Men Feel a Genuine Emotional Connection Towards Women Who Understand This!

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    Some of the studies I mention:
    Feingold, A. (1992). Gender differences in mate selection preferences: A test of the parental investment model. Psychological Bulletin, 112(1), 125-139.
    Mate preferences: A cross-cultural investigation
    European Journal of Social Psychology
    Eur. J. Soc. Psychol. 37, 288-296 (2007)

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  • @UpToChris
    @UpToChris Місяць тому +235

    Sorry to hear your mum passing on Mother’s Day. It was terrible 😢

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 Місяць тому +5

      🙏😭

    • @Canva-pedia
      @Canva-pedia Місяць тому

      @@Portia620ú hung in n




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    • @sashaenglish2755
      @sashaenglish2755 14 днів тому

      💔

    • @annonymousme2528
      @annonymousme2528 4 дні тому

      Yea I too am so sorry for your loss of your mother …
      I get great enjoyment from your Chanel what an amazing person you are helping people see perspectives they may never consider. Your incredible !!

  • @avinandabasak4021
    @avinandabasak4021 Місяць тому +94

    This is one of your imaginary daughters thanking you for these tips. They are very very helpful for the better understanding of my partner's emotions and desires. Thank you.

  • @NikkiGRocks4Ever
    @NikkiGRocks4Ever Місяць тому +77

    Brian, you have my deepest condolences for the passing of your Mom. Years ago, my dad died the Saturday before Father’s Day. In a way, I can relate. 😢 I’m glad that you had friends to reach out to you.
    I admire you for having the courage to be vulnerable about your grief.
    May you know and feel God’s comfort.✝️🙏🕊️

  • @Ninishiningleaf
    @Ninishiningleaf Місяць тому +33

    Such a fine line between emotionally support our man and mothering him... On the one hand it is from a place of soft and sweet feminine, and the other hand it is a condescending annoyance of tired mom archetype

  • @bcvc3365
    @bcvc3365 Місяць тому +37

    I’m sorry for your loss, Brian. 😔 I hope you and your sister are feeling much better. Your mother loves you and you can still talk to her because she’s listening.

  • @oneofthegoodonesok
    @oneofthegoodonesok Місяць тому +41

    Seeing how males tend to operate regardless of them single or not, it just makes me feel the urge to be single and staying that way 😊

    • @adday.
      @adday. 25 днів тому +1

      Please just go for one of the many, many good men out there. Men are generally decent, but if you don't believe that, it's unlikely you can handle a relationship.

    • @javireyes7333
      @javireyes7333 24 дні тому +1

      @@adday.every time I thought they were… 😢 except for one

    • @adday.
      @adday. 24 дні тому

      @@javireyes7333 I know it's not simple. Try to go for someone who hasn't had a lot of women and is akward with you, maybe you even have to make a move on him, doesn't matter if you're both over 40. Once he is yours, he is yours. I did all this and mine is a capricorn on top, faithful, trustworthy. All my long time boyfriends were trustworthy, we just grew apart. Just date someone who isn't a player, smooth-talker, talks big words, all those are red flags. Look at a man's actions.

    • @adday.
      @adday. 23 дні тому

      @@javireyes7333 Were they unfaithful? Players?

  • @jazzgal51
    @jazzgal51 Місяць тому +25

    My deepest condolences to you for the loss of your sweet Mom😢❤

  • @NikkiGRocks4Ever
    @NikkiGRocks4Ever Місяць тому +31

    Brian, thank you for posting this video. Some of us (your imagery daughters) had cold and distant dads. The information you are sharing is helpful. As we women learn and understand men, we can adapt to be better wives and girlfriends. Therefore the relationships become more loving and caring.
    You are making a positive impact to all of us. 😊

  • @anastasiapateraki
    @anastasiapateraki Місяць тому +20

    I am terribly sorry to hear about the loss of you mother, I hope you are able to give yourself time and opportunity to grieve as you need to

  • @saltwaterjoys6110
    @saltwaterjoys6110 Місяць тому +16

    Thank you for these videos! I'm your imaginary grandmother and your words have given me excellent insight into my wonderful, late father, two husbands, and other men I've known.

