Pour Minds Talks Dark DM's, Not Cooking For Your Man, Dating Younger Men +More - Ep14 Sober Thoughts

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  • Pour Minds Talks Dark DM's, Not Cooking For Your Man, Dating Younger Men +More - Ep14 Sober Thoughts
    DON’T CALL ME WHITE GIRL EPISODE 14 - “Sober Thoughts”
    Welcome Back! On this episode Mona is joined by the ladies of the Pour Minds Podcast, Lex & Drea. They speak about the dynamic between the two of them and how it translated into becoming podcasters, collectively hating or not hating deadbeat dads, Mona’s beef in Dallas, Black households and the standards for sons/daughters, Darkside of the DMs, voicemails & more!
    Get your real life advice from Damona on the show! Dial 267-225-2492 and leave a question for a chance to have your voicemail answered on an episode.
    Music: @TrvpLawd Beats
    Executive Producers for Breakbeat: Dave Mays & Brett Jeffries
    Producers: Tom Flies & Dre Smith
    Comment & like on the Breakbeat Media UA-cam page, subscribe wherever podcasts are available, and visit us at www.breakbeatmedia.com

КОМЕНТАРІ • 642

  • @Lvlolv
    @Lvlolv 2 роки тому +820

    Mona will be the #1 female podcaster in 2022. Period.

  • @JustDoRightMedia
    @JustDoRightMedia 2 роки тому +10

    The chemistry between these 3 are undeniable
    Enjoy the episode Mona did on their show as well

  • @emmanuelquaye4744
    @emmanuelquaye4744 2 роки тому +6

    Really an intelligent conversations strong black women talking about how to improve the next generation wish y’all nothing but success

  • @antJaxStar
    @antJaxStar Рік тому

    Dang, I Forgot to say, "This was a Great Episode" I can't Believe I Missed one!
    #SeniorStan

  • @Glitzandgabby
    @Glitzandgabby 2 роки тому +2

    Team Taurus ♉️ here!! 😌😌

  • @haydenhurst9711
    @haydenhurst9711 2 роки тому +3

    Not in my household I was the one man around women my mother made sure I was rubbing her and my granny’s feet , cooking and cleaning , holding purses, opening doors pulling chairs out etc.my mother wasn’t about to raise no waste mon

  • @OGPimpin
    @OGPimpin Рік тому

    Cool podcast. They all had some valid points, but when it comes to cooking......you can talk that smack all you want, but if your partner got that good good and other credentials, he is gonna have other options waiting for you to slip up. Knowing those other options are nipping at your heals are either gonna make you step your game up, get in that kitchen, and handle your business or put you on the other side of that door for good.

  • @everythinglarissa6everythi258
    @everythinglarissa6everythi258 2 роки тому

    I love this show

  • @savypie2917
    @savypie2917 2 роки тому

    Lexxxxx lol this girl a trip!!!!! 😍

  • @tricia108
    @tricia108 2 роки тому +486

    ITS FINALLY HERE!!!!!!! MY 2 FAVORITE PODCAST COME TOGETHER! ITS A CHRISTMAS STORY FOR REAL.

    • @breerozaa2246
      @breerozaa2246 2 роки тому +5

      Yes mine tooo

    • @BennieValentine
      @BennieValentine 2 роки тому +4

      Mine toooo

    • @mspiperp
      @mspiperp 2 роки тому +3

      Yesssss

    • @Chase_Dapremont777
      @Chase_Dapremont777 2 роки тому +4

      They were on 85 south central podcast together too

    • @tricia108
      @tricia108 2 роки тому +2

      @@Chase_Dapremont777 yep but this is different! Mona has her own podcast again ...now with a team behind her!!!

  • @quinslion4563
    @quinslion4563 2 роки тому +417

    Mona is definitely building her position to sit at the top of the game.

    • @kingsqueen.
      @kingsqueen. 2 роки тому +8

      she gone be there soon. this is gr8

    • @jasminjenee
      @jasminjenee 2 роки тому +4

      Social skills A1

  • @DalilaJ
    @DalilaJ 2 роки тому +414

    I’m with Lex on this…it’s the mommas spoiling these little boys that grow up being shitty men…

    • @user-cg7ss2xl6c
      @user-cg7ss2xl6c 2 роки тому +7

      Yes. Cuz my 4 bro's be the worse. My momma be All they Girls Best friend!! 🤣🤣 Holidays kill me. We damn near need name tags at this point.

