this video felt like a warm hug! ❤ going through a similar transition in life- moved out at 18 and now i'm back home at 29. feels very "back to square one" but the move has allowed me to reconnect with family, friends, and ultimately, myself. so happy i stumbled across your video and truly looking forward to seeing what this next chapter has in store for you! 🥲
I recently came across your UA-cam channel and it feels like getting advice from a big sister. As a 22 year old who has 0 clue what she is doing, I have to say that your videos are extremely comforting to watch. Can't wait for future videos. Warm hugs from Norway!:)
love this vlog. 💛 and the suprise at the end, melts my heart!!! you are growing. thank you for letting us in, being vunerable and honest and sharing these parts of your life.
I live in nyc, and it has changed. The city isn’t as opulent as it used to be a decade ago. It’s the current state of the economy. It’s astounding that even two hardworking young people go through situations like this. Fortunately you have supportive parents ❤.
thank you for sharing all your thoughts about how you have been feeling lately and thoughts you have been having, I think a lot of us can relate to many of the things you say
Thank you for always sharing your life and thoughts with us, even the messy uncertain parts. Your honesty and reflections are what make your content shine and i often feel like you're voicing many of my own thoughts. I very much relate to getting older and your life vision not holding the same appeal it used to and grappling with maybe the life you used to dream about is not really the life you want anymore. To me, the plans/visions are bench marks -- there is no "end goal" -- and that the visions/plans change over time as we change too. Its still hard tho haha. Which is to say we are all in this boat together!!! Also your puppy is too precious 🥺🥺🥺
Thanks for letting us be witnesses of your journey (in the context of listening and understanding)! Meaning and identity always ebb and flow (you mentioned this in the moving out video), hope it arrives soon and gently.
Every time you have one of these sit down monologues is when I relate to you the most. It's like you are literally saying out loud, the words that are in a jumble in my head. As someone who was laid off this year from her tech job and trying content for the first time, I can completely feel you on the sentiment of "starting over". Also, I'm not even planning a wedding but my days just seem to fly by faster than I can process. I just moved too which also amplifies the destabilising feeling that I'm starting anew (building up a new home). It is a lot and yet I constantly feel like I'm not doing anything of purpose and achievement. Our barometer for ourselves is always the highest so I just want to tell you as an outsider human that you are doing so much and are so impressive and we are proud of you even if you sometimes are not proud of yourself. 🥲
Hello Anna, this is the third video I watched on your channel (the first one is about Notion, then laolao). I am also about to turn 31, and I am super anxious for having no specific goal or idea about what I am going to do with my life after being one year unemployed. As you said, slow down in order to go fast. Thanks for sharing your ideas, I found there are so many common characters in us... yes, we are together! And I'm from China, feeling very grateful to encounter you💙
I feel the EXACT same about being my own tiger parent holy moly. I teared up when you were talking about that because every time I complete something I feel like "I should have" not "yay i got something done" so i'm constaqntly putting pressure on myself to do more. Love this content and your content on tools to use! Can't wait for more.
Hi Wesley! I’m 25, grew up in SoCal and am contemplating a move to NYC right now. I’m apartment hunting in Brooklyn as I type this comment. There’s a lot of uncertainty and existential dread running through me right now (I’m also a fellow anxious over thinker) and I just wanted to say that this video actually really comforted me. I’m scared of moving to NYC and leaving behind my home in California and that it’ll all be different if/when I decide to move back. I think it’s comforting to see that you did the big city girl thing but were able to come back to your California home as a time for reset and rejuvenation and that you were still able to take pleasure in the small things (like a sunset with your toes in the Pacific ocean). It shows me that you can grow and still hold onto the parts of you that you cherish. Thank you ❤
thank you for sharing your current situation. i feel less alone. i'm entering my late twenties and I'm having a hard time accepting that I'm not where I thought I would be. I thought i'd be living in a house on my own and married, but I still live at home with parents in an apartment. This economy is the absolute worst.
Thank you for sharing and communicating your thoughts, emotions, simply being honest. We in this together new subscriber appreciate your vulnerability !