  • @nono-zb8px
    @nono-zb8px Місяць тому +20

    Thank you!❤ I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mother must've been so proud of you.

  • @EFTTappingwithHeatherAmbler
    @EFTTappingwithHeatherAmbler 22 дні тому +2

    I'm so sorry that your mom passed away. What a terrible loss. I'm sending you my deepest condolences from the mountains of California. Thank you for talking about the emotional lives and emotional needs of men.

  • @Spendomaniac
    @Spendomaniac Місяць тому +7

    I am so, so sorry for the loss of your mother. I hope you and your sister find solace in each other and in the many memories of your mum.

  • @Dana-oo9kp
    @Dana-oo9kp 17 днів тому +1

    My sincerest and deepest condolences for the loss of your mom. Sending hugs to your heart. ♥️ Thank you for all you do for us.

  • @dollu__03
    @dollu__03 Місяць тому +15

    Hey Brian,this is your 20 yr old imaginary daughter from India 😁
    Thanks a lot for providing such an informative and helpful content.
    Please upload more videos in imaginary daughter series.

  • @eatfirstthinkl8er
    @eatfirstthinkl8er Місяць тому +4

    I’m sorry for your loss Brian but I’m so grateful and moved by you sharing that. I see so much strength in you. You have helped so many women find a better partner. Thank you for all you do! You have helped me get over toxic men quickly and get closer to healthy, good men.

  • @rebeccaly
    @rebeccaly Місяць тому +7

    Brian, I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. Sending you my deepest condolences and love. I hope you are doing okay! It’s definitely okay to cry and be vulnerable. I hope you have people in your life that you can share with

  • @GhostOfMrPickles
    @GhostOfMrPickles Місяць тому +9

    this double standard needs to end. men have every right to express themselves in a healthy way-denying this right has gotten us where we're at today. a pressure cooker where some explode.

    • @aeiou0123
      @aeiou0123 Місяць тому

      It is not a double standard. Do u want men to have vaginas too cos women have vaginas? Men do not like to be coddled even though they sometimes need emotional support. This is why it is good for men to get married - cos they can get that support from a good wife who will protect their ego in the process. We need men to be men and women to be women cos we need the balance

  • @_Knowledge_Is_Power
    @_Knowledge_Is_Power 2 дні тому

    My father passed away on Father’s Day 2013 at 51 yr old. He was the best father I could have ever wanted. He taught me how to be strong, self reliant with a loving heart with full self awareness & common sense. 🙏🏻❤️

  • @faithm.8958
    @faithm.8958 Місяць тому +2

    I LOVED this video Geert!! Thank you!! NOW I understand why my husband works sooo hard for us!! We have 4 children together and still rent because finances.
    THANK YOU FOR being our ‘brother’ or grandson/dad with your men insider ‘secrets’!!!
    I’ve also noticed this unfairness of cratering to women when death occurs. My brother in law died last year and my husband and his male siblings and their Dad were basically ignored for needing comfort during the grieving process. But I know my husband and his brothers and Dad also need support and comfort if not more since it was a fellow male who died in the family. It is an unfair societal thing- as you put it men do “like spaghetti too” or to me men also need a break from thinking of meals too at such a horrible time of loss.

  • @SIMSIMSAMANTHA
    @SIMSIMSAMANTHA Місяць тому +4

    All my condolences for your loss Geert. And thanks for these great insights as usual❤️

  • @rekhaparthasarathy3833
    @rekhaparthasarathy3833 26 днів тому +1

    Deepest condolences, Brian. No words can be consolation enough. Only time can help process the pain. Much love ❤️

  • @farwahbatool6247
    @farwahbatool6247 Місяць тому +3

    Ah, now I'm getting to understand what men desire 😮
    Please keep sharing topics like this with examples like you presented. It truly helped me a lot. Thank you.

  • @jolenelutyck1422
    @jolenelutyck1422 Місяць тому +5

    Your videos are some of my very favourite on UA-cam. Keep up the great work.

