Can I Be Gay and Catholic? (w/ Kim Zember)

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  • Опубліковано 19 сер 2019
  • When people ask Kim Zember the question, “How can I be gay and Catholic?” she responds with the question, “Why is ‘gay’ coming before your Christian identity?”
    Through her ministry, Overcome, (overcomemin.com/) Kim helps people with same-sex attraction overcome those desires and know they’re not alone. Central to overcoming that desire is denying ourselves, as Christ said:
    “If any man would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me” (Matthew 16:24).
    Kim knows what it’s like to have homosexual desires, and encourages those who have any kind of disordered sexual desire to go to Jesus and say, “Lord I surrender this desire to you.”
    As St. Paul writes to the Corinthians:
    “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:5).
    Sinful thoughts are not sins until they lead to your giving into them, she says. What usually causes us to give in to them are their lies and false promises. Sinful sexual desires lie to us by saying they will make us happy, but giving into them never gives a lasting joy.
    Kim suggests trying some things that will give us lasting joy, like Mass, community, authenticity, confession, and adoration (time in silence with God).
    If you are struggling with disordered sexual desires, God is calling you to something more. He has called you to be fully alive. Do not identify yourself as your desires. Let God give you your identity.
    Also check out Unforgotten Faces, Kim’s ministry to widows and orphans in Ethiopia - www.unforgottenfaces.org/
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  • @The_Apple_Fritter
    @The_Apple_Fritter 5 років тому +1611

    This is off-topic, but I feel it's a credit to this channel that they don't disable comments. They choose to let the conversation take place. Good on ya Ascension Presents.

    • @powerliftingcentaur
      @powerliftingcentaur 5 років тому +10

      Derek Everett I find this video pretty appalling. Your post would be the most positive thing I could say, if I had the presence of mind to say it. Thank you for the reminder. I shall have to listen to this video a couple more times and ponder. It is a given that it won’t be a rave review, but it needs to be a just review.

    • @originalcontent210
      @originalcontent210 5 років тому +24

      Stephen Golden my dude how do you find anything appalling about this video??

    • @powerliftingcentaur
      @powerliftingcentaur 5 років тому +2

      ThomasMahonMovies 😂 Lol. How do I find anything that is not? This is why I must take my time and diligently search for something positive. I am confident of a Eureka moment.

    • @sethn1094
      @sethn1094 5 років тому +17

      @@powerliftingcentaur You didn't actually say why it was bad you just said it was bad again.

    • @powerliftingcentaur
      @powerliftingcentaur 5 років тому +7

      Seth N, More to follow. I want to think this over carefully. My fundamental problem with the woman giving her testimony is that I believe it is a minority opinion in the extreme, being the antithesis of what most LGBT Catholics experience and believe. My problem with Jackie is that she is committed to an official Church teaching that does not appear to me to admit dissent or allow for its public discussion. I am taking my time in answering the video, as I neither wish to question the validity of the speaker, Kim’s, personal experience, nor disparage Jackie’s commitment to her Church, which is my Church too, when all is said and done.

  • @jackiehp5628
    @jackiehp5628 5 років тому +535

    I just want to say to those of you that have these attractions and haven’t heard this before from The Church, you are loved and welcome. Perhaps parishioners at your parish may not welcome you but God does and there are so many of us who love you too! ♥️

    • @brianh870
      @brianh870 5 років тому +22

      You're loved and welcome as long as you don't act on the desires that god gave you and not me.

    • @jackiehp5628
      @jackiehp5628 5 років тому +62

      Brian H God doesn’t only love the perfect. He came for the sinners. He loves us unconditionally (no condition). We are all sinners. Even if you are messing up, you are still welcome. The Church would be empty if only the non-sinners would come. You are loved.

    • @brianh870
      @brianh870 5 років тому +17

      So, god made some less sinful than others? People don’t have control over their sexual orientation. One of the “seven holy sacraments” is marriage. If I’m not attracted to the opposite sex because of the way god made me, then god made me so I can’t partake in one of the holy sacraments. How does that work?

    • @jackiehp5628
      @jackiehp5628 5 років тому +38

      Brian H God didn’t make us sinful. We have free will. We’re the ones that choose sin. Like Kim explains it’s the action not the attraction that is sin. I’m not allowed to partake in the sacrament “Holy Orders” because I was created a woman... does that make me less loved?? No. We are called to live out holiness with our flaws. Fr Josh said not too long ago at an event, “Being perfect doesn’t make you Holy. It’s never giving up trying to become better that makes us Holy.” I hope that helps 😊

    • @jackiehp5628
      @jackiehp5628 5 років тому

      jeffry gagnon Sorry sir, don’t know what you’re trying to tell me... could you explain more pls?

  • @dianamazo2417
    @dianamazo2417 5 років тому +888

    "Do not identify yourself as your desires. Let God give you your identity" What a wonderful explanation. God bless you.

    • @analarson2920
      @analarson2920 5 років тому +12

      totally agree, there is a lot to our thoughts, desires, obsessions, praying and meditating and healing with God reveals so much about ourselves, granted some of us need to share with those we trust to help find the true definitions of ourselves and what God is actually calling for each of us.

    • @elevatedgaming2885
      @elevatedgaming2885 3 роки тому +17

      So if I desire to love, you are saying I shouldn’t identity myself as a loving person?

    • @rosiekeany4123
      @rosiekeany4123 3 роки тому +2

      Beautiful thank you

    • @juanvelez8564
      @juanvelez8564 3 роки тому +4

      Like your identity as one who seeks the approval of others before your self?

    • @thomasjaviez233
      @thomasjaviez233 3 роки тому +13

      Don't people still identify as LGBT even if they are celibate? What's the difference in identity?

  • @LostArchivist
    @LostArchivist 5 років тому +868

    Ironically, as a single straight man, this helped me alot as well with some of my own struggles. God bless you all.

    • @mariaesparza4067
      @mariaesparza4067 5 років тому +45

      As a single straight woman, this helped me too. We are human, we were given choice, we are being called to be true and belong to God.

