20s vs 40s Vacation
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- Опубліковано 7 чер 2023
- Next time we'll just bring our own toilet paper... but seriously, who hasn't slept 12 to a room at some point in their 20s? #comedy #vacation #funny
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The only thing missing from the 40 year old is spending the entire "vacation" thinking about all the things you need to do as soon as you get home, then making a list of all those things, then continuously editing your list.
Yeah, and as you edit your list, be sure to edit the date modified so you remember the context... yeah, just sayin'
Hilarious...
😂😂😂 I thought I was the only one😂😂😂
@@beronicad.2580 Heck no.
of course! because you finally have time to think about all of it. You can't just go back to your real life without a plan! OMG the anxiety. haha
Getting home early from vacation to unwind and go grocery shopping hits so hard🤣🤣
TRUTH
Don't forget the laundry
And the laundry 😂
That's what the 30s are for 😂
I take a picture of the inside of the fridge and the freezer before we leave, and I place an order for groceries on the way home to be delivered shortly after we get home. 🙃
20s Kim - Party Animal
40s Kim - Planning Animal
50’s Kim - Planning Animal to the Max! 😂
I love that both 20s Kim and 40s Kim don't want to waste money on food. Some things never change.
There's a difference though, the former having no money to spend on food, and the latter not being willing to spend hard earned money on that kind of food.
Yeah I went on vacation in college and all I brought for food was a six pack of spam. I still cannot stand the sight of it 30 years later LOL
I remember saying in my 20s, I’ll always stay in hostels, they’re so cheap and fun! I’m now in my mid-30s and the thought of sleeping in a dorm room with a bunch of strangers while sharing a bathroom sounds horrendous haha.
That's one of the parts I'd still be willing to try but hubby vetos.
It is still ok, if you just make it at 11pm with 35k steps on your watch and left the next morning)
Hostels used to be clean, and really cheap, like 1/12th the price of a midrange hotel room per person, even during busy season in an expensive city like Stockholm or Brussels. You could get a room with only 3 beds. Now it's half the price of a midrange hotel room PER PERSON. And you have 9 beds to a room. Some people stumbling in late drunk, someone else up at 430 making noise, everyone snoring, stinking, or just taking all the oxygen. No thanks.
I don't know what happened. I wonder if investors bought up all the hostels and now run them to squeeze out maximum profit?
S A M E. I actually slept one night in a hostel recently, just to see how it feels. The stay confirmed that i outgrew it. 😄
I saw the movie Hostel before I was old enough to visit one. Needless to say, I’ve never slept in a Hostel.
The stages of life:
Vacation
Staycation
Medication
I CACKLED so hard 😂 🤣
20 something: I can work all day, drive all night to the vacation destination, sleep 4 hours, and be ready for vaca!
40 something: I need 2 days of travel time to there and a day there to recover from travel before I am ready for vacation.
Yep this is so accurate.
I need to plan an extra half day driving time now just for my pee stops 😂
Yes
And then a whole day between when I get home and when I have go back to work. 🤣
I love the "Valley Girl" accent Kim uses as her younger self, it's so hilarious! 😂The quick nap after two seconds really cracked me up! 🤣
I am fully rested! 😆
Oh so that's what that was. I was wondering why she was talking like that. 😅
That is what it is. I tried to figure out for the whole video which accent was. 😅
Anyone else think young Kim sounds like Moira from Schitt's Creek?
@@dean43669she's altered it a bit to drive home the point about 20-somethings... it's not just a Valley Girl accent, it's an Air-headed Valley Girl accent 😂
I am in my 70’s and it’s fun to watch my children tell my grandchildren the same things I told them when they travel.
My mother is in her 70s as well. After becoming a mother myself, seeing how much effort it takes wrangling little people together to do ANYTHING while being reasonably frugal, I realize she wasn't crazy. I told as much, and she's having a good laugh.
My husband is laughing uncontrollably. This is so me, especially the cleaning at the end of the stay. Tip for taking your pillows: put them in those bags that suck down to wafer thin (also works for the duvet I take 🙂). I’m just in the middle of putting food in Tupperware to take with us on holiday tomorrow. 😂
For people turning into their parents....
My family always thinks I’m insane when I claim the vacation home before we go home.
