@@kerrycavanaugh4268 Why? Cause you dont like the truth??? Ana had plenty of opportunities to leave but she stayed, she knew what she was getting herself into. She clearly had no common sense to bring a man back to her apartment knowing her husband is coked up with a gun and a key to her house. How were things going to end??? Doesnt take a genius to see this was going to end bad. if she wanted to see other men go to a hotel why bring them back to the apartment. She sent him crazy and over the edge. Yes he clearly has mental issues and substances will only acellerate them but SHE STAYED OVER AND OVER!!!! Im sick of all this poor woman crap. She knew what she was doing and she paid the price.
So i literally went onto the court tv site 9times but i could not see this trial live!! Whats the deal?? Too much LollyTime on the Daybell trial? Well thaaats not cool!!
I've never heard anyone on the witness stand say such terrible things to the prosecution lawyer before. Why did the judge allow him to use this kind of language?
And the disgraceful type women despise and don't claim. He did a great job showing rightful indignation of someone who's getting painted by dirty DA scrapping the bottom as pea-dough. He was patient compared to me YUCK
He said he only was physically abusive (???????!!!!!!) what? Why would she want a RO against him??? Illegally carrying a firearm and executing two people as a result!!! 😢
What's really concerning me are the amount of comments supporting him and speaking ill of his victim. Monsters like him can't survive in a vacuum. There's a whole society of misogynist toe-rags going to bat for him
This should be a future case study. He is the prime example of a gaslighting manipulating abusive partner. The way he blames the victim for everything HE HAS DONE is deplorable.
@@liviamoon it's still recommended. Clear and firm boundaries that you keep no matter what. But I will give it to you, this will not with for a malignant narcissist that has a pension for physical violence. In that case, a person needs a literal escape plan.
@@haloedge2829 Yes, a silent plan. Prepare everything in secret and leave as soon as the opportunity arises. There are some helpful organisations here in Germany, I hope in the USA too.☘️🕊
I think he’s relieved she’s gone. She can’t torment him in his mind anymore. She’s not alive for him to obsess over. I think he’s truly at peace with what he did. He is, however, angry at the prosecutor.
@@WendyRichards-uq3cu the prosecutor and judge arent on his side 🤣 they revel in people loosing it however hes been 💯 percent right every time the judge rules for strike or sustain objection in his favor every time so thats that🔥
Any woman that has a crazy abusive x is insane to bring any man to the home she shared with the abuser . Go to his house or get a hotel room or end up like they did
@@DOGLOVERMACONThey might be tolerable to two women in his life - but, trust us - they’re miserable, demanding, insulting, sex-addicted, maniacal, possessive, selfish fools; who’s only goal in life is to keep at least 4 women fighting over him, constantly wondering what his real intentions are…
@@georgemonde8237 He installed covert audio recording on their girls iPad, & listened live. And per his own testimony, he thought Anna was screwing guys 24/7, so seeing her with a man should have been the only thing he expected to see, & in no way even a minor surprise.
Yes, I think if he could have gotten proper counseling and gained some self awareness,maybe he could have become a decent human. Idk, though. Maybe he is the type of person who never could've moved past his childhood experiences and would've always hurt people due to how insecure he is
Are you from the US? I don't know if it was in the news but there was an Egyptian guy who hit a police officer I don't know if it was in the US news. But this guy has run back to Egypt to avoid jail time. Guess what this has done he has mur*** multiple women in Egypt. He's all over the Egyptian news now. He ki*** these women in the worst way anybody can imagine. I am sorry but I don't like middle eastern or musl** men.
Why is he referred to as a "Tik Tok star?" The majority of us have no idea who he is and haven't watched him. He is a murderer. Plain and simple. He couldn't control his anger and killed them.
And he seriously seems to STILL blame Ana for doing HIM wrong. Bro, you literally mowed her down in the prime of her life, never to see her precious young daughter or loved ones again. But yeah, you’re the one who got wronged 🤬🤬
@@brandybiscoff9685 right and his “it wasn’t me it was the coke” buddyyyyyy YOU CHOOSE TO KEEP BUYING THAT. YOU don’t just get a pass for murder because you were a drug addict with possession issues over people! I sure hope he gets the max. His “I have needs” crap is sick too because she has needs too, not just sexual but emotional!? It’s understandable of her to want to walk away from that POS and she has everyyy right to do so!
Wow! This guy doesn’t even realize how sick, controlling, abusive and narcissistic he is. Hopefully the judge and jury see what I could see after watching him less than 30 seconds. To call Ali Abulaban a MONSTER is an extreme understatement. Lock him up and throw away the key!!!!!!
He’ll spend the rest of his life out of his mind!! What a narcissistic POS! Welcome to America where women are or at least should be!! treated with respect by their significant other.
He keeps saying he was confused about the status of the relationship. “Leave me alone.” “You’re harassing me.” “I want a restraining order.” “Go date other people.” “I DON’T LOVE YOU.” Are not good hints for a narcissist. They can’t hear you.
I think he IS confused. His culture, and possibly an undiagnosed pathology, won't allow him to consider that his wife is done with him. I won't use the word "narcissist" because it has a specific clinical meaning and he's not been diagnosed.
@@lavenderlamp he most likely has multiple types of BPD, one being narcissistic personality disorder. He can’t be told anything he doesn’t want to hear. I also think he is a sociopath and maybe even schizophrenic. His so called “Scarface” character on TikTok may have only helped feed or fuel that illness since you wonder if he actually believed he was for real “Tony Montana!? It’s evident he has completely lost his mind. It’s a good thing he will be away from society.
I actually deeply appreciate this judge for not objecting to these unhinged outbursts by Abulaban, and allowing him to so effortlessly paint to the jury who he truly is.
The judge doesn’t make objections. His attorney should have. The fact that they let him testify and didn’t object to anything means they either suck as attorneys or they want to see him hang as much as we all do.
I agree. Bringing a guy to the house for him to get anymore jealous. He did snap. I would have worried he would snap. Im not saying who is right or wrong, im just saying look what happened when he snapped.
How can anyone really hide from these guys in 2024? You can track, follow and apparently get away with anything. Going to the police for help does not help. They don't intervene.
@@beepbopboop7727 what ever he is, she probably should have went to a shelter or left town to where he couldn't find her instead of making him crazier. She knew he was crazy i would had never trusted some piece of paper she went to cops for. It wasn't going to keep him away.
Can you imagine the SUFFERING of her daughter having to hear her "mother" say to her father, I don't want 'your' kid" while taking back henessy. Instead of comforting and relocating to a SAFE environment her she takes her daughter to adult parties ,with drugs and alchohol and brings back a man whos been eying his wife since day oneto THIER apartment Never seeks legal divorce or mental help or drug rehab, tells Ali he has to go but has to live close (so she can keep going out to party of course) her day by day evil actions, contributed to her evil demise. Both were not stable, not adults and unfit parents. the end.
As soon as he entered the apartment, he immediately started shooting. He didn’t confront Ray or Ana because he didn’t care what they had to say. He was going to take their lives no matter what and wasted no time in doing so
He can cheat, search for escorts, verbally abuse his wife and he is the one who felt disrespected. Typical attitude of a male who believes he is the greatest
He really and honestly believes his needs are more important than everyone else's. "I bought her roses, I wanted her to acknowledge that." "She said she wanted out of the relationship, but she didn't hear my side of the story," "I sent those texts to hurt her cause I was hurting" No means no. But in his mind no means no only when he feels like it means no.