    • @immaggiethesenilegoldenret7918
      @immaggiethesenilegoldenret7918 5 років тому +47

      The Archivist Same here....I’m an drug addict in recovery, (opiate painkillers) and I know all about disordered affections......I have been clean for five years, but there are times where I STILL feel unworthy of Christ’s love because I’m a “ junkie” and will be the rest of my life... I thank GOD EVERY DAY for having lost the desire to use and for the restoration in my life that Jesus has allowed me to have......😢

    • @tipofmytongue1024
      @tipofmytongue1024 5 років тому +16

      @@immaggiethesenilegoldenret7918 we will pray for you!

    • @jen9774
      @jen9774 5 років тому +8

      @@immaggiethesenilegoldenret7918 Will pray for you. Hold your head high you can continue do it and God keeps watch over you. My daughter-in-law, who I love so very much, has been down that road.

    • @immaggiethesenilegoldenret7918
      @immaggiethesenilegoldenret7918 5 років тому +3

      tipofmytongue1024 ❤️

  • @CrankyPants_W
    @CrankyPants_W Рік тому +31

    If I'm not supposed to identify with my sexuality than how come 90% of these conversations about people with SSA are only about sex? There's so much more to being attracted to the same gender than sex. How about how it impacts friendships? Family? Feeling close to people? Discerning a vocation? Showing up in the world? Being allowed to serve the Church? What if Catholics set aside the topic of sex for one of these conversations and just talked about the struggles of day-to-day life as someone who identifies as LGBTQ?

    • @VIETY_
      @VIETY_ Місяць тому +1

      Maybe because you can be LGBT while being a Catholic just like you can be disabled while being a Catholic. But you can't act on it (sex) and etc..

    • @thermalreboot
      @thermalreboot Місяць тому +1

      Perhaps your problem is that you automatically connect sex with love and attach that to your identity. We're called to love our neighbor, we're not called to have sex with them. Just because you experience same sex attraction doesn't mean you have to make that your identity. I don't identify as a fornicator, I've had sex outside marriage, but I don't wave a flag and make that my identity. I've confessed it, I've given it to God and I'm not engaging in it, so why should I make it my identity? Learn to separate love from sex. And no, love is not love, the ancient Greeks had something like 7 words for love, only one was sexual.

    • @gofishglobal7919
      @gofishglobal7919 3 дні тому

      Step 1: Identify ONLY as what God made you: a) if you are a man: a man for a woman, b) if you are a woman: a woman for a man, or c) a religious (priest, sister, brother). Fight and win that battle (with the help of the power of God) through prayer and fasting.
      2) Do not feed any image of you that is not God's plan for you. Do not identify with anything ungodly. Do not see or watch anything ungodly.
      3) Study as deeply as necessary, through the Scriptures, in prayer and fasting, what God made of you. Listen to the "Naked Without Shame" recordings...they are excellent.
      4) Start to get to know many people of the opposite gender. Look into developing into what most people of the opposite desire from you.
      5) If you have to leave your country to find love of the opposite gender, do it. Then, get to know someone of the opposite gender...date them lovingly. Give the relationship time to gel. Be patient with them.

  • @karolinaska6836
    @karolinaska6836 2 роки тому +52

    I'm so glad to hear from people experiencing same sex attraction first hand. It's so much more effective than hearing it from someone who doesn't have to walk the walk. There should be more such content, thank you for sharing!

    • @bethanypollard6940
      @bethanypollard6940 8 місяців тому

      Just a shame that this cult is discouraging it…

  • @katherinemp4344
    @katherinemp4344 Рік тому +37

    I am impressed with these two ladies. Making a video of a subject that really needs to be talked about. I am so glad that you left the comments section open. I have a similiar story. I was in the LGBTQ community for over 25 years. I have walked away. I now realize I was looking for God in all the wrong places. My life was stagnant, and falling apart. I said a few of my friends I think I am cursed. Started searching on youtube for professionals that could help. I found Father Ripperger, an exorcist and all his videos realizing that I was in a spiritual battle. I returned to the Church, went to Confession and made a thorough soul searching confession. I received sanctifying Grace and received Holy Communion and have taken the presence of God within me. I feel at peace. As St. Augustine stated in his book The Book of Confessions, everything sparkles when you turn your back on God and will bring you to destruction. As we are searching and searching we found outlets that lie and make everything exciting but in reality that is the devil. The devil does not show up in a red suit and a pitchfork but is cunning and sly ways and I was taken in. I am now in my church community, regularly reinforced in my faith with weekly Mass, sometimes more, saying the Holy Rosary daily, following the Ten Commandments and working daily on improving my virtues by denying and overturning the Seven Deadly Sins. When I look back on my life now in the past it was almost as if I thought I was God. God has made my life quite simple. By guving the Ten Commandments, the Seven Deadly Sins and a whole Community of Priests who have made it their life's work to become Bible Scholars. I trust these scholars whi are real Doctorates in their profession. I am no longer a OPPOSITIONAL DEFIANT TEENAGER subverting everything the Church and the US Culture stands for. God made it simple but gave us free will to either choose to follow Him or not. It wasn't until the pain in my life brought me to my knees out of despiration that I returned to my God who was waiting patiently for my return. For anyone that has gone through similiar things WELCOME HOME.

    • @nguyennguyenkhang5800
      @nguyennguyenkhang5800 Рік тому +5

      Welcome home, bro. I used to think about being a girl will be much better than being a boy but now, the shape of man god give to me is a beautiful gift God ever gave to me. I pray to God everyday to find my real answer, God send me a lot of man friends and teach you to take care and build my muscle body. Now, I don't regret to live as a man like God intend, he want me to be come a perfect man to protect girl not to be girl, learn to become calm like a man. In the end, the sin is gone and I continue to live like God intend me. It is a shame for those people to reject God gifts. May God bless you on your life journey.

