Real Reason Why Men Date Younger Women

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  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +36

    It's a maturity thing, as well as older men being more goal oriented for the most part, imo. Joe is correct about the gratitude as well.

  • @DemonFox369
    @DemonFox369 Рік тому +19

    You want the girl you couldn’t have when you were young now that you have confidence

    • @soupnfresh
      @soupnfresh 11 місяців тому

      Young girls are too dumb to realize older men can't preform like a 25 year old man. You'll most likely get left for a younger man or a man the same age as her because of this. 💀😂

  • @bluasterisk
    @bluasterisk Рік тому +24

    I remember I used to be wondering why the girls always dated the older guys. Now that I'm entering my 30s I realize I'm becoming that guy.

    • @soupnfresh
      @soupnfresh 11 місяців тому +1

      Young girls are too dumb to realize older men can't preform like a 25 year old man. You'll most likely get left for a younger man or a man the same age as her because of this. 💀😂

  • @Mr.Helper.
    @Mr.Helper. Рік тому +9

    Joe doing reactions ... nice !!!!!

  • @brivnii
    @brivnii Рік тому +7

    Love this side of Joe, been following for years.

  • @electriquenikki
    @electriquenikki Місяць тому

    I love Koko!!! To your point about how it sounded condescending view of younger women saying That they only accept crumbs, she’s actually speaking from her own experience of what she accepted when she was in her 20s. She’s a very kind hearted gal and tries to make sure that gals don’t make the same mistakes she made in her earlier dating life. 💛💛💛

  • @Ntsej_Muag
    @Ntsej_Muag Рік тому +6

    Damn bro, you look gangster with the long hair. Yakuza and Triad vibe.

  • @hollywood499
    @hollywood499 Рік тому +9

    Some of these comments are not passing the vibe check. Everyone has baggage at every age, age is not the underlying factor of desireabilty. Neither is gender. I would be careful about what you say on here, women who are aging are already battling with societal expectations of being the most beautiful & are rendered useless once infertile. Feels amazing. 🙄

  • @harakatidi8722
    @harakatidi8722 8 місяців тому +1

    She is absolutely right the biggest reason men date younger women is manipulation and controlling I've seen a lot of cases I say that as a woman who is with a man her age, and no most young women don't want older guys at least not older than 5 to 6 or 7 years.

  • @MOOMOO2728
    @MOOMOO2728 Рік тому +3

    A immature man needs a younger woman who is not that smart and just goes with the flow and just want to be the “trophy wife” . Y’all don’t want a challenge or
    A woman who will lay u out for your ways. A real man will love and respect a woman and know his worth and her worth. Has nothing to do with money has to do with true love and respect. Woman always appreciate the small things in life and want to have fun but need a man to respect not a immature idiot. There is a big difference between the 2. Stop trying to impress someone with materialism and money and know your worth and what matters. A woman with money doesn’t care about the b.s…we all know there is more to life. A true gentleman is something special and can make any female feel
    Loved and respected.

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +1

    Loved this video! All true!

  • @hollywood499
    @hollywood499 Рік тому +25

    I think sometimes it is a little true, I dated a guy who lied about his age, he said he was 27 when he was 31. I let it go, I was about 23. I didnt care, I thought it was weird he felt self concious about it. But in the end he didnt want to commit lmao. He was all over the place. A year later he started dating a girl even younger than me, not educated, and worked at a pizza shop (no shade but for context). Then knocked her up. Fast forward to today, hes dming me telling me he's fighting for custody b/c she is violent and hits him, AND he hits on me knowing im in a relationship!
    So what you say is also true, this is a type of man. Older men who are immature or haven't worked through their shit will go after young women b/c it is *more likely* they will lack emotional maturity to set boundaries. We are still babies in our early 20s. But thats not every young woman.
    I was young but I was too smart for him and apparently enough to dump him.
    I am 31 now and the dating world is so different.
    In a round about way this makes me feel better about myself. I always talk about my failed relationships, like its some black mark on my record for choosing some slimey ppl. Thanks Joe! 😂

    • @mysticstrikeforce5957
      @mysticstrikeforce5957 Рік тому

      Gotta check their ID's

    • @ojberrettaberretta5314
      @ojberrettaberretta5314 Рік тому +1

      ehm no
      most men go for younger women for the same reason they did 10'000 yrs ago
      fertility
      if youre 31 no kids,...u dont have much time left....so better get in touch with reality now...have a nice day

