i sometimes feel like in a loop -->why are you doing a job -->to get a flat near my office and a car --> why do you need a car and flat --> to go to job
They should not buy in Hyd. They should buy a house in their home town at 1/3 price and the stay in rent at hyd. Yearly rent would cost around 2.5-3.25 lakh.
Unfortunately, majority of the people will not take this comment seriously and dissolve into typical Indian emotional buying to boast of their success (on loan)
Things get worse for women. Not only we have to juggle with child care & job, corporate doesn’t appreciate working mothers. 30’s is very hard for both sexes. Corporates buy you. And for 24 hours you have to slog - leaving you no time for family or personal life. And when you are denying client meetings / meetings post office hours they’ll just ask you to resign on performance issues.
Or you should say, " they will make you resign anyhow." And yes a married woman will definitely go through trouble in corporate. It's no wonder that more than 50 per cent woman have left their corporate jobs in past few years.
My question to working mommies - Why are you even doing jobs if your husbands does? Please respect the Mother Nature who has assigned us jobs, as a woman you should be responsible for home welfare and your child wellbeing. Working is never encouraged for woman. Please don't tell for money sake you mommies are working. Compromising your values for the sake of money is no less than a animal. Please resign your jobs and look after your child and aspire you children future. Bye
@@polyglot8946what if she is not respected well by her husband and always cling on her husband for buying things which she wants.. children should be looked after by both male and female.its not only the duty of a mother but also the father 's responsibility who brought the child to this world
I guess work culture in india has to change. Its not the expectation raise as you grow experience wise. Let the person be individual contributor if the person wants. Let the meetings be minimal and fruitful. Change from a mentality of deliver more to the client and set the realistic deadlines and expectations. Manage the time well in office. Transition from people management to technical management. Let hr focus more on employee well being strategies and required trainings needed personal and professional..these are just my thoughts and not blaming anyone anything
Only fools make this mistake to buy a flat near your office, your office is not permanent, so buy house wherever you find good environment and affordable price. Never buy a house if you can't spent upto 30% on emi
Exactly relatable...we don't know how long we will stay in this city then how can we buy the house in one city and live another city on rent. It's a tough decision to take in life...where to settle down.
I too follow same....as contract employee/ consultant you are open to work anywhere and rich in you experience rather than working for same organization for long term just for stability purpose and feeling insecure all the time . This fixed mindset cause all personal issue in terms of " stability"
Is contracting so easy? If the contract ends.., it will take min 1-2 months to find the new role. And how much is it popular in India as compared to the Americas? Also.., a full timer enjoys more benefits than a contractor.
Propose viable solutions for people who will move around for work and children's education will take them to different places. Settling down in any one place is a luxury these days.
Influencers like you have helped this balloon and today you ask to talk about these things in the forefront. Strange paradox, you get to always Create content and keep adding to the confusion without a real solution.
The problem is same when the family members start talking of family planning and you are concerned of your career stability so that you can afford raising a child in a healthy manner.
Wait till 35 years old and career fully secure before having first child. Without proper finances the family life you start early will suffer and be damaged.
Harsh reality of today.. The current set of jobs are not like the one's our father's had... They are not stable to begin with and no clarity on which way the wind will be flowing tomorrow.
@@rejectionistmanifesto8836 It's the other way round. By 40-45 your career in IT is almost over. Have your children by max 32-35 yrs. Only then while you're actively earning you can afford most of their education. My father was 36 when I was born. But his work sector is more like - the older you are the better you earn. At 65 his work/income is more secure than my IT job at 28.
