait...shit, no wait
That smile actually made him look genuinely happy.
I screen recorded that so fast
I'm gonna start saying "Hey Sexy" to my girlfriend
It reminded me of a scene from the Sitcom Taxi where Latka goes up to a woman, puts his head on her shoulder and says "Bed?"
Pick up artists have always baffled me. Like... it isn't that hard. I'm not saying I'm casanova over here, but like... just talk to women like human beings. Without drenching every interaction with the overtone of "I'm only speaking to you cause I want in your pants."
Like, you know, conversation. And then you either hit it off, or you don't so it was never meant to be and you move on, cause you're not entitled to anyone. It really is that simple, fellas.
They think dating is about being tactical, as if the right move or line will always work, when it's all about being personal and respectful and meeting people on their level
Treating dating as some sort of video game is kinda crazy
@@theCommentDevil It's such an insane, creepy mindset to have. And dehumanizing too. Like that women aren't people. They're... like... a lockbox to open. Just find the right password and they'll swoon over you and that's such imaginary nonsense. They'd rather spend money to go to weird workshops full of incels than just have a personality.
What? Women are human beings? Why did nobody tell me????
Fr. There isn't a magic way to make things happen. Women are human beings and you can't control how they will feel about you. Just treat them like humans and respect them, and see what happens.
As soon as he said "It's the intention."
All I thought was: "Because of the implication..."
Exactly!! Because she's out here, on a boat, alone with us...
"she won't say no, she would never say no, because of the implication"
“Are we going to hurt these women??”
I am convinced many of these “coaches” are essentially just trying to gate keep relationships in the most stupid yet aggressive way possible. By playing the role of the serpent in the garden of eden and baiting desperate people into brutally and irreversibly fucking up their entire lives.
Snakes are sneaky- this a Skinwalker.
Very odd way of putting it, but very plausible given how "assertive" he was. Kinda makes me think of that one line from Adam Smasher.
I agree. Dating and relationships are in a terrible state, but these grifters exist to make money off a segment of people who can't work from a worse scenario and move up from there.
gotta keep the clients bro, can't be giving actual tips.
That keeps people in their grips and continue playing for their grifts.
I love how unenthusiastic the other guy looks, he did nothing the whole time
Military level training in not laughing
The dude on the right kinda looks like Nathan Fielder
Hmm I feel like he know this shit weird asf
he does the 1000 yard stare silently for the most part of the video
Bro looks straight up uncomfortable lol
If a dude comes up and starts talking to you for no professional/ friendship/ pragmatic/ familial reasons, he doesn’t need to say he wants to eff you
Right? His approach sets the tone. 🤣
Women are making it difficult to even have conversations these days. I had to smash a water cooler in the waiting room because she couldn't just have a normal conversation without harboring the assumptions that you just mentioned.
@@RobbieStacks90 what 💀
@@RobbieStacks90What kinda conversation were you having to the point you FOUND it mandatory to smash the water cooler 💀
@@RobbieStacks90my mans u have the most interesting comment history on this channel ive ever seen
I'm not a conspiracy theorist but I'm honestly starting to think these pickup artists are actually people working for the government to weed out men who need to be on a watch list.
It’s not that. There are just a ton of men who are socially inept which people profit from.
But why would there be a list? Government sure as hell doesn't give a shit about unsafe men harassing women.
I fucking wish
@@nelli5320 idk maybe some feds are trying to fill in their quotas
Hearing them saying the sentence "You need to be invading their space" with a straight face is really something else.
They do know that the word invading has a negative connotation right?. It's not something people do unless it's with ill intent.
For real. That line rubbed me the wrong way big time.
I don’t think they care about if the woman doesn’t like it, they just wanna be horny and weird
Or like, by accident because you're clueless. But willingly? Oh no
S
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I've had guys do this. My immediate and unconscious answer has been "eww" while I back up like Im waiting for a wild animal attack.
God forbid a man actually WANTS to have a platonic conversation with a woman
Edit: wow there’s a lot of discourse in these replies
Nah not possible
What's the point of that?