    • @nagisasaotome3878
      @nagisasaotome3878 Рік тому

      I agree it’s because they can manipulate us I too got with an older guy at 26 now 30 two kids and realizing how abusive he is mentally emotionally verbally now he even got physically abusive too

  • @hOtneO
    @hOtneO Рік тому +2

    Unless you are blessed with the rarest opportunity of being wealthy and young, you're going to start out being poor and for men, they are expected to pay for everything, so the dating life is not going to be good. And the guys that just focus on dating and don't make more money, they get old and neither have both the woman or the success. And the guys that focus on the money, by they finally have that comfortable lifestyle that is attractive to women, he's not going after the women who are divorced and with kids and emotional baggage, he's going to start young and get a second chance at dating the way he wants to with more money. This is what the women who don't understand this simple fact because they are so naive or dumb, they grow up and are used to getting free drinks at the bar, free entry to the clubs, free dinners and shopping and vacations with whoever they are dating, and it's just free free free and they don't see the other side where the guy has to work his ass off to pay for all that. So it's not about manipulation but the fact that the guy worked hard his whole life and now he wants to treat himself with a Ferrari of a woman, not a Buick of a woman. Plastic surgery can only go so far, and it's not cheap.

  • @ElmoTinker
    @ElmoTinker Рік тому +2

    I agree. We like a challenge. No, "yes ma'am or sir"

  • @dariushlarijani8083
    @dariushlarijani8083 Рік тому +1

    I like this reaction this is a key in life

  • @InitiaL-T
    @InitiaL-T Рік тому +2

    Joe looks like that one uncle that never settles down and be livin' out of a trailer in the forest lol

  • @Basta11
    @Basta11 Рік тому +5

    Men do not feel the pressure to have kids as early as women. As a result, men on average mature slower than women.
    Older men (compared to their younger selves) tend to have stable jobs, accumulated assets, skills, experience, and maturity. They are less likely to cheat and leave the family. They know more about themselves and what they want and are more ready to settle down.
    If you are looking someone who will be the head of your family, a breadwinner, and a partner raising kids. Then its wise to have a man with qualities that contribute to that. When you need help raising children, a bro is not what you want.

  • @mngsadventur3364
    @mngsadventur3364 Рік тому +1

    Happy for you both ❤ been a fan since uncle sam first came out

  • @PhatlineProduction
    @PhatlineProduction Рік тому +1

    Joe i agreed with you

  • @harakatidi8722
    @harakatidi8722 8 місяців тому

    And I want to add something as someone who lives in north Europe, here 99% of couples are the same age, and this explains the economic welfare of families here too. Career and be on the same level is highly regarded here.

  • @SAIVSS
    @SAIVSS Рік тому +2

    JOEEEEEEEE use hair essence right before you dry your hair

  • @FredBanks20
    @FredBanks20 Рік тому +4

    This new format of videos is fireeee keep it up!

  • @thrivemindfully101
    @thrivemindfully101 Рік тому +6

    Loved watching this. Joe spitting facts!

  • @NoName-rv5sx
    @NoName-rv5sx Рік тому

    Saw the Chanel on redit, talk a little much but kinda like him. Don't like some of his opinions but not afraid to share

  • @itsmedeka
    @itsmedeka Рік тому +3

    That product placement tho.

  • @ojberrettaberretta5314
    @ojberrettaberretta5314 Рік тому +1

    disagree ....specially with every man wants a challenge in the relationship....its bs saying like that that make women try to compete with men, relationships shouldnt be challenges, nor should ppl be challenged all the time for their beliefs or ways of doing things or thinking, i had lots of disagreeable partners and the more disagreeable they were the more fights we had....i and ik that the majority of men prefer a women who does not challenge everything they do or say,most men ik like to take the lead and have a women who trusts in the male to make the right decision....

  • @fantasyflirt1811
    @fantasyflirt1811 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Joe, you are a voice of reason and maturity that some don't understand. Everyone needs to find their own truth and limits.😅 Im apauld men think a carer is bad. We are no longer in the era where women and children are seen and not heard. Keep that up, please... At least the next generation won't have the same ideals because no woman will in their right mind help you reproduce.

