It really is true. It’s how I learned I was a decider. My mother in law is an observer (guessing ENFP), and every unusual sensory experience.. the weather, how cold it was, how dark it was, how many people there were.. if we experienced it together, I was always like “yeah. Crazy. Winter is cold. Anyways..” and for her it was like “WOAH. Stop everything. I need to call my friend and process how cold it is.” Her reactions always felt ridiculous after a few moments lol, but I learned to admire and was even envious of her because of just how much magic she got in those moments of discovery. Ive learned to take more time with those magical moments and appreciate them and the whatever wisdom she gleaned from them. It’s a lesson deciders can take from observers I think, especially more thinky deciders (pretty sure im intp).
No drama people are hard to type. That’s what stuck with me the most. That’s the place I want to get to using my OPS type. A place where I’m calm and don’t see the necessity for drama because I’m aligned with reality.
As an Ne, I think we're looking for some sort of tangible meaning that can anchor all the concepts we play around with in our head. Experiencing a really impressive Si moment might do this. It anchors us to reality in a way. I'm an ENFP, borderline ENTP, and I've experienced bliss only once - it was on a hiking trip with friends, while we were sitting looking out onto the view. I still remember the smell of the ground. I can't even explain the sensations. Everything was perfect, my soul was at complete peace, the combination of wonder in relation to the view mixed with the feeling of affection in relation to the friends there was just amazing. Funnily enough though, there is one big Si thing I just can't wrap my head around. Death. Every time someone close to me passes away (and I've experienced people passing in a multitude of ways) it just always feels surreal. For example, even to this day the emptiness of my grandparent's house feel surreal. Or the fact that I can't call my friend up for a chat anymore feels surreal, like she was there and now she isn't, how can that be real?! It's so strange 😂
The picture of her staring at the rock with no awareness of "holding up the line" 🤣 Thank you for always explaining why I felt like an alien. I vividly remember, at 4 years old, being yelled at by my Decider parents at Disney World to "get in there!!!" with the character meet and greets. And my Decider husband, to this day, has to usher me around stores and crowded public spaces so people don't run into me as I zone out trying to process everything around me. Memory unlocked: I used to spend hours as a small child collecting and examining rocks from under our deck.
When did the Objective Personality system start including numbers? I have no idea what 1s and 3s or whatever number is referring to. And I could have sworn there was a video of them explicitly stating that there's no such thing as in their system as a type being a certain number.
It’s a relatively new thing, he’s referencing "social types" kind if like the instincts in enneagram. The explanation is behind the pay wall, but there’s some good intro with different OPS youtubers out there
Yeah the pay wall is a big problem with OPs because they give you sneak peaks but its just not enough. If you want an idea to spread you cann't pay wall most of it@@Charmian-and-Iras
I always imagine and think of me as river full of fish and the reaction one fish would have if it suddenly was hit by a lightning, and the lightning gave consciousness. What would the fish do in the desesperation of knowing. I imagine the first thing he does is stop and cry knowing his future and the future of others, but being desperate because you´re not getting this info out.
Do fishes cry? No, they do not cry because they simply can't produce tears while living underwater. Also, a fish doesn't have the cerebral cortex and the limbic system, which are the part of most mammal's brain that deals with emotions. To be clear, this is just a general observation. BRUH
Interesting. Can you put #1, #3, etc on a playlist. Some newcomers are pretty dumb to understand you. Or do they need to pay to know? Thats totally cool, no judgement.
it's a spiritual experience man. everything is, when you really look at it. That's what that "wwwwoooooooooowwwww" bullshit sound is supposed to mean that dave used to try to explain it.
Your extra coin-explaining is insightful and the back and forth is a welcome addition to the channel. Happy 2024!
It really is true. It’s how I learned I was a decider. My mother in law is an observer (guessing ENFP), and every unusual sensory experience.. the weather, how cold it was, how dark it was, how many people there were.. if we experienced it together, I was always like “yeah. Crazy. Winter is cold. Anyways..” and for her it was like “WOAH. Stop everything. I need to call my friend and process how cold it is.” Her reactions always felt ridiculous after a few moments lol, but I learned to admire and was even envious of her because of just how much magic she got in those moments of discovery. Ive learned to take more time with those magical moments and appreciate them and the whatever wisdom she gleaned from them. It’s a lesson deciders can take from observers I think, especially more thinky deciders (pretty sure im intp).