Thanks for this reel..I thought I am the only one going through such a confusion. I finally abandoned my plan to buy a house and decided to stay on rent for ever.
baat to sahi hai pr sbka apna apna hisab hai koyi rent me rehta hai koyi flate me rehta h 2bhk me depend krta h sb lekin sb job krte hai koyi nh chorta agr option nh h to option h to chor ke jao aur enjoy kro hm to it me enjoy kr rahe .... mehnat to hr jagah hai bhai chahe it ho ya na ho
Stop chasing money and choose a well balanced work even if it pays a little less. Im 9+ years experienced with 17 lpa in Kolkata, i have wfh and my work life balance is good. Im doing this by compromising on getting a high salary job in other cities.
Facing similar problem right now , I can relate this video. You can’t have straight talk with your manager or CEO as he or she has more laws compared to employees because Employees don’t have much more work or responsibilities as compared to & CEO . Unfortunately this is harsh reality.
All sector have become like this.Even if the company is good some seniors make sure middle management and junior work everyday.without holidays and leaves
That why I stop selling properties to working professional ... They take a loan , sign their life away and I know for a fact that nothing remain secure it's heartbreaking
Why does he want a 1.25 crore flat. Buy a 50-60 lakh 2 BHK, little away from the office. Stop paying rent and move to that flat. After a few years if you want to move to another city give it on rent. Financial Planning is important.
Government should make law against corporate harrasment, work life balance should be mandatory and balanced workforce should be mandatory as taxes, what I meant by balanced workforce? I mean there should not independence in companies such as adani group to hire less employers to cut cost and make them work their a.. off, infact government should set numbers of workforce according to revenue of the company to promote work life balance...
Middle class should invest in properties and sell it off within 18-20 months. The investment should be done with the help of debt (loans). post 18-20 months, you sell it with atleast a 20 lacs profit (after the interest). This is one of the best ways to invest in properties Note : You should have a place to stay. Capital appreciation would be more for premium builders.
Happy to see that someone suggesting the same thing which I am currently doing. Been buying 3-4 cent plots in tier3 cities from last few years. (No house and flat). Will continue buying plots for next 5 years and at one point will sell these plots and buy a 12-15 cents single plot in a prime area in tier 2 city and will build apartment. Hoping for the best.
Pavan is bringing a problem statement, no worries he may have a workshop in his paid app, Inquisitive mind for 299/month, through which he may give some paid solution😂
Because of medical issues I was wfh 3 weeks also provided medical certificate then too management put me on performance basis and laid off. It happened in IBM I went office without wfh and without any leaves even if wasn't well still they didn't improve PIP plan.
Do u pple not have house in the city also or are u guys from another state ? Because i live currently in the city and i have friends who go to hitech city using metro so they’re practically saving their entire salaries
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Banking jobs or corporate job konsa better h Mai v fascinate ho rhi tech jobs dekh ke mujhe kya krna chyia avi Mai b com 2nd year me hu mai plzzz anyone help me
I taken a loan of about 1.5 lakh for a business, i lost the bussiness and i even not fetting the job, i am cery tense as bank are going to torture me for their money and my situation is worse i lost my confidence, and spirit and my age is 24 years.
I had been in same situation a year back. Decided not to buy home at all in any city. I will be cash rich without loan burden. Will move to city wherever we get roles. These houses are meant for NRIs not for common man in India even if u earn 24 lakhs today
So this guy want to live near office…buy a 1.25 CR house from a A+ builder.. does not want to take additional responsibilities in office.. does not want to compromise on family time and want flexibility in re location… wah..it seems money will grow on tree.. 😁
This is the thing i have been saying. Corporate jobs just like few yrs. We keep draining, stressfull jobs. Do not get tied up to loans for flat. Life is much important than merely jobs. Just do whatever you are interested
Your friend should learn how to stand his ground and not be a push over. If my manager or CEO does that with me, I quickly say "Offcourse I will do it. Matter of fact I have been doing it already. Now that you have brought up this topic, let's discuss on new componsation considering these additional responsibilities". Then I enjoy watching them trying to change the topic. If you would be a push over in this world, others will fully utilise your vulnerability.
i sometimes feel like in a loop
-->why are you doing a job
-->to get a flat near my office and a car
--> why do you need a car and flat
--> to go to job
is rent out of context?