  • @MartyD
    @MartyD Рік тому +19

    There are some women in their 20s who are WAY more mature than some women I know in their 30-40s

    • @mysticstrikeforce5957
      @mysticstrikeforce5957 Рік тому +1

      Yha we can't be stereotyping anymore as their are some kids who are more mature than some adults and that should say a lot about how we are living now.

  • @sedled2829
    @sedled2829 Рік тому +6

    Older women come with a lot of baggage kids, other man, trauma. And no wants to buy damaged goods no matter what age

  • @Calida
    @Calida Рік тому +2

    Joe, after watching you over the years... i realized that you are quite the unicorn 😅

  • @DutchesLove1926
    @DutchesLove1926 Рік тому +3

    Not true Girls date older guys because must guys the same age are sometimes immature my hubby is 7 years older then me

  • @ayofrtho7014
    @ayofrtho7014 Рік тому +1

    We don't prefer older guys, we prefer MATURE men which they just happen to be the older ones. Huge difference.

  • @SkyyHeaven
    @SkyyHeaven Рік тому +1

    "like a con artist" lol true

  • @TheYoungMuTe
    @TheYoungMuTe Рік тому +2

    Shes not really wrong…

  • @honor9458
    @honor9458 Рік тому

    finally a voice of reason! there's definitely manipulative men like that who exists, but most don't think that way

    • @billcipher3946
      @billcipher3946 Рік тому

      Same goes to women and younger women can manipulating too.

  • @hoot10
    @hoot10 Рік тому +4

    Omg. You don't have to go too far in these comments to see why that TikTok poster said what she said. Too much baggage, too-high requirements, inflated self worth, etc etc - all these things honestly come with time. You could date a young woman in order to avoid all those reasons, but with age, she will end up with "baggage" or "too-high requirements," or "inflated self worth" that emotionally immature men want to avoid. This is part of growing up and growing old - there's no way to be rid of it (unless you date like Leonardo Di Caprio).
    I agree with Joe, perhaps the poster's words toward men are a little inflammatory and sad, but frankly, it is very hard to find a man who is emotionally mature enough to handle a life with a partner until they're much older, which is probably why her dating experience may have been bad.

    • @okipo3443
      @okipo3443 Рік тому +1

      🤣i always like to ask this question to women like you: Would you like for your son a woman that has been around the block with baggage,too high requirements,inflated self worth ? Or a younger girl with out all those problems?😉

  • @treefiddyfy
    @treefiddyfy Рік тому +4

    Older women are always coping. I'm sure when they were 22 they didn't think of themselves as naive and easily manipulated, it's so sad to see

    • @mysticstrikeforce5957
      @mysticstrikeforce5957 Рік тому +1

      we'll not every young person is always being manipulated cause i'm seeing all of these stuff around and its only for young girls as young boys can get trapped into being with an older women to. But i'm just saying any young person can be easily influenced boys and girls.

  • @Yxp.8t
    @Yxp.8t Рік тому

    Seriously tho cause i hear alot of guys that i went through the dating process with just saying all woman are the same all of the are 304s to me in my face which i always stay in silence from shock cause i dont consider myself one i dont like ppl who generalize and am surprised by how many say it just the same from completely different pools of men but also surprised by the amount of stories woman have done and movies, trolls social media deff pins us against each other its just gotten really bad cause theres still people like me who are not trying to give into that and be in the moment with the person infront of me but very hard to find someone who doesnt generalize nowadays

    • @billcipher3946
      @billcipher3946 Рік тому

      It always goes both ways for us men and women.

  • @Al4beef
    @Al4beef Рік тому +5

    I'm getting a lot of weird videos in my recommendations of the "Passport Bros" which guys/girls that to other countries to find love. There are interesting points this phenomena: to the "bros" are losers back home, to western women loosing traditional values, western dating culture is badly effect by social media, ect.
    Joe, you're kind of a passport bro. I would like to hear your perspective of this

  • @moolis
    @moolis Рік тому +4

    Older women knows what they want, have wisdom, and are head strong…it’s why men will choose younger women anyday…still have their feminine intact, have a jovial outlook in life, and less wrinkly. No straight man wants to take on LT a pretty man.

