In your 20's you have all the energy but make some terrible decisions. In your 40's you have the sense to make good decisions but have no energy left to carry them out.
NYE when I was 20 I slept curled up on an ottoman. Just the ottoman. Slept great for 10 hours and woke up feeling great. Last night I forgot to turn on my air purifier and today I have a headache, my neck feels weird and I slept like 3 hours.
If I don’t have my 4 pillows arranged properly, and my blackout mask on, and don’t forget the nose spray and… wait, I need one of the dogs in the bed. My husband is asleep in 30 seconds, while I’m talking to him!!
I do the chores for me because I like a clean house. My wife doesn’t seem to care either way. Which is great, because I can let things slide a little if I’m not feeling it that day. Anyways, yeah 20’s aren’t that great, little wisdom, little money.
Preaching to the full gospel Pentecostal choir there, darlin'. I totally am feeling this. I just hit 43 in late October, and I just WISH I was ages 13 - 25 again....
@@richlucius5852 Sadly, that is seriously the truth. I really do miss being that young. I really miss my teenage years - 7th grade through... Maybe a couple years into college. Then I had to drop out to help my mom take care of my terminally ill grandfather, who passed away 5 months after my 21st birthday from lung cancer. First part of my 20's, except for the loss of my grandfather, we're not entirely bad. Mid 20's sucked (really bad relationship). Latter 20's were alot better (dumped psycho ex and met my now husband). Now I am in my 40's, which I am finding alot of fun in some respects, but omg - this video does keep it real about how it is during your 40's, the good and the bad. LOL Life is what you make it, I hope the rest of yours turns out to be an amazing and wonderful ride.
Ugh, my husband took out the trash yesterday and washed the dishes that aren't dishwasher safe today! If I had the energy, the things I'd do to him! 🤣🤣🤣
I am 40 years old. I'm bald, I have aches and pains, and my energy level is nothing like what it used to be. And I can definitely say, without a trace of irony, that my life is WAY better than it was in my 20s.
@@Destiny-vg9bx Gosh, thanks for asking. In my 20s, I couldn't get a date to save my life. I was still in school, and unsure about the future of my career. And I was a lot more foolish than I am now, and that foolishness caused me a lot of emotional pain. I don't think it is a stretch to say that young people are naturally insecure, and I definitely was. Now, I have been a pastor of a Baptist church on an Indian reservation for the past ten years. I am a teacher of Lakota language at our local Christian school, as well as its chaplain. I am married, to an AMAZING woman. I am respected by most of the people I know, and some of them even come to me seeking advice. I have goals, for sure, and I'm definitely not done living yet. But I can honestly say that I'm happy with my life. In my 20's, I couldn't say that.
@@benfarrar741 thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I’ll turn 20 this year and my life is already plagued by fear and insecurity. Im doing as much work in therapy as I can, hoping it will go away. It’s amazing how your life turned out, and I’m happy that you’re happy. That gives me a lot to look forward to. Maybe I’ll find my purpose and ultimately peace
@@Destiny-vg9bx I hope that your therapy helps, Destiny. If I might venture a little advice, speaking as an older person: The problems that threaten to rip your sanity apart in the present will seem a lot smaller in the future. Time and pain have the cumulative effect of giving you a lot of perspective. I say this to give you hope: it gets better. It does. Make the most of every day. While you are young, embrace the difficult tasks that seem unpleasant or boring, but that you know are good for you. Develop your spirit, your mind, and your body. Concentrate your efforts on becoming the best version of yourself you can possibly be. In doing so, you will be making your future life better. You will literally be “doing yourself a favor”. Your future self can’t thank you for it, but they’ll want to! Finally, I don’t know your spiritual belief, but I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t important. Everything in this world is in the process of dying, or wearing out, or falling apart. You could spend your whole life chasing happiness, only to find that it doesn’t last. But the joys of Heaven, and the riches that exist there, will never go away or wear out, and can never be stolen. If you secure eternal life and eternal joys while you are still on earth, you will be very wise. I recommend that you begin by reading the Gospel of Matthew. It changed my life forever. I’m glad you reached out to me. It is so rare that I get to have a thoughtful conversation in a UA-cam comment! You seem like a delightful person, and I hope your future self is even happier than I am.
I agree with Benfarrar! (What an amazing turn of events, too!) My 20s were all insecurity, anxiety, and clinical depression. On and off therapy throughout finally got me thru the veil of the the worst of mental health to managing in my 30s and now I'm learning new things about myself, while also recovering from burnout. I'm on the cusp of 40 and going thru another life transition, and that's the thing - life keeps changing, so do we, it's hard, but we grow.
I loved this! Especially the "system of pillows". I have one now and it's so specific and necessary for my rest. I have a whole sleep routine now. I don't know if I can share a bed with anyone if I ever get remarried or partnered. We might need separate beds!
As a 41 year old woman, I 100% relate to this. In my 20’s I thought I was invincible. I could sleep anywhere, any time, literally ally ways and cement floors lol. I had all the “best friends “, I used to hang with everyone! I could drink copious amounts of alcohol until 4am then pop up from wherever I had passed out and go work an 8 hour shift at 7am. Often still drunk lol, but with no problem. Now if I have one ONE drink I feel like hell within the hour. I need a full 8 hours of sleep to do anything productive the next day, and if it’s not sleep in MY bed there will be no sleep, any little noise wakes me. I have one friend who I see regularly and that’s because she’s my roommate, other than that, I have no interest in hanging with anyone else and roommate and I rarely hang. My back aches and I have found out I am certainly not invincible, all those poor choices in my 20’s have caught up with me heath wise. Oh and sunscreen! I never wore sunscreen! Now I wouldn’t be caught dead without it. Treat yourself good kiddos! Learn from our dumb mistakes
I read an old college diary recently and it was like "I went to the party with June and Asia... we met up with Chad and his brother Ted, and his friend DJ, and then we met this girl Lisa, and we all ended up hanging out with Patrick and TJ..." and my head exploded. I'm sorry, who has the energy to hang out with all those extras in an early 90s sitcom? Also... who ARE those people? I remember like... TWO of them.
I recently was contacted by some guy I apparently knew in high school. He sent a picture of the 2 of us and a pack of other people I also can’t remember, lol.
My best friend and I were on the phone the rest of the late night/early morning talking about everything and everybody from the night-if we went home-so I never had the chance to write much. It's exhausting thinking about those nights.
When I was 20 I literally once slept on the concrete floor in a major European train station, with announcements blaring over the speakers all night long. Now I have to unplug the fridge in my hotel room because its humming keeps me up.