@@DarkandBroody gender politics has broken you brother
@@DarkandBroodycome back to the light
@@RabidDisposition I can only hope you’re joking
I bet he calls her “buddy” 😂
Just like nixon to his wife
😂yooo that’s a war crime sir ima have to cal the icc
I call my wife “buddy” “pal” and “dude” but I also call her names of affection and other things she likes that I cannot say on public forum. Your relationship is yours, and don’t worry about what other people think when it comes to it. Not supporting the loony toon in this video by any means but calling your S/O “buddy” ain’t no thang
@@FemboiMars unless theyre a stranger ofcourse
@@FemboiMarsnot sure if you watched the video
5:16 ur welcome
BOO! Did I scare you? I’m a job application 😂😂😂
@@shupgamesno I am
“BOO! Did i scare you? im a job application 😂😂😂” hit me and i was so happy to see the original
what.
I will never understand why guys look for dating advice from other guys. I struggled for many years to find a relationship. After countless failures I changed my approach. Instead of taking advice from guys, I started asking women for advice and you know what happened? I immediately had success. It’s almost like women will tell you what they want and you just have to listen.
But for some reason guys just refuse to change how they do things. I see it constantly in these comments sections. Women will say “don’t do this stuff, we think it’s creepy and no one will ever respond well to it” and guys respond saying “no, you’re a stupid woman. You don’t know what you want and you’re lucky that we even acknowledge your existence”. It’s absolutely insane to me how guys think a woman will want you if you harass her and act like a pervert. Smh
Do you think it would work in reverse? Could I as a woman ask guys for advice on dating guys?
@@fomorians it 100% works in reverse, just like single men keep men single, single women keep women single
You see, people who get advice from pickup guys have the idea that ALL of women act certain way and it's a bit frustrating and sad to see. The answer is right next to you (just talk to them) but pickup artists will get you far away from actually talking to a woman like a normal person bc it keeps them insecure and with the idea that those people actually need their advice.
Not that this is bad advice, but I will say that men shouldn't assume this will up their chances of successful relationships, if not because they have to implicitly adapt to being an enjoyable person, but also because in my own experience of taking women's advice, doing exactly what they don't suggest has worked better for me. Women have this tendency to speak for all women and it will end up causing failure. It is why we still see women being objectified, as many do it to themselves and many others encourage men to do so whether they actually mean to or not. No demographic of people are all in the same page despite how hard they try to act like this is the case.
@@accelerator1666 This comment is real dumb, dude
the real cheat code is to just genuinely think of women as people. just regular ass people the same way men are. some are attractive, some arent, some you get along and have shared interests with, some you don't. like deadass just approach us like normal ppl worthy of respect and with inherent value regardless of if we sleep with you, cuz you dont suddenly deem men worthless if you don't become best friends so why do women lose all value if we arent romantic partners?
Also having platonic women friends gets you laid. Women know other women. You being able to handle rejection and not be a creep will get u reccomendations lol.
Jokes on you, men are worthless if they aren't my friends.
Insanity! You dream Impossible dreams!!
No. Thinking women like they are the same as men is exactly how we got into this situation. Men and women are different. There is nothing wrong with acknowledging this.
Instructions unclear, I've been treating women like individuals and respect but still get called creepy, gaslighted and been taken advantage of
These types of people treat women like deers you dont want to startle as you get closer because they dont see them as people with their own thoughts.
"Oh, if you invade their space theyll be put off, so just inch closer and closer so they cant tell exactly when its "too much" for them until you are touching them wherever you want"
Ughhh that's so fucking gross, I hate that that's genuinely how they think
This is a great way to describe it
@-localbard- cry about it 🤓
No, they treat them as video game characters, as if they can do anything they want to them lmao
@@TheDivineShiver or don't be a fucking creep??
I have this guy I work with who's 37 and can't get a relationship and he always talks like it's a game
"if she doesn't reply for an hour I'll take an hour to respond
I have to match her energy"
I'm like bro that will only make her think she doesn't mean anything to you
be confident funny driven and disciplined. those are traits that matter. there are no tactics tricks or games. get any tactics out of your head, work on yourself, build a better life for you that she wants to be apart of
You JUST said a tactic thou XD
There IS NONE
Just BE YOURSELF and do not work on your behavior to pleas eothers but yourself only and the rest will come together!