Did you see how offended he became when the prosecutor hinted that he might be a child abuser? He said "don't you dare label me something that I am not" As if being a double murderer isn't bad enough.
12:20 “she wanted a restraining order because you were abusive right?” “No because I had instances where I was physical with her.“ Is that not abuse?!? lock this guy up.
This guy had to be a Mama’s boy who could do no wrong. Then he expected the rest of the world to treat him the same way. And is furious it doesn’t work that way.
@@Bigbubba3031 what's sus is you trying to say she was wrong for talking to someone after she broke up with her abusive partner.....especially since you know he murdered her. I truly hope you get locked up before you can treat someone this way
He pauses after he says this cause it destroys his whole defence. Because his defence was they were still together and not seeing other people so it was a shock seeing her with someone else and he shot them in a crime of passion. And he realises what he said as soon as he says it.
Why would she leave me for another guy? Says the guy who beat her to pulp in front of their baby daughter...he kept trying to change by doing nothing to change....😅
@@jefferyhellerjh he may be traumatized, but he caused the trauma and at this point in time, no one cares about his trauma. It pales in comparison to the trauma HE CAUSED.
He wanted to surprise her and see if he was going to catch her in the act. Definitely controlling, violent and a psycho but I personally think he just lost it when he walked in and for sure had thoughts of what he would do if he caught her in the act.
@@AshleeWatson100% premeditated. He had the gun in his hand in the security footage of the parking garage. I think he thought they would be in the bedroom and he had a different plan but when he walking in and they were right there on the couch he had to just start shooting.
I wish his friend would’ve called her. Maybe her friend wouldn’t have gotten hurt if they left …I’m not sure about anna though since he was clearly seeing red .
@@AstralJustus Any attorney will tell you that there are SOME cases that a clients only chance is to testify. This is CLEARLY one of them lol. We have him texting threatening messages to his wife, pictures of her after being beaten by him, and most importantly, have audio of the murder of his wife and friend, which he admitted to doing. Without Ali testifying, THATS what the jury hears as evidence. Its AWFUL, DAMNING, and A SUREFIRE conviction AND almost assuredly, the death penalty. Ali's ONLY SHOT, was this
@@taniathegreatify Lol no Im not. I went to law school and graduated with a law degree. While im not a court attorney, I know many, and have watched a lot of court cases. If your client is without question, guilty of a crime, a particularly heinous one such as this case, you cant just let a jury make their decision as to guilt or innocence based soley upon the evidence presented, because its damning and a slam dunk. This man's only chance at NOT getting life without parole, was to try to make the jury believe that he was out of his control because of his emotions at the time of the murder. He HAS to take the stand to effectively explain that to the jury, using emotion to sell it, or hes GOING AWAY FOR LIFE or worse. That was his ONLY play. You dont know what youre talking about.
I bet they advised against it but his ego couldn't allow it. He HAD to be heard. I also bet his lawyers weren't gonna fight too hard about it because... I mean look at him. What a p.o.s.
I highly doubt that. I'm certain they didn't want him to testify. But he's such a narcissist, he probably thought he could get up there and sway peoples opinions of him and blame it all on her so he could get a lesser sentence.
He can’t simply give yes or no answers and is playing semantics. It’s actually entertaining how his backpedaling makes him look more guilty than keeping his answers simple.
He so intent on trying to outsmart the prosecutor that he's not even seeing how he's proving all the points prosecution is laying out to close their case.
He has absolutely zero insight or self awareness as to how he comes across to other people. Wow. It's kind of breathtaking to watch. It's crazy that people like this exist... And yes, I agree, he ABSOLUTELY proved the prosecutor's point.
Talk about a Freudian slip. "I never hit Ana..... In public." And then tries to walk it back WHILE on direct examination. What a joke. I feel so sad for Ana & Ray's families. This is just disgusting.
My gosh I just stumbled on this trial during the day and it's 4 o'clock in the morning and I'm still watching the whole trial.i can't believe someone would do this!the outburst when she asked him about searching teen content it's so clear the narcissist behavior.i have thought that to myself on the first cross examinationu GOD..may they rest in peace.i didn't knew about this.its so disturbing this ...
His lawyer doesn't give a crap about him. She is just going through the motions to give him the fairest trial she could so he could be convicted fairly. Everyone knows he's going down. Its as slam dunk of a case you can get. He's unlikable, his abusive narcissistic self is blatant, he recorded the shooting, admitted to it. Its a rap, just going through the legal motions to seal the deal.
You mean SICK DA. He did a great job showing rightful indignation of someone who's getting painted by dirty DA scrapping the bottom as pea-dough. He was patient compared to me...
He just keeps digging a deeper hole for himself when he doesn’t shut up. Which ultimately led to his conviction but he really just needs to answer the questions. He’s irritating.
Just hearing the prosecutor's voice, I thought she was an old woman. Then when I saw her, she wasn't what I pictured at all. I think she was the perfect prosecutor for this case
I love your comment 😂 “can’t even pretend to be normal” You are 100 percent correct! I am rarely speechless but this man got me there. All I can say is damm the day poor Ana crossed paths with this monster.
This guy is a dangerous psycho. You can tell that he can snap in a second. He's trying to contain his rage and is having a really hard time holding it in.
I love this prosecutor 😂 it’s always great when a misogynistic, narcissistic man with a God complex has to go up against a strong female prosecutor!! I could watch these all day!! 😂😂
The fact he walked everyone through murdering two people in cold blood because he was "freakin' out!" After using coke......he's so animated and blames Ana for him being a double murderer.......what a disgusting skin suit.
The way he distances, separates and downplays every single thing he's done like he's not in control of his actions is so horrifying. A completely unhinged abusive narcissist.
@@e2theocI’ve tried he won’t let me my family even made me get a restraining order but I couldn’t serve him because he lives in rv. He moved from Missouri to San Diego to stalk me
This is someone that should not ever be released into society. A true danger. Prosecutor did a good job knew exactly what to say to show his true colors.
Never been more infuriated listening to someone testify. He is so entitled. He can cheat, she can’t. He can move on, she can’t. He needs to be emotionally well, she doesn’t. He needs sympathy, none for her. He can make mistakes, be better not. He can be fed up, angry, sad, betrayed, hurt, she cannot. This is so familiar to me because I’ve been here for 15 years fearing a situation like this is I go….I hate him. Rot in prison.
I pray you start making a rock solid plan of escaping you get out free and unharmed I pray that you have the courage to believe that you deserve better and you can do this in fact you can do everything on the DOWN LOW...
Ali reminds me of my ex as well. It is very eerie to watch. My ex also thought he could cheat, but if I wanted to leave, that was not allowed. He at one point got drunk and intentionally crashed his car into other drivers. He pleaded guilty to that felony and still tried to blame it on me breaking up with him.
And she's manipulative and triangulating and playing hot and cold so she's not innocent in this. Even though she did not deserve murder, no one deserves murder. But it's funny how you guys want to paint him as a narcissist. Everybody is a narcissist if you don't like them in the female world
Adrian, she "was" not is. Sure, I saw how terrible she behaved and probably very toxic, manipulative, border line etc but... Ana is NOT on trial he is. He killed her and another person. Jealousy can be fatal. Don't worry about gender mate some crazy people out there! But it has been a Macho world for way to long no????
