you took the words out of my mouth (or head ig). Being an ENTP is like knowing so, so, so much but not knowing how to deal with it because communicating our thoughts is never easy. I also noticed that when it comes to other people's emotions/behaviours/lives, we're so incredibly skilled at analyzing and understanding them, yet we can never understand our own. I don't know who I am. I don't know how to implement my ideas and i don't really have this grasp of myself the way it seems every other type does. ENTPs are living proof of "jack of all trades, master of none", and it's so frustrating, knowing so much about something but never enough to do anything with it, because that's what's valued in this world. I'm so disconnected with everything that I feel like I'm living on autopilot and not really experiencing anything. I have no routine, no sense of direction in life, nothing. I'm grateful I'm able to pursue higher education, but idk wth im gonna do with it. That was my entp ramble, anyways thanks so much for vocalizing this. Good to know I'm not going crazy.
I’m an XNTP leaning ENTP and the untreated ADHD is an issue. I also get you with the not knowing WHO YOU ARE. I never know what I want or like in any aspect of my life. I think I want a family someday(so like wife and kids), but that’s about it. There are some things I know I like. Other people get extremely attached to things they like…I don’t at all. I will immediately and easily abandon passions, interests, and hobbies as soon as it becomes less interesting or I realize it is logically incorrect. I generally like Jazz music, certain video games, philosophy, psychology, and sometimes science. I’m really smart and good at A LOT of stuff too, as I can be a natural because I learn fast. My value system is a little whack and sometimes I wonder if I’m a psychopath. It seems like many topics and ideas that would traumatize people…I seem to feel nothing around. If anything I find them fascinating. The most horrible, degenerate, and wrong things in society I have no problem casually discussing with strangers. It frequently makes others uncomfortable, but Its not my intention and it makes me feel bad. My curiosity is intense and 100% uncensored. When I learned what having Fi in the 7th spot or having PoLR Fi and dominant Ne it started to make a lot of sense.
I mean, you're not a psychopath unless you manipulate people and control them to get money or control. They also have insanely fragile tweeny egoes that needs to be incredibly grandiose to feel adequate. It's just that we look at things in the abstract in a detached maner, logically. The Fi/Te axis is a completely different way of understanding that really can be shocking to us. IxFPs in particular you really need to understand that they "think" with their emotions, veery deeply. So it is very easy for a disturbance to happen. Entps are in general some of the most empathetic people you'll ever come across, so the psychopath stereotype is very unfair imo. For the rest of it, try to learn how to stop seeing what is possible in the external and look into the internal sub-conscious landscape. It's an infinate plane and really all you are trying to find is lying there up for grabs. We have an incredibly strong intuition so we can go so deep in our subconcious that it's almost frightening. But it is really that we are not used to deep rest.
@@AdamPratar I definitely hate being a disturbance and bothering others. I would prefer to never get in peoples way because I know I wouldn’t want someone in my way either. I do think I’m a lot more empathetic than some cruel and commanding people. I really do worry about others emotions. The problem is that I’m so detached from my own, I’m not always aware of what will rub people the wrong way. That is because NOTHING rubs me the wrong way. Every single topic is free game to me. I hate seeing certain topics not being talked about or not having the logical side argued for. The problem is those topics typically go unspoken for a reason. It doesn’t matter. My emotionally detached and overly curious mind will research it and I’ll talk about it anyway even with complete strangers sometimes. 😅
@@AdamPratar Yikes. Unsure if you're aware but INTP's understand your existential dilemma all too well as this resonates HARD with us; we have the exact same issue but our Fi is *even worse* than ENTP's to the point where our conscious is always weighing down on us about it very on in our consciousness/soul until we finally overcome that anxiety. Just finished video and I shit you not, literally everything you said in this video, I as an INTP relateto it 99-100% I have the same story with my INTJ best friend, I regurgitate and barf out a wealth of knowledge for him, and he spits the knowledge back at me in condensed form and acknowledges it's all insights learned from the things I'm always saying (which admittedly, he has a hand in guiding where my thoughts linger to as I get bored of things very quickly unless it's for helping those I care for). Same thing for Chess, I don't care for getting better as it feels like wasted time for me, but when I play chess with my INTJ friend it becomes all about helping him see his blindspots and grow in his own game. I empathize with you as Fi is an ENTP's blindspot - so I can see why it just suddenly hit you hard. Intent isn't to talk down or anything, but we get exactly what you're saying when it comes to this, it's amplified for us as we feel like we understand everything logically early on, but our Fi is so small that it causes us severely doubt ourselves and go straight into over-abusing our Ti to compensate until our logic carries us out of our rut. Also realize, your shadow type is INTJ (ours ENTJ, very similar parallels) -- you're very capable of learning your shadow functions and doing the same things an INTJ does when he's not there to keep you in check. You said it yourself, you're capable of understanding everything, so you know more than anyone it's yourself and your lack of discipline that's holding you back. I have a younger close relative who is also ENTP, and he's also going through a similar phase as what you're going through - he's unintentionally driven himself into a corner of complacency and comfort - I'm not worried though as he's clearly capable and just needs to push himself. Best advice is to acknowledge that you're holding yourself back by hiding in comfort, ENTP has the highest growth rate of all types, learn and abuse your strength by disciplining yourself through *developing your own ideals and truths.* CS Joseph channel has a great ENTP video up released just a few days ago I'd recommend you watch, it addresses everything you talked about in this video - I feel he's a great resource for you as he's an older ENTP and has clearly pretty far into his own self-growth. Cheers on your journey, as an older NT I look at all NT's as my siblings/brethren, we see the world a lot differently than the other types - I see it as our calling to call out the bullshit and break down corruption, or if not that then at least survive and revel in it.
Omg, I rarely comment under videos. But I have to say, this video has completely shook me. I am an infj and I think I've completely mistaken the entp type. To be honest, it was like I couldn't really grasp who they really are. But by seeing your video, I've figured out how much I need to learn more about your type. Thank you for showing us your vulnerability. It's precious. It makes me understand that at the end, all types have their own struggles and how we human beings are built to work complementary. I don't think life is just made for people who are expert or focused on only one thing. Indeed they succeed easily in life. I'd say they're here to maintain the society a certain way. But multi potential people have also their things to do in this society. Maybe the road is less linear and difficult, but it's important. We need to acknowledge it and find our strength in it. But first we need to stop comparing our weakness to other people's strength and find our own strength.
A 47 year old ENTP here, living in Sweden (based on your accent I assume you do to). I took me over 30 years to get in touch with my emotions (shut of because of a narcissistic parent) so I feel for you. They are sometimes overwhelming, but I still love them. And my personality is a goldmine for my profession, working in support (fixer) for a tech company.
I'm an ENTP as well. When you talked about where we live, pointing to the head or the heart.... if you asked me, I'd point to the world around me. It's what created me. My mind is simply the part of me that allows me to understand it. But the world around me is what programmed me. It is the source of my inspiration. It is the game in which I exist. All of my actions and understanding are born of the experience given to me by the world around me. You mentioned playing chess. Even in chess, the moves are just a choice of the options given to us by the game environment. The rules and the opponent and the strategy create the move. We don't. Being a successful ENTP requires surrendering to the fact that we exist and flow at the mercy and inspiration of the world around us. This is why we aren't motivated when we are alone. We need to have a flow to carry us. We need a game to play. The hardest part of being an ENTP is surrendering to the fact that we are not in control. The game is in control. The flow is in control. The secret is surrender. Have you read "the subtle art of not giving a f&$^" it's a game changer I feel you so deeply brother. Thank you for sharing this video.