Same! In my 20s I once had a "good night's sleep" on a flight of stairs! Now I can't fall asleep without aromatherapy spray, ocean sounds, an eye mask, a pillow system, and a super cold room.
I'm pushin 30 and I already have no idea what it feels like to wake up feeling rested....I'm in trouble for reaching my 40's! Just being a mom and married woman made me able to relate to so many of the things she said! So funny!
Just turned 40 last week. Went to a women’s conference and was mortified it didn’t end until after 10pm. I asked someone if they were trying to kill us! 🤣
I could handle it all like a trooper in my early to mid 40s, but in my mid 50s, I find I have to set an alarm to wake up 20 minutes before midnight on new years eve to do the toast. This year, I couldn't wake hubby at all. Soon we'll do it in the afternoon and be done with it.
One thing that always gets me (now that I'm older) is when I get aches and pains in places I never got them before. And having certain parts of my body make noises when I move.
Kim, how do you do that? That was totally me in my 20's, $20 for drinking, $2 to live on for the week, sleep on a floor, devastated by a friend hurting my feelings. Now tight budget, don't care what friend said, and a total pillow system. You're hilarious, talented, and so relatable. Thank you!!!!
I hurt myself a couple days ago trying to make my bed. I was putting on my covers and got my foot tangled in them. Next thing I knew I was flat on my back with a pounding headache.
Okay, I really appreciated Kim ending it by saying she loved her forties and wouldn't go back. So often everyone says to enjoy your youth because it only goes downhill but no matter what your going to get older, so your left dreading life
The fear of getting old actually causes people to stop enjoying life until they get old and they realize it's actually not as bad as they expected and they end up enjoying life again. (This is a real phenomenon. Look it up if you don't believe me.) If you just stop fearing getting older, life is a lot more consistently awesome.
Your 40’s are great. Wait for the 50’s. They seriously rock. And I’m totally with you on the pillow system. I even have wedges and bolsters to help keep my body from experiencing gravity.
I just watched this for maybe the 18th time. 😄 I must agree about the 50s; every decade is better than the ones before. They all had their good points, but the _freedom_ of this decade is delicious! I’m wrapping up the 50s (59 in April) and looking forward to my 60s.
You nailed this whole production on every level, from my 53 yr old perspective. In bed by 8-9 pm and up at 3-4 am.....for the day. Those precious 6 hours are often filled with night sweats, pee breaks and heartburn. I laughed out loud, nodded in agreement and said “ yup, accurate!” Throughout the entire video. So relatable! Nice job Kim. You look freaking amazing by the way. If only we all aged as beautifully. Love this channel.
Me, in my 20's: I'll never be like my Mom when I get older. Me, in my 40's, in a tough situation: What would Mom do? Me, in my 60's: How did Mom do it?
Nothing could be truer! I sleep with 4 pillows and never without my sound machine, an over head fan, sleep mask, glass of water on the nightstand. All these things must be in place or I can't sleep! I'm 45. My sweet husband bares it gracefully!😆❤️
Agreed, I'm enjoying my 40s so much more than my 20s. I mean sure, in my 20s there were no aches and pains, no responsibilities, and a great metabolism. But by your 40s, most people learn not to give a crap about most stuff, like how you look or what other people think. Make life much more enjoyable, when you stop giving a crap! :)
That's really true. I regret all the pain I let myself have over other people. Who gives a sh#t about those a-holes now? I don't even remember most of them but I cried about stupid situations. The only people that matter in the world are my kids. And I didn't need any of those idiots to have them. Well I guess I did need 1 idiot for 30 seconds.
I admit that I miss sleeping for more than 5 or 6 hours, waking up actually feeling well rested, being able to remember what it was I needed from the room I just went to, and it wasn't a big deal to bend over and pick something up. 😄
Well people say that but I think the REASONS for the lack of sleep changes - in our 20s it's just studying and partying; think back, (if you can/dare 😉)
Yes! I am 41 and would rather be in my 40s. Just wish I looked like I did in my 20s lol. The quote “I wish I knew then what I know now “ rings true. I actually sleep very well but the pillow system is facts lol. Each era has his pros and cons. Just live out your life and have fun:)
What i found great about 30s and now 40s is that I no longer care so much what people think about how I look or what I'm wearing. I can go out without makeup and hair in a bun and I'm not worried who will see me that way
I’m in my late 20’s and already feel this way. I’m genuinely worried that by 40, I will be walking around naked, arguing with the police officer that tries to ticket me for indecent exposure.
It might be a personal preference, I didnt care a whole lot once I was out of University but I care less about my clothes because minimalism, but it does have to fit right and I still love coloring my hair different colors. 😹
@Just Peachy definitely all of this. I never smoked. I hardly wore make-up and always took care of my skin. I'm turning 40 in May and people still think I look in my early 30s. Keep your skin nice it'll take you far!!
Yes! I used to do a full beat just to drive two blocks to the gas station lol I remember once in my early 20s, stopping by work to pick up my paycheck after spending the night & most of the next day in the hospital, & being MORTIFIED that my coworkers were seeing me without any makeup😭
Don’t know if anyone else is experiencing this but the need for glasses to read everything I pick up now reminds me of my mother holding everything at arms length trying to read it and then handing it to me and saying read this for me 😂
40's are great - I'm 55 now and am shocked every time some new part of my body hurts for no reason - in your 40's your body still feels good so enjoy them!
It's actually quite possible to have aches and pains in your 40s, some even get them in their 30s. But it's definitely easier to get back in shape when you're young. Now it takes ages.
Perfect. Sharing quotes from dead writers (rather than pop bands) is another thing we do in our +40s. “Youth is the most precious thing in life; it is too bad it has to be wasted on young folks.” ~ George Bernard Shaw
I never understood my parents needing naps back in the 80s and 90s. They seemed so old and weird to go to sleep in the middle of the day. But now that I'm over 40, I get it.
😂😂This happened to me, and it lasted for weeks. I was on my way to hospital, because I thought something was seriously wrong. A woman 35 years my senior told me to take an IBU and rest.
My husbands white new balance sneakers fell apart and I convinced him to buy different looking shoes because white new balance are such a turn off for me. :D
Oh God. This is so true. Especially the sleep thing: in the 20s, slept on a concrete floor one weekend. With just a sleeping bag. Now it's the fan, the white noise, the system of pillows....plus my husband is not able to sleep in our bed because he needs a mattress so firm I can't move the next day if I sleep on it. Also because once my pillow system is in place there's no room for him. And I also need a freezing cold room. With an open window. And a lot of blankets....which I throw off regularly because hot flashes ...
