I’m so freaking glad that did my research on narcissistic abuse while I was in the throes of it .. learned all the tricks and crap they pull on you .. all the gaslighting and mind fuckery.. came to learn that they can’t really love NOBODY. By the time the marriage was over I knew what I walked away from and who ever was getting him after that .. I actually felt sorry for. Once the love bombing is over the demon presents itself and is there to stay. I will never be jealous of any woman my ex gets with. I’m free!
This is so true an empath with healthy boundaries would never be with someone that is already in a relationship with someone else. It just feels wrong to them. But a narcissist doesn’t mind at all. They are looking at it as a personal gain to themselves.
Yes this is exactly how I felt! The new supply thought she had something special. I actually felt bad for her because I knew what he was about to do to her. This lady had been stalking me and everything for over a year. I knew exactly what she was going through because I experienced it. I salute you Queen for getting away from that Narc. They will literally try to destroy your life. Peace, love, and blessings!!❤
@@jazzywithtea yep she stalked me too and I knew she was doing so because she was already insecure and him treating her bad! Happy people don’t stalk others! And he still tried to reach me via burners and fake accounts! They are never happy no matter who they have! They connect and certainly can’t love 🎉
My partner never treated the next supply better, so I was never jealous because I knew that he would treat her badly because she helped him cheat on me, and she knew all about our relationship but didn't care, he totally disrespected her and blamed her for helping him to cheat.
This is what is happening to me. My ex fiance and her cheated right under my nose. Fast foward they are now married with a baby Plot twist he is miserable because she is a Narcissist too and a serial cheater. She gave him a disease but it's my fault because I FINALLY walked away. Talk about sick in the head. Lawd!!
I deleted my social media last December because I didn't want to be tempted to see who his new supply is. Whoever she is, I wish her all the prayers on this earth because she'll need it.
This is so spot on!! My ex narc was divorcing his ex when I became involved with him. And he was bitter as hell bc he was losing the house they had together. He used me as just a supply yet he posted my pic on his social media knowing she would see it. He even emailed a romantic pic of us to her email without my knowledge while she had a retraining order of no contact with her. Later I found out about how he was using this pic of us for his vindictiveness. It was such a boundary buster. And I am much younger than his ex wife. He knew that would literally hurt her so bad. It was a terrible TRIANGULATION!!
Wow!!!! I’m so sorry you had to go through that! I’m always curious how the Narcs new relationship partner feels? I’m happy your free and flourishing ❤
Great video….all facts…the only solution is to defeat a narcissist is to do your work and remain unbothered by their tactics and protect yourself physically emotionally and most importantly spiritually…9 times out of 10 that person is either truly hurting or doesn’t care…don’t give them the satisfaction by giving them energy but remain safe and more importantly remain you
I hope, pray, and wish that she is doing EVERYTHING with the new supply that she wouldn't do with me. Bc when that bar stool falls I won't be the only one saying she was the problem! Living to hurt someone will only end in destruction & failure
That’s where narcs always get it wrong is truly believing that we still care 😂once we get to the point where we are getting divorced the feelings are dead! We want someone to take out our trash! We thank the new supply and we don’t give a damn what you you do after we’re done! Y’all wasting so much time on trying to hurt old supply when we are healing and thriving happily without you! 😊
Married 30 years to a Narcissist. Leon you guys never gave up anything. Never loved anyone but yourself therefore I can’t miss what I never had. GOD is so good…No weapons formed against me shall prosper.
My ex narc husband was this was.. he so mad about child support after the divorce oh and the smear campaign 😱😱😱😱 Mann I was everything but a child of God 😂… he would take all of his new supplies on trips, dinners, cruises.. you name he did it.. at first it did bother me but as time went on throughout my healing journey I said if he’s happy without me then I’m happy for him because I would never want to see someone happy even it’s not with me… so I was able to move forward in a better mindset.. I stayed prayed up and positive 🎉
How about being married for 32 years you're not divorced yet and he puts on Facebook that he's proposed to somebody else. Please explain that one to me. I'm just saying. The average person will at least get divorced first before they even consider marrying somebody else. Most people will make sure that the person proposing is free to do so. Sir you need to put this on the evening news.💔💔💔
I know what your going through. Same situation my ex husband was cheating with his now girlfriend and they are getting married. It's not even a full year divorced. This back door hoe called my phone to tell me their getting married. I can't see them on social media I blocked his account and I don't want to see them at all. They are trying their best to rub it in my face.
Narcs exert so much time & energy into being spiteful & vindictive when they are the ones doing the harm in the first place. The audacity to have an attitude with me when you're the one cheating, lying and bullying me for 11yrs...they are a piece of work...
