How To Overcome The Fear Of Public Speaking

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 10 тра 2023
  • How To Overcome The Fear Of Public Speaking

КОМЕНТАРІ • 168

  • @Silas_M
    @Silas_M Рік тому +250

    This trick is the same experience that an introvert also goes through. The moment someone brings up something they know more about and love, they become a different person. (They light-up).

  • @TechBoy_77-u3l
    @TechBoy_77-u3l 13 днів тому +4

    I was a introvert once. Then I started to realize I need confidence. So I developed it in me. So now I have confidence. But I still got lot to become more stable ❤❤

  • @agapeten
    @agapeten Рік тому +48

    I just don't give a fuck...that's how I overcame my fear of public speaking.

    • @itsstillfunny109
      @itsstillfunny109 10 місяців тому +9

      Good 😂😂 I wish I was like you

    • @avislibrary9698
      @avislibrary9698 2 місяці тому +1

      This is me... But then, because reputation matters when you are talking, I try to put myself where I actually could offer something

    • @husnashane8600
      @husnashane8600 Місяць тому +1

      Erghk I wish I had this😂

  • @richmonddoku
    @richmonddoku Рік тому +47

    Vusi Thembekwayo, you said it all.
    When you have an in-depth knowledge of the subject matter, "you know you can trust you" 🙏🎉

    • @Nuru.Gizani
      @Nuru.Gizani 15 днів тому

      🥶🥶🥶🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @ayomideagara6584
    @ayomideagara6584 Рік тому +18

    How I faced mine too👍. "Speakers express", not impress📌

  • @QuantumNetwork
    @QuantumNetwork 5 місяців тому +3

    This is facts, I always stutter so much it makes me go red and sound like I’m going to cry from my voice if I don’t know what I’m talking about fully confidently, but when I was younger I’d go over and over again my debates to the point I wouldn’t have to look at my notes and speak from memory, that helped me with nerves

  • @YozNaturali
    @YozNaturali Рік тому +3

    That’s exactly what worked for me as well. And now I am working on perfecting my craft. Thanks this is more on point in my view than having to picture people naked which is very dirty and polluted in my opinion.

  • @habyjay2096
    @habyjay2096 Рік тому +19

    You own the power, you own the audience. Owning it is the key here!

  • @elonvibes
    @elonvibes Рік тому +12

    I only struggle with good dictionary and profound elite level eloquence like yours. Even then I know my topic and I kill it every time I am on stage. Thank you, mentor ❤

  • @dorcaskay3477
    @dorcaskay3477 Рік тому +3

    Wow....👌
    This I will definitely practice, thank you for sharing👏

  • @atarahchomah1463
    @atarahchomah1463 Рік тому +8

    I could listen to him all day.

  • @IntimacywithGod121
    @IntimacywithGod121 Рік тому +20

    True...that's the exact strategy I use. To add, talk slowly, it will help you to breath which result in calming your nerves.
    With looking, you don't need to really look at people, just stand straight and look at the entire room in that way you'll be able to move around a little bit.
    I guess debating in high school is paying off🤭

  • @BrianSapp945
    @BrianSapp945 4 місяці тому

    Picturing the audience NAKED worked well for me. It really does work. I kept my eyes on just women. I later was told by others that that was one of my greatest speeches.

  • @ezenwamaryjane8176
    @ezenwamaryjane8176 Рік тому

    This is succinctly put. I mean how do you get uncomfortable talking about what you know very well?
    There's a particular confidence you have when you know what you are talking about.

  • @sugarhomelycuisines
    @sugarhomelycuisines Рік тому +7

    The wisdom in this man.. Is on another level... Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us

  • @TheQueenshillpod
    @TheQueenshillpod Рік тому +3

    This is the best content about public speaking so far for me. Moreover, this one ingredient is the cardinal arsenal I truly need to be a public speaker. Thanks VT

  • @LordLwazi
    @LordLwazi Рік тому +2

    Danki MaVusana, you have had nothing but a huge influenced in my life.