@@rebeccafoster-faith688updated aging; pregnancy pillows are great for teenagers and getting older alike. Traveling with them, the biggest headache is getting them in and out of the covers.. which makes packing them easier. Though shipping some of your stuff ahead of time can sometimes save you money and headache despite risks (loss, delays, etc).
toilet seat risers - a bit more awkward to travel with but then you don't face the threat of having a toilet that's too low. More of a concern for tall people or those with joint, back and/or mobility problems. Same with a shower stool and bidet mods, etc. (also, fuctional for (camping) glamping. just add off grid power source and back up supply, though there are portable (squeeze bottle) bidets and the seat riser works just as well with a hole over the ground.. albeit, gotta diy an outhouse for additional comforts.)
Food. Foodie tours can sometimes save you $ but they don't tend to be kid friendly. But you're bound to find some affordable markets/restaurants/vendors (maybe even a few nearby small farms) on your own, so spices, condiments and an electric wok (or whatever) can also help lessen the burdens. Freeganism options are everywhere too. Air travel snacks with rugrats in tow - pockets, pockets, pockets. You're old, you don't need to be fashionable for just the airport. Tho, there are a few compact snacks. It's an acquired taste but if you can turn your kids onto seaweed snacks.. some are paper thin, easily compressed, lightweight (albeit, you can DIY just about anything for your travel/tsa needs). Or give them a spice jar and building up those future drinking skills, of salt, lick, drink, repeat. . . to ward off hunger between destinations.
now if I was turning into my mum, all I would need is noise cancellation headphones, a cooling eye mask, a seat cushion with back support and neck pillow, some medicated gummies and full body throw. tablet (and thumb drive with preloaded movies, music, books, if can't get decent wifi), puzzle books and a martini, if awakened.
"I wrote in an hour for fun on Tuesday!" Oh man, that killed me. In my 20s and early 30a, I thought Disney was a vacation. Now I'm like. A week off? Staying home is like the best. I love Staycations lol.
Growing up, nobody tells you you'll need a vacation just to catch up on everything you're behind on.
Vacations in my 20s up to my mid 30s was all about fun and go go go. Now, I just wanna read by a pool, lake, or beach while sipping something like a Hard Seltzer (at home I am vodka drinker!).
Now that I'm 41, staying home is definitely more relaxing than going away somewhere unfamiliar and crowded.
@@kaylawaters2691 I couldn't agree more.
as someone who is in their early 20s, i perfer staycation than doing somthing on my feet all day. unlike one of my parents that did not know that staycation is a thing for quite awhile.
I’m 29, but I have travelled like I’m forty (according to Kim) since I had kids a few years ago. Even in college, I would pack snacks for everyone and things I didn’t need but I knew other people would forget. Making trips go smoothly is my love language.
That could be a job
The line "After a week with you all, I'll need a day alone in the dark on my phone" speaks to me as a parent.
Me, being in my 30s, I understand both of them a little bit. 😄
Also I'm sure 40yo Kim cleaned up that beer can after 20yo Kim threw it away. 😂
Same here in the middle. Although even in my 20s I wouldnt share a room with 12 people 2 or 3 would be enough lol
@@mariaskabardonis8353 haha, i used to do that a lot. I went backpacking so i stayed in many many hostels in my 20s.
I recently stayed one night in a hostel, just to see how it feels now. I came to the conclusion that i grew out of it. 😂
@@piiinkDeluxe Sounds like you lived a life. I think the Gilmore girls episode where they said the pillows smelled bad scared me away from hostels lol. Lorelai the character said she was glad to do hostels in her 30s cause if she did in her 20s she would think there exotic lol.
OMG! I immediately thought of my wife when she gathers annually with 6 of her high school friends. They are in their late 40s now. I laughed because you actually replicated some exact words I have heard her say! 😂
“I wrote in an hour of fun on Tuesday!”
Love you guys, you are God’s favorite 🤩
Only an hour though...
She said Zima and everyone within a mile heard me burst 😂😂
Same 😂
She said Zima and I was 17 again😂
This is going to gross you out, but my friend took her own pillow on vacation, brought it back to her bed, and got bedbugs in her bed that lasted a month! She vacuumed her bed every day to get rid of them. I totally relate to the part about the SPF sitting under a “cement slab”😂
There are dust covers for pillows that are also supposed to be bed bug proof.