Once again, you guys nailed it hilariously! I am 58 and my 20s were in the 80s. My husband and I got married right out of college and had a blast for 10 years before we had kids. Lots of nights out for drinks after work and up at 5:30 the next morning no problem. Now I can barely keep my eyes open until 9 PM.
I turn 32 next week and this is ALREADY COMPLETELY ME! I’m laughing so hard because you are so on point!!! The two glasses of wine, the pillows, the dinner reservations at 8! I can’t even! I’m knocked out by 7:30. The pizza making u sick! The accuracy!!
@@Mama_Bear524 Hubby has his own pillow system, and besides, they absolutely stink so nobody wants to even touch them but he refuses to replace them because he claims they're perfect just the way they are.
@@suzybear22 😂. Mine’s doesn’t stink but they do cuz they’re lavender and I hate that smell. If they move an inch “I took them and used them”. No I have my own million pillows. But maybe I do when we’re asleep 🤷♀️
LOL! just wait til your 60s!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I have lived an active life and my joints remind me every day! But what experiences I have had--and was blessed to be with the man I loved for 30 years. 😊
2:45 the sleeping routine had me creasing up! 😂😂 That's ridiculously relatable, certain pillows, humidifier / fan depending on weather and not even a tiny flicker of light allowed else I cannot sleep! So different to catching some zzzz's in my car in my 20s! Couldn't do that now, not enough prep and too cold for my 44 year old bones.
In our 20's, $22 COULD get you thru the week! Back then, that was enough for a tank of gas, 3 beers at the bar and a pizza delivery! Those were the days!
In my early 20s I read a book where this quote stuck out to me: "I overheard two women talking about how tired they were now they were over 40...I wanted to tell them enjoy it while it lasts I remember having so much energy in my 40s." I decided that I was going appreciate what energy I had no matter what my age was. I have 5 kids and being pregnant and nursing and keeping toddlers alive is taxing. I am enjoying the stage we are in now even with covid craziness going on.
This speaks to me too! I'm 25 and I know some may roll their eyes at how could I possibly have the audacity to feel old but I really do and I'm really struggling. I'm not stupid and I know what I'm thinking is not true but I still think it and feel it for some reason. A few days I even kept thinking that I'm old and sick and dying so noone will marry me. I'm not joking, it's what I was genuinelly feeling even though I simultaneously knew it wasn't true and was ridiculous. And noone in my life ever perpetuated the notion that this is an old age to marry so I can't say I've been fed such thoughts at all. It's all me for some reason. A few days ago I looked at myself in the mirror and was like ok insteas of looking at the fine lines and how the texture of my skin has changed recently why not look at all the youth in my face? So I did. And I saw I still have a very youthfull face. Then after some time I decided hey, why not enjoy my youthfull look while I still have it. Why fret over how my husband won't enjoy it (bcs in my head I'm nearly convinced I'll marry very late) which won't change that anyway and why not just enjoy it for myself now? Fretting over it doesn't change anything and I still have years left to enjoy it. Why not just let go and enjoy it. I don't know why I have such strong emotions over things _I even know are not true,_ I'm working through it a bit and seeing where it comes from but I have a long way to go. I guess I just wanted to share. Let's enjoy what we have now because it's the best we can do anyway. Fretting over what we used to have or what is slipping way does nothing but it does however steal our joy of the present.
Oh my gosh I felt the sleeping on a deep level lol! No light whatsoever, specific pillows in specific places, fan on.... I feel so good to know it's not just me. =)
The breaking ur bones one is so true. When I was 14 I broke a rib and I have never been in so much pain but I got through the entire thing without medical treatment. It literally hurt to breath for 6 months. But now I can barley lift a baby into a high chair because my back is killing me.
Lol great video. I’m 35 and still sleep on my hardwood floor sometimes to fix back aches. Does the trick every time. In fact when I do sleep in my bed, I can’t use a pillow. It hurts my neck.
I build a pillow fort around me. It consists of 2 king size pillows, 1 regular size pillow and a body pillow. If I feel the need to sleep on my right side I have to wake up and move my pillows too. I hate it but it is needed to wake up ache and pain free.
Looking forward to your future menopause videos. Oh yeah, your fifties are coming and it will make your forties seem like a Netflix binge night :) good times 👍
OMG, this is ALL so me! Especially the early bedtime, pillow system, and throwing out my back or dislocating a rib just by reaching for something. It reminds me of my favorite lines in the Chenille Sisters song, "Help! I'm Turning into My Parents" -- "On Friday nights I just collapse. My Happy Hour is a nap. I used to party, drink, and smoke; but now my body just says NOPE!!"
I just turned 40 a couple of months ago and, yes, every day it feels like I get hit by a bag of hammers! My energy is gone and I can barely stay up passed midnight on a Friday night.
Relate! I think this man hit me extra hard because I am a mom to six kids: right now the youngest is 5, the oldest is 24. I had my first as at 18 years old and I gave birth to my baby when I was 38 )which is perfectly reasonable nowadays). But comparing the energy I had to parent when I had four kids before my 25th birthday and then, when I got remarried he and I had two children and they were born in my mid to late 30s just the energy is so hard; however I can definitely say I am a much wiser mother at this age (currently 42) BY FAR. I can sincerely say there is no right or wrong time to have a child every single age has its pros and cons but holy cow I am related to this video so so much I relate to like almost all your videos but this one was like whoa, well done.
I'm almost 38. I hurt my neck in my sleep when I was 35, and had to sleep on the couch with three pillows just to be able to keep my neck from hurting for a week. My knees alternate days when they hurt, but I am almost to that stage where I don't give a hoot what people think of me. It truly is amazing.
All I can say is, just wait till you hit your 60's! Enjoy those 40's while you can! Can't travel any more because the Hotels don't have the correct pillows for my pillow system, or the correct bed for that matter.
"reached for my coffee weird" I tried to lie on my stomach to read in bed last night and then spent 5 minutes writhing around trying to get rid of the side stitch. You turn 30 and it's like your body flips the lights - closing in 10, heads up - and then at 40, your body goes "Okay, so we're agreed, this one's had their chance to spread their genes, let's shut 'er down."
So true! I remember suits my pediatric residency (ages 26-29) being completely content to lay down on the conference library table for a 20 minute nap Because that’s all the sleep I might get in 36 hours
The "all you have to do is send in a picture of your feet." Had me rolling. However I have to say even in my 20s I didn't like living somewhere sketchy. Maybe cause my mom made me paranoid. The horror stories of being found dead in a ditch somewhere.