@@the.wandering.fool1981 Very well put, deeply appreciate it 🌌 I keep thinking I need to isolate myself to learn how to be alone and get waay too much water over my head.
Hi, ENTP here. It was really beautiful to see you bare such raw emotions early in the video, and the way you describe the bond between you and your INTJ friend is truly precious. I can also notice your shift, and relate to it - that even when I have really strong emotions, like where I sob or even scream in anguish, I tend to calm myself down quite quickly - I assume by applying my cerebral capacities. It is a bit strange to see you show this; as it is so very relatable and recognizable in my own life. You talk about feelings running deeper, and I remember talking to my partner (an INFJ) about how despite being keenly aware of myself in a relational sense within a structure of people, cognitive functions, goals, perspectives et cetera - I have a real struggle seeing 'my role'. It took me a really, painfully long time to find my own role, my self. However, when we talk about Fi, and my individual (felt) sense of self, it has been much harder to get a grasp of. Writing poems, and also contact improv, has been ways to gently strengthen and lift 'who I am' as a felt sense out of the subconscious. But it is surprisingly hard to do. I could imagine that being with an INTJ helps with connecting with this, as they can understand this side of you, and give you useful feedback. I still imagine it must take a lot of courage and having done some inner balancing to show that which you showed in this video. But mastery and knowledge about oneself is a really great reward in itself, and it is the most precious gift I know. My main drive/motivation is related to relationships. To have truly mutually enhancing relationships, where we are seen to the depth of our being. And I have noticed how focused and "judging" I am in my Ti, that when facing my INFJ partner, I have seen my own adamantium rear its head. I would say the realization that I have my own dogmas has lessened the feeling of "not being useful" anywhere a lot, by this goal being a personal purpose that I want to realize. At the same time, I am not sure how long it would have taken me to become aware of it without someone to challenge me. Going forward, there is nothing I long for more than finding more people who share a similar vision. And even though I am aware of what I want, I am more aware of what I am lacking to achieve it. How instrumental and important people are for me to be my best self, is both a boon to know and also weirdly difficult to be aware of. Without a back and forth with someone, I really don't function, and without a back and forth with someone on my own level, I can't improve beyond a rather average point - and what I find 'interesting' are all those realization I can have beyond that average point. It is nice to see someone encapsulate the ENTP, and who brings the emotions. Take care.
I read this the other day and it touched my soul. I can feel the depth beyond your words, maybe because I relate to my own life in what you say so strongly. Sometimes it can help to see another person who is similar to you, to appreciate the beauty of your own being. Thanks for letting me know that you see that there has to have been a lot of inner balancing for me to be able to have the capacity to be vulnerable in this way, it's really good to hear. The part of the necessity of other people and the pain of that awareness hits deep, like really deep. I'm still struggling coming to terms with this. In the past year I have moved TWICE to a place where I have nobody I know around because I want to force myself to learn how to function without other people. Both times I've come into a depression and that is where I currently stand. But I've gotten to a point now where the overwhelm of loneliness is starting to calm down and I'm more able to be with myself, but am still wondering if I can manage true solitude and productivity without other people around. Thank you very much for your comment, I wish you the best 🌬🌌
@@AdamPratar You are very welcome. Delving into Fi has been really hard for me as well, but I truly feel that it is a function that will help me generally feeling more connected to what I want and to be in contact with my inner self. With regard to the Ne exposure "therapy" you are doing with moving to a place with only yourself, that does sound like a relatable type of challenge. My experience with my own INTJ side, is that 'negative emotions', like sadness, pain, distraughtness, depression, deep frustrations, are experienced and processed very differently there. And I assume you are already noticing that it is possible to harness this energy, as we are facing what is latent in ourselves - not something that is entirely external in the form of solitude. And, I also did something very uncommon and emailed you. So, here is to being more a-typical. Take care.
@@AdamPratar Hi, this is Indigo-ENTP's partner. This video of yours illuminated some of the vulnerabilities of the ENTP in a way I truly appreciate. It is very open and vulnerable what you tell us right here. I very rarely comment anywhere. Commenting is something I find quite terrifying, but sometimes it is worth doing I think. My partner has many times mentioned a feeling of not knowing his role or his place. I didn't really connect this to a desire to know more of his emotionality, but seeing your video those things seem very much connected. For me, what has complicated things is that my partner tends to find my emotionality stressful to deal with. It has seemed to me like he wanted less emotionality, and not more. Seeing your video though, I feel like I can sense a longing for a connection with your emotions. You acknowledge emotions as important, and as an INFJ, that is music to my ears. I have over the years definitely been quite adamant that my ENTP-partner develop his emotionality further. He has pushed back, but over the years I've realized that I wasn't wrong in pushing him on this. It was valuable feedback that he needed, even though it scares me a lot to give it. I've developed some of my shadow Ne. It has been a shock how much my Ne needs input and interaction with the world. I am used to being able to know who I am, on my own pretty much. When I connect with my Ne (my ENFP shadow side) I feel lost without interaction with my partner. I need to interact with him in order to feel that I exist, basically. I don't see how I could ever have begun developing that side of myself on my own. He has obviously very much encouraged me to do so, but also offers me input and interaction which I so desperately need in my Ne. I don't think I am able to truly comprehend how much he needs interaction with others, but I get an indication, I think, when I connect with my own Ne. He has always been much more focused on creating a group of people to venture forth with. I used to be focused on finding my one person. Since meeting him, I no longer think there is such a thing, and I am connecting with my own need for more people in my life. INFJs aren't really solitary animals, at least not this one. I need my alone-time definitely, but I want it in the context of close relationships with others. I want my Ni insight to be truly valued by others and this desire would be hard to fulfill if I lived secluded in a cabin all by myself. This was my long-term plan before meeting my ENTP. He says he saved me from a horrible fate, which is probably true.