  • @dominicandoh1455
    @dominicandoh1455 Рік тому

    Damn straight! once I enter my "elements" on the subject matter, all fear fades away.
    Thank you Sir!

  • @nokulunganguta2201
    @nokulunganguta2201 Рік тому

    Needed this! Cause I am called to speak, but my fear of public speaking is off the roof! Thank you for this

  • @PearlPrinces100
    @PearlPrinces100 Рік тому

    Vusi Thembekwayo like Jordan Peterson, Thomas Sowell and Dave Webb are worth listening to.
    VT is a focused intellectual who hasn't stopped working at getting better and better, reaching higher and higher.
    Abo Bishop Maponga are quasi intellectuals and wanna-be influencers who offer nothing more than entertainment value for domkops.
    Very proud of you VT, keep on keeping on young man🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @MilesLambos-ef1nt
    @MilesLambos-ef1nt 3 місяці тому +1

    It's kinda like doing a speech in class ,you first have to prepare and repeat every single sentence over and over again ,then when you get in front of your classmates ,your topic would just flow.

  • @simeonclinton1702
    @simeonclinton1702 Рік тому +9

    This is simple and insightful. Thank you Vusi, I love and admire you as my role model. You are simply the best at what you do.

  • @olajidelawal2924
    @olajidelawal2924 Рік тому

    Lovely content am a Nigerian live on the suburb mainland Lagos Nigeria l learnt mine when I went for speaking Academy last 6 years ago,🌍🏄✍️🙏

  • @ritadinizhu9058
    @ritadinizhu9058 Рік тому +1

    Powerful. Let me start now. I was all over. Thank you a million times

  • @jerryking5210
    @jerryking5210 5 місяців тому

    Exactly so…. There’s no fear when you’re delivering on a subject matter you’ve mastered.

  • @aruva8995
    @aruva8995 6 місяців тому

    Right. When I am known about my subject well I am confident, always, everywhere, in any matter.

  • @AfiDeSouza-qf6nf
    @AfiDeSouza-qf6nf 2 дні тому

    Doing It repeatedly can heal the fear.
    I believe 😊💞

  • @dereckmatoi3474
    @dereckmatoi3474 Рік тому

    perfect advice Mr Vusi, one day I'll speak in public and you'll be a proud audience

  • @thetitilopee
    @thetitilopee Рік тому +3

    Simple but veryyy profound!
    Thank you.

  • @siphombingo6545
    @siphombingo6545 Рік тому

    Love it brother you are so great my wife is from wattville Dube street and I’m from Kwa Thema but we living in Dallas Texas I like your attitude I listen to you at any given time I wish you can run Mzansi we can be all better off

  • @user-tk4pu7wq8v
    @user-tk4pu7wq8v 11 місяців тому

    Thank you Vusi I will do it.
    It's hard for me, I even feel like crying when I'm speaking infront of people just because of fear😢

  • @muukamunkombwe1335
    @muukamunkombwe1335 Рік тому

    Yea I always tell my colleagues. Content is key. Once you know what you're talking about you'll be a force to recon with.

  • @fortuneonyenma6348
    @fortuneonyenma6348 7 місяців тому

    I love Vusi..he speaks to me personally.

  • @bernarddapogan8263
    @bernarddapogan8263 Рік тому

    You're right 100times bcus if you don't understand what you are talking about how will you deliver it effectively

  • @eyesearstoday91
    @eyesearstoday91 Рік тому

    I'm Growing. Thank you Mr. Thembekwayo

  • @AdreamyState
    @AdreamyState Рік тому

    I love how they are all validating me in that momenr

  • @nasabapayi
    @nasabapayi Рік тому

    I used to debate in high school.,yes its bloody scary standing infront of everyone, staring up at you . This exact trick is very vital. Learn your topic and know deeply about it., and be engaging and engaged with your audience. Its been years since i did a public speaking, i think i would be nervous like the ffirst time,..just the thought alone😅 but hey one has to do it anyway despite being nervous your confidence will come through practice. One of my hobbies is to inspire and be positively impactul to the young people

  • @WashikaSamuel
    @WashikaSamuel 7 місяців тому

    This is a life hack to the young people in my generation who want to become public speakers.

