THIS Is Why You're Single - REACTION
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Hey ya'll! Today on my channel we are reacting to some people that are still single, unsurprisingly. Enjoy ;)
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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I crack a joke or two. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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Cf = 'children free.' (But I like the old 'chicken f*ck*rs' SO much better for the explanation! 😂) Love your channel Charolette! Everyone in the community stay safe and healthy!
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Is this like the new DINK? I had never heard that either. I am AWFUL with acronyms and initialisms though.
Yes, CF means child(ren) free. Love this comment. I enjoy being child free by choice however most people religious or not, hate my reasons for such a decision.
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Literally ran to the comment section to say this cf=child free
Better to be single for the right reasons than being with someone for the wrong ones!
Amen to that
Absolutely =)
Exactly!
Sing it louder for the people in the back! 🎶
Definitely. Fam motto if there ever was one: better to be a lone (not lonely) than in bad company.
"too many people confuse directness with rudeness"
👏🏾 👏🏾 Louder for the people in the back 🗣️
Whenever they call me ugly after I say no to them I always say “if I’m ugly then you’re desperate” and they get so mad 😌
Women should reply, "Oh my gosh, you're so right! I couldn't see what a nice guy you were until you verbally abused me! Your hair trigger rage is so attractive, and I'd totally not be worried about my safety with you!"
Omg noo never let someone know ur thinking abt ur safety with them (obvi I mean only with strangers)
that’s basically telling them ur not safe here and they have power over u
U need to just run
Tru. That guy who said 'i would take care and protect you' sounds like he wants to keep her locked in his basement.
Good one. Yes, I knew this was a year ago but I liked your comment.
Omg love this
These guys giving me strong psycho killer vibes. It's like they don't understand that pretending to be nice doesn't help at all. We can see through that! And the way they behave when the girls say no is so ridiculous! We literally don't care if a guy we're rejecting says we're ugly or whatever, at this point those words can't hurt us at all. Who's raising these monsters?
yes - who instilled in them that they are entitled to women? scary stuff
Scary isn't it 😕
@@catcatvoon the patriarchy. You'd be surprised how many women raise their sons to perpetuate toxic masculinity.
I have my experiences before and after getting married. That’s why I love the BLOCK option so much. Men who know never say anything to me personally but only on social media. Do they really think that I don’t share that with my husband? We are completely transparent with each other. Plus, my husband has a tough reputation but is a really a teddy bear.
@@catcatvoon the adult male in their life. I know for a fact that nurture is a factor in a child’s mental image of themselves that will spill over to adulthood. If the boy is brought up with dominate male that believes women are to kept subservient then they will believe as well. If they met an independent woman they will try to put her down to make her subservient. My husband and I have a his, mine and ours blended family. We have two sons and two daughters together. The oldest three grew up with divorced parents but youngest did not. They were all treated equally but as individuals when needed. The men have a healthy respect for women and our daughters respect themselves. No one is perfect but they and their spouses get alone great with each because of mutual respect taught to them by watching us and my oldest children mom chose to get along. It’s all in choices. These men choose to be assholes.
40 or so years ago, I was at a house party when a guy doing his UNDERGRAD in psych told me when I said I was not interested in doing drugs, or him, that I was clearly frigid. I said noooooo, just not interested. Sigh. I see nothing has changed at all and now I am 65. I love how Canadian you sound. So refreshing. Yay Canada girls
Whenever someome says thay dating used to be better bAcK iN tHe DaY, I'll direct them towards your comment to set them straight. And as a fellow Canadian girl, thank you! ✨️🤗
Wait do Canadians have accents? (I dont know because I am Canadian)
OMG!…I was a commercial diver in the Gulf of Mexico Oilfield. One of my best friends from college invited me to her wedding and I was seated next to one of the grooms friends who was an avid recreational SCUBA diver at that time. So, we talked about diving. That is how we were introduced to each other, so we talked about it.
Commercial diving and SCUBA diving are quite different in several ways, the main one being that recreational SCUBA divers have to plan their dives based on how much breathing medium will fit in their tanks, how long it takes to breathe down the tank, and following sport dive tables.
In commercial diving, we also follow dive tables, but they are different from sport dive tables because the point of our diving is to get work done, not to look around. The diver has a team of at least 3, but often 6-7 people supporting their dive, monitoring time and depth. Breathing medium is supplied directly to the diver from various sources on the surface through a hose attached to a dive helmet worn by the diver. Most of my dives included in water and surface decompression which allow for the longer bottom times necessary to get the job done.
So, this guy asks me about saturation diving (when the divers on the job live in a chamber which is pressurized to near the bottom pressure so a pair can go to the worksite and work for 6 hours apiece to get the work done. After the job is completely finished, the divers are VERY slowly brought back to surface pressure and finally leave the chamber.
I tried to explain how it works to him, but he didn’t get it…we were at the Ritz-Carleton on Amelia Island, FL, so, each place setting included 5 glasses. I used the glasses as visual aids to explain the different chambers in a saturation (sat) system and how,the divers get to and from the work site.
Dude got pissed, told me that would NEVER work, and explained to me that not only would it never work, but the percentages of O2 I claimed the divers used and my claim that the only gasses one needs in diving are oxygen and helium showed him that I did not know what I was talking about and that I was probably just lying to sound like a big shot…”EVERYONE knows that humans cannot live without Nitrogen as a part of their breathing mix” 😂🤣😂 (tell that to the doctors who put people on 100% Oxygen.)
I cannot tell you how many guys at bars or parties have told me I have no idea of the facts of underwater diving and should stop lying about my profession.)
CF means "Child-Free".
As usual, loved the video. I watch it with breakfast while the kids are running around too early in the morning 🤣
Just came here to say the same 👍😁😁👍
Comment to bump this up, as it's the correct answer.
Yes😂 it made me snort when she said "chicken f*&ker"😂
Ah thank you. Someone once said in a comment section "I'm DINK FOREVER!!!!" .....apparently that means : dual income no kids, lol...everyday I'm learning 😆.