Don't worry, to the rare Introverted Intuitives, ENTPs don't have their shit together because we notice lack of consistency and clear routine in actions. We just understand this could never be healthy in the long run because it connects to your personal interests. I came to realize just through understanding of cognitive functions that ENTPs don't really have a driving force in life, something to be passionate about but I never wanted to say it out loud cause I felt I understood something too personal about ENTPs to share without their approval. It's not my role to share such things when it's not even my type. That's why ENTPS can usually make fun of others, because they have something to cherish on the contrary, which makes them vulnerable and hurts them on the flip side when you play on it. That's why ENTPs feel so untouchable. And yet it paradoxically hurts to not have it when you're still a sentient being. INTJs they have the opposite problem. They go through tough times too cause they'll always have difficult relationships with others for lacking the respect and understanding of the other and the community spirit even if they'll usually pretend others are the problem. Something ENTPs can surely point out. I perfectly see what you mean with people saying ENTPs love to go into the unknown cause yes you do. ENTPs all say that but they don't get it's Extroverted Intuition, not comparable to how Introverted Intuition goes into the unknown so as soon as it appears functional, it's enough for you. Introverted Intuition on the contrary people with it don't always like going into the unknown, but when they do they don't to a certain extant but as deep as you possibly can to point out every potential problem that could arise later in your system cause they know it's not perfect precisely. So they won't stay into the unknown. They want it to be the closest to perfection. Even when they reasonably know something, they don't stop and want to become masters at it so the unknown will no longer exist. They'll constantly improve at something. Dedication is the key. When you push yourself into something, that's how you can develop interests. Introverted Intuitives contrary to Extroverted Intuitives are exactly that, specialists. They won't try everything but only few things because they know if they do they'll never master anything and they're not fine with that because they want to succeed. In order to be successful you have to improve at what you do so you have to keep working on it. Or else you could do multiple jobs without qualifications and that will be fine. To dedicate yourself to one path is exactly what Introverted Intuition does. It helps you to choose among multiple options by evaluating them according to multiple factors. Sometimes it makes you close too many doors for yourself but you always know where you're going. To my perspective, what you need is just to be with people to logically understand why what you do matters, so to connect to your emotions through Extroverted Feeling to make it justified for your Introverted Thinking that will want to work hard for it and you will actually enjoy it I suppose. An INTJ friend is a good support in life but maybe try to get closer to an Extroverted Feeler instead, and more specifically an ENFJ or INFJ because they'll not only really understand how you feel inside with your sense of identity in your mind, but they'll most likely have most of the answers for you, particularly about dedicating yourself to one path with Introverted Intuition. You seem to just need to bloom emotionally and to talk to someone who can relate to how you feel inside but also bring you new perspectives and I'm sure it will be fine for you. Just try to stay focused on this objective and to think about the positive impact it will have on your life in the long run even if it's not immediate satisfaction. ENTPs are so wise when they can stay a bit more serious and there is still great aspects about being an ENTP. You guys worth as much as anybody else, you just have to show it more sometimes. Find your way and stay strong.
i sat here an listened to you. I appreciate you for opening up your vulnerability to us in a video. Takes up courage to do something like that for me as an INFJ. To be honest i didn't know that much about ENTP until now, in this deep level. i am grateful that i get to learn more from this video to understand more about ENTP. i find how being an INFJ is also very painful for me, like a blessing and curse. Hard and surprising to find someone who struggles and feels this deeply about themselves, though it's beautiful. Many moments in life i live through pain to who i am, but to make it into a video like you? you admire you for that fr! Great video so far, and pls feel free to make more videos. I'd love to learn more about you. - INFJ
As a result of playing Overwatch I learned I make diamond in everything then quit. The goal is to be the best but I get bored when I reach above average competency
Yeah, that is my experience aswell. You could say it is a weakness of our personality or you could say it is a strength. As the saying continues... "A jack of all trades is a master of none, but oftentimes better than a master of one."
That’s funny you say that. As a gamer I’ve consistently peaked around Masters level in FPS games. I’m also trying to curb my OW addiction of 8 years cause no other game peaks my interest to learn. Deadlock is sorta filling that OW gap atm.
As an ENTP with ADHD, Ne/ENTP and ADHD are synonymous to me. In the ADHD community, there is a popular quote, "follow the dopamine," which suggests that people with ADHD (and Ne) who try to brute force and master one thing are likely to fail, struggle, and experience negative consequences. Therefore, the best approach for us is to do what our brain naturally leads us to do: jump from one thing to another. This may result in not finishing tasks or projects, but it will enable us to learn and achieve many things that would be impossible if we focused on mastering just one thing. Additionally, it is unique to us that we can learn about so many things so quickly. Other types can't do this as well. So, it's always a plus if we can utilize this ability.
wow, has to be one of the sincerest confessions I've come across from an ENTP, thank you so much for sharing your heart edit: you look so sad and defeated, I hope you can work out whatever you need working out :)))
I thank you wholeheartedly for making this video, for baring your feelings and thoughts so honestly about the struggles of an entp. It was cathartic listening to you. Current society does not favour the way an entp brain functions. I've always been in awe of the idea of a polymath and seen myself as a true Renaissance woman, but these deep-seated inclinations, even the talent, seem to be more of a curse than a blessing most of the time. Looking forward to more content from you!
I think its not surprising that in fiction the ENTP characters are very often the ones with ultimate powers and with speech level 100 (like Q in Star Trek and Bill Cipher in Gravity Falls) or they're some kind of very smart crazy scientists.These kinds of characters are often very likeable (at least in my and my friends' opinion) while being the ENTPs at their best. Unfortunately the real world oftentimes doesn't have slots like that for the ENTPs, the societies want stable beings with clear specific goals. I'm an INTP with adhd and I can relate to these struggles also quite deeply, I feel that my interests and passions are always towards something the society doesn't need or value, something like what mbti for example is :D
I can talk about anything like a nerd...but I'm quite guessing sometimes. And u can clearly see this when I talk to an intp/intj about the same things, I totally agree with everything...this made me think that im definitely an entp... cause i couldn't relate more
Im a INTJ here, 8w7, my cousin actually is ENTP n he is my roomate, he has so much passion for Soccer but I always question him why dont him apply all this knowledge by actually apply to a Soccer team, but he always just day dream and then say fuck it
Mmm, interesting you feel you must you must go deep into something? I don’t think that society is not built for specialists. That’s only seeing it in a narrow angle. A ‘know how ‘in one field when applied to another field can be a groundbreaking innovation or open up possibilities. That perhaps is the power and potential of ENTPs. When you know how everything works, you can apply them across different things and innovate. And then you find specialists to work with to do what you as an ENTP will eventually see as boring and mind numbing. You don’t succeed alone.
Does anyone else still have this lingering sense of dread when other people get close to you that at one point they’ll realize there’s no one really there inside behind all the performative behaviors?
I relate to this in a spiritual level. So many people have been in love with me yet everytime it happened i was always afraid that at a certain point they would TRULY see me and realise how i acted and how i am is two completely diferent things. I´m slowly trying to stop using masks and perform for people but its so damn hard when you ve done it you re whole life, and its even harder when people like you exactly because of this trait. its like destroying the exact trait that makes you likeable for other people.
@@Luvikhun yea im not sure if this precisely related but if i wanna do good in a sport first i have to get some sort of drive whats effective is doing well in front of other ppl but then that will get me to stress if i make some mistakes then ill just try not to do it for them so that im not affected emotionally but then ill lose my drive and everything is boring again, then i cant focus. sorry if this doesnt sound well put together
dude, I'm ENFP. I can relate to a lot, mainly the not fitting society part. I think I may be more tunned with my emotions and feelings, but this doesn't help me a lot, bc this leads me to paths that are not what society expects yk? I won't make a great amount of money with what I genuinely would like to pursuit, and I may change idea in a second... It's very annoying. Also, I'm a little tired of just giving ppl a lot of ideas so they can work on, bu me myself, I never work rlly hard in any idea bc I hust find sth more interesting in the way oof
Train your attention span and just keep trying, my fellow ENFP, you will find something to capture your attention for longer for some reason also try to tune your mind to keeping your attention beforehand! Best of luck!
I'm an ENTP and recently feel like I found myself. First time in my life I've been able to truly focus on something for prolongued periods of time. I really enjoy what I'm doing.
I would say that a high Fi ENTP is a healthy ENTP :) ENFPs are very similar to ENTPs and have strong Fi, am not assuming your type though! It's really annoying when people do that haha!