@@TheDecider2024 manipulating an abuser is fair game but abusive people never understand, that they pigeon hole a victim into either a) sneaking around and walking on eggshells to avoid the delusional abusers, triggers - which, is the victim/abuser feedback, itself and most else, is deflection/justification. b) defiance/rebellion because the victim learned there is no winning, the game and they are burnt out, from useless practice, of 'a'. She probably, denied not loving her daughter, cheating, talking badly about him, planning to hurt him, enjoying hurting/annoying/confusing/angering him and endless, other accusations. Some women are unfortunately abuser identified so, they'll agree because they're silly but this dynamic, is abuse and neither does, it require any mutual commitment nor do legal contracts, justify oppression of another human's autonomy. People get to cheat, confuse, triangulate and exhaust you with no real explanation- male or female and keep their lives. That's what it really means when you give trust/love you might be betrayed or worse- perceive betrayal that doesn't exist
Ali Abulaban is the most self-absorbed person I've observed. Everything is about him him him. His priority was to pick up his 5 year old daughter from school and take her to a safe place. Yet he is not driving safely and he's high on drugs but doesn't think his driving could injure or kill her. His mind also can't think about anything than his wife having sex with men but it's different if he does this. That's all they mean to him. It's too bad his wife didn't manage to get a new lock on the apartment door. Also, he has endless money for drugs but he had no money for health insurance, and boo hoo his wife had lost her job and so he no longer had access to her medical plan. I guess he decided to take the witness stand in the (remote) chance the jury will sympathize with his poor mental state (all of his life) and reduce his sentencing time. I just don't see how he won't get the death penalty. His cousin had lunch with him and Ana three days before Ana and Ray were murdered. The cousin has no sympathy for what Ali did. Nice to hear.
“You were mad because Anna repeatedly said she didn’t want to be married to you?” ‘I was mad because she wouldn’t communicate with me’ This testimony ought to be a lecture series in the thought processes of IPV perpetrators. Anna communicated ad nauseum with him about the state of their relationship (ergo, that they were separated). It wasn’t a lack of communication, nor clarity. It simply wasn’t what he wanted to hear. Throughout his testimony we’ve heard how completely dismissive he is of 99% of what Anna says. ‘She always said that’. ‘Okay she said that but she didn’t mean it’. ‘She was just upset’. ‘They were empty threats to call the police/get an AVO’. The one thing he believed, above all else, was the one thing Anna never said to him; that she was wh*ring herself around 24/7 throughout their relationship. Because, she wasn’t. Even now on the stand we can see how controlling & a.busive he is to Anna, even in death. Typically, we see these guys have the ‘if I can’t have you, nobody will’ mentality. But with him, it really seems as though he’s decided that Anna can never leave him, & is now his forever in death.
Not saying in anyway shape or form she deserved any abuse, because nobody deserves abuse, but if you hear the whole testimony, she did send mixed messages. I think this should be a warning to anyone in an abusive relationship to set boundaries and stick to them, so the message is clear you are done!
Finally… a comment with reason and clarity. I’m a 7 year DV survivor who almost did not walk out. This man is dangerous. The victim blaming on this thread just kills me.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen someone swear so much, in a courtroom. That has to make an impression on the jury, that he has absolutely zero respect for anyone.
@@hardwired8084Nah, victim blaming is when someone blames a murder victim for the actions of the murderer. That’s all it is. Victims don’t have to be perfect people to be victims.
He is the picture perfect for: seriously dangerous stalker, domestic abuse, coersive control, possesiv, hatred over women, narcissist, psychopath/sociopath, compulsive lier, and finaly a murderor. He should not be out in a free world. He is a true true monster. And they should be kept away in a dark place for ever. May he end up for life in prison. Blessings to the child who are now without her beloved mother.
He is soooooo stupid for getting angry at the prosecutor😂😂😂. It shows how he cant control his anger. If he can be like this in the open, its sooooo scary behind closed doors
The only reason he would rerack his semi-auto would be if it jammed, and he was clearing the jammed round to reload another round. That is deliberate. It has to be.
Like people have never Deliberately possed against somebody that was innocent and sent them to jail. I am not saying he isn't guilty. I am not seeing the proof
When someone says they don't want to be with you, you move on, you don't get to cage other humans. Ughhhh, idk if I've ever been so disgusted with someone. He STILL has a MILLION excuses. LIFE!!!
Uh what? Marriage is supposed to be for life. There’s no “I don’t want to be with you anymore” at someone they agreed thats justified. No fault divorce should be illegal. Their poor child had to live with separated parents not knowing both of them were terrible. One cheated on her father and one killed people.
That’s not a decision anyone in a relationship would accept. Relationships are meant to be forever. Thank god no fault divorce and breakups are illegal in my country.
#CourtTV - #TikTokStarMurderTrial
Is he asking for manslaughter in the second degree instead of murder in the first?
@@just.a.hot.potato I hope so, as this was clearly a crime of passion
@@MissClaudettes Troll
@@kerrycavanaugh4268 Why? Cause you dont like the truth???
Ana had plenty of opportunities to leave but she stayed, she knew what she was getting herself into. She clearly had no common sense to bring a man back to her apartment knowing her husband is coked up with a gun and a key to her house. How were things going to end??? Doesnt take a genius to see this was going to end bad. if she wanted to see other men go to a hotel why bring them back to the apartment. She sent him crazy and over the edge. Yes he clearly has mental issues and substances will only acellerate them but SHE STAYED OVER AND OVER!!!! Im sick of all this poor woman crap. She knew what she was doing and she paid the price.
So i literally went onto the court tv site 9times but i could not see this trial live!! Whats the deal?? Too much LollyTime on the Daybell trial? Well thaaats not cool!!
That man absolutely cannot see outside himself. This is the definition of a TRUE narcissist.
Yes my thoughts exactly 💯
So true. Me, myself and I.
I think that he also has borderline personality disorder in addition to NPD.
No doubt whatsoever.
his behavior as well as his "justifications" is the definition of a sociopath
There’s a great reason why most defendants don’t testify. Here is a great example.
hes a narcissist that thinks the world revolves around him, he thinks he's entitled to take the stand and he's better than his defense team
He's getting life right ?
He’s slippier than a low bellied snake 🤮
@@darcevader3769 has he been sentenced yet? I’m looking forward to that 😂
I thought he did great on the stand
He can’t even control himself in Open Court. This shows his true character.
I've never heard anyone on the witness stand say such terrible things to the prosecution lawyer before. Why did the judge allow him to use this kind of language?
Yup and judge is allowing his bs
Terrible things? Come on it was just being real...
Terrible things? Come on it was just being real...
That was the goal and he took the bait
He is so argumentative. I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone like him.
This Prosecutor is exactly the type of woman this man despises …. She’s strong and is busting him on his lies
And the disgraceful type women despise and don't claim. He did a great job showing rightful indignation of someone who's getting painted by dirty DA scrapping the bottom as pea-dough. He was patient compared to me YUCK
❤❤❤❤ yes!! I thought that :) Best layer so far!
Absolutely she’s best for the job 👏
She's a bad prosecutor and is actually making up false statements that have no evidence just to win her case. Obviously inexperienced
@@Kaykayu98She made him look like the narcissistic, abusive idiot that he is. She did a great job.
“I would not categorize myself as an abusive husband” said the man who gunned her down after a long history of DV.
THEY DON’T! This is why he should be a case study, he checks all the boxes including a complete lack of self-awareness
He said he only was physically abusive (???????!!!!!!) what? Why would she want a RO against him??? Illegally carrying a firearm and executing two people as a result!!! 😢
He was literally kicked out of the military for punching Ana...but he is not an abusive husband. Clown
What's really concerning me are the amount of comments supporting him and speaking ill of his victim.
