lies you've been told about college admissions.
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- Опубліковано 10 чер 2024
- i hope this video is helpful. not just as advice for future applicants, but for those who already survived the process. college admissions are a messy process at the elite level, so i hope this video can be help reframe your mindset. colleges can't tell you whether you are "good enough." you will always be a valuable and worthy human.
getting rejected doesn't make you lesser than. getting in doesn't make you superior. take it from someone who got into a fancy name school, and who knows many fantastic people who didn't and crappy people who did.
anyways, good luck with college applications to any current high school students. and to all, good luck with your future educational endeavors!
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1:17 be yourself
2:55 hard work = admissions success
6:43 personal qualities are what's really important
9:01 polish your essays to perfection
10:15 be well-rounded
12:01 people who worked hard to go to a state school wasted their time
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As a non-American, seeing how much work you guys have to do very young to get into college ON TOP of paying exorbitant fees that result in a lifetime of debt.. seems like insult to injury having to write a motivational essay after taking out a 100k loan to get in.
That system is more than strange!
A lifetime of debt AND then a so called prestigious job (doctor, lawyer...) that gives you 65 hours of work per week (minimum) driving you into burnout. Congrats 😂
I think she is talking about applying for scholarships that don't require any fees
@@lana.notdelray_dh She’s talking about getting into top 20 colleges in the US (with or without any scholarships)
@@biancahagenberg7471 Most don’t have a lifetime of debt. Specifically doctors, they do pay exorbitant amounts of course fees but they also have exorbitant salaries right out of medical/ dental school
“Hopefully none of us base our lives around what looks best on college applications.” Sophomore-sr year me: 👁 👄 👁
Same :'D
yeah :')
felt that, time to play 2 sports i don’t like and look at an interesting volunteering place as soon as i get my driver’s license 😀 can’t wait
@Dancing Chara it's not really volunteering then
dude me sophmore yr rn
As a rather jaded 40-year-old, may I just say that a LOT of this information also applies to when you finally leave school and jump into the crazy world of full-time employment. It doesn't matter what field you apply to or work in - these same myths you have introduced are also perpetuated in the job application and interview process within the corporate world.
Except - maybe change "essays" to "cover letters" (man, I how I hate writing cover letters...).
Very true. I'm especially reminded of the infamous "what's your weakness" question at interviews. That is not the moment for authenticity and honesty. That is the moment to sell yourself as the candidate they should choose so tread carefully with how you answer yet sound natural. So much in life is about playing a role. Once you're out in the full time work real world, you see how the best employee isn't necessarily the one getting raises or being treated better.
@@XSemperIdem5 do you know where I can pay someone to write me a script for job application
@@XSemperIdem5 would you mind writing some examples of answers to the question “what’s your weakness?”
@@Moonsapphire419 like “I’m a perfectionist” kind of stuff... probably it’s very cliche to employers but it’s a safe answer
@@Moonsapphire419 Generally you want to play it safe "not a flaw" type answer or you want to do the influencer "flaw, but not a critical one" type answer. My experience on the other side is that to impress me the most, it's generally the "non-critical flaw that you can show you're actively working on resolving" answer, because it's very rare to come upon.
12:18 “why would you be watching study advice videos if you weren’t an academic tryhard” thanks for calling me out :’)
i knew hot tea was coming when i saw the big 'be yourself' strikeout.
(also this kind of advice leads to a very rude reality check when you realise everyone thinks your real self is socially unacceptable 😔)
The real self being unacceptable part hits home for me. I have to hide my true self from people, because if I don't, I will be heavily judged by others. I am on the autism spectrum by the way
@maskedst totally off topic but I love ur venti pfp
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My mom always says "be your BEST self" (the socially acceptable parts that we have control over) like at your job, and save your whole true self for your family and friends. Thinking about it that way sounds better to me at least. :)
learned that at a young age :(
about that last point:
If you're accepted into a prestigious school but choose to go to a more middle tier school, you're going to have a significantly easier time. I got into UCLA but opted for UCSB (which is still a great, competitive school) and it's nice not being Pre-med student #250 out of 14000.
you're also going to stand out more!
Can someone please explain this?
@@suprajasaravanan6500 At many public universities in the United States, you are competing not against some arbitrary metric, but against the next best student. If everyone does very bad on a test, but you perform exceptionally, the curve often reflects that. So, if you go to a super prestigious school, you will be surrounded by lots of other big brained geniuses, making it hard to stand out both in terms of grades and relationships with professors. At a less competitive school, you will stand out more and have more time for internships, work experience, research opportunities, etc. because you don’t need to spend as much time studying.