@Merissa Johnson me too, haha 😄. I was like why TF would Urban Dictionary recommend that as the meaning b4 Child-free. Is there that many people boinking chickens!?!?!?!
*I had a run in with a guy like one of these, a few years ago. I met him when I sold him a couple of my paintings. Then we spoke a bit and there were a few red flags but I thought I was just being too tough on him. But when we went on a first date and then said no to sex, it was too soon...he flipped on me and yelled at me. I felt all the rage he felt about other women, onto me. I was actually frightened and I rarely get scared.*
😬yiiiiikers. I tell all my lady friends, please carry a mace or taser or knife, OR SOMETHING!!!! mines a liiiittle stronger than all those combined so...
Yup. I carry. I don't trust anyone, bunch of weirdos. Human. Lol
Once, a guy I've bought a smart band from sent me a message asking if I wanted to go out with him (right after we met to make the exchange). He had a couple's picture on his WhatsApp profile 🙄
Those are the moments that you wish you could get the girlfriend's/wive's number and say "please leave him (or cheat on him, he deserves it)"
jeerpers queen he sounded like he had screw loose glad you got out ok
@@pengwing638 I had the fright of my life.
I dated a "nice guy" once. He put me in the hospital because I wanted to shower alone.
Wow that escalated quickly 😮
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I am glad you’re ok!! God bless you darlin!!
The last time I asked someone out I was at church and it took me three months to pluck up the courage I've got Aspergers and I thought it would ruin our friendship but even though she said no we're still friends and still go to the same church and we even go to a church group for people in our age bracket ( 20's & 30's)
That’s awesome! Good for you! Don’t be discouraged either, God will provide you with a wife at the right time if it’s His will.
Oh the irony of nice guys being like “I’m super nice” then just showing that they’re actually complete jerks when they get turned down.
That's because they're working hard to seem nice, and because it's not normal for them they see it as hard work and get mad when their hard work doesn't pay off.
While listening to these examples, I kind of asked myself, if it would not be smart to use it as a test? If a guy turns out to be psycho when saying "no" it is a major red flag. If they cannot deal with a "no / not interested" what is gonna happen in a real relationship? Frightening.
I am always thankful that I do not engage in today's dating world. It seems so stressful for everyone. Stay safe everyone :)
I'm living for all the facial expressions Charlotte makes while filming the videos.... piece of art she is 🤌🤌🤌🤌🤌
she's extremely animated. I love it, too. :)
Yes!
🎭👌agreed!!
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Piece of art. What an accurate and awesome compliment! 🥰
Charlotte, whom ever your editor is, give them a raise. I always laugh so hard at the cuts. Love you!
Being single is the best, so true! So many people stay in relationships that make them unhappy just out of fear of being alone. Don't waste your life like that! Everyone deserves love, happiness and fulfillment, and it's out there for you as well. Never give up on yourself ❤
I had to block a close friend recently. At first,things were great in our friendship. He literally became one of the only people I could turn to. He listened and gave me the attention I wanted through conversation. But eventually,things went sour. He kept over stepping in conversations. Not once did I ever hint that I liked him more than a friend,nor was I flirting with him. I told him time and time again,I wasn't interested. My cousin had just passed away,and I had to let go two of my dogs. The absolute last thing I was thinking about was a relationship, or D**k. But he kept overstepping on my boundaries and trying to be sexual with me. And Everytime I had to explain this,he threw a temper tantrum. Eventually it led to a big fight, and I eventually just blocked him when he least expected it. Then,he had the absolute nerve to make a new account and message me, explaining how I "over reacted" and didn't understand. Yeah,sure bud.
Ps,I told him how little I think,or do anything sexual. I haven't had Intercourse in almost 3 years. I can go another 3. It's definitely not something I need to survive. Lmfao.
But Honestly,I'm just so tired of feeling like I owe people something just because they are "nice" to me. Or that I owe people sexual gratitude.
Sometimes people mistaken good conversations for something more or jokes for a serious thing sometimes even flirting, I feel you though I once I blocked someone close to to me for almost the exact same reason I'd like someone or date them and out the blue every time "I liked you, how could you not see blah, blah blah," every time I'd tell her why do you always say and act when my attention isn't on you or why don't you ever say or made a move and she'd throw a huge tantrum and gaslight to justify it was always my fault. It's the classic they can't have you but no one else can either but they they can still have a life you know?
“Sexual gratitude” - thank you, I’m going to put that card in my deck
I had two similar, not that bad tho.
First was my bff since kindergarten. We both women. On graduation night at the bar, she started to grab my ass and told how she loved me and chose schools because of me. We both had bfs (i knew she was bi, no problem with that).
I held my beer, looked at her extremely shocked, said "i like boys" and vanished to the crowd. That was end of the friendship. Which sucked because i had also struggled making friends.
Other one was this guy..we continue to same school, were bit odd ones out (we were group of 4) and he was bit socially awkward but we all got together ok since we had know each other few years. He was actually really nice and not "nice", just socially awkward.
Then he started leaving me gifts and confessing love. I said i am not interested, blocked - thank gods these were before social media and never heard of him.
12 yrs later i answer strange number (i usually don't) and it's him. Okay we chat this and that. Then he asks would I come with him to his dad's funeral because he hates his siblings have families and he is alone.
I did not go.
It does break heart when you think you have friendship and never indicated otherwise and other one has totally different idea.
I am really nice to everyone but alot of men think me being nice means I want to f#@k lmfao I havent had sex in years cause it literally takes me way longer to get ready then it does for a guy to finish. Its not worth the effort lol
@@andreafleet Sex isn't everything lol what ever happened to snuggling up and eating muchies on the sofa together you know the little things ❤ people forget intimacy isn't just about sex, cuddling, holding hands, doing your significant other loves is just as if not more important. Setting boundaries and likes and dislikes when you meet someone is important as well.