How about being able to afford a life and survival
This is life..if not.. no respect .. we feel demotivated keep Grinding on and embrace it..stop seeing such ig reels
They should not buy in Hyd. They should buy a house in their home town at 1/3 price and the stay in rent at hyd. Yearly rent would cost around 2.5-3.25 lakh.
200% true and sensible comment.
Rents also increased now .
But they need WFH for that
Absolutely right
Unfortunately, majority of the people will not take this comment seriously and dissolve into typical Indian emotional buying to boast of their success (on loan)
this channel is far better than bhaiya/didi's channel for reality check
Why can't we have robust employee laws in India?
Govt is too busy doing faltu things that's why
Govt is pro companies. I think this election they are going to get a shock result
@@MrAmitkr007 strangely they won't lose..
Our country people have to suffer for more 5yrs and then they will realize what evil they were brewing
Because capitalists and politicians are working together, they care about each other not about common people
Yeah, there must be.
Things get worse for women. Not only we have to juggle with child care & job, corporate doesn’t appreciate working mothers. 30’s is very hard for both sexes. Corporates buy you. And for 24 hours you have to slog - leaving you no time for family or personal life. And when you are denying client meetings / meetings post office hours they’ll just ask you to resign on performance issues.
Or you should say, " they will make you resign anyhow." And yes a married woman will definitely go through trouble in corporate. It's no wonder that more than 50 per cent woman have left their corporate jobs in past few years.
So true
My question to working mommies - Why are you even doing jobs if your husbands does? Please respect the Mother Nature who has assigned us jobs, as a woman you should be responsible for home welfare and your child wellbeing. Working is never encouraged for woman. Please don't tell for money sake you mommies are working. Compromising your values for the sake of money is no less than a animal. Please resign your jobs and look after your child and aspire you children future. Bye
Agree and it is more appreciated for handling both.but on the other side we get dual earning benifits with the sacrifice..
@@polyglot8946what if she is not respected well by her husband and always cling on her husband for buying things which she wants.. children should be looked after by both male and female.its not only the duty of a mother but also the father 's responsibility who brought the child to this world
I guess work culture in india has to change. Its not the expectation raise as you grow experience wise. Let the person be individual contributor if the person wants. Let the meetings be minimal and fruitful. Change from a mentality of deliver more to the client and set the realistic deadlines and expectations. Manage the time well in office. Transition from people management to technical management. Let hr focus more on employee well being strategies and required trainings needed personal and professional..these are just my thoughts and not blaming anyone anything
Sounded like my story.. Add to that we are a single income household😢
Only fools make this mistake to buy a flat near your office, your office is not permanent, so buy house wherever you find good environment and affordable price.
Never buy a house if you can't spent upto 30% on emi
Traffic mei aap struggle karlo phir
Small rented flat is okay
Total BS. They want you to go techno when you are Ops. They want you to go Ops when you are Techno. Capitalism.
Simple. Don't buy the house 😅
Hyderabad is overrated, purchasing a 2 bhk for 1 cr is ridiculous
I thought only Mumbai has this problem 💀💀💀
Even Bengaluru
All metro cities have similar value 😂
Yes hyderabad real estate became very expensive like Bangalore, Mumbai . With job uncertainty in IT people have to be cautious...
Great content
True for all employees
OMG.. you have hit the nail hard ! This dilemma is with most of IT professionals on the city.
Exactly relatable...we don't know how long we will stay in this city then how can we buy the house in one city and live another city on rent.
It's a tough decision to take in life...where to settle down.
The situation is worse in Mumbai and Bangalore
It is better to go with contractual roles just incase like the market is down as now, its better, can become fte if everything goes well in company.
I too follow same....as contract employee/ consultant you are open to work anywhere and rich in you experience rather than working for same organization for long term just for stability purpose and feeling insecure all the time .