@user-lk7cv8vg7rlol there are people who still give this advice
It makes no sense too maybe they’re at work and can’t respond immediately. I’m not risking my job to send my potential dating partner a text an hour sooner
@@berrymint6384 Pls dont say that to them, the people that need to hear it the most are the one who really need to change their attitude.
"you need to invade their space and get used to the feeling of mace"
bars 🔥🔥🔥🔥
and I meant you're behind bars
Flailing around all over the place
The invading her space line should be reason enough to lock this guy up 😂
He's literally saying the advise is to sexually harass a women to be so afraid she can't escape. That's the cult he's promoting.
That guy to the right is contemplating all the mistakes he's made that led him to this moment lmao.
Yeah, that mistake being following the advice of, "just be yourself."
I love how they do all of this when all they gotta do is treat them like an actual human being and not a sentient fleshlight
Oh they AREN'T though! They're not treating women like they're sentient
Then you get friendzoned, what's the point?
@@jmz2144You've gained a friend, what's the problem?
@@jmz2144 GENUINE HUMAN CONNECTION BRO 💀
Woman are human? Erm, what the sigma?
Alternate title: Creepy guy gives Tom Scott lookalike a pro restraining order speedrun route
27 f i work nights in a gas station-open carry. A guy strait up interviewed me for 10 min on why I was married, why I wouldn't cheat with him. Clear I was married. He only stopped when another guy came in and saved me
That is nightmarish!
@@LandonStrauss-hc1sc yeah.. I have a list of customers not to be alone with
37 m. I also work in a gas station and I get the rambling tweakers sometimes. Sorry that you get harassed by weirdos. That shit ain't cool
Tho I do have a question. How do you guys with night shifts juggle the rest of your life? I'm genuinely interested cuz I don't know anyone who has a night shift. Especially sleep n relationships.
I feel like at gas stations all bets are off when it comes to interactions. I’m glad you open carry!
what ever happened to just be yourself? what ever happened to only accepting those who accept you for you? your "charming" personality will define your relationship.
I feel like something that isn't talked about is that people (in this case, women) can very easily sense when the other person doesn't perceive them as a differentiated human being. As a woman I have met SO MANY men, generally the majority, who have no issue with relating to women, are able to have normal conversations with me and others, and are able to be mutually respectful. Even when their only interest is sex and even when I'm not receptive to their advances, they still manage to convey that they respect me as a human being. Then, these pick-artist, incel types walk around like women are an esoteric hivemind that need to be treated in a very specific way to produce to desired output, like a sex vending machine.
It's crazy to me how this minority of men cannot even pretend to respect women as sentient beings. What makes dating and 'cold approaches' so difficult for these types of guys isn't due to the female hivemind being cold or unforgiving, it's because the majority of other men have shown that you can be respectful and inviting even in the pursuit of a sexual relationship. Why would anyone ever choose someone aggressive, blunt, and/or impersonal when there are a trillion other people who don't make you feel like an object?
men deal with this same stuff too, being objectified and touched when we dont like it. i couldnt tell you just how many times ive been helping family/friends move furniture or doing some outdoor labor and the women in the household feel fine just putting their hands on your back or patting your neck, or acting like their gonna hit you and playing it off as a joke, or constantly telling you "oh youre so tall, and your shoulders are so broad." theres even times when im out in public at an event, and i can feel women just staring into the back of my head as i walk buy, or walking right in front of me (we're talking inches from my belly) when theres way more space behind me to walk. i can tell you for a fact thats theres plenty of women out there who dont know how to actually talk to men they like and act weird around them (especially when you say something completely normal like "no i dont like concerts theyre too loud" and they laugh like its the funniest shit ever.) and we have to feel like an asshole for telling them "hey i dont like that" or "yeah i get that a lot." those experiences definitely give you an understanding of how women must feel from guys who do the same, but i just wish we were taken more seriously when we express our discomfort
That's a great point, however my life experience has been the opposite, unfortunately. I've met so many creeps ever since I was a little kid, and MOST men were gross and condescending. I'm glad that for you the majority were decent, but to me it still seems like most of them are awful.
I can't help wondering if it's really the minority of men who can not (or at least don't) respect women as sentient beings. I REALLY hope that is the case.
