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  • Опубліковано 11 лип 2024
  • We're reading customer questions in ths video. Hang tight! Thanks for watching! Faye & Simon
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 137

  • @Married2Reselling
    @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому +3

    We're reading customer questions in ths video. Hang tight!

    • @BLK2000
      @BLK2000 Місяць тому

      Wow, that address changing sneaking one, dint even kno that existed! Defo test that one in a video Simon, would be so interested :)

  • @christyler-rz8rf
    @christyler-rz8rf Місяць тому +4

    I feel like ive just watched "Points of View" or "Thats Life" if your old enough to remember those tv shows with those character voices...lol..

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому +1

      I yes I remember them well. In case you haven't seen it, we used to do a lot of these, did you ever meet Shirley? This was a fave: ua-cam.com/video/6-7TcP5EQkM/v-deo.html

    • @christyler-rz8rf
      @christyler-rz8rf Місяць тому

      @@Married2Reselling Ha Ha, Poor Shirly..Even Google doesnt understand what the word Snape Means..lol

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      🤣

  • @JoffResales
    @JoffResales Місяць тому +2

    Great video. I love it when 'experts' tell you how much your items are worth. Usually they shut up when shown sold prices, looks like your buyer was somewhat more persistent! Love your responses to him.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      It was one of those ones where I was just watching the profit drain away for the time spent on each message, even more so because at that stage he hadn't even bought the thing.

  • @dianewibberley4977
    @dianewibberley4977 Місяць тому

    Really enjoyed this video.Very informative
    Thought you looked very glam Faye .Thankyou x

  • @marlowbulldog6033
    @marlowbulldog6033 Місяць тому +2

    Really enjoyed this. Loved your no-nonsense replies! I'm part of the no partial refunds club. Really frustrates me when i see experienced resellers refunding scammers just because it's the easy option

  • @BLK2000
    @BLK2000 Місяць тому +3

    Faye, you look so stylish and pretty with your glasses :) Also really compliments your curls, and love your top too!!! :) xx

  • @rogerbrowne5694
    @rogerbrowne5694 Місяць тому +1

    I can see that you find these "negotiations" with potential customers frustrating , even annoying. Personally I just accept it as a part of used item reselling. Very best wishes, Roger.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Oh yes it has to be accepted, this occurs in life at every turn, not just business. Makes for good stories though.

  • @antiquecurios
    @antiquecurios Місяць тому +2

    Hope you do more of these customer interactions- they are hilarious.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому +2

      In case you haven't seen it, we used to do a lot of these, this was a fave: ua-cam.com/video/6-7TcP5EQkM/v-deo.html

    • @MrFrankHovis
      @MrFrankHovis Місяць тому

      @@Married2Reselling I just watched this Shirley video again (I had watched it when it was released). Hilarious!

  • @user-hk1rk4je2s
    @user-hk1rk4je2s Місяць тому +1

    Great video as always, hope you do more of these customer messages.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      In case you haven't seen it, here's one from a while back - one of our most fave vids ever: ua-cam.com/video/6-7TcP5EQkM/v-deo.html

  • @michelecornhill2753
    @michelecornhill2753 Місяць тому +1

    You guys remind me of the old programme in the 70’s and 80’s called “that’s life” , you are great at this 👍

  • @ThisisJo
    @ThisisJo Місяць тому +1

    My favourite messages are ‘what’s your best price’ my response is always - best offer is on, make me an offer…and I never hear from them again! Or the ones that swear they didn’t make an offer and therefore didn’t buy the item….despite having counter offered my first offer meaning they have actually had to type a figure in. And then finally…..and I seem to have a load of these….people
    Who seems to want a penpal via ebay messages telling me about their life, collections….etc.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому +1

      haha all of the above! Particularly the pen pal. I don't mind if it's after they've actually bought something.

    • @ThisisJo
      @ThisisJo Місяць тому

      @@Married2Reselling I have my email on my business details. I had someone repeatedly emailing me the other day even when I said stop, go through ebay messages. Then they wanted me to trawl my shop looking for 8” dinnerknives as opposed to the 8.5 ones she was looking at - which I ignored (I do have quite a few listed) and then did she buy anything? Nope!