This fixed mindset cause all personal issue in terms of " stability"
Is contracting so easy? If the contract ends.., it will take min 1-2 months to find the new role. And how much is it popular in India as compared to the Americas? Also.., a full timer enjoys more benefits than a contractor.
True for most IT professionals
Propose viable solutions for people who will move around for work and children's education will take them to different places. Settling down in any one place is a luxury these days.
Influencers like you have helped this balloon and today you ask to talk about these things in the forefront.
Strange paradox, you get to always Create content and keep adding to the confusion without a real solution.
100% great source of truth
Appricate bringing these
Indeed a good discussion
Exactly.. not abt buying house but all other things u mentioned abt corporate job during our mid life is soo true.
does everybody faces the same thing in their 30s sir...i am a fresher i want your insight sir ...and your guidance
You are not wrong. I think everyone struggles with this. Money doesn't replace happiness 😢
The problem is same when the family members start talking of family planning and you are concerned of your career stability so that you can afford raising a child in a healthy manner.
Wait till 35 years old and career fully secure before having first child. Without proper finances the family life you start early will suffer and be damaged.
@@rejectionistmanifesto8836Isn't that too late ? (Biologically)
@@srikrishna2561 better to be bit late than early and ruin the child and family life with financial problems causing destroyed family.
Harsh reality of today.. The current set of jobs are not like the one's our father's had... They are not stable to begin with and no clarity on which way the wind will be flowing tomorrow.
@@rejectionistmanifesto8836 It's the other way round. By 40-45 your career in IT is almost over. Have your children by max 32-35 yrs. Only then while you're actively earning you can afford most of their education.
My father was 36 when I was born. But his work sector is more like - the older you are the better you earn. At 65 his work/income is more secure than my IT job at 28.
Many people are not willing to marry because of same reasons
Thanks for this reel..I thought I am the only one going through such a confusion. I finally abandoned my plan to buy a house and decided to stay on rent for ever.
What goes around comes around 😂.
Better to become a monk 😇
Thankyou for bringing this up..
baat to sahi hai pr sbka apna apna hisab hai koyi rent me rehta hai koyi flate me rehta h 2bhk me depend krta h sb lekin sb job krte hai koyi nh chorta agr option nh h to option h to chor ke jao aur enjoy kro hm to it me enjoy kr rahe .... mehnat to hr jagah hai bhai chahe it ho ya na ho
Stop chasing money and choose a well balanced work even if it pays a little less. Im 9+ years experienced with 17 lpa in Kolkata, i have wfh and my work life balance is good. Im doing this by compromising on getting a high salary job in other cities.
Your educational qualifications ? Mba?
Yes,where should we bring it up ?
This is universal pblm
Facing similar problem right now , I can relate this video.
You can’t have straight talk with your manager or CEO as he or she has more laws compared to employees because Employees don’t have much more work or responsibilities as compared to & CEO .
Unfortunately this is harsh reality.
Exactly the same situation..
Same thing is happening with me 😔😔😔😔 now
Very true!
All sector have become like this.Even if the company is good some seniors make sure middle management and junior work everyday.without holidays and leaves
That why I stop selling properties to working professional ... They take a loan , sign their life away and I know for a fact that nothing remain secure it's heartbreaking
Why does he want a 1.25 crore flat.
Buy a 50-60 lakh 2 BHK, little away from the office.
Stop paying rent and move to that flat.
After a few years if you want to move to another city give it on rent.
Financial Planning is important.
We can't relly on corporate
It is not that bad. OK, And 10 KM away from Offices He could have got a good 2bhk for 70 lakhs.
Which location?
Government should make law against corporate harrasment, work life balance should be mandatory and balanced workforce should be mandatory as taxes, what I meant by balanced workforce? I mean there should not independence in companies such as adani group to hire less employers to cut cost and make them work their a.. off, infact government should set numbers of workforce according to revenue of the company to promote work life balance...
