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True ! We all have needs !

You are sort of confusing the two "Ds": Dating and D-ck. The apps I think you are speaking of are meat markets, not "dating" sites despite the image they try to promote while hawking blue pills to men in their 20's.. The REAL dating sites for gay men don't have anywhere near the number of subscribers that the apps known for easy instant gratification hook-ups have. They are not particularly popular; they are just...sane. Have you never heard the old country song "Lookin' for Love (in all the wrong places)"? Profiles on apps are merely a reflection of the profile creators' idealistic and puffy notion of themselves. They are rarely the REALITY that will show up at your door. I have had guys show up who barely looked like the photos they depicted in their profiles. Men on meth arrive bearing their backpacks with their drug stuff , and immediately ask to use one's restroom; even street transients have free cell phones and may show up for no reason other than to charge their phones and take a shower! If you truly want QUALITY why are you shopping at a sexual version of Bargain Circus? We are living in the age of Googling ANY info we seek, including groups that share common interests with ourselves. Yet instead of checking out these alternative ways of meeting good guys or the REAL gay dating sites we are always going to the same crappy sources to meet our need for true and lasting connection . There must be a dozen other channels on YT featuring young, disillusioned gay men complaining about the same hook-up sites like the aptly named "Grindr", and all of them referring to these halls of illusion as "dating sites". Let's call this song exactly what it is : They are NOT dating sites, they are cyber-bathhouses! Maybe think outside of the box?

We love you Lewis

How can I contact you ? Do you have IG or something?

This is so validating and so important to hear. It also makes me sad that so many of us are going through this.

And everyone of these so-called *beautiful and attractive* people are on the exact same dating apps with the people they "consider" ugly. *Your so-called beauty may get you through the door, but it clearly STILL DOESN'T CLOSE THE DEAL.* 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤡

Perfectly said the gay attributes in the United States. Ever since I immigrated to America as a gay guy I've perceived the gay community in North America is extremely selective, racist, lonely, over expectations and ignoring. So overall the gay community here in America is very polluted and toxicated.

what do you expect you're in white countries a white person in asia or africa will experience the same things

Try ading being an atheist (or not a member of the dominant local religion).... Then they start trying to make you out into some devilishly beautiful succubus

No tea, no shade, but has the "beautiful" person entered the chat?

If you take care of your appearance and have a stoic, non-histrionic, demeanour some people think you need to be taken down a peg, and that you are living a charmed life.

Ironically good looking people probably have the least casual sex.

💐🙏🏾💜💚🩷🩵🧡💛🖤🤍🩶❤️🤎 Fantastic video & great wisdom 🇺🇸🏳️‍🌈 Ray from Chicago south side 🌈 Your beautiful 💐

You can literally get anyone you want. If you can't keep them, it must be the personality.

i think the more interesting conversation is why heterosexual men wont socialize and interact with pretty-looking gay men, but have no problem interacting and socializing with masculine presenting gay men Most probably because if you're a pretty gay guy its more clockable, and if you are masculine looking it isnt. And lord knows straight men would never want anyone to think that they are gay by way of interacting with a pretty, beautiful man.

Very accurate ❤ the devil is mad because you been brought out and no longer playing with darkness ! ❤ I stand with you and support you!

Current situation

Beautiful words

I'm also young guy and I spent three months on Grindr, few things I perceived on Grindr men are lonely, mad, hopeless, and untrustworthy on that fuckin app, in other words selfish and sexual promiscuous and also extremely picky and fickle men on that app who are solely looking for casual hookups, so for someone like me who is just looking for a healthy long term friendships Grindr is utterly a toxic and mental ruining app.

So in my working adult life I've only had wt people being difficult to work with not due to incompetence but with stinginess.(If that makes any sense). Never really had a major problem with them but they were not inclusive at all. Hispanics are up there aswell (And im Hispanic too lol). Wt people is the only reason I know psychological terms because a lot of them like playing the elitist/psychological game(Along with women). I tend to get along with bk people for most of the time bc of their laid back attitude. The interesting thing though, the people I had the perfect chemistry were asian/Indian people.

Seek first the kingdom of God. Jesus Christ loves you. Let him order your life and heal you. Become his disciple and watch your life fall into place. Check out Jackie Hill Perry. That’s right, if you’re looking for love, repent and yield your heart to Jesus. Only he satisfies!

Let's keep in touch... the golf coast Beaches are calling for us ...

