Mr Dad and Mrs Mom giving us serious couple goals. I love the way you guys love each other deliberately and consciously(hope that makes sense😁). Very much purpose-driven and y'all balance each other perfectly. May God bless your marriage endlessly!
When I became more self-aware I began to recognise my imperfections, biases, judgements etc. And started being more understanding of others and seeing the humanity in them. I began to understand that love is not just an emotion but it is also a choice that all humanity is capable of making.
I felt the difficulty to speak about what you are good at... I'm very humble to a point where I hide my abilities because I feel like I'm boasting. I am academically gifted but I downplay it, I'm really good at trying to find something good out of bad situations, I'm good at organising, I'm good at making people feel comfortable and free around new people, amongst other things. I am blessed with a welcoming smile and I am very persuasive when needs be...but I just never want people to know that. I prefer not being in the spot light. At school, I used to get nervous just before my name was called out. And outside of school, I knew people who were confidant to an extent that their boldness was overpowering. I would have ideas and they'd shut it down but later use it or they would take lead in executing it. And for the longest of times, that really increased my fear of the spot light. I'm now realising that, all that does make people look down at me but I am trying to work on my self confidence... Slowly but surely
Yes Brendon is very empathetic 🙌🙌🙌and positive minded...Mpoomy is good in bringing in a positive atmosphere, a very good teacher indeed everytime I listen and watch her videos, I always learn something
Brenden, am inspired by your music. Mukutsuri is such a soul rich song! I started watching this channel after my better half told me about it and ever since then, I have been hooked! The amount of wisdom and impacting knowledge moving here is absolutely invaluable. May God continue to grow this channel, may multitudes be blessed by this
Self Awareness Questions to ask yourself 1. When you were a child, whose Love did you crave the most? Your Mom or your Dad? 2. Who do you feel like you needed to be for this person (Mother or Father) to love you back then? 3. What are five things that you do really well? 4. What type of things do people usually compliment you? 5. Which one of your already achieved goals are you the proudest of?
One thing about me, I'm not good at reading but listening. That's how I learn and acquire new knowledge even my schooling strived through listening to the teacher and a lecture 🥴. So this channel has become my book of life because of the various topics that influences almost every aspect of my own life. You won't understand how I talk back to you when listening as if I'm physically engaging with you because that's how your charisma influences your interaction with us. Thank you and may God's Grace remain in you till eternity 🙏💚💚💚
I always thought God didn’t give me a talent until I started doing things I believe I am good at and people receiving the talents well is affirming. Thank you for this episode .
Thank you so much for this. As a 19 year old still starting my journey into adulthood, it's so fulfilling to see young adults that I can look up to. Great episode!
I think I loved this episode the most because it is to do with self, something I struggle with a lot, talking about myself, and to be honest, it is so bad because I couldn’t even answer most of these questions 🥺 However I am extremely grateful for this because I have set a goal to sit down each day for the next 5 days to intentionally jot down answers to these questions about myself. It’s not modest to not be able to talk about yourself. It actually highlights a lack of self-confidence and awareness. So thank you both once more for always dropping gems that are helping us become better people. ❤️
I agree when you open up you realise you’re not the only one going through or has gone through that particular thing and that it the beginning of healing 💗💗💗 Really loved this month’s conversations 💗💗
I'm such a biiiiiig fan all the way from Botswana...I pray God blesses your union even more and that I also get to experience such a equally yolked and refreshing love 🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much Mpoomy and Brandon. This podcast serves as a reminder to us all that in order to always be in a good space where you ready to self-improve, take one more step forward to fight harder n simply pick yourself up - SIMPLY MAKE IT A CULTURE TO REMIND YOURSELF OF WHAT YOU GOOD AT N LET THAT BE A FOUNDATION YOU CHOOSE TO START YOUR DAY FROM EACH DAY. IT IS HOW WE SHALL CARRY MINDSETS OF RESILIENT WINNERS N DIE HARD HOPES THAT GOD IS IN TO GRACE US WITH UPLIFTMENTS ESPECIALLY WHEN THE ODDS ARE AGAINST US.