There is no “correct definition” of what a woman should be. The only criteria is being an adult female, that’s literally it. Women can be whatever and whoever they want to be. The fact that you need “proof” to even consider that they aren’t some indecipherable homogenous singularity and are instead individuals with their own unique thoughts and experiences is as telling as it is worrying.
@overlordfemto7523 Read the second sentence bud. You’ve just demonstrated that you’re either illiterate or your reading comprehension is in the trenches. Or maybe you were just too busy vibrating with excitement over the idea of someone responding to your bait comment so you could give your “women are NPCs” speech that you forgot there was more than one sentence in my reply.
as a woman i was very afraid watching this video
Hi Maria
@@Kigxdy86tt you tried , :( maybe next time
@_index_1328 Well, I did it was worth a shot. Peace out ✌🏻
@@Kigxdy86tt The issue here is that you didn't say. "I Want to Fuck you Maria."
Istg the only situation I see this having a chance of working is if you’re talking to a goddamn prostitute thats how bad it is
The only place you should be straightforward about wanting sex is on a dating app. Most people would prefer to know up front that you're just looking to hook up rather than being led on, used for sex and then abandoned. And you do it in a polite way, like "hey, just so you know, I'm only interested in hooking up atm." But doing it in real life, that's a new level of stupidity.
@JustLift-ep9vrmaybe most guys
@@franjkav Unfortunately you're both right. Most dating app users are men and most of those men just want sex 😔
@@franjkavnah women too
Or a swingers orgy.
Always polite to ask who's up for it or just fancies the visuals/ atmosphere ;)
What’s more infuriating is how women on dating apps will specifically say in their profile if they’re interested in hookups making it stupendously easy for men to find women who are actually interested in hooking up, all men have to do is be just as forthcoming in their own profile and start matching with people who are on tinder for the same purpose. If they don’t have success with the women who participate in hookup culture (as the selection criteria is often based entirely on high standards of physical attractiveness) they can always consider going to other websites to seek out a consensual hook up with a sex worker.
As for IRL scenarios where it would be conceivable to consider a woman might be interested in hookups, there’s always certain night clubs that become known for a higher prevalence of that sort of thing, but even then-and this applies whether in person or online-men should NEVER obfuscate the fact they’re ONLY looking for a hookup, a man intentionally framing his interest as romantic in nature and love bombing a woman when a one night stand is all he’s after is an inexcusable manipulation tactic used to circumvent the fact most women are only interested in having sex under the belief there’s mutual romantic attraction and the subsequent belief this is the start of a relationship that will extend beyond that night.
Men should just be honest about the type of relationship (or lack there of) they’re interested in and be respectful to any women who says they’re not interested.
Also, the internet (especially the manosphere) continues to mislead men to think all women participate in hookup culture, but they shouldn’t be making that assumption about the women they meet, hookups are still predominantly unappealing to the majority of women and sex remains exclusive to their romantic relationships.
The way you snuck the ad in there was so clean and diabolical
Coming up to a stranger and demanding sex immediately is just sick because that means you’re just desperate. That just describes how desperate you are and just wait for your time to come, that also means being impatient.
Oh he's waiting for his time to come
It's not even being desperate, it's just straight up gross and creepy... Even if a woman came up to me like that i'd just fucking run
It's not desperate, it's communicating honestly and clearly to save everyone time and heartache. A simple no and they're both on their merry way. If someone walks into an auto store and says, I'm looking for a tire gauge, it doesn't mean he's desperate.
@@JohnDoe-g7i Then hire a sex worker.
Most women want to have some kind of actual interpersonal relationship with the people they sleep with.
@@JohnDoe-g7i sure, but you'll create a selection bias where the only girls who say yes in that scenario will almost certainly not be the ones that you really want. Of course, if you're just looking at for a sentient fleshlight and not someone that you're attracted to physically or emotionally, then sure, but you'll make a lot of people uncomfortable in the process.
I like how uncomfortable the other guy looks in this, you can almost hear what he is thinking lol
"... My agent said this video would be good exposure even if the pay is shit, but what the actual fuck is this? Maybe if I stay completely still he won't see me and go away."
@@dyerseve3001Damn, you beat me to the "Struggling actor REALLY needed the money" joke
I tried this.. got slapped in the face, kicked in the balls, maced, and now I'm facing criminal charges.
But it worked, right?