In your 20's you have all the energy but make some terrible decisions. In your 40's you have the sense to make good decisions but have no energy left to carry them out.
YES.
Yup. Youth is wasted on the young. Benjamin Button did it right.
Pretty much
Wow that's depressing 🤣😭
Facts
“I was reaching for my coffee weird. I threw my back out”
I feel seen.
Glad we get represented up in hereeeee😂😂😂😂😂
Totally 😁😂😍
😂 I have to brace myself when I sneeze because I feel sharp pains in my back when I don’t. 😂
Hahaha I see you!
Along with sleeping weird, sitting weird, walking weird...
NYE when I was 20 I slept curled up on an ottoman. Just the ottoman. Slept great for 10 hours and woke up feeling great. Last night I forgot to turn on my air purifier and today I have a headache, my neck feels weird and I slept like 3 hours.
Feel better soon!
Sooo me.
If I don’t have my 4 pillows arranged properly, and my blackout mask on, and don’t forget the nose spray and… wait, I need one of the dogs in the bed. My husband is asleep in 30 seconds, while I’m talking to him!!
Same
Sounds about right! 😆😆😆 lol
Seriously! When will men understand that the hottest thing they could EVER do is house chores?! 😍❤️😂
While holding a baby.
YESSSS!!!
I do the chores for me because I like a clean house. My wife doesn’t seem to care either way. Which is great, because I can let things slide a little if I’m not feeling it that day. Anyways, yeah 20’s aren’t that great, little wisdom, little money.
A MAN WHO COOKS.
Nay, a man who cooks & DOES THE DISHES
I was raised by women I figured that out early.
If I could have the body of my 20s and the brain of my 40s, I'd be perfect. Lol
Now, there's an idea. Well, we can but dream....
Right?! It'd be great!!
And the new confidence that is strange but kinda awesome of your 30s.
Omg yes hahaha!
They're working on that. It will happen. It's gonna be interesting...
20’s - do crazy athletic feats, wake up with no pain.
40’s - if I wake up without pain, I’m afraid I’m paralyzed.
😆😆😆
Preaching to the full gospel Pentecostal choir there, darlin'. I totally am feeling this. I just hit 43 in late October, and I just WISH I was ages 13 - 25 again....
@@fionarhiannonpitbullextrao5786 and those in their teens-20’s don’t even appreciate it. Youth is wasted on the young, sad to say.
@@richlucius5852 Sadly, that is seriously the truth. I really do miss being that young. I really miss my teenage years - 7th grade through... Maybe a couple years into college. Then I had to drop out to help my mom take care of my terminally ill grandfather, who passed away 5 months after my 21st birthday from lung cancer. First part of my 20's, except for the loss of my grandfather, we're not entirely bad. Mid 20's sucked (really bad relationship). Latter 20's were alot better (dumped psycho ex and met my now husband). Now I am in my 40's, which I am finding alot of fun in some respects, but omg - this video does keep it real about how it is during your 40's, the good and the bad. LOL Life is what you make it, I hope the rest of yours turns out to be an amazing and wonderful ride.
😂😂🤣
That last one though where Kim is bragging about how hot Penn is while doing chores....total goals.
Ugh, my husband took out the trash yesterday and washed the dishes that aren't dishwasher safe today! If I had the energy, the things I'd do to him! 🤣🤣🤣
Yea I perked up
It does do something for us women...if only they knew...lol
I mean it is like that!! And I find my husband's "dad bod" much sexier, more manlier than in his 20's lol
@@MichelleLyn84 Like we don't know.
I am 40 years old. I'm bald, I have aches and pains, and my energy level is nothing like what it used to be. And I can definitely say, without a trace of irony, that my life is WAY better than it was in my 20s.
May I ask what you love about your life compared to your 20s? I often only hear bad things about aging, but I think there’s a lot to look forward to
@@Destiny-vg9bx Gosh, thanks for asking. In my 20s, I couldn't get a date to save my life. I was still in school, and unsure about the future of my career. And I was a lot more foolish than I am now, and that foolishness caused me a lot of emotional pain. I don't think it is a stretch to say that young people are naturally insecure, and I definitely was.
Now, I have been a pastor of a Baptist church on an Indian reservation for the past ten years. I am a teacher of Lakota language at our local Christian school, as well as its chaplain. I am married, to an AMAZING woman. I am respected by most of the people I know, and some of them even come to me seeking advice. I have goals, for sure, and I'm definitely not done living yet. But I can honestly say that I'm happy with my life. In my 20's, I couldn't say that.
@@benfarrar741 thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I’ll turn 20 this year and my life is already plagued by fear and insecurity. Im doing as much work in therapy as I can, hoping it will go away.
It’s amazing how your life turned out, and I’m happy that you’re happy. That gives me a lot to look forward to. Maybe I’ll find my purpose and ultimately peace
@@Destiny-vg9bx I hope that your therapy helps, Destiny. If I might venture a little advice, speaking as an older person:
The problems that threaten to rip your sanity apart in the present will seem a lot smaller in the future. Time and pain have the cumulative effect of giving you a lot of perspective. I say this to give you hope: it gets better. It does.
Make the most of every day. While you are young, embrace the difficult tasks that seem unpleasant or boring, but that you know are good for you. Develop your spirit, your mind, and your body. Concentrate your efforts on becoming the best version of yourself you can possibly be. In doing so, you will be making your future life better. You will literally be “doing yourself a favor”. Your future self can’t thank you for it, but they’ll want to!
Finally, I don’t know your spiritual belief, but I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t important. Everything in this world is in the process of dying, or wearing out, or falling apart. You could spend your whole life chasing happiness, only to find that it doesn’t last. But the joys of Heaven, and the riches that exist there, will never go away or wear out, and can never be stolen. If you secure eternal life and eternal joys while you are still on earth, you will be very wise. I recommend that you begin by reading the Gospel of Matthew. It changed my life forever.
I’m glad you reached out to me. It is so rare that I get to have a thoughtful conversation in a UA-cam comment! You seem like a delightful person, and I hope your future self is even happier than I am.
I agree with Benfarrar! (What an amazing turn of events, too!) My 20s were all insecurity, anxiety, and clinical depression. On and off therapy throughout finally got me thru the veil of the the worst of mental health to managing in my 30s and now I'm learning new things about myself, while also recovering from burnout. I'm on the cusp of 40 and going thru another life transition, and that's the thing - life keeps changing, so do we, it's hard, but we grow.