Monsters like him can't survive in a vacuum. There's a whole society of misogynist toe-rags going to bat for him
its the “im not abusive but i did get physical time to time” like ?? sir
This should be a future case study. He is the prime example of a gaslighting manipulating abusive partner. The way he blames the victim for everything HE HAS DONE is deplorable.
Agreed!! 100%
Well said!!! I've been thinking the EXACT same thing throughout this whole testimony!!
And to think, this is him medicated on antipsychotics, as 99% of violent defenders are, to be compliant for their trials
Good thing about him on the stand is he shows the jury exactly what a entitld POS he really is...
It's absolute insanity with a ponytail.
You were abusive to her right?
No, I would only get physical with her. 😂😂😂 this dude is such a clown
I'm glad he has water to drink. I didn't want him to get thirsty
😂 @@BruceLee-t9n
Disgusting I know man so sickening, may her soul rest in peace and so sorry to her family for there loss🙏🙏🙏
Take note: this is how you handle a narcissist. Repeat your questions firmly and do not let them narrate.
She is well protected in court. Do this when you are alone with a narcissist at home. 😐
@@liviamoon it's still recommended. Clear and firm boundaries that you keep no matter what. But I will give it to you, this will not with for a malignant narcissist that has a pension for physical violence. In that case, a person needs a literal escape plan.
@@haloedge2829 Yes, a silent plan. Prepare everything in secret and leave as soon as the opportunity arises. There are some helpful organisations here in Germany, I hope in the USA too.☘️🕊
He tried so hard! She refused to be his food supply!
@haloedge2829
Take note: This is how a trained prosecutor handles a defendant on trial for a duouble homicide.
There’s no 1 single question that he answered without a justification or blaming others it’s incredibly shocking
Narcissists will really have your head spinning!!!!!! It’s so exhausting and fascinating how they function and think.
Right.. the coke made me do it 🙄
Foh
True Narcissist right there
100% NARCISSIST
@@amysupernaw80 still won't stop you writing to him in prison
He’s getting angry all over again. Even after her death he’s still angry with her. He’s a real prize 😡
I think he’s relieved she’s gone. She can’t torment him in his mind anymore. She’s not alive for him to obsess over. I think he’s truly at peace with what he did. He is, however, angry at the prosecutor.
@@user-nj9db2tg9w
Exactly what you said is the point the prosecutor is trying to point out to the jury for his conviction of 1st degree murder
I get Bundy vibes too the sheer arrogance & postulating is OFF the SCALE he is NOT the cleverest person in the room
Just like apJ. He went to her grave and screamed at her the care taker called the cops.
@@user-nj9db2tg9w yea he couldn’t see her with anyone else is what I’m guessing
I find it hilarious how he can remember every single detail when it comes to making her look deceiving but doesn’t remember when it comes to him.
Typical Narcissistic behavior, no personal accountability!
Being aggressive with the female prosecutor is probably the worst thing he couldve done
ges actually over honest his own lawyer had a hard time getting him to defend certain things. he was admitting what didnt happen with his own lawyer
And this weak judge allows him to do it over & over.
he's showing the jury who he really is
@@WendyRichards-uq3cu the prosecutor and judge arent on his side 🤣 they revel in people loosing it however hes been 💯 percent right every time the judge rules for strike or sustain objection in his favor every time so thats that🔥
@@gabriellehill716 but hes been right the judge rules in his favor every time
This ENTIRE trial should have been televised for DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS!
Amen
Any woman that has a crazy abusive x is insane to bring any man to the home she shared with the abuser . Go to his house or get a hotel room or end up like they did
Yes for sure
@Kellyk666no. It’s absolutely warranted!!
@@georgemonde8237one thousand million percent TRUE!!! very risky thing to do... 😬
Edit**** (it's NOT victim blaming to state reality)
He’s exhausting. Can you imagine him being your husband??
That’s what I’m thinking; soooo exhausting! Takes so long just to get a few details confirmed!
The men from this culture are all like that. Intense. Passionate impatient Demanding narcissists ego maniacs. It’s always all about them.
@@Jinka1950 Not the ones I know. Not at all.
Imagine trying to coparent 💔
@@DOGLOVERMACONThey might be tolerable to two women in his life - but, trust us - they’re miserable, demanding, insulting, sex-addicted, maniacal, possessive, selfish fools; who’s only goal in life is to keep at least 4 women fighting over him, constantly wondering what his real intentions are…
"You are not going to paint me as something I am not. I am an abuser, liar, manipulator, drug addict, narcissistic double murderer. Get it right!"
🤣
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 good one she was doing to much.. he was being honest about everything she put in stuff that wasn't true
And super Cocky. This foo was snorting coke on his tik tok videos. Double nostriling it too
You took things out of context. His comment on that was based on the factual comment of the DA saying he was watching teen porn.
Premeditated, he walked in the apartment with the gun in his hand. I dont believe anything this guy says
He didn't expect to see some guy all over his wife
@@georgemonde8237yes he did.. he heard him on the live recording.
@@georgemonde8237 He installed covert audio recording on their girls iPad, & listened live. And per his own testimony, he thought Anna was screwing guys 24/7, so seeing her with a man should have been the only thing he expected to see, & in no way even a minor surprise.
Doesn’t matter what u believe. Only what the jury believes. And the jury is not spoiled with world’s thoughts.
I feel the same way way
His lack of self-awareness is actually part of the tragedy.
Yea.. If not the initial issue that led to this disastrous spiral
Yes, I think if he could have gotten proper counseling and gained some self awareness,maybe he could have become a decent human. Idk, though. Maybe he is the type of person who never could've moved past his childhood experiences and would've always hurt people due to how insecure he is
Narcissists are their own blind spot, they need God.
Nevermind him! He is a conniving malicious and selfish ahole
What mks u think his lack of self awareness is not an act? Hes playing stupid or he thinks we r all stupid. Hes a murderer
Damn he cant even pretend to respect women for a few hours on the stand, when his life is at stake
He thinks he’s va smarter than everyone else.
Well in all honesty I don’t think that even if it was on his best behaviour it would have saved him.
I thought that too. It's ingrained deep in to his belief system
why would anyone respect females lol
Are you from the US? I don't know if it was in the news but there was an Egyptian guy who hit a police officer I don't know if it was in the US news. But this guy has run back to Egypt to avoid jail time. Guess what this has done he has mur*** multiple women in Egypt. He's all over the Egyptian news now. He ki*** these women in the worst way anybody can imagine. I am sorry but I don't like middle eastern or musl** men.
I love the way the prosecutor says “Mr Abulaban do not look at your attorney...” 😂😂😂
Why is he referred to as a "Tik Tok star?" The majority of us have no idea who he is and haven't watched him. He is a murderer. Plain and simple. He couldn't control his anger and killed them.
exactly
Clicks and views…makes for an interesting headline, that’s all it is.
Apparently he had a following.
He had over a million followers
People really play fast and lose with the word "Star" these days.
This guy’s defense is basically “Look lady, I can’t be responsible for every little murder I commit!!”
Ikr. "How dare you try to hold me accountable!" 😮💨 what a piece of work.