That man? Joe Biden.
But did you smash?
I am 69th like
😂😂@@magnusgreel275
How is suddenly telling someone you want to engage in coitus with them supposed to generate attraction again? If they're not attracted to you already, they're going to be even less attracted to you when you suddenly come out of nowhere with that 💀
Brother the sexual offenders rate going up
It's probably going to, if young boys keep getting told this kinda shit is normal
Also cause people like the Prince gets away with it too this day
Not sure if this is a joke, but I honestly wouldn't be surprised if this was true.
Pre Andrew tate: look it’s going down because of increased awareness!
Post Andrew tate:
🫥
@@Epic-so3ekandrew tate?! the fuck does he anything to do with this?
This is the equivalent of wearing the “let’s not turn this date rape into a homicide” shirt.
Tf
The what shirt???
A shirt that says that really exists? Lmaoo wtf 😭💀
Fucking what
Maybe, but at least that's comedic in a dark manner. This is just sad in a funny way
did someone read a CIA manuscript on interrogation techniques and rebrand it as PUA techniques
At this point I wouldn't be surprised to learn this is some type of elaborate psy-op
Rofl no joke, was looking for a comment like this, it does look just like that, similar to a certain film that was blamed for an uprising many years ago. Really does look like some type of interrogation technique/counter espionage tactic being used by the modern forces.
the CIA manuscript will get you laid despite the infamy surrounding it.
"Greetings! Sex? Maybe?!" 10/10 quote
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@onedumbgamer3858 perchance
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I was friends with my fiance for over a year. During that friendship, I developed intense feelings for her. I was honest with her, told her my feelings and I understood how it may change our friendship and that if she decides she wants space or to disconnect the friendship that it would be her right and I would respect any decision she makes. Lucky for me, she told me that she didn't feel the same way but would be happy to remain friends. 6 months later, our relationship started and it was amazing. It was built on a place of mutual respect. When she said "No thanks, but I don't want to stop being friends" I said thank you for your honesty, and we played some mario kart.
wanna cookie?
So she kept you on a leash until she was ready to settle, little bit pathetic bud
Sorry on behalf of the salty individuals and congrats dude
@@HannahWoods-yp8ed Thanks! It makes me laugh to see these people who think they understand and entire relationship from 1 UA-cam comment. It REEKS of single/lonely/incel
@@jmz2144 damn i can't believe being equals to someone is like being inferior to someone
it all makes sense why alpha males behave like this now...
Ever notice how younger women, like in their teens and 20s, often get little crushes on their gay male friends? Why is that? The men are certainly not communicating any sexual "intentions" their way. It's because they will actually *look a woman in the eyes* and the friendship grows out of the fact *they just like each other as humans.*
It's sad how REFRESHING that can feel as a teenage girl or young woman.
for real bro, that is actually just insane. and people are STILL confused over the bear argument
exactly. I find Queer men are just safer. they also listen and empathise with social issues I deal with as a woman and help out (for example calling out misogynistic 'jokes') instead of calling me sensitive etc
I had a little crush on my gay friend in high school 😭
I had a girl saying “I always wanted a gay friend”.
Reminds me of Trevor’s mom from GTA 5 “I always wanted a gay son” 😂
I honestly don’t understand the gay friend thing.
“Dated” a guy for 4 years in elementary school and he ended up coming out as gay in middle school, LOL.
Talking with intentions?? Is he talking about ... flirting?!
lowkey the best option, requires both rapport, and nonchalance. I started talking to a girl younger than me, who went to my highschool, and now lives in the same city as me. Don't be a freak, be chill, actually be interested too, they are people. If you treat a person how you want to be treated you will be fine. she didn't know me specifically, but she knew of me, and that was enough to kick off a conversation. Slow down, have income, and want things for YOURSELF. you got this kings.
Based on the clips Charlie showed, the guy in the black shirt next to the pickup artist is either there under duress and just waiting for his moment to escape, or he's already dead and this is a Weekend at Bernie's situation. There's no way someone with _that_ facial expression is actually paying attention to what's being said, or is even there of their own free will.
(What even _was_ the point of that other guy? He doesn't say anything or react at all. They could've just just filmed the pickup artist talking directly into the camera.)