I'm now picturing Kim packing for The Amazing Race and she's packed 3 pillows haha
Oh, definitely!!!
This was amazing. I remember in my 20’s of 10 guys in one room in Vegas. The 40’s segment is our new life as we get ready for Denver next week. We now end asleep before it gets dark. 😂
Right there with you 🙂
3:02 I laughed out loud. That incredulous look with “Are you using my pillow?” Perfection! 😅
Don't take my pillow.
I too am a pillow person bc of my bad back (which started in my 40s). My minimum is 4...
@@holdernessfamilylaughs that is so me!
This is so me too!! I have to have 3-4 pillows!!
Note to self: pack an extra pillow for husband, you know he'll want one and just take it ;)
Sunburn = Base Tan! So 20's! Nailed it! (Loved Sunny showing up!)
I feel like I’ve always been 40 😂I remember my step dad yelling at me and my sister for overpacking! “Only one suitcase girls! It’s only one weekend.” 😊
Every day with Sunny is a vacation.
And big doggos make great pillows!
40s mom here. Planning beach vacation right now. Thanks for the snack suitcase idea! Totally doing that!!!
And i always clean for the cleaners too cause "omg. What will they think?" Glad i'm not the only one.
Airbnb host chiming in here, you really don't need to vacuum the benches 😂 (or really vacuum anything. We don't judge your crumbs.) But people who do their own dishes are angels!! 😇
I refuse to get up at 4 am on vacation, no matter my age. 😅 Everything else is spot on.
You know what the funny thing is... today’s 20 year olds are 40 year old us 😂😂 oh how times have changed
Sunny on the bed just melts my heart ❤️ awww what a beautiful soul
I felt so seen with the pillow system and the bags! We usually travel with a shared bag for the hubs and me. 2-3 bags for the 2 kids. 1-2 snack, books, game bags. AND my pillow suitcase. And Hubs knows he doesn't get one of my pillows! Bring your own!
Love the planning to the minute sequence. Once our kids became adults, we learned they named our trips to Disneyland “Operation Mickey Freedom!”
I had my kids right out of college, so now that I'm 46 and they're out of the house, I'm kinda looking forward to some of those 20s vacation strategies if I'm being honest. Even if I would need a day off after to sit on my phone in the dark away from people, I long to be able to go somewhere I've never been with absolutely no plan of action beyond exploring and day-drinking, lol. Also, the "27 dollars! Zima's on me!" took me back to college to a kind of embarrassing degree 😂
I was never that bad in my 20s, but I definitely recognize my 40s. Now I'm in my 70s I have finally learned how to not overpack! But I don't go anywhere!
Ahhh, our youth. I worked at a bar with my friend in our early twenties and decided one night to take whatever tips we made that night and run down to Florida for a few days. I don’t remember how much we made but we went home and packed a duffel bag and hit the road. We stayed in a crappy hotel and lived on coffee and lemon drop shots. Now that I’m almost 50, I think I just got a hangover thinking about it! I also sleep with 3 pillows plus a small pillow that stays in the middle of the bed, under the covers, in case I need it for between my knees.
I love Kim’s robotic 20 yr old self lol
The 40s vacation person has always been me. The pillow system; the extra days upon return to recover; the snack suitcase . . . all of it
"If we wanna rent this place next year..." LOL I can hear my mom saying that
$27.00, guys, Zimas on me.
THAT is so 90's life!
Vacations are a lot of work. This dawns on you when you're in your 30s hauling around kids, husband that packs in 3 minutes like the kids and forgets to brink everything. We're going to the beach and he doesn't pack swim trunks. That part of an extra bag really hit home!
"I have every minute planned. It'll be an adventure!!" 😄
So good, right? 😄
I learned the hard way- always have an "unwind from vacation day" before going back to work
"12 pair of socks, 1 pair of underwear and . . . a sweater" 😂
This is definitely one of my favourites. Thank you so much for making me smile guys ❤
Yes! The pillow for tummy holding!
😂 Sharing the box of triscuits made me think of a 24-hour ferry I was on at 23 with three friends. We were stretching the budget so much we had no money for "expensive" food, so all four of us shared one plate of food for 10€ and a box of cookies. That's it. 24 hours.