  • @minouchan
    @minouchan Місяць тому +3

    Thank you for your helpful videos and sorry about your loss ❤ I lost my father last year and know how much it hurts. Hugs from Germany

  • @rachelh.5636
    @rachelh.5636 15 днів тому

    My condolences to you, Brian for your recent loss. I pray you and your sister are close and help each other during your difficult moments with grief.

  • @prettybird7597
    @prettybird7597 Місяць тому +4

    I am sorry for the loss of your mom. ❤ Hugs.

  • @Imjustagrl
    @Imjustagrl 23 дні тому

    Sincere condolences for your loss ❤ Thank you for sharing that very personal story. Your videos are great, and really keep me positive during these hard dating times! 😊

  • @jetsjetsjets1044
    @jetsjetsjets1044 Місяць тому +4

    So sorry. Yahuah Barak & comfort you. Thank you so much for all you do!

  • @GaisSacredCreations
    @GaisSacredCreations Місяць тому +2

    Geert, so sorry about your mother, my most sincere condolences.

  • @sandraknowles9493
    @sandraknowles9493 Місяць тому +4

    I enjoy listening to your presentations because you give such very good insights about men that are helpful to having a great relationship. Thank you

  • @valeriecoopet9897
    @valeriecoopet9897 10 днів тому +1

    My husband goes on and on about his feelings, yet he gets upset if I feel anything but happy. It’s been this way for over 50 years. This does not lead to a great connection between us.

  • @alexandraturnwald2286
    @alexandraturnwald2286 23 дні тому

    Brian, that are very sad news - sincere condoleances for the loss of your mother. Hopefully you and your sister can help each other to deal with this and share memories and talk over issues.
    Thank you for still making great content when in grief.

  • @sarahernanparis7098
    @sarahernanparis7098 Місяць тому +3

    Sorry to hear about your personal story....that should have been hard, Brian 😢
    Very interesting what you explain here.
    I realize I made him feel desired and gave him emotional support when things were wrong on his side....but made little difference, cause he does not love me, only wanted me for occasional sex or support.
    Never cared about him providing anything other than LOVE and care, but you see....didn't happen.
    Thanks for sharing this though ❤

  • @run4cmt
    @run4cmt Місяць тому +1

    Sorry for the loss of your mom. I hope your presentation makes it easier for other men experiencing loss.

  • @18QueenHearts
    @18QueenHearts Місяць тому +2

    Awwwwwwww, I'm so sorry to hear and know this about your mom!!!! Sending all the warmth and hugs and thank you always for your greattttttt advice!!!

  • @faustin0901
    @faustin0901 Місяць тому

    Deepest condolences for your loss, Geert. Grief is the most complex and difficult thing we experience as humans. Thank you so much for all your work. I think of you as my wise older brother and appreciate your insightful videos so much. ❤

  • @bethbustos2609
    @bethbustos2609 Місяць тому +1

    Your videos are very insightful. Thank you. Also, I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom. Blessings.

  • @Cheekycupcake-d5j
    @Cheekycupcake-d5j Місяць тому

    I’m so sorry Brian about your Mom, what a sad day for you, I wish you peace in your memories of her!❤

  • @user-pe3xj5lu9h
    @user-pe3xj5lu9h Місяць тому

    Haat, ( sp)
    Your talent is exceptional & benefits so many people. You are such a solid man. We appreciate you, from the bottom of our hearts. You make the world a MUCH BETTER PLACE. Thank you, Brain.
    Sending love through this passing of your mother. She must have definitely been so proud of you! ❤️🙏
    Thank you for ALL that you do. 🙏❤️

  • @karolinah12
    @karolinah12 Місяць тому +2

    Hi coach, my regards to you for the loss of your dear Mum ❤. Your content on here is excellent & has helped me so much. I'm in london & looking forward to your events here if you ever visit

  • @alisonsaunders3800
    @alisonsaunders3800 Місяць тому

    Brian, I’m so sorry to hear about you and your sister losing your mother. I want to thank you so much for sharing your experiences around that situation as a way to help other people understand how men and women are perceived differently. It means a lot that you gave this gift of yourself. My prayers for all of you in return.