I loved this! Especially the "system of pillows". I have one now and it's so specific and necessary for my rest. I have a whole sleep routine now. I don't know if I can share a bed with anyone if I ever get remarried or partnered. We might need separate beds!
As a 41 year old woman, I 100% relate to this. In my 20’s I thought I was invincible. I could sleep anywhere, any time, literally ally ways and cement floors lol. I had all the “best friends “, I used to hang with everyone! I could drink copious amounts of alcohol until 4am then pop up from wherever I had passed out and go work an 8 hour shift at 7am. Often still drunk lol, but with no problem. Now if I have one ONE drink I feel like hell within the hour. I need a full 8 hours of sleep to do anything productive the next day, and if it’s not sleep in MY bed there will be no sleep, any little noise wakes me. I have one friend who I see regularly and that’s because she’s my roommate, other than that, I have no interest in hanging with anyone else and roommate and I rarely hang. My back aches and I have found out I am certainly not invincible, all those poor choices in my 20’s have caught up with me heath wise. Oh and sunscreen! I never wore sunscreen! Now I wouldn’t be caught dead without it. Treat yourself good kiddos! Learn from our dumb mistakes
Kids almost never learn from other people's mistakes. Some things you just have to learn from experience.
I read an old college diary recently and it was like "I went to the party with June and Asia... we met up with Chad and his brother Ted, and his friend DJ, and then we met this girl Lisa, and we all ended up hanging out with Patrick and TJ..." and my head exploded. I'm sorry, who has the energy to hang out with all those extras in an early 90s sitcom? Also... who ARE those people? I remember like... TWO of them.
And you had the energy to write it all down afterwards!
I recently was contacted by some guy I apparently knew in high school. He sent a picture of the 2 of us and a pack of other people I also can’t remember, lol.
Lol right!?
My best friend and I were on the phone the rest of the late night/early morning talking about everything and everybody from the night-if we went home-so I never had the chance to write much. It's exhausting thinking about those nights.
This is why i burn those old Journals..... no evidence for my kids to find muhahhahaha
I can’t even sleep in anymore. 16 years of kids and cats getting me up at 6 am has broken me. And my bladder was just the finishing blow.😅
For real. Sleeping in for me would be 7am.
She totally could have added a pee skit lol 20s no it's OK keep driving I can hold it... 40s stop every exit lol
@@ElaineDStrictlyCDN Y'all, that sounds like diabetes.... 😟
@@thisuniquechica not diabetes, just because of birthing kids!
@@ElaineDStrictlyCDN and God help you if you sneeze with out warning. Lolol
When I was 20 I literally once slept on the concrete floor in a major European train station, with announcements blaring over the speakers all night long. Now I have to unplug the fridge in my hotel room because its humming keeps me up.
Went skiing fell asleep on teh apartment couch with a party going on, in my 20's, sleep anywhere...
I totally get that! Sleeping in hotel rooms is the worst. I hate all the lighting. Microwave light, alarm clock light, etc
Same! In my 20s I once had a "good night's sleep" on a flight of stairs! Now I can't fall asleep without aromatherapy spray, ocean sounds, an eye mask, a pillow system, and a super cold room.
How do you keep your handle of Everclear and/or Fireball cold with the fridge unplugged?
@@ryanrents126
Why would there be any left to refrigerate? 🤣🤣🤣
I'm 40 and I look back at my 20s and I still don't know how I didn't die. Late 30s till now made me enjoy being older.
Now that I’m in my 60’s, I wish I had the energy I did in my 40’s. 😅😅
Oh no! 😅
OMG, this is so on point it’s ridiculous. I can’t even remember what it feels like to be rested after sleeping.
I forgot being rested after sleeping existed.
I'm pushin 30 and I already have no idea what it feels like to wake up feeling rested....I'm in trouble for reaching my 40's! Just being a mom and married woman made me able to relate to so many of the things she said! So funny!
That is true. And I can throw my back out taking a shower.
My wife had the same pillow/fan/white noise system for going to bed. BTW, melentonin is not good for you.
Just turned 40 last week. Went to a women’s conference and was mortified it didn’t end until after 10pm. I asked someone if they were trying to kill us! 🤣
😂😂
By the gawds, so glad you made it out alive. Those monsters!
@@chovue2363 😂😂😂
I could handle it all like a trooper in my early to mid 40s, but in my mid 50s, I find I have to set an alarm to wake up 20 minutes before midnight on new years eve to do the toast. This year, I couldn't wake hubby at all. Soon we'll do it in the afternoon and be done with it.
Goodness, no!! This is still at stretch but I’d say 7:30 is my maximum limit lol
I'm a 35 year old currently living with a bunch of girls in their early 20's. This scenario is exactly what it's like right now.
Are you old enough for them to call you ancient, though?
As an older person, I feel sorry for you...
One thing that always gets me (now that I'm older) is when I get aches and pains in places I never got them before. And having certain parts of my body make noises when I move.
I feel your pain. Moments like that help you see just how much you have grown!
Oh god WHY would you do that to yourself? 😂
Kim, how do you do that? That was totally me in my 20's, $20 for drinking, $2 to live on for the week, sleep on a floor, devastated by a friend hurting my feelings. Now tight budget, don't care what friend said, and a total pillow system. You're hilarious, talented, and so relatable. Thank you!!!!
Her laying on the floor because she reached for her coffee wrong is so accurate. The older I get the dumber the ways I hurt myself 😄
I sneezed and hurt my ribs
Yeah the old “I’ve fallen and I can’t get up!” Isn’t so funny anymore.
@@ohdamnman my gf did that and broke a rib... had police at the hospital asking me a few questions...lol
I hurt myself a couple days ago trying to make my bed. I was putting on my covers and got my foot tangled in them. Next thing I knew I was flat on my back with a pounding headache.
"The sun's not even out"
"That's when it gets ya"
True story.
Okay, I really appreciated Kim ending it by saying she loved her forties and wouldn't go back. So often everyone says to enjoy your youth because it only goes downhill but no matter what your going to get older, so your left dreading life
Forties are when you just start hitting your stride! Fear not!
I’m 38, so getting close, and it is only getting better and better!
Hey, when I was 20; they were sending me off to war. 40 is a lot better! (Trust me on this one!)
@@NNaadah ❤️
The fear of getting old actually causes people to stop enjoying life until they get old and they realize it's actually not as bad as they expected and they end up enjoying life again. (This is a real phenomenon. Look it up if you don't believe me.) If you just stop fearing getting older, life is a lot more consistently awesome.