And he seriously seems to STILL blame Ana for doing HIM wrong. Bro, you literally mowed her down in the prime of her life, never to see her precious young daughter or loved ones again. But yeah, you’re the one who got wronged 🤬🤬
@@brandybiscoff9685 right and his “it wasn’t me it was the coke” buddyyyyyy YOU CHOOSE TO KEEP BUYING THAT. YOU don’t just get a pass for murder because you were a drug addict with possession issues over people! I sure hope he gets the max. His “I have needs” crap is sick too because she has needs too, not just sexual but emotional!? It’s understandable of her to want to walk away from that POS and she has everyyy right to do so!
Ik Right?!This Fool is Sadistic 😮
LOL 🎯
Wow! This guy doesn’t even realize how sick, controlling, abusive and narcissistic he is. Hopefully the judge and jury see what I could see after watching him less than 30 seconds. To call Ali Abulaban a MONSTER is an extreme understatement. Lock him up and throw away the key!!!!!!
I agree!
Don’t count on the judge. He’s busy playing on his computer. No control of his court at all
They will
He was human. Ana played head games on him
The look on the judge's face while he testifies is priceless...he cannot believe this guy is for real...I hope they transmit the sentence
This is the sort of individual I'd never like to be introduced to. Once he learns that you exist, you can not get rid of him.
This is completely exhausting to listen to. Yet here I am 2 hours later..still can’t stop.😂
Same here
Me too, I want to reach into the screen and pull that ponytail!!
Same
Same
Me too
I’m losing count of how many times he told the prosecutor “You’re out of your mind.” No sir, you are 🤦🏽♀️
Right like.. buddy you shot and killed your wife
Why the judge doesn’t intervene to his remarks babbles me.
He’ll spend the rest of his life out of his mind!! What a narcissistic POS! Welcome to America where women are or at least should be!! treated with respect by their significant other.
How is that not contempt?? Why is the Judge allowing so much of his tangents!!?
Maybe the judge saw how bad he was making himself look and allowed him to keep revealing it.
He keeps saying he was confused about the status of the relationship. “Leave me alone.” “You’re harassing me.” “I want a restraining order.” “Go date other people.” “I DON’T LOVE YOU.” Are not good hints for a narcissist. They can’t hear you.
Absolutely correct.
I think he IS confused. His culture, and possibly an undiagnosed pathology, won't allow him to consider that his wife is done with him. I won't use the word "narcissist" because it has a specific clinical meaning and he's not been diagnosed.
@@lavenderlamp he most likely has multiple types of BPD, one being narcissistic personality disorder. He can’t be told anything he doesn’t want to hear. I also think he is a sociopath and maybe even schizophrenic. His so called “Scarface” character on TikTok may have only helped feed or fuel that illness since you wonder if he actually believed he was for real “Tony Montana!? It’s evident he has completely lost his mind. It’s a good thing he will be away from society.
@@lavenderlamp Absolute truth. I will scream NARCISSIST for you😂 Study the disorder and you’ll see his picture in your head😂
@@lavenderlamp He was diagnosed along with personality disorders
Can you imagine the abuse that little girl had to witness? Heartbreaking, I pray they all heal after this sociopath is in prison.
He'll become a forgotten mistake over time. The only people will remember who he was is his victims' loved ones, his daughter and his own family,.
I actually deeply appreciate this judge for not objecting to these unhinged outbursts by Abulaban, and allowing him to so effortlessly paint to the jury who he truly is.
Exactly. I’ve never seen a defendant spazz out like that. I’m glad the jury got to see that side of him
Judges don’t object, they rule on an objection. It’s his lawyers who should be objecting but they’re not.
The judge doesn’t make objections. His attorney should have. The fact that they let him testify and didn’t object to anything means they either suck as attorneys or they want to see him hang as much as we all do.
@@AjHx90xOnly Darrell Brooks
@@leenachandi4840The judge can reprimand a witness for not answering questions or for not behaviour with decorum.
To all women: If you’re in a situation like this, take your child and check into a shelter. Leaving psychopaths like this is the most dangerous time.
I agree. Bringing a guy to the house for him to get anymore jealous. He did snap. I would have worried he would snap. Im not saying who is right or wrong, im just saying look what happened when he snapped.
How can anyone really hide from these guys in 2024? You can track, follow and apparently get away with anything. Going to the police for help does not help. They don't intervene.
Exactly. *Do not stay in place they know of.*
@@Charliegirl2He doesn’t snap. He is just violent. Emotional and erratic.
@@beepbopboop7727 what ever he is, she probably should have went to a shelter or left town to where he couldn't find her instead of making him crazier. She knew he was crazy i would had never trusted some piece of paper she went to cops for. It wasn't going to keep him away.
can you imagine Anna suffering this twisted logic day by day?
She was doing the same. I guess this was back and forth.
@@just.a.hot.potato yap toxic all the way, but she didn't kill him
That’s probably why she developed a bad cocaine addiction
Can you imagine the SUFFERING of her daughter having to hear her "mother" say to her father, I don't want 'your' kid" while taking back henessy. Instead of comforting and relocating to a SAFE environment her she takes her daughter to adult parties ,with drugs and alchohol and brings back a man whos been eying his wife since day oneto THIER apartment Never seeks legal divorce or mental help or drug rehab, tells Ali he has to go but has to live close (so she can keep going out to party of course) her day by day evil actions, contributed to her evil demise. Both were not stable, not adults and unfit parents. the end.
@@casadelmaghreb yep, but HE killed her
As soon as he entered the apartment, he immediately started shooting. He didn’t confront Ray or Ana because he didn’t care what they had to say. He was going to take their lives no matter what and wasted no time in doing so
ME, ME, ME, ME, ME .I FELT DISRESPECTED. BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH. GO DIRECTLY TO JAIL.
100%!!
He can cheat, search for escorts, verbally abuse his wife and he is the one who felt disrespected. Typical attitude of a male who believes he is the greatest
He really and honestly believes his needs are more important than everyone else's.
"I bought her roses, I wanted her to acknowledge that."
"She said she wanted out of the relationship, but she didn't hear my side of the story,"
"I sent those texts to hurt her cause I was hurting"
No means no. But in his mind no means no only when he feels like it means no.
He should have relocated to Afghanistan where his barbarism towards women is the norm...
@@AO-bl7cc💯
This defendant is unbelievable! He is every woman’s worst nightmare……he’s a walking horror movie.
There is no escape to these types.
much like the adulterer
@@madi4481 much like forever single like you
@@kaylaleaveFamily?
@@madi4481Family?
“Im not a gang member, I don’t shoot that way.” Yeah you’re not, you’re just an abuser who killed two people.
"I couldn't stop shooting" from the Alec Baldwin school of blaming the weapon......
EXACTLYYY
Did you see how offended he became when the prosecutor hinted that he might be a child abuser?
He said "don't you dare label me something that I am not"
As if being a double murderer isn't bad enough.
@@ShinkuGoukiTime stamp?
The sad thing about this is he’s already stuck in a cell, his mind!!
👍
12:20 “she wanted a restraining order because you were abusive right?” “No because I had instances where I was physical with her.“
Is that not abuse?!? lock this guy up.
Yes!
sounds like my ex. never used the word abuse. always “physical”
I almost choked on my tea when he said that! He’s such an idiot.
Oh man, when he said that, I was hoping the lawyer would’ve JUMPED on that…but she wasn’t paying attention!
I just shook my head when he said that! He’s delusional.
he probably thinks in his mind he's killing it.
To think 😂😂😂 what a fool
In a word!
he definitely thinks that.
😂😂😂 He think he’s the smartest person in the room
When he isn't yelling at the prosecutor he's seething. He should never be allowed out of prison.
