An Introvert Goes To A 3-Day Music Festival By Himself
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Victor (IG: @victorlpham) ventures on a solo journey to break out of his introverted shell and explore the wonders of Electric Daisy Carnival in Las Vegas for three full days of music, magic, and memories.
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This is basically a sad boi tribute to his ended relationship. Proud of him to have gone alone though.
Jada Wong ❤️
Hey, hes at least getting out there.
can't even imagine how painful it would be to go after a breakup with someone you had always gone with. It's just such an emotionally overwhelming experience
@@okitasan exactly
I am an introvert. I travel quite a bit for my job. It's so hard sometimes because it gets super lonely when you are to shy to meet people. Totally related to your vid. Great job.
Going to a festival as an introvert is actually pretty awesome. You are nowhere more alone than in a crowd of people. You can enjoy the music you love as much as you want because nobody holds you back. However this guy is just not over his ex which has nothing to do with his "introvertness".
I can feel this guys regret empty feeling in his stomach on the all the rides there and waiting
My best friend is extremely extroverted and I'm extremely introverted so i love going with her to places like music festivals because we always make friends with strangers and her extrovertedness kinda forces me out of my shell which i actually really like
*Drinking game for anyone who wants to get absolutely hammered: take a shot everytime he mentions his ex*
This is a good lesson. Never build your life around 1 person, you can lose it any time..
Nobody:
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Good for you dude
He is basically heartbroken not an introvert
Im going to edc for the first time this year. And im going by myself because a friend canceled on me. Hopefully it goes well
This isn’t really him necessarily struggling being at EDC as an introvert. It’s him struggling to be at EDC post breakup....
so many people are goofing on him for bein sad over his ex but honestly i feel like we should be collectively proud of him for simply having the strength to go at all. Well done man 👏👏
1 thousand likes but no replies? Ok
I went to EDC last year hoping I would run into my ex one last time. I did and it was the saddest moment that year. Next time I go I won't be focused on a corny love story, I'll be focused on my own story
I'm glad you had a blast at EDC, I'm going to Ever After in Toronto but I'll be going to EDC 2020. Hopefully I'll see you there with your Go Pro
I am not scared of going out and going to these places alone, I just feel awkward when other people are in groups and I am alone 😐
same
Take 1 ecstacy pill and everyone there is your friend 🤣
im an introvert, & i just died at the thought of this
Cicely925 seriously, my anxiety quadrupled
Soooo many people looking at me I'm looking for the nearest exit.
Same
I’m a introvert but I try to push myself to not be and I always get rewarded when I push myself! Don’t listen to your anxiety or your bed trust me
Same
Next: Extrovert stays isolated from social interaction for 3 days.
Well I think that would be a good idea. I think it's important to work with both solitude and connection 😁
Tronizer TRUEEEEEEEEEEE
Yo I'm an introvert but I would not be able to survive 3 days isolated, hell no!! 😂
No human alive would like that
@@candiceparker6847 Try 3 years
Stop this is introvert abuse
murry but buzzfeed need content and tears of their employees
@@paulescalona9153 lmaoooo thats true
I always admire someone pushing their limits, great work my dude. Nothing new happens in your comfort zone 🌻
Dude. Let her go. Don’t give an ex the power to dictate your experience and your enjoyment.
It’s a process, sometimes moments come up and surprise you like the songs he’d sing with his ex, and you have to ride out that bitter sweet feeling
But then again u should give an x the power to enhance the experience 😏
You can’t make someone let them go, they have to let themselves forget their ex. When you love someone you can’t just turn it off, especially not after loving them for so long.
Dude, let him feel his feelings.
Way easier said than done
When buzzfeed literally runs out of ideas, so they torture innocent people.
al13n_ch1ld his courage outweighs your cynicism
al13n_ch1ld facts
So was this an introvert breaking out of his shell or just post break up therapy for this dude?
clearly he's an introvert he can't do anything with out her because introverts always have to depend on some one else to feel comfortable in the real world.