That's what gets me about "compliments" from total strangers: they throw you some trivial comment based entirely on your personal appearance, and then get mad because you don't immediately fall fainting into their arms - or more likely, fall swooning at their feet - in gratitude that some random bloke tossed you a meaningless affirmation.
I once had some random bloke tell me that I'm "beautiful" - I replied "Yes, I know", and got a diatribe about how vain and shallow I was - once he found out that cheap words wouldn't get him into my knickers.
When are these men going to learn that there's a difference between a woman saying "No" and a woman cutting their balls off with a rusty hacksaw blade?
That last part of your comment made me laugh it was perfection!
Ooookay, but in all fairness, it is kinda weird to reply “yes I know” to a compliment.. like I’m trying keep things equal here and flip it around and picture myself complimenting a guy and him being like “I know.” (And honestly, forget gender or relationship status, even if I was complimenting another woman or a friend or something) That would be so off putting and would make me think he’s vain and his name should probably be Gaston and he eats four dozen eggs every morning 😆 no man should ever assume giving a compliment gives him the right to get in your pants, BUT I can’t really blame someone for being a little put off by that response.. a simple “that’s very kind of you to say, but I’m not interested in a physical relationship at the moment” would communicate the same point. If he still replies to that with a message like the ones in this video, then I’d just block him and move on.
or the fact that they think you owe them something for giving a compliment
@@cc1526 - It's not a compliment if there's no sincere intent behind it. Why should I thank someone who thinks they can grease their way into my pants?
My profile had an extensive section about my hobbies, activities, what books, films and music I'm into; and all these men can find to say is to throw empty words at me?
@@franl155 trust me I get it. Dating apps kinda suck. Like I know some people get lucky and find the love of their lives on there, but you have to sift through so many disgusting men to find them. I just don’t want you to say “I know” to the right guy and have him think you’re rude. Honestly, the best thing to do is to just try to meet people nearby or network with your friends so you can find a trustworthy source. If you’re so fed up with a dating app that you’re purposely turning them away, then it’s probably a good idea to take a break from it for a while. At least I’m assuming we’re talking about dating apps here. Cause fighting fire with fire always ends up with a bigger fire. But there are good guys out there who don’t just want you for physical stuff, I promise! Hope you have a great day! 😊
It was much more intimidating, back in the day, in person when men tried chatting me up through my dating/children/marriage cycle and I am 100% monogamous so it wasn't ever going to happen. They would call me a liar and say I was making it up just to get rid of them. One man grabbed my wrist so hard, to keep me 'in place' for his abuse, that I had a bruise for near on a week afterward. That was a scary night. No matter how much I flashed my engagement ring, it made no difference, he was determined. One time my sister in law and myself had to sneak out of a club while another woman (who was older) distracted a bloke who was between 40/50, full on grey hair and a 3 piece suit. I told him he was old enough to be my Dad, (yes I was hoping to offend him as I was saying no and he seemed to be hearing yes) I was 19 and he told me "I'll have you screaming Daddy by the end of the night" We cringed and ran to the sanctuary of the ladies toilets, where we met the nice lady who helped us escape. I would have preferred virtual harassment than physical.
As a woman who has sometimes asked other women (or men) out, I know it can sting when you gather up your courage to ask someone out and they reply with a "no." But someone who reacts to a "no" by devaluing or lashing out at the person saying "no" is not safe to be around. Be safe to be around. Thank people for their clarity and honesty. Then go do something fun to reward yourself for being brave
That’s the thing that always got me with incels. They say they cannot get sex because they’re ugly and it’s discrimination, but then they do not want it from ugly women. So they actually are not having sex by choice. Hypocrites.
So that would make them vocels? For voluntarily celibate versus involuntarily celibate I mean.
@@annekai unfortunately that term can be used for most guys. We really are clueless about the fairer sex despite our adamant attestations to the contrary. 😉 But I like where your heads at!
@@annekai it’s the curse of hook up culture. I weep for our future. But then I remember that we can still steer it back toward center and I’m happy again. 😉
@@annekai you are a hundred percent correct, like they literally base their life and identity around the fact they don’t have sex. So clearly nothing else matters to them, which is probably why no woman wants them.
I really don't get this talk about ugly women. I have rarely met an ugly one. Yes some are a lot more attractive than others. But to be repulsive they usually have to be total assholes.
The guys who say that they are a nice guy, who give females compliments and then throw back insults when reject all sound like they would be controlling men if they get into a relationship. I feel like I've watched enough videos, especially on Charlotte's channel that if and when I come across conversations like these, run or block immediately, No need to waste time on giving any explanations.
I learned many years ago that "trust me" is a huge red flag.
you are correct 110%. they expect you to worship them for being subpar and get controlling when they feel like their mediocre (at best) behavior will drive you away.
The one who claimed you can't have a boyfriend because he let you wear that to give me a textbook... I lol'd so hard. Can't imagine why he thought that would be appealing, no one wants to be controlled like that.
They are. I dated a self proclaimed "nice guy" when I was in high school, before the term went viral... And let me tell you, the relationship went sour in no time. The worst part was breaking up with him: he scared me so much, I did it in public and asked my mum to be nearby, in case anything happened. At least I learned to recognize the red flags.
This is SO interesting, cause in my 20s I was obviously dating some "nice guys" but didn't know this was a thing and allowed them to make me feel bad about myself because of their judgements and how I am supposed to be in their opinion. My selfesteem was really low and unfortunately I believed that sth was wrong with me.
Seeing their typical reactions in these videos makes me understand more and more that they were the problem, and nothing about myself.
So helpful! 🙏🏻❤
Every nice guy: "I'm a nice guy."
Me: *rolls eyes and walks away*
I'm asexual and I feel bad explaining to guys I'm seriously not interested. In anyone. But I'm always down for new friends.