This guy had to be a Mama’s boy who could do no wrong. Then he expected the rest of the world to treat him the same way. And is furious it doesn’t work that way.
Yeah and he punched his mother also
“Anna could do whatever she wanted” proceeds to say Anna couldn’t talk to a man 😂
He can't answer a question, and his circular logic is infuriatingly annoying.
Or leave her house!
But “she can do whatever she wants”
Why would anna want to talk to a man while shes married to him? kinda sus
@@Bigbubba3031 what's sus is you trying to say she was wrong for talking to someone after she broke up with her abusive partner.....especially since you know he murdered her.
I truly hope you get locked up before you can treat someone this way
He pauses after he says this cause it destroys his whole defence. Because his defence was they were still together and not seeing other people so it was a shock seeing her with someone else and he shot them in a crime of passion. And he realises what he said as soon as he says it.
"I never meant to hit anybody" as he rapidly fired 6 shots.🤷♀️
Ya wtf ..?
He's acting like he doesn't remember either.
EXACTLY!!! He thinks he can gaslight the jury, too.
Why would she leave me for another guy? Says the guy who beat her to pulp in front of their baby daughter...he kept trying to change by doing nothing to change....😅
@@Twohard343 the fact he doesn’t hear it in the audio is wild…
“This was a traumatic day for me [after brutally murdering 2 people].” Tell me you’re a narcissist without telling me.
Would you deny that he could be traumatized and/or in shock after committing the murders?
What is even scarier is that actually believes he is innocent.
@@jefferyhellerjh he may be traumatized, but he caused the trauma and at this point in time, no one cares about his trauma. It pales in comparison to the trauma HE CAUSED.
This man is his own worst enemy and should not have taken the stand.
Exactly. It's 1 of my many comments regarding him
He is seriously the worst and most disrespectful defendant I have seen. He is getting the max.
Please watch the trial of Darrell Brooks.. Ali is a docile puppy compared to him..
@@lindski11I came to say the same thing lol. Brooks is an absolute menace
@@lindski11 No comparison can equate him to a docile puppy
@@venusrx4671 did you watch Darrell Brooks??
@@lindski11you’re right, I couldn’t remember his name.
He deliberately asked his friend NOT to call Anna because he wanted to "surprise" them in the act ... This is PREMEDITATED.
He wanted to surprise her and see if he was going to catch her in the act. Definitely controlling, violent and a psycho but I personally think he just lost it when he walked in and for sure had thoughts of what he would do if he caught her in the act.
Are you crazy? He brought a gun to catch her, He definitely intended to off her. @@AshleeWatson
He testified to this
@@AshleeWatson100% premeditated. He had the gun in his hand in the security footage of the parking garage. I think he thought they would be in the bedroom and he had a different plan but when he walking in and they were right there on the couch he had to just start shooting.
I wish his friend would’ve called her. Maybe her friend wouldn’t have gotten hurt if they left …I’m not sure about anna though since he was clearly seeing red .
He’s a horrible witness for himself. He must have insisted on taking the stand against lawyer’s advice. Narcissists are their own worst enemies.
Based on the evidence, he really had no choice but to take the stand.
@@chocolatetownforever7537 let his lawyers handle it for him. Taking the stand is always a bad idea
@@AstralJustus Any attorney will tell you that there are SOME cases that a clients only chance is to testify.
This is CLEARLY one of them lol. We have him texting threatening messages to his wife, pictures of her after being beaten by him, and most importantly, have audio of the murder of his wife and friend, which he admitted to doing.
Without Ali testifying, THATS what the jury hears as evidence. Its AWFUL, DAMNING, and A SUREFIRE conviction AND almost assuredly, the death penalty.
Ali's ONLY SHOT, was this
@@chocolatetownforever7537wrong
@@taniathegreatify Lol no Im not. I went to law school and graduated with a law degree. While im not a court attorney, I know many, and have watched a lot of court cases. If your client is without question, guilty of a crime, a particularly heinous one such as this case, you cant just let a jury make their decision as to guilt or innocence based soley upon the evidence presented, because its damning and a slam dunk. This man's only chance at NOT getting life without parole, was to try to make the jury believe that he was out of his control because of his emotions at the time of the murder. He HAS to take the stand to effectively explain that to the jury, using emotion to sell it, or hes GOING AWAY FOR LIFE or worse. That was his ONLY play.
You dont know what youre talking about.
This prosecutor is one BOSS LADY 👏
The defense letting him testify shows they want him to sink himself😂😂😂
Absolutely thought this too!! 😂
His attorney has no choice..this winner chose to expose himself despite his attorney.
Hrs the definition of thinking, he's the smartest in the room.
I bet they advised against it but his ego couldn't allow it. He HAD to be heard. I also bet his lawyers weren't gonna fight too hard about it because... I mean look at him. What a p.o.s.
I highly doubt that. I'm certain they didn't want him to testify. But he's such a narcissist, he probably thought he could get up there and sway peoples opinions of him and blame it all on her so he could get a lesser sentence.
He is so arrogant and the way he just runs his mouth is absurd
Arrogant beyond words.
I cant imagine what poor Ana went through. This guy is bad news.
The man is sick in the head.
He talks such nonsense too
Massive liar.
He can’t simply give yes or no answers and is playing semantics. It’s actually entertaining how his backpedaling makes him look more guilty than keeping his answers simple.
Its making my head hurt
It’s DRAINING and frustrating, major props to the prosecutor bc no way I could last this long
I was doing cocaine..... so it doesn't count? What is he testifying for? He's making himself more culpable.
When the evidence is overwhelming he has no choice.
He so intent on trying to outsmart the prosecutor that he's not even seeing how he's proving all the points prosecution is laying out to close their case.
IKR!
A complete idiot...I feel so sorry for the baby. There's no telling what she had to endure.
He is only a tiktok star, how much working braincells can there be?
He has absolutely zero insight or self awareness as to how he comes across to other people. Wow. It's kind of breathtaking to watch. It's crazy that people like this exist... And yes, I agree, he ABSOLUTELY proved the prosecutor's point.
I feel so bad for the prosecutor, it's like she's arguing with a 10-year old.
How he tries to keep his voice extra calm but fucks up every few minutes 😂😂😂🎉
Talk about a Freudian slip. "I never hit Ana..... In public." And then tries to walk it back WHILE on direct examination. What a joke. I feel so sad for Ana & Ray's families. This is just disgusting.
I caught that!
Yes! You explained that so well.
What was the time stamp
Here?
Please do you recall the time stamp?
@@NovaPrincess no sorry, I didn’t take note
This prosecutor is outstanding. Just outstanding.
He doesn’t remember shooting but he remembers how they were moving when he shot them? Gosh he is such a liar
Exactly what I was thinking. He remembers every single other detail though.. he's not fooling anyone. He's just exhausting to listen to
He's even deranged on the witness stand
Classic borderline personality disorder
yes!!! @@user-nj9db2tg9w
Agreed. How his poor wife tolerated this vile pig is beyond me.
Lol so true
He’s not bad looking either
This guy is nuts !!!!
He is the same as his father, that is why his mother left his father, and he took his father's side. Because he is the exactly the same.
AGREE!!!
@@grahamalastairkrebs2241Father was abusive and his mother cheated on him.
My gosh I just stumbled on this trial during the day and it's 4 o'clock in the morning and I'm still watching the whole trial.i can't believe someone would do this!the outburst when she asked him about searching teen content it's so clear the narcissist behavior.i have thought that to myself on the first cross examinationu GOD..may they rest in peace.i didn't knew about this.its so disturbing this ...