😄😄😄
I guess that is why we were skinny when young
Trying that when traveling with family instead sounds like a recipe for Hangry City Central! 😂
@@anna_in_aotearoa3166 Seriously! It seems like my kids get hangry an hour after they eat.
The pillow system’s a real thing!! Thank you!!!😂😂💕💕💕
40s Kim is spot-on. I need good pillows! I make lists and plan schedules. And not long ago, TSA actually teased me about how many snacks I had packed in my carry-on. If you’re in your 20s now … just wait. You’ll see.
4:41 Pillow Thought: If you’re traveling with that many pillows, you could save space by using a vacuum seal type bag.. to suck out all the air.. giving you more room for travel bags or allowing you to see out the back window. 😊
Nibbles a trisket - i am full! 😂😂😂
And I thought I was the only one with the pillow fetish!!!!! I'm showing this to hubby!!!! I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE!!! 🎉😂🤗
Wait no leg pillow?!? Love the younger Kim voice :)
I’m going to a week-long conference for work next month. I’ve already scoped out all the local restaurants nearby, looked at things to do in the evenings/down time, and planned my packing list. I know my 20-something year old coworker that is also going probably thinks I’m crazy because I keep sharing info with her 😂😂😂
This is my pillow system too. I don’t understand the tummy pillow either, but I like it there
I remember the days when popcorn and beer was a complete meal….love this one
"This is my supplement bag." I felt seen.
I’m limited to two pillows but would love four. We actually sleep in a standard bed so the fact that we have a pillow each for our knees/hips is really extra!
I'm in my 20's (late, but still) and I'm already 95% 40's here. Scared to see how my 40's will be hahaha
I want those platform sandals. They look comfortable 😂
So comfortable, they are from Evereve!
The pillow to avoid contact is so funny…. I thought I was the only one! This is what UA-cam is for! I feel better now!
The Natty Ice! I know I reached peak adulthood when at a rental, the cleaning lady came early and COMPLIMENTED us on how tidy the apartment was. I'm still riding that high.
I use 3 pillows every night: the one I lay on and 2 on either sides of my head to make sure I stay on my back and they also cover my ears so I sleep better. My husband usually shoves the ear pillow closest to him because it intrudes on his space. lol. I do take the pillow I lay on on trips but don't take the other two but am usually annoyed because hotel pillows are usually flatter then my home pillows and don't do as good of a job covering my ears. So I totally get why Kim brings all her own pillows!
I am with you with the pillows. Gosh it was so much easier to go on vacation when we were younger.
Oh! I so relate to the 3-4 pillow system!😂
"This is who I am now". 😂😂😂
I bring three pillows on vacation too! & I bring a small fan for when I sleep. 🤣
ME too! 😂
Awww the dog at the end!! ❤😍
I'm 33 and already do some of the 40s things 😂
When you're in your 20's but you vacation like you're in your 40's 😅
Traveling in your 40s DEFINITELY hits differently when you're in your 20s!
SO NICE to be in a community...I have been made to feel this is just me and my "way". Priorities and awareness of what we do and how it effects others change as we age...for most of us.
I'm right there with you Kim, I need at least 4 pillows and my own blanket on vacation.
Haha, this is so relatable! I'm only in my twenties, but I've been told that I pack and organise like a fourtsomething, which is accurate! 😂
You're ahead of the curve
Love it!
ALL OF THOSE PILLOWS reminds me of Tim Hawkins’ MOUNT PILLOWMANJARROW……………. Lol
your 20 year old voice is everything I am dying over here 😂😂😂😂
This is so hilarious. We just got back from vacation today. 😂
Every single thing is SO true. I especially relate to the pillows. My husband always jokes about my pillow barrier.
I'm a completely different traveler at 51 than I was at 21!
Yep!! Same here. I mean, I used to go BACKPACKING!?!? Now I bring my car (aka portable locker) for all the gear I shlep!!!!
literally us last week on our disney trip. week at disney = 10 bags.
and the food bill was on point as well. we had a big family meal at Ohana, i paid for one of my niece's family just so they could eat with us cause the meal was so expensive in general. when i saw the check was like...well, i guess Ohana does mean family and family means nobody gets left behind.
