How To Tell a Girl You DON'T Want to Just Be Friends

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024

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  • @Hunter-kt5bu
    @Hunter-kt5bu Місяць тому +6

    you’ve been helping me since middle school bro. just wanna say thank you 🙏

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  Місяць тому +3

      Thanks man, I'm happy to have been a part of your journey!

    • @joenuts7027
      @joenuts7027 Місяць тому +2

      Saaaame I’m starting college in a few weeks and I remember watching videos about how to get girls I knew in six grade

  • @joenuts7027
    @joenuts7027 Місяць тому +1

    Josh seriously never stop posting (obviously unless you move on and start a new chapter of your life) but you have helped so many people myself included and you continue to do so. 🎉

  • @johnstip
    @johnstip Місяць тому +1

    Amazing video! I love it

  • @bernhardheymann5156
    @bernhardheymann5156 Місяць тому +1

    Finally wholesome dating advice 🔥

  • @jaylencninjaturtlesandbarn3454
    @jaylencninjaturtlesandbarn3454 Місяць тому

    Yeah I found out that being friends is just a no and also I don't think I can be friends still with feelings

  • @EaglesFan202
    @EaglesFan202 Місяць тому +1

    IMO it's possible to stay friends it just takes a few things to get used too

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  Місяць тому +1

      Totally agree, the hardest part is being able to put your feelings aside and to focus on maintaining the friendship part of your interactions. If you can do that then I think its totally achievable.

  • @Ryan-qu2uy
    @Ryan-qu2uy Місяць тому

    Hey Josh, some people think it's weak and immature to end a friendship with someone when the feelings aren't mutual, how would your response to people that say that?

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  Місяць тому

      What matters most is doing what you know will work best for you. It's possible to maintain a friendship while still holding feelings for someone, but it's going to require you to put those feelings aside to instead commit to something other than what you may want.
      For some people, it may feel too hard for them to do so pulling away from the friendship, gaining some space and letting those feelings dissolve might be the best course of action to take.

  • @TheSnoozeFox
    @TheSnoozeFox Місяць тому

    Neither of those texts are gonna work man it sounds way too needy. Remember the guys she is seeing and banging do not send essays or desperate texts. You just say I am not tryna be friends, "If I take you out its gonna be a be date if not cool."

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  Місяць тому +1

      That's another way to phrase it. I think ultimately everyone should say it in their own voice and use the words that align best with how they feel comfortable speaking. I would say though that the intention behind both our phrasing remains similar though.

  • @mohammadalabed8274
    @mohammadalabed8274 Місяць тому

    Ok now she rejected me and she said that I can't respond to something like that because I don't wana be something I can't do for my one reasons pls if see my comment tell what to do

    • @mohammadalabed8274
      @mohammadalabed8274 Місяць тому

      And I'm totally destroyed after rejection I can't sleep I cry all the time like suddenly start crying and stoping and then crying I got rejected last night and I can't even drink water and searched for your UA-cam channel and it helped me but I don't know what to do

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  Місяць тому

      Hey man, im sorry to hear that you got rejected. You did the first part which was to make your intentions clear. If she isn't interested in pursuing the type of relationship you want, you now have to make the difficult choice of accepting just a friendship while trying to put your feelings aside or walking away from the friendship with her.

    • @mohammadalabed8274
      @mohammadalabed8274 Місяць тому

      @@TheJoshSpeaks I don't know I feel like I want to be more than just a friend Iwas a good friend to her when I asked her she apologized and she told me you are really sweet and awesome but don't expect something like that I told her take your time and she said it's impossible your not the problem it's me what do you suggest for suffering the rejection she is still my friend but the only difference that she knows I have feeling's for her but I spent this day crying I don't know what to do I'm about to explode I can barely breathe and I'm 16 year's old

    • @mohammadalabed8274
      @mohammadalabed8274 Місяць тому

      @@TheJoshSpeaks how to walk away I loved her for 2 years all I remember is me trying to be her boyfriend but man you are literally awesome thanks for helping all these people and thanks for helping me

  • @crispyslade1841
    @crispyslade1841 Місяць тому

    People are actually taking advice from this guy😂?

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  Місяць тому

      Why shouldn't they?

    • @crispyslade1841
      @crispyslade1841 Місяць тому

      @@TheJoshSpeaks probably because you’re an incel virgin that lies online for clicks

    • @crispyslade1841
      @crispyslade1841 Місяць тому

      @@TheJoshSpeaksBecause you’ve never pulled a female in your life

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  Місяць тому

      @@crispyslade1841 you must be new to the channel. I'm married.

    • @crispyslade1841
      @crispyslade1841 Місяць тому

      @@TheJoshSpeaks Why’re you giving dating advice if you’re married? being married doesn’t make you an expert in dating.