Watching this has made me really emotional. I've just realized that there is so much self awareness that I need to do. This was very enlightening. You guys are a blessing in my life. I thank God for you❤️
I thoroughly enjoy these talks more than typical youtube vlogs, the wisdom that God has granted the two of you cannot be undone! I am also a pretty humble person although very excellent lol! and its awesome to know that its OK to reassure myself or admit my achievements without feeling arrogant as these are actual blessings that we need to acknowledge. I love you guys for your content
SELF AWARENESS IS KEY. Thank you Mpoomy and Brendan. You guys are so beautiful in and out and that makes all the things you share to us to be beautiful ❤️👌
Had to think about this for a moment. I craved for mother's love. Single mother, doing parenting alone, she did everything she could to make me happy. The woman literally hustled for me, however I feel I missed so much of her affection, the teasers I got there and made it worse. It's crazy how I can clearly remember the few moments I made her proud and those are still the fondest memories I have of her. With time, and me being an adult(less stress on her), I get to have moments of some extra love lol, however, I feel like it's not the same type of feeling that rushed up in me as a little girl. Still ,I'm grateful for her daily 💓
For me it's also my mom. She developed fibroids a few years after I was born. Back then medicine wasn't advanced enough, she went to a Specialist who botched her and eventually she had to undergo a hysterectomy. She was in and out of hospital for the most part of my childhood. Extended family /inlaws would make comments about her having only 1 child. I think it made her over compensate by taking relatives kids to 'live with me' because a child is not supposed to be alone. They even called me 'yedwana ' a child born alone. I think she felt she was not enough because she couldn't have more kids and in a way l started feeling like l wasn't enough for her. I became resentful and we didn't have the best relationship. But as I grow and l became a mom myself our relationship improved and I became more empathetic towards her. She opened up to me about her childhood too, how her father abondoned her even before she was born and how she struggled and couldn't afford to finish school because my grandmother who was a domestic worker couldn't afford it . I understand now that she had abandonment issues. She felt she had to 'perform' by producing kids for her to be loved and accepted. My father loved her unconditionally back then and he still loves her so much she just had to open to being loved and accepted unconditionally
As dads, we must be involved in our children's lives from the moment of "we are pregnant" to present. If and when we miss any moment in between it becomes harder to get back on track.
Loved the talk, love how one u guys are and family oriented not only with ur kids but with each others families. Am also trying very hard to be more welcoming of my husband's family and the other day I saw that Brendan's family was around and felt at home I love that. Thank u for sharing a glimpse of ur lives it just gives a great perspective
Haven't watched yet but that title made me leave my comment,,😭😭😭I can't stress how important it is to ASK YOURSELF QUESTIONS, MORE ESPECIALLY THE MOST DIFFICULT ONES
Thoroughly enjoyed this!! Mpoomy I thought would say 'cleaning' on the 5 things she is really good at and Mr. Praise on complements I thought he would say looks, back in the day during Idols that's all the girls talked about!
"Be expectant for crazy things but be willing to accept whatever God gives you" - Brendon "Higher expectation with contentment"-Mrs. Mom Beautifully put, Thank you guys😍😍
I really lovE this channel. Always so positive and mind-opening ! Also i aspire to be in a relationship so healthy . Its refreshing to watch! Thank you
Loved it!! You guys have helped me so much in my journey of self discovery as well as my spiritual one. Your topics are super important and I pray more people watch your channel/listen to your podcasts so they can receive and implement this wisdom you give❤️, May God bless you and your family.
You guys are such as inspiration, I thank GOD for the day I found your channel. I'm looking forward to the day you guys will visit our beautiful country Namibia.💖💖💖
Husbands will neglect their health for fulfilling their obligations. I agree with Mr Dad that the mowing of the lawn is important and had to be done. This is how us as men think, i-flu sizoyibona tweede
I actually had to reach for my note book to write the 5 things I'm good at, self awareness is everything. Felt really great opening up to myself. You guys are doing an amazing job 🙏❤
Thank you so much for making time for such contents.. This is deeper than you guys think, we change, survive and grow because of what you guys are doing.. It's beautiful guys, may the good lord continue to bless your family.. Love♥️♥️Nthabiseng Moukangwe
I watched this way too late! Life has been 'bambing me with amawadhini' lol. Well guys, thank you for all these conversations, one can reflect and relate in so much! I have a request though, though this might be a challenge for you guys because I believe you both don't have a kids outside the marriage! Guys can we unpack the real truths about step parenting! Especially if you don't have kids of your own! Modimo... Kore I feel like we're that generation nje, of step parents!!
Top 5 things I do well:
Teach/explain well
Time management skill
Respect eveyone
Loving
Positive energy all the time
Mr Dad and Mrs Mom giving us serious couple goals. I love the way you guys love each other deliberately and consciously(hope that makes sense😁). Very much purpose-driven and y'all balance each other perfectly. May God bless your marriage endlessly!
When I became more self-aware I began to recognise my imperfections, biases, judgements etc. And started being more understanding of others and seeing the humanity in them. I began to understand that love is not just an emotion but it is also a choice that all humanity is capable of making.