  • @clairexxx0405
    @clairexxx0405 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you again for such insight....
    Im so very sorry for the loss of you're mum. Im a bereaved Mum and find many people ignore me as they feel too uncomfortable for if i maybe emotional or cry so in that respect its sometimes a person thingy not just a man one 🤗
    Sending Love and Strenth for you and you're Sister 🤗 I'd be an added imaginary sister you didn't know you had.... yes true I want to be there and I get "I'm ok thank you I don't need anything"
    I'd love you to add the links to the studies and I am too very grateful that you stay the end as you're videos are always inspiring and helpful in learning about things as women we can't know without you telling us about them.... 🍝imaginary spaghetti from an imaginary sister... Take Good Care 🫂✨️🕊

  • @savedandbeautifulone
    @savedandbeautifulone Місяць тому +1

    Praying for you, and your family’s strength.

  • @candice004
    @candice004 Місяць тому

    Brian - I am so sorry for your loss of your Mom's passing. Can't imagine the circumstances in which you found her. You are a sweet, giving man who provides all of us ladies with invaluable information!! I always look forward to your knowledgeable videos as they are so helpful. You are a gem!! ❤❤

  • @emeralddragon1712
    @emeralddragon1712 Місяць тому +1

    Biig hug & deepest condolences for your mom's passing 🥰🥰🥰 Be safe & blessed, sweet man

  • @lynnrich4859
    @lynnrich4859 21 день тому +1

    You're quite a catch mate. Very charming and very entertaining 😊

  • @gailrosenberg48
    @gailrosenberg48 26 днів тому

    I am very sorry for the sudden loss of your mother! I lost mine last year and even though she had lived a very long life and her passing was expected, there is great grief. I hope you and your sister will allow yourselves to grieve well and not take short cuts.

  • @susanwohl24
    @susanwohl24 Місяць тому +1

    Very sorry for the loss your mother God bless you and your family

  • @kmfp
    @kmfp Місяць тому +1

    Terrible news, Brian. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope your family and friends are giving you the support you deserve. Un abrazo

  • @bibbylord6562
    @bibbylord6562 Місяць тому

    I’m so very sorry for the loss of your mother…. I understand. I was devastated when my mother passed. My heart goes out to you and your sister.

  • @yinkwanlau6744
    @yinkwanlau6744 21 день тому

    I feel really sorry for your loss Heath! May your mother rest in peace ❤️🕊️

  • @ninalee8625
    @ninalee8625 11 годин тому

    Cops in my town frequently cry during press conferences when reporting on a sad crime. Thank goodness my parent's generation of no emotions is in the past.

  • @deeveriamoore2205
    @deeveriamoore2205 27 днів тому

    I'm so sorry to hear you lost your mother. Prayers for comfort and healing ❤

  • @ellaella2885
    @ellaella2885 Місяць тому +1

    Sending love and positive thoughts ,very sorry to hear about your mum passing. Hugs ❤

  • @bunnyboonot4u
    @bunnyboonot4u Місяць тому +1

    Interesting! I'm learning things I didn't know!
    I was raised in a way that I feel the need to provide, and I'm a woman.

  • @maryagncamp6306
    @maryagncamp6306 Місяць тому

    Brian, you are such a lovely man and you give such wonderful advice filled with the truth. I am so sorry for the unexpected loss of your mother, especially on Mother's Day. May the memories you hold in your mind and heart give you comfort and peace.

  • @ClaudiaDavis-pj3xb
    @ClaudiaDavis-pj3xb Місяць тому +4

    Very helpful advice, thank you!

  • @viewthroughmywindow
    @viewthroughmywindow Місяць тому

    Hi Geert, thank you so much for sharing and deepest sympathy over the loss of your mother. Thanks for being open about your emotional side, it’s so much appreciated.

