He Was Relieved We Broke Up

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  • @xx5a1Maxx
    @xx5a1Maxx 11 місяців тому +22

    Tbh I felt a bit relieved after he broke up with me, my anxiety was so high during the relationship. I kept trying to soothe myself, but failed and asked for validation/ reassurance from him. I knew my behavior was wrong, but I couldn’t control it. And when I finally started to place my energy back towards myself it was too late. I know how I acted was partly to blame for the breakup, but he also had his issues as well. I hope he figures out how he acted was disrespectful towards me. Starting a new job soon and I am excited, I will be purchasing the workbooks soon! I’m going to make him regret losing me, I can’t wait to become secure and confident😊

    • @shavir8597
      @shavir8597 11 місяців тому

      Wow me too!

    • @file13whereareyou
      @file13whereareyou 11 місяців тому

      Bless you through this. I had an avoidant and we had a mis co.munication. He texted me very brutally. I broke up with him before I realized we had miscommunicated but he didn't want to try to work it out. Both of us had made immature mistakes. It's been 9 weeks. I'm ready to try to date again. It will help me et over this, I feel. Take care and make sure to get your eyes on different scenery several times per week.

    • @LonelyRider87
      @LonelyRider87 11 місяців тому

      I did for 2 days. Then the pain & regret hit.

  • @debralavorata546
    @debralavorata546 11 місяців тому +5

    I often wonder why love,the greatest gift a person can have can be so painful too. In my case I think he's relieved for many reasons,and he didn't want to verbally talk,only text,I guess not to hear or want to hear my feelings,I think he's wanted out for awhile,and used the friend excuse to do it. Thank you both for your great work and help in all your videos

  • @VinhNguyễn-f4k
    @VinhNguyễn-f4k 11 місяців тому +3

    6:31 OMG, that's what she said when we broke up 21 days ago. I have been doing no contact and today I found out today that she started selling all my gifts, looks like she's serious about getting rid of me. She broke up with me because she felt guilty that she had a crush on another guy and boredom. I'm looking at her reddit pretty often since reddit left no trace, she seems to do fine, looks like all hope is lost.

  • @ezracheng2612
    @ezracheng2612 11 місяців тому +2

    I still miss Margaret but this was a very helpful video. I thought your comments about not staying unless the person was fully committed and willing to accept this woman’s kids. For her sake and theirs!

  • @ceciliareyes1968
    @ceciliareyes1968 11 місяців тому +1

    Always on point

  • @JohnSmith-s7t
    @JohnSmith-s7t 7 місяців тому

    My exes grandma contacted and told me I can see my exes daughter out of the blue. I had asked earlier if I could see her without and an answer.opinions? Think she is having second thoughts. Month into no contact.

  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  11 місяців тому +1

    What did you think of this situation?

    • @goforit321
      @goforit321 10 місяців тому +1

      It’s scary accurate. Breakups feel like it’s just you and your world is ending, but then you realize there are other broken hearts going through the same, and what we can do to better our lives. Thank you coach Craig and Coach Victoria as well as Coach Margaret ❤️ .

  • @roseclimbpaintcont
    @roseclimbpaintcont 11 місяців тому +2

    Shes already doing everything right though

  • @stevekirschman354
    @stevekirschman354 11 місяців тому +1

    🩷🩵