    • @Chichiwonda
      @Chichiwonda 8 місяців тому +2

      Thanks for sharing and welcome home ❤❤

  • @StephanieAlberto
    @StephanieAlberto 5 років тому +183

    I'm a heterosexual person, but it is wonderful to hear Kim talking about our struggles and how the love of God gives us our true identity, and finding joy in following Jesus. Thank you so much!

    • @pastorbri
      @pastorbri 4 роки тому +3

      so long as we never struggle with homophobia

    • @pastorbri
      @pastorbri 2 роки тому

      Markel Beverley replied: "pastor brian something I struggle with. as a heterosexual male
      PASTOR BRIAN; Offer up your homophobia to God to be healed.

    • @RobeonMew
      @RobeonMew 2 роки тому

      @@pastorbri offer up your bigotry for people with different attractions than you

  • @emberflash1641
    @emberflash1641 5 років тому +172

    Dang this went deep. Thanks so much for making this! It’s so relatable and so many of the points she made can work for any temptation in your life, not just sexual temptations

    • @emberflash1641
      @emberflash1641 5 років тому +6

      jeffry gagnon: It’s true humans LOVE making excuses and justifying their sinful actions. But I do think an important factor is that she’s denying herself and actively choosing to not give into homosexual behavior.

    • @scottmoore7588
      @scottmoore7588 5 місяців тому

      @@emberflash1641 And what exactly makes it bad to give into homosexual behavior? Could you maybe flesh that out, instead of just asserting that it's bad cuz god said so?

  • @raphaelrobles8104
    @raphaelrobles8104 3 роки тому +99

    Man, this goes even further than homosexual attraction. Just temptations and desires in general. Very helpful.

  • @markm.5756
    @markm.5756 5 років тому +381

    Dear Kim - what an amazing testimony. THANK YOU! As a man who has lived with same sex attraction for most of my life - I'm finally turning the corner and surrendering my life to Jesus. Also, will be inducted into the Confraternity of the Holy Rosary this Saturday. Super-excited and grateful. God Richly Bless You in your life, witness and journey.

    • @ethancline2430
      @ethancline2430 4 роки тому +8

      Praying for you man!

    • @supergene256
      @supergene256 4 роки тому +21

      God bless you!! Your celibacy is an enormous gift to the Church. Your goodness and obedience can convert many sinners of homosexuality, as well as heterosexuals who simply want lifelong chastity and virtue (like me).

    • @markm.5756
      @markm.5756 4 роки тому +17

      @@supergene256 Thanks alot for the encouragement and kind words. Will keep you in my prayers as well. The Rosary is a really big deal - I think it's Mary, our Mother, who is helping me the most - but of course Jesus and Holy Spirit, always faithful and loving. Every single day is a day of conversion for me - I've fallen far too many times to feel confident, but I do feel the help and support from Heaven, cuz I can't do it on my own, that's for sure! God Bless, and thanks again. Praying for you too.

    • @Beanbag777
      @Beanbag777 4 роки тому +2

      Good on you mate . Your an inspiration 👍

    • @ammcroft
      @ammcroft 4 роки тому +1

      You are a son of Christ! You can be his warrior! That is what identifies you! We are not our sins. He made us good. Love from your sister in Christ! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @zaiasajonia9422
    @zaiasajonia9422 3 роки тому +22

    My soul feels like it has taken a deep breath for the first time in years.
    I haven't been active in the community for a long while, but recently when I felt the weight of all my problems crushing me, the Lord reached out to me. He grounded me when I couldn't ground myself.
    My faith was weak. These really painful times had made me realize how little faith I had in Him.
    Now, I am on my way to rediscovering, recovering, and reinforcing my faith.
    I am thankful for this, truly. God bless you for sharing this.
    There is so many of us who need guidance. Thank you!

  • @lizzie5824
    @lizzie5824 5 років тому +96

    I love when you said I thought the world could make me happy but it lied to me. This is so true and real. Thank you for it.

  • @martinreynolds5548
    @martinreynolds5548 4 роки тому +8

    Wow! These three ladies are wonderful! (Mother Mary just behind you over your shoulder). So open, honest and wise.

  • @cindyvelasquez5176
    @cindyvelasquez5176 3 роки тому +7

    This conversation is so beautiful. Thank you.

  • @maria_caitlin
    @maria_caitlin 5 років тому +4

    This is an amazing witness, and so necessary at this time! Thank you for sharing

  • @PeteSeeker455
    @PeteSeeker455 5 років тому +14

    Wow, so so nicely said and felt! Battler to Battler, I thank you for me and my family! Pete D.---

  • @valortiz1542
    @valortiz1542 5 років тому +48

    I cannot thank you enough. I feel like I needed to hear these words. I’ve been pushing God away recently because I’m ashamed of my desire, but He loves me and made me know this TRUTH through your words. I’m 20 yrs old and pretty active in my church and hear of young people who feel the same desire which keeps them from letting God in. I’m happy and thankful I now have answers for them that could possibly be of help. I pray for the youth, so they could fall in love with Jesus as He so much deserves.

    • @splashpont
      @splashpont 5 років тому +10

      God will never abandon you--even if church members do. On the day of your birth, God looked at what he had made--and it was very good.

    • @alejandragarza2670
      @alejandragarza2670 3 роки тому +6

      Don’t be ashamed. God loves you and will always do. He is our father.

  • @missionariesOME33
    @missionariesOME33 4 роки тому +3

    Kim, thank you for your vulnerability and your courage to speak truth regardless of any negative feedback. God bless you and Mary wrap Her mantle of protection around you!

  • @tylerblock3377
    @tylerblock3377 5 років тому +60

    "It's constant surrender, dude"

  • @mandihebert959
    @mandihebert959 5 років тому +4

    Thank you so much for sharing your story, Kim!

  • @rhwinner
    @rhwinner 5 років тому +167

    WE are not our desires. So, we can feel desire for something sinful, but as long as we don't act on it, it's not a mortal sin (unless we revel in it and consciously nurture it in ourselves).