@@coolfool183 but does it help when you're trying to be an expert in a field?I mean most of the best ones are probably studying in top tier schools and it really gives you a chance to know where you stand,doesn't it?
@@aryanbista747 Not necessarily if you're stressing out too much over the competition.
The “well-rounded with a spike” concept was the best piece of advice I ever received about college admissions
sooo I was rejected from 17 schools. and let me tell you my extracurriculars : ranked top 10 in my state in a sport. top 5% in my school throughout 9,10,11,12. founder/CEO of an app, which connects teens and elderly. and many more. but I could not pay more than 2000 usd per year. I'm going to a top school in india now :)
Hii.... Which clg do u go to? IIT???
Cool! Are you living near extended family?
Going to a top Indian school sounds great!
@@lalitaneeharika6327 nope, aiims :)
@@ayemaeyalit3354 yes! I was preparing for NEET in junior and senior years of HS!
I love this video because so many big name, millions of followers youtubers push the “i got here because i worked myself into the ground” sentiment which is both encouraging a TERRIBLE mindset and not entirely true
totally agree :)
As a junior, going to be a senior, I'm so glad I clicked on this video and that it came out now. I've been stressing so much with college applications and the idea of paying debt for an education, that alot of other countries pay for. So seeing what's a myth is so important for me to see.
samee!! honestly i’m just really nervous for applying to college
@@Veronica-et3vp ugh, me too!!
same I’m going to spend two years at a community college to get the general stuff out of the way for much cheaper and boost my academic portfolio since i tanked the covid year then transfer to a university
2022 gang ☺
"Be yourself" actually doesn't apply to anything well, not just college admissions. Either you're what other people already like, in which case the advice is useless, or else you aren't, and then it's harmful to you. Be yourself as much as circumstances allow, sure, but realize people are generally pretty narrow-minded, and plan accordingly.
Im in middle school. First year. And already, within the first week, they showed up this “beast mode” video which finished with, “Don’t sleep when youre tired, sleep when youre done.” The video basically just told us that if we didnt spend every minuted going towards success, then we were pathetic and would fail in life. So if anyone else had to watch that, DONT LISTEN TO IT
You must live in Korea or Japan LOL
“A river cuts through rock not because of its power but because of its persistence.”
I'll comment as someone in their mid 30s (oh gawd I feel old just typing that). I finished my schooling seevral years ago, grad school included. Back when I applied to universities the college counselor was clearly biased and would treat UCs as the goal schools and CSUs as the backup schools. I turned down a UC and opted to attend a CSU because it had the program I truly wanted. And flash forward to me taking a psychopharmacology course in grad school for fun (yes, the actual psych majors looked at me like I was crazy when I said I wanted to take that course yet they were only taking it as a requirement). My professor was offered a position at UCLA and was invited to observe the UCLA version of our course. When she returned she knocked down the page requirement on our paper and said the UCLA version was so much easier. Ultimately she accepted the position at UCLA because it allowed her to assign a grad student to teach many of her courses, allowing her to focus her time on research instead. I got to learn directly from an expert in her field who routinely worked on research for the government and major pharmaceutical companies, while the UCLA students got a grad student teaching the course. That's something people don't routinely bring up about UCs. Apply to a school that has a program you truly want and don't get caught up in the whole prestige part. Remember that what you need is a program that will prepare you to work in your field of choice.
I had a similar experience! My CSU professors were all PROFESSORS and when I went to a private *prestigious* grad school I was rarely taught by the professor whose name was attached to the course. I also realized recently my class sizes at the CSU were typically much smaller and more personal than my friends classes who went to Berkeley, UCSD, etc.
However, I would say the college>career guidance seemed to be more visible at Berkeley/other UCs than at my school. You had to know where to look.
"be yourself" is actually the stupidest thing I've heard as advice for getting into the college you want.
i'm an incoming sophomore but yeah, i'd still watch this because iTS JASMINEEEE
hahah im an incoming freshman but i still watch these videos from jasmine!!
samee
I'm not even in the US & am not planning to apply to US colleges but i am watching all of Jasmine's college experience videos.. 😂
I don't even live in the US, we get into schools based solely on grades or an admissions test. Nothinv she says applies to me but I still watch 😅
@@shar0ndipity2009 same 😂
I’m a rising senior and college applications are one of my biggest fears this coming year >~
Sameee i have been worried about it since freshmen year
me too! i wish i had a buddy who i could talk to about this
saaame
@@thequeertelope7941 i now literally go talk to random people about it lol
@@AdhamZaky Same lol
obviously i haven't seen the whole video yet, the video being uploaded a minute ago, but these videos help so much because my parents didn't go to college and everyone around me is like "well you know more than i do!" well i'm a 17 year old child doing this for the first time so i really don't??
anyways my point is thank you so much for all your hard work :)
Wow ur same as ne im kinda lost too both of my parents didn't go to college and here I am being 18 and still confused about college
It's great that y'all are being proactive, Jasmine has super helpful resources:)
me toooo
Same, glad that Internet exists!
same both my parents never went to university so anything about university kinda overwhelmes them so youtube is the only resource i hv for university admissions related topics.