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Typical!

  • @NuzyNuzNuzTV
    @NuzyNuzNuzTV Місяць тому

    It's great to see these interactions and learn from your experiences. Very entertaining with the voice changing delivery! Keep them coming, we like seeing some drama 👍

  • @Mizzy5
    @Mizzy5 Місяць тому

    Really enjoyed this vlog. Would love another one

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Thanks! In case you haven't seen it, we used to do a lot of these, did you ever meet Shirley (32 minutes onwards) ? This was a fave: ua-cam.com/video/6-7TcP5EQkM/v-deo.html

    • @Mizzy5
      @Mizzy5 Місяць тому

      @@Married2Reselling I’ve just watched this. What a funny lady Shirley was.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      🤣

  • @maggieonamission
    @maggieonamission Місяць тому +1

    lol looking for troublesome people just for the bants 😂. Great video- all sounds so familiar- especially when they lie and it’s easy to call them out. All handled very well & move on. Looking forward to next video

  • @JackyHapy
    @JackyHapy Місяць тому

    Yes, I recently had the “change of address”, I nearly got caught as I had a batch of sales to send out and that sale went to the eBay address listed. After posting I realised I did not send the item to the address requested. This was an actual blessing because technically I was sleeping on this. An exchange between myself and the buyer proceeded and I basically told them (after confirming with eBay support) about the item has gone to correct eBay address, they should go there and collect the item. Never heard from the buyer and I get to keep the money 🫢🤣. Lesson for me to pay attention though.

  • @1881adele
    @1881adele Місяць тому

    Brilliant video!! Really enjoyed this , i sell clothes and get asked for measurements constantly, i always put photos with tape measurements on and in description, just lazy people😂😂😂, you have made me realise i am too soft with refunding, i worry about ebay suppressing me if i dont give customer what they want 🥴

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Thanks! Oh the clothes measurements! Don't miss those one bit! eBay will only suppress you if you don't give someone what they are entitled to, within eBay policy.

  • @stephanieedgerton2842
    @stephanieedgerton2842 Місяць тому

    Wow looking at you Faye , you look very glam 💕… Great video 🥃 tick tock 😂

  • @cliffbone3430
    @cliffbone3430 Місяць тому

    I always say send back as I also do not do partial refunds, I also never change the addresses, ebay removed the ability to do this within the platform when it went to managed payments,
    great video not all resellers show the dark side

  • @ianhaines5788
    @ianhaines5788 Місяць тому +4

    I'd have refunded. eBay fees are not the customers problem. Wasn't worth the agro for that amount of money. Just my opinion.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому +1

      It's a more than fair comment, but the postage fees are only there because of abuse years ago, and therefore I don't believe it should be a sellers problem either.

    • @ianhaines5788
      @ianhaines5788 Місяць тому

      @@Married2Reselling it was a great video. I think I've had someone very similar to the lawyer chap. Seems really familiar MO. Keep up the good work

  • @julresells2999
    @julresells2999 Місяць тому +1

    I refund the full postage amount, so say a buyer pays for 2 items with £3.69 postage each, and I can send them in one small parcel , I will refund them £3.69. I do this even if the buyer hasn't asked. I prefer to have a pleasantly surprised customer lol who will leave good feedback and might buy again . However if the customer is demanding and awkward I might think twice about it.
    If a potential buyer starts off awkward and annoying I sometimes just block them. 😄

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому +1

      Yeah, what I didn't explain was that packing them together took it into Medium parcel. They were refunded the difference to the penny (minus ebay fees)

    • @julresells2999
      @julresells2999 Місяць тому

      @Married2Reselling ah that makes sense.
      It was worth the perseverance for the sale of the painting- love how you didn't let him get away with the nonsense.