    • @pastorbri
      @pastorbri 4 роки тому +26

      but love is not a sin to desire.

    • @RodDop-us9ex
      @RodDop-us9ex 3 роки тому +1

      @@pastorbri When we love a person of the same gender it is called friendship(yess there are powerful loving friendships)

    • @pastorbri
      @pastorbri 3 роки тому +7

      @@RodDop-us9ex just as when a man loves a woman it can also be a friendship (yes there are powerful loving heteo friendships too).....whats your point? Friendship love and romantic love are 2 different things, did you not know?

    • @brianpan6453
      @brianpan6453 3 роки тому

      That's like saying cows aren't grass eaters.

    • @sme7385
      @sme7385 2 роки тому

      I agree.

  • @musicandthewalk
    @musicandthewalk 3 роки тому +2

    This is very beautiful and brave sharing/testimony. May the Lord God bless your ministry.

  • @Zack-kk5xr
    @Zack-kk5xr 4 роки тому +5

    She is beautifully grounded in Christ. Great video, thank you.

  • @red_writer
    @red_writer 4 роки тому +32

    "Let Him define who you are."
    Beautiful, beautiful, and such a powerful statement

  • @fluffymajestic4589
    @fluffymajestic4589 Рік тому +2

    Thank you! The Bible says do not be afraid and yet I’ve been diagnosed struggling with OCD for years. This video gives me hope. Thank you again.

  • @FreedomandBaconHomestead
    @FreedomandBaconHomestead 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for sharing, Jackie and Kim.

  • @Eowyn3Pride
    @Eowyn3Pride 5 років тому +4

    This is brilliant!!! Thank you!!! God Bless you for this ministry! Set it afire and let it go!!! Come Holy Spirit!!!!😁👍

  • @oXXCzarXXo
    @oXXCzarXXo 4 роки тому +67

    I'm catholic.
    God is Not a religion.
    God cares for all his children.

    • @brotheresquire2776
      @brotheresquire2776 3 роки тому

      @VictoriousRainy Yuno What does the bible really say on the LGBT community go to my channel and watch my latest show. Please watch from beginning to end.

    • @jgappy5643
      @jgappy5643 3 роки тому +1

      @@brotheresquire2776 what does the bible sayabout genocide? Do we find it ok to wipe out an entire tribe in the name of God? The old testament tells its o.k as long as you do it in the name of God....

    • @brotheresquire2776
      @brotheresquire2776 3 роки тому

      @@jgappy5643 give me that scripture. . Where did God give us the right to commit genocide..

    • @brotheresquire2776
      @brotheresquire2776 3 роки тому

      @@jgappy5643 not only will you not find it, but the old testament... That is a school master.. you are still in school with the world of the long ago past.. ( the now world is love thy enemy bless and not curse bless them that curse you).. You can't put new wine in an old sack, the old sack would taint the new wine... the god of love is also a god of war and a god of vengeance did you ever stop to think about why God had them Nations wiped out... There was a bigger picture.. They were mostly given to idolatry and abominations. And a few of those races were Giants..so yes.. Just like America

  • @pilatescecilia
    @pilatescecilia 5 років тому +1

    Wonderful video. God bless you and your work. I continue to learn more about my faith and love it everyday.

  • @Seo-ew9mq
    @Seo-ew9mq 5 років тому +3

    I love listening to this woman! She explains it all so well. And can I just say that Jackie you are so respectful towards your guests, you really let them speak. The Holy Spirit really shines through you both. 🙏🏻 God bless

  • @heathsavage4852
    @heathsavage4852 4 роки тому +32

    Inspirational. I have been in a celibate partnership for 16 years. You can have the joy of companionship without sexualizing it. You can be a gay Catholic. We are ALL called to celibacy unless married.

    • @marmeelynsinocruz9461
      @marmeelynsinocruz9461 2 роки тому +3

      May I ask for a tip on how you do it? What are the rules? Is it just friendship or really a romantic relationship?

    • @heathsavage4852
      @heathsavage4852 2 роки тому +11

      @@marmeelynsinocruz9461 Well, that's pretty personal. Maybe you could join a group and discuss such matters with others. I'd say this: true friendship is at the heart of any good relationship.

    • @marmeelynsinocruz9461
      @marmeelynsinocruz9461 2 роки тому +1

      @@heathsavage4852 trying to traverse this with my partner and we dont really know where to begin.

    • @heathsavage4852
      @heathsavage4852 2 роки тому +5

      @@marmeelynsinocruz9461 OK. That's tough. Have a talk with your priest. Mine was very helpful. Have to visited Miss Zember's website?

    • @marmeelynsinocruz9461
      @marmeelynsinocruz9461 2 роки тому

      @@heathsavage4852 not yet. What's the link?

  • @ammcroft
    @ammcroft 5 років тому +237

    I am a daughter of Christ before anything else.

    • @tranny5
      @tranny5 4 роки тому +1

      @@jeffrygagnon5506 lol

    • @juliemurphy9412
      @juliemurphy9412 4 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @ammcroft
      @ammcroft 4 роки тому +4

      @@juliemurphy9412 Pax Vobiscum

    • @juliemurphy9412
      @juliemurphy9412 4 роки тому +2

      @@ammcroft no thanks babe

    • @ammcroft
      @ammcroft 4 роки тому +4

      @@juliemurphy9412 EeeWwww! can you please not call me babe. It is sexist and I find it very offensive. I think you should lose your job. JK 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @logan6179
    @logan6179 3 роки тому +9

    This video is extremely powerful. I will definitely rewatch this when I’m struggling. Thank you!

  • @connorbrown4633
    @connorbrown4633 2 роки тому +38

    I am falling more and more in love with Catholicism and it’s core values. But I also pray for discernment. It’s healthy to wrestle with these things. I think blindly following along is quite dangerous and detrimental to one’s being and faith. To wrestle and question oftentimes leads to a deeper faith.