This dude is completely unhinged.
amen
But he will never see it.
Completely.
This man’s lawyer is CRYING in the corner
His lawyer is getting free money because this case is seal and set go straight to jail.
Absolutely
@@aprilgriffin9663 his reputation is a little tarnished now though
he is not a man, a real man doesnt hit a wiman
His lawyer doesn't give a crap about him. She is just going through the motions to give him the fairest trial she could so he could be convicted fairly.
Everyone knows he's going down. Its as slam dunk of a case you can get. He's unlikable, his abusive narcissistic self is blatant, he recorded the shooting, admitted to it. Its a rap, just going through the legal motions to seal the deal.
Telling the prosecutor "You're out of your mind" is SICK.
Ironic hypocrisy
You mean SICK DA. He did a great job showing rightful indignation of someone who's getting painted by dirty DA scrapping the bottom as pea-dough. He was patient compared to me...
@@madi4481 *indignation at someone
@@madi4481😂 really
Projection
He just keeps digging a deeper hole for himself when he doesn’t shut up. Which ultimately led to his conviction but he really just needs to answer the questions. He’s irritating.
He was guilty even without taking the stand. The evidence is irrefutable.
@@JackCraft-tm9hj definitely but he yaps too much also
Just hearing the prosecutor's voice, I thought she was an old woman. Then when I saw her, she wasn't what I pictured at all. I think she was the perfect prosecutor for this case
Likewise.😅
I too thought she was an older woman!! I was surprised to see that she wasn’t!
Same, i thought she sounded like a small fat lady
She is beautiful and having an empowered woman wipe the floor with such a misogynist is great to see and perfect smash his ego down. Amazing work xxx❤
The is amazing. Beautiful lady wiping the floor with him. Xxx❤
This is a dude, that thinks he's the smartest person in the room.
He is...in a one stall bathroom....by himself......
Yeah…..smartest person in his cell
Yeah In the prison cell room
He outsmarted his way into the slammer permanently
he cant even pretend to be normal.......like, how does he think his behavior is ok, even justified? this is unreal
I love your comment 😂 “can’t even pretend to be normal”
You are 100 percent correct! I am rarely speechless but this man got me there.
All I can say is damm the day poor Ana crossed paths with this monster.
Sad, but there’s millions of guys just like him out there that’s why we need to talk to our daughters about animals like him
It’s so scary
The way he deflects, goes into story mode, you know he’s guilty. Hes absolutely exhausting, listening to him “answer” questioning.
He made it worser for himself by testifying 🤦🏽♂️
This guy is a dangerous psycho. You can tell that he can snap in a second. He's trying to contain his rage and is having a really hard time holding it in.
He already had outbursts in court two years ago. You’re right.
I'm late to learning about this story but I've never wanted to punch someone so much through a laptop screen. Charmless, graceless, narcissist.
And he's also sober here. He's the type of monster that should even be locked up in afterlife
I love this prosecutor 😂 it’s always great when a misogynistic, narcissistic man with a God complex has to go up against a strong female prosecutor!! I could watch these all day!! 😂😂
Its always the god complex.
Me too. It’s great knowing he’s having to keep checking himself from completely going off on her and reverting to type.
Having a woman prosecute was a brilliant move by the D.A. office.
I agree. She is excellent. I love that she calls out his hypocrisies and lies.
Yes, she did great at holding her composure too. He’s too ignorant and infuriating for me . I would have lost my job😂.
all his responses were insaneeeee. omg. my jaw is on the floor, the audacity he had!
This guy actually thinks he’s going to get the jury on his side by “busting” the prosecutor?! 🙄
The fact he walked everyone through murdering two people in cold blood because he was "freakin' out!" After using coke......he's so animated and blames Ana for him being a double murderer.......what a disgusting skin suit.
The way he distances, separates and downplays every single thing he's done like he's not in control of his actions is so horrifying. A completely unhinged abusive narcissist.
I feel like I’m dealing with this and it scares me how similar this man’s logic is to my partner
@@Faeriefungusoh please leave that person if they are anything like this disgusting dude. Can’t even call him a man he’s more like the devil.
@@Faeriefungus Whooooa red flags.... run away!
@@e2theocI’ve tried he won’t let me my family even made me get a restraining order but I couldn’t serve him because he lives in rv. He moved from Missouri to San Diego to stalk me
He is totally disassociated -like a schizophrenic one of his multiple personalities is controlling his actions.
Every military member has been trained in Combat First Aid. He's a liar saying he isn't trained to give basic medical attention.
Also lying about his firearms training, I'm sure he did practice cqb raiding rooms
Good point ! Didn’t even think of that! Wish the prosecutor asked
Thanks for bringing up this point. Also, he shot them as soon as he entered the apartment. Shocking.
My instant thought exactly, and I know nothing about the military…lol
Yes, he said he had no training, but discloses that he regularly went to a firing range. @@Backdraft47
He just confirms the procecutors words after he translates them to their synonyms 😂😂😂
This is someone that should not ever be released into society. A true danger. Prosecutor did a good job knew exactly what to say to show his true colors.
Totally!
Never been more infuriated listening to someone testify. He is so entitled. He can cheat, she can’t. He can move on, she can’t. He needs to be emotionally well, she doesn’t. He needs sympathy, none for her. He can make mistakes, be better not. He can be fed up, angry, sad, betrayed, hurt, she cannot. This is so familiar to me because I’ve been here for 15 years fearing a situation like this is I go….I hate him. Rot in prison.
@blairBunnyyyo hope you got out of that bad situation. No one deserves to be in a fearful relationship.
I pray you start making a rock solid plan of escaping you get out free and unharmed I pray that you have the courage to believe that you deserve better and you can do this in fact you can do everything on the DOWN LOW...
Ali reminds me of my ex as well. It is very eerie to watch. My ex also thought he could cheat, but if I wanted to leave, that was not allowed. He at one point got drunk and intentionally crashed his car into other drivers. He pleaded guilty to that felony and still tried to blame it on me breaking up with him.
He is abusive , narcisstic ,insecure , controlling,aggressive and arrogant beside of being the murderer.
❤ You described it the best! X
And she's manipulative and triangulating and playing hot and cold so she's not innocent in this. Even though she did not deserve murder, no one deserves murder. But it's funny how you guys want to paint him as a narcissist. Everybody is a narcissist if you don't like them in the female world
Adrian, she "was" not is. Sure, I saw how terrible she behaved and probably very toxic, manipulative, border line etc but... Ana is NOT on trial he is. He killed her and another person. Jealousy can be fatal. Don't worry about gender mate some crazy people out there! But it has been a Macho world for way to long no????
@@TheDecider2024 manipulating an abuser is fair game but abusive people never understand, that they pigeon hole a victim into either a) sneaking around and walking on eggshells to avoid the delusional abusers, triggers - which, is the victim/abuser feedback, itself and most else, is deflection/justification.
b) defiance/rebellion because the victim learned there is no winning, the game and they are burnt out, from useless practice, of 'a'.
She probably, denied not loving her daughter, cheating, talking badly about him, planning to hurt him, enjoying hurting/annoying/confusing/angering him and endless, other accusations.
Some women are unfortunately abuser identified so, they'll agree because they're silly but this dynamic, is abuse and neither does, it require any mutual commitment nor do legal contracts, justify oppression of another human's autonomy.