"this is my supplement bag" this is me 😅
Taking myself on vacation in my 20s vs taking my husband, son, niece and mom in my 40s…Soooo many differences. 😂 I need a vacation after my vacation after the family trips. And I thought I was the only pillow system person. Lol I’m so sad that I forgot one of my pillows at the air BnB in Sedona when we went a few weeks ago. 😢
I do this with pillows too! Definitely need the stomach pillow 😂
I use at least 4 pillows to sleep comfortably. It's definitely a system.👍😁
You've gotta have a system at this point
Kim and Hello Kitty, I’m with you! I have two pillows on either side of me and three up top. My former partner did not appreciate my pillow system :(
Have you been spying on me😂...this is my life
The cleaning at the end killed me. That's exactly what my mom does!
Hahaha! Totally relate to the "supplement bag"!
My husband and I are in our late 30s, and this past summer we drove from Texas to Wisconsin with our kids (9 and 7) to visit his grandmother. We travelled with an RTIC ice chest FULL of food so that we never bought lunch or snacks out the entire time we were on the road - which was 8 days. We still bought dinner out every night, but we wanted to save money, time, and calories where we could. I regret NOTHING!!! 😂😂 Also, we made sure to be back home by Saturday night so that Sunday was spent going grocery shopping, doing laundry, unpacking and relaxing just a little bit before jumping back into the work week. This video hits so close to home 😂😂
Somehow Kim in her 20’s I don’t think she would do any of those things…lol I have to bring my own pillows even for just a night stay! My body pillow is a must
My 20s were a different time 😆
I look back at my 20’s and can’t believe I am actually the same human. I’m definitely not the same person but somehow I’m the same human… technically…😂
I look back at my 20s and wonder how I’m still alive! 😂
The bed thing is definitely my life: college years, every trip we took we, or late nights on campus, ended up piling multiple people up on single beds dead asleep…now I look back with horror like “what were we puppies?!” Today I am definitely a multiple pillow/ pillow wall etc, even in a big bed with one other person 😂
I always know you guys are gonna give mr a good chuckle.
This is hilarious and so true.🤣 I'm 67 and I always think about how there were so little worries when I was in my early 20's. No baggage (both literally and figuratively😆), just pick up and go.
Late 38’s and currently on vacation. Dinner at 5, live music and a drink at 6, back our our room to sit on the porch and watch re-runs by 7:30. Bought groceries and 2 pillows too!
Girl I got you on the pillow thing! I have four pillows on my bed just for me, four for the hubby and that’s not counting the two pillow shams that are for decoration only. 😅
Hahaha!!! I am a 4-pillow girl 😅😂 I laughed so hard at this one... I'm your age, Kim, and I can relate so much to this video
Omg, the pillows! I use around 3-4 also.
"an hour for fun on Tues!!" ive been on trip advisor for 2 weeks.. ha ha ha.. SO TRUE! and the pillows! we are serious here! awesome video!
I have a minimum of 6 pillows on my bed at all times. Lol
Minimum 😅
As a one pillow user, it feels pretty good. As long as that one pillow is a 5 foot body pillow of Asuna.
Did my wife write this? 🤣 Especially the pillows…omg!
1989 end of 2nd year I took one of those student trips to Puerto Vallarta. They put me in with 3 other guys from U of Alberta. Between them and their girls they took up all the bed space. I slept on the tile floor with only a bed sheet for the whole week. Nowadays I get angry if I can't get at least a queen sized bed. This video is very accurate.😊 Also on a romantic trip to New York, my wife brought her special tube shaped pillow and forgot it. Luckily the hotel sent it back by courier at no extra charge.
TRULY! I absolutely need a nest of pillows and then only the corner of one pillow under my head because i have neck issues. but still... If i can move any at night, i don't have enough pillows. Fantastic video!
My husband literally has like 6 pillows on his side of the bed. I use two and one special knee pillow I got years ago when I had back issues. I take that one on vacations. His pillows end up as a barrier between us.
“ i’m so jealous of your sunburn, you’re gonna have such an amazing base tan!” 😂🏆
The mom version killed me 😂😂😂😂 so real its like why, this is why im in charge of all of you
2:19 I can't imagine Kim "making a bad decision".
Omg the pillow system lol that is me. I literally allocate an entire suitcase to my pillow system when I travel abroad😅
Oh my gosh!!! I could not stop laughing!!! This is tooo true!!!!!!
Awesome job!