I usually get the whole "you haven't tried with me before. " (you don't have the magic penis that will make me crave sex), guys thinking I'm coming up with an excuse to blow them off and get all sad, or get called a whore, which makes me laugh because the issue is I don't enjoy sex and I'm an introvert haha.
Just say ur in a relationship n avoid all that
As someone who's asexual as well, I totally vibe with this. It's as if the entire world is obsessed with breakfast foods and all you want is to be left along with your garlic bread and cheesecake. No amount of telling me I just haven't had YOUR scrambled eggs is going to make me like eggs if I inherently Do. NOT. Like. Eggs.
Oof I feel this so hard. I just tell them I'm gay now since trying to explain that I'm romantically attracted to women but STILL don't even want to sleep with women just ends up with them talking in circles. If that doesn't work, I let them know that the last guy I was with was much better looking than them and he made me realize I was gay so there's clearly no hope for them at all. XD
Im gay. I always get, I bet I can change your mind.
First. Ewww. Second no.
Oh the irony of a sex troll bot being on this post🤣 You're in the wrong crowd bebop!
A guy messaged me and when I said no thanks, he told me he loved me and that he would kill himself if I didn’t date him! The world is full of weird people 😂
Thanks for always being there to make us smile CharDo, you’re the best x
Had the same with a gay guy who threatened to kill himself with a knife...told him to cut sideways for attention but alongside the arm (sry English isn't my first language) if he really means it and wished him a good day
Mean I know but whatever xD
I had something similar: I'm nearly 70 - which my profile clearly states - and he was barely into his 20s - and there was an ocean between us.
He said he'd kill himself if I didn't marry him. I told him to go wank as usual.
And that was how my first marriage (at 18) started.... I had no self esteem and didn't know that the thing to do was just walk away and whatever he chose to do was up to him. :(
@@Dude-do8vo no fuck that, i grew up with a sister that would constantly "khs" for attention. If that didn't work then all of a sudden she was pregnant then lost the nonexistent baby. After awhile i would tell her to just *do it right already.* She's a horrible person. She'll make friends & use their secrets as weapons & lie lie lie. I've cut that cancer from my life, thank Bob. Your comment isn't mean. You're fine.
@@franl155 That one sounds like a scammer. Your response was gold.
shoutout to Charlotte for *singlehandedly* bringing "we love that for you!!" back into my regular vocabulary
I 100% believe my husband is out of my league when it comes to looks however he seems to feel the same and yeah looks are great and all but we love each other for ourselves and next year is our 15th wedding anniversary and we are renewing our vows so I can have the wedding I never got considering our first wedding was in a courthouse but I didn’t care because I was marrying the man of my dreams
Honey did u just say that u believe ur husband is out of ur league when it comes to looks ? Have u not looked in the mirror I mean I just went and clicked on ur pfp and babygirl u are gorgeous I mean absolutely stunning 😍 I wish I looked half as good as u do and ur makeup looks amazing 😍 see I can't do stuff like that I just don't girl right never did lol 😅 so putting on makeup or anything like that is a big no for me cuz when I'm done I look like a 2 dollar h**ker u find on the side of the road lol 😂😅 but yea u look absolutely beautiful ❤️
CF is childfree.
Also, “gatekeeping” is the phrase you were looking for when it came to the Mozart guy.
If you can find Tegaderm (or similar) where you’re at in Mexico, those are waterproof skin barrier bandages that would allow you to keep your burn dressed, covered, and clean, while still allowing you to go into the ocean (or just the pool and not have to re dress your wound after). Hope your leg heals quickly, that burn looked gnarly 😫
Ooooh. Child free. I really would never have thought that. Lol. Cause it's one word. I so suck at these shortcuts. Thanks
Gatekeeping. Yep. That dude needed some introspection
I had a similar experience as the Mozart girl with dude once. I wore a bandshirt of an indie Metalcore band once to a small bar and this dude choose violence that day. He really thought it would be appropriate to chat up the one girl wearing a band shirt in line in front of the restroom. He was incredibly rude just because I couldn’t name the drummer. Telling me I was not true fan and I absolutely had to know the name and that it would make me a fake fan and a hypocrite because I would probably only know the name of singer because he is hot and bla bla bla.
I never pay attention to the names of the band members and stuff even if I frequently listen to their music. Sometimes I forget which artists sing which songs 😂😂😂 guess I'm the fakest fan ever. I don't get the need to prove that someone else doesnt like something by putting them through a pop quiz. If you know all the facts and figures, good for you. If you dont, still doesnt mean that you're not a fan of a certain music
@@NHarts3 I might be able to name a few lead singers, but my priority is the music not the names. Still a fake fan and probably always will be.
I have a terribly hard time remembering song names!! I love Saintseneca and I have a beautiful shirt of theirs and I could not name one song or band member 😂
woman: has a hobby
man: you better know every single detail about this subject or you're a fake
imagine if we were that dramatic everytime a dude broughts up his interest ^^
Good grief! If we were questioning people like that, they would turn it all on us as being the crazy difficult ones. 🙄 damned if we do and damned if we don’t.
Charlotte, you're the only person I look forward to watching every day. Thank you for helping all of us get through this pandemic. Your videos are like having a friend eating lunch with me or spilling the tea while I do my make-up. Thanks for the laughs! Keep taking care of yourself! ♥️
Shout out to the editor adding all the memes and reactions, been giving me and my husband even more laughs lately! Keep up the good work!
I really don't understand how some guy can believe we are shallow... Just look outside, there's plenty of women dating guys less attractive than them everywhere, but very VERY few guys dating women less attractive than them (plus when they do, they are never very "ugly") . Why is is ok for men to want to date someone attractive, but not women ?
@@FlattardiansSuckThe reality being ? (what does bs means by the way, I'm french)
@@orangesnowflake3769 hello I'm sorry I can't tell if you are agreeing with me or not ?