@ that’s very nice to hear haha. but the paradox is real. trying to figure out the logic of my feelings and lost because i don’t know is feeling this much a curse or a blessing while continuously finding answers
@@velaris5638 I think the answer lies somewhere in seeing the obsession of trying to make every feeling into a practical thought. Forcing something that's irrational to become rational. Feeling are supposed to flow and when we systematize them and put them into neat little boxes in our minds, we clog the river. The feeling of overwhelm comes from a clogged river over-flowing into the landscape. That there is water in the river is a good thing- if we manage to get rid of the obstruction that caused the flooding in the first place. I recently uploaded a video talking about these things, maybe it would be helpful to you since we seem to have a similar struggle.
@@futurecatlady3399 You can debate about it but I understand man, without proper context entp can be categorize the same as those with brain damage sometimes
ENTPs start peaking at like 30 anyway chill out you'll be fine/ Keep doing what you're doing. Look into the DMN (default mode network) and stop activating that area. Or ignore me. lol.. This comment could change ur life.
I didn't look into it, but "default mode network" has been a reoccurring phrase that has popped into my consciousness this past week and that has been really helpful. Thanks, mate 🙏
+@@AdamPratar duude, you really should look into it. I was thinking "eh he prolly won't look into it, but for some reason it feels really important to write the whole phrase out just in case." Weeird. I'm an INTJ btw.
since u explain how shit my life is .... and explaining my gf intj how shit can be ... i gave u subscribe... well as an entp to an entp ... dont try for other to understand u ... that is never going to happen u will always painted as villian and will be given " he is fine ... he is just need attention.... so i did shitted my life ... i screwed pretty well lot of entp or entp lovers try to clear the name ... i like it raw... and play the game of villian... life suck let it...
I think maybe you have some soul-searching to do and you would rather reject other people than confront some things about yourself. I don't think you're villainizing yourself, I think you're doing it to others. I appreciate the sub though, I just don't think it's ever to late for anybody to turn their life around and get a second chance at doing it right. Wish you all the best, brother.
I disagree with the ideas about the heart and mind. You mentioned god in there, and there seems to be a bit of bias/influence. Yes I would love to feel more someday, yet sometimes, I'm glad I do not feel. Someone in the room has to be the one that isn't hung up by feeling. That often is me, until I see intp's then I'm like your miserable aren't you, and we agree. Haha
Congratulations @Aldo-Hugo for being the only one here who has an en-basis understanding of MBTI. Whether you are a bot or not is absolutely irrelevant to myself. Adam Pratar it does NOT suck to be an ENTP, but it does indeed suck to be you and create this dreadful piece of "Sorry Me Click Bait Content". Before you even consider proceeding to reading the myersbriggs legacy, that is if you have the actual factual capacity to do so. Deal with yourself, and furthermore your mental health. Mind over your matter, you cannot handle the banter - Nothing more than a mere attention seeker. Shame on you, hope you take heed from this, and wish you all the very best in your life. One step at a time for after the rain comes the sunshine 🌧🌞 UwU - Much Love and Coconuts 💞🥥
Är också en svensk ENTP ska börja Juristprogrammet till höst har studerat psykologi och utforskat en hel del kring dessa ämnen med . Vore kul att prata med en annan ENTP och utbyta lite erfarenheter ✌️
I dont think ur entp. They dont use phrases like beautiful relationship. I would say i would say infj as in no fi at all. Infj do know everything with ni first. Im entj/intp. My first thought is you seem intp/entj which puts your fi in 8th. Intp are miserable all the time and entp think everything is a game so you seem intp to me. Just my opinion.
You should learn your cognitive functions better. If you were ENTP all you’d need is ISTP and INFJ friends as they are your beta and alpha types. What the ENTP is dismissive of is their sense of self worth. Only when engaging with their alpha and beta types does the ENTP gain that comprehension. ENTP exist for INFJ and ISTP. Stop going off stereotypes and refine your identity by being part of a collective. If you are ENTP you need to be a part of a collective conscience that includes INFJ, ESFJ, ENTP, and ISTP. Together one should be able to find purpose and advocacy for the values they build together. Until the ENTP finds their collective they should avoid dealing with other types as they will lack a foundation for them to stand on and command respect. Yes, the world is stacked against the ENTP because they belong to a collective that exists to oppose and balance another collective. This is the collective that consists of ENTJ, ISTJ, INFP, and ESFP. Together they comprise a collective that under the command of the ENTJ insure that their values and identity are insured. This means oppressing the ENTP collective to the point where no such collective can potentially exist and subjugation of all others. You can only fight this oppression by knowing. Insight others to form their own collective and identity in spite of their attachments to nationality, religion, doctrine, etc. Live for yourself by building that collective which should ensure that you are motivated and have a sense of direction.
Don't go off sterotypes but follow sterotypes? Learn to engage with people by engaging with no one? Live for yourself by living for your collective? What are you talking about? Lol
@@Bobby_101 That is a very binary way of looking at it. No type is better than another. They are all good at different things and are able to perform at any given task. Idk why you would think infjs are the worst, they are the most similar to Entps out of all the types. Basically like us but more structured and less energetic in their communication style. Isfj's are also very similar to Entps in how they think but are much more focused on details, facts, memories and method. All the same functions, just in reverse order. I find a lot of common ground when discussing with them actually, especially if they are older as it's not uncommon for them to reach the same conclusions as us given time. Infj's I deem to be the most compatible out of all the types for Entps.
@@AdamPratar Yeah i agree with a lot you said, except a few details. I just said that out of hyperboly, because I don't like being an INFJ, and I'd like to be an ExTP. And I don't fancy when someone with such a good cognitive stack underestimates just how effective they are. I don't disagree with the ENTP's problem you stated of course, that is true, not downplaying it. You guys are just so fast and effective at so much. And some types like us are just cursed to be inefficient and have a hard time at so many things in life.
@@Bobby_101 One man's trash is another man's treasure. I feel the same way you do about Entps but for Infjs. I have an Infj friend and he looks to me what I could've been if I had better self-control.
"I know everything, but I don't do shit about it." hits home🤣
Real
Ain't that the truth, Ruth. We have so many pieces of the larger picture, and we don't have enough dopamine to put them on the board.
Exactly
you took the words out of my mouth (or head ig). Being an ENTP is like knowing so, so, so much but not knowing how to deal with it because communicating our thoughts is never easy. I also noticed that when it comes to other people's emotions/behaviours/lives, we're so incredibly skilled at analyzing and understanding them, yet we can never understand our own. I don't know who I am. I don't know how to implement my ideas and i don't really have this grasp of myself the way it seems every other type does. ENTPs are living proof of "jack of all trades, master of none", and it's so frustrating, knowing so much about something but never enough to do anything with it, because that's what's valued in this world. I'm so disconnected with everything that I feel like I'm living on autopilot and not really experiencing anything. I have no routine, no sense of direction in life, nothing. I'm grateful I'm able to pursue higher education, but idk wth im gonna do with it.
That was my entp ramble, anyways thanks so much for vocalizing this. Good to know I'm not going crazy.
I’m an XNTP leaning ENTP and the untreated ADHD is an issue. I also get you with the not knowing WHO YOU ARE. I never know what I want or like in any aspect of my life. I think I want a family someday(so like wife and kids), but that’s about it. There are some things I know I like. Other people get extremely attached to things they like…I don’t at all. I will immediately and easily abandon passions, interests, and hobbies as soon as it becomes less interesting or I realize it is logically incorrect. I generally like Jazz music, certain video games, philosophy, psychology, and sometimes science. I’m really smart and good at A LOT of stuff too, as I can be a natural because I learn fast.