"I've reached my friend quota" LOL
Your 40’s are great. Wait for the 50’s. They seriously rock. And I’m totally with you on the pillow system. I even have wedges and bolsters to help keep my body from experiencing gravity.
I just watched this for maybe the 18th time. 😄
I must agree about the 50s; every decade is better than the ones before. They all had their good points, but the _freedom_ of this decade is delicious! I’m wrapping up the 50s (59 in April) and looking forward to my 60s.
Haven't even left my 20's and the 40's resonate with me so much more 😆
You nailed this whole production on every level, from my 53 yr old perspective. In bed by 8-9 pm and up at 3-4 am.....for the day. Those precious 6 hours are often filled with night sweats, pee breaks and heartburn. I laughed out loud, nodded in agreement and said “ yup, accurate!” Throughout the entire video. So relatable! Nice job Kim. You look freaking amazing by the way. If only we all aged as beautifully. Love this channel.
Night sweats pee breaks & heartburn 😂😂 sums up my nights too
Me, in my 20's: I'll never be like my Mom when I get older.
Me, in my 40's, in a tough situation: What would Mom do?
Me, in my 60's: How did Mom do it?
💓🥲
ahahhaahahaha maybe this will be me in the future
preach
😢
I'm 29 and I'm already in the what would mom do stage.
Just being able to get out of bed without groaning and worrying about a new injury was great 20 years ago.
20s Kim sleeping on the floor in makeup and earrings. 😂
I remember when I could sit cross-legged. My knees don't appreciate when I do that anymore.
I feel this comment so much!
OMG, FACTS right here 👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻
@@irishrosa6115 Ive sneezed & pulled something before😂😂😂😂
Nothing could be truer! I sleep with 4 pillows and never without my sound machine, an over head fan, sleep mask, glass of water on the nightstand. All these things must be in place or I can't sleep! I'm 45. My sweet husband bares it gracefully!😆❤️
Oh man, as someone in her late 40s, this really hit home. I am a "it needs to be pitch dark with the sound machine" sleeper now 100%!!
As a woman in my mid forties, I can relate to every one of those! You nailed it, Kim! 🤪
Samesies
Hear hear
Absolutely!!
Same
Seriously. Every. Single. One 😭😭😭😭
Agreed, I'm enjoying my 40s so much more than my 20s. I mean sure, in my 20s there were no aches and pains, no responsibilities, and a great metabolism. But by your 40s, most people learn not to give a crap about most stuff, like how you look or what other people think. Make life much more enjoyable, when you stop giving a crap! :)
True!
That's really true. I regret all the pain I let myself have over other people. Who gives a sh#t about those a-holes now? I don't even remember most of them but I cried about stupid situations. The only people that matter in the world are my kids. And I didn't need any of those idiots to have them. Well I guess I did need 1 idiot for 30 seconds.
@@chellybabyme Loved the "Well I guess I did need 1 idiot for 30 seconds." That's EXACTLY how I feel about my ex! ;)
Just wait til you reach your 50's like me that is a whole other level of aches and pains and not giving a crap lol
Truth🙌. I'm 45 and don't give two shits anymore.
I admit that I miss sleeping for more than 5 or 6 hours, waking up actually feeling well rested, being able to remember what it was I needed from the room I just went to, and it wasn't a big deal to bend over and pick something up. 😄
It's hard to miss something I can't remember...
Ugh the bending over...I feel ya.
I wish that had been me! I've always needed a solid 8+!!
Well people say that but I think the REASONS for the lack of sleep changes - in our 20s it's just studying and partying; think back, (if you can/dare 😉)
I just turned 38. This is 100% accurate. I miss my 20s. You don't have to be 40 to experiences the 40s part.
Yes! I am 41 and would rather be in my 40s. Just wish I looked like I did in my 20s lol. The quote “I wish I knew then what I know now “ rings true. I actually sleep very well but the pillow system is facts lol. Each era has his pros and cons. Just live out your life and have fun:)
I am 43 years old, I wouldn’t want to be 20 something ever again. I know so much more than I did, I am so much happier now.
I'm 39 and same.
Im in my 30s now, i hated my 20s the most.
45...same, except I wish I wasn't in pain and injure myself just doing chores.
Same! I was insecure and stupid in my 20's. Much happier and more comfortable in my own skin in my 40's, even with it being more saggy/wrinklier!
47 going on 48 here, wouldn't mind the body of my 25 year old self, but mentally, I'm ok with where I'm now.
What i found great about 30s and now 40s is that I no longer care so much what people think about how I look or what I'm wearing. I can go out without makeup and hair in a bun and I'm not worried who will see me that way
I’m in my late 20’s and already feel this way. I’m genuinely worried that by 40, I will be walking around naked, arguing with the police officer that tries to ticket me for indecent exposure.
Same
It might be a personal preference, I didnt care a whole lot once I was out of University but I care less about my clothes because minimalism, but it does have to fit right and I still love coloring my hair different colors. 😹
@Just Peachy definitely all of this. I never smoked. I hardly wore make-up and always took care of my skin. I'm turning 40 in May and people still think I look in my early 30s. Keep your skin nice it'll take you far!!
Yes! I used to do a full beat just to drive two blocks to the gas station lol I remember once in my early 20s, stopping by work to pick up my paycheck after spending the night & most of the next day in the hospital, & being MORTIFIED that my coworkers were seeing me without any makeup😭
“Oh look a flat surface, I can sleep here” LoL. Also having $22 in the bank account!! Yes I remember the days!
I’m in my mid-30’s and I’m loving it. I would never go back to those weird 20’s state (yes, 20’s are a state - of mind!)
Looking forward what’s next 🙂
Don’t know if anyone else is experiencing this but the need for glasses to read everything I pick up now reminds me of my mother holding everything at arms length trying to read it and then handing it to me and saying read this for me 😂
40's are great - I'm 55 now and am shocked every time some new part of my body hurts for no reason - in your 40's your body still feels good so enjoy them!
Early Arthritis. Between the dog across the street and myself, we can both tell when Bad Weather is coming.
It's actually quite possible to have aches and pains in your 40s, some even get them in their 30s. But it's definitely easier to get back in shape when you're young. Now it takes ages.
Perfect. Sharing quotes from dead writers (rather than pop bands) is another thing we do in our +40s. “Youth is the most precious thing in life; it is too bad it has to be wasted on young folks.” ~ George Bernard Shaw
I’m 22 and I relate to 40-year-old Kim more lol
Same haha
Yes, same! Should we be worried? 😅
I was already convinced that my true age is 40 instead of 25 and this video seals the deal
Same! Old souls:)
@@johannamckibben8575 possibly developing an autoimmune disease...