  • @FuryOfCalderon
    @FuryOfCalderon Рік тому +2

    Because they're more attractive. Simple as. Anything else is cope.

  • @TheWatchersVVV
    @TheWatchersVVV Рік тому

    Not referring to the 'younger' part of it but i prefer white girls over black and i'm a black guy. Actually prefer all other races over black.

  • @zureai
    @zureai Рік тому

    I dont want overly used or damaged goods

  • @TrishBanks-h3h
    @TrishBanks-h3h Рік тому

    It took me a while to realize that he was not Steve Aoki lol. Still a good video tho

  • @ashleymarie2021
    @ashleymarie2021 Рік тому

    I thought it was gonna be because you're in the same head space maturity wise but also in life. Plus u have to be younger to have babies but Id only agree with the CONTROL thing and manipulation when u go and date SUPER YOUNG people. Like some old man or perv picking someone in highschool. Not genuine relationships or people actually in love... These are grooming and abusive type relationships.

  • @VL20190
    @VL20190 Рік тому

    I prefer to stay childfree due to medical reasons and not get into debt with IVF

  • @neverstop2493
    @neverstop2493 Рік тому

    men prefer younger mates based on evolution and fertility. 1) Evolution - For 99.9% of the 300,000 years homosapians walked the earth average life expectancy was 35 years of age. For the last 150 years we have had a combination mass food production,sterile surgical techniques and antibiotics before all that world wide life expectancy ~35 years. 300,000 years of evolution, continuation of the species, the biological imperative mean men are attracted to fertility cues youth and beauty. Men innately know in regards to reproduction that the 35+ woman is not the best option for having a family..2) fertility-fertility decreases greatly after 35. A big part of the “egg quality” equation involves the chromosomal status of the egg. The rate of chromosomal abnormalities in eggs (and therefore also in embryos) increases significantly with advancing female age. At age 30 about 30% of eggs are chromosomally abnormal. By age 40 about 60% are abnormal and by 44 years old 90% are abnormal.

  • @ririkey168
    @ririkey168 Рік тому

    Not me thinking the girl was refferring to a specific group of guys going for illegal age group ;o
    Example the tiktok boomer (litearl boomer gen) flew to a 19 year old of pretense to "collab" but went real creepy

  • @carlosmadera9086
    @carlosmadera9086 Рік тому

    The real reason why men date younger women is because if I'm 30 I cant date a woman who is 60 , women dont mature faster ,they just want bling bling sooner . So they want a provider... sooner . There's more to this shit , but . Will see how this goes👍🏽

  • @Kuroganemk2
    @Kuroganemk2 Рік тому +2

    0:13 Oh no, we know when we see a woman above 30, that's some big cope.

  • @bin4ry_d3struct0r
    @bin4ry_d3struct0r Рік тому

    Message to women over 30: COPE HARDER LOLZ!!!

  • @evoltaocao5078
    @evoltaocao5078 Рік тому +1

    this btx is probably high maintenance and narcissistic af.

  • @cicin894
    @cicin894 Рік тому +5

    If you guys don't like older women mentality... your younger lover will become that woman.

    • @okipo3443
      @okipo3443 Рік тому

      🤣 not all women age the same,especially not a woman thats been "around the block"😉

  • @johnjohn-mz4iu
    @johnjohn-mz4iu Рік тому +2

    younger girls prefer older guy too its not one sided like she said to us. older women r single and jealous cuz they cant find the right guy when they were younger