I got nothing we where married for 20 years . I left with just my clothes .he was cheating I divorced him .I’ve been living alone for the past 4 years . He’s since bought a house basically bought everything since I left I can’t believe it .I never did anything to him just loved him .he’s telling everyone he’s with the love of his life .I’m still alone .
I definitely understand your pain. I wish I had money where I could just move and never see him again. Unfortunately we live in the same town. Where he is flaunting his girlfriend.
@@jackiecolbert3915 I’m sorry to read that .that would hurt . They are real toxic these narcissist. Well I hope one day you find someone really nice that will love you and spoil you .I honestly do . 🙏☺️💞
One of my ex's got married right away out of spite but I'd already detached from him because I was mentally prepared. Joke was on them both because she's stuck with a narc and he's stuck with his 3rd wife. He came back and I kept telling him he was married. He lied about it 3x until I presented him with a picture of he and his new wife. Joke was on him. 🤷🏽♀️
Thank God I left that demon of a Narc alone he thought he would never lose me! I woke up after nine years of my life and said this s*** was all a game he is FAKE AF it was never a relationship then the ninja just went to jail I’m 9 months FREE and he had the nerve to write me asking for forgiveness 🤣🤣🤣 I tore that letter up and continued on with my day 😂
Mine is so confusing. Last time we spoke I was the worst most evil human on earth. I block him on everything. We own a car together. He has it. Then emails me weeks after the argument letting me know he made the car payment. Then sends email next week making sure to tell me he hasn’t smoked or drank in a month. I mean….
This is why when I 'm done, I 'm done. I tried the being friends thing, but really, it's an excuse for them to be petty & try to stay close to hurt us more for making a sane, rational, emotionally valid decision to end a crap relationship.
I could care less about him and his supply. I blocked him and his family, so that's not my business, What goes on with him cause what I do know is she paying for anything
I am Just "THE L❤VE he LOST.....and "WALKING BY FAITH" as a BLACK and PROUD BLACK WOMAN...."MULTI-BILLIONAIRESS" in PEACE and 💯% COVERED BY THE FBI/CIA 24/7 365- DAYS PER YEAR...👉💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💪
mine is successful, beautiful, independent, and way out of his league he poured on the same love bomb explosion that he did with me. They got me hooked quick. She has no clue a ticking time bomb she just lit
My ex seems to really love and care about his kids and mother. it's kinda confusing. I feel like his issues stem from his mother and deceased father, but he holds his mother in high regard. Maybe I just don't have enough information about his childhood even though he talks about it as if it was great. Talks about how good of a disciplinarian his mother was, and he had a great stepfather he still keeps in touch with. I must be missing something. I've been around, and it seems all good. Maybe his narcissism stems from a doting mother instead of being abusive.
You are hurting yourself to hurt another, you must be old Gregg. Guess what, you caused the whole thing, you are not a real boy yet, but if you want to be a real boy, you might find a real girl who genuinely loves and cares for you deeply. Maybe you could learn what it means to be a genuine person instead of one in the making. May the blessings of love and understanding rain down upon you and all others, may we all wake up to the truth of ourselves and this life we are experiencing, in Jesus name, so be it.
I don't care about the next supply or any other part of his life we are done I get it so I AM MOVING ON!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊😊😊, I am not jealous I just want a Divorce, on to the next one, or maybe stay on my own one thing for sure I sleep really good now I am enjoying my best life, without Heath Sean Fulgham, and others my life is quiet and Peaceful
I really wanna degrade u, but at least u display remorse which causes ppl like me a chance to hear truth and begin to heal, so thank u sir for choosing to be forthcoming. It helps❤
In my case that sure did not work on me so if he had in his delusional mind that I wanted him I guess I proved him wrong I don't guess I know I did when I went to file my divorce I was a long out of in love I was just waiting for the right time to get away from him and go into hiding so he can't find me so not everybody is still in love we do get sick and tired of being sick and tired too now he can deal with the fact that I divorced him and dump them and never look back I don't look like his social media could care less I haven't blocked on everything so when I filed for divorce I meant everything that I said he's the one that's stalking and trying to find me asking around town about me it'll never happen again see that's their problem they think that someone still wants them when it's not true in all cases😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
I can't believe people fell for this. Seems like mental illness on both sides. I'll never understand why someone cares about who dates who after a breakup. If you can't find happiness with me then I wish you all the best finding it with someone else.