I felt the difficulty to speak about what you are good at... I'm very humble to a point where I hide my abilities because I feel like I'm boasting. I am academically gifted but I downplay it, I'm really good at trying to find something good out of bad situations, I'm good at organising, I'm good at making people feel comfortable and free around new people, amongst other things. I am blessed with a welcoming smile and I am very persuasive when needs be...but I just never want people to know that. I prefer not being in the spot light. At school, I used to get nervous just before my name was called out. And outside of school, I knew people who were confidant to an extent that their boldness was overpowering. I would have ideas and they'd shut it down but later use it or they would take lead in executing it. And for the longest of times, that really increased my fear of the spot light. I'm now realising that, all that does make people look down at me but I am trying to work on my self confidence... Slowly but surely
Yes! You will gradually get there.❤
You have just described me it’s scary, all the best ,we will get there 💕
Im you,you are me😭❤But we will get there❤
I listed 5 things I do really well real quick. Self-awareness is very important, it's being aware of who God made you. Great video👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Beautifully said!
Yes Brendon is very empathetic 🙌🙌🙌and positive minded...Mpoomy is good in bringing in a positive atmosphere, a very good teacher indeed everytime I listen and watch her videos, I always learn something
Wow. “I’m good at not giving up”🔥🔥
"My dad makes us coffee..." those are precious memories.
Brenden, am inspired by your music. Mukutsuri is such a soul rich song! I started watching this channel after my better half told me about it and ever since then, I have been hooked! The amount of wisdom and impacting knowledge moving here is absolutely invaluable. May God continue to grow this channel, may multitudes be blessed by this
Self Awareness Questions to ask yourself
1. When you were a child, whose Love did you crave the most? Your Mom or your Dad?
2. Who do you feel like you needed to be for this person (Mother or Father) to love you back then?
3. What are five things that you do really well?
4. What type of things do people usually compliment you?
5. Which one of your already achieved goals are you the proudest of?
Such a simple effortless way of being aware of yourself
One thing about me, I'm not good at reading but listening. That's how I learn and acquire new knowledge even my schooling strived through listening to the teacher and a lecture 🥴.
So this channel has become my book of life because of the various topics that influences almost every aspect of my own life. You won't understand how I talk back to you when listening as if I'm physically engaging with you because that's how your charisma influences your interaction with us.
Thank you and may God's Grace remain in you till eternity 🙏💚💚💚
I always thought God didn’t give me a talent until I started doing things I believe I am good at and people receiving the talents well is affirming. Thank you for this episode .
"Build it from within" you guys are amazing. Thank you so much for bringing this content our way. God bless!
Thank you so much for this. As a 19 year old still starting my journey into adulthood, it's so fulfilling to see young adults that I can look up to. Great episode!
I think I loved this episode the most because it is to do with self, something I struggle with a lot, talking about myself, and to be honest, it is so bad because I couldn’t even answer most of these questions 🥺 However I am extremely grateful for this because I have set a goal to sit down each day for the next 5 days to intentionally jot down answers to these questions about myself. It’s not modest to not be able to talk about yourself. It actually highlights a lack of self-confidence and awareness. So thank you both once more for always dropping gems that are helping us become better people. ❤️
I agree when you open up you realise you’re not the only one going through or has gone through that particular thing and that it the beginning of healing 💗💗💗
Really loved this month’s conversations 💗💗
Brendan you are good at listening, I have noticed n admire how u do it all the time having conversations with your wife.
I'm such a biiiiiig fan all the way from Botswana...I pray God blesses your union even more and that I also get to experience such a equally yolked and refreshing love 🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️
Bw 🙏
Mogaborona! Haha. Go yang ko Bechuanaland Protectorate? Such a peaceful country!
Makes the two of us ,all the way from Botswana ...
A huge fan fron Werda Botswana
Yooooh love love them too... from Botswana too
"Taking care of your Mental Health is self awareness, self discovery."
Thank you so much Mpoomy and Brandon. This podcast serves as a reminder to us all that in order to always be in a good space where you ready to self-improve, take one more step forward to fight harder n simply pick yourself up - SIMPLY MAKE IT A CULTURE TO REMIND YOURSELF OF WHAT YOU GOOD AT N LET THAT BE A FOUNDATION YOU CHOOSE TO START YOUR DAY FROM EACH DAY.
IT IS HOW WE SHALL CARRY MINDSETS OF RESILIENT WINNERS N DIE HARD HOPES THAT GOD IS IN TO GRACE US WITH UPLIFTMENTS ESPECIALLY WHEN THE ODDS ARE AGAINST US.