Carlos Rodriguez u just spit facts that’s how I feel with my girlfriend as an introvert
@@crj789 You must be pretty insecure if you think that's what being an introvert means.
Hugh Jass You must be pretty slow if you couldn’t catch on that he was being sarcastic 😂
@@Angora69100 Damn you're slow. Finish school?
I'm an introvert and let me tell you, I've been to a festival by myself once. A friend I was to go with stood me up and I didn't want to sell my ticket or anything because my fav artists were performing, so I went alone! And apart from this huge fear somewhere inside of me at the beginning, I had the time of my life and have never had more fun than at that time! 🔥
Yep, I’m an introvert too and I’ve gone to several concerts by myself lol
@@nashi._.7563 is it easy to jump in to other people’s conversations?
@@syncops834 you'd be surprised man some people are very nice & accepting that they would talk to you as if they've known you for years , others might just stare at you weirdly like if you did something wrong
How did you approach people?
Yeah I used to be an introvert, and I go to about 10 festivals alone a year
Not all introverts are shy. Introversion and shyness are not always interchangeable!
No but they often come as a package deal and it sucks
That's true......shyness & being an Introvert Aren't the same. Introverts just like thiet own space.
Classic introvert here...people also confuse introverts with being anti-social. Not the case...
Omg thank you. Being introverted is not defined as being shy or not wanting to socialize!!
I am a shy extrovert and everyone assumes I'm an introvert. Being an introvert doesn't mean you're shy and being an extrovert doesn't mean you're always loud and charismatic.
I'm an introvert, and this would make me nervous as heck if it happened to me. I find it funny that he's doing it.
I would stay in a far far corner
@@elizabowman9739 same here.
I would be hella nervous too. Lmao
Well His Getting Paid Extra!🖒
@@RoyHoy for sure.
Gym g, come hang with me and my crew next time🔥🔮🤙🏽
This dude is not over his ex 😂
Alexis Telford clearly
okay actually just watched the whole vid, yeah he's not but its a bit sad if anything
That was my first thought 😂
They were together for years i assume it’s harder to get over someone you’ve been dating for years than an SO of a few months
DANIEL V not saying it’s unusual or anything, just stating my observations
EDC is probably the best festival you could go to alone , make ALL DA FRIENDS FEEL ALL THE FEELS
I can’t even leave my bed
Same
No one is shy or introverted with molly and EDM
Yes I am
need more molly then
I was. And then I took it, and the music and lights started.. and all the sudden I was hugging people and talking to people without a thought. Lol
I prefer being alone in a crowd dancing my ass off. I love watching yall enjoy yourselves...until you ask for my name then I'm like ughhhhhh
@@stitchybob but i want to kno ur name
Imagine if all the people around him were also introverts
And that's why nobody was talking to each other.
I am
@@recoil53 good luck talking over the music. Damn near impossible 😂
They probably are but they are all trippin on something
This is from EDC 2017... and it was uploaded 2019? 😅
Caspuhz okay that’s what I thought because I don’t remember seeing Zedd and Porter Robinson in EDC this year! And Cosmic Gate does not look like that this year
Thought it was strange to be uploaded on may 16 when the event was may 17-19. Thanks for sharing though
Victor L Pham the video was still beautiful and I agree relevant! I was there also in the crowd watching Porter and the fireworks at the end Made it just that much better :)
Ya, lol, I was gonna say, Illennium played at Circuit Grounds this year, lol
And I was super pissed--I thought I missed Kaskade doing another surprise set this year, esp after his got cancelled 😂😭
This is my nightmare. I'd have a panic attack just thinking about going to someplace like this alone
FrancineHighC As a girl I’d also be crazy worried about my own safety 😩
nahhh, its not that bad
@@BarelyNoticeable dramatic asses
Most people at raves are high anyways so they don’t care if you’re alone xd. Plus, most ravers are actually really nice and very open to making new friends
@@BarelyNoticeable people at EDC are super nice and it's super safe. no one ever hit on me or made me uncomfortable
Why does everyone confuse introverts with loner? Introverts have less energy, not no energy. We are less sociable not completely unsociable.