Childish as fuck and this is why is so many crimes of passion because he's blue have absolutely no reason to cheat none!! 🙄 I don't even like claiming that Nigga ... but my ex, and his new thing still in hidin😭😭🤷🏾♀️ I don't play that shit at all‼️
I don’t care 😅as an empath i really don’t care he may become Joe Biden and mary miss univers i really don’t care …i’m freee❤ sorry for my english😅im francophon
The new supply that he is currently in a relationship with he met through an escort booking website she keeps calling me to ask questions about him and I can already tell it’s doomed
This is so sick. These people are so sick and twisted.
I agree, sadly.
This is exactly my current situation… but I won & I don’t care about him or his new supply I got my life back. 🎉
I’m so freaking glad that did my research on narcissistic abuse while I was in the throes of it .. learned all the tricks and crap they pull on you .. all the gaslighting and mind fuckery.. came to learn that they can’t really love NOBODY. By the time the marriage was over I knew what I walked away from and who ever was getting him after that .. I actually felt sorry for. Once the love bombing is over the demon presents itself and is there to stay. I will never be jealous of any woman my ex gets with. I’m free!
Sometimes a narcissists victim is another narcissist...also interesting combo...😏🤪😬😂😂
🙏🏼 amen 💯
This is so true an empath with healthy boundaries would never be with someone that is already in a relationship with someone else. It just feels wrong to them. But a narcissist doesn’t mind at all. They are looking at it as a personal gain to themselves.
Yes this is exactly how I felt! The new supply thought she had something special. I actually felt bad for her because I knew what he was about to do to her. This lady had been stalking me and everything for over a year. I knew exactly what she was going through because I experienced it. I salute you Queen for getting away from that Narc. They will literally try to destroy your life. Peace, love, and blessings!!❤
@@jazzywithtea yep she stalked me too and I knew she was doing so because she was already insecure and him treating her bad! Happy people don’t stalk others! And he still tried to reach me via burners and fake accounts! They are never happy no matter who they have! They connect and certainly can’t love 🎉
My partner never treated the next supply better, so I was never jealous because I knew that he would treat her badly because she helped him cheat on me, and she knew all about our relationship but didn't care, he totally disrespected her and blamed her for helping him to cheat.
He did what? 🤣
This is what is happening to me. My ex fiance and her cheated right under my nose. Fast foward they are now married with a baby
Plot twist he is miserable because she is a Narcissist too and a serial cheater. She gave him a disease but it's my fault because I FINALLY walked away. Talk about sick in the head. Lawd!!
@@Yokaisenn he blamed the person he was cheating with... Narcs always blame other people...
@@Her_shey_bar he met his match 💘
Yep
I deleted my social media last December because I didn't want to be tempted to see who his new supply is. Whoever she is, I wish her all the prayers on this earth because she'll need it.
This is so spot on!! My ex narc was divorcing his ex when I became involved with him. And he was bitter as hell bc he was losing the house they had together. He used me as just a supply yet he posted my pic on his social media knowing she would see it. He even emailed a romantic pic of us to her email without my knowledge while she had a retraining order of no contact with her. Later I found out about how he was using this pic of us for his vindictiveness. It was such a boundary buster.
And I am much younger than his ex wife. He knew that would literally hurt her so bad. It was a terrible TRIANGULATION!!
Wow!!!! I’m so sorry you had to go through that! I’m always curious how the Narcs new relationship partner feels? I’m happy your free and flourishing ❤
There were many red flags going into that situation in the beginning. At least you know now
Disturbing, yet raw and genuinely honest about it. Thank you for giving us a peek at the hellish world of Narcissistic people. SALUTE🤚!
Great video….all facts…the only solution is to defeat a narcissist is to do your work and remain unbothered by their tactics and protect yourself physically emotionally and most importantly spiritually…9 times out of 10 that person is either truly hurting or doesn’t care…don’t give them the satisfaction by giving them energy but remain safe and more importantly remain you
He is so spot on!! I wish I knew about narcissism six years ago, but thank you for breaking it down making it real. I’m not crazy!! 😂
Definitely not! They’re the crazy makers. Number one sign is when they say all their ex’s are crazy that means RUN!!!
Why when a narc gets caught cheating they are the ones that are mad , like I’m supposed to be the one mad lol
This smdh
I hope, pray, and wish that she is doing EVERYTHING with the new supply that she wouldn't do with me. Bc when that bar stool falls I won't be the only one saying she was the problem!
