Reflections on My Life As A Gay Man

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  • Опубліковано 16 лис 2024

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  • @Croix98101
    @Croix98101 Рік тому +7

    I fell to my knees after hearing this yesterday. I decided to clean out all my secret files, get rid of the fantasies, dreams, and things that will never satisfy. So many times I run to what I think is love my heart gets broken only to run back to God. Well, I think I’m going to stay with God. I’m tired of chasing love only to realize that what I’m chasing does not exist. Thank you for loving me enough to be completely honest with me. Your words are life changing!! Through your Godly wisdom, you will pull many from the ledge of despair, brokenness, confusion, and chaos. Not to get deeply religious, but I think I’m going to totally surrender to God and make Him my focus.

  • @cassandrawilson8813
    @cassandrawilson8813 Рік тому +13

    I need you to know I heard every word you said! I appreciate your honesty and openess. Please keep your truth baby. We see you. Praying for your strength in God to endure . Sending peace hugs and healing your way. 😘🥰❤

  • @tiffanydish
    @tiffanydish Рік тому +7

    Sending peace and love your way. By the way, this is off topic but you are SO HANDSOME

  • @dariusboone3689
    @dariusboone3689 10 місяців тому +4

    Brother this is one of the powerful and honest videos I’ve ever listened to. Keep doing this. I feeling a calling if leadership and ministry on you! I appreciate you!

  • @ChrystalAdrian-ht5yq
    @ChrystalAdrian-ht5yq Рік тому +4

    🔥🔥💖🔥🔥💯 Bravo I commend you for your bravery to speak your truth

  • @silviutolu2756
    @silviutolu2756 Рік тому +14

    At this point in my life, I sacrifice my life to God and Allah. There is no future in being a gay man. And I'm not being bitter or salty, or throwing tantrums towards another gay man. If you're gay and you're enjoying your life, good for you. But as for me, growing up and older, I realized all I did was just seeking for constant lust, sex, and desires. There is no real, pure connection in the community. They said Love is Love. But all I see is LUST. Constant Lust that is rooted in abandonment issues and unfulfilled desires. I am sick and done with having this feeling.

  • @patriciamay2690
    @patriciamay2690 Рік тому +3

    You are so intelligent, much respect! I wish you the best!!

  • @MrLetmein2011
    @MrLetmein2011 Рік тому +2

    You’re voicing all my thoughts 🙏🏻

  • @Almightykye
    @Almightykye 8 місяців тому +3

    Hats off to you sir ! Hearing this makes me feel like I’m not crazy when people in the LGBT community try to gas light me.
    The culture is very hedonistic and nothing like what the corporations would have you think. There’s a lot of hidden agendas, and trauma but just because I’ve seen past what people have to go threw doesn’t make me a hater.
    Some people live in the moment and others have enough foresight to look ahead. It’s fun and games now, but I see way more single 50+ gay men then I see young and vibrant married gay men ! So we have to acknowledge there’s a disconnect.

  • @Kardashiansaladbowl
    @Kardashiansaladbowl 8 місяців тому +2

    Fine as you want to be. Inside, out.

  • @silviutolu2756
    @silviutolu2756 Рік тому +14

    Gay guys are alone generally because of the constant rejection from other gay guys, their families and their community. Sad. The strongest rejection comes from their own.

    • @erikpeltomaa9873
      @erikpeltomaa9873 Рік тому +1

      I agree with you I have been rejected many times by other gay men especialy those who have been nice to me it feels like only the mean an broken gay guys are interssted in me and thats not fair and but I dont know if I agree that there is no love in the gay life it depense what kind of gay man it is if its a gay guy who only care for fun,sex and looks then there is no love but if there is a man with a deeper connection then there is a chance of love but its so difficult to find that kind of man.

  • @Edward-oy7ed
    @Edward-oy7ed Рік тому +3

    Much of what you have stated is true but there is always more to know in life. I have lived through about everything you stated yet differences that gave me great hope. As a young black man, I hadn't met my father until the age of 6 and on the very day I met him, he physically abused me and abandoned me. All of my other male relatives ( grandfather, brother and uncle) were dead by the time I was 12 years old. So yes I had a powerful mother and thought, her love was all I needed to make it in the world. Until I met a wonderful gay man, who taught me unconditional love. We me at a gay bar but said he couldn't date me because he was taking care of his best friend, dying from Aids. So I said that's fine but can we be friends and I'll help you take care of your best friend. A year later his friend passed away and we became became great lovers for 13 years, until he passed away. I didn't want to live after him, he was everything, that love was all about. We were lovers, best friends, coworker, class mates and business partners, so everything. So however the road to why we became gay and all of the hell from the straight and gay society, didn't matter because I met him. I'm 60 years old now and I can tell you that the gay world isn't all bad, there are some wonderful warriors who have pulled together because of AIDS. I have lost 13 friends and all of them were wonderful people. You are too and so keep the faith, spread the love and try to keep leading by example and I'm proud of what you're trying to do.

  • @isolda980
    @isolda980 Рік тому +4

    If you write as well as you speak, there's certainly a book in your future; to ignite & spread your messages.

  • @andreabrown631
    @andreabrown631 Рік тому +2

    Literally, everything you are Saying is100% facts.

  • @michaelbailey3299
    @michaelbailey3299 4 місяці тому

    Thanks my brother you are on point. Now that i am moving on, i learn to focus on my goals.
    My life has changed, i am now focus on my career. We must remain strong as individual.

  • @asknikosanz2846
    @asknikosanz2846 9 місяців тому +3

    you should model though
    as a brand ambassador for private clothing brands

  • @brashawnsiriboe
    @brashawnsiriboe 9 місяців тому +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @erikpeltomaa9873
    @erikpeltomaa9873 15 днів тому

    I agree we dont get partners or love only tricks,games, lies etc. But what make me wonder if we never get real partners then why do famous gay men or the ones who use social media a lot why do they get partners.🏳️‍🌈

  • @xtooseasoned
    @xtooseasoned 8 місяців тому +2

    Luis, are you a Taurus?

  • @michaeljohndennis2231
    @michaeljohndennis2231 5 місяців тому +1

    12:31 One very disturbing trend that I’ve noticed on gay porn sites is the trend towards satanic and devil worship gay porn, as well as “poppers intox” gay porn and these videos are the most graphic, obnoxious and obscene, as if they are trying to outdo each other in thier obscenity - certainly nothing to do with gay love or romance, let alone gay lust - to me, it’s totally repulsive

  • @Epicsbk
    @Epicsbk 2 місяці тому

    So what u gonna do find a girl u love and get married?

  • @yolandaspivey2961
    @yolandaspivey2961 Рік тому +3

    This goes for heterosexual relationships as well.

    • @edmundsishange3608
      @edmundsishange3608 2 місяці тому +1

      Someone finally said it, thank you! I don't understand why folks think superficiality is only a gay trait, it's blatant ignorance