this makes me genuinely happy for him sometimes doing your own thing in the presence of others, is enough! as a fellow introvert.
live.love.mellissa
Agreed 🙂👏
There is a difference from being shy and being and introvert. Introverts aren’t necessarily shy, they just don’t enjoy socializing. Shy people are afraid of socializing. An introvert can be good at socializing, but just not like it.
Mark Bounty you’re absolutely wrong. introverts can be social and enjoy talking to people. you’re thinking about someone who is asocial. being introverted means you gain energy from being alone rather than with people.
True! I had this extrovert friend who's shy on reciting and performing.
An Intro,ambi,extrovert can be shy. Not only introverts.
Ik that a lot of people are saying that Victor isn’t over his ex. I think it’s amazing he was able to do this by himself and even though thoughts of his gf sucked, he still went and did the best he could. Good job victor ur crazy brave !
Everyone is hating on him for being a sadboi and that this is a tribute to his ex. Getting out of a 3 year relationship is tough, and for him to go to a festival on his own(which he usually went to with his ex) is an amazing first step to jump out of his comfort zone and move on. Good job man, loved this video
You know what helps for being out going at EDC..
MDMA
introverts aren’t shy, they just need alone time to recharge. they’re just as social as extroverts
Why is this published now? This was EDC LV 2018.
i realized that because porter didn't perform this year
2017* 2018 didnt have porter, just virtual self
My exact thoughts especially once I saw Kinetic Field
Brokenhearted Guy: drinks water...kind of reminds me how my girlfriend used to drink water
Introvert, just broke up, favorite artist Porton Robinson 🤔 sadboi tribute
Video is old AF! This is not 2019 EDC!
Kevin P yea when i first saw the stage designs i realised it was 2017’s edc
I thought so. Illenium wasnt at cosmic meadows this year, He was at circuit grounds 😂
TRUEEE!😂😂 OMG SO FAKE
literrally me when i try to make new friends than my current
New friends: Yeah were not coming.
An introvert goes to Eurovision, now that I want to see
you should do introverts doing hiking together
Seems like the only reason he made this is just to show his ex how much he misses her hahaha
EDC is the best festival in the world 💕 we were at so many of the same sets!! So cool you did it by yourself
Cute video but being an introvert doesn’t always has to be shy! Sometimes people (like me) are not shy, but calm and being with the right people make me an extrovert 😇 (but I am 50/50 I would say)
OK😐
he literally mentioned his ex in every minute of this video lmao:
0:30
1:10
2:31
3:41
4:16
he`s so not over her
Ending a long term relationship is really hard and you don't just immediately get over it. I think it's wrong to shame someone for having normal feelings.
So what if he’s not over his ex and used this as a therapy session? The point is he put himself out there despite the challenges he knew he would face. And so what if got emotional... he’s human. People need to be more accepting of expressing themselves - it’s healthy. Sending you positive vibes, bro. Breakups are never easy 💜
Dude I’m going solo next year too! This year I chickened out last minute and went with a group, but sometimes I feel like we get TOO attached to sticking within our own groups that we don’t try to extend ourselves to others. I did it here and there this year but I want to engage people more in 2020.
did you end up going alone for any of them?
I’m an introvert and I go to festivals/raves by myself all the time. Some of the best times I’ve had in my entire life. Going by yourself forces you to interact and meet other people and that’s something that an introvert is not very good at. But trust me when you’re by yourself it’s really not as bad as it seems. Whoever thinks it’s weird or judges it has obviously never tried before so they really shouldn’t even be speaking on it.