There's a thing that somehow makes people more believable when they are talking to somebody to the side on a camera, podcasts use and abuse it a lot.
@@Cascade-Rise I suppose anyone smart enough to see through such manipulation is also going to be smart enough to not follow this pickup advice...
He couldn't find a woman to play the part like he wanted so he used a man
There's one thing you'll never see in these pickup artist videos: a woman agreeing the advice will work.
cause, generally speaking, even for a good paycheck no woman gonna co-sign this kinda abuse. i'm sure back in the 90s there were some with women in, mostly cause 15 minutes of fame & they didn't realize how long these videos would last with their faces in. so you CAN find some but yeah
@overlordfemto7523 Whatever you say 2 words 4 numbers username
@overlordfemto7523like you ever listened to what a woman had to say 😂😂😂
@overlordfemto7523 found "dating guru's" account.
@overlordfemto7523 “why ask what women want? They’re too dumb to understand their desires, I can just assume what they want and make sure that every single woman around me thinks that I’m a creep!” That’s how you sound like to the entire female gender
The guy blinking a million times a minute really conveys his confidence
He is blinking in morse code
I think what he is blinking about is
"Epstein did not kill himself"
3:21 me during the got your nose bit, “WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN!!!”
When I started getting into gaming (online) whether it was known for certain or not that I was a girl it was very clear that a lot of these ill mannered and lonely guys sometimes much younger than me (even under aged) would relentlessly bombard me with uncalled for or unwanted harassment. As you would expect especially if you have ever experienced this behaviour before is once it is rejected you immediately get treated further like crap like in my case being kicked by groups, slandered on discord chats, called a guy and not a girl, being called other derogatory names, etc...
I've met plenty of guys online who did game and not act like that but the vast portion of the gaming communities nowadays are full of creepy, lazy, unwanted men who do not seem to want to be friendly or play a game with a girl unless you intend to humour their bullshit. It is exactly why many of them get blocked, muted, or in other words ignored. They act like there is no anxiety or assume that we're all single or available to serve whatever purpose they have in mind without any regard for what the female is feeling or thinking about the entire situation.
Maybe just play the game instead of going into lobbies and going "look at me, im a girl can i have one free attention please"
Or you know make some friends and play with them instead
I wouldn't really say nowadays. Even back in MW2 lobbies and games of that era this was pretty common among many, unfortunately. I think it's just gotten even worse as more people flock to gaming now that it isn't some taboo thing that it used to be.
@@TheSuperappelflap Not really how it works. All a female has to do is talk, and many "men" will absolutely lose their shit about it.
It isn't everyone, but there's a decent amount who do.
@@TheSuperappelflap you sound exactly like the dudes she described. Having a female voice is not a request for advances or harassment, you literally think just like one of these pick up artists.😂
@@lumntoob999 I mean yeah if you go into a space that’s like 95% men most of which are chronically single and haven’t had sex in years, if ever, and then start talking with a female voice, you will get the results as described in the comment I replied to. So don’t do that then.
It’s like complaining about guys staring at your tits when you go to a nude beach in France. It’s gonna happen. What else do you want me to say?
These insane dudes will take the most direct approach ever, come off creepy as hell, and then get hostile or even dangerous when they're rejected! To avoid this, I typically act puzzled and pretend I don't speak English. So far, none of the creeps I've used this tactic on have known Russian, but I'm inclined to learn more languages just in case
it’s sad how women are having to learn more languages to get out of a dangerous situation with men.. jeezus
Feel sad for you...but at least you have a laugh later
Look into getting an equalizer, you can't compromise with a twisted mind bent on pushing further.
I will use that from now on since i know a few languages😭
@@TheDivineShiver no one's gonna let you hit with your predatory, rapist, creepy behaviour, my guy.
This will also make any normal person afraid of you
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
I’m weirdly fascinated by this interaction 🤔
Trying not to think about someone is like telling people "try not to think about polar bear in miniskirt". They are going to think about polar bear in miniskirt even if they never thought of either of those things. Human mind doesn't work like that.
Keep busy, focus on yourself, don't ruminate at the beginning but don't run from the feelings, either. End of relationship brings up a chemical storm in your brain that is affecting the way you feel and think - read up about neuroscience of love to understand it more deeply. Getting insight into how neurotransmitters are affecting your behaviour will make you feel less hopeless and confused. Know that it will pass, like all things. When the chemical storm is over, you can analyse the past - preferably with someone you can trust,a good friend and therapist.