100% relate to how you feel about how you think you should be "more productive" because you don't have a traditional job. I'm in the same boat and everyday I feel this way. shouldn't I be getting more done? and my partner says the same things😅.Just know that it's helpful for those of us in the same boat to hear you verbalize these feelings❤
I can totally relate to the frustration of selecting a wedding dress. I'm getting so tense even thinking about it as my wedding is in a couple months. Any advice will be helpful and also best of luck . Hope you get your dream wedding dress.❤☺
Yes I love the kind of videos where you just talk! 😊 Whenever I visit California, I always get Philz mint mojito coffee, it's the best 🥹 CUTE TEDDY BEAR
Wow you sound a lot like me as far as my thoughts I’m 31 and I also have some attachment issues maybe that’s not what it’s called lol but when things go wrong I quickly cut ties and off to the next adventure that part really resonated with me
❤ He is so so beautiful ❤ I have found in my life (at 72 years young never growing up) with ADD we are thinkers & dreamers with that something cuddling up with some thing fuzz and cute, outside of your significant other is always so comforting and good for us🥰💖💋💄So keep thinking 💭 & Dreaming 💖❤️💜
NYC isn't safe anymore and the crime is getting worst. I hope you can move somewhere safe? I live in California and even here isn't safe. 7-11 convenience stores getting robbed on a daily basis.
Wow you sound a lot like me as far as my thoughts I’m 31 and I also have some attachment issues maybe that’s not what it’s called lol but when things go wrong I quickly cut ties and off to the next adventure that part really resonated with me
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this video felt like a warm hug! ❤ going through a similar transition in life- moved out at 18 and now i'm back home at 29. feels very "back to square one" but the move has allowed me to reconnect with family, friends, and ultimately, myself. so happy i stumbled across your video and truly looking forward to seeing what this next chapter has in store for you! 🥲
@@sfshawty I’m so happy the move back has been a positive experience for you 🤝🏼🙂↕️it’s a tough choice to make but can bring so much good!
I recently came across your UA-cam channel and it feels like getting advice from a big sister. As a 22 year old who has 0 clue what she is doing, I have to say that your videos are extremely comforting to watch. Can't wait for future videos. Warm hugs from Norway!:)
love this vlog. 💛 and the suprise at the end, melts my heart!!! you are growing. thank you for letting us in, being vunerable and honest and sharing these parts of your life.
appreciate you for being here 🤝🏼
No matter what you do, where you are heading to, we are here for you! Love taging along your journey :)
Thank you 🥺
I found this crazy relatable for so many reasons. Also, Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow hit me really hard. Congrats on Momo!
It’s so good I want to reread it already and it’s only been a few months 😭
I live in nyc, and it has changed. The city isn’t as opulent as it used to be a decade ago. It’s the current state of the economy. It’s astounding that even two hardworking young people go through situations like this. Fortunately you have supportive parents ❤.
Times have certainly changed 🙂↕️ but definitely grateful for a support system
your def not alone , i feel less crazy knowing that im not alone going through it tookeep being awesome
I have been following your journey for a while and I am so excited for this new chapter in your life. Congrats on your new puppy! 💗
thank you for sharing all your thoughts about how you have been feeling lately and thoughts you have been having, I think a lot of us can relate to many of the things you say
Thank you for always sharing your life and thoughts with us, even the messy uncertain parts. Your honesty and reflections are what make your content shine and i often feel like you're voicing many of my own thoughts. I very much relate to getting older and your life vision not holding the same appeal it used to and grappling with maybe the life you used to dream about is not really the life you want anymore. To me, the plans/visions are bench marks -- there is no "end goal" -- and that the visions/plans change over time as we change too. Its still hard tho haha. Which is to say we are all in this boat together!!! Also your puppy is too precious 🥺🥺🥺
Yes trying to remind myself that it’s just an ongoing process 🥲🤍
Thanks for letting us be witnesses of your journey (in the context of listening and understanding)! Meaning and identity always ebb and flow (you mentioned this in the moving out video), hope it arrives soon and gently.
Girl you keep living. That's a great plan.
Every time you have one of these sit down monologues is when I relate to you the most. It's like you are literally saying out loud, the words that are in a jumble in my head.
As someone who was laid off this year from her tech job and trying content for the first time, I can completely feel you on the sentiment of "starting over".
Also, I'm not even planning a wedding but my days just seem to fly by faster than I can process. I just moved too which also amplifies the destabilising feeling that I'm starting anew (building up a new home).
It is a lot and yet I constantly feel like I'm not doing anything of purpose and achievement.
Our barometer for ourselves is always the highest so I just want to tell you as an outsider human that you are doing so much and are so impressive and we are proud of you even if you sometimes are not proud of yourself. 🥲
Thank you 🥲 looks like we’re never as alone in these messes as we think!!
Hello Anna, this is the third video I watched on your channel (the first one is about Notion, then laolao). I am also about to turn 31, and I am super anxious for having no specific goal or idea about what I am going to do with my life after being one year unemployed. As you said, slow down in order to go fast. Thanks for sharing your ideas, I found there are so many common characters in us... yes, we are together! And I'm from China, feeling very grateful to encounter you💙
@@ZoeZhang2019 glad we found each other!! 🥹
I feel the EXACT same about being my own tiger parent holy moly. I teared up when you were talking about that because every time I complete something I feel like "I should have" not "yay i got something done" so i'm constaqntly putting pressure on myself to do more. Love this content and your content on tools to use! Can't wait for more.