Meet many guys? ;)
So true Katie 👍🏾🎛🎚🎛🔊
I literally shed a tear watching your video because I'm also an introvert and I LOVE Porter Robinson, all your feelings are relatable and you're so brave to have gone alone to EDC ! Props to you, thanks for sharing!
Lol he looks damn sad being at the festival alone. This whole video is sad.
Nitesh I feel sorry for him, because I really understand this.
LOLOL edc 2017 and posting two years later?
Amber Tang Lol I was like Porter Robinson wasn’t there this year. Because I would have seen him.
That's what I thought too lol. I was thinking how the hell he saw Illenium at Cosmic Meadow when he performed at Circuit Grounds.
I went to a concert by myself and it was so awkward 😂 everyone had someone to talk to and I was just sitting there likeeeee
Glad he went through with it!! I went myself this year !! And was an amazing experience!!!
I sure hope you guys try it out someday!
Proud of u fellow introvert!.... Introverts unite! ... Alone at our homes 🤙🏽🙌🏽
Ended up solo at EDC. It was amazing to traverse the stages without having to worry about anyone but yourself.
The introvert struggle is real! Good on him for putting himself out there. I am in need of a day or two to recover after being out in public.
This was last year right? Porter didn’t play 2019 he played at omnia a day before the festival tho
(My boyfriend and I love porter)
_meets two girls who sang to every song with him_
_have a good time with them_
_suddenly...._
*_two girls left the chat_*
You should do a video on an extrovert being an introvert for 3 days
Ah I’d be so bored! I need to get out and do things!!
Im an introvert and I couldn't pass up the opportunity to go to see Beyonce last year at the Global Citizen Festival. Everyone was suddenly busy so i went by myself. Thought it was gonna be hell but it was great!!!
I'm an introvert who loves EDM & I go to shows by myself all the time! 🌟
Love all the DJs you mentioned here! Madeon + Porter are definitely my favorites
Looks like edclv 2017... I was there 😍
Yes, 2017z thats the year illenium was at cosmiccc 😍
Porter robinson is amazing ive teared up at all his sets
I will be going alone this year due to a break up as well I give props I’m so nervous and scared to do this
Im an introvert as well. Managed to fly to electric love festival by myself 3 years ago, also slept in the camping area which was even harder than chilling in a hotel afterwards but everything was totally worth it!! highly recommend if you are into EDM !
I go to festivals and concerts all the time by myself it’s not that bad, I also do see how people could want to go with somebody to these kind of events, but over the 2 years of me being graduated from high school and being very shy and trying to make new friends, I’ve kinda got over it and don’t let that bother me from the fact that I love music and from experiencing things. Hopefully I’ll find someone or a group of friends that loves the same things as I do.
I am so proud of this dude's dedication to being alone and proud!
Isn't introvert someone who enjoys spending time alone?
As an introvert who has done this exact thing, it’s not that bad at all. If anything, you focus on the music more
Yeah if anything going with other people would be more draining, i prefer doing things alone
I don't think your sole opinion speaks for all "introverts" but ok
*What an absolute madlad*
This man has achieved something more than I ever have
PLUR
The real edm community welcomes all.
Great vid V. Stay strong brother.
Next video:
*Eating vegetables as a vegetarian!*
Extroverts: *making fun of introverts*
Introverts: :/
it sucks when people think introvert are shy. I'm an introvert and people don't think so because I can approach people rather easily and i'm very social in social events but I really enjoy/need being alone. I don't really care doing things by myself
Yo, this hit way too close to home 😷😅
Yeah, no. Introverts are people who just get their "social energy" from solitude...in other words, need time to recharge by spending time alone. Being shy is a separate quality
And I thought going to Escape 2017 by myself would be bad, but I made friends and they helped me get out of my comfort zone💕
Aww... I can relate so much to this... being happy that it's an experience you'll never forget, and yet being sad because there's no one there to share it with (by that I mean like friends, not the crowd of strangers around you)
I actually did something like this earlier this year - went to see Endgame by myself, and it truly was a bittersweet experience - I was happy because I was doing something on my own, but also sad because there was no one there to gush about the movie
I think you are not an intorvert but I think you are relating to his heart(break up 😥) I'm introverted and I really like going to cinema alone and choose whatever I want to see.