And please don't get scammed by people preying on those with broken hearts.
@@margodphd This entire comment thread is a scam to drive traffic to some bullshit median or similar snake oil salesman type deal. Don't bother
i tried this advice and i am now facing up to 20 years in prison. Thanks!
@@p-__ got any other unoriginal comment ideas or just that one
@@TREVINpartythese are bot comments
Haha. I adore the random dude he asked to stand there silently and listen to this, he couldn't even convince a lady to stand in for the tutorial lmao.
This comment is so funny, because it’s true. I wonder how he talked that guy into helping him for this video. It’s probably his brother’s roommate or something, and they promised him $40 and they said they’d invite him to the next party they throw.
@@MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesisnobody would want to go to their parties so I doubt it’s that
I love how the advice is so bad people finds the guy in the black shirt more attractive than the main clown in the video😂
Mans is the personification of the "Show bob and vagene" meme💀
I shouldn't have taken a sip of water before reading this. 😆 🚿
you beat me to it. Dropping the ,, I wanna fuck you" in the first minute definitely set this tone.
Damn he even got the accent
Dude I’ll be completely honest there is no chance in hell I’m taking pickup advice from an Indian
It's cause he's brown isn't it
3:39
Cursed Technique: Gloved Raking
That shit would end up Sukuna real quick
I'm already ace how did you make me feel NEGATIVE ATTRACTION?!!
It's simple, instead of appealing to your hormonal side, he accidentally activated your survival instinct
That’s also a hormonal side, just with adrenaline as the main hormone
*Timestamps for the video*
Start: 0:00
End: 9:08
Its been 40 seconds😭
MVP
Tysm
you're effort is greatly appreciated 🙏
thank u so so much
I would be genuinely terrified if a guy so casually said that
I'll probably try this when I'm single again
@@chugjugs6081 Well you won't be single in a prison cell.
@@Jabrownie23 Who doesn't like a good femboy amirite? But which specific charges would I be convicted of if I said these words to a woman? "I want to fuck. What's your name?".
"wanna smash?"
"Yes. your face."
Toughen up
Charlie you are making this man sound far more entertaining than they deserve
1 minute in and I’m already scared of this dude bro. And I’m not even a woman
I'm scared his homies are gonna find me if I ever find him near my daughter :O
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@@TheDivineShiveroh you definitely got him bro💀
I know it makes me uncomfortable
Now put yourself in the women's shoes who's likely going to be much shorter, smaller, less strong and vulnerable. And then realize that this is what women actually deal with on a regular basis which is why they are so cautious. It's why they want time to get proof they are not dealing with a rapist and actually dealing with someone who thinks of them as a human being instead of an object to rape.
"professional" pick up artists. Hearing that term makes them about as useful as traffic lights in GTA..
These guys have literally never considered offering a genuine compliment. It didn't occur to him that compliments could even be genuine. He assumed anything other than "I want to take you home" would be dishonest.
I mean, saying anything else WOULD be dishonest, it sounds like... At least for being a sex-crazed creep, he's honest.
@@ashkebora7262
yea i dont think being that honest is a good thing
while you shouldn't lie about wanting to be in a relationship opening up a conversation with i wanna smash isn't exactly effective
@@Y.T.STachi Oh don't get me wrong. Being honest IS good, basically always in honest engagements which relationships should be.
I don't hold it up as a model to emulate, but just pointing out that there is 'a' positive quality. One that makes him _very_ easy to avoid, which is a much, much better situation than some toolbag that knows how to, "play the game" but is still just a horny loser on the inside.
its crazy how theyd rather act weird and say foul shit they dont even believe themselves than just be themselves and talk to people like theyre actual human beings...
It’s called respect, ok? 😂😂
This is why women go for the bear.
True
I’m picking tree
I mean to be fair with a man it's like 50/50 if they're dangerous and even then the woman has atleast a chance of winning in a fight. With a bear the bear is almost CERTAINLY dangerous and if it decides it doesn't like you then you're toast.