I admire how you guys love each other.May the Almighty God continue to bless your union.
The studio design adds to the zen-ness of the environment and it's calming, elegant and inspiring
Mpoomy and Brenden, I thank God for you. Such great insights.
“ Build your relationship from within, if you know these things no one will destroy them”
Brendan I love the fact that you don't give up and eventually get there
You are doing the Lord's work!!! Stay blessed 🙏🏽❤. Thank you for your time, I appreciate you 🤍
Thank you Mrs Moms and Brenden for these podcasts. Learning so much about myself and doing a lot of reflection💕💕💕
Watching this has made me really emotional. I've just realized that there is so much self awareness that I need to do. This was very enlightening. You guys are a blessing in my life. I thank God for you❤️
Content that actually really matters.
Much love from Namibia 🇳🇦💜
🇳🇦
I thoroughly enjoy these talks more than typical youtube vlogs, the wisdom that God has granted the two of you cannot be undone! I am also a pretty humble person although very excellent lol! and its awesome to know that its OK to reassure myself or admit my achievements without feeling arrogant as these are actual blessings that we need to acknowledge. I love you guys for your content
You are an excellent teacher Mpoomy . Thank you 😊 🙏. I quote 😊 your conversation everywhere 😊
SELF AWARENESS IS KEY.
Thank you Mpoomy and Brendan.
You guys are so beautiful in and out and that makes all the things you share to us to be beautiful ❤️👌
This was definitely light hearted and enjoyable.
Had to think about this for a moment. I craved for mother's love. Single mother, doing parenting alone, she did everything she could to make me happy. The woman literally hustled for me, however I feel I missed so much of her affection, the teasers I got there and made it worse. It's crazy how I can clearly remember the few moments I made her proud and those are still the fondest memories I have of her. With time, and me being an adult(less stress on her), I get to have moments of some extra love lol, however, I feel like it's not the same type of feeling that rushed up in me as a little girl. Still ,I'm grateful for her daily 💓
For me it's also my mom. She developed fibroids a few years after I was born. Back then medicine wasn't advanced enough, she went to a Specialist who botched her and eventually she had to undergo a hysterectomy. She was in and out of hospital for the most part of my childhood. Extended family /inlaws would make comments about her having only 1 child. I think it made her over compensate by taking relatives kids to 'live with me' because a child is not supposed to be alone. They even called me 'yedwana ' a child born alone. I think she felt she was not enough because she couldn't have more kids and in a way l started feeling like l wasn't enough for her. I became resentful and we didn't have the best relationship. But as I grow and l became a mom myself our relationship improved and I became more empathetic towards her. She opened up to me about her childhood too, how her father abondoned her even before she was born and how she struggled and couldn't afford to finish school because my grandmother who was a domestic worker couldn't afford it . I understand now that she had abandonment issues. She felt she had to 'perform' by producing kids for her to be loved and accepted. My father loved her unconditionally back then and he still loves her so much she just had to open to being loved and accepted unconditionally
Thank you so much for this edition , it was vulnerable and I am going to my own lists later on this evening. Always insightful to hear from you
Mr Dad, you are good at expressing your love.
You teach us very well in this platform Mrs Moms and thank you for that, may God bless you exceedingly🙌❤❤
That is so true, Mpoomy connects very easy with people. You are a lovely lady😍
That was beautiful to watch.
Loved this discussion 👏🏻👏🏻very eye opening
I haven't even started watching yet, but this background/setup is the one. 👌🏽
As dads, we must be involved in our children's lives from the moment of "we are pregnant" to present. If and when we miss any moment in between it becomes harder to get back on track.
Funny how i always like the video before even watching or just few minutes after watching. I just love them. 🤗
Loved the talk, love how one u guys are and family oriented not only with ur kids but with each others families. Am also trying very hard to be more welcoming of my husband's family and the other day I saw that Brendan's family was around and felt at home I love that. Thank u for sharing a glimpse of ur lives it just gives a great perspective
Haven't watched yet but that title made me leave my comment,,😭😭😭I can't stress how important it is to ASK YOURSELF QUESTIONS, MORE ESPECIALLY THE MOST DIFFICULT ONES
Thanks for sharing that you ewallet the car guards cause you don't carry cash. I will henceforth do the same.
Beautiful content guys, our parents do really set the foundation of who we really are
Your dad getting that dress you drew made, wow, black fathers who are present are rare and I have so much respect for them💙
Thoroughly enjoyed this!! Mpoomy I thought would say 'cleaning' on the 5 things she is really good at and Mr. Praise on complements I thought he would say looks, back in the day during Idols that's all the girls talked about!