  • @cheshirerc
    @cheshirerc Місяць тому

    We got negative feedback for a "Used" querie. The item was an opened, though unused airfix set. After the customer purchased the item they started asking. Even though it was clearly stated in the description. Asnwered once, opened though unused, came back and asked the same. Again we replied, third time he asked again, we replied would you like to cancel. Long story short, order cancelled, negative feedback left, "Not clear about condition of item." ebay would not remove it as they said we were a bit short after replying three times if he required to cancel. Really frustrating and tried a few times to get ebay to remove it, though even getting a call back first thing in the morning to better the chances of getting an Ireland representative, no joy.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Yeah... that's a particularly annoying one, sounds like you were being very clear. Did you go through EFB on Facebook?

  • @johnmerrick4406
    @johnmerrick4406 Місяць тому

    it's a mad mad mad mad world, the customer is always right except when they are wrong, great video guys.

  • @lostonexxx
    @lostonexxx Місяць тому

    This is by far my favourite video of yours so far :D

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks! In case you haven't seen it, we used to do a lot of these, this was a fave: ua-cam.com/video/6-7TcP5EQkM/v-deo.html

  • @Helen-rd1fm
    @Helen-rd1fm Місяць тому

    Really enjoyed this I think some buyers think we are stupid and can’t see what they are trying to do. Love how you deal with these messages I had never thought of the change of address being on items they hadn’t even bought themselves I never change it anyway and do like you cancel and suggest they repurchase.

  • @geminivintagerevival7554
    @geminivintagerevival7554 Місяць тому

    Loved this video 😂

  • @sarahlanghan89
    @sarahlanghan89 Місяць тому

    You guys are GREAT. 🎉 Have learnt so much from you. Keep going! Ta.

  • @MrFrankHovis
    @MrFrankHovis Місяць тому

    Really REALLY enjoyed that! And I thought it was only my listings that attracted that kind of buyer. Got one recently "This is not the knife block I ordered" - I'd never sold him a knife-block, or indeed anything else.

  • @iangee3311
    @iangee3311 Місяць тому +1

    Some might say a lawyer's job includes the ability to present a version of facts that argues for a given outcome despite evidence to the contrary and that justice is incidental, not integral.Well done for winning that particular standoff!😊

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому +1

      haha that's kinda what I was thinking. Being a lawyer isn't about the truth.

  • @BrumReseller
    @BrumReseller Місяць тому

    enjoyed the voice actors you got in for the video

  • @storkeyes
    @storkeyes 25 днів тому

    I don't sell a lot but if a buyer buys two items I just pay for one postage on one of the items and then add the tracking number to the second item, this is how ebay has told me to do this as the items never combine. I also take a photo of the parcel as it is being packed to show both are included. I always wondered if this is foolish and too trusting on the buyer, although to date I have had no problems.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  25 днів тому

      If you buy your postage though eBay, they’re not gsp sales, and the recipient address is the same for both orders, you can combine when paying for the label.

  • @funkyuk1
    @funkyuk1 Місяць тому

    I would have blocked martin after the 2nd message, then reduced the price to 80 quid. Additionally, not much riles me more than buyers telling me to wrap & package carefully. 😬😬

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      🤣🤣🤣 nice idea although didn’t want to sell it to anyone else for £80

  • @geoffduke1763
    @geoffduke1763 Місяць тому

    Love hearing your mad customer stories! I sold a 2023 calendar, mentioned FIVE times in listing what year it was for, received neutral feedback saying that they were disappointed as wanted a 2024 calendar...

  • @liannehill748
    @liannehill748 Місяць тому

    That was an interesting one - you had more patience than me responding although I am never rude when answering questions. You really had to work for that sale but at least no claims after and positive feedback.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Yeah we thought it might head that way.... at least the buyer became honest at the end of it all

  • @Privateinvestigatoreastland
    @Privateinvestigatoreastland Місяць тому

    Try to forgive ebay buyer ..its difficult to keep calm ..but help you in future to cope with these annoying 🙄 selling event !