@@FlattardiansSuck Oh, well as a rule I find that attractive people generally date attractive people to begin with. But on the occasions that it's not the case, I personally find that couple attractive women/less attractive men are more represented than the opposite, several celebrity couples comes to mind (as well as several exemples in the people I know, though I admit it's not a rule). Don't you think so ? Also I meant no offense, no need to be aggressive.
@@FlattardiansSuckExcuse me for asking, but are you a man ?
@@lise7538 bs stands for "bull-sh1t" (where 1 = i ; meaning feces of a bull) and is a curse/swear word in American-English... a rude or lazy way to say "I don't believe that"
Had a blind date once where the guy argued with me about the Canucks' win streak. They'd won 10 in a row (was a million years ago) and he didn't believe me as he couldn't fathom a girl knowing more. He also tipped very badly. No second date. This is why you're single sir.
What did you tip?
Should be "Did you tip?" As that a more appropriate question. But I keep the original comment as that is what people react to.
@@ZappaSheik it's not about her, it's about the a-hole she was with.
@@ZappaSheik tf relevance does this have? Trying to flip the script? Or implying that the guy "obviously" paid for the meal so she should "just be grateful" or some bs? GTFO
I mean, what can you expect from a Canuck's fan? (Sorry, not sorry. I'm an Avs fan who still hates what Bertuzzi did....) 😛
@@ZappaSheik Why do you assume she didn’t?
I met my husband online when we were teenagers. I am SO glad I don’t have to deal with that shit now. I totally understand why so many of my friends prefer to be single or at least don’t actively try to date.
I feel like all these dickheads also could be in “you’re not the main character“
Just celebrated 20 years being single!!! Glad I chose wisely lol
I wear a lot of my concert tees around. You know, you pay 40+ bucks for merch you kinda wanna wear it. My biggest pet peeve is when people try to pop quiz me on the band. It's like, hello, did the band hire you as the poser police? Find only the "real fans" and allow them to wear their shirts. Grinds my gears. Don't try to pick up dates like this!
I hear ya sister! I don’t do a lot of concerts but when I do, I usually buy the tee. I do it more for the reminder of the experience and less because I’m an avid fan.
@@davidguidry657 that's why I kept this post gender neutral, it's not just guys who do this unfortunately.
It starts off innocent enough "Oh, you're a fan of "band" me too!" But can quickly veer into "What is your favorite 5 songs by them and or lyrics and why?" Idc if I know every song they've ever made by heart, I will politely (or not so politely depending on my mood) tell you to F-off!
Exactly you can always tell who's actually a fan of something you know/love and someone who'll literally wikipedia or quick google search something eg the top 5 of that subject and read it back word for word! 🤦♂😂
@@LeonieJMerry you don’t mean to say that women don’t like being given the third degree, do you?!?! 😉
Spot on, with your assessment tho. People can have varying degrees of interest in the same topic and guess what? Neither one is wrong! 😮😉
@@LeonieJMerry Like I love Lord of the Rings but there are way to many characters for me to remember! 🤣
I cannot overstate this: I am so blessed that social media did NOT exist when I was dating. I couldn’t imagine dating today….
Can concur.
I get the feeling it was easier as you had to talk to the person and actually be interesting.
I’ve often said the same thing. I was married before anything like Facebook existed and I’m so glad.
What makes things worse today is that the notion of dating without the use of social media or apps is so foreign a concept, it’s become nigh on impossible to meet anyone in order to date
All of these make me happy I'm single. And mildly frightened at the idea of dating. But again, happy to be single
Charlotte..... I must say, you are one of the funniest folks ever!! I wish I had the ability to lift you up as much as you lift your fans !! You are the best!! You are a gift !! A special multi voiced, mega charming, Ginger !!! Thank you for your smiles !!!
I accidentally burnt dinner because this video popped up and I got distracted, but now we're ordering pizza instead! Totally worth it.
I feel like you did not lose in this situation. 😂
@@erdstme It was awesome pizza. :)
yum pizza
I’m a huge nerd, love sci-fi fantasy to death. My favorite show of all time is Battlestar Galactica (2004 RDM). I was wearing a shirt from an online boutique that specializes in geek/nerd fashion for women and had had a limited edition tank top with the crest for the ship, and subsequently the show, Galactica printed on the front. Really well done top, kudos Her Universe, would buy again. I was getting gas after moving from Southern California to southwest Oklahoma and the clerk says to me, “Nice shirt…” I’m about to smile and get all geeky when he continues with, “If you even watch it I mean.” OH IF LOOKS COULD KILL THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN MURDER! I now make sure I always carry my nerd credentials on me if I’m wearing a fan shirt.
Sad truth is you shouldn't have to prove your inner nerd to anyone. It should be cool for you to wear the shirt just because you like it too, without being a fan of the show and not be looked down on for that. But then the gatekeepers wouldn't have any fun 🙃
“Nerd credentials” 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@@NHarts3 I was about to say… that’s something the gatekeepers would wanna make sure of. To be fair, I’ve had gatekeeper-y thoughts too, so I don’t have room to talk. Tho it’s a jerk move to assume that someone can’t be a fan of something you are if you aren’t of the same gender :/
Yeah, he was rude.
No question about it.
It seems like unless a woman has a really "girlish" interest or hobby, many of them get this treatment.
But I also see in many "manly" trades and hobbies, there's so many women doing exceptionally good work!
Like driving 100+ tons vehicles with fewer breakdowns, classic car restoration, showroom car painting, gaming to name just a few!
But the guys in the video and the guy you met are hopefully of the few, but I fear it's not.
Take care, stay safe and best wishes for the future!
@@AmyHoldaway27 Anytime you have a huge interest in something niche, the gatekeeper thoughts will creep up on you. The difference is how you handle them, you can either remind yourself that it's just some gatekeeper BS or you let it make you into one of those sad, tiny people...or that's how I deal with it anyhow.