My value system is a little whack and sometimes I wonder if I’m a psychopath. It seems like many topics and ideas that would traumatize people…I seem to feel nothing around. If anything I find them fascinating. The most horrible, degenerate, and wrong things in society I have no problem casually discussing with strangers. It frequently makes others uncomfortable, but Its not my intention and it makes me feel bad. My curiosity is intense and 100% uncensored. When I learned what having Fi in the 7th spot or having PoLR Fi and dominant Ne it started to make a lot of sense.
I mean, you're not a psychopath unless you manipulate people and control them to get money or control. They also have insanely fragile tweeny egoes that needs to be incredibly grandiose to feel adequate.
It's just that we look at things in the abstract in a detached maner, logically. The Fi/Te axis is a completely different way of understanding that really can be shocking to us. IxFPs in particular you really need to understand that they "think" with their emotions, veery deeply. So it is very easy for a disturbance to happen.
Entps are in general some of the most empathetic people you'll ever come across, so the psychopath stereotype is very unfair imo.
For the rest of it, try to learn how to stop seeing what is possible in the external and look into the internal sub-conscious landscape. It's an infinate plane and really all you are trying to find is lying there up for grabs. We have an incredibly strong intuition so we can go so deep in our subconcious that it's almost frightening. But it is really that we are not used to deep rest.
@@AdamPratar I definitely hate being a disturbance and bothering others. I would prefer to never get in peoples way because I know I wouldn’t want someone in my way either. I do think I’m a lot more empathetic than some cruel and commanding people. I really do worry about others emotions.
The problem is that I’m so detached from my own, I’m not always aware of what will rub people the wrong way. That is because NOTHING rubs me the wrong way. Every single topic is free game to me. I hate seeing certain topics not being talked about or not having the logical side argued for. The problem is those topics typically go unspoken for a reason. It doesn’t matter. My emotionally detached and overly curious mind will research it and I’ll talk about it anyway even with complete strangers sometimes. 😅
@@AdamPratar Yikes. Unsure if you're aware but INTP's understand your existential dilemma all too well as this resonates HARD with us; we have the exact same issue but our Fi is *even worse* than ENTP's to the point where our conscious is always weighing down on us about it very on in our consciousness/soul until we finally overcome that anxiety.
Just finished video and I shit you not, literally everything you said in this video, I as an INTP relateto it 99-100% I have the same story with my INTJ best friend, I regurgitate and barf out a wealth of knowledge for him, and he spits the knowledge back at me in condensed form and acknowledges it's all insights learned from the things I'm always saying (which admittedly, he has a hand in guiding where my thoughts linger to as I get bored of things very quickly unless it's for helping those I care for). Same thing for Chess, I don't care for getting better as it feels like wasted time for me, but when I play chess with my INTJ friend it becomes all about helping him see his blindspots and grow in his own game.
I empathize with you as Fi is an ENTP's blindspot - so I can see why it just suddenly hit you hard. Intent isn't to talk down or anything, but we get exactly what you're saying when it comes to this, it's amplified for us as we feel like we understand everything logically early on, but our Fi is so small that it causes us severely doubt ourselves and go straight into over-abusing our Ti to compensate until our logic carries us out of our rut.
Also realize, your shadow type is INTJ (ours ENTJ, very similar parallels) -- you're very capable of learning your shadow functions and doing the same things an INTJ does when he's not there to keep you in check. You said it yourself, you're capable of understanding everything, so you know more than anyone it's yourself and your lack of discipline that's holding you back.
I have a younger close relative who is also ENTP, and he's also going through a similar phase as what you're going through - he's unintentionally driven himself into a corner of complacency and comfort - I'm not worried though as he's clearly capable and just needs to push himself. Best advice is to acknowledge that you're holding yourself back by hiding in comfort, ENTP has the highest growth rate of all types, learn and abuse your strength by disciplining yourself through *developing your own ideals and truths.*
CS Joseph channel has a great ENTP video up released just a few days ago I'd recommend you watch, it addresses everything you talked about in this video - I feel he's a great resource for you as he's an older ENTP and has clearly pretty far into his own self-growth. Cheers on your journey, as an older NT I look at all NT's as my siblings/brethren, we see the world a lot differently than the other types - I see it as our calling to call out the bullshit and break down corruption, or if not that then at least survive and revel in it.
Omg, I rarely comment under videos. But I have to say, this video has completely shook me. I am an infj and I think I've completely mistaken the entp type. To be honest, it was like I couldn't really grasp who they really are. But by seeing your video, I've figured out how much I need to learn more about your type. Thank you for showing us your vulnerability. It's precious. It makes me understand that at the end, all types have their own struggles and how we human beings are built to work complementary.
I don't think life is just made for people who are expert or focused on only one thing. Indeed they succeed easily in life. I'd say they're here to maintain the society a certain way. But multi potential people have also their things to do in this society. Maybe the road is less linear and difficult, but it's important. We need to acknowledge it and find our strength in it. But first we need to stop comparing our weakness to other people's strength and find our own strength.
Thank very much for these words. I have taken them to the heart.
A 47 year old ENTP here, living in Sweden (based on your accent I assume you do to). I took me over 30 years to get in touch with my emotions (shut of because of a narcissistic parent) so I feel for you. They are sometimes overwhelming, but I still love them. And my personality is a goldmine for my profession, working in support (fixer) for a tech company.
@@JonasSalomonsson Tack för ditt meddelande. Hur såg processen ut för dig att komma i kontakt med dina känslor igen?
I'm an ENTP as well. When you talked about where we live, pointing to the head or the heart.... if you asked me, I'd point to the world around me. It's what created me. My mind is simply the part of me that allows me to understand it.
But the world around me is what programmed me. It is the source of my inspiration. It is the game in which I exist. All of my actions and understanding are born of the experience given to me by the world around me.
You mentioned playing chess. Even in chess, the moves are just a choice of the options given to us by the game environment. The rules and the opponent and the strategy create the move. We don't.
Being a successful ENTP requires surrendering to the fact that we exist and flow at the mercy and inspiration of the world around us.
This is why we aren't motivated when we are alone. We need to have a flow to carry us. We need a game to play.
The hardest part of being an ENTP is surrendering to the fact that we are not in control. The game is in control. The flow is in control. The secret is surrender.
Have you read "the subtle art of not giving a f&$^" it's a game changer
I feel you so deeply brother. Thank you for sharing this video.
@@the.wandering.fool1981 Very well put, deeply appreciate it 🌌 I keep thinking I need to isolate myself to learn how to be alone and get waay too much water over my head.
Hi, ENTP here. It was really beautiful to see you bare such raw emotions early in the video, and the way you describe the bond between you and your INTJ friend is truly precious.
I can also notice your shift, and relate to it - that even when I have really strong emotions, like where I sob or even scream in anguish, I tend to calm myself down quite quickly - I assume by applying my cerebral capacities. It is a bit strange to see you show this; as it is so very relatable and recognizable in my own life.
You talk about feelings running deeper, and I remember talking to my partner (an INFJ) about how despite being keenly aware of myself in a relational sense within a structure of people, cognitive functions, goals, perspectives et cetera - I have a real struggle seeing 'my role'. It took me a really, painfully long time to find my own role, my self. However, when we talk about Fi, and my individual (felt) sense of self, it has been much harder to get a grasp of. Writing poems, and also contact improv, has been ways to gently strengthen and lift 'who I am' as a felt sense out of the subconscious. But it is surprisingly hard to do.