  • @stardustgirl2904
    @stardustgirl2904 6 місяців тому

    Words are powerful and should be used with purpose!

  • @cl_culture01
    @cl_culture01 Рік тому

    I subscribed a long time ago Vusi and it is one of the best thing I ever did for my self growth 👏🏿May God bless you 🙏🏿

  • @nkirujoy4368
    @nkirujoy4368 11 місяців тому

    I totally agree with you, Sir. Mastery is the key.

  • @mosubekore78
    @mosubekore78 2 місяці тому

    Some people can talk nonsense very well, sometimes they have no idea what they are talking about, they are just natural public speakers.

  • @gillianmahumane3456
    @gillianmahumane3456 Рік тому

    Me too! Simple and it Works

  • @akhonatshaka619
    @akhonatshaka619 Рік тому

    Vusi is an entire powerhouse🎉...tnx VT

  • @settherealtor
    @settherealtor 8 місяців тому

    Exactly. This is my man

  • @fredlongstar4171
    @fredlongstar4171 Рік тому

    You just gave me a solution. Thank you

  • @D_Patil6722
    @D_Patil6722 11 місяців тому

    Thanks for your support now I have some confidence but still afaird to talk

  • @whydoiexist1994
    @whydoiexist1994 Рік тому

    So true when you know your subject you overcome the fear

  • @lovemoredaka4942
    @lovemoredaka4942 27 днів тому

    One subject and know all you can about it❤😮

  • @panashemureyi2584
    @panashemureyi2584 Рік тому

    🤣🤣I don't know when we'll get a fashion masterclass from this guy. siyavhuma, the man knows his stuff...great day to you all and let the fact that you are even trying to do something positive for yourself and the people around you push you forward..Cheers, laughs vusithembeticaly

  • @omoigberalekingsley4247
    @omoigberalekingsley4247 Рік тому

    This Guy is Something else

  • @konyvnyelv.
    @konyvnyelv. Рік тому

    Seeing how much people fear public speaking, I feel lucky I want to become a librarian or archivist and I don't need public speaking very much

  • @makkysbliss
    @makkysbliss Рік тому

    he said that too🤗, Thank you for sharing 🥰

  • @geraldineyoung1364
    @geraldineyoung1364 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for your wisdom

  • @victorokereke_talks.6995
    @victorokereke_talks.6995 Рік тому

    absolutely correct 👍

  • @yetanotherdude3955
    @yetanotherdude3955 Рік тому

    Yes, exactly!! Thank you for the reinforcement.

  • @vaelectrical
    @vaelectrical Місяць тому

    Thank you sir

  • @TheRyanos
    @TheRyanos 9 місяців тому

    This is the best piece of advice on the internet!

  • @nondumisohestertshabalala4074
    @nondumisohestertshabalala4074 7 місяців тому

    Wow crystal clear video

  • @prudencedantye9297
    @prudencedantye9297 5 місяців тому

    Thanks Vusi😊

  • @hosthaven
    @hosthaven 7 місяців тому

    Working on that 💪🏾

  • @Victor-qu5nz
    @Victor-qu5nz Рік тому

    I agree with you on this

  • @Africaindepthtv
    @Africaindepthtv Рік тому

    Know exactly what you are talking about..point taken

  • @mercydamilolaoguntade5938
    @mercydamilolaoguntade5938 Рік тому

    This is excellent.
    Thank you Vusi.
    I'll always apply this method. 👌🏼

  • @MS_1129
    @MS_1129 Рік тому

    Thank you..