I was low key cheering for her to figure out what CF meant with the context clues. I was like "come on Charlotte you can figure it out!" But yeah they were saying they're child free
I love the inserted responses to when you make a statement. like Cartman saying, "I'm glad you understand."
hilarious.
Someone wearing a Mozart shirt may have just borrowed their roommates as they were out of clean shirts. You can start with talking about Mozart, but if they tell you the shirt is borrowed, maybe have another thing already lined up to ask about. If you are in the same college as them, then asking about their major and where they're from can start a nice conversation. But if you start implying they're stupid or a poser then expect to get cut off real fast. Be nice, don't accuse, have some back up conversation starters ready to go.
So……what I hear you saying is to be a mature person? That can’t be right! Can it? 😉
Oh this video was great... people really be out here being clowns for free. Remember folks, it's not a dating pool, it's a dating cesspool. Be safe out there my friends
And so many wonderful loving cats and dogs available at the shelters! :)
CF just means “Child Free”.
You keep me smiling. Been watching you since you IO days. I’m grateful for you and your channel. Keep smiling. Keep living your best life. And thank you for all you do.
I met my bf walking down the street. He stopped me, gave me a compliment and we started talking, eventually got to know each other. Whenever I tell people that we met that way they act like I should be suspicious, like he was targeting me….cuz the “normal” way to meet someone is online. But everything I hear about online dating makes me glad that I stayed away from that arena. What better way to judge someone than IRL? Sounds like the really dangerous people are the ones who feel entitled to through a tirade from behind their screens. Truth is that not every person IRL is great and not everyone online ITA but, wow, sure can seem that way sometimes.
Charlotte-you’re totally worth someone amazing wherever you find them. 🙂
At the store yesterday and this woman was wearing a boxing club t-shirt. So, I asked if she boxes. You don't meet a lot of women who do. She said no, she just likes the t-shirt and that was that. No harm, no foul.
It would have been cool to talk to a girl who boxes though.
Exactly! Meeting somewhere with a man you met online is extremely dangerous. A good friend of mine was sexually assaulted. Please be careful, and if you want to meet do it in a public location (and stay at such public location. Don't walk off with them somewhere private).
I love the amazing taste your editors have! Huge props for the clip from Shattered Glass at 4:53; it is one of the best films that not enough people know about!
I enjoy being single. No headaches no drama.
this whole video wasn't so much why your single to me, but why guys are scary as fuck. really. just the thought that somoene can go from nice to that vicious before a brick can fall cause you said no has serious psychopath vibes, and they just say they are "nice" to suppress it themselves and justify their anger. It's freaking terrifying. Kind is where its at everyone, kind to everyone, not just cause they want something from you.
Sadly, I grew up with a mother like that, nice to vicious rage in the blink of an eye, so I thought it was normal and it destroyed 40 years of my life. We have to rise up against narcissists! :)
Women are just as scary
I believe Charlotte is using the title to tell them and that's why it's "this is why YOUR single" because she is trying to aim it.
Explanation is simple. It is possible to change that quickly because they are not actually nice. They just pretend to be nice ... but their real neture was shown very fast.
Real nice person will not change that quickly.
Woman can be just as scary though…and just as easily triggered into psychotic rage over the smallest things, or by things that were absolutely nothing to do with them or any threat to them…
Kindness goes both ways as well…no need to sugarcoat anything, but also no need to treat every interaction as a life/death scenario…and that goes to both sides
This is the reason why I'm single. Dating is scary. One moment a guy seems nice until you say no to them then they rude with you. There is nice guys out there but mostly taken.
I hate men who do that. They're only nice to you when there's still potential for them to get something from you (even if it's just flirting), and the minute they know you aren't interested in that they treat you like dirt. Some men just can't have even casual female acquaintances.
The worst thing about being single on Facebook is all the creeps and scammers sliding into your DMs!
It would be great if Facebook had an 'Unavailable' or 'Not Interested" option for your status. At least 'Do Not Disturb'!
This video needs to be a PSA
Turned into an after school special if those are still a thing !
Girl this needs to be a regular THING and women need to send these videos to every “nice guy” they cross paths with.
👍🏻👍🏻
Aaaand *that* is why women get their guard up when guys say hi or give a compliment. Can they teach this in like Grade Seven health class? Protect future generations lol but seriously
These guys make me embarrassed for my gender. How did they make it to adulthood without knowing how to talk to people?
Right?! I like to blame parents (for not whooping their kids anymore), schools (for not teaching basics anymore), and the interwebs (for making it so darn easy to be a jerk without any immediate negative consequences). I’m sure I’m missing quite a few culprits but this is meant to be funny and not a political commentary/cure.
Ha! Plenty of insecure irrational women out there too. Maybe if we all take more time to know ourselves instead of looking for validation from someone else we would all be happier?
Someone held their hand...
They were raised by the internet.
sadly there are alot of examples of very well known sociopaths for them to model themselves by. the cast of jersey shore, trump, half of the celebrities out there honestly.
"Why I'm still single"
*fluffs her perfect hair, adjusting her angle to the camera to show her glimmering skin, fluttering her gorgeous eyelashes*
Like seriously why is Charlotte single, we're all lost
All love for you Charlotte. You have a beautiful way of bringing up and evoking real conversation in a humorous way about real topics that your family and community of followers feel safe to speak on. You are a brilliant light.
You are an amazing human being!
Be you babe. You will you meet your counterpart. It’s worth the wait; not weight. Be light, and the light will share the same reflection. That’s where beautiful things happen.
These nice guy's do not seem all that nice unless unhinged is now the definition of nice.
Ha. Orange is the new black. Unhinged is the new nice.
You're right about the danger, Charlotte. My wife & I have played chaperone or just a neighboring table to watch out for the girls' (and boys) meetups from online. Nothing dangerous ever happened but man, some of these folks are just weird... Especially those that feel they must express that they are a "Nice" boy/girl! Like they never learned the basic lesson that it's what you do (your actions) not what you say that says the most about you.