Yeah but bears don’t r@pe or torture. They’re predictable in a way humans aren’t. And realistically there’s really not THAT much women, specifically smaller women can do against a man with bad intentions just because men tend to be stronger. So really it’s just about picking your poison…
“I will make you irresistible to women” WHAT ABOUT MEN???
Me: "I can't stand it when a guy pretends to give a shit about me as a person, then drops me the second he finds out I don't want to sleep with him. I wish they were more straightforward instead of letting me believe they cared."
This guy: "I have an idea"
Me: "NEVERMIND"
It's not that we don't give a shit about women as people.. it's that we don't give a shit about anyone as people. It's not sexist.. it's egocentrism, and it is default for most humans.
@@chaosmastermind That’s bullshit. Most men have friends and family members they truly care about, just like women do. It’s part of being a social species.
@@trumpeterjen Can you honestly say you care about me as a person? I didn't think so.
@@chaosmastermindBro you're on the defensive chill
@@chaosmastermind Why would I care about you? I don’t know you.
The issue I have is with guys who *pretend* to care to try and get close to me. They’ll outwardly show interest in learning more about me and spending time with me, but the second they find out sex isn’t on the table, I’m worthless to them. They’re lying.
I’m feeling the effects working already
Thanks.
*effects
same I have charlie’s body now😋
@@alonsobazo4619yeh my bad lol
*affects
Pro tip:
Just don't. Don't do anything. Just improve yourself and wait around. Either someone becomes interested or they don't. Because of pick-up "artists" like that, even approaching like a normal, sane individual is seen as bad and suspicious. So, just don't.
Waiting around is not good advice the pick up artist is shit advice but telling people to wait around and do nothing isn't good either
@@kadeemvaughn9 Approaching puts you at risk of false accusations, being shunned, and/or scorned, regardless of how it is done.
The people who make these accusations face little punishment, too.
There is little benifit in the U.S. when it comes to approaching, hell, even marriage (divorce courts are insanely biased). We're in a different world, friend.
@@just-linx8271 i am aware of all the issues with females and the legal system in the 🇺🇸 but in general woman don't approach you so if you want a girl you gotta risk it or be alone but waiting for a girl to just fall in your lap is unrealistic
why does the video look like an Ad for a prescription medication
😂
Cialis commercial
Men like him really be validating that "Man vs. Bear as jungle companions" trend on TikTok 💀
Me: Man... unless the man is from India. F***k it I'll take my chances with the 900lb grizzly.
mm racism, just what we needed
@@WeirdWhiteRabbit I hope you realise the hilarity of this situation XD the irony of you standing in agreement with me, an Indian, while disrespecting my Indian brothers at the same time is just gold 😌 It's like you tried to be racist, but accidentally proved yourself all people of a race are not the same 💀
@@comradepeter87I think she was saying that because Indian men are one of the shortest in stature on average so therefore less threatening, or she is talking about how overtly horny most are towards women in general. Still racial bias, but not necessarily racist, it's not like she is saying she thinks indians are inferior.
@@comradepeter87 It's not racism, it's xenophobia (a valid one, there's been a woman who got her insides pulled out as she was r-- in India like.. 2 weeks ago?) Indian isn't a race, not even ethnicity, it's a nationality.
"Most ppl won't let you invading their space unless they feel comfortable" OK
"so what u need to do is continue invading their space" Mind blown sfx*
5:16 is the time point if yall are searching for this
“You don’t want to have a normal conversation & treat her like a human being! Talking is for the boys!”
It's like none of these guys have heard of flirting. That concept is just far too subtle for them to express.
I am not even near the dude and I am in fight or flight mode.
I was listening to the video and ad was so smooth I didnt even realize you brought it up
"This will make women afraid of you"
One step ahead of you, Charlie
Edit: I cant spell
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*This video is the 2nd tutorial level*
@UTTPRYANTOYREVIEWS-hz7kz shut up bot
@UTTPRYANTOYREVIEWS-hz7kz Okay, if you didn't ask then why bother interacting. Also, numbers never lie, plus you are a bot
Here at 40 likes
3:57 That segway was clean.
*segue
*seghwhay
As I woman I agree this shit would make me want to ask the bartender for an escort
I doubt a bartender is simply gonna leave his place of work just to escort you; unless he thinks you're giving him some booty.