40s ARE great! Loved this video. So funny. Thanks for keepin' it real!
Lol accurate. Also in 20’s VS. 40’s I could laugh without fear of peeing myself. 🤣
Took my 14 yo and their friend to the museum yesterday. At exactly 2:30 PM, I needed a nap.
So true, can’t seem to function without nap time.
I never understood my parents needing naps back in the 80s and 90s. They seemed so old and weird to go to sleep in the middle of the day. But now that I'm over 40, I get it.
😂😂😂
Yes! Also need a daily nap when your pregnant... with 4 other kids 😉
I'm about to turn 50.
Isn't getting old FUN? 🤣
I sprained my neck on a pillow last night!
😂😂
😂😂This happened to me, and it lasted for weeks. I was on my way to hospital, because I thought something was seriously wrong. A woman 35 years my senior told me to take an IBU and rest.
@@cooldesert30 🤣🤣 OUCH! Crap. I just pulled à back muscle laughing at your comment! 😳🤪
How
I heard a saying once that said, you know you’re getting old when you get hurt sleeping!
The cargo shorts and new balance sneakers got me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Right before I watched this my husband came in from yard work in his cargo shorts and new balance shoes, and rawrrrrr
My husbands white new balance sneakers fell apart and I convinced him to buy different looking shoes because white new balance are such a turn off for me. :D
Hahaha this is soooo accurate, laughed my arse off at $20 for drinks and $2 for weekly expenses 😂
Oh God. This is so true. Especially the sleep thing: in the 20s, slept on a concrete floor one weekend. With just a sleeping bag. Now it's the fan, the white noise, the system of pillows....plus my husband is not able to sleep in our bed because he needs a mattress so firm I can't move the next day if I sleep on it. Also because once my pillow system is in place there's no room for him. And I also need a freezing cold room. With an open window. And a lot of blankets....which I throw off regularly because hot flashes ...
🤣 I can relate. I’m almost 60. I used to be a dancer. I even belly danced. I can still do it all as long as I have Advil 🤣🤣.
I was dating this guy last year and went to kiss him goodnight and threw my neck out.🤷🏾♀️ 40s, man...THE 40s!
Lol - I laughed hard at this one. This is too good
I snort laughed at that.
Lol..no wayyyyyy! How?i am trying to picture that and still unable to see it. But i am not doubting you
@@babybree175 I still don't know. But I guess at 40 you gotta stretch first before you do anything.
@@toshawhatareyoudoing6410 yep...I do, yoga and pilates help a lot too..
Once again, you guys nailed it hilariously! I am 58 and my 20s were in the 80s. My husband and I got married right out of college and had a blast for 10 years before we had kids. Lots of nights out for drinks after work and up at 5:30 the next morning no problem. Now I can barely keep my eyes open until 9 PM.
I turn 32 next week and this is ALREADY COMPLETELY ME! I’m laughing so hard because you are so on point!!! The two glasses of wine, the pillows, the dinner reservations at 8! I can’t even! I’m knocked out by 7:30. The pizza making u sick! The accuracy!!
Your skits are fun to watch. This one hits home
As in the song lyrics of Toby Keith: "My body says 'You can't do this boy', but my pride says 'Oh, yes you can.' ".
YES!!!°
My pride says I can, My body just laughs and laughs...
(not 40 though,60)
Okay but the pillow system.. I stack my pillows and I put pillows on either side of my head, and I have a fan and a white noise machine..
You might be 40 if...
(And I apparently steal hubby’s pillows but I deny it so shhh)
@@Mama_Bear524 Hubby has his own pillow system, and besides, they absolutely stink so nobody wants to even touch them but he refuses to replace them because he claims they're perfect just the way they are.
@@suzybear22 😂. Mine’s doesn’t stink but they do cuz they’re lavender and I hate that smell. If they move an inch “I took them and used them”. No I have my own million pillows. But maybe I do when we’re asleep 🤷♀️
Screw the pillow system and go for the “I’m now 50 and need an adjustable bed”
It's always sad when I run into people who used to be my age and see how old they have become I feel bad for them but nothing I can do
Vampire! Or young attractive person! ...Either way, burn them!!! 🔥 🔥 🔥
I know, right, man have they aged! 🤣
In our (early!) 50's my husband and I now have a saying: "What we used to do all day now takes us all day to do." Just wait. : nods knowingly :
LOL! just wait til your 60s!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I have lived an active life and my joints remind me every day! But what experiences I have had--and was blessed to be with the man I loved for 30 years. 😊
"Did I take my melatonin?" Omg, I literally asked myself that last night. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Oh, geez...clubbing until close during the week and getting to work the next day? That is the true super power of twenty year olds.
In my 20s I could go to a concert and get up and go to college or work. Now I have to take 2 days off to recover
I have watched this SO many times. It cracks me up every single time. Thank you :)
2:45 the sleeping routine had me creasing up! 😂😂
That's ridiculously relatable, certain pillows, humidifier / fan depending on weather and not even a tiny flicker of light allowed else I cannot sleep!
So different to catching some zzzz's in my car in my 20s! Couldn't do that now, not enough prep and too cold for my 44 year old bones.
In our 20's, $22 COULD get you thru the week! Back then, that was enough for a tank of gas, 3 beers at the bar and a pizza delivery! Those were the days!
In my early 20s I read a book where this quote stuck out to me:
"I overheard two women talking about how tired they were now they were over 40...I wanted to tell them enjoy it while it lasts I remember having so much energy in my 40s."
I decided that I was going appreciate what energy I had no matter what my age was. I have 5 kids and being pregnant and nursing and keeping toddlers alive is taxing. I am enjoying the stage we are in now even with covid craziness going on.
This speaks to me too! I'm 25 and I know some may roll their eyes at how could I possibly have the audacity to feel old but I really do and I'm really struggling. I'm not stupid and I know what I'm thinking is not true but I still think it and feel it for some reason. A few days I even kept thinking that I'm old and sick and dying so noone will marry me. I'm not joking, it's what I was genuinelly feeling even though I simultaneously knew it wasn't true and was ridiculous. And noone in my life ever perpetuated the notion that this is an old age to marry so I can't say I've been fed such thoughts at all. It's all me for some reason.