A contractor at work asked me out over work email and I was like no thanks this isn’t appropriate and the response was no wonder your husband divorced you.
Cooooool…
Charlotte thank you for doing community sevice, some people really need to hear that the world doesn't own them anything.
When I was 13 this older guy hit on me and my friend while we were walking. When I told him I was too young for him he threw a sprite bottle at me and peeled off 😒🤦🏾♀️
I can relate
smh. Sorry. :(
Don't you just love how immature these grown men are, when you won't engage with their creepy advances?
So you're saying a literal pedophile got mad at y'all for not taking the bait. A similar thing happened to me when I was 15, some guys in a truck kept talking and yelling at my friend and me, while we where walking to the store so my friend finally said something back to them "we could be you're daughters" and they had the audacity to respond back "but you're not" 😰 it was disgusting to say the least.
Me and my friend were in a disco club (we were 15) and they were 18 or 19 and they really tried to make us drink beer when we were underage and only Drinking soda
I almost never accept drink from a guy unless i know him. But guys here, in disco clubs REALLY don't know the word no
Some struggle to realise that "No." Is a full answer, a full sentence and a complete end to the conversation.
Butthurt much.
Also, Charlotte's love for a certain censored word - makes my week!
It's a wonderful day when we learn how to just say "No" and refuse to engage further.
the whole "I would protect you" and "I won't abuse/leave you like all these other guys" and "I wouldn't let you out of the house unprotected" lingo is eerie as hell because that's kind of like pimp principles.... except these women are just trying to EXIST and these guys are trying to instill a sense of fear and necessity that their "protection" is required to exist in the world. EW.
We need protection from them 🥲
I’ve been rejected MANY times by women in the past. Even then I was able to realize it’s OK. Part of getting a relationship is showing others you are worthy of it. If you need to make improvements to yourself, that’s just part of the process. If you don’t like yourself, no one will like you back.
There was a dude on UA-cam who made a comment about how hes in his 30s living in his parents home sleeps all day so he doesnt get violent then says "I dont like woMEN. because they are uncomfortable with sensitive nice guys." I'm like "No. No one wants to mother a 30 year old man child living with his parents."
Yesterday I was on my friend’s Discord server. I said on the server that I’m thinking about asking this girl in my class out. My friend and her fiancé were both all for it. My friend’s friend on the other hand started berating me, saying my friend shouldn’t “ruin my life” by encouraging asking this girl out. Her reason is you should only date someone you might marry. However, she completely skipped over the fact that there’s this thing called the “getting to know you phase.”
I later said to my friend, “Your friend is really busting me.” My friend was also annoyed and instructed her friend to stop (which she didn’t).
Maybe she had a crush on you and freaked out.
@@Sandra-yi8vi I don’t know this person
How old is she? 13? 😀
Reminds me of a guy randomly coming up to me when my oldest was just starting to walk and complimented me on my lavender tank top. I felt really uncomfortable, left my oldest with my mother-in-law (who was in the same grocery store as us), went to my husband’s truck, and grabbed my jacket. I was scared for the rest of the grocery shopping trip.
Your the best Charlotte!! So funny and make me laugh all the time. Love your videos, your personality and reactions to them are awesome!! Thank you for making my days so much happier! 💕
Love and light to you always!
Reality check: sincerely nice people don't have to actually say they are nice!!!!
It’s sad that it’s so potentially dangerous to say no or to reject someone, no matter how nicely. It’s not just a guy thing either, if it’s in person, the ladies will attack or start a problem sometimes too. Nice girls are out there too (my teenage sons can attest to this). Wow. There were times when I initially turned down a guy (WAY back in the day, before texting and social media) and they handled it so well and seemed so cool about it that we ended up dating eventually. Actually, my husband and I dated for a summer in our 10th grade summer. I broke up with him before 11th grade started because our friends groups would not mesh well. He didn’t freak out, we stayed distant friends, and 5 years later, we were married (and still are, almost 19 years now.). So, instead of freaking out, which only confirms to the other person that you’re probably a psycho anyway, just be calm. Also, if you feel this much rage from a simple no, there’s something genuinely wrong with you and you can’t be trusted. I mean, what would happen when something actually worth getting upset about happens? Sounds scary.
So Scary!
So happy I don't have to worry about dating with social media. I think the anonymity of keyboards has a lot to do with the spewing hatred. Back in the old days, before the internet, you were accountable for your actions in person.
Sweet love story... People taking let-downs hard shows their true personality. However, this runs rapidly online, so when I date online, if I'm not interested, I don't respond. Which is really hard for me not to do since they took the time to reach out, but I've had too much negative backlash. I've noticed men do the same when they aren't interested, I just never hear anything back, and that's ok. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, nor do I want to be.
Very accurate, I'm with a past bf now decades after I told him no for a date in high school ( had a bf already) and he was an absolute gentleman about it. Even years later when I had called off our engagement ( it wasn't the right time for us both). He was hurt but understood my reasons. But now = 💖 we are doing great & committed for life 💞 .... yes I will be marrying him someday ( shhhh🤫, dont tell him though 😂). It would have NEVER worked out if EITHER OF US acted like ANY those "NICE PEOPLE ".
PS = congratulations on patience and your love story. Ty for sharing it. 💖
I feel like this vacation really lifted Charlotte's spirits. The video felt so fresh and energetic to me and I love it 💕
My own dad snapped and pulled one of these types of things on me just yesterday. I responded to his retelling of the same damn bitching about some topic woven in with the same story he's told me literally a dozen times by just politely saying, "Yup. I know." And he flipped out! He said back in his day he let his elders tell their stories over and over regardless of however many times he heard them because they were old (knowing his anger and patience I doubt it) and he said I was being rude and interrupting him, which was a straight up lie. Ugh. His Parkinson's is bad and he's expecting me to just shut my mouth and let him be irrational, mean, and unpleasant, and just not say anything, but I'm done rolling over.