It's a never ending cycle of self-bullying 🥲
Hey really enjoying this video and the energy that was put in and I love how the UA-cam community shows love on people chasing their dreams
thank you for sharing your thoughts and emotions and being so vulnerable and open
always love a good ✨car chat✨ somehow you always put into words the exact feelings I have, love you and your content❤
I’m in my late forties and still sorting my shit out lol 😊 love your content. Very relatable x and Momo is ADORABLE 🥰
Hi Wesley! I’m 25, grew up in SoCal and am contemplating a move to NYC right now. I’m apartment hunting in Brooklyn as I type this comment. There’s a lot of uncertainty and existential dread running through me right now (I’m also a fellow anxious over thinker) and I just wanted to say that this video actually really comforted me.
I’m scared of moving to NYC and leaving behind my home in California and that it’ll all be different if/when I decide to move back. I think it’s comforting to see that you did the big city girl thing but were able to come back to your California home as a time for reset and rejuvenation and that you were still able to take pleasure in the small things (like a sunset with your toes in the Pacific ocean). It shows me that you can grow and still hold onto the parts of you that you cherish. Thank you ❤
@@reneesu9772 leaving home will only make you cherish it more. if you want to go, do it! You can always come back :)
thank you for sharing your current situation. i feel less alone. i'm entering my late twenties and I'm having a hard time accepting that I'm not where I thought I would be. I thought i'd be living in a house on my own and married, but I still live at home with parents in an apartment. This economy is the absolute worst.
We're all on our own paths, I'm sure what's meant for you will come
Thank you for sharing and communicating your thoughts, emotions, simply being honest. We in this together new subscriber appreciate your vulnerability !
🥹🥹🥹 love a car chat so much~ ily you got this
❤️
Awww I didn’t catch what kind of puppy he was? Sooo cute!! Just a ball of fur hahaha. Enjoy!!
He’s a chow! So will remain a ball of fur well into adulthood 🫡
100% relate to how you feel about how you think you should be "more productive" because you don't have a traditional job. I'm in the same boat and everyday I feel this way. shouldn't I be getting more done? and my partner says the same things😅.Just know that it's helpful for those of us in the same boat to hear you verbalize these feelings❤
The classic trade in of 9 to 5 for a 24-7 😅
So cute!! Congrats on your new roommate!!
AHHHH PLSSSS MORE WEDDING CONTENT
hehehe
I am also 31, moved back to my hometown - and reconfiguring my own life.
We go this!! 🤝🏼
I can totally relate to the frustration of selecting a wedding dress. I'm getting so tense even thinking about it as my wedding is in a couple months. Any advice will be helpful and also best of luck . Hope you get your dream wedding dress.❤☺
Yes I love the kind of videos where you just talk! 😊 Whenever I visit California, I always get Philz mint mojito coffee, it's the best 🥹 CUTE TEDDY BEAR
Aww ty Dina! And yes Philz is the best hehe
I MISS YOUR VIDEOS! Hope you're ok.... Please upload again soon.
Yes I’m on of the early birds💖💖
Wow you sound a lot like me as far as my thoughts I’m 31 and I also have some attachment issues maybe that’s not what it’s called lol but when things go wrong I quickly cut ties and off to the next adventure that part really resonated with me
didn't know indoor costco food courts existed in california lol
How do you make it work in a relationship? I struggle personally
Same but on top of that, tiger mother 😅
Do you live in arizona mesa
❤ He is so so beautiful ❤ I have found in my life (at 72 years young never growing up) with ADD we are thinkers & dreamers with that something cuddling up with some thing fuzz and cute, outside of your significant other is always so comforting and good for us🥰💖💋💄So keep thinking 💭 & Dreaming 💖❤️💜
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NYC isn't safe anymore and the crime is getting worst. I hope you can move somewhere safe? I live in California and even here isn't safe. 7-11 convenience stores getting robbed on a daily basis.
if you pause at 3:29 and look to her left -- you can see Girlie's 3 monitor setup that she gave her hubby shit for xD
That's his set-up 😅 I gave him a desk area in my room at my family's house heh
@@WesleyAnna touche 😅 LOL
Wow you sound a lot like me as far as my thoughts I’m 31 and I also have some attachment issues maybe that’s not what it’s called lol but when things go wrong I quickly cut ties and off to the next adventure that part really resonated with me