    • @cacinabell3369
      @cacinabell3369 2 роки тому +2

      @@user-cg7ss2xl6c 😂😂

    • @Maso777
      @Maso777 2 роки тому +28

      It’s the single moms raising men. Men have been growing up without father figures for almost 4 generations🤣. You can’t expect a woman to raise a responsible man, with real world experiences. It takes a father figure 💯

    • @kelishawalker2793
      @kelishawalker2793 2 роки тому

      The fuckn WORSE!!

    • @TorreyTy
      @TorreyTy 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@Maso777 na that's where ya wrong my guy

  • @JM.Vercrtti
    @JM.Vercrtti 2 роки тому +75

    10:10
    "youu wouldn't consider yourself bi?"
    "I'm saved now."
    "That's Respectable."
    Lmaooooooooooo😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Iamdaunwaun
    @Iamdaunwaun 2 роки тому +158

    I AGREE WITH LEX ! TEACH YA SONS TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE WITH EVERYTHING YOU START !

  • @zaririchards8613
    @zaririchards8613 2 роки тому +139

    idc if i’m not trying to be in a relationship with him a man MUST take care of his kids. if you don’t diligently care for someone as important as your child , what else do you not care for. and as women so often we have so much to say about other women lacking on motherly tasks and don’t have the same animosity for men who do nothing for their own creation. any man who can see or deal with my body has to be a good person AT LEAST and if you traumatize/neglect your children and don’t even give no fuck about it then you can go straight to hell. very weird to hear women really being ok with that horrible behavior just bc they’re not gonna be long term.

    • @ecstacybrown4255
      @ecstacybrown4255 2 роки тому +6

      FRR💥, Like I gotta see where your mindset is at🤔

    • @danis.5040
      @danis.5040 2 роки тому +5

      💯💯

    • @KamTamya
      @KamTamya 2 роки тому +5

      Right and they never know what may happen they could get pregnant and not wanna get an abortion and then have a deadbeat baby daddy

    • @zaririchards8613
      @zaririchards8613 2 роки тому +12

      @@KamTamya exactly. a lot of women look down on the next woman thinking it could never happen to them until it does. u should be able to trust and respect anybody you lay down with and i will personally never trust or respect a deadbeat.

    • @dezziefbby
      @dezziefbby 2 роки тому +3

      @@zaririchards8613 PERIOD. So much shade and shame until it's YOU! You never know.

  • @BiigKewi
    @BiigKewi 2 роки тому +195

    When Mona dropped the bass in her voice about her son. I felt that. "Get away from this house, I DON'T CARE WHAT HE TOLD YOU! "

  • @happyebony2127
    @happyebony2127 2 роки тому +33

    Lex not wrong , moms do be enabling their sons, and then they grow up to be grown ass man babies expecting their gf’s or wife’s to split bills plus do house work plus raise they kids like good bye

  • @jonathangrant9486
    @jonathangrant9486 2 роки тому +199

    I love how Lex was like..."put Philly on the map like it wasn't the first city ever". 😂😂😂 these sistas book smart and they know entertainment.

    • @shenellrichardson4936
      @shenellrichardson4936 2 роки тому +3

      😭 facts

    • @achanelli
      @achanelli 2 роки тому +2

      🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @johnnylingo2488
      @johnnylingo2488 2 роки тому +4

      It wasn't the first city tho 💁🏿‍♂️

    • @gavinb98
      @gavinb98 2 роки тому +1

      Book smart?