Living to hurt someone will only end in destruction & failure
That’s where narcs always get it wrong is truly believing that we still care 😂once we get to the point where we are getting divorced the feelings are dead! We want someone to take out our trash! We thank the new supply and we don’t give a damn what you you do after we’re done! Y’all wasting so much time on trying to hurt old supply when we are healing and thriving happily without you! 😊
Sometimes the new supply is also a narcissist...😏😏😂😂😂😂🤪🤪🤪🤪
@@marie_84 good they belong together 😎😆😉
Exactly. It’s kinda like saying you miss a cold sore
That’s true!!
Sometimes "we" do still care...unfortunately....allegedly a victim goes up to 7x back to the narcissist, until he finally leaves! 🤷♀️
Married 30 years to a Narcissist. Leon you guys never gave up anything. Never loved anyone but yourself therefore I can’t miss what I never had. GOD is so good…No weapons formed against me shall prosper.
I can’t believe how many times this has been done to me! Thanks for the info! It’s help me 💨
I have the ability to move on when I see you don't show empathy it's something a thought myself from childhood. I trained me from my Dad
❤❤❤ I have PERFECT ATTENDANCE on this Channel. I went Live tonight & shouted you & Lee out!!! ❤❤
I believe my nex could be either trying to regain the supply he had from me or hurt me which neither is working.Maybe he will give up this time .
It’s likely both.
Thank You !
My ex narc husband was this was.. he so mad about child support after the divorce oh and the smear campaign 😱😱😱😱 Mann I was everything but a child of God 😂… he would take all of his new supplies on trips, dinners, cruises.. you name he did it.. at first it did bother me but as time went on throughout my healing journey I said if he’s happy without me then I’m happy for him because I would never want to see someone happy even it’s not with me… so I was able to move forward in a better mindset.. I stayed prayed up and positive 🎉
I bet she’s miserable tho
I'm trying to get here. I'm still in my feelings.
ALL 100% TRUE I'VE LIVED IT !
Thank you for posting, I’m going through this now…😢
Lls this is so true. And when you know, you don’t care, in fact, it has the opposite effect bc I know he’s doing all that bc it bothers him that much.
Requesting a video with advice/words for daughters of Narcissistic, self aware Leon's. You would be the one for that...
Yes. I can do that
Lived this dysfunction
How about being married for 32 years you're not divorced yet and he puts on Facebook that he's proposed to somebody else. Please explain that one to me. I'm just saying. The average person will at least get divorced first before they even consider marrying somebody else. Most people will make sure that the person proposing is free to do so. Sir you need to put this on the evening news.💔💔💔
I know what your going through. Same situation my ex husband was cheating with his now girlfriend and they are getting married. It's not even a full year divorced. This back door hoe called my phone to tell me their getting married. I can't see them on social media I blocked his account and I don't want to see them at all. They are trying their best to rub it in my face.
Narcs exert so much time & energy into being spiteful & vindictive when they are the ones doing the harm in the first place. The audacity to have an attitude with me when you're the one cheating, lying and bullying me for 11yrs...they are a piece of work...
I got nothing we where married for 20 years . I left with just my clothes .he was cheating I divorced him .I’ve been living alone for the past 4 years . He’s since bought a house basically bought everything since I left I can’t believe it .I never did anything to him just loved him .he’s telling everyone he’s with the love of his life .I’m still alone .
I definitely understand your pain. I wish I had money where I could just move and never see him again. Unfortunately we live in the same town. Where he is flaunting his girlfriend.
@@jackiecolbert3915 I’m sorry to read that .that would hurt . They are real toxic these narcissist. Well I hope one day you find someone really nice that will love you and spoil you .I honestly do . 🙏☺️💞
Im going through this after 11 years married and together since teen years
Same
One of my ex's got married right away out of spite but I'd already detached from him because I was mentally prepared. Joke was on them both because she's stuck with a narc and he's stuck with his 3rd wife.
He came back and I kept telling him he was married. He lied about it 3x until I presented him with a picture of he and his new wife.
Joke was on him. 🤷🏽♀️
Ooh that's extremely SAd for the next but Prayer's for everyone
But his karma is he got her pregnant and doesn’t really want her, that’s why he is bothering me..Now he can keep her…I’m done!
what if they hid it and don’t think you know about her?
Mines don’t care.. I left almost 6 months ago and she hasn’t said one word to me. I never mattered to her after 14yrs
Thank God I left that demon of a Narc alone he thought he would never lose me! I woke up after nine years of my life and said this s*** was all a game he is FAKE AF it was never a relationship then the ninja just went to jail I’m 9 months FREE and he had the nerve to write me asking for forgiveness 🤣🤣🤣 I tore that letter up and continued on with my day 😂
I hope this is what my ex plans on doing. He is about to CRYYYY because IDGA PHUQQQQQQ🎶🎶🎶
Mine is so confusing. Last time we spoke I was the worst most evil human on earth. I block him on everything. We own a car together. He has it. Then emails me weeks after the argument letting me know he made the car payment. Then sends email next week making sure to tell me he hasn’t smoked or drank in a month. I mean….