  • @circlesdigital
    @circlesdigital 7 місяців тому

    I subscribe to this method

  • @user-xd7ll3ee3m
    @user-xd7ll3ee3m 5 місяців тому

    Nothing could be more true that this

  • @mintchyhouse
    @mintchyhouse Рік тому

    President Barack Obama is a perfect example. He is a great orator because he master the subject of politics he has a very broad general knowledge as well

  • @SakhileMogale
    @SakhileMogale Рік тому

    Thank you so much. This helps!

  • @user-li9vv5iy1n
    @user-li9vv5iy1n Рік тому

    Thank you Sir 🤝

  • @Bise270
    @Bise270 Рік тому

    This guy is a GEM❤

  • @sizewiseclosetcoach
    @sizewiseclosetcoach 7 місяців тому

    Great insight! You definitely know. thank you.

  • @chielotamagbatekwe1547
    @chielotamagbatekwe1547 3 місяці тому

    very true ...know what you talk about

  • @princeappiah6111
    @princeappiah6111 3 місяці тому

    SIMPLES 👏👏👏

  • @zwelithinihlabathe5269
    @zwelithinihlabathe5269 Рік тому +1

    Appreciate you and the gems you alwaus drop brother!

  • @thembin3688
    @thembin3688 25 днів тому

    Wisdom 🌟

  • @khomotsoegbuonu3041
    @khomotsoegbuonu3041 Рік тому

    Thank you for this brilliant advice VT 👏🏽

  • @suzellebailey1896
    @suzellebailey1896 Рік тому

    Like your motivation ❤

  • @mintchyhouse
    @mintchyhouse Рік тому

    I agree that's true

  • @evelynjoseph78
    @evelynjoseph78 6 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @faithdada5990
    @faithdada5990 Рік тому

    Definitely😊

  • @oluwadamilarealeji
    @oluwadamilarealeji Рік тому

    Thank you, Vusi. Much love

  • @ugboborvictoria1798
    @ugboborvictoria1798 8 місяців тому

    The best ever!

  • @RajonLancaster
    @RajonLancaster 8 місяців тому

    Thank you man, this is deep! It is the key!

  • @48webber
    @48webber 6 місяців тому

    When a guy says, " imagine everybody is naked". You know he battled at that point in time as that is what we were taught

  • @Massoma553
    @Massoma553 Рік тому

    I'm okay with that 👍

  • @TheMuslimahTyqoonsTalkshow
    @TheMuslimahTyqoonsTalkshow 6 місяців тому +1

    How can I subscribe again? Awesome content ❤❤❤, thanks a bunch.

  • @abram3554
    @abram3554 8 місяців тому

    Thanks

  • @godson_8343
    @godson_8343 10 місяців тому

    Amen

  • @AbduMahammed-vy9yl
    @AbduMahammed-vy9yl 3 місяці тому

    Correct

  • @theresawhitehead614
    @theresawhitehead614 8 місяців тому

    Love it

  • @mhlengidawoodkingston9444
    @mhlengidawoodkingston9444 Рік тому

    on point

  • @kovia458
    @kovia458 8 місяців тому

    Awesome. Your video quality is completely awesome

  • @vsmcreatives3625
    @vsmcreatives3625 Рік тому

    Love this ❤️❤️🙌

  • @businessmindchannel5692
    @businessmindchannel5692 Рік тому

    It is correct. I do the same thing.

  • @mosesgkebaso
    @mosesgkebaso Рік тому

    Sure

  • @rosemondphil-othihiwa3647
    @rosemondphil-othihiwa3647 Рік тому

    Facts only

  • @obifamous7099
    @obifamous7099 Місяць тому

    That's right😊

  • @GomolemoSelaledi
    @GomolemoSelaledi 11 місяців тому

    If only heard this while i was in high school

  • @instrumentalsunheard
    @instrumentalsunheard Рік тому

    Simple and shot