People get to cheat, confuse, triangulate and exhaust you with no real explanation- male or female and keep their lives. That's what it really means when you give trust/love you might be betrayed or worse- perceive betrayal that doesn't exist
@@TheDecider2024You got a point there, but he wasn't mature enough to properly deal with her manipulation!!
His reasoning for his behaviour is so warped. He lives in a reality that is completely narcissistic and has no respect for anyone but himself.
Ali Abulaban is the most self-absorbed person I've observed. Everything is about him him him. His priority was to pick up his 5 year old daughter from school and take her to a safe place. Yet he is not driving safely and he's high on drugs but doesn't think his driving could injure or kill her. His mind also can't think about anything than his wife having sex with men but it's different if he does this. That's all they mean to him. It's too bad his wife didn't manage to get a new lock on the apartment door. Also, he has endless money for drugs but he had no money for health insurance, and boo hoo his wife had lost her job and so he no longer had access to her medical plan. I guess he decided to take the witness stand in the (remote) chance the jury will sympathize with his poor mental state (all of his life) and reduce his sentencing time. I just don't see how he won't get the death penalty. His cousin had lunch with him and Ana three days before Ana and Ray were murdered. The cousin has no sympathy for what Ali did. Nice to hear.
This guy is so devoid of any sense of responsibility ... His personal uncontrollable actions are because "things just happen" ...
Dude you just described all women
He blames his wife and everyone around him for all of his actions.
@@jar7636nope
He's a childish person with immature emotions and reactions.
“You were mad because Anna repeatedly said she didn’t want to be married to you?” ‘I was mad because she wouldn’t communicate with me’ This testimony ought to be a lecture series in the thought processes of IPV perpetrators.
Anna communicated ad nauseum with him about the state of their relationship (ergo, that they were separated). It wasn’t a lack of communication, nor clarity. It simply wasn’t what he wanted to hear.
Throughout his testimony we’ve heard how completely dismissive he is of 99% of what Anna says. ‘She always said that’. ‘Okay she said that but she didn’t mean it’. ‘She was just upset’. ‘They were empty threats to call the police/get an AVO’.
The one thing he believed, above all else, was the one thing Anna never said to him; that she was wh*ring herself around 24/7 throughout their relationship. Because, she wasn’t.
Even now on the stand we can see how controlling & a.busive he is to Anna, even in death. Typically, we see these guys have the ‘if I can’t have you, nobody will’ mentality.
But with him, it really seems as though he’s decided that Anna can never leave him, & is now his forever in death.
Not saying in anyway shape or form she deserved any abuse, because nobody deserves abuse, but if you hear the whole testimony, she did send mixed messages. I think this should be a warning to anyone in an abusive relationship to set boundaries and stick to them, so the message is clear you are done!
@@lisao6928No
I like the way you put that.
@@lisao6928100 %
Finally… a comment with reason and clarity. I’m a 7 year DV survivor who almost did not walk out. This man is dangerous. The victim blaming on this thread just kills me.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen someone swear so much, in a courtroom. That has to make an impression on the jury, that he has absolutely zero respect for anyone.
The victim blaming is next level disgusting
I always point out that death does not always wash a victim clean if they were problematic in their lives therefore victim blaming doesn’t exist!!
@@hardwired8084Nah, victim blaming is when someone blames a murder victim for the actions of the murderer. That’s all it is. Victims don’t have to be perfect people to be victims.
adulterer blaming
@@madi4481they were separated.
@madi4481 he was seeing other women, Ali had every right to see other men if she chose to do so. The hypocrisy is ridiculous
He’s about to lose his cool. I can see his temper hiding just below the surface.
Yes. Simmering rage
Me too!
Yep and he's asking "where did you get that?" 😅😅
Oh wow , totally disagree. This dude is totally pushing back and doing it creepily ,very well.
@@angelamonk716 Check your relationships if you can’t see the boiling rage within all of his responses…
Watching a narcissist testify in their own defense is always like watching a train wreck. But the train doesn’t know it is wrecking.
He is the picture perfect for: seriously dangerous stalker, domestic abuse, coersive control, possesiv, hatred over women, narcissist, psychopath/sociopath, compulsive lier, and finaly a murderor.
He should not be out in a free world. He is a true true monster. And they should be kept away in a dark place for ever.
May he end up for life in prison.
Blessings to the child who are now without her beloved mother.
He impersonated scarface and ended like him . With a nose full of cocaine and shooting someone close to him
True
Wow now thst you say that! 😳
" say goodnight to the bad guy"
Was thinking the same, the character went to his head
damn..........very scary
Soooo much victim blaming. Wow. Sick in the head.
He was raised in it. You even hear his mother during her testimony, she said “well Anna hit him too.”
@@user-nj9db2tg9w Whoa, I missed that part. That's nuts!
He goes through this time-line very matter of factly....like making plans for a business trip
He blames everyone and everything for murdering 2 people.
no he doesnt, he explains his thinking
@@pikas_palace his thinking of how to get revenge
His "thinking" does not justify shooting and killing two people.
@@Justso_Weather_Vain exactly
He even blames the bullets lol
Her setting boundaries and stating she doesn't want anything to do with him= "she's difficult." Unbelievable!
Or “She’s acting strange” smh 🤦♀️
He is soooooo stupid for getting angry at the prosecutor😂😂😂. It shows how he cant control his anger. If he can be like this in the open, its sooooo scary behind closed doors
I agree. She is excellent. I love that she calls out his.hypocrisies and lies.
Misogynist.
If you watch the interview he had before his final court appearance he was screaming like he was screaming at his wife it was bizarre
The only reason he would rerack his semi-auto would be if it jammed, and he was clearing the jammed round to reload another round. That is deliberate. It has to be.
can you explain that more?because i know nothing about guns
Ali is the perfect illustration of the most malignant type of NPD. He is grotesque and beyond redemption
His "kind" are all like this. A perfect illustration of the 7th Century Male.
@@Bette-g7k,
Hi Betty Borderick 😂😂 !
Thank You! So well put!!!
Absolutely! And this cry baby bullshit
@@Theresa89 you got the wrong Bette 🤣🤣🤣🤣 !!!!
He's got an answer , excuse and argument for everything...full blown narcissist. It's always everyone else's fault.
He has an excuse for everything
When he said the social worker only testified for attention???? 🤦🏻♀️this is the most laughable, horrific trial ever
Like people have never Deliberately possed against somebody that was innocent and sent them to jail. I am not saying he isn't guilty. I am not seeing the proof
@@Happyhippy70Right!!!---- I say he's innocent---- because he said so
@@Happyhippy70are you blind??? Deaf? A little off in the head maybe?
@@Happyhippy70 what do you think now?? He’s a convicted murderer.
He's got an answer for everything as if it's all justified or someone else's fault.
When someone says they don't want to be with you, you move on, you don't get to cage other humans. Ughhhh, idk if I've ever been so disgusted with someone. He STILL has a MILLION excuses. LIFE!!!
Exactly. It takes two to tango and if one doesn’t want to anymore, you gotta accept that decision and move on.
Uh what? Marriage is supposed to be for life. There’s no “I don’t want to be with you anymore” at someone they agreed thats justified. No fault divorce should be illegal. Their poor child had to live with separated parents not knowing both of them were terrible. One cheated on her father and one killed people.
That’s not a decision anyone in a relationship would accept. Relationships are meant to be forever. Thank god no fault divorce and breakups are illegal in my country.