I could imagine that being with an INTJ helps with connecting with this, as they can understand this side of you, and give you useful feedback. I still imagine it must take a lot of courage and having done some inner balancing to show that which you showed in this video. But mastery and knowledge about oneself is a really great reward in itself, and it is the most precious gift I know.
My main drive/motivation is related to relationships. To have truly mutually enhancing relationships, where we are seen to the depth of our being. And I have noticed how focused and "judging" I am in my Ti, that when facing my INFJ partner, I have seen my own adamantium rear its head. I would say the realization that I have my own dogmas has lessened the feeling of "not being useful" anywhere a lot, by this goal being a personal purpose that I want to realize. At the same time, I am not sure how long it would have taken me to become aware of it without someone to challenge me.
Going forward, there is nothing I long for more than finding more people who share a similar vision. And even though I am aware of what I want, I am more aware of what I am lacking to achieve it. How instrumental and important people are for me to be my best self, is both a boon to know and also weirdly difficult to be aware of. Without a back and forth with someone, I really don't function, and without a back and forth with someone on my own level, I can't improve beyond a rather average point - and what I find 'interesting' are all those realization I can have beyond that average point.
It is nice to see someone encapsulate the ENTP, and who brings the emotions.
Take care.
I read this the other day and it touched my soul. I can feel the depth beyond your words, maybe because I relate to my own life in what you say so strongly. Sometimes it can help to see another person who is similar to you, to appreciate the beauty of your own being. Thanks for letting me know that you see that there has to have been a lot of inner balancing for me to be able to have the capacity to be vulnerable in this way, it's really good to hear. The part of the necessity of other people and the pain of that awareness hits deep, like really deep. I'm still struggling coming to terms with this. In the past year I have moved TWICE to a place where I have nobody I know around because I want to force myself to learn how to function without other people. Both times I've come into a depression and that is where I currently stand. But I've gotten to a point now where the overwhelm of loneliness is starting to calm down and I'm more able to be with myself, but am still wondering if I can manage true solitude and productivity without other people around. Thank you very much for your comment, I wish you the best 🌬🌌
@@AdamPratar You are very welcome. Delving into Fi has been really hard for me as well, but I truly feel that it is a function that will help me generally feeling more connected to what I want and to be in contact with my inner self.
With regard to the Ne exposure "therapy" you are doing with moving to a place with only yourself, that does sound like a relatable type of challenge. My experience with my own INTJ side, is that 'negative emotions', like sadness, pain, distraughtness, depression, deep frustrations, are experienced and processed very differently there. And I assume you are already noticing that it is possible to harness this energy, as we are facing what is latent in ourselves - not something that is entirely external in the form of solitude.
And, I also did something very uncommon and emailed you. So, here is to being more a-typical. Take care.
@@AdamPratar Hi, this is Indigo-ENTP's partner. This video of yours illuminated some of the vulnerabilities of the ENTP in a way I truly appreciate. It is very open and vulnerable what you tell us right here. I very rarely comment anywhere. Commenting is something I find quite terrifying, but sometimes it is worth doing I think.
My partner has many times mentioned a feeling of not knowing his role or his place. I didn't really connect this to a desire to know more of his emotionality, but seeing your video those things seem very much connected.
For me, what has complicated things is that my partner tends to find my emotionality stressful to deal with. It has seemed to me like he wanted less emotionality, and not more. Seeing your video though, I feel like I can sense a longing for a connection with your emotions. You acknowledge emotions as important, and as an INFJ, that is music to my ears.
I have over the years definitely been quite adamant that my ENTP-partner develop his emotionality further. He has pushed back, but over the years I've realized that I wasn't wrong in pushing him on this. It was valuable feedback that he needed, even though it scares me a lot to give it.
I've developed some of my shadow Ne. It has been a shock how much my Ne needs input and interaction with the world. I am used to being able to know who I am, on my own pretty much. When I connect with my Ne (my ENFP shadow side) I feel lost without interaction with my partner. I need to interact with him in order to feel that I exist, basically. I don't see how I could ever have begun developing that side of myself on my own. He has obviously very much encouraged me to do so, but also offers me input and interaction which I so desperately need in my Ne.
I don't think I am able to truly comprehend how much he needs interaction with others, but I get an indication, I think, when I connect with my own Ne. He has always been much more focused on creating a group of people to venture forth with. I used to be focused on finding my one person. Since meeting him, I no longer think there is such a thing, and I am connecting with my own need for more people in my life. INFJs aren't really solitary animals, at least not this one. I need my alone-time definitely, but I want it in the context of close relationships with others. I want my Ni insight to be truly valued by others and this desire would be hard to fulfill if I lived secluded in a cabin all by myself. This was my long-term plan before meeting my ENTP. He says he saved me from a horrible fate, which is probably true.
Don't worry, to the rare Introverted Intuitives, ENTPs don't have their shit together because we notice lack of consistency and clear routine in actions. We just understand this could never be healthy in the long run because it connects to your personal interests.
I came to realize just through understanding of cognitive functions that ENTPs don't really have a driving force in life, something to be passionate about but I never wanted to say it out loud cause I felt I understood something too personal about ENTPs to share without their approval. It's not my role to share such things when it's not even my type.
That's why ENTPS can usually make fun of others, because they have something to cherish on the contrary, which makes them vulnerable and hurts them on the flip side when you play on it. That's why ENTPs feel so untouchable. And yet it paradoxically hurts to not have it when you're still a sentient being. INTJs they have the opposite problem. They go through tough times too cause they'll always have difficult relationships with others for lacking the respect and understanding of the other and the community spirit even if they'll usually pretend others are the problem. Something ENTPs can surely point out.
I perfectly see what you mean with people saying ENTPs love to go into the unknown cause yes you do. ENTPs all say that but they don't get it's Extroverted Intuition, not comparable to how Introverted Intuition goes into the unknown so as soon as it appears functional, it's enough for you. Introverted Intuition on the contrary people with it don't always like going into the unknown, but when they do they don't to a certain extant but as deep as you possibly can to point out every potential problem that could arise later in your system cause they know it's not perfect precisely. So they won't stay into the unknown. They want it to be the closest to perfection. Even when they reasonably know something, they don't stop and want to become masters at it so the unknown will no longer exist. They'll constantly improve at something. Dedication is the key. When you push yourself into something, that's how you can develop interests. Introverted Intuitives contrary to Extroverted Intuitives are exactly that, specialists. They won't try everything but only few things because they know if they do they'll never master anything and they're not fine with that because they want to succeed. In order to be successful you have to improve at what you do so you have to keep working on it. Or else you could do multiple jobs without qualifications and that will be fine. To dedicate yourself to one path is exactly what Introverted Intuition does. It helps you to choose among multiple options by evaluating them according to multiple factors. Sometimes it makes you close too many doors for yourself but you always know where you're going.
To my perspective, what you need is just to be with people to logically understand why what you do matters, so to connect to your emotions through Extroverted Feeling to make it justified for your Introverted Thinking that will want to work hard for it and you will actually enjoy it I suppose. An INTJ friend is a good support in life but maybe try to get closer to an Extroverted Feeler instead, and more specifically an ENFJ or INFJ because they'll not only really understand how you feel inside with your sense of identity in your mind, but they'll most likely have most of the answers for you, particularly about dedicating yourself to one path with Introverted Intuition.