    • @majestymxnt7384
      @majestymxnt7384 2 роки тому +2

      I’m from Philly and can tell you this wasn’t the first city in this country so ion know whatchu talkin bout 💀💀

  • @merajahann7955
    @merajahann7955 2 роки тому +63

    Mona so chill and funny without even trying 🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂
    Lex is the big sister I always wanted , she is everything 🥺🙌🏽🥰💚

  • @thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223
    @thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223 2 роки тому +52

    Mona(The Voice) Drea(The Smile) & Lex(The Spice)...Episode was amazin'🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👑👑👑

  • @Elograce
    @Elograce 2 роки тому +71

    Lex! I felt you! We do need to hold our sons accountable and teach them younger to handle their shit. We are easier on our sons. These are basic life skills that are causing relationship, financial, etc issues. This was a great topic and definitely created ripple effect!

  • @steelsharpenssteel1055
    @steelsharpenssteel1055 2 роки тому +39

    Yall 3 def need to have your own show...with Karlous coming through for the male energy. Ish would be LIT

  • @theprettyygamer
    @theprettyygamer 2 роки тому +69

    My two fav podcasts in one!!! 😍😍😍 I’m so happy y’all did this! More life and success for my girls 💗

    • @thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223
      @thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223 2 роки тому +4

      Exactly, I marvel at how their unapologetically deep within their truths & femininity, make u bask in divine feminine too Godde$$ Phylicia because the World needs more Supportive & non judgmental Women like ya'll innit.
      #HappyHolidaystoUandUreFamily #RemainRealMamas

  • @sarahmathieu6122
    @sarahmathieu6122 2 роки тому +87

    This collab really made me happy. Can’t wait to see the pour minds episode too.

  • @orisohma8139
    @orisohma8139 2 роки тому +28

    the way girls grow up than boys in black families is sooo true. and i was the oldest girl too so i got in trouble for what any body else did 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 like they gone listen to me lmao

  • @adogbewise6561
    @adogbewise6561 2 роки тому +35

    Lit show. All three of you women are beautiful, smart, and driven. You are already stars, and it's only going to shoot higher. Keep your spiritual minds alert for the demons. They creep in all over when success is involved. My prayers and love.

  • @Itsadivinething
    @Itsadivinething 2 роки тому +43

    Im so glad dont call me white girl has her own podcast!! She deserves it!!!

  • @COEDSpadeGang
    @COEDSpadeGang 2 роки тому +27

    In all honesty Lex is saying EXACTLY what females are thinking!!! 😂😂😂

    • @shake1602
      @shake1602 Рік тому

      6 minutes in. So far soo true 😂😂

  • @IAMPARISMONET
    @IAMPARISMONET 2 роки тому +9

    "Unblock me, unblock me. I won't raise my voice no more" ctfu me

  • @crystalrubbie9383
    @crystalrubbie9383 2 роки тому +26

    LEX P IS JUST FUNNY LOVE HERRR

  • @courtneythomas2295
    @courtneythomas2295 2 роки тому +9

    "get away from this fucking house" 💀💀💀

  • @remirosee9199
    @remirosee9199 2 роки тому +12

    I’m sorry, I believe a woman should know how to cook, regardless of their career status!!

    • @kitanna33
      @kitanna33 2 роки тому +6

      Agreed, I think cooking is a basic life skill everyone should possess. I get some people just don't like it but it's a labor of love when your partner is willing to cook for you, even if it's nasty lol it's all about the effort!

  • @sonyahathaway9753
    @sonyahathaway9753 2 роки тому +11

    My daughter is a PM fan (she says Lex P acts like me) and I am a DCMWG cousin. I’m going to have an edible my daughter will probably roll a little joint and listen together, it’ll be a bonding moment.

  • @shenellrichardson4936
    @shenellrichardson4936 2 роки тому +7

    Mona said “bitch get from in front of this house” 😭😭😭

  • @sheree_bb3950
    @sheree_bb3950 2 роки тому +34

    I haven’t even listened yet, love the show and now I see my girls from pour minds I’m excited.
    I wanted to see this link up from 85 south show

  • @jaya8124
    @jaya8124 2 роки тому +9

    20:49 “I don’t care what he told you!!” Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

  • @navidadbella
    @navidadbella 2 роки тому +57

    I think Mona needs to be on Drink Champs as a recurring host, her & NORE’s energy would be crazy together ❤️

    • @empressme8681
      @empressme8681 Рік тому +4

      No… that’s the comment… no.