  • @BLK2000
    @BLK2000 Місяць тому

    Yeah, more customer Question!!! its fun. even just you two's funny voices which you read them out lol :) x

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Thanks! Did you ever meet Shirley?: ua-cam.com/video/6-7TcP5EQkM/v-deo.html

  • @ashleybarker937
    @ashleybarker937 Місяць тому

    You're very patient. I'd have told Martin to eff off.

  • @thesupersleuth68
    @thesupersleuth68 Місяць тому

    That’s was absolutely brilliant pls can we have more of that 😅

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Thank you. In case you haven't seen it, we used to do a lot of these, this was a fave: ua-cam.com/video/6-7TcP5EQkM/v-deo.html

  • @jennierose3781
    @jennierose3781 Місяць тому

    The only thing I never accept is a change of address, I do as you and cancel the sale, however I have done a partial refund, proud to say since 2011 this has only happened twice

  • @TheVintageFoxyLady
    @TheVintageFoxyLady Місяць тому

    I have had two 'begging' messages recently asking me what's the lowest I will accept, it reminds them of their nan, they can pay August if I hold etc etc. All in a day's work! Thanks for the video- you made me giggle 😊

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      eBay is a great community, but holding for weeks on end is asking too much. I've never understood why peopple ask what's the lowest question. Also, anyone that actually answers that question with a number is a fool IMO 😱

  • @RESELLERGEORGE
    @RESELLERGEORGE Місяць тому

    yeh I get asked all the time to change the address its a big NONO. Customers are weird

  • @barrystephen6450
    @barrystephen6450 Місяць тому

    Great video, more please, informative and entertaining, I think a mr bean voice would have suited Martin though 😂

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Thanks, in case you haven't seen it, we used to do a lot of these, this was a fave: ua-cam.com/video/6-7TcP5EQkM/v-deo.html

  • @thelittlereseller2884
    @thelittlereseller2884 Місяць тому

    Very entertaining video!

  • @gordonross8248
    @gordonross8248 Місяць тому

    What is it about Italy? I had the same problem with a buyer complaining that his order was marked as delivered three days after he bought it. Might have been the same guy. I explained the situation but the dozy twonk still left negative feedback the next day. Took me a week and four calls to ebay to get it removed.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      I wonder if it's the language ebay are using in the order flow. Seems to be confusing the Italians.

  • @funkyuk1
    @funkyuk1 Місяць тому

    correct response on the change of address 👍🏼

  • @BarryBibby-i7o
    @BarryBibby-i7o Місяць тому

    Hi really loved your recent video, I am a part time seller in a very niche market and regularly get messages from EXPERTS! telling me what I have got wrong in my listings, Interestingly these experts who seem to stalk my listings never purchase anything, I am not sure what that tells me
    Keep up the good work, I really enjoy your content
    Regards

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Thank you. Must be hobby browsers, the reason we send so many offers and nobody buys anything. So annoying, but hey, all part of it I guess.

  • @ladyandthefrogs
    @ladyandthefrogs Місяць тому

    This was a fantastic video!

  • @cheshirerc
    @cheshirerc Місяць тому

    Refund. Fees are your responsibillity, i.e. customer does not know what they are.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Thanks, I get it BUT the parcel got bumped up to Medium due to weight so wasn’t just a case of a single small parcel. I doubt the customer new the cost of that either (until I spelt it out), particularly as we but postage online at lower rates than the PO counter. I'll probably argue this next point for the rest of my life but we only pay fees on postage because of unscrupulous sellers that ruined it for the rest of us. Fees on postage really shouldn't be a *scrupulous* sellers problem either.

  • @chrisdaniells9070
    @chrisdaniells9070 Місяць тому

    Hi Guys, If you refund the postage via ebay, you don't payback the refund in full, ebay refunds the customer the requested amount but then deducts their fees from the amount you are charged. I am assuming everyone gets treated the same?

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Yes, fees are removed from refunds. Fees are still included in the postage charge that remains.