No drama people are hard to type. That’s what stuck with me the most.
That’s the place I want to get to using my OPS type. A place where I’m calm and don’t see the necessity for drama because I’m aligned with reality.
Let me onto your channel account so i can organize your videos into pretty playlists 😭
Please !!!
"The eyeliner gives it away" 🤣
As an Ne, I think we're looking for some sort of tangible meaning that can anchor all the concepts we play around with in our head.
Experiencing a really impressive Si moment might do this. It anchors us to reality in a way.
I'm an ENFP, borderline ENTP, and I've experienced bliss only once - it was on a hiking trip with friends, while we were sitting looking out onto the view. I still remember the smell of the ground. I can't even explain the sensations. Everything was perfect, my soul was at complete peace, the combination of wonder in relation to the view mixed with the feeling of affection in relation to the friends there was just amazing.
Funnily enough though, there is one big Si thing I just can't wrap my head around.
Death.
Every time someone close to me passes away (and I've experienced people passing in a multitude of ways) it just always feels surreal. For example, even to this day the emptiness of my grandparent's house feel surreal. Or the fact that I can't call my friend up for a chat anymore feels surreal, like she was there and now she isn't, how can that be real?! It's so strange 😂
The picture of her staring at the rock with no awareness of "holding up the line" 🤣 Thank you for always explaining why I felt like an alien. I vividly remember, at 4 years old, being yelled at by my Decider parents at Disney World to "get in there!!!" with the character meet and greets. And my Decider husband, to this day, has to usher me around stores and crowded public spaces so people don't run into me as I zone out trying to process everything around me.
Memory unlocked: I used to spend hours as a small child collecting and examining rocks from under our deck.
When did the Objective Personality system start including numbers? I have no idea what 1s and 3s or whatever number is referring to. And I could have sworn there was a video of them explicitly stating that there's no such thing as in their system as a type being a certain number.
It’s a relatively new thing, he’s referencing "social types" kind if like the instincts in enneagram. The explanation is behind the pay wall, but there’s some good intro with different OPS youtubers out there
Yeah the pay wall is a big problem with OPs because they give you sneak peaks but its just not enough. If you want an idea to spread you cann't pay wall most of it@@Charmian-and-Iras
I always imagine and think of me as river full of fish and the reaction one fish would have if it suddenly was hit by a lightning, and the lightning gave consciousness. What would the fish do in the desesperation of knowing. I imagine the first thing he does is stop and cry knowing his future and the future of others, but being desperate because you´re not getting this info out.
Do fishes cry? No, they do not cry because they simply can't produce tears while living underwater. Also, a fish doesn't have the cerebral cortex and the limbic system, which are the part of most mammal's brain that deals with emotions. To be clear, this is just a general observation. BRUH
What does he mean when he says No 3? Where can I learn more about it? Around 5:51
I think its enneagram but im not sure
Evelyn shoutout, fuck yeah
Awesome breakdown. I really appreciated that explanation of demon sensory. Definitely true for me.
100% im a decider and i WOULD cause drama on the spaceship :-3
So would I... (INFP)
okay but she is so charming and pretty 😭
Lemme guess before he types her; ENTP, she looks like the guy that played Freddie Mercury.
Yes Rami Malek I immediately thought the same thing!
😂😂
Interesting.
Can you put #1, #3, etc on a playlist.
Some newcomers are pretty dumb to understand you.
Or do they need to pay to know?
Thats totally cool, no judgement.
you need to pay to know but there are other channels who make videos about it.
Oh thanks. So he mostly talking to his past subscribers. Things make sense now.
We made our own introduction to their new social types. It explained the basic notions: ua-cam.com/video/Q1PKKyjdBSU/v-deo.htmlsi=x_CsEDICMoebL5dK
I have a friend like this lady, She is an INTP....
Maybe the dear Astronaut is an INTP as well?
it's a spiritual experience man. everything is, when you really look at it. That's what that "wwwwoooooooooowwwww" bullshit sound is supposed to mean that dave used to try to explain it.
Yes, spiritual, a search for meaning. At least for me.
Sir we all know you have not taken DMT haha
Hey!! I'm ENFP and no drama!!
Hey i have that shirt!
Oh, so that's how you typed me so fast 🥲