    • @markrobertson6664
      @markrobertson6664 Рік тому +4

      All those who earnestly seek the truth will find Him. Christ does not want you to become Catholic out of anything ‘blind’. Christ wants you to know and love the truth. Please know that you are in my prayers as you continue your journey!

    • @me1.189
      @me1.189 Рік тому +1

      you are welcome to the church brother

  • @TheXone7
    @TheXone7 5 років тому +12

    Wow I am amazed how she can admit what other things she struggles with. Amazing!

  • @naughtiusmaximus1231
    @naughtiusmaximus1231 5 років тому +15

    Thank you for your honesty, and your transparency. God bless.

  • @debra05
    @debra05 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you, ladies! You explain so well! Great talk. 💗

  • @sandraobrien5782
    @sandraobrien5782 4 роки тому

    What a wonderful and powerful video thank you both AND God continue to bless you !!

  • @marinasantos5151
    @marinasantos5151 4 роки тому +3

    Love this testimony, love you in Christ, blessings sister .

  • @kevinkirtsegui7564
    @kevinkirtsegui7564 3 роки тому +17

    "God loves you, He loves you, He loves you He loves you."
    😢 thank you God 🙏💕

  • @marys5624
    @marys5624 4 роки тому +1

    Great video, very well said!! Thank you!

  • @bootz0409
    @bootz0409 4 роки тому

    An absolutely riveting talk! Anointed! I felt moved by the comment commending the value of spending time in silence before Christ in the Tabernacle because the devil himself knows just how beneficial this is in our ongoing conversion and desire for personal holiness. Thankyou for a terrific presentation on this important topic. 👍

  • @naturereporter2719
    @naturereporter2719 4 роки тому +7

    A truly beautiful, deep and whole explanation of what a person is, and what a person is not. God bless you!

  • @saileshdas9010
    @saileshdas9010 4 роки тому +4

    'Revealed wounds can be healed'
    I love that

  • @angiesalem8181
    @angiesalem8181 3 роки тому +2

    I love your video. You're the answer to my prayer!

  • @smilestar96
    @smilestar96 4 роки тому +1

    Love this so much!! thank you!xx

  • @johnayala2540
    @johnayala2540 2 роки тому +4

    I love these ladies for sharing their views. They are sincere & wishes to save people from misery. I like the part "Do not identify yourself with your sexual attraction because you are God's child and you are more than your attractions or desires

  • @ancientnord7804
    @ancientnord7804 3 роки тому +12

    We must overcome our fleshly desires and follow God
    Catholic, Protestant, or Orthodox.
    Being tempted isn't a sin, but giving in to temptation is.

  • @sarah.ohsarah
    @sarah.ohsarah 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this message

  • @alexgg70
    @alexgg70 4 роки тому +1

    wonderful and profound. Universal, it applies to any passion, perfect analogy and explanation

  • @redgator3347
    @redgator3347 5 років тому +126

    I feel light after hearing this all my brain pain actually felt lighter for a moment

  • @Sarah-fm6ll
    @Sarah-fm6ll 3 роки тому +31

    I felt a bit guilty when she said please do not waste the blood Jesus shed for your sins on Cavalry. Wowow that hit

  • @americanrefugee6756
    @americanrefugee6756 2 роки тому +2

    Beautiful!
    Thank you.
    ✝️🕊

  • @jessicashelton6514
    @jessicashelton6514 5 років тому

    ❤️ this channel so much!

  • @m.d.8032
    @m.d.8032 4 роки тому +11

    I appreciate that this channel chooses to at least have a conversation about this and other sensitive topics. The world will be a better place when we can learn to see others through God's eyes first, and love our neighbors. Love and compassion open the doors to dialog, hate and bitter judgment closes all doors to communicate with others. IMO

  • @marissagilmore8886
    @marissagilmore8886 5 років тому +4

    This was perfect and beautiful and so educating. Thank you so much you guys!

  • @JohnPaul-ke3cg
    @JohnPaul-ke3cg 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you ladies. Needed to hear I’m not alone today 🥲

  • @elizabethl6763
    @elizabethl6763 3 роки тому +1

    This is such a beautiful story!

  • @kianarenaemusic1171
    @kianarenaemusic1171 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this beautiful video

  • @Emily_Linka
    @Emily_Linka 3 роки тому +8

    I feel such a pull to convert to Catholicism but the issue of same sex attraction is the thing that really puts me off. I just can’t reconcile the idea that God wouldn’t bless or approve of something that is entirely rooted in love and goodness. I’m not talking about promiscuous sex, I’m talking about a true bond between two people committed to spend their lives together. How is love sin? It doesn’t make sense to me. I love God, love Jesus, find comfort in Mother Mary....I just can’t understand how God can’t accept love.

    • @arinrumi
      @arinrumi 2 роки тому +3

      I think the problem is the confusion between love and sex. Don't forget that love isn't just sexual or romantic. Love for one's country for exemple. Sex and love are different thing and sex should never, must never concidered proof of love. There's many people out there have sex without love, so calling sex as proof of love is just beyond wrong.
      If there's one thing I agree with our LGBT friends is that "love is love" they're right I'll give them that. But what is love exactly? Love is from and for everyone. Even the teachers back at school who constantly scold us for everything.
      But once again, sex is not love. Is not a proof of love, it must never considered as one.
      People often associate love with only three think (I think) acceptence, kindness and sometimes sex. What they often forget is that love is not just that, love is dicipline. And it is strict. Schools have rules and there's reasons for those rules, so that the student behave. Because the teachers love the student. Parents yell at their kids when they misbehave, if my mom never yelled at me who knows where I'll be right now.
      To me personally this is what love is.

    • @wackylearnigwithjane454
      @wackylearnigwithjane454 Рік тому +1

      My 2 cents- there are more Catholics who support same sex love and marriage, than don’t. Ignore these “teachings”- Jesus was all about love. I’m trying to keep my comments kind, but this anti-lgbtq dialogue is sooo off point. Check out the new movie about how the word homosexual was literally added to the Bible in the 1940s. This teaching is just plain false.