Brenden enjoy the spoils of getting medications and being reminded to take it. I love the love you have for one another 💖💖🤗🤗
So much wisdom
"Be expectant for crazy things but be willing to accept whatever God gives you" - Brendon
"Higher expectation with contentment"-Mrs. Mom
Beautifully put, Thank you guys😍😍
I really lovE this channel. Always so positive and mind-opening ! Also i aspire to be in a relationship so healthy . Its refreshing to watch! Thank you
Loved it!! You guys have helped me so much in my journey of self discovery as well as my spiritual one. Your topics are super important and I pray more people watch your channel/listen to your podcasts so they can receive and implement this wisdom you give❤️, May God bless you and your family.
That’s true Mpoomy, I remember how shocked the Nestle crew was when we were talking to a point they asked if we know each other. What a fun day 🤣🤣🤣❤️
You guys are such as inspiration, I thank GOD for the day I found your channel. I'm looking forward to the day you guys will visit our beautiful country Namibia.💖💖💖
Mpoomy your messages are always timely in my life and ur smile is so contagious God bless u guys and Lee doing the lords work
There’s a lot to learn from this family🥰🌺.
Wowwww, I loved this episode. You guys are amazing. Keep inspiring us to believe bigger. This episode was like music to the ears. Love from 🇺🇬uganda
Thank you , you guys are doing a great job I love listening to you
Husbands will neglect their health for fulfilling their obligations. I agree with Mr Dad that the mowing of the lawn is important and had to be done. This is how us as men think, i-flu sizoyibona tweede
This is so beautiful and important to touch on. Loved it❤️❤️
Guys your channel is everything🙌🙌🙌🙌mouthfull
You definitely makes us feel like we're you're best friends
Thanks you guys for your consistency!
Well done on the consistency!!! Enjoyed all the videos. Thank you ❤️❤️
Mpoomy also sings really well. I would spot that first. Great episode though!
I really really needed this. Thank you so much for this. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
God bless you and your family
I'm here for Brenden. Mr. Genius 🤣🤣
I’m learning a-lot about myself from the channel ❤️. Thank God I found you guys 💐😁.
Build it from within!!
Loved this month's topics Thank u guys. It's so strange I couldn't think of 5 good things... I need to be confident 🤗💞 sending u love ❤ 💖
Kere I took my journal instantly when I saw the title... I'm ready to take notes 😅
This was really good. Build your confidence from within
Shuuu I am learning a looot. I really thank God for this channel🙌 thank you so much Mrs Moms and Brenden❤️beautiful episode
Great conversation, thank you
Why am I struggling to think of 5 things am good at?...😥
🤣🤣🤣me too😢😢
You guys are a blessing in out lives😭❤I love you so so so much😭❤
I actually had to reach for my note book to write the 5 things I'm good at, self awareness is everything. Felt really great opening up to myself. You guys are doing an amazing job 🙏❤
Thank you so much guys. This is such powerful content.
I really enjoyed this, I actually share most of the things both of you are good at❤I really enjoy your channel
loved this .💙💙💙
enjoyed this october mental wellness talks really they helped me alot Thank you guys
Thank you for this video Mpoomy❤️❤️❤️
Twice in one week...I love it 👌😍😍😍
Thank you so much for making time for such contents.. This is deeper than you guys think, we change, survive and grow because of what you guys are doing.. It's beautiful guys, may the good lord continue to bless your family..
Love♥️♥️Nthabiseng Moukangwe
The first question got me thinking😅, I couldn't even choose between my mom's or my Dad's.
Finally catching up, really loved this 🥺.
Loved this! ❤
I watched this way too late! Life has been 'bambing me with amawadhini' lol. Well guys, thank you for all these conversations, one can reflect and relate in so much! I have a request though, though this might be a challenge for you guys because I believe you both don't have a kids outside the marriage! Guys can we unpack the real truths about step parenting! Especially if you don't have kids of your own! Modimo... Kore I feel like we're that generation nje, of step parents!!
Love this💕🙏
Thank you so much for this video. I'm learning on every video you upload.❤
I'm so in love with the consistency🤗💗
Listen guys. God bless you. Thank you. 💛✨
What a lovely conversation.
Amazing. Thank you and I love you guys
We needed this😭❤
Beautiful episode - I loved the series. Great job I learnt a lot.
Wow Nina uBawo makanifihle siyanithandazela angavumi ngani zinkulu izinto uThixo azibeke Kuni I bond yenu inyanisekile ❤️