SIS REALLY DO BE CALLING OUT THE AMERICAN EDUCATION SYSTEM!
and we stan her for that.
"can you buy me a house in la so I can not pay for rent in westwood" 😂
But literally though, West LA is actually so expensive
I’d be curious to know what your take is on elite schools vs. other colleges when it comes to opportunities and quality of education. You touched on it a little at the end, but I’d love to hear some stats and actual comparisons about schools and success rates. There are so many factors that go into school choices and elite schools aren’t for everyone, even people who are very driven and hope to pursue academic careers.
Checkout the first chapter in "It's the Student Not the College". It has a bunch of statistics and data points on Ivy league's vs other schools. It's also just a cool book
There were long-term studies that followed grads of Ivies/ brand name schools vs. state schools, etc. and found that those with especially STEM majors made similar salaries; basically no difference. A friend of mine is a Harvard grad and he works for FedEx as a driver. Not in-between jobs but his regular job he's had for yrs.
I would love to have seen this before I started freshman year. Based my entire high school career to hopefully to get into a Ivy League. I didn’t though and it did feel like all the work I put in was a waste. I wish I could have have gone out more throughout high school( mixture of studies and micro managing parents)but now I’ll definitely be enjoying my time in Hoboken!!
Are you going to Stevens??
@@Yuki-jv3jp YES SIRRRR😩🥳
“Hopefully none of us base our entire lives around what looks best on college applications.”
Oops
HAHAHA FR
Biggest regret in HS was focusing all my energy on studies and being antisocial. Wish I tried more things and broke out of my shell more. I was #1 in my class but just dropped out of college because I hated it (and the panorama) and I've never been more happy and free in my life. When your life revolves around something that is literally a social construct that doesn't really effect life over all (cough grades) it is the most freeing thing to step back and not be burdened by it. Of course now the only burden I have is being able to pay the bills haha. Also BIG judgement coming from everyone I went to HS. Every time someone asks me "how's college?" I'm like oh I dropped out, and it's like the biggest shock for them. But I'm happy and you have to decide what path is right for you.
me about to be a freshman in high school already watching stuff about going to college: 💃✨
haha i'm the same
samme
welp too real same yall
Your ahead of the game !
dude i’m going to 7th lol
I don't even live in the USA and not going to enter college there but I still watch this bc everything is so interesting and Jasmine is awesome ;)
I'm a little older at 23 but I finally just graduated from my local community college (took so long bc of health stuff) and will be transferring to UC Davis soon. Originally I had felt pretty sad about not getting into my top school, Berkeley, but this video actually helped me in regards to my feelings of inadequacy and inferiority!! And Davis is still an amazing school, we're just so surrounded by the fake magic of ✨the elite✨
It literally makes me itch all over thinking that in the States admissions are choosen reading about what a person participated in on high school, what race they are, literally everything about ones life. In my country you have to get the best grade you can in school overall and then do the exams (which are national and the same for everyone) that each degree and university require. Then, a computer program takes these grades, puts them in order (from higher to lower), and will autonomosly figure if you enter or not. No one knows at the time of admission what's your race, where you live, what you've done... The universities are simply sent the data of the people that were accepted after this process.
As someone who works for a selective college - the more time I spend the more I see how these elements are pointed out to me and it's just baffling. Love this video
as an almost sophmore in high school; im glad i know this now, rather than once ive started college.
Me too. I'm stressing out a lot, even though I'm just about to go to 10th grade.
-BE YOURSELF-
"don't"
My life is a frikin lie...
I'm so glad I am not going to a traditional university, its just not worth all the debt. Also I feel traditional university is not for me, since testing is all they care about and thats annoying.
Thank you for being honest and not sugarcoating things. I also appreciate that you are humble.
yo ok the last one is pretty common where I live especially in the brown community so I'm so glad that was brought up
Exceptional. Seen many videos about vollege admissios. This was ones of the best!