    • @GuitarBloodlines
      @GuitarBloodlines Рік тому +2

      @@wackylearnigwithjane454 no there aren't, and just because the word homosexual didn't exist, doesn't mean there wasn't a different word in its place meaning the same thing the idea that homosexuality wasnt condemned by the bible until the 40s is a myth

  • @zephielite7031
    @zephielite7031 4 роки тому +8

    7:58 "The truth and the love of Jesus Christ set us free." You have never said it more clearer! Not truth of Christ, not love of Christ, but both the truth and the love of Christ. Amen!

  • @ayeshat6868
    @ayeshat6868 5 років тому

    Such a wonderful video !

  • @shaneross7428
    @shaneross7428 2 роки тому

    Wow that's beautiful. Thank you for sharing

  • @briant2979
    @briant2979 5 років тому +234

    I hope James Martin, SJ watches this video.. amazing. The church is a hospital for sinners, we are all sinners and need healing; nevertheless our sin is not to be celebrated or ignored. (Matthew 16:24) Thanks for speaking the truth with so much grace and love.

    • @adonaeronigerialimitedcons9572
      @adonaeronigerialimitedcons9572 5 років тому +11

      Yes. Even though a sinner can be Catholic, he/she must go to confession for all "mortal sins", to remain a communicant.

    • @powerliftingcentaur
      @powerliftingcentaur 5 років тому +1

      Brian Toribio, God strengthen and support a beleaguered James Martin, SJ.

    • @splashpont
      @splashpont 5 років тому +9

      Martin's book is great with a viewpoint that is supported by the church and would balance this presentation of one worldview.

    • @nanetteparratto-wagner1127
      @nanetteparratto-wagner1127 4 роки тому +6

      Love "the Church is a hospital for sinners." I'm stealing that.

    • @Mitzi73
      @Mitzi73 4 роки тому +4

      Agree. That priest has no fear of God and he needs to!

  • @john_from_eastcoast.
    @john_from_eastcoast. 5 років тому +20

    Repentance is a life long process!
    The struggle between the flesh and the Spirit is never ending!
    Jesus help me with your grace to walk with you EVERY DAY!
    Amen. ✝️

    • @Tarannrut
      @Tarannrut 3 роки тому +1

      Hey john, I wanted to point out a beautiful promise that is found in Galatians 5:16 - "So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh." What an awesome promise! Walking by the spirit does not mean that the battle with the flesh is never ending. He is so gracious and faithful to mold and shape us into his image - abiding in him does not mean striving

  • @casperjack7452
    @casperjack7452 4 роки тому +1

    What a brilliant video!

  • @kv8443
    @kv8443 4 роки тому +1

    Solid, powerhouse message, Kim.

  • @websurfin9575
    @websurfin9575 3 роки тому +17

    Jackie & Kim are amazing women of God! It's refreshing to hear Biblical truth being proclaimed.... even in a world of sin & compromise!

  • @willcookmakeup
    @willcookmakeup 3 роки тому +16

    Being an out member of the LGBT community who left the church long ago, I did actually find this interesting to watch. You both seem very intelligent and are well spoken. I obviously don't agree with your view point, but we all won't ever agree on anything. That's just human nature.
    That said, I found the way you spoke on this topic respectful and not necessarily negative towards the gay community in the way videos like these traditionally do. If you're gay religion isn't for you, but I don't think if you are, religion is worth denying that part of you. Because it won't last in the end. Never does.

    • @Fjrjcksnc
      @Fjrjcksnc 5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for being open to discussion with us Catholics even if u don't agree, it means a lot, we all really appreciate it. ❤

    • @hayeslincoln3111
      @hayeslincoln3111 Місяць тому

      Unsustainable

  • @marymorris9982
    @marymorris9982 Рік тому

    This video is SUCH good advice for all forms of sexual sin/desires. Wow. So helpful to me. Thank you ❤

  • @vincentelliott7445
    @vincentelliott7445 4 роки тому

    Thank you . This is a good channel.

  • @canittahart3915
    @canittahart3915 5 років тому +3

    This was absolutely beautiful! ❤ Truth spoken in love!

  • @MarioPoluan
    @MarioPoluan Рік тому +6

    Don't hate the person, hate the sin!
    Sin is SIN! we all sinners! Help everyone to repent not encourage the sin!
    God help us... 🙏
    ~Indonesian 🇮🇩 Catholic ✝️~

    • @tarashek7865
      @tarashek7865 Рік тому +3

      Absolute facts but it should never be allowed to be celebrated

    • @Grokford
      @Grokford Рік тому

      Love is not a sin.

    • @Grokford
      @Grokford Рік тому

      @@tarashek7865
      Existing in peace is not the same as being celebrated.

    • @tarashek7865
      @tarashek7865 Рік тому +1

      @@Grokford so pedophiles arent a sin

    • @Grokford
      @Grokford Рік тому +1

      @@tarashek7865
      If you can not tell the difference between genuine Love and raping a child, then you are too far gone to have a serious discussion with.

  • @sabrinaantonioverita3061
    @sabrinaantonioverita3061 4 роки тому +2

    Wow, Kim is super down to earth and strong.

  • @vialuciscanal
    @vialuciscanal 4 роки тому +1

    We are already making subtitles of some videos to portuguese language here in Brazil. We love father Mike!

  • @escabrosa1
    @escabrosa1 5 років тому +66

    I was curious to hear that Kim is married. I've heard of other Catholics with same sex attraction getting married as well, and wonder about the challenges these couples face. I'd love to hear about that.

    • @sunnygem21
      @sunnygem21 5 років тому +16

      escabrosa1 Kim did another video with Jackie about her own story and it includes what happened to her marriage. Hope that’s helpful.

    • @lindaasongayi2662
      @lindaasongayi2662 5 років тому +3

      Getting married in the catholic church???

    • @christusvincit6696
      @christusvincit6696 5 років тому +5

      @@jeffrygagnon5506
      They got divorced. Watch the other video.