    • @icsharpk
      @icsharpk Рік тому

      @@empressme8681 🤣🤣🤣 whew I’m late but I needed that laugh. Cause finally someone said it 😩🫠

  • @elashamoss4539
    @elashamoss4539 2 роки тому +9

    This was worth the wait..Bomb episode💥💥 And the worse zodiac has got to be fucking Gemini.

  • @BossLabMWill
    @BossLabMWill 2 роки тому +5

    Let’s be real…69 is not relevant at all 😂 this is the first time I’ve heard anyone speak of him for this long in a whileeeeee

  • @mskila
    @mskila 2 роки тому +17

    I love Lex! Her energy is everything 🙌🏾

  • @AdriaCanSew
    @AdriaCanSew 2 роки тому +10

    I’m loving this podcast! The conversation about sons, I have two and I don’t baby mine. I make them clean up their messes. I’ll be teaching them to cook. They’re not about to be like these men. I know because their dad is one and I’ve ran into my fair share. No bums out my house honey.

  • @saipowell6222
    @saipowell6222 2 роки тому +35

    I really laughed the entireee time!!! I actually never heard of pourminds but I might tune in.

    • @tineeeify
      @tineeeify 2 роки тому +10

      They hilarious you gon be cracking up the whole episode

    • @shenellrichardson4936
      @shenellrichardson4936 2 роки тому +2

      @@tineeeify facts I love them

  • @griffinjenn85
    @griffinjenn85 2 роки тому +10

    OMG! I really enjoyed this episode!! To have the beautiful ladies of Pour Minds on here with the Ms. Mona, EPIC! And Mona, you are the first & ONLY PERSON TO SAY “Why you being weird to me?” And it went viral because of you! Those thieves owe you money!! Keep up the great work! 💕💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @alp.9672
    @alp.9672 2 роки тому +5

    Shorty in the middle look like Summer Walker

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer5982 2 роки тому +8

    Team Can’t cook don’t cook won’t cook 🥴
    I do not like to cook!

  • @bastet.lioness
    @bastet.lioness 2 роки тому +5

    Shout out to the Leo’s 🦁. Lol make em feel good.

  • @fio1056
    @fio1056 2 роки тому +5

    I only watched this for Pour Minds but DON’T CALL ME WHITE GIRL has caught my attention!

  • @johnadams3155
    @johnadams3155 2 роки тому +8

    Ohhh shit ! Both my crushes and potential future wives in one place I gotta be in heaven 😂😂😂 Lex p and Mona extra bdb over here 🥸

  • @tyshaeblaine7491
    @tyshaeblaine7491 2 роки тому +13

    Been waiting on this one!!! My faves! Y’all finna make my morning ☺️

  • @tricia108
    @tricia108 2 роки тому +13

    GREAT EPISODE! I NEEDED 2 HOURS THOUGH. IT WASNT LONG ENOUGH.

  • @SHAWTYonherDOLO
    @SHAWTYonherDOLO 2 роки тому +9

    First of all, that’s the BEST lollipop

    • @biggchoc9359
      @biggchoc9359 2 роки тому +4

      Especially the blue one🤤🤤

  • @Chrysyyyy
    @Chrysyyyy 2 роки тому +11

    I wish this was longer 😭😭😭😭 I enjoyed this so much.

  • @enhancedthroughjesus
    @enhancedthroughjesus 2 роки тому +11

    Y’all just should do this again I enjoyed this episode 👏🏽

  • @MariahIsom
    @MariahIsom 2 роки тому +4

    I’m lex I absolutely do not wanna meet his mother lol

  • @vanna307
    @vanna307 2 роки тому +8

    It’s so funny that she always say Dre cut that out and he never cuts it out 💀

  • @beautyfolse4249
    @beautyfolse4249 2 роки тому +8

    This ladies on their own platforms Blessed me with so much Laughter when I had Covid 2 1/2 weeks ago. My body was in so much pain they had my laughing through the pain. 💜💜💜💜♎️

  • @youngj00
    @youngj00 2 роки тому +18

    AWESOME! Keep these going DCMWG! I love that you’re winning!