When I showed up to work one day to my job as a mechanic at a Ford dealer for the first time, some guy was surprised that I knew how to use a drill??? Guys are absolutely wild. They expect to find a girlfriend after thinking that kind of crap too which is the funny part
The mansplaining drives me nuts! I get this CONSTANTLY and I’m soooo fricking over it!!!
Hey Charlotte, I just want to say thank you for your video's everyday, I've always look forward to them because they are very entertaining and I could never do what you do. 👏
These people with their delicate delicate egos. "I got turned down so now I think you're ugly, awful and less than I deserve."(plus swearing). So precious.
Girl, I found you like 3weeks ago and have been RELIGIOUSLY watching every video everyday EVER SINCE ❤️💕
Welcome! We adore us some Miss Charlotte!Keep coming back for more. Hoping that you “subscrahb” if you haven’t already. 😉
Ah I'm jealous, I've caught up on her vids. Wish l was new again, she's a scream 😆.
My Guess is she couldn't name any of Mozart's catalog. She just "Liked the Shirt." And knew he was an important person some time ago. I would have asked "What's your Mozart Painting?"
🤣Perfect response
@@tessesmom Thanks
The editing on this vid is next level! Also this is my fave vid of yours!!
I love being single. No coupke manipulations ,man motivations, or worrying what anyone has to say but me
Odd that we would think that women don't ''know things''. The best educators that I have ever had, starting with my mom, were women.
These are the same people who see teachers as overpaid babysitters.
Right but as a woman I have been treated like I was stupid for most of my life but I love making those ppl feel stupid when I show em I'm not stupid at all , ok maybe geography but that's it lol
Same, don't want to be part of the cliche but my Mom is the reason why I love scifi movies and shows, we love seeing technology on TV become a reality.
Your confidence shines through in your response. Obviously you have many positive experiences growing up and as an adult.
@@marcystorck7977 I think so. I appreciate your comment very much.
Does anyone else just LOVE Charlotte and her end of video song! ❤
I've been in Pastry/Culinary Arts school since 2017. My hubby (who I love dearly, even after 20 years), grew up as a kud/teen working in family restaurants. Then, he became a mechanic.
There are days I swear he somehow thinks I don't know how to properly prep food for use later in the week. (This is LITERALLY the one thing you do in my program EVERY SEMESTER) My forehead occasionally gets sore from the wall when this happens, but I've still decided to keep him. 🤦♀️🤣
I like how Charlotte yells out the "C-word" and it gets bleeped, but the echo makes it quite clear what was said.
I had a guy on instagram like all my photos (including me and my fiancè) and then he says I'm beautiful and askes if I'm married. I told him that he literally just liked a photo of me and my parter he goes "ah, he's lucky man" so I sent a photo of my partner to him and went "he says hi" and this guys has the balls to respond "can you ask him if we can share your beauty together?"
Like whaaaaaat dude??? 🤣🤣🤣
Lol well I guess at least it was an open and honest question and not an invitation to cheat? 😬 People are so weird, how does anyone think this is a normal question to someone you don't know 😂
@meisjeViv exactly! My partner and I laughed it off coz this is just the stupidity of the internet, but imagine a stranger just walking up to a random couple and be like, "Hey, can we share your girl?" Like noooooo😅😅
Hell, I’m a guy and I don’t meet people from online or apps. That being said, I am a gay guy so there’s many presumptions when meeting up with another gay dude or the so called ‘straight’ guys. I’ve heard horror stories. Now I have met people from online but only ones where we knew the same people or been at the same event or party but weren’t introduced. Gotta stay safe y’all.
Love your stuff. It makes me feel so good about myself, I'm a bloke and I think WTF about other blokes (and a few women) who think they a prize for everyone
I love your videos, I just found your channel and I'm addicted 😂
And this is why dating scares me
Charlotte, sweetie, cf stands for child free
Also love your videos, thank you for your work ❤❤
This needs to be pinned comment - I had no clue what cf meant! 🥰
A FAR cry from what Miss Charlotte found! 😂🤣
Beat me to it lol
Lol. I was coming to say this. 😂
Thank you, Ariel. I was sitting here scrambling my head, i was thinking Cis-female? Anyway, thank you!
Loving this charlotte ...keep up the good work girl! the no F's to be given attiude, is awesome....keeps getting better xo
Been watching different UA-cam videos for years and just about a week or so ago one of your videos popped up for the first time, been enjoying them ever since, and your personality is great, I'm old and pretty jaded,(baby-boomer), I watch UA-cam on TV so if I want to comment I have use my phone, I wish we could comment without having to use another device, but anyway, thumbs up girl you're killing It. The videos you share crack me up, and that's good, not much makes me laugh, so thanks and keep up the great work. 😀
Fun animal fact: The smallest octopus is the Octopus wolfi. It is smaller than an inch (2.5 cm) long and weighs less than a gram.
This is why, when a strange guy pays me a compliment, I light up and giddily say something along the lines of, "Aw, thanks, my hubby said the same thing this morning!" It allows me to feel like I'm not being rude, because there's nothing wrong with a guy taking a chance and talking to a person he finds attractive, but it also makes it clear that I'm already committed to someone else. So far, the few times it's happened, the guy just goes on about his day without feeling the need to be a butt about it. Then again, I have roughly zero social media presence and am an introverted homebody, so that's probably part of why I haven't had to deal with the type of guys featured here.
That's a good idea. Although it's a shame we have to come up with strategies for saying we're not interested just to be, you know, safe. When we were younger, and guys just wouldn't take no for an answer, my best friend used to put a finger in each ear and go lalalallalalalalalallalala and more often than not that would just completely throw the guy off and he'd leave.
Brilliant
Loved video. Get so crazy busy so it's nice when I have a chance to sit down and get to laugh.
I love Tulum Charlotte!!!! and I wonder if the 🥔 🏰 will have an additional 👑 soon… I’m getting some happy-happy vibes ❤️ So happy to see you happy!!!