    • @giovannimartini6405
      @giovannimartini6405 5 років тому +12

      @@jeffrygagnon5506 *sigh" She married *a MAN*.

    • @thomasjaviez233
      @thomasjaviez233 3 роки тому +2

      if they are married to the opposite sex I'm guessing they must have developed at least some sort of heterosexual attraction. I don't know at that point if there is any challenge other than dating or marring someone else who is bisexual.

  • @st.michaelthearchangel7774
    @st.michaelthearchangel7774 5 років тому +65

    "Revealed wounds can be healed." Powerful, and so true.
    Awesome video! Thank you for sharing your heart, Kim.

    • @kevinvorster9777
      @kevinvorster9777 3 роки тому +2

      She's going to be miserable for the rest of her life by denying who she really is.

  • @rstuart5418
    @rstuart5418 3 роки тому +1

    very helpful video, thank you.

  • @TrinityGal9
    @TrinityGal9 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for translating to Spanish!!!!

  • @BROWULFdude
    @BROWULFdude 5 років тому +4

    Great witness!! Thanks for sharing

  • @michellea9857
    @michellea9857 5 років тому +89

    5:25 - 5:30 “No one is free from sin apart from Jesus Christ” and the Blessed Virgin Mary as well !!!

    • @drjanitor3747
      @drjanitor3747 5 років тому +25

      Sam Smith True Christians know that Mary was in fact SINLESS.

    • @drjanitor3747
      @drjanitor3747 5 років тому +10

      Sam Smith If you insist on rejecting the Catholic Church then you should also reject the Bible. After all the Bible was compiled by the Catholic Church. Also you should leave whatever country you live in, given there’s almost certainly pedophiles living there.

    • @drjanitor3747
      @drjanitor3747 5 років тому +9

      jeffry gagnon show me the biblical quote that says Scripture alone.

    • @user-ib5ho3de4o
      @user-ib5ho3de4o 5 років тому

      @Anthony L That would be impossible Are you always a false accuser
      Stop blocking my comments be a man
      50 wow how do you really know? These clergy are pretty good at cover up If there are any true men of God in there they will get the heck out what has light to do with darkness! Romans 1:18-32

    • @drjanitor3747
      @drjanitor3747 5 років тому +5

      Sam Smith Whats your point? Any institution involving man is prone to corruption. We are all well aware of our fallen nature. Corruption in the Church does not invalidate the fact that the Traditional Catholic Religion was and is thee religion established by Christ, that which the Apostles and early church fathers adhered to. You cannot condemn an entire institution based on the actions of a few. Corruption is rampant everywhere in this modern world.

  • @camila.camila
    @camila.camila 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing video!

  • @LissaHutcheson
    @LissaHutcheson 5 років тому

    Thank you for this goodness.

  • @jeanie6279
    @jeanie6279 5 років тому +3

    Very well said. Thank you. A message of truth and love. 💗

  • @jamesgonzales7994
    @jamesgonzales7994 5 років тому +3

    Your so brave and beautiful!!!!! HUGS AND KISSES! God bless you always!

  • @thomaspatt3048
    @thomaspatt3048 3 роки тому +1

    I tend to speak bluntly, my nature I guess. But I love she explains this topic. Great job.

  • @TrustInJesusThruMaryWithJoseph
    @TrustInJesusThruMaryWithJoseph 2 роки тому

    Wow..awesome!
    Praise be to God!
    🙏🏻🕊🔥❤️🔥🕊🙏🏻

  • @sofiagonzalez4824
    @sofiagonzalez4824 5 років тому +3

    Thank you for this message! Can we have these videos translated please!

  • @yadiral997
    @yadiral997 5 років тому +7

    wow, thanks a lot for sharing your experience

  • @MsJNix
    @MsJNix 5 років тому +2

    What a great message. I wish all the Catholic Schools Religious Courses would show this video to their students. I think it would give them a better understanding.

  • @RaptorAirsoftFieldShop
    @RaptorAirsoftFieldShop 4 роки тому

    🙏🏽Thankyou, sister!

  • @MrYougotcaught
    @MrYougotcaught 3 роки тому +17

    So, since when did anybody choose their sexuality? Anytime some conservative challenges me on Homosexuality, i'd ask him/her, so since when did you choose to be straight?

    • @catalinacabello1460
      @catalinacabello1460 3 роки тому +5

      We do not “choose” to be straight because it should not be a decision in the first place. God created man and woman to be partners and fulfill HOLY matrimony. The Bible isn’t a book of fairytales. You cannot be living a blessed life as a homosexual. Now if you are an individual who has no place in his heart for the Lord or no education on His teachings then I suggest you educate yourself before feeling so righteous about this question that is supposed to stump us conservatives.
      Not to mention that many of us who do not condone homosexuality hate homosexuals. There are many reasons that people choose that life. However, it is a fight for souls. A fight for eternal life. Many times it is out of love for these people that we fight so hard to help them understand that this life and these worldly desires are not what matter. I have family members who choose to be homosexual and although they are wonderful beings it’s their soul I am worried about. Not their life on earth. If you have no sense of after life and how to live for that then it will always be hard to get through to you

    • @lol._.1450
      @lol._.1450 3 роки тому +2

      @@catalinacabello1460 i agree with you👍

  • @Ezekiel336-16
    @Ezekiel336-16 5 років тому +12

    Oh my goodness! Amen sister, and where has Christ been keeping you! I know you said you are married, but what a truly beautiful reformed soul, and related witness, you have! Keep up the God-work and know how truly thankful you made me today for knowing there is someone like you out there in Christ's family!
    My initial mountain to move with Jesus wasn't same-sex attraction or action, but rather substance abuse and all that came along with it, and once He finally caught up with me by shutting down all of my excuses, He pulled me out of the muck I chose to live in a made me a new creature again. What's really encouraging about that, and you, though is that we both come across very similarly in the way we express our witness for Christ. Truth and love with genuine/authentic passion!
    In Christ, Andrew
    P.S. A little tip for the remaining and/or upcoming struggles to be revealed (and healed - I like that) is to literally beg Him to remove any and all emotional memories and attachments that relate to fueling the sin in question. That allows Him to break the chains so we can participate with doing the healing work needed with Him. Then whatever it is becomes a page in our history book instead or a movie or a mockumentory for the guy downstairs to torment us with. Jesus is the Man!!!