Porter Robinson was there! My inspiration, and idol. Perfectly done shelter.
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Let us introverts stay in the house 💀
I'm sorry but being an introvert doesn't necessarily mean that you're shy and you don't like to socialize much. It only means that being social, although fun, can be super draining. Therefore, making "alone time" necessary to feel "refueled". And extroverts are usually able to feel "refueled" through socializing often.
Introvert here. I’m not shy or I feel that I hate everyone. It’s just people drain me and I want to be alone most of the time.
Introversion doesn’t mean you’re shy, anxious, antisocial, etc. it can happen to extroverts as well.
The intro was a bad explanation with introversion. However, the good example shows that you can enjoy EDM and be introverted. I’m glad the guy has a grand time despite being single. Go you dude.
Beautiful. Time will heal you
Takes courage to do what Victor did. As an introvert, I honestly don't think I could have done this myself.
The amount of workers scamming workers for free vacations is A-stonishing
introverts are not just people who are shy and uncomfortable socially, introverts are people who recharge being alone, extroverts are people who recharge being around other people (usually close friends) there a lots of shy extroverts and outgoing introverts! (like me)
J B I'm a shy extrovert!
After breaking up with my first boyfriend i felt like i had become so codependent and only could go places i personally liked if he or other friends would join me. After noticing how much i had lost myself within a year i decided i needed to fall in love with solitude again and stop missing out on my favorite events and concerts just because no one wants to come with me anymore. The first concert i went to i got drunk because i was so anxious and felt like everyone could see me alone at a social event but frankly i think they didn‘t even care. At some point i even talked to like two new people and those small experiences made me feel so confident and less codependent. That was my first concert i went to just to see a random band that was in town for free as a sort of warm up for the mitski concert i wanted to see alone later that month. I went to the smaller event first and after that my stomach didn‘t hurt when i thought of seeing mitski on my own. Sometimes you forget that you live your life for yourself when you are in a romantic relationship. After losing yourself or forgetting how to be your truest self and getting used to someone being around constantly and sharing experiences with you, which all definitely happens when you spend a bunch of time with one person, losing them puts you in the weirdest and loneliest place. This is such a great video and i love seeing how you challenge yourself. People stop listening to songs they shared with an ex or stop visiting places they used to visit with them after they break up. But why? This is way more rebellious and healthy. I love how you dared to share this on the internet, even the version that is lonely in the hotel room feeling awful for themself. Keep growing and keep dancing to music that makes you happy. when you are alone you deserve those moments the most.
wow this actually gave me motivation to go to music festivals next year. My ex and i went to rolling loud this year and i loved it so much that i wanted to go again next year, but we broke up. I will definingly be going now
Update just went to 3 concerts completely alone and one was even 5 hrs from where I live. Had a blast!! I’m going to keep doing this lol
@@Texasad33966 Do you talk to people at the concerts or are you enjoying it by yourself?
I’m a introvert around extroverts but I’m a extrovert around introverts. If that makes any sense.
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I was gonna go with my ex, we broke up and I went to edc by myself but with friends, I had friends but I say by myself because when you’re in a relationship of years and you go everywhere with this person you then have to get used to being by yourself again I’m proud of him
Surprised this was just posted since this is the 2018 edc
2017
I don't know what I'd do if I did the same thing
Btw, introverts where y'all at
As an introvert myself, the title of this video alone almost gave me a mini panic attack. I'd rather wrap my hand in bacon and feed it to a starving grizzly bear than be around that big of a crowd of people I do not know by myself. Good on you, man.