We all know the problem.. what's the solution?
Middle class should invest in properties and sell it off within 18-20 months. The investment should be done with the help of debt (loans). post 18-20 months, you sell it with atleast a 20 lacs profit (after the interest). This is one of the best ways to invest in properties
Note : You should have a place to stay. Capital appreciation would be more for premium builders.
Happy to see that someone suggesting the same thing which I am currently doing.
Been buying 3-4 cent plots in tier3 cities from last few years. (No house and flat). Will continue buying plots for next 5 years and at one point will sell these plots and buy a 12-15 cents single plot in a prime area in tier 2 city and will build apartment. Hoping for the best.
Yes. Correct, it's a common problem. How to bring to common forum and solve them ?
Pavan is bringing a problem statement, no worries he may have a workshop in his paid app, Inquisitive mind for 299/month, through which he may give some paid solution😂
so true
It seems the property dealer is earning more than IT
No questions
What is the solution for this situation, should we start our own firm
Beautiful couple ❤❤
Because of medical issues I was wfh 3 weeks also provided medical certificate then too management put me on performance basis and laid off. It happened in IBM
I went office without wfh and without any leaves even if wasn't well still they didn't improve PIP plan.
Do u pple not have house in the city also or are u guys from another state ?
Because i live currently in the city and i have friends who go to hitech city using metro so they’re practically saving their entire salaries
That's why people want GOVT, jobs
Solution.??
Boy, I didn’t understand a thing you just said.
Didi, kahani sunke dil baith gaya 🥺 maa us bachhi ko takad de, aage ki jindgi k liye prerana de. Darinde us ki self worth nahi decide karte, maa ki aankho me aap ki self worth hai. 🙏🪔 Aap ko kaise donate kare, didi? 🙏Maa aap ko bahot shakti aur suraksha de 🙏 jai bhagvati 🙌 om namah shivay 🪔
Banking jobs or corporate job konsa better h Mai v fascinate ho rhi tech jobs dekh ke mujhe kya krna chyia avi Mai b com 2nd year me hu mai plzzz anyone help me
Job h to problem nahi h to problem admi kare kya
More working hours are the reason, no one want do job, do own small business is much better if no working hours will be in job
Literally you can't do anything of it😢
I taken a loan of about 1.5 lakh for a business, i lost the bussiness and i even not fetting the job, i am cery tense as bank are going to torture me for their money and my situation is worse i lost my confidence, and spirit and my age is 24 years.
Same plus my bai is hot n expensive
💯
People are fear in making IT career
I had been in same situation a year back. Decided not to buy home at all in any city. I will be cash rich without loan burden. Will move to city wherever we get roles. These houses are meant for NRIs not for common man in India even if u earn 24 lakhs today
Even if you are earning 45 lpa you can't afford land in a residential locality in any major city. Just meant for polititians, celebrities and NRI
Is simple dont have children
Flats in kokapet
So this guy want to live near office…buy a 1.25 CR house from a A+ builder.. does not want to take additional responsibilities in office.. does not want to compromise on family time and want flexibility in re location… wah..it seems money will grow on tree.. 😁
This rat race only Modi can stop.
Rent and invest.
Why we want to buy home be on rent go back to native after your life
Hounde charcha... Nako nantar morcha
Not interested
This is the thing i have been saying. Corporate jobs just like few yrs. We keep draining, stressfull jobs. Do not get tied up to loans for flat. Life is much important than merely jobs. Just do whatever you are interested
What about job in allianz ust and othet big mnc,?
Your friend should learn how to stand his ground and not be a push over.
If my manager or CEO does that with me, I quickly say "Offcourse I will do it. Matter of fact I have been doing it already. Now that you have brought up this topic, let's discuss on new componsation considering these additional responsibilities".
Then I enjoy watching them trying to change the topic.
If you would be a push over in this world, others will fully utilise your vulnerability.