  • @FaithfulandTrue949
    @FaithfulandTrue949 27 днів тому +1

    Hey, people are thoughtless sometimes and its not a reflection on you.
    Im making you a virtual Shepherd's Pie and giving you a long hug of support...
    No words needed, but im here for you in the ether.
    God sees, God knows, God hears your cry 😢 not a single tear is lost ❤🙏🏻

  • @smms1249
    @smms1249 Місяць тому

    Hello Geerth, so sorry for the sudden loss of your Mom. I’ve been there with my Dad. The missing part is always the hardest! Biggest bear hug 🫂

  • @janine8933
    @janine8933 Місяць тому +1

    My deepest condolences, on the loss of your mom. Take care. 💔

  • @sandramcleod9723
    @sandramcleod9723 Місяць тому

    I'm truly sorry about your mom. Continued prayers. I've been there. It's an emotional roller coaster. ❤❤

  • @Ms.2024ish
    @Ms.2024ish 11 днів тому

    The gender study links are top-notch, Brian! Thank you 🙂 ps. I hope you allowed yourself to nestle into the comfort of someone's soft heart after your mother's passing. It sounds like you were gifted an opportunity to feel the depth of the love she had for you and you had for her through your uncontrollable tears. You're quite the lucky man!

  • @silviasegura3742
    @silviasegura3742 Місяць тому

    I'm so so sorry for your lost... We are with you from the distance but very close at the same time❤

  • @sashaenglish2755
    @sashaenglish2755 14 днів тому

    I'm so sorry to hear about your mum ❤

  • @acringegirl8580
    @acringegirl8580 Місяць тому

    I'm so sorry to hear this and thankful that you're being so vulnerable and open with us. Send you a hug from Germany! ❤

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro Місяць тому

    Sorry for your loss Brian . Your mom is RIP now no more pain.
    Yes men they want to feel wanted , feel needed. They want being valued by their woman they want or they love.

  • @kimfrederick7710
    @kimfrederick7710 Місяць тому

    I love your videos. I'm sorry for your loss of your mother 😢. I find the sharing of emotions a strength, not a weakness.

  • @tinafarrow6501
    @tinafarrow6501 Місяць тому

    Sending you love and strength. I cried listening to you talk about what happened. Hugs ❤

  • @SteffiMendes
    @SteffiMendes Місяць тому

    Deeply sorry for your loss Brian😢 we appreciate your videos and constant efforts, and I genuinely enjoy watching them - you really help a lot of people ❤ stay strong

  • @aquavibes6259
    @aquavibes6259 Місяць тому

    Sorry to hear of your loss, there are no words 😢 and thank you from your 48yr old imaginary daughter 🙏 and I always watch until the end as you make me laugh! 👏👏🤩

  • @deec411
    @deec411 Місяць тому

    So sorry for your loss. Condolences to your family also 😢🙏🏻

  • @busingyevangilister5594
    @busingyevangilister5594 Місяць тому

    I am so sorry about your mum's passing on. May mum's soul rest in eternal peace 🙏.
    May God continue to comfort you and your sister 🙏

  • @sandralosasso5657
    @sandralosasso5657 Місяць тому

    Sorry for your Loss . My Mom also Died on Mother’s Day when I was young. That was 35 years ago .. you just get used to living without Her 💔💙

  • @Stece0205
    @Stece0205 Місяць тому

    I am really sorry for the loss of your mother. Thanks for your videos even in your tough period

  • @Clarabellyha
    @Clarabellyha Місяць тому +3

    This video is so true!! Great one!

  • @EvieLibra
    @EvieLibra Місяць тому

    So sorry to hear about your mum Brian. Sending condolences to you and your sister and hugs 💔😞

  • @margaretgilmour4259
    @margaretgilmour4259 Місяць тому

    So so sorry for your loss Brian ❤I love your content. Your mum must’ve been very proud of you. Go gently with yourself x

  • @iwonaiwona1592
    @iwonaiwona1592 Місяць тому

    Sorry to hear of your loss 😢 I wish you strength!!

  • @Elena_Zhiludko
    @Elena_Zhiludko Місяць тому

    Bryan, thank you for this video. And big condolences for you loss 😔
    Regarding topic, I think for most women man's ability to provide us very important and we - consciously or unconsciously - looking for that, because it makes us feel in safety

  • @emeraldchat
    @emeraldchat 19 днів тому

    Understanding one another is something you should do. This video has been helpful, Brian!
    For some out there who are looking for some genuine connection, you could try our online chat!