You seem to just need to bloom emotionally and to talk to someone who can relate to how you feel inside but also bring you new perspectives and I'm sure it will be fine for you. Just try to stay focused on this objective and to think about the positive impact it will have on your life in the long run even if it's not immediate satisfaction.
ENTPs are so wise when they can stay a bit more serious and there is still great aspects about being an ENTP. You guys worth as much as anybody else, you just have to show it more sometimes. Find your way and stay strong.
i sat here an listened to you. I appreciate you for opening up your vulnerability to us in a video. Takes up courage to do something like that for me as an INFJ. To be honest i didn't know that much about ENTP until now, in this deep level. i am grateful that i get to learn more from this video to understand more about ENTP. i find how being an INFJ is also very painful for me, like a blessing and curse. Hard and surprising to find someone who struggles and feels this deeply about themselves, though it's beautiful. Many moments in life i live through pain to who i am, but to make it into a video like you? you admire you for that fr! Great video so far, and pls feel free to make more videos. I'd love to learn more about you. - INFJ
As a result of playing Overwatch I learned I make diamond in everything then quit. The goal is to be the best but I get bored when I reach above average competency
Yeah, that is my experience aswell. You could say it is a weakness of our personality or you could say it is a strength. As the saying continues... "A jack of all trades is a master of none, but oftentimes better than a master of one."
That’s funny you say that. As a gamer I’ve consistently peaked around Masters level in FPS games. I’m also trying to curb my OW addiction of 8 years cause no other game peaks my interest to learn. Deadlock is sorta filling that OW gap atm.
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As an ENTP with ADHD, Ne/ENTP and ADHD are synonymous to me. In the ADHD community, there is a popular quote, "follow the dopamine," which suggests that people with ADHD (and Ne) who try to brute force and master one thing are likely to fail, struggle, and experience negative consequences. Therefore, the best approach for us is to do what our brain naturally leads us to do: jump from one thing to another. This may result in not finishing tasks or projects, but it will enable us to learn and achieve many things that would be impossible if we focused on mastering just one thing.
Additionally, it is unique to us that we can learn about so many things so quickly. Other types can't do this as well. So, it's always a plus if we can utilize this ability.
infj here I love you guys! ❤
We don’t
wow, has to be one of the sincerest confessions I've come across from an ENTP, thank you so much for sharing your heart
edit: you look so sad and defeated, I hope you can work out whatever you need working out :)))
Thank you! I am working it out and I might have gotten over the worst hurdle now. I really appreciate that you showed your compassion towards me :)
I thank you wholeheartedly for making this video, for baring your feelings and thoughts so honestly about the struggles of an entp. It was cathartic listening to you. Current society does not favour the way an entp brain functions. I've always been in awe of the idea of a polymath and seen myself as a true Renaissance woman, but these deep-seated inclinations, even the talent, seem to be more of a curse than a blessing most of the time. Looking forward to more content from you!
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Fi trickster/blindspot can be frustrating :/
I think its not surprising that in fiction the ENTP characters are very often the ones with ultimate powers and with speech level 100 (like Q in Star Trek and Bill Cipher in Gravity Falls) or they're some kind of very smart crazy scientists.These kinds of characters are often very likeable (at least in my and my friends' opinion) while being the ENTPs at their best. Unfortunately the real world oftentimes doesn't have slots like that for the ENTPs, the societies want stable beings with clear specific goals. I'm an INTP with adhd and I can relate to these struggles also quite deeply, I feel that my interests and passions are always towards something the society doesn't need or value, something like what mbti for example is :D
I see. I didn't even know how I function but I love some ENTP
- INFJ
4:23 interesting K maybe gonna finish watching l8r.
I can talk about anything like a nerd...but I'm quite guessing sometimes. And u can clearly see this when I talk to an intp/intj about the same things,
I totally agree with everything...this made me think that im definitely an entp... cause i couldn't relate more
'Puts in snus', must be swedish. 'Starts talking', yeah definitely swedish.
Bit entp are the funniest and witty people i know xD
-Concerned infp
Im a INTJ here, 8w7, my cousin actually is ENTP n he is my roomate, he has so much passion for Soccer but I always question him why dont him apply all this knowledge by actually apply to a Soccer team, but he always just day dream and then say fuck it
2 years of procrastination here...
Mmm, interesting you feel you must you must go deep into something?
I don’t think that society is not built for specialists. That’s only seeing it in a narrow angle.
A ‘know how ‘in one field when applied to another field can be a groundbreaking innovation or open up possibilities. That perhaps is the power and potential of ENTPs.
When you know how everything works, you can apply them across different things and innovate.
And then you find specialists to work with to do what you as an ENTP will eventually see as boring and mind numbing.
You don’t succeed alone.
Does anyone else still have this lingering sense of dread when other people get close to you that at one point they’ll realize there’s no one really there inside behind all the performative behaviors?
I relate to this in a spiritual level. So many people have been in love with me yet everytime it happened i was always afraid that at a certain point they would TRULY see me and realise how i acted and how i am is two completely diferent things. I´m slowly trying to stop using masks and perform for people but its so damn hard when you ve done it you re whole life, and its even harder when people like you exactly because of this trait. its like destroying the exact trait that makes you likeable for other people.
@@Luvikhun yea im not sure if this precisely related but if i wanna do good in a sport first i have to get some sort of drive whats effective is doing well in front of other ppl but then that will get me to stress if i make some mistakes then ill just try not to do it for them so that im not affected emotionally but then ill lose my drive and everything is boring again, then i cant focus. sorry if this doesnt sound well put together
I enjoyed this, thank you. -Entp
dude, I'm ENFP. I can relate to a lot, mainly the not fitting society part. I think I may be more tunned with my emotions and feelings, but this doesn't help me a lot, bc this leads me to paths that are not what society expects yk? I won't make a great amount of money with what I genuinely would like to pursuit, and I may change idea in a second... It's very annoying. Also, I'm a little tired of just giving ppl a lot of ideas so they can work on, bu me myself, I never work rlly hard in any idea bc I hust find sth more interesting in the way oof
Train your attention span and just keep trying, my fellow ENFP, you will find something to capture your attention for longer for some reason also try to tune your mind to keeping your attention beforehand!
Best of luck!
"In the way of oof" 🤣 Man, I love Entps so much hahaha
I'm an ENTP and recently feel like I found myself.
First time in my life I've been able to truly focus on something for prolongued periods of time.
I really enjoy what I'm doing.
what is it?
so,, anyone with any idea how much of a paradox world a high Fi entp live in,, like me? :(
I would say that a high Fi ENTP is a healthy ENTP :) ENFPs are very similar to ENTPs and have strong Fi, am not assuming your type though! It's really annoying when people do that haha!
@ that’s very nice to hear haha. but the paradox is real. trying to figure out the logic of my feelings and lost because i don’t know is feeling this much a curse or a blessing while continuously finding answers
@@velaris5638 I think the answer lies somewhere in seeing the obsession of trying to make every feeling into a practical thought. Forcing something that's irrational to become rational. Feeling are supposed to flow and when we systematize them and put them into neat little boxes in our minds, we clog the river. The feeling of overwhelm comes from a clogged river over-flowing into the landscape. That there is water in the river is a good thing- if we manage to get rid of the obstruction that caused the flooding in the first place. I recently uploaded a video talking about these things, maybe it would be helpful to you since we seem to have a similar struggle.