  • @KingSB97
    @KingSB97 Рік тому +2

    Okay I didn’t come here for the hate I came for laughs 😂 #Leogang

  • @lilcraftykidd_
    @lilcraftykidd_ 2 роки тому +11

    mona is the realest we gonna get .. I love when new people come to youtube & do things their way!

    • @jblizzy559
      @jblizzy559 2 роки тому +1

      How you get that UA-cam emoji

    • @lilcraftykidd_
      @lilcraftykidd_ 2 роки тому

      @@jblizzy559 im on a apple computer try clicking the emoji button when you comment / its under "youtube"

  • @NubianQueen100
    @NubianQueen100 2 роки тому +4

    I dont coddle my son..you gotta teach them to be MEN , and to be accountable for their actions.. you got men out here creating broken families and homes, and females who dont care, and they support the actions of these dead beat and broken men..its sad out here.

  • @nakishacohen4361
    @nakishacohen4361 2 роки тому +5

    YOOOOOO Demona fuckin kills me!! when she said what she'd do if a girl comes to her house. IM DEEDDDDD

  • @babieeden
    @babieeden 2 роки тому +7

    I love pour minds! Thanks to Ari for her interview if it wasnt for that i wouldnt have known about this fire episode!! 😍

  • @ricardoburton7688
    @ricardoburton7688 2 роки тому +8

    I'm here to learn from these Queens, they be giving us guys answers to the test questions we need but we be on that ego shit instead of listen to women! Loved seeing these Queens come together and exchange podcast pointers, then they went in lol

  • @dezziefbby
    @dezziefbby 2 роки тому +4

    "My tittes too long for that." LMAO Lex you crack me up.

  • @luckap79
    @luckap79 2 роки тому +4

    Big d energy. It took me a while Lmaooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Mona is that chick 9:30

  • @ellenabanks5293
    @ellenabanks5293 2 роки тому +8

    I love how the Energy feels genuine like we just having girl talk ... i wish i had female friends

  • @quathetruth8314
    @quathetruth8314 2 роки тому +6

    I’m so proud of MONAAA!! She deserves this! This had me laughing my whole morning routine! Congratulations MONA I really missed you glad you got your own shit!!! 🎊🥰🎈🎁✨

  • @chefrhos9226
    @chefrhos9226 2 роки тому +19

    Lex was lowkey preaching in the beginning 🙌

  • @myahsykes2451
    @myahsykes2451 2 роки тому +3

    “Unblock me, unblock me I’m not gon raise my voice” MEEEEEE 😂 I play hard but let the man I want not want me

  • @dannietheicon
    @dannietheicon 2 роки тому +2

    Ohhh Mona’s an Aquarius! S/O to gang! 🤟🏾♒️

  • @ILacy
    @ILacy 2 роки тому +6

    Y’all 3 together…hilarious!

  • @Miss_Yaya206
    @Miss_Yaya206 2 роки тому +6

    The 3 of ya'll are my fav!!! I love this! Can't wait to see Mona on Pour Minds next 😬

  • @louisianacookingwithkay
    @louisianacookingwithkay 2 роки тому +2

    5:27
    UA-cam is very hard. I started a cooking channel and I haven't posted in forever. I'm supposed to be teaming up with one of my homeboys who has a cooking channel. He has to teach me how to edit and make a thumbnail. I be so focused on work because I'm in the medical field, but I'm going to start back doing my UA-cam channel.

  • @jay_hovita
    @jay_hovita 2 роки тому +4

    This episode cool and FUNNY AF but I would’ve appreciated a little more direction and REdirection with topics. And it also wasn’t long enough😩😩😩 love both podcasts! WATCH RELIGIOUSLY! Happy holidays to all of you!!! Peace and blessings!!

  • @richwinns9098
    @richwinns9098 2 роки тому +22

    The household convo is deep and true. In our community a lot of men are raised by single moms. That can lead to emotional men due to the lack of logic given to him throughout his upbringing. Great episode 👏

  • @appetite4chic878
    @appetite4chic878 2 роки тому +1

    Drea: “oh f*cking brother 🙄 when do that nigga go home? Well, I guess this is his home” 💀😂

  • @taleo4304
    @taleo4304 2 роки тому +2

    Y’all disrespected the hell out of Leo’s, but I always enjoy the 3 of y’all together.