Uuu rrr a survivor and I am glad you are still here... we all want some one special to spend our lives with, I always say: mingle Mingle Mingle

wow a strong foundation is correct amen change starts with you well said ❣💔its a broken app

my my bro i feel your emotions and your conversation the apps are not for the best of relations but its the wrong connections its the unknown untill you see the real person in pperson i found that hurt people hurt people and in the most powerful way they can

You are definitely hot, so i am guessing they maybe got freaked out by your crazy religious belief

It's going to come a day where their rule won't be anymore what time is almost up and it's coming to an end that's all I have to tell my black brothers and sisters out there just hold on the time is almost up and coming to an end in this country.

It´s a madness.

I still dont understand that why do all other gay men always seem to find happiness get married having kids etc even in the fantasy world they get the guy and happiness they want exept in the fantasy world they are always these muscular, big butted big, d***s kind of guys and they say they are so in love but all what they do is having sex with each other and acting like Sluts and many gay couples can never keep anything for themselfs they always must have these open relationships to keep their so called partner happy and when I see or read about gay men on internet i just become irritated and this comparment starts because ever since I came out 10 years ago i have had no good experience only rejection and rejection even though im a cool, boyish nice man so all those damn rejections just keeps me single and angry. Its usualy the femminine men who has the hardest and no one usualy dont wanna date them but even though im manly not toxic manly i still never seem to be enough. So if I would still be alone even in my older years and people would wonder why im i still single i would say because all what gay men did to me only rejection after rejection.

America is predominantly white (greater than 65% easily), so why are people in denial? Most spaces won't have black faces but will have white faces. It's basic math. I've been in predominant white spaces for almost ALL of my working life. The one thing I say to people is be true to yourself. DO NOT ALLOW people to say or do anything in your presence. I've been told to go home because of it. That's okay because I wasn't going to allow anyone to say whatever. Dam that! Put their as is in check. That's how I say cope. If you file a lawsuit, hopefully you'll win, but show no fear.

Abusive parents reap what they sow. But adult children are made to feel guilty for not wanting to deal with them because they (the parents) don't want to honestly look at how toxic they are. They rather feel sorry for themselves than truly change.

Spot on !!!!

Grew up with white people my whole life. It seems like y’all make this too much about race. White people just got issues similar to everyone else. You just gonna find the right group. If you’re at a job with racist then find another job. In every race you have the envious, the friendly, the hateful, the loving, the aggressive, the high IQ, the low IQ, the rich, the poor. Stop classifying things as “them against me”

I’m a 21 yearold gay man and I had such a horrible day yesterday. And I was listening to a song that made me burst into tears and I realized why that song and songs like it always make me cry. The running theme? Protection. Subconsciously deep in my heart protection is the ultimate manifestation of love like my inner child just wanted to protected. And then I find this video. This spoke to me so much, thank you so much

Your insight is PROFOUND regarding gay relationships! Brokenness is the FOUNDATION of all homosexual relationships... And upon that broken stone, LUST is the caulk the binds it all!

💐💐🩷💚💜💐 Great video & fantastic wisdom 🏳️‍🌈💐Ray from Chicago south side 💐Grace 💐

I learned the hard way you can't change people. You just got to let them be. It's better to observe and allow people to show you who they truly are. Their actions speak louder than anything they can say. When they know something hurts you and they do it anyway, speaks volumes. I take relationships and love very seriously and although many say they want love they don't know what to do with it when they have it and end up deeply hurting and destroying those who gave their all to them. Some people are best loved at a distance.

This was freaking awesome!!!

A whole word . I dont do grace anymore.

preach!

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thank you for this video, it came at a crucial time in my life where I'm investing so much into another person, but the other person isn't being honest with me. They want to talk but not meet up.

Always get so much from your videos Luis 🙏🏻

Sound like parents brothers and sisters

This was right on time! 🙌🏾I brought out my notepad and pen and took notes

💐🙏🏾🩷💐 Great wisdom 🏳️‍🌈🇺🇸🌈 Ray from Chicago south side 🙏🏾🖤🤍🤎❤️🩶🩵💚🧡💛🩷💜Thank you for the fantastic life lessons 💐

I love this new place your in Louis! I celebrate you 🎉

I requested to follow you on Instagram and then I realized that the account is private. Please feel free to decline my request. No worries.

Did you value our connection in the past? Thank you for this though!!!

I always watch his videos twice; I get a lot out of them.