  • @Julievanmol1974
    @Julievanmol1974 Місяць тому

    Gecondoleerd Geert, ik wens jou en jullie dierbaren veel sterkte en kracht toe. Ik denk dat je moeder vanuit de hemel met een glimlach vol liefde en trots naar deze video heeft gekeken. Dank voor je fijne video.

  • @user-ux4pg3dt6m
    @user-ux4pg3dt6m Місяць тому

    Thank you for the great tips!
    I am so sorry your mother passed. She certainly was so very proud of you.

  • @vylia
    @vylia Місяць тому

    Sorry for your lost, Brian. May you find comfort and a way to reinvent yourself.

  • @jessicaperlove4715
    @jessicaperlove4715 Місяць тому +1

    Great information! And I'm sorry about your mom. 😔

  • @AuroraNatureSounds
    @AuroraNatureSounds Місяць тому

    So sorry that you have lost your mum❤Please accept a hug and my condolescences❤❤

  • @PAMECA
    @PAMECA Місяць тому

    May you feel the support from your audience intended to warm your heart.
    There are just no words...

  • @Hannah.1911
    @Hannah.1911 Місяць тому

    The Video that I needed right now. Thanks. It's sad that some men feel such a pressure to provide and then always hide in their cave from time to time. Love from Germany ❤

  • @ESyta-ti7hs
    @ESyta-ti7hs Місяць тому

    It’s true- we’re take it for granted men keep it together because we’re taught this from a young age.

  • @user-nt8yj9ub7h
    @user-nt8yj9ub7h Місяць тому

    Y'ALL THIS IS LITERALLY LIKE MY THERAPY 😭😭 BEEN SITTING HERE INSTEAD OF STUDYING!!!

  • @_Ibarbi._
    @_Ibarbi._ Місяць тому +3

    Love your Videos ! 💛

  • @fatenatiah1850
    @fatenatiah1850 Місяць тому

    So sorry for your loss hope ur mother is somewhere better now ❤

  • @maganothomas123
    @maganothomas123 Місяць тому

    Hey Brian I just want to let you know I love your books. Currently reading “F**k him. Nice girls finish last” and “21 traps you need to avoid in dating and relationships”.
    They have helped me tremendously and increased my understanding of what a high value woman is and I’m currently putting in practice your teachings and I feel empowered and learning to respect me more.
    Thank you Brian.

  • @ultraviolet3905
    @ultraviolet3905 Місяць тому +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss. 💔

  • @lee8797
    @lee8797 Місяць тому

    I have 2 lovers. 1 I have loved for years but he is a workaholic. The other has been around for approx 4yrs incl Melb 1yr lockdown. He fixes EVERYTHING in my ramshackle apartment. He is a gem. And the other one does get jealous yes.. it's a lot of fun.
    And I too am terribly sorry for your loss, my Mum died 2yrs ago, miss her very much.

  • @Arya-qm4lb
    @Arya-qm4lb Місяць тому

    I usually don't watch these type of videos I when it comes to your videos I just love it...they way you deliver topics is just amazing..I love your work...thank you so much...❤☺️ And sorry for any grammatical mistakes

  • @rebeccaconn389
    @rebeccaconn389 Місяць тому

    So sorry for your loss … my condolences to you and your family ❤

  • @Rosherrrs99
    @Rosherrrs99 Місяць тому

    Thank you for this video and I'm sorry to hear that your Mum passed away 😢🙏

  • @user-ib3fu8pq8w
    @user-ib3fu8pq8w Місяць тому

    So sorry about your Mum Geert, I appreciate your classy intelligent video's and just love you,you make me laugh too,love Donna from Sydney Australia ,aw your Mum passing on Mother's day, even though circumstances were really tough, Mother's day maybe the most special day for her to leave, my Mum passed on Christmas day and everyone thought it was the worst ,I felt it was such a special day, all the best xx