@@AdamPratar that was, a really nice explanation. will think deeper into it! and will check out ur new video 🫶
@@velaris5638 Sounds good! Just make sure to not think too much! haha
change speed to 1.5 might help
Nah man, 2x is better
Thanks for the tip homie I was starting to twitch
@@futurecatlady3399 You can debate about it but I understand man, without proper context entp can be categorize the same as those with brain damage sometimes
@@vuminhquanle1426 yeah like I wanna listen don't get me wrong but my boi is talking too many long pauses 😭😭😭. But gotta give him the eloquence point
ENTPs start peaking at like 30 anyway chill out you'll be fine/ Keep doing what you're doing. Look into the DMN (default mode network) and stop activating that area.
Or ignore me. lol.. This comment could change ur life.
I didn't look into it, but "default mode network" has been a reoccurring phrase that has popped into my consciousness this past week and that has been really helpful. Thanks, mate 🙏
+@@AdamPratar duude, you really should look into it. I was thinking "eh he prolly won't look into it, but for some reason it feels really important to write the whole phrase out just in case." Weeird. I'm an INTJ btw.
ok
It's worse to be an infp take it from me.....
Ne-fe loop is looping
Yup
since u explain how shit my life is .... and explaining my gf intj how shit can be ... i gave u subscribe... well as an entp to an entp ... dont try for other to understand u ... that is never going to happen u will always painted as villian and will be given " he is fine ... he is just need attention.... so i did shitted my life ... i screwed pretty well lot of entp or entp lovers try to clear the name ... i like it raw... and play the game of villian... life suck let it...
I think maybe you have some soul-searching to do and you would rather reject other people than confront some things about yourself. I don't think you're villainizing yourself, I think you're doing it to others. I appreciate the sub though, I just don't think it's ever to late for anybody to turn their life around and get a second chance at doing it right. Wish you all the best, brother.
no it doesn't
I disagree with the ideas about the heart and mind. You mentioned god in there, and there seems to be a bit of bias/influence. Yes I would love to feel more someday, yet sometimes, I'm glad I do not feel. Someone in the room has to be the one that isn't hung up by feeling. That often is me, until I see intp's then I'm like your miserable aren't you, and we agree. Haha
Congratulations @Aldo-Hugo for being the only one here who has an en-basis understanding of MBTI.
Whether you are a bot or not is absolutely irrelevant to myself.
Adam Pratar it does NOT suck to be an ENTP, but it does indeed suck to be you and create this dreadful piece of "Sorry Me Click Bait Content".
Before you even consider proceeding to reading the myersbriggs legacy, that is if you have the actual factual capacity to do so.
Deal with yourself, and furthermore your mental health.
Mind over your matter, you cannot handle the banter - Nothing more than a mere attention seeker.
Shame on you, hope you take heed from this, and wish you all the very best in your life.
One step at a time for after the rain comes the sunshine 🌧🌞
UwU - Much Love and Coconuts 💞🥥
Hahah nice troll!
Almost heard dark souls boss music for "the Gatekeeper of Briggs" 🤣
Är också en svensk ENTP ska börja Juristprogrammet till höst har studerat psykologi och utforskat en hel del kring dessa ämnen med . Vore kul att prata med en annan ENTP och utbyta lite erfarenheter ✌️
Tja, Är också en svensk ENTP. är gärna med och snackar lite
@@AlbinBjörkman-q9n Absolut! Bra idé! Vi kan ju köra en discord scoobediwabbedi. Vad är din discord?
@@Gabranth86 Din me 👺
You just need infj friend or even better infj girlfriend, trust me
I’m an INFJ, you’re pretty, I volunteer as tribute haha
@@freyialilian I have INFJ gf, it is the best relationship i had in my life. Ty for compliment you are also rly attractive :D
@@lazarmitrovic180 hahaha there is always this one estp bro in my forums that be like WAMEN outa nowhere 🤣🤣
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I dont think ur entp. They dont use phrases like beautiful relationship. I would say i would say infj as in no fi at all. Infj do know everything with ni first.
Im entj/intp. My first thought is you seem intp/entj which puts your fi in 8th. Intp are miserable all the time and entp think everything is a game so you seem intp to me.
Just my opinion.
@@deuteronomy3162 Entps don't use phrases like beautiful relationship?? Lmaoo that take is hilarious 😂
You should learn your cognitive functions better. If you were ENTP all you’d need is ISTP and INFJ friends as they are your beta and alpha types. What the ENTP is dismissive of is their sense of self worth. Only when engaging with their alpha and beta types does the ENTP gain that comprehension. ENTP exist for INFJ and ISTP. Stop going off stereotypes and refine your identity by being part of a collective. If you are ENTP you need to be a part of a collective conscience that includes INFJ, ESFJ, ENTP, and ISTP. Together one should be able to find purpose and advocacy for the values they build together. Until the ENTP finds their collective they should avoid dealing with other types as they will lack a foundation for them to stand on and command respect. Yes, the world is stacked against the ENTP because they belong to a collective that exists to oppose and balance another collective. This is the collective that consists of ENTJ, ISTJ, INFP, and ESFP. Together they comprise a collective that under the command of the ENTJ insure that their values and identity are insured. This means oppressing the ENTP collective to the point where no such collective can potentially exist and subjugation of all others. You can only fight this oppression by knowing. Insight others to form their own collective and identity in spite of their attachments to nationality, religion, doctrine, etc. Live for yourself by building that collective which should ensure that you are motivated and have a sense of direction.
Shut up bot
@@PhotoPrimierePro grow up
That's neat, my two best friends since highschool are INFJ and ISTP. I've learned a lot from them.
-ENTP
@@d1ssolv3r make more!
Don't go off sterotypes but follow sterotypes? Learn to engage with people by engaging with no one? Live for yourself by living for your collective? What are you talking about? Lol
I am enfp but sometimes i feel i dont enfp and sometimes i am ask for myself. Am i entp?
ENTP and ESTP is basically the best cognitive stack, the worst is INFJ, and ISFJ.
@@Bobby_101 That is a very binary way of looking at it. No type is better than another. They are all good at different things and are able to perform at any given task. Idk why you would think infjs are the worst, they are the most similar to Entps out of all the types. Basically like us but more structured and less energetic in their communication style. Isfj's are also very similar to Entps in how they think but are much more focused on details, facts, memories and method. All the same functions, just in reverse order. I find a lot of common ground when discussing with them actually, especially if they are older as it's not uncommon for them to reach the same conclusions as us given time. Infj's I deem to be the most compatible out of all the types for Entps.
@@AdamPratar Yeah i agree with a lot you said, except a few details.
I just said that out of hyperboly, because I don't like being an INFJ, and I'd like to be an ExTP. And I don't fancy when someone with such a good cognitive stack underestimates just how effective they are.
I don't disagree with the ENTP's problem you stated of course, that is true, not downplaying it. You guys are just so fast and effective at so much.
And some types like us are just cursed to be inefficient and have a hard time at so many things in life.
@@Bobby_101 One man's trash is another man's treasure. I feel the same way you do about Entps but for Infjs. I have an Infj friend and he looks to me what I could've been if I had better self-control.
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