As a Spaniard, where most ppl (everyone who's not rich) go to public universities, this sounds like a movie for me
Also, it costs around 700€-1500€ a year and most people get scholarships so we have to pay nearly nothing
Perfect timing when I am just thinking what college admission is like being an literally average grader
Growing older and going into college things and applications this video really helped. Including how when you get out you have to pay and classes, etc.
I really really needed to hear your last point about the value of working hard in high school, even if you don't go to an elite college. With this whole application cycle coming up, the reassurance that my work wasn't worthless, regardless of where I end up, is a huge relief :*)
totally agree about the superiority and inferiority thing...🥺🥺 sometimes you get compared for no reason like your trash🥺🥺
the timestamps that you organize your vids into make me so happy
they're so convenient and sm easier to watch!!!
yep that 19 years old depression... relatable, girl, relatable
You literally never miss wow! I appreciate how you talked about new things and not just the same five cliches. Also, you look gorgeous with eyeliner aw
Most students in my high school thought that I would be going to a university but I went to a community college.
Financially worth it
Your bank account thanks you. I heard that community colleges have the best value.
I turned down UCSB in favor of CSULA because it had the program that I truly wanted and had actual connections to my field. I never cared about the prestige of the university, only that it served its purpose for my degree goal.
I remember how during the application process the college counselor at my high school basically said UC was always better and CSU schools were just backup schools. Such antiquated views.
@@XSemperIdem5 i really love this type of mentality.
I want to go to a community college for two yr then transfer out, but my mon wants me to go to a name brand college and university.
I graduated in 2016 but I watch Jasmine because I find her presence comforting and her voice relaxing.
I got rejected from my dream school, and unfortunately believed in all of these myths up until now!!
I'm so glad to have come across this video and finally feel better about myself after months! Thank you, Jasmine! ♡♡
Queen is back! I have been watching since I was a high school junior and now iam a college sophomore you videos have helped me so me so much
This made me feel a lot better about college apps
i havent done college admissions in YEAAAARS but its definitely a time i do not miss at all
At the end of the day. No matter what school you go to, you still get the piece of paper at the end.
i know this will be a great video, because you made it! this is really helpful for me because i’m going into college next year and i want to prepare, thank you
"i know college season can be rough, congrats to those of you that just survied it and are now going off to collage soon," Me a fresh out elementary student 👁 👄 👁
I’m not going to college for a while but enjoy these vids so here we are
i’m applying to colleges in the fall, thank you for this advice :D
All of my friends going to prestigious schools with scholarships:
Me: 🤡
As a current freshman in a fairly selective college, I agreed with every single one of the points you've made here. Even when I disagreed with the statement at first, you would then bring up my exact thoughts a minute later. Great video!
thankyou so much for all of your recent educational videos jasmine!! i absolutely love ur content 💗🥺
Currently a senior writing my college essays. Thanks for the tips, especially the one about over polishing your essays. I think I was doing that, as my mom was looking over my essays and had a lot to say😭 maybe it’s okay if they’re a little imperfect
As someone who went to one of the best high schools in America, most of what we are taught about education and life is incredibly false. It's just easier than telling kids the truth.
Yeah, going to one of top 10 Highschools in the country, there’s so much expectation for us to get into the best of the best schools, even if we have to go into debt
about to be a senior, thank you💜 I needed this (really need to get started on my common app)
JASMINE U LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL AS ALWAYS 🥺❤️
to be honest I’m only really aiming for top tier schools cause it’s one of the few schools that would give me a full paid tuition with the generous amount financial aid they have sormtimes
I've worked in higher education for 15 years. This is an excellent video. Really some of the best college admission advice I've seen.
While I'm not from the US or I have no plans to study abroad in the US. I think that learning from you is great especially more on Ivy League schools because of how expensive with it. I also agree that we all have our shortcomings and as well of the Ivy League being a lottery ticket.
I love watching these videos after already graduating from school because I can relate but I have none of the stress anymore 😂
Can we just appreciate the thumbnails for a min like 😌
I’m literally so early, appreciate u so much jas :3
i was just researching colleges when this video popped up…thank you for the advice😭😭
In ten years you'll look back and laugh in the way that life will transform you.
Thank you, really. I was already rejected from all of the US colleges I applied to (really elite ones) and now I'm going to attend the best university in my country and getting a very prestigious degree, but I still felt somehow I was underachieving. This video was very helpful
As a high school counselor I think this was very helpful. I try to tell my students and parents these things about elite admissions all the time (I also use the 'lottery' term) but often they just don't believe me. Especially that they can't take it personally if they get a "no" from these highly selective schools. So I do my best to support them in what can be a stressful and competitive process.