    • @markm.5756
      @markm.5756 5 років тому

      Well said Andrew - thanks - this helps me alot.

    • @Ezekiel336-16
      @Ezekiel336-16 5 років тому +1

      @@markm.5756 You're most welcome brother, but the true thanks, glory, and honor go to Jesus and the Holy Spirit for without them I would still be dead in my sins, and unsaved, for my own strength is not enough on its own to do such amazing works of grace! Whatever you're battling brother, know that the victory has already been won for you and is yours for the asking with Christ! Viva Cristore!!!! In Christ, Andrew
      Also, don't hide of run from the pain that often comes from winning the battle. It's the old man of sin not wanting to let go and die but once we embrace and face the emotional ties to sin hE uses to keep us from killing them with Christ, then we have to offer them in surrender to the Lord so we can be resurrected with Him anew after they die. Or, incorporating the words of out sister from the video, the emotional memories and attachments must be revealed (and offered up) so Christ can heal them once and for all. You'll still be tempted afterwards though, but God allows that to strengthen and reinforce that faith and trust you have further developed with Him.

    • @markm.5756
      @markm.5756 5 років тому +1

      @@Ezekiel336-16 Upon waking this morning I read your reply and it's filled with the Holy Spirit and aid/help/instruction. This Saturday I'm being consecrated/enrolled into the Confraternity of the Holy Rosary. Finally I want Mary to be my real Mother and to be her real Son - and I know her major role is to bring all of us closer to her beloved Son - and I want that more than ever in my life. Please keep me in your prayers, and I will do so for you as well. God Bless.

  • @flwrsrosey3778
    @flwrsrosey3778 3 роки тому +2

    May God & Mother Mary Bless Everyone & You amazing ladies ! 💞🥺✝️❤️💕💗

  • @yaredsefora982
    @yaredsefora982 3 роки тому +1

    God bless this is so amazing.

  • @jabangun
    @jabangun 5 років тому +78

    Can one be sinful and Catholic? Of course. But one will have to answer for their sins on judgement day.

    • @MarchOfMonarchs
      @MarchOfMonarchs 5 років тому +16

      yes the faith is a place for sinners, the church is the hospital for sins, and confession is your antidote

    • @splashpont
      @splashpont 5 років тому +3

      The church is filled with hypocrites. I am one of the most hip, so i need it! Only God will judge us in the end.

    • @markm.5756
      @markm.5756 5 років тому +4

      God is Mercy. Yes He is also judge, but more than that, He Is Mercy. Wash yourself with the blood and water of Jesus and let Him wash away your sins, and beg Mercy, and He will surely be Merciful. You will have no need for worry on judgement day!

    • @D0csavage1
      @D0csavage1 4 роки тому

      @@markm.5756 *"You will have no need for worry on judgement day!"* -- How are you in the position to offer the guarantee?

    • @markm.5756
      @markm.5756 4 роки тому +2

      @@D0csavage1 How am I in the position to offer the guarantee? Through Jesus' promise that He died for our sins, and if we believe He is the Son of God, Our Savior, we repent & are sorry for our sins, and TRUST IN HIS MERCY, we are guaranteed Eternal Life.

  • @Littlemermaid17
    @Littlemermaid17 5 років тому +11

    Well done for making bold videos such as these. God continue to bless this channel, its hosts, its behind the scenes workers and its viewers ❤️✝️🔥

  • @JMCass-bp3sb
    @JMCass-bp3sb 5 років тому +1

    Hi Kim
    You've given great advice to our sisters & brothers who face struggles with this.
    I'm just sad to hear you dont like Cats as they too are the most loving companions & are not cold & detached as so many people believe. I had a dog when i was in my teens into mid 20's when he died, then few years later a poor hungry Mama Cat came looking for food she would sit & wait & we would feed her provided her with a cosy big kennel & she would go away for few weeks & return with her pride & joy 2 or 3 kittens.
    Each year she did this we tried to get her neutered but she avoided the humane trap so we were left with kittens who became our next generations of cats, some hissy scared little ones, some tamer & more handleable. There were homes in country for the wilder ones but the tame babies from each litter became our family, they were loved cherished & they loved us back.
    Because we opened our hearts to them they trusted us, even the scared Mama cat knew she could depend on us to feed & provide shelter for her & her little ones. My elderly Mother was never alone in her room because two beautiful furry Cats kept her company, they knew she needed quiet reassurance from their purring & presence. One greeted her after she returned from broken femur surgery with such loud purrs it was like a "traction engine" of happiness & she rubbed her head into my Mother's forehead with a joyful greeting.
    Theres a saying thay once a Cat starts to trust you they move forward in leaps & bounds in their trust, ive experienced this many times even very feral ones have become big softies loving head butts & rubs. So next time you see one try to see Jesus in them too because He's in Every living Creature, even Cats 🐱🤗
    Theres a wonderful Catholic website "Catholic Stewards of Creation" they have prayer groups that support all Animals in the world, our domestic pets, mistreated neglected abused animals, wild animals in circuses bring abused & countries that have no animal welfare policies anything we want prayers for they will include in their intentions.
    If anyone has a sick pet they will pray for them.
    Also one of the group Susi Pittman has written books about "Do Our Pets Go to Heaven"..
    So if you get chance to spend time with a friends Cat take this chance & just relax & watch how they cautiously but lovingly work their way into your heart. God's Creatures come in many packages. I love the hymn..
    "All things bright & beautiful All Creatures Great & Small, All things wise & wonderful The Lord God made them All".
    💙🐱🙏🏻🐶❤

  • @angelalemos9811
    @angelalemos9811 Рік тому +1

    Fantastic interview