A few days ago I looked at myself in the mirror and was like ok insteas of looking at the fine lines and how the texture of my skin has changed recently why not look at all the youth in my face? So I did. And I saw I still have a very youthfull face. Then after some time I decided hey, why not enjoy my youthfull look while I still have it. Why fret over how my husband won't enjoy it (bcs in my head I'm nearly convinced I'll marry very late) which won't change that anyway and why not just enjoy it for myself now? Fretting over it doesn't change anything and I still have years left to enjoy it. Why not just let go and enjoy it.
I don't know why I have such strong emotions over things _I even know are not true,_ I'm working through it a bit and seeing where it comes from but I have a long way to go. I guess I just wanted to share. Let's enjoy what we have now because it's the best we can do anyway. Fretting over what we used to have or what is slipping way does nothing but it does however steal our joy of the present.
Yep 38 weeks preggo with #6 here. It is taxing but worth it!
@@essennagerry you're good. we call that being in out 20s lol. perfectly normal
I love your attitude!
Great job mom! It's taxing yet rewarding.
Oh my gosh I felt the sleeping on a deep level lol! No light whatsoever, specific pillows in specific places, fan on.... I feel so good to know it's not just me. =)
same 🙋♀️
Yall are hilarious!!!! I REALLY enjoy watching you guys!!
All the special stuff I need to fall asleep, and the 401k talk is so true, which makes it so funny!
The breaking ur bones one is so true. When I was 14 I broke a rib and I have never been in so much pain but I got through the entire thing without medical treatment. It literally hurt to breath for 6 months. But now I can barley lift a baby into a high chair because my back is killing me.
"I mean, she's not wrong" 😂😂😂
Those down votes are people in their 20's saying, "I'm never gonna be like that, Boomer."
😂 lol
"That's our parents. We are GEN X!"
NOT A BOOMER! - Arnold (well, Arnold is a Boomer, but need his accent)
@@AndiNewtonian Thus the mindset.
Gen X :-)
Kim, you are a fabulous comedienne! You make me laugh so much!
Lol great video. I’m 35 and still sleep on my hardwood floor sometimes to fix back aches. Does the trick every time. In fact when I do sleep in my bed, I can’t use a pillow. It hurts my neck.
Can we please talk about the pillowsystem!
Nobody understands me 😭
I need my pillows in a specific way!
And. Blanket has to be straight, correct weight and arms underneath. .and one foot out. Lol
Facts! I wake up to readjust at least 2-3 times a night or I can't sleep!
@Redheaded Stranger I have a cooling pillow..one side has cooling gel.!!
I build a pillow fort around me. It consists of 2 king size pillows, 1 regular size pillow and a body pillow. If I feel the need to sleep on my right side I have to wake up and move my pillows too. I hate it but it is needed to wake up ache and pain free.
And 60 is totally awesome. 5 years from retirement and hopefully traveling. God willing. Loved your video brought back great memories.
“You just have to give them pictures of your feet!” 😂
The “sleep system” was spot on for me!
Thank God I am not alone! Thank you for this!
I have to say, the tiny baby smartphone was my favorite part.
Looking forward to your future menopause videos. Oh yeah, your fifties are coming and it will make your forties seem like a Netflix binge night :) good times 👍
Lol you in your 40s sounds like me already being in my early 30s right now 😂
Same!
I am almost 25 and I am the 40 year old Kim :D :D
OMG, this is ALL so me! Especially the early bedtime, pillow system, and throwing out my back or dislocating a rib just by reaching for something. It reminds me of my favorite lines in the Chenille Sisters song, "Help! I'm Turning into My Parents" -- "On Friday nights I just collapse. My Happy Hour is a nap. I used to party, drink, and smoke; but now my body just says NOPE!!"
Extremely accurate! Relating to everything...
That person who disliked this, EXPLAIN YOURSELF
They felt personally attacked 🤣
Millennials were insulted
I thought this video is awesome!!!! Sorry you didnt
Never said I didn’t
Maybe they hit the button by mistake?
In his twenties, my dad's bed was the floor. Now he has a pillow system.
Same here.
I just turned 40 a couple of months ago and, yes, every day it feels like I get hit by a bag of hammers! My energy is gone and I can barely stay up passed midnight on a Friday night.
Wait till 50 🙁
@@marlam5371 oye!!
Relate! I think this man hit me extra hard because I am a mom to six kids: right now the youngest is 5, the oldest is 24. I had my first as at 18 years old and I gave birth to my baby when I was 38 )which is perfectly reasonable nowadays). But comparing the energy I had to parent when I had four kids before my 25th birthday and then, when I got remarried he and I had two children and they were born in my mid to late 30s just the energy is so hard; however I can definitely say I am a much wiser mother at this age (currently 42) BY FAR. I can sincerely say there is no right or wrong time to have a child every single age has its pros and cons but holy cow I am related to this video so so much I relate to like almost all your videos but this one was like whoa, well done.
The sleep one is for real!! 😆😆 This whole thing was spot on - lol
I'm almost 38. I hurt my neck in my sleep when I was 35, and had to sleep on the couch with three pillows just to be able to keep my neck from hurting for a week. My knees alternate days when they hurt, but I am almost to that stage where I don't give a hoot what people think of me. It truly is amazing.
I felt every bit of that (I was born the same year as Penn). Remember when being a child of the 80s was cool?
All I can say is, just wait till you hit your 60's! Enjoy those 40's while you can! Can't travel any more because the Hotels don't have the correct pillows for my pillow system, or the correct bed for that matter.
Just sent this to my friends. It’s truth…and I’m watching this because I can’t sleep. So nailed it.
as a 23 year old woman, I’m apparently actually in my 40s just without kids 😂
"reached for my coffee weird"
I tried to lie on my stomach to read in bed last night and then spent 5 minutes writhing around trying to get rid of the side stitch. You turn 30 and it's like your body flips the lights - closing in 10, heads up - and then at 40, your body goes "Okay, so we're agreed, this one's had their chance to spread their genes, let's shut 'er down."
So true! I remember suits my pediatric residency (ages 26-29) being completely content to lay down on the conference library table for a 20 minute nap Because that’s all the sleep I might get in 36 hours
The "all you have to do is send in a picture of your feet." Had me rolling. However I have to say even in my 20s I didn't like living somewhere sketchy. Maybe cause my mom made me paranoid. The horror stories of being found dead in a ditch somewhere.
I’m 28 and I identify 100% with the 40s one 😆 Also that tiny phone is hilarious! That’s the main thing I miss about my early twenties hahaha
😂 so true. I was recently wondering if there was something wrong with me. Thanks for normalizing the transition!