  • @purplevamp666
    @purplevamp666 Місяць тому

    😅 That Martin is something else isn't he?! 😅 As ypu were reading the messages I pictured an old man sitting in a high backed leather chair in a dusty study, surrounded by books and old newspapers, like JR Hartley or Paul Whitehouse's "I'm afraid I was very, very drunk" character. More of these videos please x

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому +1

      Love that! JR Harley 😆 In case you haven't seen it, we used to do a lot of these, this was a fave: ua-cam.com/video/6-7TcP5EQkM/v-deo.html

    • @purplevamp666
      @purplevamp666 25 днів тому

      @@Married2Reselling 🤣 Gotta love a weirdo 🤪😅

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  19 днів тому

      🫣

  • @vintagecasual7185
    @vintagecasual7185 Місяць тому

    Hi, what are your ceramics wrapped in? Is it a shrink wrap plastic? If so, do you use a hairdryer or heat gun to shrink? Thanks 😊

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Hi, it's just stretch/shrink wrap. We just wrap it but don't use anything else.

  • @janemays7574
    @janemays7574 25 днів тому

    Your customer service skills are set at nought. I'm sure a training course would sort that out.

  • @fluffy-Muffin
    @fluffy-Muffin Місяць тому

    Can just imagine Martin’s input in his local Facebook group. 😂

  • @TomTheEnglishPicker
    @TomTheEnglishPicker Місяць тому

    Brilliant video. The last art buyer was defo full of 💩

  • @helensavvides6582
    @helensavvides6582 Місяць тому

    Excellent !

  • @scousedann1642
    @scousedann1642 Місяць тому

    Nah why you gotta do the scouse one so dirty............ hahahahaha

  • @repurposedart9897
    @repurposedart9897 Місяць тому

    You shipping is so much cheaper than her in the states...

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      Yeah.. when I watch the guuys over there that's exactly what I think. I know it's a huge country compared to ours. We pay the equivalent of $4.30 to send up to 18x14x7 inches / 4.5lbs package.

  • @funkyuk1
    @funkyuk1 Місяць тому

    it’s always a gift for a daughters birthday 🤦‍♂️. or they always want it fast for a birthday. ffs

  • @AKA-kp3gd
    @AKA-kp3gd Місяць тому

    I had someone contact me to say they were going to report me to the police because I accepted a best offer from another buyer on a auction before any bids had been made 😂 Some people are odd!

  • @rosieking7855
    @rosieking7855 Місяць тому

    Cancel order

  • @robertsaunders8389
    @robertsaunders8389 Місяць тому

    Have you had a request for a refund even though it clearly states it been delivered by Evri and eBay. But the customer says it's not been delivered. eBay are now saying to me I need too send a replacement or give a full refund!

    • @marlowbulldog6033
      @marlowbulldog6033 Місяць тому

      Is there a photo on the tracking? Nevertheless, you'll need to get the customer to open an item not received case. Then you claim via the courier insurance. The customer normally has to sign a declaration that they did not receive the item before you get a refund from the courier.

    • @robertsaunders8389
      @robertsaunders8389 Місяць тому

      @@marlowbulldog6033 no photo. Customer has supposedly been in contact with Evri and response from Evri was an apology to them and told them to contact seller (me). So basically batting the problem back to me.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому

      You need to send the customer a message asking them to open a Case for Item Not Received. When they do that, add the tracking and your job is done. You do not need to claim with your courier. eBay will close the case in your favour. The buyer can still push for a refund but it then comes out of ebays pocket, not yours.

    • @marlowbulldog6033
      @marlowbulldog6033 Місяць тому

      @Married2Reselling That's interesting that ebay would refund the buyer. I've had this situation and even had a photo of the parcel in the buyer's letterbox as proof! I didn't know if it was a scam, or if it was genuinely stolen from the letterbox. I managed to get the refund from Royal Mail once the buyer had signed a declaration form, and then refunded the buyer. Maybe I shouldn't have gone to so much trouble.

    • @Married2Reselling
      @Married2Reselling  Місяць тому +1

      Yeah… I think you were overthinking it a little perhaps. EBay has seller protection, no need to contact couriers or anyone else. If tracking shows as delivered that’s all eBay want to see .