  • @misteryakamoto
    @misteryakamoto Рік тому +2

    Not necessarily true. No one here is looking at the bigger picture. Want to know what's wrong with society? Majority of men don't even bother dating anymore, especially in western culture. Young and older women have a sense of entitlement of deserving only the best. Setting standards absolutely high for themselves just because of their looks. Meanwhile they can't even hold a relationship or even know the core values of marriage, men included. The important thing here is no one believes in "for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part." More than 70% of women initiate divorces and the court system mostly favors women over men. Men losing most of their hardwork earnings and even custody of their own child. The generation nowadays don't even know what "true love" is to begin with. There's no such things as "falling out of love". Until society knows what "true love" really is, they will continue to crumble and fall apart. Families disintegrate leading to messed up children leading to other huge problems. Everything connects with each other and families should be the number one core subject that needs to be fixed. If you want to know what "true love" really is, go read the Bible. Remember, "love" and "forgiveness" ALWAYS goes hand in hand. You can't proclaim to love someone and not forgive them. Pride and ego usually gets in the way of forgiveness which is also the number 1 sin God despises which leads to Lucifer's downfall. Sometimes you have to lower your self respect a bit and live in humility to make things work. Humility and sacrifice is the key. That's what the older generation mastered compared to today's generations. It's easy to be called a Christian, but living the faith is absolutely close to impossible. Doesn't mean that we shouldn't keep up with our faith. God is the key to everything. I hope whoever reads this comment and is Christian can learn something about what I have to say. Even if you're not, I hope you can get an insight of what it takes in life.

  • @itswhatido2010
    @itswhatido2010 11 місяців тому

    Maybe women their own age weren't interested in him.

  • @MrBlee7
    @MrBlee7 Рік тому

    Agreed joey, social decay.

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 8 місяців тому

    ur wrong Joe

  • @Rocko2552
    @Rocko2552 Рік тому +7

    Men prefer younger women for 3 reasons.
    1) Younger women carry less baggage. Baggage include kids, debt, and the toll that sleeping around for years takes on a person physically and mentally.
    2) The benefit of dating younger women is you have more time to determine long term compatibility as she has more healthy years for bearing children. Women that are approaching their 30s tend to be in a rush to get married and have kids. This rush that they're in makes them less fun to be around as their "fun years" are behind them, and now they are "ready to settle down and take relationships seriously".
    3) Younger women are more likely to be in better physical shape. This ties in to the other 2 points, as being in better shape usually means you're making healthy choices and therefore are less likely to be depressed. Also, being in shape allows you to be able to physically do more activities, as well as have a higher libido, which ties into being and having fun.
    Edit: Shoot forgot to add the most important part. This isn't to say older women are completely undesirable. These are simply reasons as to why, generally speaking, men prefer younger women. There are plenty of older women that don't carry excess baggage and are still in great shape.

    • @neverstop2493
      @neverstop2493 Рік тому

      men prefer younger mates based on evolution and fertility. 1) Evolution - For 99.9% of the 300,000 years homosapians walked the earth average life expectancy was 35 years of age. For the last 150 years we have had a combination mass food production,sterile surgical techniques and antibiotics before all that world wide life expectancy ~35 years. 300,000 years of evolution, continuation of the species, the biological imperative mean men are attracted to fertility cues youth and beauty. Men innately know in regards to reproduction that the 35+ woman is not the best option for having a family..2) fertility-fertility decreases greatly after 35. A big part of the “egg quality” equation involves the chromosomal status of the egg. The rate of chromosomal abnormalities in eggs (and therefore also in embryos) increases significantly with advancing female age. At age 30 about 30% of eggs are chromosomally abnormal. By age 40 about 60% are abnormal and by 44 years old 90% are abnormal. It is natural to be attracted to young women

  • @mysticstrikeforce5957
    @mysticstrikeforce5957 Рік тому

    Wait i thought it was the other way around specially now days issues. Like now man wants a younger women not older women as it said women who are past their 30's and still looking for someone either has lot of baggage or don't want to experience that wall that these women been doing lately. When i mean by hitting the wall i guess its a thing where women tries to be like a man and be the player till she came to realize she is getting older and no young man wants her at age 30 and up is when she finally wants to settle down. But there are a lot of reasons people are coming up with why certain people wants older and younger. Some say its either they have daddy and mommy issues and for the younger its for the older people to feel young again.

  • @DestroyEmWitLazers89
    @DestroyEmWitLazers89 Рік тому +1

    Hey Joe I messaged you last year along with bunch of the Jk News people like Bart and Timothy Chantarangsu David So etc. ❤🎉My wonderful fiancé Sandra has been a fan of all of you guys since high school in the early 2000s mostly everyone was starting out. She watches you guys everyday and introduced some of you guys as well some I’ve already watched. My fiancé is a weirdo but so funny I love her so much and for her birthday I was hoping you guys could a shout out for her from me. For my wonderful fiancé Sandra Pak from Nguyen Le. I’m a huge fan of you thank you so much please reply and if you can do this for me I will be the most grateful fan in the world!💕❤️💯🎉