  • @janihq8259
    @janihq8259 2 роки тому +4

    Yassssssss I was waiting for this shit! Pour minds x dcmwg 🥶 the best black content to date 🤪

  • @keatongrant9023
    @keatongrant9023 2 роки тому +3

    I agree, I always say a lot of women raise the same type of men that they claim they don’t like. It’s happening now with this generation as well, not just the moms with adult sons.

  • @aaliyahyasameen
    @aaliyahyasameen 2 роки тому +2

    “I love my haters, HATERS LINK UP” yes chile! True Leo shit♥️♥️

  • @bri7614
    @bri7614 2 роки тому +3

    If these three had a podcast together it’d be AMAZING😅 They are the female version of the 85 south show💯 Lex is DC, Drea is Chico, and Mona is Karlous😭💀 This is an educational, heads up, hilarious, deep podcasts💕🤝

  • @toridavos1119
    @toridavos1119 2 роки тому +2

    *Goes to search Pour Minds ep. 1-50*

  • @briannaanderson8980
    @briannaanderson8980 Рік тому +1

    She sound like Meg the rapper

  • @highonlifex7419
    @highonlifex7419 2 роки тому +4

    lit 🔥 already know y’all bouta say some outta pocket shit lmaoo

  • @srupshaw
    @srupshaw 2 роки тому +3

    How have I never seen these ladies until now? Idk how I got here, but I am here to stay now. #Htown #SWAT

  • @beautyfolse4249
    @beautyfolse4249 2 роки тому +3

    😂😂😂😂😂 I love me some Lex!!! English Spanish and French! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @brianad.2542
    @brianad.2542 2 роки тому +2

    They are so cute lol love their accents.

  • @niyshiatisdale-bey8611
    @niyshiatisdale-bey8611 2 роки тому +4

    My dad was never coddled. Anytime I found myself on the wrong side of some shit...my parents didn't cape for me. They told me to figure it out. I got myself in it, so find a way out of it. I definitely learned to make better conscious decisions early on. You think longer and harder when you know ain't nobody coming to save you.

  • @sunrise1704
    @sunrise1704 2 роки тому +2

    I literally spit water at these queefing comments 😭😂🤣😂🤣

  • @stephaniejames1062
    @stephaniejames1062 Рік тому +1

    “Fuck y’all mamas” lmfao 🤣 RS tho

  • @ashleywifey13
    @ashleywifey13 2 роки тому +2

    I love lex, and Mona! I don’t listen to pour minds cause i don’t care for the other girl that much

  • @dutchessdioji9368
    @dutchessdioji9368 2 роки тому +13

    Love from NYC and wishing you (and your team) all the blessings your life can hold!

  • @Margaritamorado
    @Margaritamorado 2 роки тому +3

    Lmao “he’s still in Orange”

  • @baggladyjayy
    @baggladyjayy 2 роки тому +3

    Lex had to get some shit off her chest lmaooooo

  • @brooklynnmorgan7712
    @brooklynnmorgan7712 2 роки тому +3

    I agree with Lex, she's right and.. I DONT WANNA COOK EITHER!

  • @TianaaWoah
    @TianaaWoah 2 роки тому +1

    LMFAOOOOO I LOVE LEX!!!! NOT FUCK ALL THE MOMMAS!!!! YOOO

  • @ms.rivera4130
    @ms.rivera4130 Рік тому +2

    I agree with it.... we raise our sons..the mothers do play a role especially in a single parent household .. have to teach them how to be responsible respectable honorable strong young men teach them about the system

  • @Tony-up2yn
    @Tony-up2yn 2 роки тому +1

    You literally mad at good traits cooking and cleaning ? So when you have a kid wtf you gone do ?

  • @L25ish
    @L25ish 2 роки тому +13

    Y’all hilarious af! Now Mona you gotta go on their show if it hasn’t happened already

  • @beautria1671
    @beautria1671 2 роки тому +3

    I felt Lex lol I blame the mamas chileeeee