That’s what my ex’s adult children tell me. They are always fighting because he uses their moms to make her jealous. SMH!
Oh yeah I remenber Ive always choosen people alike
Its a hard place to be in hurt and constant pain all the time
This is why when I 'm done, I 'm done. I tried the being friends thing, but really, it's an excuse for them to be petty & try to stay close to hurt us more for making a sane, rational, emotionally valid decision to end a crap relationship.
I could care less about him and his supply. I blocked him and his family, so that's not my business, What goes on with him cause what I do know is she paying for anything
I am Just "THE L❤VE he LOST.....and "WALKING BY FAITH" as a BLACK and PROUD BLACK WOMAN...."MULTI-BILLIONAIRESS" in PEACE and 💯% COVERED BY THE FBI/CIA 24/7 365- DAYS PER YEAR...👉💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💪
mine is successful, beautiful, independent, and way out of his league
he poured on the same love bomb explosion that he did with me. They got me hooked quick. She has no clue a ticking time bomb she just lit
15 YEARS 🥺😔
I use to care but now I don't
My ex seems to really love and care about his kids and mother. it's kinda confusing. I feel like his issues stem from his mother and deceased father, but he holds his mother in high regard. Maybe I just don't have enough information about his childhood even though he talks about it as if it was great. Talks about how good of a disciplinarian his mother was, and he had a great stepfather he still keeps in touch with. I must be missing something. I've been around, and it seems all good. Maybe his narcissism stems from a doting mother instead of being abusive.
Hey May actually love her. How far after their relationship did you come into the picture? Are you the new supply?
@lelo46 you read that wrong. I didn't say he loves his kids' mother. I said his kids and mother.
Narcissist male mostly have the traits from their mother.
You are hurting yourself to hurt another, you must be old Gregg. Guess what, you caused the whole thing, you are not a real boy yet, but if you want to be a real boy, you might find a real girl who genuinely loves and cares for you deeply. Maybe you could learn what it means to be a genuine person instead of one in the making. May the blessings of love and understanding rain down upon you and all others, may we all wake up to the truth of ourselves and this life we are experiencing, in Jesus name, so be it.
Thank you for that 🙏🏾💯🙌🏾❤️
I don't care about the next supply or any other part of his life we are done I get it so I AM MOVING ON!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊😊😊, I am not jealous I just want a Divorce, on to the next one, or maybe stay on my own one thing for sure I sleep really good now I am enjoying my best life, without Heath Sean Fulgham, and others my life is quiet and Peaceful
I really wanna degrade u, but at least u display remorse which causes ppl like me a chance to hear truth and begin to heal, so thank u sir for choosing to be forthcoming. It helps❤
In my case that sure did not work on me so if he had in his delusional mind that I wanted him I guess I proved him wrong I don't guess I know I did when I went to file my divorce I was a long out of in love I was just waiting for the right time to get away from him and go into hiding so he can't find me so not everybody is still in love we do get sick and tired of being sick and tired too now he can deal with the fact that I divorced him and dump them and never look back I don't look like his social media could care less I haven't blocked on everything so when I filed for divorce I meant everything that I said he's the one that's stalking and trying to find me asking around town about me it'll never happen again see that's their problem they think that someone still wants them when it's not true in all cases😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
I can't believe people fell for this. Seems like mental illness on both sides. I'll never understand why someone cares about who dates who after a breakup. If you can't find happiness with me then I wish you all the best finding it with someone else.
Be careful what you don't understand and think is so easy is more complicated than you think.
@@slicksophistication517 That's why my comment says "mental illness" because logic doesn't behave like that.
It did not work he's with a nasty old narc he twin that's all they actually look good together both 🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️
Sounds childish
Childish as fuck and this is why is so many crimes of passion because he's blue have absolutely no reason to cheat none!! 🙄 I don't even like claiming that Nigga ... but my ex, and his new thing still in hidin😭😭🤷🏾♀️ I don't play that shit at all‼️
I don’t care 😅as an empath i really don’t care he may become Joe Biden and mary miss univers i really don’t care …i’m freee❤ sorry for my english😅im francophon
The new supply that he is currently in a relationship with he met through an escort booking website she keeps calling me to ask questions about him and I can already tell it’s doomed
already doomed, I agree!!!!