  • @kevinbenitez42
    @kevinbenitez42 Рік тому +4

    Young women are relatively prettier, less demanding, and easier to court.
    Sounds terrible why would any guy want that? 🤔

  • @andrewokamoto
    @andrewokamoto Рік тому +2

    She's a troll. People only care about clicks

  • @roshill2010
    @roshill2010 Рік тому

    Challenge in a relationship aka a masculine woman saying this while he's dating a feminine woman. Rip advice. You have soo much to learn from the red pill space. Men who work hard fighting all sorts of wars all day come back home don't want a woman who challenges them. They just want a sweet submissive woman by their side that will nurture him.
    The reason Men date younger woman is:
    1. Attraction: Men polled between ages of 18-60 they all prefered women between 21 to 24.
    2. Fertility so they can have a kid with her some day
    3. Less ran thru the more the partners a woman has had the chances of divorce goes up significantly.
    4. Is Submissive and can follow a man's lead whereas women who are older are stuck in their ways.
    5. Are less damaged and carry less baggage.
    6. Femininity!!! men don't want to date themselves....
    Men who stand up for their standards are very Secure. I can easily walk away from a woman who doesn't fit my criteria.
    Everything interms of connection you said is true but, it comes after all of the above.
    Joe I know you HATE the Redpill community but, just watch 2 or 3 of their podcasts while your working out Watch the good ones. You will Learn ALOT from them.
    You call them Redpill I call them LOGICALLY SOUND. Learning something new and applying to your life is growth. It takes a man to say hold up I have stopped growing and starts Learning again Keep learning brother. Bin watching ya'll for 10 yrs and I really want your channel to keep growing.
    Ya'll need to collab with the podcasts man. FnF, Whatever, JPT etc etc.... You've done the "Careful Boys" bit for too long man but, I do understand you have too much to loose now so I don't blame you.

  • @keno6391
    @keno6391 Рік тому +2

    YOUNG GIRLS ARE DTF.
    OLD MEN ARE DTF ALL THE TIME.
    THE END. 🤣🤣

  • @manchuriancandidatethe3rd101

    Joe's trying to explain hypergamy as nice and as patiently as possible so people won't say that he agrees with Andrew Tate and most of the Red Pill people.

  • @JasenStl
    @JasenStl Рік тому +1

    I agree. But she's right too. I want a younger, hotter, cheaper, noncombative option. (preferably organic) 😉

  • @douayang8976
    @douayang8976 Рік тому +1

    Joe, be careful. You're stepping into "Red Pill" content here. You might get canceled.
    I'm just concerned for you. I do agree with you 💯.

  • @rodom303
    @rodom303 Рік тому +44

    Single women 30-35+ are getting out of hand with the level of entitlement and over valuing themselves.

    • @BrandensOutdoorChannel
      @BrandensOutdoorChannel Рік тому +4

      The Wall hits hard

    • @chontron3456
      @chontron3456 Рік тому +3

      Facts… some truly believe they have more value/appeal at that age range than in their 20s 😅 There’s a lot of factors that have caused this. Social media, feminism, sexual liberation, hustle culture.. It’s created a demographic of entitled women with masculine tendencies, focussing on their careers instead of building a family. As a result now we have a lot more women that are high income earners in their 30s or 40s struggling to find a partner, since A) they may have had a promiscuous past, B) they want a man that preferably makes more money than them and checks off the rest of their boxes.. like height requirements.All the while their value/appeal has gone down and the type of man they want is likely in the upper 20% echelon of men. Taking into consideration, some of them are married. They are left with a tiny percentage of men that likely do not want to deal with that caliber of women. This leaves the average man sad and lonely unfortunately. For example all my male friends are single and struggling to find a partner. Lemme know what y’all think👍🏾

    • @Bloodfart22
      @Bloodfart22 Рік тому +1

      Lil miss perfect wants it all

    • @okipo3443
      @okipo3443 Рік тому +2

      They think they age like limited edition luxury cars

    • @soupnfresh
      @soupnfresh 11 місяців тому

      Young girls are too dumb to realize older men can't preform like a 25 year old man. You'll most likely get left for a younger man or a man the same age as her because of this. 💀😂