As someone who just survived college apps, waiting for a few more colleges, this is SO true. i went against what people told me to do and did the absolute opposite 😭😭😭
Thank you for informing us about college this is so helpful
I’m going to UCLA this fall. I am most definitely undeserving of my admission and i got VERY lucky with my college admission reader. but hey, i’m in and i’m gonna try my best now.
I’m sure u deserved it! Congrats
I have to apply to college this fall, so thank you for this! I’m stressed. 😩
as an incoming college freshman to ucla that has reflected a lot on the admissions process, i completely relate with everything that you've mentioned here! this is def one of my most fav videos on your channel, so honest and helpful for future applicants.
i LOVE the color grading! :DDDD
Spent my entire fall semester of my senior year applying to several scholarships and colleges. I got accepted to 3 colleges and got zero scholarships. Yay student debt :D
"why would you be watching study advice videos if you weren't an academic try-hard" is probably the best compliment ive received in my life and that's sad
Queen speaking facts period
This would have been helpful a year ago🥲 I applied to a community college and a local private university, bc I really didn’t want to attend university right outside of school. I’ll be attending the private uni in the fall. I’m excited for it but very scared bc I barely graduated high school. My goal for college is to try my best tk ether succeed and invest myself into school studying, and school activities. I started watching your studying videos to help me learn bc you’re very truthful and down to the point. Thank you
You seriously don't know how calming you talk, and you some studenta in malaysia just finished spm/stpm so I don't know how talk about it in perfect time for every country #malaysia
I'm just in my freshman year but I'm gonna keep this video saved because it's just so true and helpful :)
I'm not in college but still watching this 😅
( Just because It is JASMINE video ) 💜
We match XD
A video I never thought I needed! All the info given here is so true and doesn't apply to just American Unis.
Wow I didn’t know that it applied to other schools too
As an upcoming hs freshman who thinks they know everything, lolz, one thing I would say is dont pick a topic for your essay based on something you think your college would like. I have a connection to an admission officer, and she says she gets sent so many applications, and this is how yk it's common since they're all formulated the same way, about kids using an event in their life and trying to twist it to be fitted to the college's, I guess, stereotypical standard. Also wish me luck next school year :)
what happens when you write with/about better qualities than you actually have and get rejected...
This video really introduces new perspectives to the college admissions process. I am also wondering about schools themselves and what makes specific schools ex. Ivy League prestigious and top schools, anyone have any insight on this (Jasmine too!)?? :)
A lot of school rankings are based on research output from the professors at that school and other factors that don’t actually affect your education there directly. Prestige is also tied up with how competitive it is to get in, which once again doesn’t guarantee quality of education. Mostly, people care about prestige because of the people you meet at elite schools and the network you can build.
I’m not even from the US, but I still loved watching this 😅
hahahah me too
In my opinion, college is over hyped. People forget that any degree can get you anywhere . If it becomes too stressful to go to school then something is wrong. I was one of those teens. I was so sad realizing that I couldn’t go to my “dream” school.
Colleges pick whoever they want to whether you meet all the requirements or not. It’s a lottery especially for very well known schools.
I went away and I realized going to a school that was close to home was way easier financially and a lot less stressful. Don’t go away if you know you can’t afford it either . Taking out loans doesn’t solve starving on campus!
Side note: don’t stress about getting into a certain school. As the years go by, you won’t even care about the school and you just want to graduate ! After a certain point you just want to get into your career and move on . I can list more stuff but this comment would be too long lol
*going into my senior year of college* still watches cuz jasmine is amazing
Got to know so much after watching this video! Thanks Jasmine!
I’m heading into sophomore year. I’m what i call an overachiever, and I’m really stressed cause I don’t feel prepared. But this channel rlly gives me some hope
okay so i am focusing more on how pretty she is than listening her advice😭jasmine stan forever😍💖
i was about to comment the same thing 😩 she looks especially pretty in this vid
I am not really trying to go to a top 20 university, but I thought your advice was really helpful! :)
Ur outfit and hair look sooo cute !!
Jasmine back at it again TO SPILL THE TEA 😆
Amazing. Thanks for this
Lol thanks for bringing up the fact that we're all 1 of like 1000s of different applicants, i completely forgot about that. Its been like 2 years since i first applied to college, not knowing what i wanted to major in- up until recently!
I'm applying to some postgraduate schools and are really shocked by this video. Seems like I don't have to be too sad when knowing they all rejected me :) There are always better way for me to go.